>3rd wave Feminists
>Nu-males, beta men
>record divorce rates
>lack of discipline and drive and passion in many people(.I admit I'm projecting with this one desu)
I hear theories like "the internet did this" (I think we were put on this course long before the internet though) or porn/other instant gratification ruined men, which made women what they are" or that women fell first, then men did. It doesn't really matter which way it happened. All Ik is the quality of interpersonal relationships, not just between genders in a romantic sense--but people in general has gone down. I know economic, social, etc factors all played a role in this and we can't blame one thing but I'm sure there had to have been a catalyst. Maybe its just we're just too comfy, but the I honestly think this downward slope started before we got "comfy." Without memeing or blaming jews or minorities, what the fuck happened? Something had to have occurred, whether it be a political decision a lone time ago or a shift in the mindset of people.
industrial revolution
we were too comfy for over a century
industrialization and urbanization (including that 50's suburb life which was already the beginning of the end) directly caused everything from feminism to weak men to allowing jews to have power at all (service economy as opposed to small farms lets them have it).
the very idea of "romance" was false to begin with, arranged marriages were better
wage labor at all is the big one really if you think about it. Combined with compulsory education.
Both of these disrupt family and tradition and make marriage harder, as well as removing one's personal labor from their actual sustenance/product (craftsmen and farmers are happier than wageslaves)
>>72975309
>arranged marriages were better
nice try Pajeet
>>72975309
I don't want to try to change the world and Ik we are too far-gone. I just want to break free from this toxicity and focus on being a good person. This second question is more suited for /adv/ anyway, but anyone got any advice?
>>72975747
I don't mean forced like muslims or child marriage.
I mean any sort of marriage where both families met and introduced their kids to each other, or at church etc.
the problem with India is indians, arranged marriage isn't why it's shit.
>>72975848
don't ask me, I'm an autistic electrical engineer so I'm the furthest I could ever be from removing myself from modern society. I'm thinking of figuring out how to at least buy some land and move off the grid in a few years though
>>72974535
Here's a massive green pill
http://www.lynneforrest.com/articles/2008/06/the-faces-of-victim/
The Rescuer Story
>betas, cucks
Rescuers believe that their needs are unimportant and irrelevant. This means that the only way they can legitimately connect with others, feel valued and have their needs met is through the back door of care-taking. Rescuers chastise themselves when they aren’t care-taking others. Their starting gate story is; “If I take care of others well enough and long enough, then I will be fulfilled. It’s the only way to be loved.” Unfortunately, Rescuers are involved with life-time Victims who have no idea of how to be there for them. This reinforces the SG Rescuer’s story that says they shouldn’t be needy, which then produces more shame and deeper denial surrounding their own needs.
The Victim Story
>SJWs, lefties
Guilt and shame are the driving forces for the perpetuation of the Triangle. Guilt is often used by Victims in an effort to manipulate their Rescuers into taking care of them: “If you don’t do it, who will?” The Victims’ story says they can’t make it on their own and they prove it to themselves over and over on the triangle. They believe that they are innately defective and incapable and so spend their lives on the look-out for someone to “save” them. Though this is what they feel they must have, i.e., a savior, they are simultaneously angry at their rescuers because they feel put down by and looked down on by their caretakers.
>Get girlfriend
>Move far from city, tell her its so you can be closer or whatever bullshit you can sell her on
>Being outsiders in a bumfuck town will only drive you two closer
>Fuck like rabbits and have lots of kids
>>72976054
The Persecutor Story
>/pol/
Persecutors who believe the world is dangerous, use fear and intimidation as tools for keeping others in their place. What they don’t see is how their methods for providing “safety” end up proving to them that life is indeed as dangerous as they believe it to be. Their story says that they are innocent bystanders in a dangerous world where others are always out to hurt them. It’s survival of the fittest and their only chance is to strike first. This story keeps them in perpetual defense/offense modus operandi.
>>72976166
oh, forgot to add Jews to the Victim psych game
More reading:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle
tl;dr: everyone (EVERYONE) is fucked up unless they work on themselves
>>72976166
But the world is dangerous. How can you survive if not in this position.
>>72976397
Define "working on yourself"
