How did BDSM gain such popularity? Why have these types of relationships increased?
>>70786535
It's the natural state of things.
Girls like to be dominated, BDSM is a natural extension of that. Not politics.
Effeminate emasculated men has caused women to chase abusive psychopaths.
>>70786710
Social conservatism/liberalism has very much to do with politics.
>>70786695
How are the barbaric practices in this community 'natural?'
It's fun and normal sex doesn't quite cut it for everyone anymore
If you don't abuse your wife you aren't a real man. You are beta as fuck.
>>70786535
It really hasn't. Just the societal definition of it has changed. It's like when you're watching porn and something completely disgusting turns you on, but it doesn't work out in the bedroom. That's what's happening to women these days. Most girls that think they're into it just want slightly rougher than normal sex.The bondage fetish may be gaining attention, but legitimately masochistic women are still a rarity.
>>70787347
A thousand times this.
Women have no fucking clue what they want.
Which is why we as men must ignore them and focus on what WE want.
If you live your life for anybody else but you, you're gonna have a bad time.
>>70787347
Nearly every girl I've fucked said they were into BDSM, but the moment I break out the gag ball and anal beads they say "Nooo I meant gentle spanking and dirty talk"
>>70786849
>barbaric practices
Like what? Women are made to be owned and used by a strong man. It's what she wants and needs.
>>70788162
>anal beeds
Some women are dom though. Not all bdsm is m on f, it can be f on m too.
BDSM has been practiced for a long time, OP, and is arguably the most popular fetish shared between men and women. People are more open about it now, thanks to sites like Fetlife.
>>70790121
you say that, but do you have any idea how hard it is finding a woman willing to shit in your mouth?
>>70790121
This is also true.
It's also fun.
bdsm is pretty natural. when i was 15 just putting it inside a chick would almost make me cum. the more you fuck the more the sex needs to change. if you are an aggressive person, the sex will get more aggressive. if you are a beta cuck, then, naturally, you will become a beta cuck.
>>70790513
you type like you're stupid
>>70788162
kek this so much. just like every girl says they're into noise but as soon as i break out the merzbow they're like "oh no i meant bjork and panda bear".
women are such cunts
Girl I'm dating now likes it rough, though we haven't gotten to doing anything elaborate. Neither of us come out without some marks. It wouldn't be as much fun if she didn't put up at least a little resistance when we fuck. I got some looks at the gym last weekend though; my sides and arms looked like I got mauled.
>>70790564
SICK BURN M8!
>>70786535
Got friends who do the BDSM shit.
It's shit.
Apparently if you're a dom, getting a submissive is dogshit, because they are universally lazy people who want you to satisfy them and do everything for them, in THEIR SPECIFIC WAY WITHOUT THEM COMMUNICATING, or else.
And there is nothing but thirsty cuck doms, too.
So basically, like regular dating, except that the girls are honest about looking for alpha fux/beta bux
>>70790907
From personal experience, I concur.
>>70790907
Can confirm on this. Submissive means lazy and demanding too often. Finding a sub that can communicate with you is like finding a loo in india. Theyre out there, they just arnt well advertised and usually youll need to make it yourself.
>>70786695
>>70786710
But I'm a big /fit/ testosterone filled guy and want the opposite.
>>70786695
OP wasn't talking about general male dominance and female submission. he's talking about the system of bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism,and masochism- rope bondage, pet play, piss play stuff like that.
I think it has something to do with increasing hedonism in society. Nothing to peg
>heh
or tether people to traditions, work, communities and families anymore.
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>>70790624
Also these.
>>70792737
Also, people are experiencing such sensory overload that nothing fazes them anymore.
>t. Guy who enjoys getting plowed with strapons, sounded, and pissed on.
