What's the proper way to administer a spanking?
>being violent because someone upset you
OP confirmed for a muslim
>>78625406
Punishments are less effective motivators than rewards. It's just inefficient. I don't have anything against those who spank their children, however.
>>78625406
Yes
>mother doing it
No. Discipline should be handled by the father.
By not doing it at all.
>>78625406
>spanking
You don't need to spank your child unless you are a shitty parent. Teach your children respect: respect for themselves and other people, and they won't need disciplinary action.
"Discipline" is what parents use when they're too shit to spend time with their children to mold them into respectable members of society.
>>78625669
Confirmed for a child.
Everybody here used to hit their kids.
>not practicing peaceful parenting
>not negotiating with your children
Molyjew would like a word with you niggers
>Conditioning your child to flinch in fear of physical pain when they misbehave
Lazy parenting. Sit your kid down and have a stern discussion with them.
>>78625406
Yes, it's redpilled. It should only be done in extreme cases, though, like if the kid does something dangerous to themselves or others, or if they disrespect you in a serious way.
Grounding/Taking things away suffices for everything else.
>>78625406
Is this a spanking for ants?
>>78625406
This is now a Molymeme thread.
>>78625406
Nigger-tier "parenting"
You don't need to hit your child. Leave them in a room, take away all their toys and leave them with only a book to read. Feed them only bread and water, and don't let them go anywhere outside of their room except to school until they learn their lesson. Additionally, take them out and make them do yard work at your leisure. Maybe give them 1 hour a day of free time if they exhibit good behavior, and also to cover your assistance if someone tries to call you on imprisonment laws (even though it's your own child, and this is arguably nothing more than a severe extended timeout).
Full blown prisoner status.
Bonus points: if you have other kids, let the kid that's being punished watch the other kids play video games or play outside.
Punishing them like this is way more fun than hitting them.
>>78625967
This x 10
only lazy and shitty parents have to rely on corpal punishment - coincidentally why its so common in niggers and muslims
>>78625406
Donald Trump never used corporal punishment.
Reminder: the more mud you are, the more likely you are to use corporal punishment.
Reminder: the lower IQ you are, the more likely you are to use corporal punishment.
Corporal punishment is a tool for people who are not capable of, and do not have kids who are capable of, reasoning.
>>78625736
Fear is a much stronger motivator than expectation of pleasure...
...as Trump will prove
>>78626645
You get arrested and lose custody of your children for this now, you fool.
>>78626764
You don't lose custody for grounding your children.
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>>78625406
Spanking breaks the NAP.
>>78626764
Why would you get arrested for properly feeding your child and telling them they have to read books now instead of watching TV? Literally nothing in that post is illegal.
>>78625406
>initiate force
Do not.
>>78625807
This
My mother handled all the discipline including spanking, and I always ended up laughing about it and it just made her more frustrated and angry. She couldn't assert any proper authority over me and she knew that I knew that.
The one time my dad hit me, I shut the fuck up and obeyed him.
>>78626032
And everybody in Muslims countries STILL hit their kids
Enjoy the MUSLIM mindstate YOU SHIT
>>78626984
Final thought... Women are too emotional to handle discipline properly, they get carried away and take the kid's shitty behaviour personally.
Discipline has to be calm, unemotional and measured. Something only men can really do well.
>>78625967
This. Spanking creates slaves.
>>78625406
When confronted with bad behavior give one warning. If the bad behavior continues, bare palm, 3-5 swats per cheek, hard enough to sting but not hard enough to actually cause any real harm. Immediately after ask them to make sure they understand why they got spanked
Note that it should only be used in the most extreme cases of bad behavior - minor shit you can just threaten them with grounding or taking away their favorite toys until they learn to behave.
Also what >>78625807 said. If the father is in the picture, he should absolutely be the only one to dole out punishment. If the father isn't in the picture, you're a shitty single parent.
If I teach my child right from wrong and he does something bad. I'll try to explain to him why it was bad and why he shouldn't do it. If he does it again, after knowing, I'm coming for that ass.
>>78625967
This.Every other answer is objectively wrong
>>78625406
Slide topic, I'll bite though. I'm guessing you never read Plato's Republic you fuck. The answer is no.
>>78627238
The aussie knows what he's talking about
Good tactics for disciplining a dog too. Just go to the park and watch all of the single women with unruly dogs.
>>78625736
You're so full of shit.
>>78627288
That's not why you have children?
>>78627734
If you're a a disgusting mudskin, maybe.
>>78625406
Last resort, not to be done in anger
The only children worth spanking are ones that can't talk and carry on extended and thought out conversation yet. Like a two year old trying to go into the laundry room and open detergent. You give them a light tap and the pain acts as a deterrent. Like a shock collar for a dog.
When you are dealing with something like a 12 year old getting shitty grades in school or stealing you don't spank them. You talk to them, you tell them why they fucked up, then you ground them and take away anything they hold dear to them.
You might not need to use corporal punishment to raise your child, BUT it is you job as a parent to teach your children that there are very real physical consequences in life like pain and suffering.
Sparing them this lesson will cause a rude awakening when the inevitable reality of their own physiology becomes apparent.
Any individual not understanding what the stakes are in life has a negative effect on the rest of us.
>>78628467
That's why you don't spank them. Take them out to a empty field and make them break up rocks or run laps until they puke.
>>78628467
Which is why the occasional physical "bullying" in school is good. It teaches kids the "talk shit get hit" rule.
Do people who were spanked as kids grow up wanting to be spanked as adults, or is that just a meme?
>>78626121
nice argument.
>>78629167
All women want to be spanked
basically all you need is the threat of a spanking. whenever my kids fucked up i put them over my knee. they'd scream and cry and carry on and then I'd just send them to stand in a corner facing the wall. did it to all three of my kids and they never shot up a school so i guess everything went better than expected.
but really there are worse things than smacking your kid on the bum
I don't believe in it. My parents never hit me.
I've also never been in a fight.
I'm also working on my pharmacy doctorate. Not trying to be narcissistic, but I'm pleased with my results. I will also raise my kids without hitting them.
Then again, everyone raises their kids differently. It's NOT the government's job to raise kids; that's a parents job. There should be no laws restricting the rights of how people raise their little ones.
I just personally think it's a retarded thing to do. In fact I think it's a sin to hit anyone. Period.
>>78626520
That writing sounds skizophrenic
>>78625406
With a loaded .357 Magnum.
Child disrespects me, shoot him and start over
>>78625406
Don't hit your kids. Yell at them. Express disgust in their incorrect decisions. Make them fear your disappointment, not your physical strength (which will fade until they can suffocate you in the nursing home).
>>78626032
When my mother tried to spank me at the ripe old age of 2, she said I turned around and hit her back.
Ever since she tried to distract me before I went and fucked something up, and when I did fuck something up she'd hunker down, look straight in my eyes, and explain what it was I fucked up, often accompanied by taking away toys or privileges.
Honestly, I think spanking is a method used by shit parents to vent their frustrations because they're too retarded to keep track of their kids and teach them not to fuck things up.
>Millennials the worst generation
>Millennials the least-spanked generation growing up
What a coincidence.
>>78625406
>What's the proper way to deliver a spanking?
To the face
>>78628594
>tfw my parents literally did all 3
my parents started spanking me less and less as I got older and replaced it with crueler, but lesson-teaching punishments. if I didn't do homework, they made me do extra schoolwork or chores. if I pushed it further by not doing the extra work, my dad would make me do the same exercises and drills he did for the army. my parents tended to be harsh when I fucked up, but gave me a shit ton of freedom when I actually took responsibility for my actions. good parents know how to fit the punishment in such a way that it truly teaches the kid their lesson. I'm still a bit anti-authority as an adult, but if my parents didn't raise me the way they did, then I probably would have grown up to be another self-absorbed cunt with little respect for others.
>>78625406
>Disagreeing with physical discipline
This is literally libcuck thinking.
It necessary between the shitskins and liblubs know it
>>78625406
>hitting a child for making a mistake
>hitting anyone because they simply rustled your jimmies
>not having the patience and wherewithall to talk to the offender about what happened
>not being good enough of a parent to teach the child to not make that mistake in the future
This is nigger tier behavior. I hope to God almighty that you do not administer corporal punishment in your home.
>>78628538
What the fuck is up with this video? I made it two seconds and just wanted to take a blunt object to everyone in that room that can walk.
>>78634629
>not teaching your kids that mistakes can cause you physical harm
would you rather they get slapped on the ass as a child or jailed/murdered as an adult?
The physical punishment itself isn't as important as making the child realize they have done something wrong.
If they are too young to be sent out to find a switch, they are too young to be hit.
>>78635207
>would you rather they get slapped on the ass as a child or jailed/murdered as an adult?
Are you trolling or are you this retarded?
>>78635351
You must not be a parent, or if you are you have beta children.
How do you expain to a 6 month old that putting things in a power outlet will hurt them? Explain to them that running into the street will kill them? Teach them not to drink bleach?
A simple swat is quite effective.
The most stupid thing I have ever heard was a parent "scolding" her two year old for asking another kid more than once if they wanted to play. "You can't just project yourself onto other people. No means no even if the other person doesnt say no. You need to learn not to impose your will on girls". Fucking kid just wanted someone to swing beside, asked twice, and the girl ignored him the whole time, then his mom gets mad at him for being a rapist.
>>78634216
>not spanking your children is for liberals
ok there m8
>>78625406
1. Get child's full and undivided attention
2. Explain to them what rule was broken
3. Enter timeout for minutes = to age in years
4. Call child from timeout
5. If adult is upset, send child into another room until calm
6. Have child explain why they were put in timeout
7. Explain levels of punishment and expectations
8. Child apologizes for misbehavior
9. Apply punishment
Spanking should be done with a loving heart with the goal of making a better individual. It is the highest tier of reprimand and should be reserved for grave transgressions. Yelling is a terrible thing and leads to long term mental anguish. Yelling reveals lack of mental stability, which will drive your children to not trust and respect you.
How many of you remember a physical spanking? 1-2 maybe
How many remember being grounded and other non-physical but psychological scaring punishment? Yelling is for being heard, not wounding the spirits of children... you monsters.
>>78625406
Short, sharp, and only when absolutely necessary, if your kid hits someone else or hits you, if they've stolen something, shit like that, those are scenarios in adulthood when they very well could get hit for doing what they did.
It should also go without saying that you can't teach your kids just by hitting them when they fuck up, you must also praise them when they do something good, like telling the truth when it's important, or doing a good deed, etc. Explain to them why what they did is good or bad and what consequences those things might have in real life.
A child should be well rounded, if you only teach them with punishment you're teaching them to be fearful and selfish (I'm doing these things not for the good of myself and others, but simply to avoid a punishment) as apposed to teaching them to not only look out for themselves but also their friends, family, and community (this thing is a good thing to do, it will require effort but in the end everyone will benefit for it).
If you don't do at least this much, I'd say you aren't raising your child as well as you should be, if you haven't got enough time then you shouldn't have had a kid in the first place. If you aren't willing to put in the effort, you shouldn't be having kids period.
>>78625406
If you have kids and you don't spank them, you are a cuck. If you grew up not being spanked, your parents didn't do it right.
>>78625406
My step dad spanked me, but he also fucked me so I'm probably biased. I think most parents tend to either not spank at all, or they do it for even non offenses. If your kid is older and still does dumb shit, it could be justified.
>>78641480
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>>78625406
>proper way to administer a spanking?
If your hand stings after you've smacked your child's bottom, you've done it right.
>>78625406
>Using a sexual form of punishment on children.
FUCK THAT
>>78625669
>not teaching your kids that might makes right from an early age
Enjoy raising future liberals.
I got spanked as a child and punched in the gut when I was 16+. I knew my place because I knew I was acting up. Set me straight as shit. I respect my father. God damn old man strength.
>>78643084
Might doesn't make right though. If a superpower of people thinks the sky is neon green and kill anyone who disagrees, that doesn't magically make the sky neon green. They'd be wrong and so are you, please never raise any children, your damaged kids will just make society worse for the rest of us.
I'm not saying all spanking is bad, but teaching kids that strength and violence solves all problems is a great way to produce psychopaths and criminals.
>>78643477
I'm not stating a belief, I'm stating an observable fact. Laws and social norms are all backed by the implicit threat of violence as a consequence for disobedience.
Don't lie to your kids.
No it's something uncivilised countries do
>>78625406
without swearing or vocal anger.
don't want to over-stimulate or confuse the little tard. the message should be cold and clear.
>>78625406
https://youtu.be/ONNRfflggBg?list=PLMNj_r5bccUwZY7RCZnS2e5-vjaA7wSNw
>>78625967
I agree. Niggers spank the most and they have the worst kids.
>>78643358
The fact that your father had to punch you in the gut at 16+ is just testament to his failures in leading you through childhood into adulthood. Pathetic.
I bet you will make the same failures, and use violence on your children, and think it makes you "strong father". Sad.
My own father used to give me the belt when I was a little kid. When I was a little older, he apologised and never hit me again. And I never gave him a reason to, either.
>>78644494
>4 str 4 stam
he apologized because he had to use the belt and he never had to use it again because it worked.
children are not adults, they are not your equal, and they cannot always be reasoned with.
You're asking a bunch of people who weren't spanked and are now posting on anime boards.
>>78644311
This all assumes that increased aggression and violence is an undesirable outcome. Violence is an essential part of life, and familiarity with violence is a good thing.
>>78644419
That's because the kids are niggers, not because they were spanked.
>>78644494
It was my birthday and I thought I could do anything I wanted. So I started messing with him. Into the night I got a little too froggy and he set me straight with a quick punch. Enough to knock the wind out of me and sit my ass on the couch. Made me realize, even though it's "my day" life will still fuck you up.
Maybe to you weak Danes the though of violence will set someone down the path of darkness, but here in the rural west desert, it's just a part of growing up.
>>78644964
Well I think the lower IQ is really the negative part. You can be aggressive if you want, but you are always going to want people to be more intelligent.
>>78645226
thought*
>>78645279
He didn't prove causality there. I think it's easier to believe that dumb kids do dumb shit and get spanked more, than to believe that a hit to the butt damages the brain.
>>78625406
Spanking is niggerism
The best way to handle discipline is by taking away privileges.
eg. you can't watch tv for x amount of time
>>78625406
After you've calmed down.
With a paddle.
Certain number of spanks depending on misbehavior.
PS don't listen to stupid cucks here who think you should treat children like they're your equal and talk things out.
>>78625967
>tfw you're this cucked
Are there real parents here who actually think their children don't need to be disciplined?
In reality you're just letting them get away with too much because you're too lazy to actually discipline and just keeping getting more and more lax.
>>78625406
>spanking
Whatever happened to good old slapping on the face
>>78625807
A mother beating is better IMO
For example, my father would only beat me as a last resort and it was humiliating because I really respect him and seeing the disappointment on his eyes would tear me apart
>>78645368
Yeah I could definitely entertain that idea, but I really don't think you should hit kids regardless of which theory is true. It's not better to teach kids how to cooperate in non violent ways. We need to have an intelligent society.
>>78645447
>taking privileges
That only works if you or your wife is stay at home
My parents used to do that all the time during exams but i still managed to do some things and make it work
Like having my own separate computer cable and that shit
>>78645937
I agree that intelligence is a good thing, but I think intelligent and violent beats intelligent and pacifist any day. Empires collapse when people get too soft. Without violent social correction (spanking from parent to child, fighting between peers) it becomes increasingly difficult to enforce behavioral norms, and we head down the road of degeneracy.
>>78645786
So basically you're saying your father punishing you was more effective...
IMO mothers should only be punishing daughters unless the father gives her permission to do otherwise.
>>78628538
Christ, I can't even watch the whole thing
Why the fuck would you allow this
>>78646489
Yes
Most of the time, my mother alone would solve whatever but sometimes when I did something awful that a beating wouldn't be enough , she would say "I'm not gonna touch you. I'll let you father talk to you first"
I think that your wife is responsible for the order in your house when you are not around and your kids should understand that
I understood that quicker than my sister who was more rebel
>>78646489
Wait, you had specific parents for punishment? I just got in trouble with whichever one was closer.
Though if it was anything major, they'd talk it over first before they'd pick a punishment
>>78646244
I, and many others, are choosing to not take that chance. Hear me out here, the data shows that the kids who were spanked have lower IQ's than kids who were not spanked, and if this proves to not be because lower IQ kids get into trouble more, which I did entertain the idea of, but that it actually does lower their intelligence, then we would not want to take that chance. Furthermore, it is not my intention to raise my kids in a violent environment, as it may be with you. I am not a soldier.
My father used to hit me with his belt when i was a kid and i fucking hated him for it, one day when i was 17 he tried it again and i fucking started punching him until he dropped. Im cool with him now but hurting your child will only make them hate you. Also i learned how to fight just to be the strongest in the house.
>>78634927
>>78646853
They thought the baby was possessed by Satan.
No I'm not kidding.
Fucking niggers.
i honestly think it depends on the parents. you can spank them, but also teach them about what they are doing. kids are assholes. my parents spanked me or gave me tobasco sauce when ever i did somthing bad, and i think i turned out alright.
>>78647333
That's fine, didn't say you had to. I was just pointing out why I support spanking. To be clear, I think it should only be used rarely, for serious offenses. None of this nigger-tier spank every day nonsense.
I wouldn't mind that broad spanking me ;)
>>78644311
This shit astounds me.
As someone who was never spanked or hit as a child it's hard for me to wrap my head around so many people being hit by their parents. I guess this is part of why society is so savage. I always knew I had a softer element to me than most people, and I guess this is partially the reason as to why.
>>78647349
Weird
Every time I got a beating I knew I did bad shit on purpose
>>78636340
>Are you a leaf or are you this retarded?
Wait...
>>78647349
This. My dad had a ridiculous temper and would hit us with a fucking spatula and we weren't even 3 years old yet. It's one thing to discipline your child but to spank your kids with kitchen utensils when they can't even comprehend what they did wrong it just plain cruel...I feel more bad about my sister though, she got hit more often than my brother and I did but luckily she turned out okay. Anyways I don't speak much to my dad, but my sister and other brother do.
>>78647859
You're the weird one then.
>>78626736
i spank my child for the exact reason you mention. she is only 3 and is incapable of reasoning. its also profoundly naive to think that your reason will align with your childs reason in any capacity. did you understand and agree with your parents reasoning on all matters? if my daughter doesnt clean up a toy or mess then i throw that shit out. if she opens the door and wanders outside while im taking a piss i beat her ass so she knows not to do it again. there are some things you must teach your child are unacceptable. im kinda surprised pol is so left on the spanking thing. id like to point out the no spanking sit your child down and talk it out mindset is relatively new. it oddly coincidences with all these special snowflake free from consequences dumbshits we have now. physical violence is a real threat in the world and is used as punishment in many many situations. if you dont believe me go slap a police officer and see if you get a " firm talking to"
>>78626432
Honestly this is probably the one thing I disagree with, with Stefan. If you don't spank, how do you punish?
>>78648490
How about you don't punish and try to reason with your child.
>>78648570
I don't have children. But I don't see a way of reasoning with someone who is ignorant. Most children are.
But this is from my perspective. I'm sure if they're raised properly, they won't be defiant, thus no need for punishment.
>>78625406
What are you associating with redpilled?
The truth is that spanking mentally damaged a lot of people over the course of history. It's a symptom for lack of a parent's capabilities to properly educate her child.
There's a lot of psychology involved. The irony is that you do the exact opposite of the desired result if you spank children. You won't see it, because the immediate response looks promising, but the long term effects turns kids into ticking time bombs.
>>78625406
not spanking children = current generation full of cucks.
>>78645641
Clearly you're a useless nigger who can't raise their children without beating them.
>>78625406
No, it's degenerate and will turn your child into a degenerate who enjoys BDSM.
>>78625967
This. Only lazy parents spank their kids. It usually just an easy way to tell a kid that it useless and should be chronically angry or afraid of authority.
>>78645641
i bet these anons don't even have kids
>>78648434
>he uses American police officers as his example of moral virtue and as people to emulate
Top kek.
>>78625406
Spanking is degenerate, the only reason to spank is to correct behavior of children who have nothing else to lose / have no idea how to discipline their children successfully. There is a better way, it's called parenting and leading by example.
ITT a bunch of people who are too socially inept to talk to adults think its logical or even possible to have a reasonable discussion with a child. are you people serious? have you not interacted with a small child recently? you are talking about creatures with no sense of time or cause and effect. my daughter would fuck you all up. you can try to explain to a small child that you are putting them in the corner because they misbehaved but what do you do when they walk out of the corner? physically put them back into it? and when they walk out again? how about when you try to talk to them and they simply walk away because something shiny caught their attention? you can not reason with something that does not reason the same as you do. you guys need to go hang out with your sisters kids or something. you have no clue what you are talking about.
>>78649346
Wow i wasnt using police officers as someone to emulate. i was using assaulting an armed individual who has the authority to slap your shit inside out to show the very real chance that there will be physical repercussions to your actions. where the hell did you get the idea i meant that you should emulate an officer by slapping him? im just wat?
>>78649632
I guess you weren't directly but you're basically saying we may as well all act like violent thugs because after all the police are violent thugs.
>>78626217
Can confirm
t. Married with 3 kids under 10
>>78650120
how am i saying that at all? are you saying if someone strikes you that you shouldnt defend yourself? why did you focus so much on the police part of the statement? would it be better if i used anyone else? say a nice muslim man or something? would you feel better if i used a muslim man in this analogy? im sure you dont expect them to be violent or anything right?
>>78649507
This, I have to disagree with MolyJeux a good spanking always got me to get my shit together
>>78650687
IDK m8, I grew up in a town with 0 Muslims and basically 0 niggers and never had to defend myself from violence once. I'd rather find a similar town to raise my family in than raise my kids like a bunch of violent chimps.
>>78625406
Its not degenerate, physical punishment is necessary in some situations but on to stipulations
>dont use excessive force that would injure your child
>dont punish them unless they understand why they are being punished
Thing is, i was considerably big and strong as a child, probably the biggest kid in my school by grade 6 and i was aggressive aswell. I used to get in a lot of fights, obviously with kids my own age but at the time it didn't seem wrong and needless to say i would always win the fight. As a result, i was labeled a bully regardless of it being self defense most of the time
My father got fed up and would start getting physical with me, he wouldnt fuck my shit up or anything but would push me around just to show how unfair it was to fight people alot smaller and weaker than myself. I knew why he was doing it and it taught me a valuable lesson that i still carry with me throughout my life.
I have no emotional trauma and to this day i avoid fighting but do not hesitate to defend my at the first sign of danger whether it be towards me or someone else. I thank my father for forming me into a solid individual, he taught me how to use my aggression for lifting and boxing, also never to be a bully and defend those he cant defend themselves.
I really sympathize for these libcuck children who misbehave and know there will be no repercussions for their actions. Those are the people who grow up to be weak and entitled pieces of shit and never learn to take or throw a punch. These people have no fortitude and its really sad to see the younger generation grow up soft.
Obviously child abuse is wrong but there is a thick line between abuse and necessary punishment.
>tl:dr
your libcuck parents didnt punish you, now youre weak
>>78651032
ahh so you arent gonna teach your kid how to use the internet? or how to drive whatever new car comes out? the world you grew up in isnt the world they grow up in. forgive me for assuming but im kinda thinking you dont actually have children yet? do you interact with children often? how about you answer my questions on what you do if your talks and timeouts are ignored by your child? or you respond to my underlying message that certain decisions carry the risk of physical harm? have you had a housefire? do you intend to not get a fire extinguisher for your house until you do have one? is it better for your child to think they are special snowflakes and can do whatever they want or to realize that there are punishments for their actions? how do you intend to reason with a 3 year old? how about a 16 year old? when you were 16 did you agree with your parents reasoning for everything? you understood their logic and accepted their greater experience in life allowed them a more rounded understanding? or is it possible you have no clue what you are talking about and are acting on a purely emotional level when you regard a disciplinary spanking as " violent savagery" how do you compare violent chimps to children that understand they have to behave a certain way to get by in society? would you rather your child end up dead on a road somewhere because they figured they would only get a talking to if they tried to do something stupid? do you not realize that "violent savages" like myself live in those quiet little towns and literally dont care about you or your childrens well being at all?
>>78625807
This
When my father would break out the belt he would have a deranged look and Crack the belt by grabbing both ends and snapping his belt the made bone chilling Crack noise just like a whip. My mom would always miss my ass completely or just didn't put enough force in her hits (especially since I usually wore jeans.) She then resorted to just slapping me in the face.
>>78626121
Made me chuckle.
