Can we get an okcupid thread?
>any luck recently?
>any luck ever?
Okcupid general. Post your profile and get others to comment/help you with it.
>>24304586
it would be nice if r9k allowed social threads but no. NO
>>24304586
Do you have to make an account to look up other users?
I've been intending to put together a profile for myself for a while now.
I don't have any real interest in online dating, but I watched a friend of mine use it for a while and I was impressed at the number of questions they had and the amount of stat-tracking that was available, so I kind of wanted to put together a test profile for myself as an exercise in introspection. Who knows, maybe there's a small chance someone interesting might message me. Even if I have no intention of initiating contact with anyone else I'd probably be willing to respond if they seemed interesting.
My biggest hang-up so far is that I don't have any decent pictures of myself and I don't really know how to take one
i want to finish one but i have literally no recent pictures of myself and i don't want to be that loser who posts selfies. plus, is it even worth it? i mean you can expect that some of the guys on there will at least not be bottom of the barrel, but how bad must a girl be to resort to online dating sites?
It's pretty much a shopping site for Chad to increase the size of his harem.
Using the other free one, oasisactive, I got lucky after buying a grill lots of sushi. No luck with okcupid though.
I remained positive and rebooted my okc profile four times, and all i got were girls way out of my range. I'm not going to do that again
>>24304595
There's an option to hide profiles from someone who isn't logged in to their own account.
Make a female profile for once and realize how futile your beta efforts are. You are (an arguably weak) one in a faceless sea of thirsty men.
Instakilled my profile after that. Isn't worth.
One time a girl messaged me first. It seemed fishy so I didn't take it seriously. It turned out to be a sting. Glad I didn't go. fuck okcupid
I tried 3 separate times.
1st time:
>fat ghetto black girls
>random tall hipster qt
>psycho whore
I scared away the hipster qt because I'm an insecure manlet
2nd time:
>lots of chubby redheads message me
Abstract kind of feel
3rd attempt:
>less redheads
>milf in her late 30s messaged me (legs for fucking days)
Nothing came of any of it. Also, I was mostly ignored the entire time I spent on there. All the girls I took the initiative to message first didn't bother responding.
>>24304586
I dated a girl off OKC for 6 months, was pretty nice
That was 2 years ago, been using it on and off since but only had one date which didn't go anywhere
I have had two other gfs and I met both of them irl, but neither of them lasted as long as OKC girl.
>>24304586
Actually met a girl off of here that had a kidnapping fetish. I would greentext, but I'm tired. Long story short, I "kidnapped" her and had a threesome.
I just messaged a really hot girl if she'd like getting smoked and eaten out by me. She said she's down.
>feelsgoodman
>>24305036
Like dis senpai?
>>24304961
>oasisactive
>oasis
>same design
wtf
Haven't really used it in 4 years. At first I invested myself a lot in it had a dozen conversations and two dates, trying to find girls I could connect with but it left me emotionally scarred in the end after a bad adventure.
I like to log on randomly at 3am, set my search settings to Match% -> anywhere in the world and visit the profile of some chicks I'm theoretically 95% matched. Sometimes get visits and sometimes get "liked" but only received one message, ever.
>try to filter to find tall qts
>they're all fucking trannies
Doesn't work if you're ugly and over 30.