How many of you are over 25 and not married yet?
Be honest
>>75579120
Why would we lie?
>26
>honest
>any relationship I say I don't want marriage, meaning it's not a countdown...3 years equals proposal type of shit
>every relationship ends because I don't want to claim ownership of woman
Feelsgoodman
>Almost 30
>Never had a girlfriend
>Never had a real job
>>75579120
25 years old, handholdless virgin.
I'll soon be a wizard.
>>75579120
>yet
Not planning to fall for that meme.
>30. Married at 26, Divorced at 27
>had a 3 year relationship straight after which ended because I refused to get married again
>Marriage is a massive con. Don't be fooled.
>>75579337
Seems normal I guess, keep trying.
>>75579414
>>75579505
why?
>>75579120
Marriage is one of the most important decisions you will ever make in your entire life.
When you're 24 she's beautiful and you're in love.
When you're 43, she's divorcing you and taking half of your things, and also putting your potential children into a dysfunctional situation (or maybe vice versa).
I am 24, and I have no interest in marriage right now. I am going to spend a lot of time finding somebody who I believe will not turn out to be a nutcase when we get older.
>marrying at 25
Peak male sexual market value is ~35
Marrying in your 20's is retarded. Your 20's is for securing yourself and your ability to look after and provide for your kids.
Your 30's are for looking for a wife.
>>75579651
When you are 30 you are fat and bald though.
>>75579505
Don't you just want to kill everyone?
>>75579120
I'm 25 getting married in October.
Am I a degenerate?
>>75579120
>tfw i thought it was cool to have many girls and fuck lots of different ones
>tfw every girl i love is less and less special to me
>tfw relationships are hardly exciting anymore
>tfw im 28, jaded and emotionally empty
>tfw i left the love of my life in highschool who wanted to marry me and she now has 3 beautiful white kids with another man
>tfw ill never feel true love again
>tfw i fell for the jewish tricks
>>75579605
R a r e
>>75579605
damn
>20
>never had a relationship
>11 sexual partners
>>75579120
Why would you get married before 25
>>75579811
By that logic, I will be fat and bald when I am 30 whether I get married or not. So if being fat and bald is a problem when single, it will be a problem if I am married as well.
I plan on living on a strict diet and building my career as much as possible in order to have leverage when finding a spouse. There's nothing I can do about my hair except hope it's still there, or just get used to buzzcuts.
>>75579120
I'm 25 and a kissless virgin.
Almost actually went out with someone, but she pretty much has a boyfriend now.
Recovering alcoholic so I can't really go out to a bar and meet people. I also have incredible social anxiety that, as far as I know, is unfixable.
I literally just had a panic attack for like three days straight over this. Thankfully she's with someone else now so I can stop panicking about it.
>>75579120
21, in a relationship but don't intend to fall for the meme
>be 22
>two years left in uni (engineering)
>will have job at 24 (good job + 1.5 years intern experience)
>will spend the next three years saving money, getting swole, enjoying life travelling world, dating occasionally
>marry 25 year old qt from church
>live in white flight neighborhood alongside other young parents in good school district
>have three kids before she's 31
r8 my plan
I'll get married after they finished the waifubots
>>75579617
Ugly, shy, anxious, no confidence, self-loathing, easily drained by socialising. Pretty much useless. Romance and sex just seem completely unachievable to me, I can't imagine ever being attractive to anyone. I'm not fat and I try to dress decently, but it's pointless.
>slav /r9k/ tier autist
Is there a fate worse than this?
Someone help please.
oh god when did it all go so wrong
>>75580045
I started to go bald at 27 because I was under a lot of stress (I was at Sandhurst).
I went straight onto Minoxidil and Propecia and my hair completely grew back. Shit works.
>>75579789
This. You're supposed to set up your life for marriage within these years. Women like to say they want kids in their mid 20's but they're much more interested in finding a suitable partner to have kids with by their 30s.
>>75579789
*31 you mean
Plus I'd prefer to start before the peak
>>75579414
what the fuck man?
>>75579120
31 and never been in a serious relationship
>>75579120
>27
>about to become a virgin again
>no wife
>no kids
>no gf's apart from ffviii ones
cactuar, ifrit etc.
dont really mind to be honest although it would be good to have a kids one day. seems unlikely what with everything thats going on though and that I do find upsetting.
>>75580118
>I literally just had a panic attack for like three days straight over this
what does that mean? i thought a panic attack was like a seizure or something
>>75579120
I am 46 and have been married, does that count?
please get married /pol/
you talk a mean game about your fancy education, but it won't mean shit if your kids are retarded or you don't have any.
This is why the white race is dying.
Don't talk to me or my wife ever again.
>>75580401
It feels like the world is collapsing on your chest, and you can't do anything about it.
It wasn't three days constantly, it came in waves.
>>75579651
Marriage is extremely important for the wellbeing and competitiveness of your children.
However, everyone in the situation is worse off if the woman divorces, and women divorce like crazy nowadays.
The whole point of marriage is to counter-act hypergamy in exactly the same way we have laws in place to counter-act murder or theft. Hypergamy is essentially sexual anarchy. We decided, a very long time ago, that hypergamy was not reconcilable with society - and marriage was invented as a result of that.
Laws regarding alimony, divorce, adultery, child support, etc. are in place to help protect marriage by punishing bad behaviour on the part of both spouses. However, in today's society we have eliminated punishment of women for bad behaviour, but maintain punishment for men. This now creates a situation that heavily favors women and people are now avoiding marriage altogether.
And avoiding marriage altogether is creating a generation who lack a competitive edge, having fewer resources available to them, coming from a broken home where they are emotionally and socially stunted in development, or just plain not having kids altogether at all and giving the society a below-replacement birth rate.
>>75579120
27, not married.
My older bro got married in his early 30s.
I would commit if I had assets, almost got that done.
>>75579120
>31
>not virgin
>been in a relationship with a borderline psycho
>pretty much done with women since then
>no kids
>no real friends
>stable job
better than nothing i guess
>Getting married
Well meme'd my friend.
>>75580270
>but they're much more interested in finding a suitable partner to have kids with by their 30s.
>women with 10+ sexual partners with rapidly fading looks and shriveling ovaries want a breadwinner for life
idk man that's pretty crazy
>>75580158
25 year old church qt won't exist. Worthwhile women are taken early, anyone left is a used up whore. Honestly most women have taken five dicks by 21.
Marry now, or gamble that you'll be able to find a younger woman in a few years.
>>75579120
36 - not married
>5'5''
>250lbs
not sure why.
I am
>tfw I could have been married almost 5 years ago and now the only sibling not getting married
>>75580118
jesus god damn christ man......
>>75579120
29 and been married twice. Won't make that mistake a third time.
>>75579605
To the flag folder you go
>>75579120
32. not married
have gf, cheating anyway
>>75580270
No, no
Women don't have peak sexual market value the same as men. They peak at ~20.
The ideal is to be ~30-35 with a wife who is 18-22.
And you should have at least 3 kids, and at least one of them a boy.
44 next month. Last vagina I touched I was 17 and in highschool. Is there hope /pol/?
>>75580238
Did it kill your boners?
Heard of some guys being unable to hold an erection while using it
Only thing keeping me from trying it
Haven't entered the stage where I need to shave it off but it's noticeably thinner than in early 20s
But I am around my high school weight
High 170s
>>75580544
We'll obviously we're not talking legal marriage. Anyone who marries through the law these days is a fool. But you can still be married without the government saying so.
>28
>Not been single for more than 8 consecutive days since I was 14 years old
>All those years were 4 long term relationships
>Three first ended because I made it clear that marriage was not an option
>Current one still has hope
Marriage is for cucks.
26 in a few days.
Going through divorce.
Have a new partner for 6 months already.
Upgraded from the previous one.
>>75579120
I am not married. However I had the opportunity to be at one point.
I will not reproduce because I have quite a few inheritable genetic disorders and I can't subject my children to them.
>>75580577
You'll regret not having kids in your old age
If only for the selfish reason that you end up lonely with nobody to talk to, who gives even the slightest shit about you, or even to simply take care of you.
Children and grandchildren are extremely important for a satisfying old age.
You've probably heard the male statistics on suicide - what they don't mention is that most of the suicides are older men; 50+ not teenagers or twenty-somethings.
>>75579789
Depends. Many go bald by that time which cuts your market value by 30% at least.
>>75580622
Meh.
Maybe I'm just not meant for it? Feels bad sometimes, but usually I don't care. I really just felt I should try, I saw my older brother get married, and realized I missed out on a lot of shit when I was 16-21.
The world's pretty much against me. I could go to AA to meet people, but if other people aren't taking their sobriety as seriously as me, I'll end up crawling into a bottle again.
>>75580235
just drink some rakia and you'll be alright
>25
>never even been hugged by a girl
>>75580874
What's the guarantee that your children or grandchildren will give a shit about to you?
>>75580577
I just turned 31, sounds like we pretty much have the same life
>>75580601
Make that 22 then. At my college town in Alabama I actually have a harder time finding good girls that also put out. So many will only do it with a boyfriend. Dated my first gf a year before we had sex; we were 20. Next girl I hooked up was also innocent despite not being religious at all.
>>75579811
I know people that has been like that since 17. My uncle for example used to be bald at that age. He still scored.
I'm no bald at nearly 30 and here I am never scoring.
Fuck this slide thread anyway.
![1CYWvnX[2].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/5lK8COo.jpg "1CYWvnX[2].jpg")
>>75579120
33, married once, one child. Divorced for being a workaholic and never around for my wife or newborn because I was obsessed with providing material wealth for them.
Now I contemplate suicide every day.
I'm 26, unmarried, a virgin, and have never had a girlfriend.
>>75580918
>five more years
>>75579120
Honestly at this point I gave up.
Here's the thing, I'd rather slice my dick off than try online dating, straight up. I've had that recommended to me after having had tried it in the past, and I fucking hated it. To the point where if THAT'S the only way I can meet someone, I'd rather die alone.
Either I meet someone in person or I stay permabachelor, and I'm minding the latter less and less with each passing day.
>>75580918
Hah, I got you beat there, I hugged a girl at a funeral once.
26 and not married, but gf for the last three years.
I'll hold out until 30 at least.
>>75580630
>right click on flag
>inspect
>change code to flag of your dreams
>save
?????????????
>profit
>>75579120
t. Correct the Record
>Be 27
>Best friend has been in 5 shitty relationships since I've known him
>Finally marries
>Other friends constantly bitch about their shitty relationships and breakups
>Uncle and Aunt have remarried 2 times before resettling on each other
>Brother was married and his wife took everything, barely gets to visit his daughter
>All of these people constantly harp on me for why I'm not married or dating
/pol/ you are so full of fucking shit, you could literally shit out kids and leave them in dumpsters and continue on the race.
I'm tired of all the bullshit slide threads here, jews didn't chop your dicks off, nobody is stealing your jobs or women.
Just shit out a few bastard children before it's too late. Even if you fuck a nigger.
White race is ogre judging by this board alone.
>>75579120
>2016
>giving half of everything you own away
24 and engaged, she wants to get married someday.
>>75580918
I got a hug once, but I think she did it as a joke.
Im 33 and still live with parents, never had a gf and have been unemployed for 10 years. I recently got a fulltime job after I moved to a different city. Im also good looking, not shy and have lots of friends. There is no logical reason I shouldnt have gotten laid and spawn an army of aryan soldiers. The crazy thing is im just happy.
>>75579120
>25
>Women hide their many faces well
If it happens it happens. All I ever wanted was a simple job, a loving wife and a good family. Now I'd rather spend my time doing things I enjoy whilst making others lives better, mainly friends who have a family starting up.
>>75579120
>implying I intend to get married
>implying I'd take the risk to lose my precious shekels to some cheating degenerate bitch
>>75580918
picture of you with a time stamp (no face needed)
>>75579414
That's NEET
>>75580699
>The ideal is to be ~30-35 with a wife who is 18-22.
Haha wow.
>“After finding that paternal age, maternal age and parental-age gaps all influence autism risk independently, we calculated which aspect was most important,” Dr. Sandin adds. “It turned out to be parental age, though age gaps also contribute significantly.”
>Autism rates also rose with widening gaps between two parents’ ages. These rates were highest when dads were between 35 and 44 years old and their partners were 10 or more years younger. Conversely, rates rose when moms were in their 30s and their partners were 10 or more years younger.
https://www.autismspeaks.org/science/science-news/large-study-parent-age-autism-finds-increased-risk-teen-moms
Have fun with your mentally ill and defect kids mate. I bet you'll have your very own Chris-chan one day.
>>75579120
I'm 22. There's a very good chance I still won't have had a gf by 25.
I consider suicide daily.
>>75581091
then what?
>>75581141
what does it feel like?
>>75581292
nobody ever joked with me like that.
>>75581143
I'm in that exact same situation. Her family is pressuring me, though, I might have to propose soon.
>>75580118
Female attraction is based on dominance markers.
Dominance involves being better than other men.
You -WILL- get women interested in you, no matter how you look or act, if you can beat other men at things. The more socially acceptable, popular, etc. that 'thing' is, the more women will find it attractive.
Again, it's dominance.
* Have lots of friends (wide social network implies better support in hard times and defense)
* Don't ever look weak or show weakness (to women, at least)
* Be really good at something/anything
* Be able to provide for a family
You don't need to be tall. You don't need to be fit. You don't need to be rich. They help, because they are all dominance markers, but they aren't absolutely necessary. The more dominance markers you have, the more attractive you will be to women.
The typical beta-male understanding of women (hell, even the MGTOW's and PUA's) fail to pick up on these things. There is a severe lack of understanding in our society of what women actually find attractive, because boys are lied to about female behaviour from cradle to grave.
>26
>sleep with other peoples gfs
>can't find a nice girl who is single
>>75579120
I'm going to seminary.
>>75581389
what for?
>>75579120
marrying is slavery
>>75581167
True Flag archivers save the post number too so that they can prove they have legitimate captures!
26yo kissless virgin in fact
>>75580967
What's the guarantee the kids/grandkids you don't have will give a shit about you?
25 and never dated a girl longer than a few nights
Society has been ruined
And by society I mean women
faggot by direct choice here
why the fuck would I ever wanna marry a woman
I mean really, think about this statement
>>75581081
36, had 1 GF my whole life for 3 months only when i was a teen, was the alpha in my area during that time, wasn't worth it, non virgin, never married, I almost wanna say that its not even worth it getting laid and having a GF right now since shit is so tained with twerking coal burning duckface girls desu senpai
>>75581472
>what does it feel like?
bag of sand
>>75579120
Married at 25, currently going through a divorce at 30
>>75579120
Not that old yet, and I could be at any time with said partner. Why the rush? Rather get some stability and enjoy life. Seen too many examples of coal burning and stupidity to rush anything like that.
>>75581472
It was uncomfortable because I have zero social skills. I'm not autistic, I just, well...it's hard to describe.
Over four years sober now, and things are looking up for me in some ways, but other things have stayed the same.
>>75580544
Honestly, watching the last few generations unfold has led me to believe that restraining female sexuality is THE primary requirement of civilization.
When women are cut loose, you get people fucking themselves back into African mud huts. Nobody invests in the future.
When you suppress and commodities women too much, you get Muslim society where women are just a resource that rich men hoard, and young males are disenfranchised. Hence the perpetual violence in those societies.
Western civilization hit the sweet spot. Women were offered power and importance in the family unit, which created a good environment for children. Monogamy meant that everyone could get a wife, thus everyone could have kids and therefore have a stake in society's future. By carefully constructing social norms and institutions to uphold womens' responsibility to moral behavior, we flourished.
But now we've torn that all down. Women cannot be judged by ANY standard (slut shaming! Misogyny!), their rampant degeneracy is encouraged, and the full force of law has been directed into transferring wealth to women even when they do not abide by the historic social contract of our civilization. Add in the fact that women can work (disregard the fact that they mostly perfirm fake HR busywork that is subsidized by actually-vakuable male labor) and the situation worsens. The family unit is deteriorating alongside our cultural and racial homogeneity. There's no way to change course before we collapse.
>>75579120
>26
>drunk
>happy
I'm a strong independent man who don't need no woman.
>>75580918
fucking impossible dude, I don't believe this unless you have never showered
>>75579789
>Marrying in your 20's is retarded
True. People should get married when they are 18-20 years old.
My parents married when they were 18, and they provided a great home for me. They are happy and still together.
My grandparents married when they were 19, and they provided a great home for my parents. They are happy and still together.
>marrying old and depriving your children of a relationship with their grandparents and great-grandparents
>>75579120
I've been married for 25 years.
31, essentially married, career prospects beyond useless. Would have killed self if hadn't found wife by 30. Life's pretty good but a quick unnoticed death isn't bad either, bros
>30
>see no reason for marriage
>>75581550
because I think you should loose or gain weight.
There is no way how you didnt even hug a girl in our sexualized society...
>>75581010
What the fuck? I need to move to Alabama.
California girls are unbelievable whores.
>>75581472
>nobody ever joked with me like that.
Yeah well I couldn't even enjoy it because of how awkward and self conscious I felt. Doubt I'll ever get a hug again at this rate. Hell if I ever manage to get a kiss I'll be amazed.
>>75581477
I'm 6 foot 2, 180 pounds, and rather average looking. I don't even know how I was able to approach this girl. To me it was a fucking miracle.
>>75581602
>>75579120
>get married at 22 years old
>still married at 26, happier than ever before
Feels pretty good desu
>>75579120
i don't even have a girlfriend.
all the girls i'm interested in have already a boyfriend.
i'll stick to sluts for now.
25 years btw.
>>75579120
Well for one I'm mostly attracted to guys and so have decided a long time ago to abstain from sex and relationships so as to not be gay
But if I were 100% straight id not get married due to the bullshit that western women are now
>get married
>work to provide
>have kid
>work harder to provide
>woman wants divorce so she can get fucked by someone else
>takes kid and all the money
>house too
>claim you physically abused her and get the cops
>lose everything including your kid
This basically happened to my dad when I was 15. Fortunately when a kid is 15 in this country they can choose which parent to live with and I saw through the bullshit and stayed with my dad. Ruined her plans as she now had to give child support and wasn't able to take the house and all his money as he needed to be able to take care of me and have a house for me
She was also a borderline phsycopathic bitch who constantly verbally abused me and so I was able to argue to the court why i wouldn't live with her and she'd pay child support to my dad. Fortunately a child's well being meant more to our "legal" system back then
Honestly I think my condition and not being able to marry is a blessing. It seems most mairrages now end the way my dads did
26
health problems
decent job but far away from homecity
no women, no gf, never been in relationship
no future.
My life is shit however i dont go hero because of my parents, they dont deserve for this
>24
>Dating a girl exclusively for over five years.
>Not planning on getting married until we are both done with school.
I'm going to count in like, a few months.
I knew things were bad, but not THIS bad. I thought you all would recover at age 30.
The west is doomed
>>75581714
there is no reason except massive advantages for women and disadvantages for men. only morons and hopeless romantics do that crap.
>>75581430
Increased autism rates are being caused by SSRI (anti-depressant) use in pregnant women, something the pharmaceuticals covered up with that whole "vaccines cause autism" bullshit.
And birth defects sky-rocket in women after 30-35
If you don't like the idea of a woman having kids at 20, do it before 30 at the latest.
>I bet you'll have your very own Chris-chan one day.
That is still greater evolutionary success than someone who has no children at all.
>>75581692
It's really not. I have good hygiene and I've hugged literally once, never held hands, kissed, been on a date, had a gf or sex.
Why is it so hard for some of you to understand how socially anxious and unattractive some of us are? There's just no place for us.
>>75581228
ANd have to pay for a kid in child support for 18 years? Fuck no.
>>75581602
kinda suspected that
>>75581630
I don't have any social skills at all, I just mimic other people to some degree. Don't even want to think about how retarded I must look like for others.
>>75581730
i'm 80kg and i'm 1,85m tall so not fat at all.
>>75581761
can't even imagine what a kiss is like or how it works lol
>>75579120
>30
>Have a job which I love
>Have to travel 6 days of the week, sometimes sunday too
>Pay is great
>Dont want to bother a women with never seeing me, the marriage would crash and burn within weeks.
>Not really longing for sex desu.
>>75581696
WOMEN should get married when they are 18-20.
MEN should marry when they are 23-28.
Am 23 now, not expecting to even find a first gf within the next two years.
Though, I can always blame my incompetence on legit autism, I have to admit that I just never tried.
Plus there's nothing to gain from it, relationships are stressful, marriage costs a lot of money, especially when there's also kids involved.
I'm going to lay down, this thread is proof that all you fucking fags need to stop bitching and put your dicks inside women.
I'm done here, there is nothing that can save the white race except your dick. Literally muh dick.
Godspeed heroes.
>>75580566
why do you need assets anon.
if you have assets, you have to figure out if she wants them. just date someone who is also financially independent.
>>75579120
under 25 and married
>>75580225
why dont you go and fuck some slutty fat british girls? They are easy and it will boose your self esteem.
>be 24
>29 year old sister who has been divorced twice
>father has been divorced twice
>step-mother has been divorced
>mother has been divorced twice
>everyone in their families has been divorced, all of them ended terribly
Then I go full retard and have an affair with a 30 year old married woman.
Her husband finds out and is still with her, kek.
I'm fucking doomed.
>>75582187
boost*
>>75581952
You shut your whore mouth.There is some bitch out there RIGHT NOW who wants you to tell her what to do and want's her dick in her. You are a faggot for not finding her.It's all your fault.
>>75579120
32, never married
had relationship for 6 years, she was nagging me about marriage and kids, but didnt bring anything to the table. Also my spider-sense was tingling strongly about her
now I have casual sex every 3 months, its great
>>75582226
>Her husband finds out and is still with her, kek.
does he know you?
>>75579120
23, graduating in the fall with an engineering degree. Had one gf before when I was 17 for a year. Still a virgin. Poor as hell (dad died last year, mom isn't really capable of supporting herself), no car too. I live on my own though, and have since age 20. Probably a 6/10 on the looks scale, 5'10", skinny. Not entirely unhappy with my life for some reason.
Be honest, how fucked am I /pol/?
I've never been financially independent. I'm 26 and recently finished my doctorate. It'll still be 3-4 years before I even have a regular job and make actual money. Getting married or engaged seems irrelevant and weird when you can't pay for something yourself
>>75579120
Turned 25 just 2 months ago nad I'm not married. Only just lost my virginity 2 months before that. Working a shitty dead end job and never been in a relationship. I'm considering just joining the military since I obviously can't hack it in the real world.
>>75582245
>jsut b urself bruh
>>75581753
I'm in California right now and all I see are minorities and ugly white people. I'm sure there are nice parts but I don't know where. The two girls I know from California are huge sluts.
Lots of great white flight areas in Alabama. I myself am considering the midwest since there are still some white people there.
I'm 25, not married because I've never been long enough with anyone to do it. Almost 3 years has been thr longest with almost 1 year of it counting money wheter or not its economically stable to just kick her out, at last I decided to fuck it amd just do it and for some magical reason I ended up with more cash every month even tho I payed everything myself.
Now I'm with someone who isnt stupid as fuck, works and studies at the same time but we havent been together for long enough.
>>75582137
>men are immature
>>75579505
You should be spending your time learning.
Become successful.
>>75581952
german bro said he never been hugged, and you have been hugged once more than him, the point remains
>year is 1930
>a small country village
>you come home from working in the fields
>your large titted wife has prepared some food
>it is simple, but good food, meat, potatoes , bread
>you eat, and then have a beer which has been nicely cooled by being sat in come cold water
>your 3 sons race about the house engaged in good, wholesome play
>you pat your faithful dog, and rest your weary head in your wife's ample bosom
>all is well in the world
ffwd to now, and that lifestyle is seen as wrong; many would destroy it.
>>75579120
>20
>No serious relationship
>Never kissed a girl
>Never had sex
>Don't even have friends
>No Job, just an internship in a field I have no future in
If I didn't have parents I would have shot my self by now. This shit is just one big nightmare, and there's no payoff.
>>75581651
>Honestly, watching the last few generations unfold has led me to believe that restraining female sexuality is THE primary requirement of civilization.
correct.
see: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._D._Unwin
>His historical examples include the Sumerians, Babylonians, Athenians, Romans, Teutons, and Anglo-Saxons (600s - 900s), and English (1500s - 1900s). In every example, these cultures began to rise when women were required to be virgins at marriage and to be monogamous for life. All of these cultures began to decline when women were given rights, were not required to be virgins at marriage, when divorce was common, and marriage was in decline.
>27
>renting and been living with gf for 1.5yrs now
>no plans to ever get married
>its gonna end because of that in the future, because she's into it
>>75582380
Not really, only knows my name.
He's a bernie supporter so I'm not really looking over my shoulder everywhere I go.
I dont think I will ever marry
too many horror stories
gonna just pass by my days with hedonism, until I croak
sorry, mum
>>75581959
How do you manage to do that? Like seriously I am quite an outcast but I have no problems aproaching based looking girls.
I am not sure if I should feel for you or if you are just a huge looser. Both is possible and remember you as a man are the only person resposible for your happyness. Just find some motivation (in music or spirituality(NO SEMITIC SHIT)) and aproach girls, if you cant... why even complain?
American friend/colleague can't have kids cuz sterile. Wife wants kids, friend wants kids. Colleague asked me to father his children, agreed. Now he has a couple of twins, both males. He doesn't mind they are mine and he is raising them as his.
Therefore my evolutionary job is done and mother Nature can go fuck herself with a rake while i spend the rest of my life travelling and fucking russian hookers while intoxicated
>>75581651
In muslim societies, women were forcibly monopolized by a few men.
In hypergamy, women choose to be monopolized by a few men.
In western society, we equalized the male-female ratio by forcing women to 'settle for less' - this had a number of very important effects:
* Men stopped competing with each other for exclusive reproductive rights (war, strife, social destruction and instability)
* Most men were guaranteed reproductive rights if they contributed to society
* Society expanded and grew more technologically advanced, and did so rapidly
Western society is the result of turning male energy into creative, rather than destructive, directions.
However, it does have a deleterious effect in evolutionary terms. We revert to a hypergamous sexuality for a reason:
Men are "genetic experiments" having wider variance in strength, skill, intelligence than women
Men are "disposable" - very few men are required for a lot of women to continue having children, and men can fight and die for their society without destroying that society
Women choose the top 20% of men because that accelerates the adoption of beneficial genetic traits in the population. Women naturally practice eugenics by their very nature, and the institution of marriage dampens this eugenics/natural selection effect.
>>75581602
I know this is from somewhere but I can't recall tbqh
>having kids after 30
Have fun never having a great carreer. I see a lot of people being 40 and still need to take care of kids, those people never gets promoted and get stuck in shitty jobs.
But I guess most of you NEET don't give a fuck.
>26
>in a relationship for 3y
>moving together next month
>gf cleans, cooks, knows to shut up, pretty much wife material
>will probably have kids with her in 5y
could be worse
>>75581842
A HOMO LEAF
>>75579414
>>75579505
>>75580118
>>75580337
>>75580376
>>75580918
Jesus Christ they are girls not rocket science
>>75579120
21, kissless, handholdless virgin. At least I have a high school diploma and a job, going to college in the fall.
>>75579120
>30. never had gf.
not holding my breath
>>75579120
21 and the girl I like (18) still wants to live her young adulthood.
Won't force her to change because I know how it feels to change for people. You stay with that anger in your body saying "You stole my life!".
She would have been a fine wife I think, but I ain't going to wait for her. I'm too damn good for it.
Because women are CUNTS
>>75581477
>dominance
Yeah and then 10 years later they take you to court for it
>>75580847
Good man.
>>75582618
Correlation/causation
I agree with the assessment, but it's still not clear if it's a (the) cause or a symptom of decline.
>>75582187
I'm considering trying it but I'd still be completely clueless and I'd have no idea how to flirt and even the thought makes me nervous. Women of all types tend to just ignore me. I can handle basic conversations and that's about it.
>>75582245
Yeah, right. Any woman would run a mile from me.
>>75582516
I am, but I have no motivation most of the time. I don't even want to be massively rich, life just doesn't interest me.
>>75582539
Ok, but the point is some of us get pretty much no intimacy from anyone. It's not just the lack of sex but the feeling of complete isolation and worthlessness.
People will say "just be confident" but when you have absolutely no positive experiences with women, no friends, no self-belief, it's just falling on deaf ears. Most normal people never even think about these things, it comes naturally to 99% of people and makes you feel pathetic for not being able to live up to those expectations.
I'm 26, and I honestly don't think I've talked to a woman my age other than family/service workers/etc. for five years, now I think about it.
>24
>not virgin
>no degree
>no job/career prospects etc
i have simply transcended earthly desires
>>75579893
Holy shit of this is real I feel sorry for you man
>>75579120
I am 26, have a loving half japanese gf, would love to marry and have kids but I just graduated from college and can't get a loody job in this massive economical crisis my country is in.
>>75581434
men are ridiculous, i used to listen to reams of this shit from my poor, virgin friend in oregon.
fun fact: girls don't get lonely like you do. we also don't base our self-worth on our sexual prowess, which is inevitably going to make you miserable.
seriously the only reason i don't date anymore is because i'm sick of dudes who take the stupid advice like you read on this thread. i don't want some pain in the ass dude who's gonna try to dominate me. make my 77 cents on the dollar life less difficult and then we're talking. no, you don't have to support me, i'm fine thank you.
>>75579120
>28 not married no gf
>fat
>always have been
>first 4/10 gf when I was 16
>relationship for 4 years
>bitch cheated on me.
>new incredibley gorgeous 17 year old literal 10/10 gf
>turns out shes a psycho
>cucked à friend of mine 2 years ago.
Things got downhill from there since im pretty fed up with all the drama it causes.
However it just baffles my mind that there are kissless virgins out there. Literally how? Even I did it.
>t. fat anime enthusiast
>>75579120
>lost virginity at 18 like a normalfag
>1 gf at 25
35 now and it's just never going to happen. Kind of hoping my drinking inadvertently kills me by the time I'm 40.
>26
>never seen a female naked outside of the internet
Sometimes it stings when I see these 20 year olds around here getting married and having their first kid. Guess my genetics just aren't good enough for females.
>>75582996
feel sorry for him? he is a fucking degenerate and a leaf, so double whammy
>>75582940
>let me buy you a drink
>get her drunk
>profit
>>75581651
>Monogamy meant that everyone could get a wife, thus everyone could have kids and therefore have a stake in society's future
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CemLiSI5ox8
>>75580225
post face anon
>>75582861
As opposed to the boys who lack dominant traits and don't get a woman at all.
Maybe that's what you want - I certainly don't blame any guy for not wanting to marry or get involved with women when our society punishes it, but if you lack dominant traits, you are not getting a woman or keeping one for very long. It's as simple as that.
Jeezus Christ so many virgin betas ITT
>>75579120
27 and counting.
Never going to marry or have a serious relationship again.
>>75582771
>Jesus Christ they are girls not rocket science
They are to some of us. I have abilities but when it comes to relationships and romance, nope. Mentally impossible. And beyond a certain point you're just repulsive to women and it's easier to not bother. No women will ever find anything attractive about me and she's not exactly going to guide me through things at my age, so there's no point.
>>75579120
26 and married m8
>>75580235
You're a slav bro, there has to be at least one washed up Slavic chick to go with you
>>75582585
Try alcohol
>>75583160
buying stuff to women makes you a cuck
>>75582653
I never knew any girls, never had any female friends.
I don't know shit about relationships, how they function, how to talk to a woman, I really don't know shit man and I doubt I can still learn it.
Motivation for living kinda died down in the last few years when it settled in that this is literally it.
>>75582771
For you maybe, I have no idea about them at all.
>Full wizard
>Six figure salary
>Dead libido
Zero fucks and/or shits will be given
>>75581477
Wow, where did you pull that from, leaf?
I just keep some ho's around for the biological function. Women are garbage. Enjoy your life and just use them for sex, they are worthless creatures.
>>75581010
>college town
That's your problem m8
>>75579120
>23
>had one gf in my life, when I was 17
>she was such a massive bitch that it completely put me off of dating
maybe some day I'll find a woman who I know for a fact isn't shit
>>75583327
pls refer to
>>75582771
>>75582730
a za leđama se ti fuka z nekom drugim..
>>75580711
It's over unless you get a mail order bride
I turned 34 today. I've had many gfs and just couldn't commit and they left.
Maybe I'll get married when I'm 40.
>>75583160
Easy to type, harder to actually do when my head is spinning and I feel sick due to the situation.
>>75583123
> posts an anime
Well, if you haven't figured it out by now, you never will
>>75583213
there will be many more. the current generation of men will probably be 40% virgins into their 30s because all women are able to fuck 10/10 alpha super chads whenever they want.
>>75583056
>make my 77 cents on the dollar life less difficult and then we're talking
>>75583349
What do you think women find attractive, burger?
>>75583489
Happy birthday lil'yank
>>75581472
>what did it feel like
I didn't want that feel...
>>75579120
27 here. Have a girlfriend I've been dating for 3 years and have lived with her for 2 of those years.
Almost married my previous girlfriend but this guy she was cheating on me with told me about a week before the wedding that they had been hooking up (and that she had just mentioned to him that she had a boyfriend).
I really like the current one, but I want to be absolutely sure before I pull the trigger on marrying some chick.
meee
Single til death
Hoard all the wealth
MGTOW life
>>75583123
>not doing everything you can to stay alive long enough for robot waifus and neural VR
>>75583442
u jelly m8?
>>75579120
26.
Havent even dreamed of getting married since my naive, high in the sky high school days. Cant trust women for shit, cant build any bonds with them beyond superficial bullshit, but I have had plenty of sex though. Definitely not a virgin like others here. Its just that every girl is the fucking same and not worth the trouble.
Im most likely just going to move to Thailand and fuck girls there on the cheal and do opiates indefinitely. My career allows me to make that type of transition. Should be there by the end of the summer, cant wait.
>>75580711
hookers are your only hope
>>75581472
and then you become a wizard
>>75582771
Fuck off, monteniggro, they're human beings.
>>75580699
You do realize that 90% of people marry within their age range? Stop with the MRA memes please.
>27
>kissless virgin
>no job
>dropped out of uni
>living off autismbux
living the NEET dream
>>75579337
This.
>26
>Honest ( too honest if you ask me)
>any relationship I'm in recently ends in 6 months to a year.
>I dont like being overbearing in the relationship and they try to shit test me and it doesnt phase me so they automatically assume I'm cheating / dont care about them.
Feels bad man.
I want a partner that is my equal, not financially or physically, just some one who has the right set of morals and principles with massive amounts of willpower.
Hell I'm not even picky with my girls, I find flaws super attractive / cute but they always let their own insecurities get to them and project them onto me.
Guess im destined to be alone.
>>75579120
23 and married,7 year long relationship
>white
>christian
>getting my education
>/pol/-wing
>married
I am /pol/'s dream.
>>75583508
Have you ever tried drinking before approaching them?
>>75583308
go away mongol
>>75583489
happy bday dude. 30 next year but have had issues finding a girl who didn't have kids for many years. I feel like the only girls who like me want me to be a father figure
>>75583511
Anime filled the void that women left.
I won't allow you to talk shit about it, fucker.
>>75583633
Probably won't be a thing until we're all in our 60s anyway.
>>75579605
I have been here since before there were country flags and I can't even remember the last time I saw Belize.
>>75583776
>Romanian
>pol's dream
>>75583433
This guy talks about giving alcohol to girls.
Now how would an clueless idiot like me even get to that point?
Keep in mind i'm a social retard and whenever I leave the house and have to face other people start to feel like utter shit.
>>75583666
Whatever you say Satan
>>75583709
jelly
I never married, or had intercourse
>>75583787
>montenegro
>negro
>>75583694
I'm not discussing men's rights, I'm discussing male sexual attractiveness to women.
Spitting out and parroting some catchphrase you heard someone else say doesn't make an actual argument.
26 in a couple months.
Lost my virginity to a whore at 23. Its okay.
>>75583637
hardly.. been there done that itd,, ti se rajs vpras kolkrat si za kom drugim lizo. mozno pa da se tak ze zaves tega pa si pac cuck.
32 gonna propose this year after I get my butt checked for cancer.
>>75583650
its funny the guy has more respect for you than the cunt
sorry bro
>>75580605
lel, really?
I'm 25. not married. fuck girls
>>75583935
Well present evidence plz
>>75583123
>never seen a female naked outside of the internet
You can just step into a strip club by accident and see some titty.
the fucks wrong with you
>>75583265
I tried already, it doesn't really do anything to fix the mental haunting. I can see right through it.
>>75583870
Goddamn, time to get on top of that. Get on matched.com or something.
>>75580711
It depends. How wealthy are you?
24 turning 25 in september, been dating the love of my life for over a year now. Shes a redhead, mostly redpilled, gun toting cutie and definitely 10/10 waifu status. Cant wait to start a family with her.
Did I do ok /pol/? She looks kinda like pic related only hair is slightly more brownish
>>75583576
Exactly what you said. Well put.
Reminds me why I keep coming here.
>>75584107
forgot pic
>>75584049
Not that guy obviously but even going to McDonalds gets hard after some isolation NEET time.
A strip club is impossibru mode
>>75583986
>ti se rajs vpras kolkrat si za kom drugim lizo. mozno pa da se tak ze zaves tega pa si pac cuck.
lel očitno še nisi vidu pizde kr te razjezi golo dejstvo, da tvoj sodržavljan dobi za fukat.
topcuck
>>75583585
That was really nice, leaf
>>75583489
Also happy birthday bud
>>75583787
>Have you ever tried drinking before approaching them?
Yes, didn't help at all. Could still barely handle interaction. Not a fan of drinking in general anyway. Only time I feel comfortable in public is walking quietly on my own, usually outside of urban areas.
>>75583337
You should spread your genes.
>>75583223
>>75583327
>>75583433
Your defeatist attitude aint gonna help much. Saying its impossible to talk with a human being is pretty retarded. You're just inexperienced, thats it. The more you try the better you'll be at flirting. And it's quite easy for you, living in huge cities. You can always start with another chick without ever meeting the old one in your entire life, whereas my city has like 25k.
22, 23 in a week.
Have never even had a girlfriend, only one night stands and fwb.
Every woman that I've gotten to know, was only good for sex, nothing more. And as far as I'm concerned, being whore doesn't translate into good parenting.
>your dream of a hobby farm with a stay at home wife and 4 kids will never come to fruition
JUST
>>75584162
Germanbro this is sad. You should come to America so we could hang out
>>75583101
I want to slap you eternal time you eat.You don't have to be fat,you chose to be fat. It's not fucking rocket surgery.Eat less,exercise,then one day you won't be fat.
>>75582771
>2016
>girls
not anymore mate. I read about girls in history books sometimes.
combine this with the financial risks of marriage and the fact the year by year it gets harder to live a good life, not easier.
It just dosent seem like a smart thing to do, unfortunately.
>>75579893
See, im actually VERY afraid of this. I am 26, been with 9 or 10 girls but only 4 long term relationships.
Each one seems crazier / worse than the one before it.
I start to look for flaws in their personality and eventually it becomes a game to me to see if they're liars or insecure or what not.
Each girl I've been with though, I've felt less and less connection to besides this last one but she was the craziest of them all.
>Shes 32
>has a job and a place (good so far)
>is super sweet and modest usually
>Has manners around people
BUT
>VERY insecure, shes been with too many guys, and they've all "hurt" her in one way or another.
>One turned out to be gay so shes scared of that, majority of them cheated on her and brought the girls to HER OWN PLACE when she was living alone.
>she immediately thinks every ones a cheater / liar / asshole and acts like a bitch (well acts like a woman i guess... HUE HUE HUE) if the even IMAGINES that you're cheating or lying.
I went to the hospital and she saw a yellow thing in my wallet
>ANON WTF! FUCK YOU! WHY THE FUCK DO YOU NEED A CONDOM?!
wat. babe! wtf are you talking about!
>I SAW THAT YELLOW CONDOM!
and she drives off before I can prove it to her and claims that she didnt need to see it to know what it was.
ITS A FUCKING INTERVIEW CARD FOR THE POLICE DEPARTMENT FAGGOT. FUCK.
Broke up after that.
>>75579120
>20
>married
>have one daughter, trying for another with waifu right now
>bringing in over 20k a month from online marketing and sales
>going to be able to pay for my kids college funds in full
>I never went to college
>>75583864
i think the point the montenigger made was rather treating women and girls as humans in general.
they are not magic, not inhuman, not utter mystery, not impossible to talk to. treat them like any other people and find out their special traits and show honest interest in their personality. and yes, they do have personality, contrary to common 4chan belief. just dont be clingy and also dare to drop her when you notice you both dont fit together - neither as friends, nor as a couple. it's just as easy as that.
>>75583123
>26 and posting animu
There is where your problem lies. Keep telling youself the opposite, if that makes your fat ass feel better.
>>75584080
Alcohols awful. Opiates are the key to filling that void. They mimic the same chemicals that you feel when you fall in love. Not even billionaires in penthouse suites with 8/10 pussy on tap can come close to feeling the chemical bliss that opiates provide. They are literally the cheat codes to the game of life.
