So go to /soc/ and whatnot and you will find that on average the people who post here are fairly attractive. So why is this place largely made up of single people?
>be me, 25
>have money, great car, great job
>not even thinking about marriage
What the fuck is the problem? What is your excuse? I have none.
>>69872467
>on average the people who post here are fairly attractive
Yeah, no.
>>69872642
Especially /pol/ because its mostly white guys. White guys get first pick for girls of any nationality. Its mind blowing that i can literally marry tomorrow if i want to.
Life is more enjoyable living alone. I don't spend a lot of money, can fart whenever I want, and don't have to work as long to support others.
>>69872467
I'm too lazy to move my ass and to actually waste energy on trying to get a girlfriend.
My excuse? I don't want to and I don't need to.
I've been with my gf for 6 years. We're still young. I see no incentive to getting married.
You deluded faggots
If posters on /pol/ had actual social life, noone would be here.
There is no hope left, gonna die alone
Together 11 years married for 4.
>>69872467
marriage is a meme.
>>69873171
meh everyone dies alone anyway
>>69873335
everything is a meme
>>69873108
Been with her for 6 years and did not marry = just do not marry her.
>>69873429
Hardest red pilled to swallow literally cried for 10 minutes just thinking about life if my parents died right now id b alone pretty much and it hurt because I also wouldnt want to bring kids into such a shitty world where they can suffer all kinds of evils. IDK if im maturing,going crazy or just being a faggot. 26 going on 27
I've been with my gf for 8 years and there's really no point than to waste money, if I was an American I'd rather fake my own death than get married and risk a coin flip of being cucked by alimony though.
>>69873713
Called quarter life crisis.
Anyway, I'd love to get married but I'm just trying to get my shit together. I'd hate to marry the wrong girl, but I had a poor upbringing and I want to make some money before marrying anyone, if ever.
>>69872467
The current rules for marriage as well as the culture of instant gratification make it a bad idea for men. Which is a shame because stable solid marriages produce children with much less rates of crime/drug use/highschool drop out etc. There needs to be serious negative consequences for people that violate their marriage vows if men are to start getting married again.
>>69873066
It's your job, man. You need to contribute to society and have kids if you have any respect for your people, country and culture.
Never had girlfriend.
>>69873821
I don't have a responsibility to anyone other than myself. Fuck off.
>>69872467
I'll join the US military in 1.5 years, don't want a woman who loves or loved me to weep at my grave if I die.
>>69873713
you'll be all good anon. You're young af so you have a lot of time to figure out what you want and to not be alone if you don't want to be
>>69873821
>It's your job, man. You need to contribute to society and have kids if you have any respect for your people, country and culture.
What if our people, country and culture don't have respect for our people, country and culture?
>>69872467
Because I'm routinely rated 2/10. I'm ugly as fuck. That means I'll never get to have a family.
>>69873956
Think about it this way: If literally everyone thought like you, there would be no one else on the planet in the next 100 years. I get that not everyone needs to have kids, but denying that it's important as a society to keep producing offspring is fucking retarded.
>>69872467
But I am burgerbro. 8 years, one kid, plans for more. Why aren't you?
>>69873713
Don't worry Paco, that wall is gonna solve all my problems and fuck you over
Have fun dying of beheading at 28, beanerfag
>>69874150
marry a 2/10 girl
>>69872467
i am married
>>69874077
Then we're fucked. I think that unless something changes soon, most everyone is going to have no respect for the people, country and culture. Our cultures needs to become even slightly more nationalistic, in my opinion, to maintain the country.
>>69872932
you cant fart in front of your wife in america? how cucked are you faggots
I'm not attractive at all. I have no teeth (seriously, they're all pulled and I can't wear my dentures until I get a surgery completed and have a new set made)
I'm married though.
But she's a tub of lard, and she's really stupid.
So I think about suicide a lot.
>>69874272
How is it going to solve your biggest problem?
>>69873713
I'm your same age and going through the same thing. We are approaching 30 and we're scared. I think that's what it is.
>>69874296
Why would they marry a 2/10 guy when they could just marry a 6/10 that wants them or a nigger?
20% of guys never have kids and I belong to that statistic.
>>69874174
I do not want to be a doctor. If everyone thought like me, there would be no doctors in the world, and everyone will die. This argument is dumb.
>>69872467
My father is violent drunkard who abused my family. I'm terrified that i could be just like him.
Because Big Daddy Government will always take the side of the woman if things go sour.
Too risky of a bet to take, so no thanks.
>>69874411
Get drunk and find out
>>69872467
I'm 41, a millionaire, successful in business, want for pretty much nothing (I admit my tastes are not really that extravagant), I've travelled much of the world in 5-star luxury, tours, helicopters, experiences, have good health, a handful of long term relationships, and am trading in my old Mercedes for a new AMG soon.
British girls are shit tier.
>>69872800
>White guys get first pick for girls of any nationality
That's only true if you are a 10/10 white Chad Thundercock. Women do not abandon their hypergamy purely due to skin color alone.
>>69874402
You just proved my point: if society nailed it into our brains as intensely as possible that being a doctor is bad, or doctors didn't get payed and there was no reason to be one, no one would be a doctor. Our culture needs to start being more positive about having kids because as it stands now, I agree that there really isn't much of an incentive to have children
>>69874352
It's gonna keep the majority of you fucking el chapo rejects out of my country.
Again, enjoy the death by vigilantes
>>69873713
25->26 here.
I feel you amigo.
I'm married to my motorbike 2bh
>>69874545
nice fantasy
>>69874561
I'm not saying that everyone should stop getting married and stop having children. I am just saying that I PERSONALLY see any reason to.
I'm ugly, 30, shy, poor, skinnyfat, and 5'8". I wouldn't want to date the kind of woman who would date me, let alone marry one.
>>69872467
I am married. I married at 20.
>>69874350
Get a fucking hobby man, get away from your wife if she's hard to look at and go to the gym. Even better, have some kids and devote your life to raising them properly if you have nothing else to live for.
>>69872467
I got married at 26. Was really lucky, though, because we have extremely similar personalities and, beyond that, thought patterns. And she was raised by a software programmer heavily involved with one of the biggest name American video game franchises, so double lucky because I got an actual nerd princess to match my gross nerdyness.
tl;dr: You're probably better off alone, don't waste your time and happiness on somebody who isn't fully compatible.
>>69872467
>3 time drop out
>live with mom
>had alcohol problem
>only get part time job
>still obsessed with the only girl I've ever loved that left me for a better man
>have become nocturnal and even more withdrawn than usual since she left me
My life is not going so good
>>69872467
I don't want a 50% chance of losing half of my assets if we end up getting divorced.
>>69874787
>we have extremely similar personalities and, beyond that, thought patterns
sounds boring af
Because i'm a 25yo touchless virgin
I'm not even that ugly or deformed, just lazy and all the good girls are already taken so why bother?
>>69874610
Too easy.
>be me, 27
>have no money, got car, no job
>I threw my life away
Night and day I pipe away
Left my family feeling some type of way
The powder's grey, my eyes are grey, the skies are grey
>>69874931
take a photo of your current merc
>>69874889
>not realizing the glory of flawless communication.
It's the only way to deal with women.
>>69874956
Change your life then buddy.
>>69872467
Western women are sluts and whores. I've never seen any women in real life that are marriage material. It's that simple. Of course, all the blame ALWAYS get put on men in these types of Internet conversations, but it's about fucking time western society started taking a good look at women and what they do. Women have ruined everything.
25 years old, just going to be hoovered up by the sex industry at this point. Maybe I can marry a 35 year old Thai bargirl if I'm lucky.
25 years
Unemployed (In fact I've never worked)
Never had a girlfriend
Living the dream
>>69874889
>a lack of drama is boring
*bogan alarm goes off*
>>69875069
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aTLXLhhavQ
>>69874931
nice pen.
>>69875137
strawman
>>69874931
How do you become successful?
Were you a trust fund baby?
>>69875189
they're his dads car keys
I just don't want to. I don't care about women's bad attitudes, the crazy legal system, divorce, or any of that stuff other guys mention.
I'm not on strike. If you fixed the system and made it totally safe and fair for men to get married, I still wouldn't.
Again I just don't want to. I'm a solitary person, I prefer my life the way it is. That is just the way I am, I don't need an excuse or justification, marriage just isn't for me.
>>69875179
Replied because you know it's true and calling stable relationships "boring" is what r-selected people do and then wonder why they always argue with their partner.
>>69875189
desu I'm a trusty and it makes marriage doubly great because she can't take any part of my millions if we get divorced. Not going to happen but it's psychologically satisfying.
ugly + short + weird interests
will die alone
hoping for the happening that eradicates us all though
>>69873713
Don't worry anon, we all gonna make it.
>>69872467
I can't speak for everyone here, but I have gf. We're waiting until she gets her teaching degree to get married
I'm 29 and I don't even want a gf.
I'd like to have someone in my life, to love and be loved, but I wouldn't want to live with her. I need to be alone most of the time.
I think I might be schizoid
>>69875291
dumb cunt
>>69875313
I envy trusties...
It should've been me.
>>69875291
Haha, my shamrock nigger. You're conversing with an Australian.
>>69875139
I do not have anywhere near the determination that guy has. I only hate women casually so I don't get in trouble. I do not hate women or hate life enough to even make videos about it.
Still, I wonder why for so many years now the discourse on this topic has been so toxic and so in favor of women. If they want "equal rights", why is it taboo to criticize them? I don't get it.
>>69874931
I test drove Benzos for quite awhile. What've you got?
>>69875189
>Were you a trust fund baby?
I wish... if only. Then again, if I was a trust fund baby I'd probably be dumb as a dog, ignorant of business and less successful.
>How do you become successful?
Good education, used my brain, figured out where the tide was rising, and made sure my boat was parked there. Stuck with it, always took long-term gain over short-term when offered the choice.
To give you an example, out of university I took the job that had the best prospects and sounded the most interesting....but it had the lowest salary. It came good in the end.
>>69873974
>LITERALLY being under mr. Goldberg's command
>>69872467
No good women. I am 34 and I have given up. I can have a dog and live by the beach.
>>69875089
>Thai
>bar"girl"
Come on now anon, we all know you can only mean one thing when you talk about Thai "women".
>>69875675
Just getting ready to upgrade my old CLK. Still runs like new but its getting old now and I saw a new AMG C63 the other day and suddenly feel like its time.
>>69872467
Too young to commit to one woman and too irresponsible to raise a kid. Life's good.
>>69874174
Why contribute anything when there are zero repercussions when you don't?
>>69875157
Bought in an effort to improve my handwriting, which had deteriorated into hieroglyphs after so many years of typing everything.
>>69875944
We drove the '13 S, C, A and L class back in 2010. Had an AMG Roadster too, that fucker was punchy. Pricey to fix though and shit broke down on them all the time. I hope the production models fare better than the prototypes we had.
>>69872467
>What the fuck is the problem?
whats the point
>>69875711
What did you study?
I bet you look like a punk little bitch. Probably a Manley too.
I'm good looking just a bit depressed so I avoid social events where I'd meet people. Just recently had to call a budding relationship off too because she had trust issues n doesn't want me to fall in love with her when she feels she can't even trust me.
So yeah, bit fucked right now.
I also have very little wealth. No savings, no car, no property. Sucks but I've hit 26 with nothing to my name basically. Looking average doesn't get you so far as male.
>>69876490
Computer Science.
I'd class myself as a software engineer, at university I did compiler design among other things. Ended up in cyber security, encryption, etc (as it is fashionably called these days...).
>>69876739
What do you enjoy?
>>69876752
>STEM Degree
You did good.
>>69872467
Dont really have an excuse ive got a car bit of money saved up and still I have difficulity finding a decent woman. I put way too much emphasis on marriage anyway. Non of that married in front of the state sort of shit. Its gonna happen in a church
>>69872467
I went to university and understand how to undertake a risk assessment.
Marriage is not a good value proposition in the current regulatory framework.
>>69872467
Women are cunts, I'm tired of pretending otherwise and society isn't giving me any incentive to do so. I have no real desire to create the next generation of worthless cucks who will bend over backwards to help their invaders and admonish me for being backwards and archaic.
Every generation has been worse than the last for quite some time now. Let us come to an end and be forgotten in time.
>>69872467
>That image
Yiff in hell, furfag!
>>69872467
Im not single. Seven years
>>69876935
>i was programmed by the Jews to not have children
>>69872467
Anti social manlet here. Just cuck my country and life up. Will probably an hero within 5 years
>>69879185
>Will probably an hero within 5 years
I wonder for how many anons this is true. So many suicidal posts
>>69872467
My girlfriend is ugly. She makes me sandos for work, which is nice, but frankly I'm too lazy to try to find another.
>>69872467
Why would any sane man gamble half his income and assets on the whims of a modern woman?
>>69874552
Well, either that or the girl is a 4/10 and men of her own race won't take her.
>>69872467
>why arent you married yet?
/pol/ is pretty much MGTOW. Partly because Hitler was a hardcore MGTOW.
>>69873974
Women are currently wired to seek out dumb men of other races. Blame the media Jew.
>>69872467
>falling for the matrimonial Jew
>>69872467
Don't want to be jewed out of my possessions.
Don't know a girl I want to marry
>>69872467
>What the fuck is the problem?
Modern women are degenerates and use state violence to steal wealth and children from men.
It's why more and more men are now MGTOW. The notion that MGTOW are all fat neckbeard losers and not just as diverse as any other male group is lie that people tell when they want to shame MGTOW to justify their own irrational risk/loss when associating with women.
>>69872467
Because I can live perfectly content on 2k a month, and not have to put up with another person's bullshit.
I didn't get married until I was 41.
There's no rush to life
>>69872467
>married
>while studying at uni
Holy shit thank god I'm not
>invest time, emotions and resources into another person/union
>"slip up" at one time or another, become complacent because you get caught up in some other shit
>have rug pulled out from underneath your feet
>divorce-raped, shamed, emasculated and humiliated
Now why the fuck would any sane man want to put himself through that? We all know how the story goes, the modern day Western woman doesn't have an ounce of loyalty in her.
Neither you, I or your friends are "men" in the traditional sense to these women. We're entertainers and distractors. And once you the novelty of you and your entertainment factor wears off (it's just a matter of time, really), your ass will be kicked to the curb unless you strike first.
Marriage and relationships in this day and age? Fuck that. Just pump and dump.
>>69879962
once the*
>>69879962
Are you so loyal that you wouldn't take pussy if you could get it?
Do you, or any of you, have a best friend? Don't you also hang out with other friends? Who says that marriage has to mean monogamy?
Why does marriage have to mean more than " Hey, I like you, let's enjoy legal benefits and mutual friendship until we die or hate each other.
Blaming "modern day western wom(e)n is some beta shit I've come to expect from modern day Swedish "men:
I'm a sterile neet manchild
Because I am obese
>>69880665
If you don't like monogamy, that's fine, but don't try to pass off your poly ideals as the best option.
>>69872467
I'd say yes if he asked me, we've been together for 4 years. I'm in my early 20's.
He won't for some years though. Sadly comittment is a dirty word nowadays. On top of that we don't have enough money to pay for study and a wedding.
>>69880949
he is never going to ask you
>>69880906
I don't dislike monogamy, but not getting married based on the lack of morals in western women is a pretty weak excuse. I love my girlfriend, she is awesome. That being said I would cheat on her if the opportunity presented itself. Don't get me wrong I want to stay with my girlfriend, but sex is sex. If she fucked someone else I'd be ok with it. Face it, almost everyone's girlfriend/boyfriend fucked someone before they got with you. Does it matter? We are both in our 20's, expecting her to only fuck, and want to fuck me forever is a little self-centered.
I'd assume most of us were sold on the idea of getting education, being a good guy and keeping your nose clean would result in the good job, the wife and kids and the house in the burbs with the white picket fence. What really happened for most was the education put you in 50+k debt, the job pays enough to live or pay off your debt not both, the wife gave her good years away for free to other people, there is a 30% chance the kids aren't yours and shes getting the house in the likely divorce.
>>69880949
>4 years
>did not ask yet
Bad news for ya.
>>69881427
So you're fine with being a cuck? Damn.
Spare us your progressive views.
>>69881427
I get where you are coming from but, no offense, that is the most retarded shit I've ever read here.
If you don't mind that someone else fucks your girlfriend, you're a) a cuck, b) not representative at all, c) don't experience the kind of love we are talking about here.
If yours is the kind of love that is common among poly people ("I like you, let's consider us a couple and see how it goes, it's no big deal if it should break up, then we weren't meant together, I'm okay with sharing you") then we're simply not talking about the same thing. "I love my girlfriend, she is awesome but I would cheat on her the moment I could" - that's not love to most of us. We mean "I would never hurt her on purpose and even if she gets old or has an accident, I will stand by her side."
If you think marriage is about the legal benefits, we are not talking about the same thing.
If you think relationships should mean pure freedom and come with no restrictions and that everyone should just do what they want, regardless of the impact on others or society, then we're not talking about the same thing.
If you've never met a girl who gets a sick feeling just at the thought of betraying you or sleeping with someone else, then you simply lack the perspective to comment on that.
And all that is before mentioning that people here are mainly talking about the financial risks of divorce, which your genius attitude doesn't lower but actually increases.
tl;dr "well either just cheat or become poly" is so dumb a response to the complexity of love and relationships that it baffles me
Low T, zero libido, slow doctors.
>>69872467
The only woman I have ever truly loved fucked me over like a heartless cunt. I was completely locked out of love ever since and I can't trust women with my feeling either
>>69882143
Love is not that complex.
Agape = Unconditional like Allah and His children.
Philios = I enjoy being around you.
Eros = Let's fuck.
I co-own a business, have my own home cars, was engaged to my ex-fiancé for 4 years. We were finally ready to start a family, then she turned 30. Quit her job, left me and is now dating a drive through guy at the taco bell. Who has no car, lives in a group house and is addicted to vidya. Sounds sappy, but hoping she comes out of her midlife crisis shit and comes home. She's gonna get bored of his soft taco
>>69872467
I'm in university and wouldn't be able to financially support a family.
>>69872467
I am married
Most guys who tell me they aren't ready usually cite things that aren't true or aren't necessarily true.
For example, only 20% of *first* marriages end in divorce. People who remarry after a divorce, though, get divorced A LOT. So, sure - about 50% of *all* marriages end in divorce, but not that many first marriages. And there are things you can look for to really reduce the odds of divorce, too.
Just one example.
tl;dr because FUD
