Is being pregnant at 20 degenerate?
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What is the ideal age? I want to have a child. But I'm probably too young. But if I wait to finish all my schooling, I'd be 30 and apparently that would give a higher risk of autism. I can pretty much confirm. My mother had my little brother when she was 35 and he basically was (is) the type of spoiled fat kid you'd see flailing his arms and screaming in the middle of the store.
I take classes and work at a high-end clothing store. Aaaaand my boyfriend is a typical WASP, we live in separate apartments.
I love babies so much, but I don't want to be a stereotype. Weird memory, but in 5th grade, when asked, my teacher actually said that 20 is too young and it's best to wait until your 30's.
I feel like everyday I wait is another step closer to infertility, unhealthy children, etc. my biggest fear is to have a child with downs.
I dunno /pol/
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>>55344341
what IS degenerate:
>having baby when you cant financially support it
>having a kid with someone you barely know
>having a kid before 18
>having more than 4 kids, regardless of status
what isnt degenerate
>having child with a long-term partner
>being able to support the child
>being above at least 18 before being pregnant
>>55344341
hello i am a stranger on the internet. I think you should live your life like this.
No need to thank me.
You know when you're going to have a kid with down's syndrome. Honestly, abort him. I have a disabled sister and though I love her to pieces, she has been a burden on our family financially and emotionally.
As for the age, as long as you're able to support the child and it is able to have a role model of the opposite sex who is constantly in its life, you should be fine. The younger you have the child, the less likely epigenetics will fuck it up and the more healthy that child will be.
If you can support your offspring both financially and emotionally, then go for it. You're at your prime baby-making age, the longer you wait the shittier the quality of your children will be.
Unless your boyfriend is making six figures or has tons of money in the bank, or you yourself have tons of money, or your parents are going to 100% support you and throw money at you, I would wait. Mid-20s is the best age. Your paranoia is valid, having a baby past 30 is risky. Having a kid is bad enough, having a kid when you have little money and security will be a living hell for both of you
Ideally the younger you are the better, assuming you are capable and ready to be a parent. However, In this society and age, parenthood is more convoluted and children are less useful. Wait until late 20's.
I had a son when I was 22 with my long term boyfriend that I never married but we're still together
everything turned out fine but I have a pretty high paying job so I can support an unemployed spouse and child
The mother's age has less to do with developmental issues than the age of the father
>>55344341
You don't even live with your boyfriend.
Do that for at least two years, preferably in cramped quarters like a 900ft2 apartment or condo. Why? Because then you get all of your bickering out of the way, and you either break up or have a strong relationship at the end.
Having a kid with someone you have not lived with consistently is a great way to be a single parent a couple years later.
>>55344341
Do you really want to bring a kid into this world? Do you think you are wise, learned, and smart enough to do so successfully in such a damaged world? You at least need a husband who is. All of the research points to the unique importance of maternal and paternal sensitive childcare. Women nurture but men cultivate industriousness.
But the husband will need to WANT IT himself and know exactly what he needs to do, first. I cannot imagine a 20 year old kid being wise today. The last thing we need is more kids without two devoted (necessarily) Christian parents who adhere religiously to the traditional institution of marriage.
You need to read this essay below, acknowledge it, and allow your husband to be the leader of the family while you run the home. Try to understand how you can be the best wife imaginable. Is working in retail or ushering in the next generation more important?
Children make women happy, and eliminate their innate narcissism, but you should have them only if you and your husband can be good partners and good parents. That is the determination all parents must make, not I WANT BABIES AND I WANT THEM NOW. That is child abuse. The statistics speak for themselves. And you're husband will probably need to make that call.
Don't read all of this cultural marxist shit on the TV and magazines like Cosmopolitan. Cut off that fucking TV. That stuff is Satanic poison that ruins women's role in civilization. Women are made responsible by understanding their flaws with HUMILITY and having a dutiful husband who will work hard to support the family. Your career can come after the kids are taken care of if you want it so bad.
Women are happier with children. Men perform much better in the labor force with wives. Women only love men they respect (have jobs).
Like I said, I'm not a marriage guru, but these are the things I know to be generally true from research and my own experience.
http://toqonline.com/archives/v6n2/DevlinTOQV6N2.pdf
>>55348567
http://www.fathers.com/statistics-and-research/the-consequences-of-fatherlessness/
>>55348223
I would rather be a single mother to a healthy child than live in a two parent household with our autistic kid.
>>55346004
>You know when you're going to have a kid with down's syndrome. Honestly, abort him.
I agree with this. This is a moral decision. Just don't have kids out of narcissism.
Know what it requires to form a strong person (A LOT) in this world and if you can't find you are not dedicated enough to do that, then morally, I would not advise it. Because it's wrong.
>>55344341
>anglos
You might as well go to Africa and get bred by black bulls.
Find someone with strong morals, isn't a kek, wait and see how he is.
If he has a personality that could easily take care of a family until the very death, marry and save the white race.
>>55349280
>I
>would rather
Again, with the narcissism... Prophetic? No, predictable. There is no way you are yet responsible or educated enough to have kids. Sorry, but again it's not about you.
