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Why is Promiscuity Bad?
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Without resorting to religion. My reason is just anecdotal, but I have never met a genuinely emotionally healthy promiscuous man or woman. They tend to be toxic and completely unreliable in relationships. This also isn't just bad mouthing people who have lots of sex, but always habitual porn users. However, if you struggle with these things and are not proud of them, then there is a clear distinction between you and a proud whore.
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Sluts. No justification except that you can not (probably tell yourself theres no reason to) control your own impulses
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Same reasons too much technology and access to entertainment are bad
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>>69632297
OH the irony.

4chan is literally tinder for conversation. Everyone here is an information whore
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Brave new world
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It comes down to the fact that going from one night stand to one night stand is a sure fire way to suffer from depression long down the road.

Nothing wrong with sex, but sex with a bunch of different partners leads to unfulfillment.
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>>69630808
Yea promiscuity is pretty degenerate as is porn
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truth is, a stable and lasting relationship is objectively superior and preferable. everybody knows this intuitively.
promiscuity is a coping mechanism for those who are incapable of holding a stable partnership. that's the core of it, everything else is just indoctrination and rationalisation trying to justify what everybody intuitively knows to be shit.
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promiscuous females are more likely to cuck you
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>>69633464
Public school created a massive demographic of the people you describe by suppressing younger virgin marriage and overall delaying childhood and arresting development.

The '' teenager '' is a myth made by the media and school system.

Without compulsory schooling people could marry younger and be fully functioning adults by age 16-18
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Promiscuity is also the result of the wests abandonment of arranged marriage in favor of the lie of ''romantic love'' and dating as animalistic competition.
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STDs, sex addiction like drug addiction can lead to other crimes to get a fix
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This coincided with capitalism.

Communism is bad too but is just a reaction to the damage caused by the industrial revolution.

Regardless of what you think about markets and business, marriage and family was and is always done better socialistically. Families are supposed to be involved in finding partners for their children since its a merger of two family lines not just two individuals
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>>69630808
Sexual jealousy is too prominent in humans for us to be naturally "promiscuous". We shame sluts and we shame beta males, and the reason is that they're abnormal for a healthy society. It happens naturally, in all societies and cultures. Just look at even the most primitive cultures where sex for a boy is the initiation process to becoming a man, and being modest and pure as a woman is the disciplinary standard that keeps the human hierarchy in check.
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>>69634072
No you're not allowed to blow up my holmes because you don't understand western society.
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>>69632659
That's not really irony, is it? I like to think we realize how much of our lives we waste here and how unsatisfying it makes things that our great grandparents would have reveled in.
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>>69634072
>he's never felt romantic love so he thinks it doesn't exist.

Man this is just over the line of sad to funny.
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>>69630808
There is no logical argument against it. There is nothing wrong with casual sex using condoms and BC.
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>>69636595
I've felt it but realize now that it's not the foundation for a lasting marriage or a family. It's a temporary infatuation and not something that lasts long.

Real love can only come after years of dealing with each other, including the unpleasant parts and the fights.
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There is no logical argument against it. There is nothing wrong with casual sex using condoms and BC.

- OK, you marry some slut who's had 50 cocks in her and try to raise children with her. Let us know how that works out.

You intuitively know, on a base level... It's a bad idea. Trust your instincts.
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>>69634463
>Abnormal
The thing is that the Beta (Actually Omega, Beta is just a follower see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_%28ethology%29) are treated like trash is simple primitive societal needs.

Omegas(both Male and Female mind you) are disallowed/discouraged to reproduce with other members and even themselves, while Alpha male and Females can pick and chose (they mostly chose someone of their status).

I'm telling you this as an Omega (https://livingwithwolves.org/portfolio/the-omega/) which even if they did everything right and proper they will be shunned.
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>>69637095
and that's coming from someone who accuses me of never feeling romantic love. If you actually had a long caring relationship and it fell apart you would know firsthand that romance isn't stable, it's just another form of lust slightly above sexual attraction.
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>>69630808
Then why do you spend so much time in 4chan?
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>>69636964
LOL enjoy your miserable fucking life where human bonds aren't based on love.

Holy shit I'm so happy I'm not a miserable fuck anymore.
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>>69630808
Most dudes are betas and it fucks with their head
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>>69637095
Your instincts tell you it's a bad idea because your brain instinctively thinks sex means reproduction, it doesn't need to anymore.
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>>69637435
Love isn't infatuation.

love is something you DO, it's not something you feel. It's actually having to deal with your wife nagging you and your kids making a mess.
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>>69637377
I've had long caring relationships that feel apart, I've also had long standing relationships with people that last decades without love waning.

Know the difference between a you problem and a problem that everyone else has.
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This isn't even a Christian concept, pretty much every religion and tradition believed it. Even the street-shitting Hindus.

There was no conception of "romantic love" in the ancient world.
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>>69630808
OP, someone suggested I look into r/K psychology earlier today, so I can offer this from what I've read:

r-style evolutionary animals drift towards promiscuity, lots of children, little/no child rearing, single parents, no in-groups, little conflict, and so forth. Because within their environments there is little/no scarcity of food, so there is no real need for competition.

K-style evolutionary animals drift towards monogomy, few children with significant time spent rearing/training, multiple parents, a protective in-group, and constant competition. Because within their environments there is not enough food and someone will starve to death.

r-style doesn't really care about the capabilities of the individual, because there's no real pressure on survival due to a lack of scarcity.
K-style has to focus on child-rearing and training because being able to outcompete others is important in securing food/mates.

We can see that promiscuity isn't necessarily a bad thing. Many species make use of it successfully - it's just a different evolutionary adaptation. However, from what I know of humans, we're much further over into the K-style evolutionary adaptation than the r-style, and the promiscuous with many children approach will stretch the ability to raise and look after children, putting them worse off in any competitive environment.

Basically, if you want competent individuals in the species in order to improve survival in a resource-scarce environment, you should be looking towards monogamous relationships and child-rearing practices.

The explosion of liberalism over the past few hundred years could possibly be explained in part by the fact that humanity is largely living in a post-scarcity environment now. We may not all be able to have the most luxurious items, but we certainly have no want of food or shelter, and we are only reducing scarcity as time goes on, not increasing it. In fact, that's a part of the capitalist economic system.
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>>69637603
>love isn't something you feel

Textbook projection, I seriously can't believe how adamant you are that love isn't an emotion that people feel that lasts.
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>>69637758
if you cared so much about it lasting why do you extol casual sex and talk about your multiple relationships
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>>69637807
Because I ended most of my relationships due to a need to focus on my own growth as a person. I have had relationships with males and females that have lasted for a decade or two, almost my entire life.
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>>69638028
So you're a faggot.

ok that's it why am I even arguing with you
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>>69638123
I mean friendships. A friendship is a type of relationship. I'm straight.
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>>69638182
In case you guys didn't know, this is what losing an argument looks like.
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