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How do you meet girls these days /pol/ when swiping right on girls on tinder is so much easier?
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Protip: It's easier to meet girls in person than it is online. Don't fall for the e-dating jew.
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>every match is a single mom
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Way too many dudes on online dating, not so many approaching women in the streets
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I can't resist saying hitler is the man everytime I get a match
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>>69416702
>>69416554
Did you guys smoke your leaves?
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i sell drugs
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Literally approach girls you find attractive in person.

That works 99% of the time.

I use tinder infrequently, and tbqh, the girls I meet want to fuck me, but I dont want to fuck them. they're generally kind of trashy, shallow, and vapid.

A couple years ago, fuck it why not.
Now, I turn down girls who arent quality. If I dont feel anything about a girl, I next them and move on.

>its neat when you hit that point where your sexual value is worth more
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The kind of girls on Tinder are not the kind of girls I want to meet.
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>>69415999
From experience, tinder isn't good for anything but hookups. I have yet to see a good relationship where people met over tinder. That said, if you need a quick fuckiefuckie tinder is probably your best bet.
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>>69415999
>get matched with 6 girls
>message each one
>neither one ever replies
Well nothing in life ever changes
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>>69416808
How does one iniatiate conversation without seeming weird? How the fuck do you know what to say?
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As an average male I've had no success with online dating. I really don't like the bar scene. I don't want to date where I work. What do
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>>69416107
How? Im asking for a friend, senpai
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>>69417068
This.
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>>69417042
Casual shit mostly, don't be an autist, difficult as that might be at times. If you're nervous they'll sense it, which is why it's best to slowly learn how to remain calm in those scenarios.
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>>69416852
This.
Unless you're into hood-trash one nighters, girls I've met there are no more than shallow, dull low energy people.
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>>69416794
Weed is pretty shitty in Peru in general
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Every Tinder girl likes "music, sports and adventure. " Basically anything sweeping and vague they don't have to explain on to sound remotely interesting when in reality, they're not. Much better to meet girls in person at a show or anywhere where you already share a common interest just by being there.
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>>69417068
>average male

4chan speak for ugly
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>>69417033
Same, I've got a dozen open conversations and only 2 girls have replied, one is way too far away and the other is like a 5/10 at best who comes off as really desperate. My Tinder has only been active for a week but still...come the fuck on.
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>>69416554
Because approaching women in the streets is rape now
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>>69416554
>approaching women in the streets

lel sure
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>>69417127
There's a bunch of shit you can do. Depending on your situation (work, in school, etc), the best way is to form friendships in the hopes that you'll meet someone through them.

Alternatively, check out shit like MeetUp for something in the area that interests you. Don't force going to something you hate though just because you think you'll meet women.

I'll say this: it's a fucking HELL of a lot better than sifting through fat entitled hamplanets on OKC and POF. Shit feels like applying for work. Fuck that.
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>>69417068
What I do is go to places that I'd like my ideal girl to be at. I do rowing and rock climbing and have met plenty of active girls there and have had great times with them.
Sites like meetup.com helps with finding groups relative to your interests, plus you get to make a lot of good friends. If anything, joining these types of groups at least make you a more interesting person with more experiences.
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>>69417171
They can sense autism too?? Fucking whores man . No wonder getting girls is so fucking hard unless you're a charasimatic Chad
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>>69417325
Low test beta detected
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>>69417297
It's pretty obvious that these girl just swipe right to everyone and only decide after the matches are made.
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>>69417042
Just ask a question based on their profile and go from there. If they don't have a bio then ask about their pictures.
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>>69415999
get back to r9k and stay there nigger
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>>69416554
>approaching women in the streets

im not a rapist bro
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>>69417068
Miss out on girls in your youth, before marrying someone beneath you in your 30s, the same way beta males have since time immemorial
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>>69417514
Women are creatures of emotion, so learning to remain emotionally grounded will attract them more so than a stammering beta-male who is unable to be relaxed.

Shit sucks, I'm a diagnosed sperg myself and had to teach myself all of this shit. Nonverbal communication trumps verbal with them, which I fucking hate but, hey, it is what it is.
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>>69417515
>hey what's up? How's it going?
>FUCK YOU SHITLORD. MY BODY MY RIGHT IM STILL NOT ASKING FOR IT!!!
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>Hiding behind a telephone screen

kek
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>>69417514
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>>69417068
join ISIS, become martyr, enjoy dat paradise pucci
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>>69416554
Because if you accidentally make her feel uncomfortable in anyway you will be publicly shamed via social media and probably end up in jail.

Meanwhile she will start a victim blog and patreon and live the good life.
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>>69417655
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>>69417247
Tinder is a hookup app, nigger

t. a guy who's fucked 17~ Tinder sluts, all on the first "date"
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Tinder is a Jewish ploy to destroy the nuclear family
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>>69415999
Dont check any profile > like everyone > check matches > go from there

> you're 1-5/10 looking: kill urselff and/or see hookers
> you're 6-8/10 looking: probably need to make the first move, need fancy hoom up lines and creativity
> you're 8+/10 looking: likes and messages non stop, go to their profile and see if they want 'fun new people' or serious relationship bullshit. You can basically hook up a girl for sex within the first 20 messages

In other words it's a sexapp for attractive people, ah yeah and manlets are not welcome
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>>69415999
Do you have friends?
Do they have parties or gatherings?
Do you get invited?

That's how you meet people.
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>>69417042
corny pick up lines on work surprisingly well on tinder as a conversation starter if you cant think of one that relates to her profile just comment on something in her profile like a pet or a dress
>IRL
be confident
dont be autistic (ive done that once or twice)
look nice
make sure you specifically ask her on a date or for her number during one of your first conversations if you dont do that *into le friendzone it goes*
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>>69416554
>>69416702
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>Get really drunk with my friends one night at the bars
>Come home at 11 cuz we've been boozing since 4
>Been crushing on this qt 8/10 half asian desk receptionist at my apartment building
>She's working when I get back
>ohshit.png
>Drunk enough to ask her our and get her phone number
>She says she's really happy I asked her
>pop boner
Two days later
>say what's up via text
>Set meeting date and place
>Says she can't study cause she's going home next weekend
>I have to wait two weekends to go on a date with this grill
>Text her occasionally but no response
>day before our date she texts me
>"hey anon, I know we were supposed to go out but I starting seeing someone"
>totalbullshit.png
tfw you never make approaches then you do and qt shuts you down
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>>69418057
lol source?
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>>69417068
>I don't want to date where I work
code for "none of the girls I work with would date me anyway"
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>>69417882
>implying i talk to fat girls or girls with colored hair
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>>69416794
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>>69418008
literally 99% of 4chan
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>>69418036
No girl on Tinder was marriage material to begin with, at least not in my area. Just a bunch of narcissistic cunts looking for dick. Don't tell them I said that, though.

Anyone here manage to pump-n-dump one of those "NOT looking for hookups" type girls?
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>>69417042

Literally stop giving a fuck.

Thats the simplest way to describe it. Imagine they're just some random guy. You start small talk about whatever the fuck, crack a joke, and then talk about whatever. Not hard

Women are simple too. You literally have to approach them and talk to them.

By virtue of putting forth the effort to talk to them and show you are interested, they will either respond yes or no. Majority of the time, if you think she likes you too, its yes.

Serious. Next time you see a girl, and you both eye fuck eachother a couple times, go up to her.

Gont get all gay and autistic. Just fucking say hi and introduce yourself. Compliment her on something and then ask her about herself.

Boom done.
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>>69418133
you waited two days to text her? that was your fuck up senpai
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>>69416808
This desu, feels good bro. Just finally happened for me about a couple months ago. The irony is that it started when I started lifting and following politics and not caring about sluts
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>>69417393
Do not date at work.

Some pussy is not worth risking your job over.
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>>69418153
lowerrider on deviantart

this guys obsession is something
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>>69418314
two days is industry standard nigger
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>>69418186
Unless you're insane or work at a shit-tier place or a really small firm there's absolutely no reason as of why you'd date someone from work.
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met my gf on tinder and she was a virgin before meeting me
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>>69418412
i seriously love people for being so fucking weird, it's never ending entertainment
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>>69418611
Do you actually believe that? Lel
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>>69418094
Are you supposed to ask if she has a boyfriend directly or ask more discretely?
I really hate wasting my fucking time trying to talk to someone and then getting
>lol sorry anon I have a bf but thanks tho XDXD
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>tfw no qt red pilled gf
they really are hard to find, like a penis at a lesbian orgy
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>>69415999
like 7/10 girls at best will match with me on tinder. I can get 10/10 girls irl. I pretty much have a tinder for shits and giggles and the occasional slut.
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>>69418664
I broke her hymen
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>>69418685
yep, just ask if they're single, if they think they're attractive, then they'll tell you they are, if not who knows, and 70% of the time you'll at least make their day and gain a little more confidence
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>>69418261
i did once

story time
>go on tinder a few months ago (over the summer)
>meet brunette qt who actually initiated the conversation (usually that doesnt happen its normally the other way around)
>we talk for a while and we have a few things in common
>profile states not looking for hookups
>never mentioned it to her
>agree to meet up
>we go out to eat then go back to my place and we watch tv in bed
>were cuddled up in bed and just watching tv but i start sporting a hard one
>she mustve noticed and she slides her hand down and the rest is history
>only meet up one other time to fuck before she goes off to college


TL'DR
dont believe girls who say they arent looking for hookups
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>>69418486

The fuck?

Its an outdated crock of shit. Back when land lines existed, sure.

Now, if you dont text within a couple hours, she wont care. (Unless you flirted and wound her up before you left)

I swear to god, its like children learning how to ride bicycles in here. Women arent complicated.

Captcha: literally fucking bicycles
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>>69418835
Sure you did pal.
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>>69418057
>>69418153
>tfw 5'8"
>tfw I want a girl who is as tall as me or taller, preferably 6ft and over
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>>69418835
Protip: breaking her hymen does not necessarily mean she was a virgin. You could have been playing rough with her.
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>>69418835
Cuck
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>>69419036
>breaking her hymen does not necessarily mean she was a virgin
yes it does
a dick can't go in if the hymen is intact
don't know why this is so hard for you to believe
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>>69418835
So did I, what's your point?
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>>69418486
>two days is industry standard
Swingers is a great movie, but the industry has changed since then. These days a two day wait is lots of time for a girl to meet someone thanks to tinder and other social media / online dating
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>>69418657
I don't know how often I trolled /mu/ to reply how much of a beast Taylor Swift is.

> no way this is real
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>>69418685
dont ask if they have a bf directly imo that seems a bit awkward but ask if shes free and would want to go on a date. even if she has a bf its less creepy to ask that way instead of just asking if she has a bf imo
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>>69419204
>he actually believes that
You really need to take a lesson on female anatomy
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>>69419321
> reply limit
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>>69416796
this works, lost 4 years slinging and banging college girls non stop.
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>>69415999
Meh. It isn't all it's cracked up to be.
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>>69417454
You and I see it the same way, upside down emu
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>>69418872
Fuck this feels like it'll be a suicide mission . The odds are always in the woman's favor and she pretty much wins either way. This must be what it's like to go over the top
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>>69417068
>average male
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>>69418486

If you texted her next morning.

"Hey bay! wat you doin for lunch and sheeit?"

Would've had her
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I wish to use Tinder, but I don't. Why? It requires a Facebook account in order to use it and I refuse to ever get an account on Facebook or to even visit that site. I'm lonely, but I refuse to compromise my principles for any pussy.
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Read this whole thread and now feel 1000% dumber

/pol/ can be quite fucking autistic sometimes
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>>69419016
am i crazy or are all of these photoshoopped?
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>>69419673
>lunch
Bruh you never get laid at lunch
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>>69417184
You're being made fun of because you look like a canadian who smoked his leaf
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>>69415999
>meeting girls on "dating" sites
>expecting anything but sloots
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I'm 5'4.
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>Falling for the 3D Jew
Only once, never again.
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Tinders shit everyone will do better and meet better women in person.

Take whatever quality out of 10 you are getting in real life approaches and knock at least 2 points off and thats your expectation.
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>>69419623
how old are you? honestly women realize it takes balls to go up to someone and strike up a conversation, even if you're just telling them they're pretty and asking if they're single. they don't do it honestly because they're more afraid of rejection then men. you have nothing to lose and everything to gain, sure you will strike out more often then you get a hit, but that's just because people are attracted to different things which is just the way it is
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>>69419380
so give me a lesson
either way she was a virgin, I had to show her everything and she was nervous as fuck
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>>69419900

Lunch get's her prepped

Then you take her to movie later that night. Get cozy in dat theather, hey let's go to da club afta.

Back to my place after!
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>>69418368
No, become friends with co workers and then meet girls through them.
>hang out with buddy at work
>he has a gf
>she has a friend, sister, whatever that is single
>meet HER
>meat her
Also, if you have a friend and he has a sister, get to know her. Your not trying to date your friends sister, thats bad form, but shes got friends, and you want to meet them.
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>>69419940
Neanderthals were taller than you
sorry dude
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>>69418031
Explain how you do that. I'm not a stud but attractive enough to get laid when I meet girls in public, but on tinder it's insanely hard for me. I get very few likes and when I do, no girl starts a conversation ever. When I start some, the back-and-forth usually lasts like 3-4 messages because the girls never write anything to move the conversation along.

I dont understand how guys fuck chicks on tinder so easily.
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>>69420067
Here you go, kangaroo bro :^)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA
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>>69420189
you probably just have bad pictures dude
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>>69420145
>meet HER
>meat her

subtle kek
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>>69420097
>Spend whole day with someone you barely know
>Run out of things to talk about
How much time do you canucks plan for first dates?
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>>69420097
>going on esentially three dates in one day just to get laid
Doing it wrong man. You could skip lunch/a movie and still get the same outcome
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>>69419333
Yeah that's what I figured . I just hate the feeling of having a nice conversation with a girls and then only end up hitting a solid wall in the end .
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>>69420300
WTF ONE EYE IS HIGHER THAN THE OTHER
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>>69419813
Bruh
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>>69420145
>she has a friend, sister, whatever that is single
What are the chances of you even being attracted to the 3-4 girls you might meet through any random person at work?

Do you people seriously just settle for C-tier pussy because its convenient?
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i fucked/hooked up with over 40 women off tinder in 2015

everything from asian girls who go to berkeley to bartenders who get attention all day to SJWs straight from oakland

i quit the app though, it's degenerate.

if you need a first message "may i eat sushi off you?" is a great one.
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>>69415999
Go to a community college with a nice car, guaranteed to work. Bonus points if you have dad jokes and are older.
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>>69420371
you need to be quick and to the point that way it wont feel like a huge waste of time. ask her after the first few conversations or even during one of your first conversations with her. if she says no move on
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>>69420342
>>69420359

I thought anon wanted her as a gf
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>>69420481
>if you need a first message "may i eat sushi off you?" is a great one.
Going to try that here in Japan
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>>69420485
Hm
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>>69420415
Bro we all settle. We would have gone extinct if not.
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Are you trying to meet girls to date and eventually marry, or just a quick fuck?

If the latter, just go on tinder and grindr and swipe right on EVERYONE and everyone that swipes right back just spit two or three lines of game and then see if they want some dick. The easiest way is to be a nice "haha yeah I share a similar interest ;)" shithead and you're pretty much guaranteed a human onahole to jump your bone by the end of the week.

If you want a relationship, go to a Youth Church thing, or a come-back-Christians type thing. Another choice is to volunteer doing something, like feeding homeless people or some shit like that, and talking to the people there about who they are and what their goals are, and then seeing if they're available for a date.

desu, it's way more fun to pump and dump and treat people like cocksleeves than it is to do the whole relationshit thing. It's also way nicer to have someone tell you they love you and fall asleep in their arms knowing that you're the most important person in their life.

Also if you're fucking girls with piercings be careful because they're probably crazy.

And never pull out if you're fucking a trap. They might tell you not to, but do it anyways. It's what they want.
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>>69420315
this

i stopped using my selfies i thought were good and had my attractive woman friend choose the photos, i thought they were shit, but ever since i've gotten nearly all the matches i wanted, literally 0 fatties/mommies/obvious crazies
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>>69420189
It's literally all about that first picture bro

I changed my picture from me and my cat to just me with my pump on after hitting the gym and my match rate skyrocketed
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>>69420542
damn you senpai

enjoy your kawaii pussy

my best tinder hookup was a japanese girl with blue hair. she moved to la after we had been seeing each other for a month, i miss her so much ;_;
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>>69420058
Knowing that I'm just boosting their egos after they reject me makes my skin crawl. Its Prolly my biggest mental barrier.
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>>69421076
Cliche advice but the only way to get over it is to strike out a bunch of times. Once you realise that nothing bad actually happens, you stop caring.
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>>69419940
Same bro, but I use it to my advantage, especially with girls who are taller than me (not that often, I don't try for anyone over 5'6").

>Don't like me because I'm short? That's tall privilege running wild, and you need to check yours.
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>>69421076
haha i feel you senpai, but just be the bigger person about it, it's better for you in the long run anyways to just get over it. look at it this way, time is against women in a big way, they have to take advantage of every possible opportunity to find the best guy (they think) possible before it's all down hill. meanwhile us guys just keep getting better looking, keep making more money, get more confidence, shit just keeps getting better and better until you hit 40 or so if you take care of yourself
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>>69421154
This is why Japan has god-tier posters
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I do well on tinder, above average I'd say. Maybe because God blessed me with a nice face and body, intelligence and a sense of humillity? Who knows.

Anyways, I don't do that great, when compared to what people would expect. Trust me: very few men do extremely well on tinder.
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>>69421154
I think you might be right. Im 21, and never bothered talking to girls in high school. Currently going to a community college , so fuck it, I might as well try now. Those whores can't do anything to me. I will be confident and alpha!
>inb4 CUT MY LIFE INTO PIECES
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>>69420189
Embrace the "fuck it" mentality: you have nothing to lose, but everything to win.

Text them bitches this first message: I'm going to make you mine and you don't get to say no.

Play along.


Fuck.


Fly out of the country if pregnant


Repeat
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>>69418486
Bullshit.

The transfer/availability of information is damn near instantaneous with technology and social media. People can afford not to be patient.

>Hook-up with girl at buddies B-Day party
>She's from out of state
>immediately text her after I drive home. >She's still in transit at the airport.
>TFW she says she's glad I texted
>TFW she said she was starting to feel cheap and stupid about the one-nighter
>TFW she says it's good to feel like she's wanted
>TFW she moves to my state a few months later- We keep in contact and start dating
>TFW it's been two years, and we're now engaged to be married

You hesitate or wait to show/communicate interest these days, you'll get skipped over. This thread says it all- it's as easy as the chick you are eying opening Tinder to find sexual/emotional gratification.

Waiting is such a low test answer. A prompt response exudes confidence IMO.
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>>69417068
Chicks like bars brah. Especially if you buy. First go with some friends for drinks then go from there.
Shows and concerts/festivals are good too for the girls that don't like the bar scene
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Girls are all about social status. For that reason, bars are a fascinating example. I say this without sarcasm because I am, objectively, unattractive. However, I am a non-smoker with many smoker friends. This means that I regularly sit unaccompanied surrounded by eight half-empty TomCollins'. Not only do I appear to be a popular outsider, I make up my own damn mind and resist peer pressure. That, in a nutshell, is how you meet women.
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>>69421978
it's literally that easy, you do have to take care of yoruself too tho, buy some new clothes and keep your hair trimmed, if you have a shitty facial hair trim that shit off.
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>>69420189
I dunno, I tend to just be really witty, funny and wonderfully gifted at steering conversations where I want them to go. I'm also not afraid of saying offensive shit. If I find it funny, I say it.

Also, even though I'm /fit/ as fuck, I don't use stupid ass shirtless mirror pics or any gay shit like that. All of my pics are me being a goofy faggot and women fucking love it. I'm also pretty damn attractive. In the end though, 99% of the time it's wit and charm that get you laid, unless you're constantly just talking to legitimately retarded, brainless whores that are too stupid for jokes.

Good luck senpai
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>>69415999
The reason so many girls don't reply if you match with them is because most girls on dating sites are literally just there because they want to feel attractive. As much as they bitch about guys sending them "hey u wanna fuk bby" messages, they love it because they know that at least someone wants to and they can say "no."
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>>69420189
Also, to add to my answer here >>69422312
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Don't fuck these whores without a condom. I did it a few times because I'm generally pretty good at reading bitches, but I got fucking chlamydia from some skank on one occasion. Thankfully the one STD I caught was bacterial (i.e., curable), but don't take the chance. It's not all roses and pretty vaginas out there. Watch out for them innerspace caverns my nigga.
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>>69421530
You're right
I need to get out there and JUST DO IT. This will be the true beta uprising. The chads can to Hell. Gonna get me a qt
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>>69418835
kek virgin detected. most girls hymen are broken before they ever lose their virginity anyway
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>>69420415
>I only have 1 friend
Wut, its about expanding your social network, not fagbook, but going out and meeting real people. Don't date/fuck chicks from work because if it doesn't work out it can fuck your shit up at work. Meet people at work and then meet people through them.
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i'll give another tip if you're really bad with women.

make a fake girl profile, and see how guys talk to you. you don't have to respond or anything, just see what your competition is and what they send as their first message.
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>>69417033
You've got to have a bit of game.if you just say hello they'll ignore you
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I pulled low triple figures off tinder. had it down to a science. willing to answer questions if anyone wants advice on it
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>>69417042
There is honestly not some big secret or any one thing to remember. It's just a matter of being comfortable, which is a function of a) how comfortable you are with yourself and b) how used to talking to people you are in general. a) is a matter of introspection, critically examining your values and innate dispositions being confident that you're "doing you" and not just putting on an act; b) is addressed by, obviously, just talking to people, regardless of context
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>>69417068
I only lurk but this is sad.
If you can't get a girls interest online, you are not worthy of respawning.
If you must meet a girl irl, then go to the gym till a giel asks you out.
If you cant do either option a or b just stay right where you are
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>>69422723
This game gets exhausting. Did it a bunch in my early 20s after I left the military. Mostly at bars with friends.

Eventually hangovers start to last longer and longer, and keeping up so many contacts and relationships just becomes a chore. It's also morally exhausting- you'll start running out of motivation to be a dickhead. It's a lot more fulfilling to wake up constantly next to the same person.


Plus, I find the closer I get to 30, the less I have to try. Engaged now, but I still get flirted with quite often when I'm out and about.
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>>69423825
>anyone on 4chan lecturing others about their genetic worth.

I laugh and laugh
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>>69423593
Just dump it all
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>>69423847
I'm 25 and feel the same way desu senpai. I'm ready to find a girl to settle down with, but I'll be fucking damned if it isn't hard to find a wholesome, beautiful, intelligent and ambitious woman nowadays.
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>>69424398
I learnt a lot so probably need specific questions, I don't want to write a 10 page guide or anything
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>>69415999
I had a Tinder for a week and got only 25 matches. I deleted it because I knew that none of them were interested in me. You have to be really outgoing and muscular for any girl to want to date/fuck you. They only swiped right by accident or I was just an afterthought.
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>>69424684
What did you use for openers?
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Tinder, for hook ups. I socialize at dance halls, charities and religious fundraisers (despite being non-religious) to try and meet genuine GF material.
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>>69425036
I didn't use rehearsed lines but I knew how I wanted to conversation to go. The best openers were ones that would set you apart from the rest. Remember 95% of guys on tinder are either boring (think stuff like 'Hey how are you :)') or way too forward/sexual. Think of something clever based on their tagline/profile picture. A good 'rehearsed line' that did work for me was 'does this mean we're bf and gf now?'. I think the line has probably been done to death by now, its now on some forums with tinder lines.
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>>69416554
>approaching women in the streets
Dude its 2016, I'd literally get put on the registered sex offenders list and lose my job if I tried that
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>>69425454
When majority of single millennial girls use tinder, most likely those girls that are 'gf material' you meet at charities, fund raisers etc have used tinder at some point
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>>69425562
then you aint got no day game
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I don't. I sit in my room all day on 4chan while falling school. I can't even look at myself in the mirror without tearing up. I'm not even a human being anymore.
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>>69425821
Why are you failing school anon? Its never too late to turn things around and live a better life
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>>69425618

Yeah but as far as my research and sample sizes go i'm more likely to find what i'm looking for at those events, and have had luck before, 2/3 of my last 'serious' relationships have came from those events over 7 years.

Plus i do actually enjoy dancing / fundraising to an extent so it's not all time wasted if all i find are sloots.

Also i'll still fuck a slut or two at those events even if i'm on the look out for 'quality' girls. Also from my experience a metric fuckload of chicks on Tinder use it as a self esteem booster and nothing else, will use it to string someone along ect. Just because a chick uses tinder doesn't automatically mean they've had miles of pipe laid inside them (though it's not the best start).
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>>69424579
Every group has that friend who never grew out of it. The friend who's still scamming on girls like its high school, and sneaking into pools and hot tubs to party at 4 am. At first everybody tolerates that guy, but after a bit he becomes embarrassing to hang around. Don't be that guy.

Finding a girl is a timing thing. In their early twenties, they're doing the same she we are- partying and enjoying life. But, if you wait until you're 30 most marketable ladies have kids or have already been divorced. 25 is probably a good starting point. By now most women are as fed up of the game as we are, and you don't have to act or be superficial. Just be you.
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>>69418890
>dont believe girls who say they arent looking for hookups
how new are you?
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Toronto is a tinder cesspool
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>>69415999
By not being a massive autist and just sparking up a conversation.
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Memers, furries, chinks, shitskins and girls with septum piercings galore
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>>69425913
Fair enough anon. You'd probably be most likely to find 'gf' material at church groups/fundraisers. Yeah when I was using tinder in 2014/early 2015 at least 2/3 of the girls were just using it for attention. I only met something like 1 out of every 7 matches.
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>>69426408
Do you lift weights? How attractive are you? Are you outgoing?
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>>69426368
>>69426257
Asian chick isn't bad but what the fuck is wrong with that ice beaner? Don't these furries have parties for this?
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>>69426089
that was the first girl i met up with on tinder. she stated shes not looking for a hookup but she clearly wanted one
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>>69426582
I'm no male model but I guess I'm slightly above average. I play lots of sports. I'm not the life of the party but I make friends pretty easily
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>>69416554
>approaching women in the streets
In what fucking world does this ever work out for anyone? Maybe if I was a 10/10 chad that made 100k+ a year this would work.
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>>69427399
Is cool bro. Im just saying when girls say "no hookup" it actually means yes "IF" your a good fit looking guy.
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>>69417812
why did you have to remind me?
My dad fucked me hard, he was such a beta to my mom, what a "yes dear..." sap.
I was basically raised by a single mom who was married
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>>69415999
>fagbook required to sign in

Yoo haha
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>>69424022
T. A fucking leaf
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>>69419666
is this jj watt?
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>>69419204
protip, she sews in a chicken liver the first date. you bust it, blood.
This has been a women trick sense forever
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>>69416702
I tried this with some girl who mentioned Taylor Swift in her profile a bunch and she didn't respond
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>>69419566
how the fuck did you get 701 matchs, unless youa re female?
did you use brad pitt for your profile?
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>>69420032
dude I never get approches.
I still get laid about once a year
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>>69428259
probably liking everyone, the girls you can see are 1/10

i only swipe right for attractive girls and i have 160 matches
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>>69419566
>tfw used tinder habitually for 2 years, swiped right on everything and never got a match that wasn't a bot
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>>69428238
protip: she would've responded if you were attractive
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>>69420097
That's a sure fire way to waste a day m8. Just take her out after dinner and convince her to go for a drive afterwords. Start hunting towards sex in your conversations, and pretty soon you'll be balls deep!

Not too hard bruh
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>>69428259
i have 1100 matches in 4 months

;____;

tfw no gf
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>>69426029
This would be why you would find a younger woman. You don't date 30 year old women when you are 30.
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>>69428572
I don't think they would respond even if I was attractive
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>>69417184
I'm so sorry
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>>69416107
>>69416554
>>69416808
Fucking normies get out
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>>69417042

All your replies are true. Go check my channel out on YouTube. SimplePickup ;)
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>>69427691
>being this blue pilled

lol
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>>69428606
what????? I get like 3 matchs a month. I got to get the fuck out of Los angles. The price of pussy here is too high, like the price of everything else.
literal 4/10 women with 8/10 guys
.
Also why is every single profile say
>self employed.
>ceo of own company
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In the last month I've had sex with 5 girls using the opening line "hey, do you like chicken nuggets?".

Not even fucking joking. 2 from tinder, 3 in bars.
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>>69429128
If you aren't autistic or deformed, just lie. It's s hook-up site, not a dating site.

You can be a CEO too, just say you're on a business trip and the shitty car is a rental, then take her to a hotel.
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>>69429128

i had like 400 matches in san francisco and 700 here in amsterdam

amsterdam seems like the easiest in the world because all these degenerate girls come here on vacation for WEED LMAO

as another anon said just lie

LA should be easy as hell to find one night stands if you're somewhat attractive and have your own place
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>>69419940
Anon, don't give up. The reality is the deck is against you. But it's not complicated: you need to Chad it up best you can, become very good at some trade. Get a couple of pairs of decent lifts, and it will be manageable.
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>>69429128
You're a disenfranchised Angelino too? I feel you.

>Also why is every single profile say
>self employed.
>ceo of own company

Not only that. All these girls somehow run "photography" and "fashion" businesses even though they can barely utter a coherent sentence in chat. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone.
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>>69430147
>tfw can't lift because multiple sclerosis
Should I take super male vitality?
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>>69421154
Nippon, you give sage advice. We bow in respect
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>>69416808
>>69418313
this is good advice
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I'm 33. No FB, no Tinder. I chat the dollymops up old-fashioned style.

If you're not into bars, though, I don't know what to tell you because asking her if she wants a drink is basically the easiest 'in; and excuse to shoot the shit.
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>>69418313
THis is really good advice man. I act like a fucking retard when talking to women sometimes that I just want to punch myself in the face. Trying too hard fucks me over.
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>>69415999
i hate tinder because i have no fucking photos of myself that chicks would dig

i'm a monster
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>>69427691
The streets wouldn't work people have shit to do and places to be.

It can work well in say a supermarket or store.
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>>69431129

Can I see?
Plz be gory.
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>>69430343
Landlocked countries shouldn't obsess on building navies.

Play to your strengths. So you can't be Chad, but consider what you can do.

The Four Temperments/Humors will help all of us enormously. If you're legit MS, go as far as you can fit wise and figure out a way to receive Federal Reserve Notes. Confidence is everything, bt you have to really have it. Fedora wearing autism is faux confidence. You get the real thing either being in the top 10-20% genetically. Or you work like mad to get there.
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>>69418313
I support this message.
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>>69418835
are you me? I legit did the same thing the other day to a tinder gril
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