oi rowboats. i have a chance to get an arranged marriage cos i am an aznfag. i've been thinking about this, but fuck me, this is a hard decision.
i haven't gotten a look at the grill but she's from thailand (born and raised there btw) and so i've been told she's pretty. she'll be here in cali next week. she's the same age as me, 22. her family is pretty wealthy too, probably one of the reasons why modder wants me to marry her. mom tells me she can speak english, which i doubt we can have a regular conversation, i sort of have lost the ability to speak in my native tongue. my family comes from laos, and i was obviously born in burgerland. she also has been asking for my fb although my fb is shit. no photos of me heh and like 9 friends who all happen to be my cousins.
here are the pros and cons of this deal
pros: possibly a high percentage she's a virgin like meself
cook, clean, typical housewife shite
sexy thai / lao accent (i think will get hard when she speaks) she can speak both thai and lao btw
cons:no more pr0nz
less free time for me
bad conversation. although i am introverted
most likely will have to move to california. her aunt lives there
feel free to chime in if you have had an arranged marriage guise.
tl;dr arranged marriage. what do?
>>24124010
Go for it.
If you don't you'll always wonder.
sounds like you don't have much of a choice anyways.
>>24124010
I say go for it. It sounds nice to be able to marry a rich Thai ladyboy that easily.
>>24124075
well actually i do have the choice but my mom really wants me to marry her
>>24124106
ok.
well how smart/wise/experienced is your mom?
Sometimes it's good to follow an elders lead, if they're not complete retarded assholes. No shame in it.
>>24124139
i'd say average wisdom or whatever you wanna call it. but like i said i think ma wants it for the monies cos she had told me they will have a house for us in thailand if i do it
>>24124295
So you get a nice house to live in for free, plus marry into a rich family and all you have to do is get pounded regularly by a cute kathoey? Sounds like a win/win situation.
this is the best possible deal you can get anon kun. Just enjoy the rider while it lasts. You will probably get keked for possibly murdered in 5 years when she finds an abusive white man who can slap her around in bed while shouting racist profanities.
maybe you guys are right. b-but she will probably want to have kids but i don't have what it takes be a fodder. besides i'm a horrible teacher.
>>24124010
Go for it. Most Asian men barely have a chance anyone of meeting anyone unless their parents hook them up
Recent studies show most Asian male marriages are from Asian women who are not native to the USA/Canada. Their parents hook them up with some 6/10 girl that at least will be a good housewife and they live with it.
They are losing all their local women to white boys and rapper black men so they have no choice anyhow.
Again OP, go for it. This will be your only chance.
Or you can be a kissless virgin forever.
>>24124295
Money isn't always a bad motivation.
your call.
I 100% would if she was decent looking, without hesitation. The dating market is hard for white males, nevermind for a confuscian brother.
>>24124542
>Be me
>Be Chinese born in early 80s
>Parents tell you not to make friends and study hard
>Don't go out on weekends, don't do sports, no friends
>High School, same shit
>College, same shit
>Not even 2 weeks after graduating from college as a pharmacist (just as my parents wanted, the nice medical money career) they get down my back about not having a girlfriend and never going out
It's a horrible cycle that exists in our culture, but again, they always say they can find me someone back "home" easily. (Home being China mainland)
>>24124010
hfw she realize you are a robot
>>24124542
It's the catch 20 of being an AM
Sure we have it super low on the tier list of males, considered the nerds and the beta of beta.
We might lose our stupid white washed women here but in the end mom and dad will always bail us out, give us a place to stay and find us some decent pussy if WIZARD MODE ever creeps up on us.
Sure she won't be a model, but pussy is pussy.
>>24124652
yes this what i'm afraid of. i'm a total betafag
sadfrog.bmp
>>24124010
Take my advice
Don't let her go out. The moment she meets 6'0 white man, you are doomed.
Similar story happened to an indian friend of mine. His mom got him a arranged desi wife, she moved here (Cali), after a year she started making friends and "going out", she was cheating on him with some big chad thundercock she met at a gym her friends were all going too.
Not azn but my marriage was arranged. If you don't think you have any chance, just do it bro.
>>24124616
They rode you that hard for pharmacist?
Asian kids don't get to explore their options during adulthood transition, that is probably why most don't have a concrete sense of identity. You should have put yourself out their earlier so you can find a girl that is into you for you and not your ability to provide. Poor beta keks.
>>24124010
Do it OP, cuz from the way you are talking, you have never been with a woman and probably never will. Unless it was a hooker.
>>24124698
This Op. When you find out shes keking you, just ask her if she is happy. If she is then tell her you are happy too, granted that she will occasionally still put out for you.
>>24124721
I made almost 50 bucks and hour, I see why they pushed me into it
But yeah now they give me shit for being a beta fuck, when it was them who forced that path for me
(Don't tell me I had a choice, you Asian parent won't think twice to beat their 5 year old son if he gets Bs in class)
But they are already hinting the arranged marriage thing. Seems like the destiny for many of my kind.
>>24124806
She left him and took their only child too. She got her full citizenship after being married for 36 months (VISA transfer)
God knows what she is doing now, no doubt getting her curry stirred by Tyrone and Chad.
My friend never really recovered from it
Fuck you, Chane Wassanasong. Connie is mine.
>>24124807
Your only chance now is going back to grad school or medical school and put yourself out there to find a waifu. Workforce girls are all fubar.
>>24124852
that is terrible. although i don't think i will be mad if she leaves me supposing i do get married
>>24124852
That's but its all too common. All betas will get shitted on when the girl gets a taste of American life.
>>24124888
I am too comfortable now with my life
I know this is going to sound like a stereotype, but I like making good money and playing Steam all day and buying any games I want without fear (Still live with parents even with this paycheck)
I sometimes feel, I will just get some Chinese girl from China, they will hook me up, I will fuck her and still be able to live my indoor life while she makes me food, cleans the house and so on
In a way, it's mom....... but I get to fuck her.
I just hope what happened to >>24124698 happens to me
I guess I won't let her venture outside of the Chinese community.
>>24124967
I would blame the white guys
But it's the black guys that are making it worse. They hone in on the yellow pussy and let them think they can have a future with them
At least the white boys marry them, the black dudes fuck them hardcore and leave and make them never the same for you ever again.
>m-muh porn
You'll have a fucking wife. Stick your dick in her and never look back. It is LITERALLY why they are arranging the marriage.
>>24124010
Do it anon.
What you think you are going to find some perfect girl here for you?
Even if she is ugly, you have a hole to fuck that will be doing your dishes.
A fucking 5 foot Asian guy would be lucky to get that much.
>>24125134
funny how you say that cos my airhead sister got knocked up by some tyrone and my mom was super fucking pissed cos she doesn't like naggers. so now my mom tells me you better not date a black chick. that bastard is a filthy sleazebag but he's supporting my sis and the baby at the very least
OP here btw
>>24125107
that is no way to live. I mean are you happy? You think the arranged girl is stupid, and the thought that you couldn't secure a family in your own right, but instead had to tie the knot with some arrange chick from another country wouldn't cross her mind. She will learn what she can from you and leave you. Might as well take a risk and go all in. You only have like what, a few years to do this.
>>24125263
>he's supporting my sis and the baby
For now. Till his next trick or when he can find a way out of it.
>>24125263
Tyones cant help themselves to them southasian dark meat
>>24125359
and chads will think your girl will have just saved him a trip to Bangkok. Its a lose lose situation.
>>24125317
Brother, you just don't understand what it's like being raised by Asian parents
It's like they make sure you break you as much as possible at a young age.
When a white kid talks about how their parents use to say they are fat, ugly or stupid it's a terrible story. For an Asian kid, it's normal.
They will tell you, YOU TALK TO MUCH, or YOU DON'T TALK ENOUGH
They will tell you YOU ARE TOO FAT! YOU TOO SKINNY!
They will tell you YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS GO OUT or YOU GO OUT TOO MUCH HAVE SEX WITH SLUTTY GIRL!!
You can't win and they do that shit from birth, breaking you, bringing you down
It's why all Asian kids when it's all said and done really hate their parents and why my fellow Asian girls go running into white guys arms. They look at their dad or brother, both meek and weak in the house hold while tiger mammia calls the shoots and pushes everyone around.
Then they meet tall, beautiful white guy. He might not even BE tall and good looking. But compared to me, some 5'7 white guy with a bad haircut and a slight gut is Thor the Thunder God compared to me in their eyes.
I play online, I rub one out every night, am I happy? I enjoy all of this, might as well get some free pussy in the process.
At the end of the day, I think us Asian kids have it balanced, we have a shitty childhood, a shitty teenage life and a shitty early adult life, but then we get that great job, safe career and money, parents get us laid with some housewife drone and then those monsters that I call mom and dad die and I ride out the rest of my life money and sex worry free.
I just hope she does not meet a white guy.
>>24125497
and she does meet chad, leaves you for him with your only daughter and then your only daughter grows up and fucks Tyrone.
Enjoy your League of Legend and Overwatch, Chinaman, this is why you fail.
>>24125497
You sound so defeated. Maybe therapy will help.
Or you can just forget everything and ask yourself "what would insanity wolf do?"
"Asian girls doesn't date me because im Asian"
"Time to date white girl and take her to places where whites will see us"
>>24124807
Breh making 100k a year and still single will raise some serious suspicions. Whether it be sexual orientation or mental health.
>>24125615
>"Asian girls doesn't date me because im Asian"
He says that because it's true.
Yal need to stop being weak shits and getting BTFO by Darnells and Chads. Put in some effort. Hit the gym, go skydiving or rock climbing, help out at the shelter (chicks love that).
fuck it guise i think will do it
i just hope we can be happy together and have kinky sex everyday
>>24125938
You mean getting your nipple twisted while getting dildo-ed from the back.
>>24126013
sure i wouldn't mind that
