The male virginity problem
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How do we deal with the male virginity problem? I'm talking about males in their 20s being kissless/virgins.
Truth is, if you aren't impregnating white women, you are contributing nothing to society
and have no fucking right to complain about the way the world is heading.
we make them have sex
Sex robots
There, fixed the world's problems. Indians will start shitting in toilets, America is great again, the whole middle east disappears, and Brexit succeeds.
Virgin reporting in.
Not worth the effort, I'm not going to put women on a pedestal just to have access to her vagina then be worried that she might yell out rape if I anger her or if she ends up pregnant ruin my life through paying for the shitter.
>>77930544
>a then be worried that she might yell out rape if I anger her or if she ends up pregnant ruin my life through paying for the shitter.
Are american women really that fucked up?
You never hear that shit about European women.
I had sex a couple times. I came to the realization that it is vastly overrated, and definitely not worth the effort.
Now I'm a weeb and enjoy solo life to the fullest.
Lost my virginity last weekend at 19
Extremely underwhelming
>>77930790
American women are the worst. They view themselves as the prize now, so they expect everything to be handed to them in a relationship. There's no reason to even try with them other than for one-night stands.
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>>77930790
>Are American women really that fucked up
Un-virgin here, yes fucking yes they are this fucked up, I gave in to the vaginal Jew and I have regretted that decision ever since
>>77930516
Way to give up. Exactly what globalists want you to do.
>>77930830
>Now I'm a weeb
Come on now, you're better than that.
At least help /pol/ virgins how to to seed the land.
>>77931389
Fuck no. I live in the Bay Area of Commiefornia, going after the local women would be like playing Russian Roulette with 6 bullets.
>>77930191
21 year old kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin reporting in.
non virgin, ask me anything
>not wanting to save your virginity for the afterlife
what is this, cuck hour?
>>77931707
> Me too bro, me too.
>>77930191
I lost my virginity at 23 to an 18 year old girl who wasn't a prostitute.
I was pretty sad before then but overall I have no regrets. It just made it that much more awesome when it actually happened.
So yeah, 20 is not the point of no return.
>>77931707
>>77931825
>tfw 28
The ride never ends
I dont even care that much any more. I hate myself, my life and the world.
>>77931850
Agreed, lost it at 21, 25 is the point of no return
>>77930191
Men can't be virgins. Just like there's no such thing as a man-slut.
4 more years until I become a wizard. Feel breddy good. No STDs for me.
>>77931825
>>77931707
>>77931938
Don't feel ashamed brothers, as long as you aknowledge that it's a problem that needs to be solved, you're fine.
How do you plan to solve it?
>>77931958
I am 22 still virgin :(
>wanting to lose your livelihood, have your child taken away, and live in jail because you couldn't pay child support
You act as if white women aren't jewish as fuck. They know how to use the legal system now, it's over.
The problem with society isn't lack of sex.
In fact, society is far too saturated with sex, that's the issue. Many of the problems we face in the West are due to the Cultural Marxist sexual liberation of the 1960s. Declining birthrates, single motherhood increasing, dysgenics, STD rates, women's happiness rates in free fall, young men opting out of marriage, etc. None of this would have happened had we just stayed the course society had been set on since the industrial revolution. Instead we suffered a cultural revolution spurred on by Marxists, academics and feminists, and the result isn't pretty.
We've seen this happen before, in the early days of the USSR. Lenin & Trotsky supported what could be termed "free love." Early Soviet culture cultivated an environment of casual sex, and no commitment. Divorces were made extraordinarily easy, and abortions were given out on demand. As a result, Soviet society began to come apart. It took Stalin's enactment of borderline Puritanical measures to fix this.
>You're just a virgin autist beta fag!
First of all, that's not true. I wish the section of /pol/ that likes to LARP as alphas would stop perpetuating the /r9k/ myth that sex is hard to get, and thus an accomplishment, it's not. Additionally that's not an argument. Finally, it's actually a very common trope in Western culture and literature that when society goes astray, there's a need for someone outside or on the fringes of society to properly identify the problem. Baseless accusations aren't arguments and they're indicative of a warped perspective which is completely detached from reality; even if these accusations had merit, they really only help your opposition.
>inb4 Stormfags who only think in the metric of "muh white children."
>>77930544
>tripfag
fuck off
also all the wrong reasons even if the conclusion is the same
>>77931825
>>77931938
JUST
>>77932119
It can't be fixed. I'm useless.
The change has to come from the individual.
It's a fact that if u are not fit / ugly / have nice clothes / not a nice person to be with, or any combination of those, you will most likely never get laid with a +6/10
t. 22yo / 19 sex partners
even bigger T. SEX IS OVERRATED
>>77932119
As sad as it sounds, a hooker most likely, my lack of self confidence means my social skills are non existent, so my chances of getting anyone, let alone a female to like me, are not very high.
>>77931707
20 here, well on my way to becoming a wizard. Friends and family have already started looking at me as 'that weird guy' for not being interested in getting a girl.
>>77931389
Tell me why should we lay with whores?
Give me one good reason besides
>much whyte race
>>77932319
Yeah i'm beginning to pick up on the not so subtle feelings from my family too and it just makes me feel worse about it.
>>77930191
I just lied and stick with the same one night stand story I made up
I every now and then fabricate a one night stand to keep up appearances.
I'm pretty normie so everyone buys it
>>77932319
>tfw my parents asked me if I was gay
>>77931825
>>77931938
29 now lads. Maybe this will be the year I get off this ride for good.
>>77931061
>>77930830
Your doing it wrong
>>77932319
Stay away from our shiskas Shlomo and we will be fine
Reminded me of this
>>77932466
> I know that feel.
Made for a very awkward conversation with my mother...
>>77930790
Three words:
Third-wave feminism.
>>77932136
Not all white women. I don't know why the fuck your country's women are so fucked, I've read so many similar things beyond /pol/, but things are different in the rest of the western world.
>>77932134
Hang on there buddy. It isn't going to solve itself but you can try to change it.
>>77932280
You can improve your social skills.
>>77932319
>>77932479
>>77930191
I'm 29 years old. I lost my virginity at 15 to a Korean woman who was studying in the UK.
Now married and I have two kids.
I can see why many don't do anything, now. A lot of women are fucking shit nowadays.
But how do you deal with the male virginity problem? I don't know. What I do know is a lot of both genders expect a fucking tonne from the other half, though.
>>77931938
It isn't that you hate yourself because you're a virgin, it's the other way around. If you hate yourself how can you expect someone to like you. People see that self-hating, especially girls.
Be happy and free and girls will dig that. If you nail one or two it's great if not who gives a shit.
>>77930544
For your dubs, this will solve all your impregnating needs
>>77930544
>I'm not going to put women on a pedestal just to have access to her vagina then be worried that she might yell out rape if I anger her or if she ends up pregnant ruin my life through paying for the shitter.
>being this beta that you cant control your woman
21, but not becouse I'm socially akward (mostly), but becouse i have never met someone worthy. Most women I know are boring, cucks, or just downright idiots.
The few ones that are OK were already taken when i met them, and I know it's not worth it on those cases, but I keep them as close friends.
>>77932414
>"Anon, some girl will be very happy with you some day"
>"So Anon, meet anyone interesting lately?"
The ride never ends.
>>77930191
Lost my virginity at 23 with my wife. Had been together 3 years prior.
No plans to have children. Yes. I realize we are whats wrong with society. Give it a few years, and we'll consider it.
I went past the point of no return, and came back.
Though to be quite honest, not sure how virginity is metric for usefulness to society. As a late teen I was teased for not having a gf and being a virgin. I just didn't care. Physics and Chemistry were far more interesting to me. Women are fucking crazy. Science made sense.
>>77932652
Thank you for the vote of confidence finn-bro, maybe i will fix myself someday.
fuck I'm tired of feeling like a failure.
I'm doing nofap for real this time.
Arranged marriage
public school is the main cause of this problem
it separates men into fornicators and incels, rather than encouraging young marriage
>16
>optimal age to have sex
where did this meme come from, it's just a bunch of high schoolers lying to each other whilst their 16 year old female counterparts are mostly banging 20+ year weirdos because they can buy alcohol and cigarettes and have a decent car.
>>77932752
>"Anon, why don't you go out and try to meet someone today?"
>>77932610
I just told them I suck with girls.
>How do we deal with the male virginity problem?
I have the solution
>>77932960
Lost my virginity at 18 btw
>>77930544
>>77931707
>>77931825
>>77931938
>>77931982
>>77932134
>>77932196
>>77932225
>>77932280
Guys sex is not that big of a deal but i recommend that u try it (maybe a hooker why not?).
If you have low self esteem you should perhaps work on in, if you think it is a problem for u.
Doing sports and having somewhat of a healthy (mcdonalds once a week) lifestyle will give u insta advantages, u will feel and look better in a very short period of time.
My bottom line is that there are far more interesting things in life than sex, such as playing a sport you like, going hiking, driving a car, spending time with your friends, playing a PC game, lurking pol, reading about politics, science etc, eating delish top-tier food etc..
>>77932922
See, hipster couples who marry without kids are far worse than male virgins. They actually have everything they need but still don't reproduce
>>77930790
>posts porn
>complains about men being complacent
you're part of the problem.
>>77930191
There would be a lot more if breeding at a young age was still considered acceptable.
The trouble with so many people on earth these days is that they get hard to take care of. That makes parents shelter their children from the ability to indulge their breeding urge.
I'm an awkard weirdo who only had sex once because of Everclear 190 and green coolaid.
Otherwise I am an emotionally crippled momma's boy that inherited the same explosive temper that my parents both had in them.
I troll the internet most of the day, write some music (even a career killer "Life on the internet song" won't release it unless I have Fuck Society Levels of money. It calls for mass killing for pleasure, entrapment of dupes on the net, impersonating people's friends to mess up their lives and other stupid degenerate stuff like that. It rhymes too. I'd have to cut it up into 3 to 5 songs anyway and polish it a bit.)
Even I could have mated with a few women had I been allowed to interact with them in a positive way from a young age. As it is, my only example of how women behave is my domineering mother who falls apart or explodes over the smallest things going wrong.
So I feel like the wizard in the pic.
I'll try writing a money printer song this summer, which could still be a career killer (except I don't have a career to kill,) but would get more sympathy than my Fuck UP Society and Live Life in a fantasy world message.
If I remove the Fuck Up Society message parts, I could probably get the song published.
>>77932119
I don't. No interest in prostitutes. If it never happens then whatever, I don't deserve it.
29 here desu
being a virgin isnt the problem at all. im tall and good looking, i wouldnt have any trouble hooking up
but i have no friends/contacs/future
fucking depressed neet piece of shit
at least i have friends here, r-right? let's exterminate those brown people, h-hehe
I feel like I'd have a better chance at getting a girlfriend in a foreign country, like the netherlands, west germany, italy, ireland...or hell, canada or mexico.
>>77930191
>Truth is, if you aren't impregnating white women, you are contributing nothing to society
Bullshit. I'm contributing nothing to society, but being a virgin has nothing to do with it.
>and have no fucking right to complain about the way the world is heading.
I'm not complaining.
>>77933053
Hookers have AIDS and weird shit, no thanks, I'd rather stay a virgin
>>77933004
Good answer desu, wish i had used that.
>>77930191
not virgin here reporting. really. here's how you have your first sexual experience with a woman:
be born.
>>77931707
same, but 24
man, life is sad.
>be me
>strict family growing up
>every date I went on gets crashed by parents
>get cockblocked time and time again
>eventually give up
>high school is nearing its end
>tfw still getting cockblocked
>got cockblocked out of going to prom becuase parents raged
>had to cancel going altogether
>give up
>2 years later
>depressed
>given up
life is shit
>>77931938
HAHAHAHA kill yourself you fucking loser or stay on pol basically the same thing you pathetic faggot
It's not a problem.
>>77932721
>All women are boring, cucks, or just downright idiots.
Fixed it for you
btw, sex, love and partnership are very different things. You seem to look for the third, but to get that without being a cuck, you need to master the first. Don't even believe in the second, its a meme of one and two.
>>77930191
Short of starting a war and killing off a bunch of young men, there is nothing you can do. There are half a million more young men between the ages of 20-29 than there are women in the same range. This is due to the natural birthrate of 105 boys born for every 100 girls.
>>77933004
Fortunately I no longer live at home. They tried getting me to socialize once. The results were... unspectacular.
>>77930191
>How do we deal with the male virginity problem?
Well for one we stop calling incels "virgins." Virginity is a feminine concept that applies only to women. As far as I remember (too lazy to look it up) virgine is the french word for maiden which means "unmarried woman."
Men are not maidens, thus calling them virgins is a ridiculous degeneration of the English language.
>I'm talking about males in their 20s being kissless/virgins.
Okay so I'm pretty sure the internet has something to do with it.
Before the internet very few people, even Autists were able to sit at home all day. Sure there were comics and trains and little figures to paint and shit but generally the stimulation of these hobbies was low enough that these people eventually ventured outdoors.
I'm confident that 95%+ of these incels, or what you call virgins would NOT be virgins if they spent more time socializing face to face.
It usually goes like this: guys want to party and fuck. Girls want to party and fuck. Everyone goes to a part, everyone fucks.
I was in my 20's in the mid-late 90's before the internet kicked off and became mainstream. Didn't know of one single cunt over the age of 17 that hadn't had sex before. Plus it was tradition to shout ya mates a pro (hooker) on his 17th birthday anyway.
>Truth is, if you aren't impregnating white women
I disagree with you there boyo. The world is VASTY VASTLY VASTY overpopulated as it is.
Pretty much every single social, economic and ecological problem boils down to "there are too many people."
Not enough food? Too many people.
No clean drinking water? Too many people.
Too much green house gas? too man people.
Forests being cut down for housing developments? too many people.
etc
etc
etc
Humans are breeding disgustingly fast like rabbits and it'll literally lead to the destruction of civilization and possibly our precious blue ball if not stopped.
Having more children will destroy us.
>>77930191
Hahahaa loser
>>77933111
>implying you need friends
>spent middle and highschool in all-male schooles
fuck
>>77932665
I don't expect anyone to like me Serbiabro. I've really no idea or motivation to change my personality at this point, it's just pointless. Even if a woman liked me she'd run a mile when she inevitably finds out how inexperienced I am. It's just not normal.
>>77933209
Thanks leaf.
>tfw 24 year old kissless female
>>77932196
People don't seem to grasp the concept of a proper marriage, everyone just fucks and calls it a day. OP says if you aren't impregnating white women you aren't contributing, I'd say you aren't contributing if you don't marry that woman first then impregnate her, otherwise you run the risk of being another nigger parent who doesn't raise their child right or not at all. You either fucking raise them right or you are the problem, if you don't care enough about your own child that you'd risk a potential pregnancy with a whore, you aren't contributing.
Imo if over 24 and a virgin it means something has gone wrong whether its mental or physical health issues, something fucked up.
>>77933093
>>77933177
Hookers aren't necessary, except if you have some extreme level of sexual anxiety.
If you have no standards you could go for fat women, they're easy.
>>77933233
Checking those number out of respect wizard.
>>77933433
u must be ugly af rofl
>>77933250
>All women are boring, cucks, or just downright idiots
Nope, as I said, I met some that are pretty based. Sadly, they were taken by the time I met them.
>You seem to look for the third, but to get that without being a cuck, you need to master the first. Don't even believe in the second, its a meme of one and two.
Hard. If I lack motivation, I'd rather use my time elsewhere. Sex by itself isn't very compelling, I'd rather use my hand.
>>77930191
Red virgin standing by.
23 yo. Been to 2nd base with 2 girls, kissed half a dozen, but failed to seal the deal both of those 2 couple of years ago and lost my balls and will after that. Now I'm fucking clueless how to get in on it (tho I really want to) as everyone else did it already. I'm in college.
How would you solve that, Pekka Suomi Perkele?
>18
>virgin
I thought maybe I could lose it when I start uni in the fall, but this thread is making me lose hope. I haven't even had a female friend since elementary school. I might be fucked.
>>77933433
How is that even possible? even a obese autistic 60 year old female landwhale can get fuck a pretty decent young guy
Posting some more feels in case anyone feels the same way as me.
>>77930191
I'm going to become a wizard.
I lost mine at 16 but it's not uncommon for guys to not lose theirs until their early 20s. There was so much pressure to lose mine and so much build up to it that it ended up being underwhelming. Sex is just sex. It's a bigger deal to find someone you can be emotionally intimate and vulnerable with and then transition that into a sexual relationship.
>>77933053
I am physically healthy and I have hobbies (solitary ones mostly). No idea how to create self esteem. I've never had any confidence, all my life.
>>77932701
>2016
>controlling women
mysoginist fucking white male scum detected, when the matriarchal purge comes, you will be first against the wall with your feet close together so you arent manspreading for the coming red tamponing
>>77933600
Antisocial, I can't stand normalfags.
>>77933497
I agree 100%.
Relationships are a side effect of a healthy life.
>>77933053
I don't want to have sex with a prostitute. I want to be loved, a prostitute is all fake.
>>77930191
Me IRL
>Be 13
>Drinking in park
>literally ten girls and ten boys sharing six beers and a bottle of wine
>everyone drunk
>Linda wants to shag you
>Linda he says you want to shag me
>'I do'
>Have the worst sex ever missionary in a bush
>Didn't get her tits out or anything
>She cried afterwards and denied it for years after
Me 'as I told my first love'*
* I lied and said above never happened
>I'm a virgin babe
>We're both 15
>Go see Incubus together
>Come home at midnight
>Sneak her in my room
>Go to sleep
>My mum calls my phone in the morning asking to speak to me
>'I thought I told you no staying over'
>Well it's done now
>Ok but 'be adult'
>Mfw we agree there and then, at 07am that she can stay over as long as I agree to always 'be careful'.
>Mfw I was getting told off for fucking my gf in my room and hadn't fucked her yet
>Mum goes to work
>Fuck all day
>Have a bath
Mfw I was allowed her staying over every weekend for 4 years from 15-19.
I truly believe this decision on my mother's part made me a fantastically well adjusted young man.
>>77933636
at least your confidence wasnt grinded down over time.
knowing what confidence feels like then not having any is what breaks people down further
>>77933614
Fug
Went out walking in a park recently. Seeing all the couples around was a little baffling. It's just so normal to them.
>>77933600
>>77933551
>falling for bait and being beta keks who want uk to remain
>>77933433
>witch detected
How about you >>77933233
both team up and create a witch cercle
>>77930191
Also, my current gf of 5 years is a Finn and I took her virginity.
>She said Finnguys were douchebags
She is in Kievenlahti now, chilling.
>>77933664
fuck off with that crap cunt
Spend more of your day outside.
>>77933664
Well you are looking in the right place to find the opposite of normalfags, that's for sure.
I'm sure plenty of ukfags here would wtb qt3.14 robot gf
>>77933787
You need 3 for a proper coven.
>>77933509
Fat women are even harder. Most have self steem issues and become either paranoid or radical feminists.
>>77933433
Hey sister no worries I'll give ya a ki- [see's British flag]
nevermind.
>>77933064
>See, hipster couples who marry without kids are far worse than male virgins. They actually have everything they need but still don't reproduce
Except I don't have everything I need.
I have a shitty job that doesn't pay what it should, and barely make ends meet. If I had a kid I'd just say fuck the budget and try to figure out what else I could do to afford it.
>>77933425
You don't need motivation you just need good routine to get started. Being virgin is not a problem to girls if they see you don't give a shit about it.
https://whoism3.wordpress.com/2012/11/17/confessions-of-a-reformed-incel/
Read this m8
>>77933778
>Sure is buddy.
I wouldn't mind being semi-normal even for a few days just to see what it's like to be remotely happy.
>>77933908
Yes indeed, brit women should only go for brit men.
They are a punishment for their colonial sins.
>>77932319
>that uncle who asks if i got a girlfriend yet everytime he comes by
>>77930191
I had a chance at having a girlfriend once, a girl expressing interest in me. But I politely turned her down because she weighed considerably more than I did, so I'm 3 and a half years away from wizard-dom, now.
>>77933895
Why you don't join. Its never bad having a jew on board when doing shady things
>>77933684
indeed my friend, sex does not equal love
but to be loved, u must first love and be happy with yourself
Did anyone here ever play "You show me yours I show you mine" with girls as a kid?
I can appreciate some stories.
>>77930191
50 year old virgin here.
Is there a turning point?
I want to have sex, but I believe in the non-aggression principle, so I can't touch a woman without asking her permission.
>>77934193
I'm not female. So I can't be a witch.
Anyway, signing off for now bros, maybe some day we can be normalfags.
>>77932226
100%. I had gotten a BJs but no sex at 21, felt like a pariah because so many dudes glorify their sex lives.
Got moderately /fit/, some decent clothes (not even nice, like target and gap shit that just fit well), and a 6/10 just sat next to me in class and hit on me. Sex 3 days later. Casual sex is way overrated, it only gets awesome with practice/knowing the grills buttons/emotional connection.
Now I'm 27, got more /fit/, outgoing enough to say funny shit in public, got a red pilled funny white gf 9/10. There's no age that's too late, and it's not hard! Just requires a little self-investment.
>>77934209
Never going to happen. I hate myself.
Why the fuck would i want to raise a kid in this terrible fucking modern society?
Nothing good can come of this.
>>77933064
Besides. It's not like I'd be propagating the glorious white race. My wife is Mexican. So my children would be mixed.
>inb4 race mixing is evil
I agree race mixing is evil. I can't help who I fell in love with. I don't advocate forced race mixing, but when it happens it happens.
>>77934230
>50
How many levels of wizardry are you on?
>>77934376
Gandalf tier
>>77934266
That coven thing sounds pretty sexist tb;qh sempai
>>77934282
Thanks for staring this story brother!
>>77933900
I disagree. Fat women are easy, even though with the way the sexual market is today, they have no problem finding a decent guy who is in shape. Fucked up? That's the way the world is.
>>77930191
Male virgin here.
This "problem" is just a western problem.
I went on vacation to South America and the women are completely different. I'm going to marry a Latina. Fuck western harpie bitches.
>>77930191
Lost my virginity in high school. Pounded bitches left and right all through college and my 20s. I was a Chad until about 28, now I am just too busy with work. Probably fucked 100 girls.
The other side of the coin is this: I was so preoccupied with banging random hotties and bartenders I missed the window to marry a quality girl. Now all the girls around me are single mothers and bar skanks.
Sure I can still get laid any time I want, but you hit about 30 and your sex drive drops significantly. I really only want to have sex maybe one or twice a week.
all these stories are giving me hope tho i still have 12 years until wizardry
>>77934487
So's reality, last time I checked.
>>77934680
>worrying bout being a wizard when you're only 18
lad I last my virginity and I've been with 6 (six) women now by now and I turned 21 a month ago
>>77934230
>50 year old virgin here.
Serious?
>>77934209
>just love yourself
>just go out
>just be happy
>just be confident
>just be optimistic
>just bEyurs3lf
>>77934954
It is all such useless advice.
>>77934680
M8 lost mine at 17 and have fucked 8 girls since. (18.5) now
>>77934983
>>77934954
You can't really tell someone to 'be confident' and expect it to suddenly click.
Confidence comes from experience. Start small.
>>77934954
Quality SP cuckada
26 going on 27 year vcard and proud of it. Women are toxic creatures and I'll have no part of it. And sex outside of a relationship is meaningless. You can just fuck a onahole and get the same thing. I'll lose my virginity when we get robowaifus.
>>77933582
When was the last time you approached a girl?
>>77935055
I'm the same age...and I haven't had a girlfriend ever.
>>77930191
>going to 4chan to complain about male virginity
Problem? I don't follow.
Someone wake me when the robo waifus get here.
>>77935074
what the fuck does it even mean to "be confident"
if something is logically sound and benefits me i will fucking do it, if it's logically unsound and doesn't benefit i will fucking not do it, what else is there to decision making? i can do whatever the fuck i feel like doing if i invest effort into it, it's not complicated
>>77935074
With what?
>>77932466
I had that once, but it was a while ago. Why do parents assume you're a fag if your'e just not having sex with girls. Surely the sign of being a fag is... having sex with boys.
>>77933582
19 here. I feel you
>>77935233
Never because I'm a beta and probably will never have the courage to.
>>77935326
>>77935310
read this m8s
http://markmanson.net/confidence
>>77932652
i want to get married and have sex, but hard to find a girl i can even tolerate or have anything in common with. everyone here is either
A - Whore
B - feminist bitch.
i need a traditional QT
24/virgin here, full disclosure.
I think the "problem" surrounding virginity isn't virginity itself, or that sexual culture is prevalent in society, but that having sex for the first time is considered a rite of passage in society.
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/s.htm#sexualactivity
>The CDC reports that virgins make up 12.3 percent of females and 14.3 percent of males aged 20 to 24.
It feels bad to be in the 14th percentile of any social milestone, not just sex. I think a good analogy is comparing sex to riding a bicycle. Riding a bike isn't that special, and most people don't ride their bikes every day, but something is wrong with an individual if they've never ridden a bike in the past. Sex shouldn't be the milestone that society says it is.
>>77934282
>Now I'm 27
>There's no age that's too late
... he said at a the tender age of 27
>>77930191
I'm rich as hell and refuse to have kids to worsen my life for the betterment of society.
How mad does that make /pol/ ?
>>77930191
24 virgin here, just 6 more years until I get my wizard powers. Its been a hard road but worth it in the end I think. Many a greasy bitch has tried to steal my vital essence, contaminate my precious bodily fluids, but I smack their hands and say, "Step-off, I ain't no ho-ho."
>>77930191
>males in their 20s being kissless/virgins
Male virginity is very rare. Less than 2%. Just let those ugly weirdos whine about "le western women" post frogs on /r9k/ or fap their microdicks to tranny and pedo cartoon porn. They are not hurting anyone. Not all men are evolutionary fit to attract partners
>>77931061
Cause you don't know what you're doing turd burg
>>77935249
I havent either had a girlfriend. Dont bee yourself if you just want to fuck. Just fake it untill you make it. Try to see how others act around girls and then adapt. Will be much easier to pick up girls after you have done it before
>>77935152
19 and virgin here
Lost all confidence and emotion after being being completed fucked over by evil cunts in high school. I no longer feel any need for females and if I do I jack it and then feel nothing.
In Polish, we call male virgins "prawiczek". To be "prawy" means to be righteous.
Who else /righteous/ here in these tough times?
Got to grind with a girl. Didn't get to escalate because party got busted and everyone left...
Am I gonna make it?
>>77935310
"be confident" really means taking risks. Thing is some people shrug off failures easily and aren't bothered by it and others take it hard and are afraid to take further risks. And there are those who have always failed and are just waiting for it to end.
>>77935422
Firstly Alpha/Beta doesn't exist there's only people that's all just people now get off your computer walk outside and don't return until youce introduced yourself to 3 girls even if they laugh in your face just go it's the only way to build up the toughness it takes deal with the general populace on a daily basis just get up and go
To any virgin out there. Save yourself for marriage. If you're not religious, that's fine, go fuck whoever you want whenever you want. But if you think you might have an inkling towards religion, please save your virtue till marriage. I'm a person who recently became a Christian and before I did, I had 2 sexual partners whom I had so much fucking sex with it wasn't even funny. Even before I lost my virginity I didn't think of it as a big deal. Only till after I lost it did I realize it's importance. In Catholicism, marriage is a sacrament that you will come to in life and to come into that with your virtue intact is a feeling I can't experience because I lost my virtue before I was married.
Sex is something so profound and unique, that it should be saved for a person who you are truly connected to. Not to be spent on someone you don't know or care about. I've had so much sex it's almost lost it's meaning to me but since I found religion I truly understand why it's so important for one to abstain from it until marriage. I haven't had sex in almost 2 years now since I broke up with my ex. I feel so clean and so good knowing that I'm waiting till marriage now to have it again. If someone mocks you for waiting, ignore them, people whom mock others about sex aren't people you want in your life because they don't know it's true value.
God bless.
>>77931938
27 here, yep just waiting for the day my family dies so i can take my life without regret.
>>77935331
While I haven't been asked that yet, the line of thought goes like this:
>Why isn't anon talking to girls?
>He isn't shy
(Parents are remarkably oblivious to children's lack of social skills sometimes)
>when I was his age I was interested...
>Maybe he isn't talking to them because he likes men?
>>77935588
>Male virginity is very rare
It is, I agree. Regardless it's still becoming more prevalent against young males.
>>77935702
There aren't any girls in my school...and there aren't any girls within my friends' circles.
Getting laid is easy. I mean fuck you don't get much more autistic than me and even I got laid every now and then from the age of 15+. Those of you in your early 20's and younger especially have no excuse because even being a NEET shouldn't prevent you from getting laid.
I haven't got laid in like a year though because being a NEET at my age does start to become a barrier. So I better start fixing it.
>>77935441
I read it but I am too self-critical and self-loathing to ever be comfortable with my failure.
>>77935310
It really means dont be insecure
>Hanging out with my brother and of his friends
>Slut comes over
>Everyone but me gets laid that night out on the porch while I am in the next room over in the living room playing videogames.
I fucking hate my life. Please end me.
>>77934033
Ok, I read it. I relate to some bits but not most of it. I don't have the feminist mindset he's talking about. Never defended women or anything like that. I've always been wary of women trying to exploit me (friendzoning and favours). I've tried to improve my looks and physique but it doesn't seem to have helped much. I know a lot of my problems are mental, I just don't know how to solve it.
>>77935798
Same.
>>77935493
>Virgin
So the rest of your post is a bunch of ill-informed tripe.
>>77935768
THIS.
One time I was having sex with my girlfriend at the time and the sex made me orgasm really hard
>>77930191
20 next month. Still a virgin, and so is gf. We are Christians so we are waiting to get married but don't worry after words I swear I'll impregnate her as first go. (Pregnant girls is my fetish)
>>77936000
DELETE THIS!!!
>>77935811
It is also becoming more prevalent among females too. People today are less promiscious than they were 20 years ago. Doesn't mean there is a "virginity epidemic" like those creepy redditors from /r9k/ believe.
>>77935910
So you're attractive and/or naturally confident. All the women I've ever tried to hit on have been repulsed by me.
>>77935910
How is it easy?
>>77935910
Can you fucking stop with your not so humble boasting?
I failed terribly ... I needed 3 more months to become a wizzard.... but before that I visited my girlfriend in France, beautiful wonderfully shaped girl. .... living masterpeace...
Anyway we had a wild sex 3x times per day .. for almost two weeks...
She freaked out worring abount being pregnat,,, cause we didnt use any protection..
I was f*cking her hard... like animal ... and sometiems softly romantic,,, both were fine...
I spent so much time kissing her wonderful tits..
STILL SEX IS OVERRATED, I wish I didnt do that : ( I would be still pure..
Sex is a trap...
>>77935763
Failure is a sign you didn't put in enough time or effort. If you spend twelve hours practicing drawing every day you will be mediocre within the year. Likewise, if you spend time and effort on finding a mate it will happen eventually.
Failing consistently whilst actually caring about the failing just means you are a faggot who gives up too soon.
I had lots of sex in high school but came down with mental illness in my early 20s and haven't even spoken to a girl since. I might as well have never had sex before.
Have had sex (and more importantly) relationships with enough women to know I am lucky to be single. I still look for a good woman, but i'm too far gone at this point. Not sure a good woman is even worth the time at this point.
>>77931707
>Having to append that much to it
Good Lord, get your shit together. That's clearly all on you.
>he doesn't have a conservative redpilled qt gf of five years
>he's not waiting until marriage
>he doesn't have plans to pop out six white children and raise them redpilled
Wow. I didn't realize /pol/ was so goddamn degenerate.
>>77936000
>Fucking bio organic matter that self lubricates until you excrete single celled organisms into it
I came
Also sweet trips
What's the appeal of sex if you don't really emotionally connect with people?
>>77936276
What is your mental illness, visiting 4chan?
>>77935453
They exist, they just won't be in traditional whore places like bars.
My buddy found a qt on a christian dating site. He wasn't even christian, just very traditional so they're working out great. Didn't even have to leave his house-anyone can sound smooth over text and get a few dates at least.
>>77936312
Just wanted to say that I have basically no contact with girls and that proves it.
>>77935798
Don't kys if there's anyone around who still cares. I almost shot myself once, the panic it caused my family means I'd rather live than make them suffer it for real.
If there's no one left to care... that's a different case entirely.
>>77930191
SHILLS SLIDING IDAHO INCIDENT!
SPREAD THE NEWS: 5 YEAR OLD GIRL RAPED BY "SYRIAN REFUGES"
COMMUNITY CLAIMS COVERUP AMIDS DROPPED CHARGES!
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>>77934696 →
>>77934150 →
MAKE SURE EVERY NORMIE KNOWS OF THIS!
why is this post is filled with utter beta?
is everybody in pol like this?
There is no virginity problem. Males with good genes get to fuck women. It may only be 20% of the male population but that is not a problem. Only people with good genes should procreate, if that means 80% of males end up without sex, so be it.
>>77936187
He's not wrong, though. You just need to take a chance.
>>77936404
Well do something about it. You're in a pretty densely populated area, so the odds really aren't too bad.
What's your deal? Fat/ugly/dimwitted?
>>77935708
Right on, brother. Live strong.
>>77936227
>throwing away your magical abilities all willy nilly
you deserve this fate
>>77936404
Me too. I think the last time I spoke to a woman my age was around 5 months ago.
>>77935981
>CDC
>Ill-informed
Fuck off Leaf, enjoy waiting for a hospital bed while STDs melt your dick off.
>>77936227
>Wizzard
>zz
Rincewind?
>>77935708
>mfw i'm basically this but 23
>>77936360
Kek
>>77936513
Ugly, short, socially retarded.
>>77936532
2 years ago for me, in my first year at university.
>>77931707
19year old reporting in, feels bad
>>77936360
Schizophrenia.
>>77932466
They haven't asked me that. Yet.
They still mention me having a family one day lol. Pretty sure they're secretly disappointed by me. They sometimes mention if there's any girls I like or talk to. Wtf am I supposed to say?
>>77936727
crikey
>>77936492
Nope this is merely the wizard's apprentice thread.
>>77935708
We don't need them brother, stay strong for you are not alone!
>>77936568
>>77936524
: ( Life is unfair... I want my purity back... I allways wanted to be a good knight one day : (
>>77936436
we already had like 5 threads nigger.
Enroll them in SA-style paramilitaries. Let them become joosy together.
>>77936270
I can't speak for everyone. For someone like Elliot Rodgers (if you've read his shit) he never even approached a female so yes, hes definitely a failure; he didn't put in any effort and just complained.
But its not necessarily true for everyone. I tried very hard to foster a relationships with women and I've always ended up being used and duped by them.
And failing at finding a mate, or even getting a set back is nothing like failing in art or some intellectual/artistic hobby. Failing at finding a mate hits at your psychology like no other. Every time you fail, you are less of a man.
>>77936747
>They sometimes mention if there's any girls I like or talk to
Damn, that hit hard. I used to have that exact same conversation too back in my days. With those exact words.
>>77936679
Start lifting, meet short girls, bluff. And if you're really desperate, remember that pride doesn't keep you warm.
>>77935708
This
Most great men were virgins.
23 gay virgin here. Didn't really have friends growing up and became a neet when school was over.
The outside world scares me.
>>77930191
>How do we deal with the male virginity problem?
Legalize prostitution
>>77936789
kek'd, top bant
>>77936975
Yeah some creepy weirdo from /r9k/ is the same as sir Isaac Newton
>>77936747
I would just tell them I don't know any.
>>77936967
It is really not that simple.
>>77930191
Abused and legitimately enslaved until 17. Didn't hit puberty til 18. Fatass until I was 23. Not kissless. Have been blown. Never fucked, for the last couple years at least I can say it is on purpose.
I've almost got a goddamn a Chad body now. Now, I do the picking and I'm going to pick one worth waiting as long as I have, someone worth being the mother or my kids.
>>77933197
The damage this kind of paranting does to a person is unheard of
Because probably they do not only dominate your opinion on your friends. They also have been controlling your thought, what you should like, enjoy and what you should dislike as well as every aspect of your character.
I am speaking from personal experiance having an extremely dominant Atheist father, ironically the end result isn't much different from extremely dominant christian paranting, a complete shut-down.
You will be suffering the consequences for the rest of your life. Not only the experiences you missed out, but in particular damage to social skills and poor development as an (independent) person.
>>77937038
Have you tried Grindr?
I heard gays have it really easy hooking up there.
>>77936975
>Most
Tesla and maybe Newton don't count as most.
>>77937148
>It is really not that simple.
It really is. You're overestimating women. I'm not advocating those PUA faggots, but confidence is key.
>>77937256
How can you have confidence when you have no idea what you are doing?
>>77935500
The point is, my man, that people in their mid twenties and after think it's totally over. I'm not saying I'm a geezer, but I was behind schedule in having sex and I still was able to get multiple girls and upgrade to an awesome girl. This is coming from a scifi loving bird watching autist who constantly reveals his power level. If I could do it, who couldn't?
If you improve yourself you will greatly improve your chances of finding a good woman, and if you're just trying to have sex it will be easy. Get healthier, find a hobby and get passionate about it.
>>77937121
exactly
advancing the science of philosophy one shitpost at a time!
>>77936747
Damn that hit hard
>don't have anything to talk to them about
>>77937256
>Did I just say scientists?
>>77930191
>THERES SO MANY MALE VIRGINS ITS NOT JUST ME I SWEAR!!1
>>77936923
I did try in the past. At this point though I just accept my fate. Life has beaten all hope out of me.
>>77937148
>I would just tell them I don't know any.
I guess. Can't look any more pathetic, right?
>>77935708
19 here too.
Got fucked over in high school too. Literally almost failed high school and barely scrapped together by marks to make it to uni. Two fucking whores drained me of all my confidence ,emotions and passion for the things I used to love. I even used to speak in public and at debates and now I can't stand being next to a woman.
Fuck them.
>>77937450
Pretty much.
>>77930191
I don't really see why I should worry about it. I only want to have sex with someone who will be my wife not just random college fucks. An uncle of mine waited until he was in his 30s to get married and start a family. That's perfectly fine with me; I've always thought I should have a career first before worrying about women.
>>77937338
Bluff. Surely you've watched movies? Hell, as creepy as it sounds, go somewhere and observe people picking up (ie. go to a club with friends).
The point is that making excuses gets you nowhere.
>>77937410
Well please list others, old boy.
>>77932466
>Be me
>Having been seeing a girl for 1 year
> also have guy friend I've known for 5 years
>Both of us have lived together for a long time, so no homo when we change in the same room rushing to get ready for our double date
>Mom opens to door to our apartment with no warning and sees us both pulling up our pants
>Thinks I was sucking another man's dick
It doesn't take a lot for parents to think you're gay anon. Don't feel bad.
Once a woman has had over 5 sex partners (verified by annual gyno visits) she gets put in a database and is forced to fuck a beta 18 year old virgin at his discretion.
It's a service to your community like jury duty.
>>77930544
Tripfag confirmed virgin. Most women aren't the kind of legal crazy that they'd say you raped them. You're making up excuses for your own inadequacy and the fact you can't get a girl probably because of your poor interpersonal relationship practices.
It's not the girl it's just you
>>77937254
not really interested in hookups, and I feel like I should fix my shitty life before pursuing relationships/sex. Not to mention I'm very antisocial.
>>77936923
expect to need to make compromises and be a beta cuck if you can't muster up the effort to be fit and have money. you don't always spend effort directly on finding a meta, you spend effort on the precautions. if you're short you need to double up on precautions
also of course you'll be used and duped, that's just how the female gender works. the male gender is more direct in the power struggle.
>>77937148
Fuck girls dude.
But at least don't fucking throw your life away. A lot of things to do and even if you don't do them all, I hope you are still trying to do the things that make you happy. I think that's something we should all work towards.
>>77937621
>go to a club with friends
>with friends
kissless handholdless virgin here, I could probably lose it if I tried but I just don't give a fuck tbqh and have zero drive in life
>>77934073
>Not black pantsu
>>77937621
Most people who are rumoured to have been in sexual relations, probably haven't. This is because the subhuman normies like to project their own beliefs and standards on others much superior to them.
Immanuel Kant was one of them, Adam Smith another.
Not being with someone makes you rely on yourself both emotionally and intellectually, and gives you much more time to practice and perfect.
>>77935588
>Methods—Data for 2006–2008 were collected through in-person interviews with a national sample of 13,495 males and females in the household population of the United States. The measures presented in this report were collected using audio computer-assisted self interviewing (ACASI), in which the respondent enters his or her own answers into the computer without telling them to an interviewer.
I'll just leave this here
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2bmrtf/focus_on_you_first_and_second_and_third_andblah/
>inb4 reddit
>>77930191
checked out @ 15.
>>77937825
Ouch.
Do you have any one you can talk to? Brother? Guy you see every other day?
>>77937825
Good Lord, just try something, dude. If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got.
>>77937942
>Kant
>Great man
Smith is alright, but you're really not making much of a case.
>>77936727
you're fucked regardless mate, never heard of a case with schizophrenia having any good intimate relationships. take your meds for your own sake
>>77938015
>unironically linking reddit
I don't give a fuck if you post inb4, it's still retarded. Fuck you.
>>77937408
Yeah I just keep to myself most of the time. I've lost what little social skills I had.
>>77937832
You are more of an embarrassment to whites than aids skrillex and Carl the cuck
>>77938056
i don't see why someone with schizophrenia wouldn't immediately an hero
maybe i'm just way more of a coward than these people, but visual and auditory hallucinations would leave me very spooked, more so than the skeleton inside my room right now
>>77931825
fix yourself with an escort. or a hooker. you'll love it and they'll have to take what you've got to offer - period.
>>77938056
>you're fucked regardless mate, never heard of a case with schizophrenia having any good intimate relationships
A friend of mine has schizophrenia and is in a happy relationship with a woman.
Not all women are cheating lyring whores youknow, but if you read all the SJW/Feminist bullshit everyday, reinforcing your confirmation bias it can be hard to think otherwise.
>>77930191
Does anyone think that there is some kind of knowledge bestowed upon to normies who keep their virginity and never give it away. Like monks?
How much power does pussy have over our minds, how much does it cloud our clarity as men?
>>77931707
There is still hope, I lost my virginity at 21. I have a decent sexlife now and the first time wasn't weird at all. Just have a few drinks, relax, and have a good time.
>>77938036
I live with my family, they are the only people I really ever see.
>>77938037
I don't even know what to do, it is all useless.
>>77938036
I'm in the same boat as him. Haven't had any friends in about 2 or 3 years and they weren't really friends either, more acquaintances. I talk more on /pol/ than I do IRL. I can go days without talking to anyone.
>>77938037
>Kant's a better man to you and most normies will ever achieve to be.
>>77938216
they make amazing wife's as they have gifts no one can understand.
>>77938174
I reached the point where I force myself to talk to strangers to conserve what little skill I have left. After a long time of not talking sentence structure becomes a challenge.
>>77938368
Same, 4chan is the vast majority of my """socialising""" if you can call it that.
>>77938216
I've taken LSD, shit is fun so long as you're in the right mental state and don't have too many "demons" (things you're uncomfortable with about yourself at the time). Schizophrenia would be downright evil.
>Spend erry day all day on 4chan from like 2005 onwards.
>Somehow I become a normie through this newfound interaction with weirdos online.
>Fuck a lot of pussy.
>Fuck CRAZY pussy.
>Fall in love with one girl so hard.
>She completely fucks me over.
>Can never love again because I don't want to.
>It's been like 4 years and I really don't give a shit.
>Literally spend all day shitposting waifu and anime trash on Twitter instead.
I've come full circle so I know from both sides what this is like and while it's lonely not having a gf, having a gf is also the worst thing in the world in many ways.
>>77938368
no pub in your viscinity?
>>77938359
Literally anything. Go to the gym, make polite conversation with lifting bros. Chat more at work. Even try tinder.
Socialising is a skill like anything else, and if you don't practice it, you won't be good at it. 4chan is not a place to practice it.
>>77938398
Hah, arguable.
>>77938359
Do you have a sibling with some skill? Try to use their social skills to meet new people.
>>77938283
untreated schizophrenia is a life sentence from my experience with people inflicted with it. most people develop it around 19 or 20, I think it would mostly depend on how you adjusted and your state of mind beforehand. I would not wish it on my worst enemy
>>77938453
no scizophrenia is no show stopper for a mild case. works better than weed for sure.
sorry 2d is just better
>>77936923
>every time you fail you are less of a man
This is exactly why you fail. You're placing your entire self worth on some skank touching your peepee. Approach, talk, escalate. If you get shut down, laugh. It's funny to get shut down. I've had girls who blew me off approach me later that night because I laughed and was a good sport instead of a desperate butthurt virgin
>>77938453
my only familiarity with hallucinations are those who crop up during sleep paralysis, a state between being awake and being asleep, not particularly fun for someone as easily startled as me
i can see how it can be fun but you can't control it so it's likely not fun
>>77937450
I know your feels anon. I'm 27 years old and still a virgin. I've kissed a few girls at least. At this point, I've accepted the fact that I'm such a fucking loser, who repels girls, that I've given up. Fuck bitches, I'll get rich and have 10 cats. I have a good job, my own car, and my own place. I just have no idea how to talk with girls.
People say shit like beeurself, but it always feels like i am so behind normal people in terms of socialization. Its the worst feeling being left behind like that.
>>77938550
There are, but I've been once I my life to a pub and I hated it. Nobody to go with any more either. I don't drink alcohol anyway (alcoholic grandparent).
>>77930191
A shrinking population is a temporary problem. Mass invasion is a permanent problem.
Where the world is heading is neither here nor there you D&C kike. Where your nation is heading is what's important. It's heading to oblivion because of the jEwU and good goys, not virgins.
>>77938588
I'm about to graduate so I don't have a job yet. I couldn't do the other two, I can't strike up conversation like that.
>>77938620
I don't fit in with my brothers, one of them ran off and is a drug user. Have not seen him in years. The other two are young and I have nothing in common with the one closer to my age.
Lost virginity at 16, now 21 and still with the same girl, getting married next year. Being in a loving monogamous relationship and eventually contributing to the white race feels pretty good.
>>77938550
Pubs dont make awkward people socialize any easier although alcohol might help
>>77938682
schizophrenia works better than weed...? Switz you're gonna have to rephrase
>>77938750
sleep paralysis is by definition terrifying. not close to the same way you feel tripping. I love acid I used to trip once a week a few summers ago but I stopped after taking molly and acid once and one of my friends freaked me out.
>>77938682
I would imagine a mild case of anything wouldn't be a show stopper. I'm just speaking in general, schizophrenia sucks absolute dick
>>77933497
I just turned 24 and I have never had sex. I have severe OCD and severe depression so I have always been focused on myself. I also hate myself for having mental illness. Sex takes a backseat to my own problems.
>>77935745
My polish brethren.
>>77938904
True. I see people I knew when I was younger getting married... and here I am, never even kissed someone. At this point society just feels alien to me, easier to withdraw.
>>77938998
you need to seek therapy...
also for anyone interested I'm 20, my parents sought therapy when I was around 13 for severe social anxiety and depression. Got put on zoloft and I've never been happier or more relaxed with my state of mind. Professional help is the best thing to get with a mental illness
>>77930191
26 year old virgin. Never tried getting with a woman and I've accepted that I never will be with a woman. I stopped caring a long time ago.
White race is doomed either way and I don't care about my family or genes. Let the niggers, Asians, Mexicans, and Muslims inherit the earth, we lost the demographic war the second we opened up the country to any and all immigration. And besides, most women don't want a family anyway and would rather sleep around.
I don't want to have sex
I just want to hug a cute nice smelling girl
is it wrong
>>77938946
>I'm about to graduate
Even better. Ask a classmate about something in a class.
>Hey bro, i missed x, can i just sneak a look at your notes?
Or similar.
>>77938904
Be yourself around other people like you to start with. Surely you have interests. Find other people who do and go from there.
>>77935745
In Lithuania we call them "nekalti. Means non-guilty fucking stupid
>>77938716
I don't care about sex at all. I feel less of a man because no one wants to be in a relationship with me. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. I am an all around nice person. I'm no reddit cuck or white knight but I just do my own thing and its like I have an aura of repulsiveness that makes women just not want to be with me.
Yeah, sometimes relationships don't work out but I've literally lost so much of my life because of my failed relationships. It affected my academic life, my friendships and my hobbies.
Its fucking frustrating desu.
>>77938861
STEM master race?
>>77939242
most people don't want a family bro who wants the expensive and responsibility of a spouse and raising kids when most of us don't feel like adults at this point anyways?
ITT excuses
>>77939298
>Even better. Ask a classmate about something in a class.
I have barely attended any classes. I had a 0% attendance during my second year. I don't like those settings. Also everything is over now so I could not do that anyway.
>>77938693
go on.
>>77931707
21 year old virgin from /k/ here
Is it bad that nearly killed someone before even kissing a girl?
I don't think I could find a girl in SoCal who'll be into my gun hobby as much as me.
>>77939298
"being yourself" works well if you're naturally handsome, confident, extroverted etc, all the classic "alpha" traits. Not so for us virgins.
>>77939269
>on chce się tulać
co za ciota
co za pedał nie moge no
>>77930191
You're either projecting, or have no grasp of reality outside of /pol/.
If anything's keeping you guys from losing your virginity, it's sitting around reveling in the fact that you're a virgin and letting the spontaneous life you desire pass by you. That and you probably received too much affection from your mother and too little from your father.
>>77931061
U buy a hooker maybe?
Fun reading for all you virgins:
http://www.oocities.org/southbeach/lights/5427/virgin1.html
http://losernet.tripod.com/virgin5.html
Also, there's some expanded version of that graphic where you become a lich at age 50 or so. Don't let any succubus take away your powers!
>>77939493
>>77939493
>>77939493
damn niggas spot on tho
>>77939238
>falling for the medicinal jew
>>77931707
Never even had a female friend holy shit. I was a virgin all throughout highschool but I grinded on girls even dry humped a few.
>>77939493
>reveling in the fact that you're a virgin
It's more venting. We can hardly bring it up IRL. Do you think we chose to end up like this?
>>77938946
Ummm... double ouch.
I'd suggest signing up for a gym nearby, and not only getting /fit/, but talking to the guys there. A shared interest is vital to getting to know people, and nobody expects real talking skill at a gym.
>>77939410
Next term, then.
Most of all, just stop making excuses you whiny faggot. There is no easy solution, and nothing worthwhile comes easy. The point is that if you really did want something, you'd have it, so go out and get it. Discouragement serves no purpose, just keep trying until you get it right.
>>77939452
It works among people of similar social strata. Find people of your caste and start there. Confidence comes from practice.
>>77939489
Once you pass the point of no return there is really no return.
>>77939601
The medicinal jew saved my life from being on the opposite end of the spectrum in this thread. More normalfag than most of you, if I werent on vacation with my family I wouldn't be here
>>77931962
Well of course men can be virgins wtf. Man-slut don't exist though. The better you are at getting laid the cooler you are.
>>77939637
Don't fucking start browsing /fit/ though.
That board is the exact same as /r9k/ with less bodyfat in its users.
>>77939605
I'm friendless too. Most contact has been a handshake I think.
>>77939750
>people actually believe this
>>77939422
Nice rig, but why no forward assist?
>>77939489
zwierze
>>77939750
To who? Getting laid with vapid sluts is looked down upon by rich successful people.
>>77939626
Of course not, but you're not a child anymore. You have far more of a choice now than you believe. Being depressed and then blaming external circumstances instead of igniting your own fire in life is actually a symptom of what I just said.
>>77936409
>>77935798
You're free when there's nobody left. You can do whatever you want, no matter how dangerous or unprofitable it is. Fuck it if you end up dead. There's nobody left to care. When there's nobody left for you is when you can really begin to live.
>>77939934
I don't blame external circumstances, I blame myself for being so pathetic and an abomination. Wish I'd never been born desu
Honestly, I've slept with my fair bunch of women. I learnt it's not just worth the time. I enjoy female company more than I enjoy fucking girls. It's true, once you fuck a couple of girls you learn to see them for things other than fuck toys.
Sometimes I'll fuck a hot girl for validation, but it's never really because I'm horny or it feels good or whatever.
I definitely recommend fucking a bunch of grills to let go of being obsessed with girls so much. But I also recommend disregarding women and acquiring aestethics.
>>77939750
>Man-slut don't exist though.
You keep thinking that. Men that sleep around with a ton of different women are just as bad as women that sleep around with a ton of men.
>fuck a hooker at 25 because why not
>it wasn't that fun
>occasionally buy a hooker once a year or so to see if it was just me or not. it wasn't me
>be 28
>no problem getting girls, just no interest at all in doing so
meh.
>>77939389
I wish. I'm a recruiter. Base salary is ok and is enough to fill all my basic needs and get bills paid but I make my money on commission.
It really is liberating when you just stop caring and accept the fact you will be forever alone. It doesn't help that I had a girl I did fall in love with who fucked me over, so I really don't care to fall in love at this point.
>>77939777
Trips of truth
>>77939298
>Be yourself around other people like you to start with. Surely you have interests. Find other people who do and go from there.
It is hard for me to ease up around other people, been that way all my life. Only got better just like year ago, still far away from normal human. Does not help that I am a foreigner and I speak shitty Norwegian. I just finished high school and I don't know if I will get to opportunity to socialize with people my age. Sure I have hobbies like lifting and gaming. I think I still can become a normie, but being this behind everyone else is soul crushing.
t.blogmaster
>>77939856
Its probably a show piece or it was made out of an early A1 since they didn't have forward assists.
No dust cover fucks with me as much as no forward assist
>>77939238
I've been in therapy for years. I think I'm improving in some ways but it's like trying to dig up a beach with a table spoon. I cannot describe how frustrating it is.
>>77940079
Swedish Chads need not apply
>>77930191
24 year old virgin reporting in.
I've had three "girlfriends". The first one was just practice as a young lad, we didn't really even see eachother that much and I was scared to kiss her because of "girl bacteria" etc.
The second one was cool, got to grab her ass alot and groped her tits too, first kisses felt awesome. She tasted like raspberries. Could've probably fucked her too but I was fucking autistic as fuck until 19yo. so I didn't realize it at the time and couldn't have cared less about sex - we broke up because I got bored of her.
The third one, the most recent one, took me two years of online chatting. We both had a huge crush on eachother, met once, both had strong feelings towards eachother (thus two years went by in an instant) but never really got around to actually dating because she lived half the country away, I was shy and she had... issues, to put it mildly.
She was the biggest waste of time and the biggest mistake of my life.
I've basically had everything except the sex.
This is the hand I was dealt in life, rate it /pol/.
>>77939493
>reveling
More just talking about it. I can never talk about any of these things in real life.
>and too little from your father.
True, but he was in prison for the majority of my childhood.
>>77939605
The only times I ever really spoke to girls was when they wanted answers or help in classes during high school. Literally the only time I ever spoke to them.
>>77939637
I'm already a member of a gym, but again exercise is not an interest. I know nothing about any sports. I couldn't hold a conversation with someone about anything in a gym for more than 2 minutes.
>>77939669
>Next term, then
There is no next time. I graduate next month.
>Most of all, just stop making excuses you whiny faggot.
I'm just talking about it all since I never talk about any of this stuff in real life.
>>77940274
You're basically a normie, come on. It's not just the sex I and other virgins lack, it's the total lack of intimacy and romance with anyone, feeling totally unlovable.
>>77932466
>>77932610
>>77935331
This. When I was 17 my mom asked me if I was gay just because I was riding in car with a male, friend without wearing a seatbelt. Instantly lost all resepect I had for her as a person after that.
>>77940182
Can't be an early a1, it looks to be chambered in 7.62, and the top rail is too high for it to be milled out of a a1. It's a custom piece through and through by the looks of it, so lacking the assist bugs me.
>>77940216
I'm not a Chad, maybe when I'm drunk. Chads have social status and they enjoy being social. I'm just charismatic.
Like I said, start dressing better, drink a bit more, fix your appearance at all costs, you will get laid.
>>77934282
>9/10 funny gf
spends time posting on /pol/
yeaaaa no
>>77940274
Sex life, 6.5/10
Definitely not robot tier. If you have sex, you'll basically become a normie.
Your life is kinda similar to mine.
>>77940509
>Like I said, start dressing better, drink a bit more, fix your appearance at all costs
Already worked on my clothes hair and skin, still useless swedebro. Like I said, it's not possible for me I guess.
>>77932466
Just lie every now and then and say you're meeting a friend of yours who happens to be a girl for something. They'll draw the appropriate conclusions and leave you the fuck alone.
>>77940500
Nice eye, its for show obviously, no forward assist, no dust cover, no rear sight, its beautiful but because of that I wouldn't want to shoot it, I'd probably mount it on my wall
>>77940062
Alright, be a bitch then
>>77940836
I will. Don't worry I won't live to an old age.
>>77933254
Story?
>>77940143
>It is hard for me to ease up around other people,
That's where it gets easier around other people. I'm the same way, but you get used to putting up a facade.
>Does not help that I am a foreigner
Kind of does. You could socialise with other expats.
>just finished high school and I don't know if I will get to opportunity to socialize with people my age.
That's what most opportunities are geared for.
>Sure I have hobbies like lifting and gaming.
Works out fine. Gymbros are a start, as can be gaming bros.
>t.blogmaster
Right? This whole thread belongs on /r9k/. Amazed to feel so normal compared to most of the posts.
>>77940277
>I'm just talking about it all since I never talk about any of this stuff in real life.
I get that, but you're just making excuses. They get you nowhere. I'm just an anonymous prick on the internet, you don't need to make excuses to me.
>>77940780
I get it, I just think that even showpieces should work if the need arises.
>>77940705
The thing is, I honestly don't believe you.
You probably still have shit ton of acne, your hair is unfitting like shit, and your clothes are terrible.
Go to /fit/ and /fa/, even if they don't lift or dress for grills it will certainly help.
>>77940467
what was the significance of the seat belt... that you loved him so you trusted him with your life? is your mum a retard?
22 years old, and still a kissless virgin. It is not because I have a micropenis or some fucked up facial deformity. My mother is of Luxembourgish descent so even though I am 100% western I look very different here, but other than that, there is no excuse.
However, since the beginning of puberty I have had this enormous mental blockade stopping me from enjoying going out. My hearing is pretty fucked up (always been that way). Although I can enjoy movies, listen to music and hold conversations with my close friends, whenever I step into some social situation it feels like I am drowning. Constantly observing and trying to follow conversations around me is so tiring, I always end up going home early. I also suffer from incredible social anxiety, although I have found that quitting porn and getting outside in the sun more frequently definitely helps. In order to get at least some fulfilment in life I have been lifting weights + bulking, focusing on my studies, reading literature on philosophy, economics and all kinds of politically incorrect stuff. But no matter what /fit/ might tell you, having a big chest and broad back is not going to do you any good if you are not capable of being social. Just clubbing with your friends once a week will significantly increase your likelihood of getting laid, not lifting weights or dress better.
>>77941175
>You probably still have shit ton of acne
Nope
>your hair is unfitting like shit
No, it was but it's normie now
>clothes are terrible
I already followed guides on /fa/ and the like
You're falling for the "just world" bullshit. Just accept some of us are totally unappealing
>>77931707
stop reminding me of myself, you faggot
>>77940997
>Kind of does. You could socialise with other expats
I did, but they kinda went their own way, moved out
>That's what most opportunities are geared for
Yea I understand that like in work or collage, but again it feels like I am so behind other people and that shit in school was easier now its gonna just get worse. I'll keep trying even though nothing will probably come out of it.
>>77933497
Nope, I'm healthy and sane but with no friends and no interest in degenerate pop culture on top of living in the middle of nowhere there is just no chance for change.
This is what I was talking about, for those it may concern. From "Man And His Symbols"
Reminder that if you're a virgin, nofap is a good idea but NOT simply to get laid.
Celibacy is an option and there is NOTHING wrong with being celibate for life. In fact many great thinkers were celibate, and the Bible actually says celibacy is preferable to marriage if you have the willpower to handle it.
Don't fall for the tempters who will tell you that premarital sex is preferable to celibacy. If you're not marrying a virgin and having kids, the right thing to do is abstain.
>>77940979
>be me
>14? 13? Who knows.
>"Hey Anon, there's a event for all the kids in the neighborhood. Do you want to go?"
>"No"
>"But it'll be fun"
>"No it won't, I don't know these people"
>"well maybe now you will. I want you to go."
>go
>Stupid kids doing stupid shit
>Say as much
>"oh Anon why are you so negative"
>Stay in the fringes of the gathering
>Don't want to talk to anyone, no one wants to talk to me
>Waste hours
>Shout at parents when I got back
>They never forced me to go to anything again
>I still don't know the names of guys my age who live down the road.
>>77933792
We kind of are :^)
If you aren't you're treated as a 'nice guy' I guess... Or I'm just a betaneckbeardfedoratotingfaggot which is more likely desu
>>77941347
Then your approach is wrong. You must come across as a bit awkward.
How are your communication skills?
>>77932196
THIS THIS THIS
>>77942094
Absolutely atrocious. Why do you think I'm posting ITT? Can barely handle a conversation and no idea to connect to anyone any more.
>>77942094
>>77942178
Like I said earlier I have no friends and I go days without speaking to other people. I know that's pathetic, but I'm beyond caring.
