I mean assuming the male is straight of course I have a hard time beleiving hes not trying to get into the pants of any and all female "freinds" he has. Men are just too horny and perverted to ever stop thinking about getting laid, even when its their freinds.
They can be provided the man has no sexual feelings towards the woman. It's rare though.
Only if there is zero attraction between them
>>71947124
My ex-gf, we're both fat as fuck but funny as fuck so we enjoy hangin' but there's zero sexual attraction, she's like sister.
>>71947124
Yes you can and it's fucking stupid to think otherwise.
>>71947124
Well, I have female friends I wouldn't want to fuck. Don't you?
>>71947124
no. Most of my friends in college were girls and we never had sex. I had a gf and they had boyfriends/were sluts and i didn't wanna risk getting the herp. They were in my classes and I needed study buddies. There was sexual attraction but we never acted on it because I'm not a cheater nor a pubescent muslim pig who can't control his sexual urges
No, the men who they hang out with will want to fuck them, the women are often oblivious to this fact though.
Only men in relationships don't want to fuck the women but then again men in relationships don't hang around with slags. I mean the company of women is horrible. They get too easily offended and have stupid opinions and interests. If you already deal with that at home then why would you seek out more of that if you're already getting the pussy at home.
>>71947457
Sounds healthy
>>71947124
>>71947401
This basically, maybe 1 out of every 100 girls that actually have a hobby are in it for the hobby itself and not to try and impress men by being the ebin girl element.
It's not.
It's just rare because women just all too rarely have interests that align with those of males. Women care about what real people do, men care about what made up people do, and what technology can do.
If those interests would ever line up, they could override any potential sexual tension. If both consider each other sufficiently unattractive or simply not their taste, it's also possible. But normally, the matching interest simply doesn't override the sexual tension, and the friendship is doomed from the start.
>>71947401
A classic
>>71947124
The formula is simple; Once a woman has been married to you for longer than she's has not, only then will she consider you more than a mere utility.
I can somewhat understand the reasoning behind this, but I'm friends with plenty of women. They all have boyfriends and i have my girlfriend, but we still hang out plenty and have fun.
It's difficult simply because of time. If a man and a woman are trapped together on a desert island they will eventually start fucking. It's not that different in our everyday lives assuming the man and woman are actually sincere friends. Time is a mother fucker of a factor. Eventually the dick will find it's way into the pussy. It's just how things are. This problem can be compounded by alcohol.
>>71947300
wrong. Women want male attention. They should be getting this attention from their husbands or man they are with. The woman will want to flirt with the man who has no sexual feelings toward her. This is not an actual friendship; it is a stunted state of romantic pursuit, or sexual lust. This is not "friendship". Men have friendship between each other. Is what I described like two men having a friendship?
Most "friendships" I have with women fail due to feelings/interest not being reciprocated, from one side or the other.
Every couple of years comes a girl that will be a proper, real bro-tier type of friend, but she leaves eventually.
All that's left are pretty much broken girls that are lonely and like feeling desired from time to time, but the interaction is always laden with sexual frustration that will never be released.
So as far as I'm concerned, I don't think I can really be friends with women.
My wife says its not possible.
>>71947630
>Most of my friends in college were girls and we never had sex.
How to spot a beta orbiter cuck
>>71948591
what about your wife's son? what is his opinion?
>>71948802
Sad but true, arkadas
The reason why it doesn't work is that females think that a guy automatically wants to fuck them if they are attractive. Though I have to admit that many guys are creepy like that though and have the attitude "I respect that you don't want to fuck me but I'm down any time you change your mind" that is off putting.
>>71949137
Indeed, alter
>>71949199
>a guy automatically wants to fuck them if they are attractive
but 99% of guys do want to fuck attractive girls. Hence 99% of the internet being porn watched by men.
Men literally cannot control themselves around attractive women because biologically they have not evolved that much from monkies
>>71947773
And that 1 out of 100 has a 90% chance of being batshit insane as well.
>>71947401
>discussing about speed force
What is there to discuss about this shit? What do you comics flash nerds even talk about?
>>71947124
The guys are either gay, delusional betas, or they use her as a tool to impress other women.
The latter is a rarity
>>71949485
So what percentage does that leave us with?
>>71947124
I have female friends (because im not sexually attracted to them) the tough part is when said women try to get me to cut off contact with the other women
>>71947124
only the ones i wont be able to fuck...ever
Men and women can't be friends because of sex. But, by all means, go learn it the hard way. That'd be kindve baller, right?
>>71949440
Guess I'm the 1% and don't want to fuck every attractive girl just because they are physically attractive. Or I just keep telling myself that because the opportunity won't arise anyway, but to be honest the personalities of many attractive women makes them the opposite of attractive. Basically I wouldn't want to deal with all the shit that comes with going through all the motions just to have sex. But we live in fucked up times, lots of sexual tension and most of the release is in the realm of the imagination.
>>71947124
Just watch When Harry Met Sally.
Question has already been answered.
When have you ever said
>Hey guys this party is awesome, I'm having such a good time, stimulating conversation and all but you know what we need? A few girls to come over. That would kick it up to the next level
Never, no one has ever said that.
Women suck, they are boring, they aren't funny, they aren't smart, they are like a shittier version of your guy friends, especially if you're not banging.
God damn bitches make me sick
>>71949824
>because im not sexually attracted to them
Another beta cuck. Let me guess, you're a fat neckbeard that watches anime and will vote for trump?
Female """freidnship""" doesn't exist you fucking retard
>>71947401
This tbqhwy familia
>>71949730
like .2 or something like that, i don't know i'm not a math mathematician
It can i suppose, but its more like you make fake smile to her stupid joke, act decent so bitch wont get offended and wait until she goes away/passes away from drink.
I dont know why would anyone hang out with woman like with true friend, they are just boring as fuck, its usually reserved for pussies and cucks.
Is possible, only extremely improbable.
>>71950050
RIP Patrice
>>71950074
easy roach maybe you need to let off some steam
maybe with neighbors 11 year old?
A large portion of my current friends are girls. I've slept with all of them at one point or another. It's kind of like always on the table if any of us are single at the same time.
>>71947124
it's fun being attractive and making female friends.
within a few weeks of hanging out, they start getting frustrated because i (purposely) don't make any moves and act "friendly." eventually they either pounce on me like a cat in heat, or they go straight to blowing me until i nut in their mouth.
the key is to be friends with women and act disinterested in anything about them other than friendship.
>>71950074
I used heroin and crack with the same female friends for years. Never had sex with them.
I certainly would never consider becoming friends with a woman. I wouldn't trust one period. Never even mind having any type of romantic involvement with them. They are lying, scheming creatures. It's just in their nature. There's nothing they can do about it and I don't fault them for it, I'll just never get close to any of them again because of that.
Being in a relationship of any kind isn't a factor in how well you do at life. I feel like I'm the only one who thinks like that sometimes. I'm absolutely baffled by how much sex and relationships and friendly behavior you encounter in any type of media all over the world. There is literally no need for it.
>>71950437
He told you right, how are you spending time with them?
Making duckfaces for selfies, braiding each others hair, talk about handsome neighbour?
You can be friend with woman, but not like you can with bro.
>>71947124
>Is It True Men And Women Can Never Be Real Friends?
Not the way they can be friends with people of their own gender, at the very least. Most of the time, 'friendship' is really one or both parties attempting to secure a potential future sexual partner, especially if one of them is already in a relationship. Women tend to do this to try to make sure that when they let go of whatever branch they're holding, they're already holding another one so they can keep swinging. If this sounds repulsive and angering to you, it's because you are a morally healthy person.
If no one is attracted to each other, it's still not a guarantee, because one or both parties could become desperate, and attraction can develop even if it's not based on a person's looks.
In an honest and moral society, we wouldn't play the game of pretend that men and women can be friends.
It works the same way with homosexuals, too. It's just a matter of time before they try to get in your pants.
Men and women have different ideas of what it means to be a friend.
For men, friends have each other's back, would stand up to whoever fucks with the other, will drop what they're doing to do you a solid when you really need it. I've had female "friends" and none of them are ever like that.
So what is a "friend" to a woman? I'm no expert, I've never really asked women how their friendships work, but from my interactions with female "friends", I would speculate that a friend is someone you smile at and talk to occasionally, someone you hang with only when you're not busy, and someone you only need around as a means to an end. It's a rather hollow, sad way to have human relations.
So with few exceptions, men and women cannot truly be friends. If you refer to your relationship with a woman as a friendship, yet you can't see yourself calling her, of all friends, to come pick you up from the other end of town, or just to chill and do nothing, then she's not your friend.
>>71949641
Sarah please go we don't need you judging us on our cinderella snowglobe image board
>>71947124
it can, but no one involved can want to fuck the other one.
if a guy wants to fuck the girl and the girl doesn't want to, he becomes a beta orbiter, always hoping to get some eventually.
if the girl wants him but he doesn't want her she will get bitter and try to sabotage his relationships with other women or get pissed and stop hanging out with him
>>71947124
>people have no restraint
I find many of my female friends sexually attractive, but most of them I wouldnt sleep with even if I was single, for various reasons.
You dont have to act on every single instinct or impulse. Most humans are above animals and know how to tame their urges. I also have been in positions of power over women I find attractive, but I know that it would be wrong and irresponsible of my position to actually pursue them.
>>71950735
you can use heroin with them.
>>71947124
Why would you want to? Women are just for babies and fucking mate
>>71947124
no
http://bleske-rechek.com/April%20Website%20Files/Bleske-Rechek%20et%20al.%202012%20Benefit%20or%20Burden.pdf
You can be friends but not best friends.
>>71949440
>>71950022
I kind of understand this women and men cant because of sexual tension. But I also feel like lot this theory comes from those guys who cant control their sexual urge. I mean those guys who are addicted to idea of getting sex, so they cant be around woman without constantly thinking about sex. But i feel that there is actually men who can be around woman without thinking sex all the time. Men who are not slaves to their urges. And use their energy to do stuff instead day dreaming about getting laid. But i guess its this current popular culture that promotes idea of instant gratification that has affected lot of people.
>>71951087
if you don't let it get past a certain point, yeah, being friends with women is easy. if you start feeling attraction and go past that point, being friends sucks ass and generally isn't worth it.
>>71948157
I dunno, you seem like an actual red piller so doubt I anything I say will be conducive to an actual dialogue, but I was talking about in real life.
>>71951048
I can do same with homeless man near my building.
But its mostly that few girls in company when drinking out so we dont look like faggots.
>>71950970
Be honest to her, say you want to fuck her and see how that goes.
Friend is someone with who you cant talk about any stupid shit on your mind.
I used to be friends with my cousins female friends. One in particular got fuck in confusing.
>always get clingy
>changed my laptop wallpaper to her while I left to room once
"Now your women is your wallpaper"
>shit star getting heavier, late night swimming, occasional touchy feely
Then done. Started fucking around with older cousins friend
"Your like a brother to me anon."
God damn it
>>71950402
died too soon :(
he would have gotten so many niggas to vote for Trump
>>71951351
'can talk about any stupid shit on your mind.
>>71947792
>Women care about what real people do
>mfw
>MTV
>Kardashian
>Miley Cyrus
>Teen Mom
>drama
>bullshit
need i go on?
>>71951351
you can´t do it with the homeless guy.. he will beat you and try to fight you..
>>71951087
I concur with this. As long as nobody is trying to get into each other pants, it's not hard. But you can't be bro-tier best buds.
I have a lady friend who I really want to have sex with but out of respect for her husband, who I'm also friends with, I'll keep my wishes to myself.
Does this make me a cuck?
>>71949199
>Though I have to admit that many guys are creepy like that
>creepy
so the instinctual drive to reproduce and pass on your genes is creepy? ok pal
master race reporting
>>71951168
you sound young and naive.
men AND women are both the culprits as to why they cannot be "just friends." it isn't about the inability to control urges; it's about the biological fact that the more alone time you spend with a person (who is of the sex you're attracted to), the more you'll find yourself becoming attracted to that person. both a man and a women within a "friendship" will experience the increase of sexual tension.
i remember one girl that was "just friends." after hanging out with her--exclusively--for a week she eventually tried to kiss me and wanted to make out. (i eventually nutted in her mouth.)
>>71947401
>man looking for woman on sex/relationship/marriage market
>woman not available
>have no further interest because your not available
This is pretty much it. Hypotheticlaly, if he did contine being there, he would eventually get the, "Wow, Anon is so weird and I think he likes me but I'm going to friend zone him," attitude.
There is literally no reason to be friends with a woman outside of sex and Church. Even Church is a stretch.
>>71951356
as long as your female friend is single they will get flirty (and in many cases they will fuck you).
>>71947124
Only if she is ugly enough or he already has a love interest and he is not a faggot who would cheat.
>>71952077
pls dont rape the hawks
>>71947124
Hell, even right now its so hard not to ruin a pretty good friendshit of mine with a female friend because she is attractive, and single and we get along toghether but im convinced she is not into me.
>>71950050
>>71950402
i think the bit actually went
>when have you ever been hanging out with your friends having a great time, then said "you know what would make this better? if my girl was here"
normally i wouldn't try to correct a minor detail like that but in the case of an actual party, a lot of people would probably go
>hey this is a sausage fest, lets get some sluts over here
>>71947124
I got with my wife because she loves forging metal, and while I work with wood we make a good team making furniture and what not. She's my best friend and I am hers. Though I probably wouldn't have got with her if she hadn't invited me over to her father's house. I thought she was an attention whore who didn't know a thing, but I was proven wrong when we had to enter the home through the garage and subsequent forge she had built to make little blades and trinkets.
>>71947124
It's rare but possible. I'm friends with a couple of women that I have no interest in but they help set my fashion straight and teach me shit about what women want that I wouldn't otherwise care to find out about. It's nice, one girl I can be really blunt with and she's blunt right back so it works out. Very hard to find though.
Women can barely be friends with each other.
>>71952421
>friendshit
End me right now.
>>71949730
0.01%
I've got a female friend that i don't wanna fuck. She's good looking too. I dunno, i just never thought about her like that.
I used to have another female friend and one drunken night we hooked up, i had feelings for her forever too. It totally ruined our friendship.
>>71947124
Only when both aren't attacted, or actually really the guy has to be a little repulsed even, that way even if the woman changes her mind it never exits friendship. So basically no, except maybe when the man is gay.
>>71950050
>Hey guys this party is awesome, I'm having such a good time, stimulating conversation and all but you know what we need? A few girls to come over. That would kick it up to the next level
Bruh what kind of parties to you go to? People say this all the time, especially if it's a sausage fest. A party isn't a party without bishes.
It's like >>71947401 pic related says.
>I go to parties to meet vaginas
>>71947401
This.
It goes two ways.
Either the guy has no interest in the woman because she's a hambone, but the hambone will still be desperate to fuck the shit out of HIM. Why else would she keep talking to him?
Or the girl has no interest in the guy, but he stays around because he's either super thirsty or a beta and she uses him as an emotional sponge.
People will say it works when both aren't attracted to each other but this is so fucking rare, all people want to fuck.
>>71950834
>If you refer to your relationship with a woman as a friendship, yet you can't see yourself calling her, of all friends, to come pick you up from the other end of town, or just to chill and do nothing, then she's not your friend.
I have that relationship with a woman. It only works because we aren't attracted to each other, I'm too fat and she's too ugly, but we get a long. I actually introduced her to one of my closest friends and they started dating.
>>71952857
I got such relationship, And i value it greatly for what it is, but the fact that she is attractive fucks with my mind. And if i would try anything and it wouldnt work out it would ruin it. And im sure she doesnt want me that way.
>>71952695
t.Beta orbiter
>>71952991
You are cuck desu.
At least >>71951831 has good reason.
I used to have tons of woman friends early in college since I was a beta in high school. I thought it was great hanging out with so many girls but eventually after months of hearing them bitch and whine and have nothing in common it wore thin and I stopped. There is no reason to have woman as friends.
>>71953158
>I'm a cuck because im a friends with a female who is single and attractive
Shieeeet. Im gonna kill myself now.
>>71947124
no you can't unless it's a female and one of her dedicated beta orbiters. Now the orbiters will always be wanting sex but they're too pussy to ever try and if they do they'll get shut down and immediately sulk and return to orbit
>also hilarious how all the Europeans who gf's and wifes are likely good friends with refugees are saying yes it's possible. Keep believing she's not fucking all her males friends faggots
>>71951075
I think the dog is more helpful
>>71952857
BETA KEK: The Post
>>71948157
This 100%.
Even my buddies that introduce me to their wives or girlfriends, I always keep at a distance and it drives them crazy. Even if they aren't overtly flirting, they remain desperate for my attention and validation. I never reciprocate though, because I have loyalty first to my bros. I know other dudes are self-loathing, egotistical sad fucks that would gladly fuck their gf/wife, which is why I don't understand why they don't just get in control of their women.
I have lots of female friends, and very few male friends. I've always had a hard time connecting with other guys, but it's always been easy to connect with girls. I don't know why, I grew up with 3 brothers, I should be good at this.
Anyways, you can be sexually attracted to someone and still be friends. If you're only friends with them because you're attracted, then you're not really friends. You're a beta orbiter hoping she'll take pity on you and suck your tiny dick.
>>71953410
>I think she's attractive but I won't flirt with her
you're a bitch
>>71947630
>the "i'll buy your dinner cause I'm your friend" wife's son's guardian starter pack
>>71947124
forgot to add that only beta males or females will answer with a yes that men and women can just be friends. No even mildly respectable man would ever allow his girl to be friends with a bunch of guys barring gays
I have a female friend. I have had a crush on her for a long time, and she likes me too but she has a boyfriend.
I fucked her a few months after I met her, a few times, but didn't continue it cause I didn't think she was girlfriend material despite really liking her. My suspicions were confirmed when she cheated on her boyfriend with me nearly a year later, after being separated during the summer break in college.
I'm not really interested in hanging out with her if I'm not fucking her though...I was only friends with her for so long because I was forced to interact with her at a student club.
Am I a cuck? Her boyfriend is obviously. I used to think she was playing me but I think I am the one who rused her in the end.
>>71947401
topkek
it's funny cos it's true
>>71953410
She must be really have great personality when you are spending so much time with her.
What are you doing with shopping lipsticks, bitching about menstruation?
And after you are bitch for not having balls to try at least some shit
>>71952837
in some cases you're correct, but in my personal experience every woman craves attention. the key is to not give too much attention so that in her mind a sort of desperation occurs and she goes into flirt or die mode.
>>71953642
'hmmm I'm starting to think Beta Barry would make an excellent husband to provide for me and my son...'
>>71953604
©µ¢ĸ
>>71952306
I honestly think she just wanted to get me going to cold stop. Bitch is married now with a kid(who's not the fathers) so haha
>>71953619
I think about it every day, but im in position when i really need a good friend and she delivers. I'm only affraid that im gonna lose that.
>>71953726
I guess im just too pessimistic and expect it to never work. Had only shit luck so far.
>>71947124
it's okay to be casual friends maybe
but hanging out with a woman normally is just pathetic
>>71948852
kek top shelf Canadian bants
>>71947124
The thing is, people have strict definitions of "friends" and "lovers".
It's simply economics and if things align the friends will wanna fuck each other and it'll move the association from "friends" to "lovers", but in reality they are friends in both cases.
If the male is the best one available to the female and the female is attractive to the male, they will wanna fuck each other. They can be friends before and after starting the intimate relationship, but this is just the way friendships progress.
Women are especially stuck on definitions. They refer to society to tell them that "Friends don't fuck. They talk, they hangout, they go to movies, but that's it." In reality, if economics line-up, friends want to be more than friends.
In short, this whole "Can a guy and a girl just be friends?" debate is stupid and needlessly complicated because women are dumb. They don't understand that biology doesn't care about stupid definitions.
Only if she's ugly.
>>71947124
I've never been in a friendship with a girl who I didn't get sick of the company after 2 hours.
>>71947124
No buts its rare and can be a pain in the ass
The only girl who is close to me that i have no sex related feelings towards is my best friends girlfriend shes like a little sister to me
>>71950695
RARE
>>71953604
ok Jamal Oobadeeshie
>>71951075
>Restrains laughter
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH NO FUCKING WAY HAHAHAH NO FUCKING WAY A HEALTHY STRAIGHT MALE WOULD DO THAT AHAHA FUCKING FAGGOT.
>>71947124
Yes
All my so called "friends' were just women who found me unattractive and offered their friendship as some sort of consolation prize. and then they stop speaking to me because I "sexually harassed" them
>>71954535
>friends, yes
>best friends, no
Pretty much. And if the female friend is attractive you're still going to want to fuck her, it can never be truly platonic unless for some reason you're both so fucking ugly you put each other off, in which case you probably wouldn't be friends in the first place.
>>71953582
The dog IS more helpful anon.
>>71953604
By not having sex with people I'm not attracted to? I have a gf I sleep with that I'm attracted to.
>>71953607
Because they live in your fantasy world.
>>71952991
Well, no you don't have a similar relationship. Mine only works due to mutual un-attraction. You have the literal opposite.
I knew Poles were dumb, but damn.
>tfw knew a girl who was genuinely into sports
Like we used to have heated discussions about players and watch matches at bars.
I let her slip lads ;_;
>>71956091
>Like we used to have heated discussions about players and watch matches at bars.
lol, those girls are the biggest fucking whores ever.
i knew a girl like that. she knew the best players from Real Madrid, or Chelsea, but she never supported a local small teams. All this sports shit is done for attention.
In here, men and women can be friends. Not the friends with benefits type. Just the plain old friend. I don't know how to explain it. I guess we're still not westernized enough? But really, I still see some girls and guys flinging insults (jokes) at each other, still see them go to movies, etc. spend time with each other, do stupid shit that'll make you think they're a couple, but they're not really one. I've actually discussed this with actual 3DPD women before and for the westerns, some see it like "yeah, I guess there's a gap". For Asians, they're like "lol no".
>>71952390
it's not rape if it's your gf, anon
>>71956436
>I still see some girls and guys flinging insults (jokes) at each other, still see them go to movies, etc. spend time with each other, do stupid shit that'll make you think they're a couple, but they're not really one.
So basically, you pinoys are a nation of betas? No wonder so many ladyboys are from there
>>71947401
>star wars
>the flash
>/tg/ hobbies.
>>71947124
It is possible, but you'll never hear that from a bunch of jaded virgins and 20 somethings still in college.
For some reason people think that friendship is supposed to be this deep, meaningful lifelong relationship but it's not. Friendship is merely the act of considering someone your friend, nothing more.
Friendships, even ones between two straight guys, don't last your entire life. The idea that they do is wishful thinking and if you really think that then you need to stop watching whatever kiddie faggot crap you're watching these days.
Women are not that difficult to befriend, I'd know after 12 years of marriage and two kids. You'll realize this once your hormones calm down.
>>71947124
Love is friendship set on fire.
Unless you just really hate yourself.
And it works both ways hun ;)
>>71955813
Apparently my wife's fantasy world too, since she was first to notice it. Initially I thought she was just being jealous, but it became pretty obvious she was right as time went on.
>>71947124
Except for my mother I've fucked every woman I ever was friends with. So the answer is NO.
Plus your spelling is an embarrassing indictment of the Canadian educational system.
>>71947307
This
>>71956587
no. We just don't think of banging everything that moves 24/7.
>betas
>average children is 4-7
>>71953044
Son, I've had sex with more women than years you've been alive.
>>71947124
This is true.
Never had a freindly relationship with a woman that hasn't GONE SEXUAL
>>71947124
In most cases, no. They (either man or woman or both) want to be more than friends, or they are more of an acquaintance than a friend (study partner, co-worker, etc.). I had plenty of female friends in high school and college, and they'd either be my friend because of similar interests (more small talk than anything), I thought they were attractive, or they were smart and I wanted to learn from them. I eventually got a girlfriend, and although we share few interests in hobbies, we are attracted to each other and enjoy each others company.
Have plenty of chick friends, boned them all at one point. Sometimes sex causes drama other times no big deal. Women are idiots though and male friendship is superior.
I have a couple good female friends but their whole social circle is just a mess. Women seriously suck at maintaining friendships especially with other women. Actually our friendship is pretty good because I don't get involved in any of their drama.
>>71947124
Yes, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I have never intended to be friends with a girl in my life. If I'm friendly to her it's because I want to bang her. If i'm friendzoned I cut off all contact to them if I think I can't escape it
Only way a guy can be friends with a girl is if he's gay or beta.
>>71947124
>Is It True Men And Women Can Never Be Real Friends?
its possible, but rare. a lot of women just aren't very interesting people, so I don't go out of my way to hang out with them unless I'm getting some ficki ficki
>>71947124
There is no reason to hang out with the opposite sex for friendship.
>>71949199
>creepy
Woman detected
>>71959698
>If i'm friendzoned I cut off all contact to them if I think I can't escape it
When I was younger I developed some notoriety because of having a real strong personality with my guy friends and hot girls, but then-after getting with a girl-just not talking to her at all and making no effort in conversation. In one incident, I had three 'bff' type girls who I got with individually over a week and since I wasn't talking to any of them they were all convinced that one of them was taking my attention, and hence they bitched their friendship of 16 or so years to pieces within a few weeks over nothing.
As I get older and my libido starts to wane, I don't even bother chasing women unless they make it clear as day that they want to get with me. Got hardcore porn anyway
Yes, men and women can be friends. It is extremely rare, but it is possible. I have a friend, she's hot. There's no denying that. She acts and models for a living, no supplementary income. I am also attractive. WOULD I fuck her? Sure. But I have no interest at all to go out of my way to make it happen because as I said, I'm also attractive, and due to the amount of pussy that is constantly being thrown my way I can be selective. While she is hot, she isn't my particular brand of hot, so I'm not interested in pursuing it. We both find each other hilarious and she's the only person I know in real life that I can talk about niggers and Jews without a care in the world, comfortable in the fact that she feels exactly the same way.
I don't have to hide my power level at all, and it's cool. We're great friends.
>>71950050
Have you ever been to a party?
>>71947124
Im really close friends with my sister and cousins
>>71947124
yes but the girl must be fat or ugly or old, really unfuckable
>>71961412
What kind of things do you do as friends?
>>71949199
Y chromosome here. Wise and experienced.
I have had seen it both ways many, many times. Now, most guys are MUCH less articulate than women, and say dumb shit, but when it comes down to it, we are very much the same. Women play their cards close and guys don't. Were both playing the same game though. Its what we are and its OK.
We are programmed to think and act like this, why fight it? I have had women that I had a "platonic" relationship with for one reason or another. One minute later and we are both catching eachother googling. Not long and its friends with benefits, a date, sex, a relationship, whatever. In the end, we just want to cuddle, fuck and swap spit. We want to be close to eachother, we want a soulmate. Its in our DNA, its the point of being human. Welcome.
I once had a lab partner in college that I worked with. We were good buddies, always sharing answers and helping eachother out. My radar was somewhat poor back then and she took me for surprise. One night, she asked me if I wanted to stop by after class. I looked down and her hand was on my lap. She almost fucked my brains out, just wow.
Anyway, men and women can work together sure. They can try not to be "creepy" and for the most part are. Don't think for a minute that guys and girls are not considering the people they encounter and know as a mate.
We can still be "friends" but it will just be a different kind of friend. Nothing wrong with it, just different. If you are uncomfortable change the person or find someone who is the same gender. You can say no and walk away. Even that is no guarantee though.
Just a different type of relationship, that's all. That said, I have had many happy relationships begin this way. You get to know someone, try to get close, be a friend and maybe it goes a little further. :)
>>71962701
>most guys are MUCH less articulate than women
lel
>>71956614
2013 was a different time than now. Flashpoint and its impact were still interesting. Disney had just bought star wars and no one knew what this meant for the series, there was much discussion on which parts of the EU Disney would reach into for new content, and what they would avoid canonizing.
>>71947124
Yes, this is not a myth. It leads to bondage, which leads to you know fun.
Nah man it works if you are a couple, or are single and hang with another couple. This works, I would advice to not a lone though. Shit can happen... which will be ackward.. very very ackward believe me... did this to a well really didn't know the fella so well he was an ass, but his gf... this is bad shit to do, but she initiated the whole shit and I was young... she was hot..
Man like on the work place, on the uni you get a bondage. Look you want one thing, the female gets confused too. Like typical an old coworker and felllow student started calling me, haven't spoken in a year actually... it's the damn fucking spring..
DELETE THIS
I was an ass on the phone, I don't know her guy, so I don't fucking care. But I should really find me an own one.. complicated..
So answer No, they cant. Except the couples things.
>>71963423
>it leads to bondage
>bondage
You should google image search "bondage" m8.
>>71947300
This. If neither are attracted to each other, they can be friends.
>>71947124
I was friends with a fat girl until she confessed her love for me last week, now it's just awkward to be around her.
>>71947124
If you have the same hobbies it can work great. Been a part of the same online group for years. We meet up some times, they have (or have had girlfriends) and romantic interest only came towards me once form one guy when he was on the rebound from being cheated on. Politely turned him down, he found a girl that was actually in his country and he's happy so it worked out.
Having similar hobbies can work out too well, though. Since inevitably talking about shared interests a lot will inevitably give that ONE GUY the impression that you're attracted to him. It's always just that one guy in whatever group it is, be it online or real life. Though people you meet at parties are pretty much exclusively for sex so if you've met a guy at a party, hung out with him and didn't expect it to lead to a sexual relationship, I don't know why you'd go to parties in the first place.
>>71963598
I guess he meant bonding
>>71947124
Wanting to fuck the other person doesn't mean you're not friends. My girlfriend is my friend.
>>71949664
>or they use her as a tool to impress other women.
That is literally me.
I have a gf of 8 years. There is a reason she is still around. Women complain about all men think about is sex, but all that motivates women is female jealousy.
>>71963423
You know this spring thing... god damnit she has been on my mind as hell even before this..
I can't say shit here obviously for anon sake.
But she did something really bad, or it is true what she is saying. Cops love to do this here, d/q lie as jews never say shit here. Even academics they do this too... Man I can't get her, also others out of my head... going fucking nuts
need to at least call her again... god damn you woman. My brain is not sure if shit you say is true, my heart and well other head believes you.
>shoot me
>>71963598
>bondage
>make a bond
kek well that was the stonest typo in some time me thinks... *bond*
hehe was funny þó
>>71963698
You should mount her once because of all the times she listened to your shit. Fat girls dont get a lot of love.
>>71948157
You have just conveyed a thought process I never had words for.
It's almost a game at a certain point.
are we the only ones affected by this spring shit up here? I mean this shit goes deep, it's primal.
>think of women all the time(more than usual yes)
>women from ages ago pop up in head
>fuck even from highschool
>and I'm still in my 30ies
>the ones you missed
>the ones you declined
>the ones you desired
>the ones that got take away from you
>even shit on tv as a teenager
fuck me.. I'm like a teenager atm
þó pick related on top of it, strongest testo eth (very strong testo derivate)
shit going lit crazy horny
>>71947124
She likes someone in the group
