About to turn 30.
I feel like life is taking a complete different turn. Friends are getting married/becoming unhappy with their nagging girlfriends, some are falling into alcohol, some are going into the deadend of SJW progressive thinking (and dating feminists, ouch), some are doing well, some aren't..
I feel like my options are still very open, but I sometimes wonder what's the fucking endgoal of all of this. What's the point of raising a family if WW3 is around the corner, or just a global collapse anyways. Everyone sees it coming.
Old fags of /pol/, what advices you have for 30yrs old who have their eyes wide open when it comes to the world (the true state of politics and power, the true nature of females etc)?
Need guidance because /pol/ is always right and politically correct advices are what's making the world a shit place.
>>70814722
>raising a family
More like you need advice from youngfags that that shit isnt happening/ isnt a good idea, period
Travel the world
>Taiwan
I dont think this board will be able to give you much perspective given the culture difference
>>70814722
I can't speak for weird asian places, I've never even been to BC. But I turned 30 last year, and I've lived the last decade of my life with a simple goal.
Fuck it, I'll just do what I want.
It's worked so far. My parents gave up trying to convince me to have a "normal" life, they are "happy" that at least I have a job and live on my own and always go home for the holidays.
buy a dog?
not for eating though
>>70814952
I'm on a trip here. I'm an original eurofag
i'm 29.
i expect a future full of drugs and virtual reality.
i'll force artificial happiness into my life. 'cause natural happiness will never come from having a wife, kids, and fulfilling career.
>>70815005
Ok then move away from the West and stay in South East Asia. Knock up a cute Asian Girl and built a happy family.
The West is done and despite /pol/ delusions the real battles wont start for another 10 years. Is worth staying bitter and unhappy to fight a battle that you will most likely lose? Life is too short and previous to waste
>inb4 hurr durr german supporting racemixing le cuck may may
>>70814722
What advice do we have for you?
Dude, there's nothing going on to give you advice on. You took the redpill. You seem pretty calm so I guess the redpill rage has subsided.
Answer me this: do you want children? Do you want to have a woman in your life?
Just end it goy
>>70814722
I don't know that much, I'm not a smart man, but I've experienced alot of things in my life. I've had a girlfriend that had to go to the mental hospital, I've seen death in the eye loads of times, so I've had time to think about what is the best life for me to live. I had to get lots of money, so I did working my ass off in the worst shitholes in the world. The pay was great, so I went where the money was all the time. I ended up buying houses and I'm currently renting them out, and I live like a king. I don't have to do anything for the rest of my life if I don't want to. Now, I can do what I want basically, I have plans to buy a catamaran and go for a trip to Australia, Netherlands and maybe America. Maybe go to Colombia and buy a ton of coke and travel back to europe and sell it. Who knows. Find a way out of the 9 to 5 life and then figure out what you want the most. I just wanted freedom and peace. I kind of found it risking my life.
>>70815134
That's kinda the question I'm asking myself at the moment.
I'm seeing a cute and feminine asian girl here. She's into me, and really easy to deal with, as in she's really feminine and submit to me naturally.
I'm thinking..why the fuck should I go back to Europe and see my country getting fucked/deal with bitchy women?
But then again sometimes I feel like a cowards escaping this.
>>70815155
Yes I want children. Woman, I guess yeah but I'm OK being by myself as well.
Pas trop le bordel en France en ce moment?
>>70815202
What jobs did you do to get that money?
>>70814722
Just end your miserable fucking life senfam
There's nothing to be found here but despair.
>>70814722
31 here.
Went through all the things your friends are doing:
- married to nagging bitch
- kids
- divorce
- SJW girlfriend
Finally got free of all that shit and now I'm dating red-pilled STEM qt3.14.
I don't fall back into being the cuck of the relationship because I have a primary love: my career.
Most important thing you can do for happiness is find a career you enjoy and get passionate about it. You'll make money and have stability. That makes you independent and virtually indestructible when immature bitches bring their domineering shit your way.
Once you have a career you're passionate about, do something amazing with your life. Invent something cool. Cure cancer. etc. It'll give you purpose.
Everything else is total cuck bullshit. Ignore "travel the world" memesters.
>mfw fuck bitches, get money is actually the key to happiness...
40 something, married for nearly 20 yrs, couple of kids here.
>Stop whinging like a fucking 20 year old!
>Grow the fuck up, get a haircut, get a real job and get the fuck off here m8.
>tfw I just come here to laugh at all the disillusioned manchildren.
>>70815035
this desu senpai
I'm in my lower 30, but I don't think I can give much sound advice as I don't think I'm the usual 30 year old in society (not to sound completely snowflakey) as I dont have a career goal/dream ir a prime example of what to strive for. I can say looking at the degenerates in my age group has given me caution into what to avoid.
I do feel more like a minority in opinions as most of my old high school contacts have swollowed the progressive pill and see nothing but Bernie propaganda.
33 yo here. Given up on the "dream" of a family and kids. The advantage is 30+ girls are rediclously easy to fuck due to their biological clocks screaming at them. The disadvantage is a lifetime of entitlement has turned them into intolerable cunts who think they're still as valuable as a supple 20 y/o.
I spend my time working out, "dating" 5 girls who think I'm ready to settle down and doing whatever the fuck I want.
There is next to no competition in this age bracket, as long as you keep yourself fit you're above 90% of the guys your age who've become fat and sad from failed marriages and stress.
>>70815528
>tfw I just come here to laugh at all the disillusioned manchildren.
Christ, the denial is real.
>>70814722
Also Eurofag, most of your friends are settling into a comfy life where they will do the same thing day in day out. Some are happy with it and some aren't hence the alcohol.
The truth is you don't have to do any of that. It starts with figuring out what you want and how much effort you are willing to put in to get that.
There is little point in raising a family but if you find a girl who makes you feel like a man and have kids I have heard that it gives your life a lot of purpose by some of my friends who became dads. However you will never be able to do spontaneous things anymore, it'll become planning everything around the children. There is a very high chance that you will divorce, so be sure to have a solid marriage contract or prenup.
If that is not your thing, find out what it is, and go do that. Learn not to give a shit about other peoples opinion.
Lastly, Europe at this point is a sad place to live in, it's like the apocalypse is waiting to happen and we are all looking at it while shrugging our shoulders. I will try to teach my kids to defend themselves and that they can be proud of what their heritage means. I prefer to stay where my roots are but I think moving out of here is a valid option as well, I don't see the politics getting much better.
>>70815321
>But then again sometimes I feel like a cowards escaping this.
You cant win a battle when you are already a stranger in your own country. Retreat IS a strategy
White women have been set against white men in every aspect and by the time a few of them might escape that programming they are damaged goods in their 30s.
White countries government are completely set against their natives supporting foreigners where they expect you to jump in the hamster wheel and keep the system going or else they brand you as "racist".
The battle for Europe will come but its at least a decade away and given the state of modern propaganda even then its unclear how many whites will stand up for their Country because by then we have to deal with a grown Gen Z who will be even more fucked than millenials.
If you got a light skinned asian cutie then stay with her and built a family far away from the western degeneracy
35 year old here.
My life is numb. I should have left on a high. Now I'll leave this world on a low.
Goodbye cruel world
>>70815321
(same Frenchbro, moved to computer)
Honestly, I wouldn't call you a coward for moving somewhere where it suits you better. But the grass is always greener, you know? Women are women. Shit government is shit government. There isn't a "safe haven" for anyone nowadays. I don't know about divorce laws in Asia, or almost any law for that matter, so be thorough with your reading if you're planning on staying.
If you want children but no woman, think about surrogacy (which I would recommend over a bitchy wife, but not over an average one).
And about France, it's shit nowadays, and it's been for many years. Soon we'll get more attacks, more tensions with our Muslims, more P.C. culture in the media. But the good parts are still very good. Paris is not entirely a shithole, and thank goodness for that.
>>70815483
why does this thick necked small headed bitch get a pass just because shes related to Trump
what a disaster
get addicted to cocaine now, never quit, never regret
so if 40 ever actually hits taking that final plunge to the sweet hereafter will be done with no effort or worry
>>70815586
>Christ, the denial is real.
>>70815483
I think you're right. The reason I'm asking myself all those question is that I lost all motivation to work on the business I've had for the past 5 years. It's still making me money but it's not exciting for me anymore. I'm probably just being a pussy at the moment.
When I don't work hard, my mind wanders, I end up on /pol/ and ask existential question. Which is a good thing, many friends don't take the time to wander around in dark internet places and end up being goog goys blue pills with feminist girlfriends. So I'm not complaining.
>>70815556
I keep myself fit, I work out, do intermittent fasting. Never been in such a great shape, on my way to a nice 6 packs, can't complain. And yes I know what you mean, I now have to shut down girls. It's funny but I feel bad for them somehow, just kidding I don't.
Turning 29 in 2 weeks. Ruined my last LTR and fell into depression since then. No women in my life, probably not going to get my degree, no job prospects, still relying on my mothers financial support. I really don't have much to live for anymore, I just don't know how I'm gonna support myself in the future and my chances of ever having a family are really slim, too. I fucked up too much in the past to recover from this. Might just want to off myself, although I do enjoy life as it is right now..
>>70814722
My fellow countryman >>70815556 knows the truth. I'm 27 and have a lot of older male friends who share the same sentiment. If you're fit and employed you are a literal God in your 30's. I've often heard my friends say 28-40 (and beyond if you're strict with your health) is the golden period for men, the tables turn and turn violently at 30.
>be in Taiwan
>shitpost on /pol/ instead of destroying some cute xi zen mei
>>70815528
Now THIS is shitposting.
>>70815379
Prostitution
>>70814722
>the true nature of females
I got this for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw&nohtml5=False
>>70815035
>i'll force artificial happiness into my life.
Same here, but I do it by having a waifu as partner.
>>70815679
I've lived around Paris for most of my life and I can't really picture myself living there anymore. The mix of bobo fags, SJW feminists (not as bad as the US but it's getting there), career strong independent women, and lascars is quite bad.
My fear is that if I marry an Asian girl and divorce later, I won't even be able to see my kids anymore. It's fun to live in a foreign country, but when you're FORCED to do so..it becomes less nice.
>>70815781
>lost all motivation
That's an area you need to look at then
>regarding women
I think you might need to sit down and think what it is you respect, or what would make you respect a woman. A lot of guys start out thinking that what makes a girl great for them is only physical attraction. That's part of the deal of course but it never works only with that, respect is paramount. Seeing as you are redpilled characteristics should be something like someone rather reserved, feminine, that allows you to take the lead / traditional, takes care of herself or in any case values herself enough not to need constant validation, likes kids, good work ethics. If you want to have children you need to know with whom, tbf having kids is a lot of work and it is better if there is a second adult doing it with you rather than having a kid from a surrogate as one poster suggested.
>>70815982
I've seen that video already. I've read Sex and Character by Otto Weininger, so this video was like someone explaining to me that 1+1=2.
>>70816055
you are already on the nice part of the world.
It's evening, go to some night market and try the fried squids. They are delicious.
Find yourself a Taiwanese girl to settle with. I've done the same.
You are already on the nice part of the world. I for my part, will definitely move to Taiwan once my self-employment is stable enough to maintain two residences.
>>70816001
Honestly, I've developped a taste for Art and Architecture very late in my life, and it is a delight to have Paris near me and easy to visit. But I agree about the people in Paris: the stereotype is a reality in 90% of cases.
Divorce and separation after having children is always a problem for men. Asian or not, you most likely won't get the children to live with you, and will become a secondary parental figure to her new Cuck. And your offsprings will end up being Nu-males and girls with daddy issues.
Don't expect foreign women to be any different from western women. They're just not as enabled yet.
>>70816162
I love the squids.
Taiwan is quite a great place. But it's quite far..not seeing my family, my nephews, my friends...
I'm convinced I can find a decent french girl that I can redpill and have local children with. Although taiwanese girls are extremely charming I do agree.
>>70814722
I'm less than 2 months away.
I am happily married, but I've seen friends pull similar shit (while some are happily married and practice moderation). I've burned bridges with all SJW's.
The endgoal today is the same as the endgoal you had 10 years ago. Carve out some happiness.
>>70814930
This, traveling is great.
Traveling alone is a fucking redpilling experience.
>>70816247
I agree the architecture and history is unbeatable.
If you divorce a french girl you can still see your children regularly, just imagine divorcing a girl who will go back to Asia..sounds pretty risky.
And yes, I know the all females share the same nature and one has to maintain frame all the fucking time.
>>70815483
>Divorcing your nagging bitch wife after having kids with her.
Don't be this guy, OP. Second you have kids, the next 18 years of your life don't belong to you. He knowingly put his kids in a very dangerous place due to his own selfish desires.
Remember that.
>>70814722
go travelling
>>70816261
>find a decent French girl
Good luck with that, no idea where they hide.
I have had some luck myself with Flemish girls by hanging around rallies of our more "right" parties.
However if a woman likes you she more often than not will adapt her views to fit yours more. If she is semi-redpilled it's usually worth trying.
>>70816396
Currently doing that.
It's nice but doesn't fix anything, for those wondering.
As a matter or fact, its almost cliché how many travelers you meet in South East Asia who are there to "find themselves". i always cringed when I heard that. I don't take travel as a way to find myself at all.
>>70814722
About to turn 30 too. No WWIII coming, so don't hold your breath for it. Just stack up chips until you have enough to start a family, then start a family. Take your time, better to take an extra decade to chose carefully, unlike women men stay fresh, you just need to keep up your status/age ratio up as you go along.
>>70816373
Check the laws though, here they try to keep the children as much as possible in their current environment to lessen the trauma, so if they live here, she could still get custody but she'd have to keep them in school where they usually go etc.
in the same boat as OP. about to turn 29. probably going to kill myself and write renewal on the suicide note.
>>70815321
So you already know what to do. And as for being a coward, stop thinking about yourself, think of your many descendants, do you want them to be raised among hateful shitskins who will treat them like shit for being white, or do you want them to live in a reasonably healthy environment?
>>70816529
Take your with an extra decade...sounds quite what I should do. Stressing out is the best way to make bad decisions.
I can't even imagine how girls turning 30 must be going through. The panick effect must be quite strong.
>>70814722
Just don't give a fuck really. Stay in decent shape, treat people the way you'd want to be treated, do what you want to do, as long as it's constructive/building towards something.
Don't be some weeaboo that spends all his spare time playing vidya and masturbating to hentai tentacle porn. In fact, scrap the porn altogether.
Get out of debt, and bank some money. You'll already be far ahead of most people that rushed into marriage and have now become mortgage-broke.
Pick up some good hobbies. Especially creative shit. Stuff like guitar/singing/painting. Other things like creating small electronics that do cool shit is also good. Stuff that's engaging, that other people can get something out of.
>>70815202
since you love hedonism, you will constantly fight your boredom. protip: you do not win over boredom through more hedonism.
>>70814722
You cant change the world, you cant prevent the war or win it. Don't waste time or energy trying.
Just find something you love doing and make a decent living from it. Find a woman who has morals, loves sucking your dick and isn't a nagging bitch. Try and be a great person so that other people are better off after they have been around you. Don't be a douchebag. The race is long, and in the end its only with yourself.
Raise a family and enjoy every moment. Its over before you know it.
>>70815556
>>
>I spend my time working out, "dating" 5 girls who think I'm ready to settle down and doing whatever the fuck I want.
>
>There is next to no competition in this age bracket, as long as you keep yourself fit you're above 90% of the guys your age who've become fat and sad from failed marriages and stress.
providing a few women with sex does not make a life though.
>>70816811
I don't play videogames and i'm a nofap/noporn.
I'm just struggling on my business I guess, the rest seems fine when I think about it.
On a side note, where else can you find this kind of advice? there's no male only places where our ancestors would collect this kind of thoughts. I'm grateful that this animeboard exists, it's the last place on earth where you would expect wisdom, and yet that's the only place where you can get it. If you can filter it through all the insanity.
>>70817019
Also see:
https://youtu.be/X9HBtB2w0Ts
Its great advice for anyone regardless of race.
>>70817104
Didn't watch it yet, but to be honest I don't care much about race as much as I care about culture/philosophy.
Which is why I'm not 100% confortable with marrying an Asia woman, because I want to perpetuate the hellenistic and Christian heritage more than the 'race'.
>>70814722
>Everyone sees it coming.
Since when has the populace ever been right about anything?
>>70814722
I can tell you to stop worrying about SHTF/TEOTWAWKI/RAHOWA. All you can do is be ready. Have a rifle, pistol and a few thousand rounds of ammo, a rig for your mags, camping supplies and maybe even body armor. At any point in history I would give men the same advice: be proficient in the weapons of your time, and stay ready.
But that's not the primary purpose of life, to wait for war yet not even be in the business of war. You want to maximise your happiness (that doesn't mean degenerate shit, starting a family or helping others can be enjoyable). You need to ask yourself right now, what would make you happy. Set a goal and make moves to reach it. You never want to feel like you're at a dead end. If you had a family by now and a career you enjoy, you wouldn't be worried because you'd be happy just staying stagnant, doing what you enjoy and watching your family grow. You're at that age where women want to settle down, so if that's something you've considered go for it. Do your duty of expanding the white race while you're at it. Don't worry, if SHTF you'll still get to kill niggers and you'll have many sons to help you if you're too old to by yourself.
I'm assuming you feel this way because you feel stagnant, like you're not moving forward. You would be happy being stagnant if you felt successful and there would be no reason for this thread. Becoming better at your hobbies won't make you feel successful, it's just going to keep you in this state of perpetual manchildness and feelings of stagnantion. The only things older people are hardwired to enjoy is family life.
>>70817019
>where else can you find this kind of advice?
Good question. A lot of the stuff out there these days is pure bullshit.
I don't really check many sites these days, but I occasionally go back to this one. There are some gems in there if you're willing to dig through the archives.
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/
>>70816704
By the way I'm French too, and I've lived in many countries in Europe, probably gonna settle in Poland. Find your country, stay in one for a few months/up to 2 years then decide what to do next.
And it used to be that women could make it their full time preoccupation to find a man, so they would get it done quicker. Now they got jewed into trying to be like a man in every way. Mark Jewckerberg is even having them freeze their eggs so they can devote their prime years to making shekels for him instead of starting a family as they should. The redpill about all that stuff is you need to get a woman below 27 (24 or less is preferable) and make enough money to provide for both so it works the natural way. People these days wonder why women have little respect for their man, there's no secret, it's because they make just as much money!
So find your country, have enough money for two (both can go hand in hand, I'm much richer in Poland for instance) and find a young woman who doesn't insist on working full time.
>>70814722
Ur a faget op. Just leave. Go somewhere with good weather and leave your familu and friends behind. Get an enjoyable job and fuck chicks who dont know where you come from. Read books. Fucking do a hard reset m8. Never fails.
>>70817364
Why Poland? I've heard Conversano talking about this country as well. I imagine this place being now filled with douchebag "natios" and PUAs who are now hanging out there. How accurate am I?
>>70815321
>Yes I want children. Woman, I guess yeah but I'm OK being by myself as well.
Wrong attitude make HAPA children with woman. Make money in Taiwan or wherever the fuck you are then make enough money to come to Murica.
Well I'm 26 so I'm not nearly as old as you old farts. I've got terminal cancer though and not long to live. I'll die without a woman to love, although I have had sex more with more women than most men on here. I've only truly loved one woman, and she reminded me why women are selfish, rotten and evil. I truly cannot get over it. I'm at peace with the thought of dying, but I still get bothered by dreams of her almost nightly. I want satisfaction that will never come.
>>70815696
You have dogshit opinions on women if you think she is ugly.
>>70814722
>30 years old
>Asking for guidance on /pol/
If you really think you're going to get help from a bunch of neo-Nazi kids who regurgitate recycled memes and have the critical thinking skills of SJWs, then you're probably better off killing yourself and not polluting the gene pool.
>>70817911
And yet you're here
>>70816903
Not providing women with sex, just scratching the itch when the need arises.
>>70817482
Not really, it's just filled with regular Polish people. Most of the few foreigners are Erasmus students or IT workers. So it's quite good really.
For me it's very cheap, I used to live in Berlin and the few friends I had were either Polish or slavic, and all redpilled (everybody's redpilled in Poland, pretty much, even young women, they drop things that Le Pen wouldn't dare saying in private), and I got tired of living among shitskins and muzzies in general.
But that's what's working for me, I've got the Internet bucks plus I have no trouble with Polish pronunciation. For you something else might work better.
>>70818444
Yeah I'm not so much attracted to eastern Europe. When it comes to women I'm much more attracted to south America or middle east (think Lebanese or persian girls, not algeria).
But I've heard it's cheap to live in Poland. I should just visit for a while. You get your income from online?
>>70818554
Yep I do, all through PayPal, so where I live changes nothing.
I can recommend you against moving to Lebanon, I went there twice, it's nice to visit but not nice to stay, not to mention that they're buried under mountains of trash. As for Lebanese women you have a shitton of lesbians (most lesbian country in the world that I know of) and therefore lots of SJWness, on the other hand you have a few very redpilled Christians.
South America is filled with socialists, no matter how conservative/catholic they are their mind is still polluted with Marxism. If I was you I'd consider Taiwan more if that's your thing.
>>70818757
Thanks for those feedbacks.
Those redpill christian middle eastern girls would be my ideal. I met a girl in university who was a christian Syrian (about 8 years ago), she was hot as fuck, and very redpill, at the time I wasn't. I was funny when she was telling me to be careful of Sarkozy because he's a jew haha. I made out with her so many times but never got to fuck her as she didn't want to before marriage.
>>70818891
Yeah I guess they're good. The good thing is if you go to Lebanon you'll have many who want to marry you, even just to get out of the country, but also because they think Arab men are so shit that the only solution is either becoming a lesbian or waiting for European guys. Also Arabs aren't very tall so if you're not a manlet they notice you easily.
>>70814722
liquidate urban assets if necessary, buy a chunk of land and enjoy a peaceful rural life, you'll be less dependent on shekels
get into high-gain crops or livestock but don't get all-in, small steps first then grow naturally
if your rural areas are any similar to the rest of developed world, you'll be welcomed and helped, good simple hardworking people are best people, find a wife in the local community, best done through the parents
>>70815379
I worked in the coal mines in Svalbard.
>>70815005
TAIWAN NUMBER 1
Nothing will change moron.
If you think you will lose something you will learn it wasnt really worth keeping anyways and if you think you missed something you will realize you didnt need it.
>>70816839
I constantly have fun. I don't know what I can say, but I don't want children, and I don't really want a girlfriend after all the shit I've witnessed mentally ill girls can do. I just like freedom and silence. I have have lived in roars made by the biggest machines men have made that cut rocks and coal out of the mountains, and I've heard layers of rock collapsing on top of my head 450 meters underground. I've constantly live with explosions and brutal machine sounds all year, so when I come home, I just want silence.
When can I expect global collapse? Already have plenty stockpiled and bunkers ready to go. I need to know so I can plan ahead.
>>70814722
If you're unhappy with your current job/situation now would be the time to press reset on your life and start your 20s again, with more wisdom this time around.
I would celebrate the fact you made it past 27 then kill yourself
>>70815556
Do you still have a full head of hair senpai?
>>70820116
>When can I expect global collapse?
December 2007
You're already in the global collapse my friend, it's just taking its time unfolding at different rates in different places.
>>70814722
>30
>still spouting retarded kikememes from the internet like women are evil
>political corrected is triggering me reeeee
you lost at the game of life kill yourself
>>70814984
>Fuck it, I'll just do what I want.
^ that is the secret to " happiness".
The state of contentment is not something you "find".
It is something that finds you.
>>70815202
Nah, no don't come here. We don't want you bro. Stay away.
>>70814722
>>70815035
I am happy with vr without drugs too, and its not fake happines
He looks so happy.
>>70814722
Well, I'm 41, a successful business owner, getting ready to buy an overseas retreat, own a large apartment in our capital city worth 2M, and have no real worries. Unmarried and no divorce behind me either, no debts or health worries.
UK is going to hell now, so eventually I plan to permanently relocate abroad. Meanwhile I am milking my country for shekels. I dont date British girls since about 2002 since they are disgusting for the most part.
>>70814722
I'm turning 30 soon, i have no advice for you really but i'm guess you feel the same in that it's getting strange to see your peers in that state where they're getting so much older and you stay basically the same. but then again i've lived a pretty secluded slow existence lol.
>>70817019
>If you can filter it through all the insanity.
Good luck with that m8.
30 this year as well. don't fuckin care.
i'm single, good job, my own place, my own car, can do whatever i want. life is too short to spend it messing around with the "one". that shit is for women. that's all they ever want or think about. they can't be alone.
