Were you beaten as a child?
I was spanked. I think "beaten" implies an unreasonable level of force delivered out of anger or sadistic delight rather than for corrective disciplinary purposes.
>>55312143
This
>>55311787
Yes, belt and hand spankings.
>>55311787
Spanked.
>>55311787
Spanked or slapped sometimes, but very rarely. I was generally pretty obedient.
>>55312219
well yeah but women were always pretty pitiful at it
>>55312143
This t︂bh f︂︂a︂m
>>55312143
This!
Unfortunately not.
Now I'm a piece of shit with no discipline.
Just a little, dad was in the navy.
Were cool now. Not friends but cool.
He started smoking weed and i became employed.
I didnt get it the worse.
My nighbor got the snot beat out of him. Im 5 8
Hes 6 4
When he was 18 he was 6 1 and broke his brothers nose so they sent his ass to mexican boot camp.
He went and did something like 5 tours went through 2 divorces.
When i see that guy around all i get is the 1000 yard stare.
Guy is creepy as fuck now.a
He still lives at home.
>>55312143
pretty much this. also got my mouth washed with soap or put under a cold shower with my clothes on. its actually been my mother that favored more physical punishment. btw, im not even that old, but even my teachers in elementary school used to slap or give kids ear pulls. can you imagine what a public outcry this would cause nowadays?
>>55311787
i got slapped numerous times for being a crazy ass kid that does unreasonable shit, does that count?
>>55311787
Basically this >>55312143. I was spanked probably 5 times in my childhood. That was all I needed, because all throughout my childhood my mom and dad did this thing called parenting.
>>55311787
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44vzMNG2fZc
Caned by teachers at school. Taught me that the world does not revolve around my feelings the hard way.
>>55311787
Yes.
Now I suffer from being too meek.
>>55312143
spanked when i was a cunt of a child. never beaten.
>>55311787
I was beaten to death
>>55311787
I was slapped by my mom maybe 5 times in total, and I deserved it every time
>>55311787
Yes. It is character building.
I got spanked with a big wooden spoon alot.
Also was forced to brush my teeth with soap instead of toothpaste several times.
Thats about it.
Yup, turned me into a criminal.
Not a poor-me-I'm-so-broken situation...it was nothing like that.
My parents went overboard, and I learned how much I could endure. And they flipped out all the time, so if I was going to get it anyways...I figured I might as well do whatever the fuck I want to whenever I want to. And so I did. And as it turned out, what I wanted to do was a lot of cocaine, and it's not free...
I had absolutely no fear of authority whatsoever. I still don't. I just don't do things that anybody would take umbrage with anymore. But if I wanted to, I absolutely would.
I'm also not remotely afraid of fighting anybody. But I don't do anything where anybody would want to fight me.
I don't hit my kids, except if they're doing something extraordinarily retarded and I really need to make an impression on them. Even then, I don't get mad, I just spank them and then restrain them and review what they must never do again and make sure they understand what could happen.
I've hit my kids twice, my son when he was lighting and seeing how fast he could wave around a bbq lighter, near some very flimsy drapes, and my daughter for trying to convince my son to "ride" in the dishwasher when she thought I couldn't hear them.
>>55311787
I was both spanked and beaten, beaten most of the times after my father drank too much, spanked if i did something very wrong/bad e.g. after pulling the reflector posts of a entire street from the ground and hiding them in the gutter, so it was difficult to see where the road was at night (winter in southern germany).Right now at the age of 20 i can say for sure that neither of this harmed me or my character in any way but taught me a lesson or two, so im definitely gonna spank my child if necessary/appopriate and im also sure that if kids nowadays recieved some good old slap in the face after being rude to a teacher for example, we would be living in a better world or at least not a shithole which grows worse every day (just speaking for the west/europe/germany)
Father had bipolar disorder, so many of the slaps were unjustified, I once had to skip school so they wouldn't see a mark I had in my face, (he should've taken off his ring) and got kneed in the back a few times, I don't fully discourage corporal punishment, but it has to be justified
>>55311787
No, but that was more because I didn't really do anything bad than anything else. I was very unrebellious and calm. Also, my dad is a 6' 5" factory worker, and seeing him even slightly pissed off was enough to scare anyone into thinking twice.
A lot. It turned me into an introvert who's afraid to come out of his shell.
>>55312143
Most times parents hit are out of anger and are only justified as being disciplinary. Rare is the parent that is cool and collected while they hit you hating it the whole time but they bite the bullet because it's "the right thing to do". The fact is it's been proven to not be effective so it's not the right thing to do, it's just lazy and reactive.
>>55312143
I was spanked about 5 times, and looking back on it, I deserved it every single time.
I talked to my parents quite recently about this. They said they always felt terrible for doing so, and were worried I would hate them for it.
>>55311787
>Now this is pod-racing!
Spanked when young for being a shit, then my pops started drinking again. Got some punches thrown at me at 15, when I turned 16 I started helping oil field guys before school and learned to fight back. ironic how the first time I hit my dad back in the jaw, my mother freaked out like I took things too far. Moved out at 19 and haven't looked back. I enjoyed those 3 years of being able to fight back when my brother and dad have me shit. Pops even slept with a gun under his bed. Power feels good sometimes
I got spanked and all that when I was a young kid.
In my teen years my mom would slap and shove my pop and I when we would call her a drunk.
I was pretty disrespectful to her, but she was one hell of a drunk.
My dad hit me when I was trying to learn how to ride a bike and couldn't do it right away. He did it other times too but that one I remember coz it messed me up for awhile.
>>55313083
>My dad hit me when I was trying to learn how to ride a bike and couldn't do it right away.
Good parenting.
Reminder spanking reduces a child's IQ: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/09/090924231749.htm
>>55313083
He should of beat you with a fucking baseball bat, how fucking dare you not learn how to ride a bike!
Everyone on /pol/ was abused physically or sexually, what a fucking surprise
Fuck, this thread is hot. Imagining all of you as little kids getting your asses beat, and seeing you defend it now as adults. Unf, fuck, I bet you'd love it right now you sluts.
>>55312143
Yes, I was spanked. I did the same for my little sister when she was a bratty kid too.
No, never. I was a well-behaved child and didn't do anything to deserve physical punishment. Little brother was the same. Generally I'm against it and consider the parents who do it to have failed from the beginning, but I'm sure some kids do deserve it. Particularly acts of actual malice or extreme disrespect warrant it imho.
>>55313083
I was beaten for getting math problems wrong
For the viruses my dad got watching porn
For trying to stop my dad from hitting my mom
Or because dad was just in a bad mood
Fun times.
>>55311787
Only once, I learnt my lesson.
>>55313457
Hilarious. Go into graphic detail on how he hit you.
I've seen the outcomes of using physical punishment vs not in high schoolers. When I was in high school band, our band was known for having a high level of discipline. This was partly because the student leadership could assign push ups, laps etc if someone wasn't doing what they were supposed to do. My junior year, the directors decided we couldn't do that anymore, and discipline went to shit. Telling someone off, no matter how many times you do it, will never have the same effect that physical punishment will.
>>55311787
Spanked. And I'm grateful for it. At least I'm not a spoiled brat
>>55312401
do a martial art full time, like wrestling or mma. cutting weight will help
join your military.
my advice
My father beat me when he found a buttplug in my room.
I've hid it well so I'm sure he had his doubts about me.
Now I'm just a poorfag student living in a room.
>>55312143
This. I was spanked. A few times threatened with the belt.
>>55312816
Your son sounds like an idiot and your daughter sounds psychotic desu senpai.
>boo hoo my parents beat me that why I became a drug addicted criminal
Fucking kill yourself faggots
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Nurture_Assumption
>Harris challenges the idea that the personality of adults is determined chiefly by the way they were raised by their parents. She looks at studies which claim to show the influence of the parental environment and claims that most fail to control for genetic influences. For example, if aggressive parents are more likely to have aggressive children, this is not necessarily evidence of parental example. It may also be that aggressiveness has been passed down through the genes. Indeed, many adopted children show little correlation with the personality of their adoptive parents, and significant correlation with the natural parents who had no part in their upbringing.
>>55311787
I got my ass beat as a kid a few times, but I wasn't abused. I totally deserved every one of my ass beatings because I was a shithead that loved to throw rocks at cars and played with matches and almost burned down the house twice.
Those ass beatings set me straight.
>>55311787
my father used to come home drunk and shoot me in the face with a double barrel shotgun
>>55312558
>put under a cold shower with my clothes on.
Never heard of that but anytime, I refused to eat and I would ALL the time. My dad would put me in the bath and told me ''eat it or wear it'' and if I still refused, he'd pour it all over my head.
>>55313756
That sounds painful
>>55313756
That's rough, how did you cope?
>>55313805
Haha holy shit.
>>55313543
Well, one time i was eating breakfast before school. My friend was there because her parents had to leave to work extremely early and they needed someone to drop her off as well. So we are talking and fooling around when i see a breadcrumb on the table. Without thinking, i flick it on the floor. Daddy did not take kindly to this. Being the reasonable adult that he is, he grabbed me by my hair, flipped my chair over, and dragged me to the living room (by my hair). Then he smacked me in the face a few times, meanwhile i started crawling underneath the table. So i sit there and he kicks me once and spits on me. He tells me to expect math problems when i get back from school. xD
>>55312558
>but even my teachers in elementary school used to slap or give kids ear pulls.
Honestly, I feel like teachers would abuse that kind of power. I think they would try to find any excuse to slap a student. I don't know, maybe im just over-thinking it.
>>55313756
Did that cause you to become an introvert fuccboi with crossdressing tendencies?
How did your parents spank you? Over your pants? Naked?
>>55313903
>How did your parents spank you? Over your pants? Naked?
please daddy can i have another?
>>55311787
Yes.
But you can´t slap the lazyness out of the people. So they didn´t manage to solve the problem.
>>55312143
It doesn't make any difference what you call it, having to use force is child abuse.
>>55312143
This is an important distinction, unfortunately in todays world many sensitive faggots seem to think even spanking is unreasonable.
I've no children, but I've trained many a dog and wolf; a little bit of pain can be an important learning stimuli not only for animals, but for humans as well.
There's a pretty thick line between pain as a tool and for sadistic pleasure, but simple spanks, pinches, etc are all that's ever necessary.
>>55313964
Yeah, nigga, you know what I like. Give me my real material /pol/, I know you fucks were subjected to some hot shit.
>>55313756
Are you immune to buckshot now?
>>55311787
nope , never , my mum and dad never even tapped me as punishment :) but school was different though
>>55313356
>>55313903
Pedo detected
>>55313987
>having to use force is child abuse
That's vaginal talk. There's a difference between a swat on the ass and bloodying a kids face with a clenched fist.
>>55313849
My family was quite poor when I was younger and one day our mother cooked us corned beef hash because we only had leftover veg and a tin of beef in the house. My sister who was about 5 or 6 at the time and a fussy eater had a tantrum and threw it across the floor. My dad picked her up, took her to the stairs and literally toe-punted her arse upstairs. She never complained or refused to eat a meal after that.
>>55314099
I'm not into kids, I'm self-inserting. The authentic abuse is the hot part.
>>55314153
Giving or receiving?
I wouldn't call it beating, the word beating makes it sound like it's unprovoked and excessive.
I don't know when it started actually, but it was always with school grades. My mom would smack me in the face once or twice whenever I brought home a bad report card, but far worse than the hitting was yelling. I had really bad anxiety because of it and entire days would be wasted because all I would do was worry about when I was going to finally pull out the report card and get yelled at. I started living with my grandparents partially because of this rather than fixing up my grades, it wasn't until late high school where I finally started trying. Even then it was because I had fallen in love for the first time and not because of fear, ended up giving up sugar, lifting, giving up all drugs except flu vaccination etc and everything got better.
Jumped from a 2.0 in high school to a 4.0 in high school and hitting is long gone.
I'm still sketchy on whether it was good or not, I get extremely stressed out whenever I hear someone yelling or angry now even if it's some random person in public. Haven't raised my voice since elementary school and I can't stand being touched at all or have my picture taken (I physically avoid both involuntarily). Sex is very frightening too and I can't see any appeal with how much physical contact there is. I really don't understand how people can yell or speak sternly though. I can get pissed off but I either hold it in or release it in short, toned-down comments. The thing that pisses me off the most is when other people get pissed. There's never any reason to yell unless it's a kid or a dog.
>>55314203
Receiving, I'm that kind of fucked up. God damn especially and specifically spanking. This thread just boner'd my normal /pol/ morning to hell and back.
>>55314203
Yes, my parents were fairly strict, even though I was really a good kid.
Now I'm a depressed pussy, but that's not their fault.
no but my mother who was bipolar or some shit always used to do other terrifying things
one time I was locked in a room for three days when I was like 7
another time I begged her for food for hours and then the next day she asked if I wanted some and when I said yes she said "too bad"
I was spanked once when I was 5 by my mom. In preschool, we would get spankings with paddles. That was worse.
>>55311787
My parents never lay a hand on me, Wtf at all the anons being beaten? Barbarians
>>55312143
Such an elegant explanation. Bravo.
Fuck Ya I was. My piece of shit mother knocked me out when I was 9 years old. The only time I've ever been ko'ed.
I was spanked. I don't talk to my parents now.
>>55314273
4.0 in college*
I type like shit on adderall
Am i the only one that was terribily beaten by my father?
Like punches, kicks on face, neck, chest, belly etc. Being lift on the wall. I even had some scars sometimes.
No one?
>>55311787
Yes, beaten, spanked and overall "physically disciplined". The few times my parents tried "time outs" were a joke. I may be one of the few cases that learnt right away that every action has an immediate reaction.
I understood respecting authority pretty young, and while I was generally good-natured, every kid acts up and even I acted a damn fool.
I'm sure there are parents that go overboard. I only got a bloody nose and lasting bruises a few times. But what's most important is that I had the FEAR OF GOD when it came to doing things that required the teachers to call home.
There are still several instances I can think of where it would have been less frightening if the Police just scared me rather than "calling my parents". At least in high school after I was way past being spanked as a means of punishment.
>>55314554
...that's not normal
>>55314554
Nah, it was my mother who beat me as a child. My father is fucked up psychologically, but he's not violent or sadistic.
>>55314554
Ive had friends who went through the same shot anon.
>>55314444
your a faggot
>>55314554
thats legitimate abuse
>>55311787
Spanked until i was 9 or so, it pretty much shapened me.
>>55314554
Terrone
>>55314708
I don't tolerate abusers. Go spank yourself fuck face.
>>55314554
I'm >>55314318, and I've had a fairly rough beat up with kicks and punches just one time. We were on a basketball game, and I was just being an annoying little cunt. For all the game I'd say stuff like "I'm hungry, I'm thirsty, when will it end?" He was quiet for all the road back home, and when he closed the door started beating me.
Needless to say, I never did that again.
Really, I couldn't have asked for better parents, but life was really rough on me for other reason and now I'm just an empty shell.
>>55314623
I still remind him sometimes haha
>>55314654
He was pretty violent :/ even now to be honest
>>55314690
>>55314708
It is not like i dont talk to him anyway, after every beat we would make peace and get back to normality as before.
>>55314764
Coglione.
>>55314814
Ma sei Africano? Guarda che un padre del genere non è normale
>>55314444
was it yesterday mr quadro ?
>>55313863
Things only went to shit when we stopped it.
>Look up when it got banned
>It's still allowed in 18 states
Better make it count while you still have it.
>>55313987
The world isn't that black and white, bub.
Pinching your kid's hair between you fingers when he's be naughty and tugging it isn't child abuse.
>>55314853
kek, gli africani educano cosi'?
Comunque non e' che ora non ci parlo, dopo facevamo sempre pace.
Se mi avesse picchiato o meno ora avremmo sempre lo stesso rapporto per capirci.
>>55314870
go blow yourself snackbar.
>>55311787
No.
Now I'm a NEET, a stoner, a virgin overweight neckbeard, and a die-hard liberal.
>>55314554
Punches on face* not kicks on face.
>>55313810
for him
>>55314949
>gli africani educano cosi'?
Ma penso di si. Non sono molto noti per le loro finezze. Comunque mi dispiace per te. Stavo solo shitpostando. Forza e coraggio che la vita è un formaggio
>>55314554
My dad when I was really young was a piece of shit who abused me. Had anger issues. My mom didn't care and was a heavy drinker. My mom was neglectful. She either never said anything and ignored it or told my dad to ''tone it down'' a bit. I was 6 years old and my sister went out to hang with her friends. I always followed my sister and she brought me home because she wanted to hang her alone for an hour or so. And I stood at the door waiting and then I told my dad ''I hate you'' and he went full sperglord. He freaked the fuck out and punched me breaking my nose, then he choked me and hit my head against the wall. My sister got home and started yelling at him calling him an evil person. Christmas was soon and I saw my mom writing a letter to family members and saying ''got my get my stupid fucking kids gifts''. Even after that though, I didn't get depressed. It's amazing, I was still innocent in a way and laughed. My mom quit drinking though and was one of the nicest people ever. My dad quit his old job and changed. The last time he ever ''hurt'' me was when I was 9 and it was a lesson learned. I bit my brother and I bit him ALL the time when we fought but my dad told me this was the last time and so m dad bit me and drew blood. My dad felt really bad about it and I could tell he was sorry. My mom and dad started to tell me they loved me.
Then I started getting molested by a neighbor boy who was a year and a half older than me. I'm not traumatized but lets just say, that was my last shred of innocence.
>>55312558
>>55312143
Yeah. Same here. Except my mom would smash me with a wooden spoon as hard as she could. She was very physically abusive when I was young and then very verbally abusive as I grew up. It's hard to let go of that.
My step-dad spanked me with a belt one time, and I might have been spanked at some other point but I don't remember. I've got a massive spanking fetish now, and I wonder if it was at all related.
>>55315052
Does anybody else have parents who used to be awful then changed and are great now?
>>55315052
Shit man im sorry.
Thats a shitty story indeed.
Hope youre better now.
>>55315046
Eh, diciamo che forse sono davvero mezzo uomo delle piramidi e mezzo italiano kek
>imb4 negro
>>55315218
Negro. Scherzo di dove?
I got my legs whipped with a belt a couple times as a kid. My dad was gone a lot when I was younger though. A couple times he lifted me by the throat but I was being a disrespectful little shit so it was pretty deserved. Getting into arguments with my mother got me slapped a couple times by him as a teenager, and once both my contacts popped out of my eyes. Every time things gresham physical it was because my mother is just crazy- one time she hit me over the head with a bag filled with buckles or something when I was like 15, because I wouldn't sleep downstairs during a tornado warning. And we live on the east coast, so no tornadoes 5 me. I'm in the navy now and I think i turned out alright. It's really a shame my father couldn't have been around more- that is all I really wanted as a child and by the time I was a late teen I actually got to start to know him. Mother ruined the times we coulda had as a happy family, but I guess she did the best she could or whatever.
>>55315286
Mio padre e' egiziano e mia madre e' italiana delle marche.
E vivo a Roma.
Non so neanche io di dove cazzo sono kek
>>55311787
Had my share of branch and belt until age 11 or so.
Nothing too severe, more shock and awe than actual attempt to inflict physical pain.
I usually earned it too, by being mean to my sister or breaking ceiling light or throwing stones at rifle rounds and scaring whole neighborhood or smoking secretly.
Turned out pretty ok, no hard regrets.
I actually prefer mild spanking to all other types of punishment.
After I got my scolding, case was always closed immediately and lesson was learned, instead of standing in the corner or being grounded for half a day and whatever "humane" sick parents do.
Kids make mistakes coz they don't know better or want to check limits. Regret comes quick and if you make them suffer due mistake for prolonged period, along with additional nagging and guilt induction -- well, this isn't parenting, it's psychological terror, a torture. And that's no okay.
>>55311787
I had the best childhood. My parents beat me up for trivial things. I was bullied in school growing up as well, and my parents did not care. Maybe these are the reasons why I am a shut-in and unemployed, and contained in 4chan.
>>55315415
Bho ti dirò i pochi Egiziani che conosco sono abbastanza based. Si integrano bene.
Preferisco gli Egiziani a tutta la feccia che ci arriva dall'Africa sub sahariana, questo è sicuro
>>55315437
Also, when mom drove me and sister somewhere, we were usually fighting on the back seat so horribly that she couldn't keep or driving, so she stopped car and pulled our hair to stop the fight. Pulling hair was usually mom's last resort.
>>55315052
Is this why your English is so bad?
>>55315536
Ma infatti mio padre si e' integrato molto bene.
Anzi, ha vissuto piu' qui in Italia che in Egitto.
E sono anche sculato: il suo nome non e' un nome arabo da far urlare 9/11, e il cognome ha origine greche. Tutto sommato mi e' andata bene lel.
E non e' neanche musulmano, mia madre dice che non se lo sarebbe sposate se fosse stato musulmano lel
>>55315643
POO
>>55315462
>couldn't cope with stress over minor issues (being yelled at and given basic discipline) and instead developed strict fears and rituals to make everything worse
>browsed 4chan for 8 years starting at age fucking 12
>took amphetamine medication for years because of "ADD" scam and often had days where I said <10 words, never learned to socialize if it's not spewing interesting information or important stuff
>smoked weed for years
>become schizotypal drone with thought overload, can't express any thoughts because I would regret/revise them later
Luckily my integrity to systems prevents me from ever being a NEET but I don't have any goals or attachment, I just want to think and nothing else.
I was a very laid-back obedient child so no, there was never much reason. Pretty sure my dad would have leathered me a few times when I was a teenager if he'd still been around though.
>>55311787
No but my mother would push my father to treaten me a lot with potential violence including breaking stuff around me a throwing object out the windows and shiet.
Lets say we have a very limited relationship.
>>55315740
Aspetta, in effetti il mio cognome e' lo stesso di uno degli attentatori delle torri gemelle KEK
Nevermind
>>55315740
Infatti. Ho notato che gli Egiziani che abbiamo qui non sono quasi mai musulmani, anzi molti odiano l'islam. Non posso biasimarli, visto quello che combinano i fratelli musulmani e altra bella gente di quello stampo
>>55312143
>hitting children is correction
Sure Jamal sure.
I was backhanded a couple of times, but other than that I was a generally well behaved child.
So no, I was never beaten or given the belt or whatever happens to little helions.
>>55315643
At least he can poo in the loo
>>55315880
lol
No. I would never hit my own child
>>55315893
I cristiani tendono ad integrarsi meglio, i musulmani col cazzo che si integrano.
Mio padre non vede i musulmani molto a favore, e non lo biasimo.
Tutto quello che toccano si trasforma in merda.
Conosco alcuni musulmani che mi hanno detto specificatamente che tagliare la testa a qualcuno che si converte ad un altra religione e' giusto perche' lo dice il corano.
''E' la nostra cultura'' dicono.
Ma andate a cagare.
>>55312892
This. Exactly this.
Real authority is not hurting, and its not screaming.
Being respected, feared and loved is what to aspire to.
>>55311787
Spanked by pretty much every adult family member when I was younger for one reason or another. Hard slap on the butt, no big deal.
Mouth washed out with soap. twice, both times by my mother for calling my one sister a bitch and spitting on the other. I was slapped by her as well, again for calling my sister a bitch.
Dad got physical with me a couple of times. Beyond spanking me, he did make me cut switches every once in a while and as a pre-teen he hit me with a belt a few times. Only time he probably crossed the line is when I told my mom to shut the fuck up when I was 17 and he'd had a few beers.
I have an extremely healthy relationship with my immediate family and hold no ill will towards them. Corporal punishment can be a useful tool.
I was an accident and my dad left before I was born. My mom never talked to me, she beated me all the time. I grew up with a shitload of problems.
Last time was when I was 18, she went insane and started beating me and I stopped her and choked her and I think I killed her. I left Spain and went to Argentina and started a new life here.
My life is a fucking mess.
Yes. My mother was married to an abusive husband. She had two daughters to him, but I was from her previous marriage, so I when he wasn't hitting my mother he turned on me instead because I wasn't his flesh and blood.
>>55316066
Spero tanto che i musulmani vengano presi a calci in culo fuori dall'Europa prima o poi. Sennò ci tocca vivere sotto la sharia.
E a quel punto scoppiano guerre civili un po' d'appertutto.
Spero non si debba arrivare a tanto, ne abbiamo passate già troppe come continente
>>55311787
I was physically disciplined as appropriate by my parents as a kid, never "beaten" by them. Spankings and getting popped on the mouth were never to induce pain, only to get a point across, more symbolic than anything else.
I.e.
>be me
>about 4 y.o.
>being a little shit as usual
>dad "open your mouth again and I'm gonna pop you one"
>me thinking I'm clever
>*opens mouth as wide as possible without making a sound*
>*slap*
Q
However, my older brothers used to do really fucked up shit, my oldest brother would make my older brother and I fight for his amusement and if we didn't he would just beat the shit out of us both. My older brother used to kick my ass every single day until I was fourteen and one day I slammed him through a glass table and broke his elbow.
Why do you ask OP?
>>55315052
>Then I started getting molested by a neighbor boy who was a year and a half older than me. I'm not traumatized but lets just say, that was my last shred of innocence.
Something like that also happened to me.
When the 99,9% of people think about the kind of person that would molest a child, they think only in adults, but in fact in my case it was a boy of the same age that I was.
This is the first time that I heard about a case of this type besides mine. At least now I see that what I am not the only one who had to suffer that.
>>55316287
P much this
>>55315643
I wrote it fast. Get off my dick, faggot.
>>55312816
"and my daughter for trying to convince my son to "ride" in the dishwasher'
fucking kek
>>55316304
How has it affected you?
>>55311787
A few times but I'm always wondering if it was as bad as I remembered or if I have a valid complaint.
I definitely just told myself it's best to try to sweep it under the rug and try to forget or at least pretend it never happened.
>>55311787
My mom beat the shut out of me up until I was 13 and could fight back. She cracked one of my teeth slamming it into granite and stomped on/kicked me often. My father was a saint but my mother always acted like he was violent.
>>55315643
DESIGNATED
>>55316213
>I think I killed her
You might want to check on that
>>55316304
>When the 99,9% of people think about the kind of person that would molest a child, they think only in adults
True, but it's obvious he learned it from somewhere. Probably from another adult. Me and my brother were speaking about it the other day and my brother thinks his dad was molesting him or something. Him and his dad would always go out and come back with something to eat, like McDonalds happy meal or something. One time, he wanted me to suck his dick and I refused and he said he would ''buy me McDonalds'' if I did so. His dad also looked like a faggot. Think of a hipster who owns a Mac and browses Buzzfeed and likes youtube vloggers.
>>55316271
Eh, la vedo dura.
Guarda Merkel che multa i paesi che non vogliono i ''rifugiati'' (rifugiati un cazzo, questi vengono dall'africa dove non c'e' guerra, i siriani son molto di meno) con una cifra simbolica.
Io non credevo che la Germania fosse a capo dell' UE ma mi sbagliavo.
Per una volta son contento che abbiamo il Vaticano, almeno l'influenza musulmana sara' di meno nel nostro paese ma comunque....
Prima della sharia gli apriremo il culo a suon di cannonate. Aspetto solo il primo gruppetto di stronzi che provano a chiedere diritti o leggi basati sul loro libro di merda.
>>55315821
I'm the worse than you think. I never smoked or tried any drug, never tasted a beer nor wine. Never got laid. Never had a soulmate nor friend.
>>55316564
>Prima della sharia gli apriremo il culo a suon di cannonate
Bravo. Ci vediamo sul fronte
>>55312143
This, regulary had a spanking from the oldman or a slap on the back off my legs. Even had my mouth wash out with soap on a few occasions.
Kept me on the straight and narrow and never did me any harm.
>>55316590
>soulmates
Such a thing doesn't really exist.
>>55311787
Definitely spanked and such by my parents. Though there was this one time my dad slapped me in the head so hard, my head hit the ground before the rest of my body did. Left a good sized mark on my face for the better part of a week, but that was the only time he went that far (was around 10-11).
All in all, I think it made me a better person and put me on the right track on a lot of things.
>>55316158
thats not exactly correct though
do you guys think the reason it "doesnt seem to be effective" is because the parent is mad or not when they are doing it? that is silly. the reason it's not effective is that it depends on the kid. some kids will straighten up right away from being hit, and for others it's the exact opposite. they will start brooding hatred that could never be reversed. but whether or not that succeeds also depends on the kid.
there are a lot of ifs, but hitting can prove to be effective as long as conditions can be met:
1) is your abuse logically sound?
that is, youre hitting your kid because they broke the same lamp again, because you told them to stop doing what they did 3 times already? or are you hitting them over some opinion that youve never told them before?
2) do they understand the logic? if the kid looks unsure as to why theyre being disciplined, just like a dog, it will most likely be ineffective.
you have to keep in mind that words do not work with everyone. some people do not care, even after theyve grown up. whether it be temperament, IQ, brooding disdain, etc. it is your job to both determine what your kid responds to best, and figure out if they understand the meaning of things, that will decide whether or not you are successfully raising a kid.
>>55312505
Top kek desu senpai.
I had my mouth washed out with soap once and pretended to like it because I'm an absolute madman.
>mfw my mum got out a bottle of bleach and threatened to make me drink that instead
>>55315217
>>55316229 here. Before my mom ran away from the abusive douchenozzle she married after my father, and even for a long time afterwards, she treat me like shit. She was never overly violent towards me - I got plenty of slaps, some were justified and some weren't. She put me through an awful lot of emotional abuse though. She'd call me names (one of her favourites was 'bastard features'), tell me that I'd never see my father or grandparents again, tell me that I was a mistake and she wished I'd never been born and so on. I was neglected a lot too. I was never fed properly, never had any decent clothes, got to have a bath maybe once a week if I was lucky. I got bullied horrendously at school because I was greasy and smelly, and then when I got home from school it wasn't any better.
She divorced the abusive husband when I was 11, but the emotional abuse never stopped. I dropped out of school at 14 and sank into depression. By 17 I'd tried to kill myself 3 times, and I think after the third attempt (which actually came pretty close), she realised what an awful mother she had been to me and she sent me to go and live with my father. After that we began to repair our relationship, and now my mom is a genuinely nice, caring person and we're pretty close.
>>55316816
>>mfw my mum got out a bottle of bleach and threatened to make me drink that instead
Was she joking? That sounds serious.
>>55316633
Ci vediamo li'!
I used to be beaten with belt and sticks. because I used to be a stupid kid. Now i'm grateful.
>>55316923
I think she knew that I'd stop being a little shit if something dangerous was involved.
>>55316391
I prefer to think that it hasn't affected me to much, although I will never know if my life would have been different if it had not occurred.
It could be true that from experiences like these one could develop a trauma, or even tendency to repeat the same actions that one suffered (the molested became molester). In my case I hope that I have completly lived through the past and of course I will never do the same I suffered.
No and know i'm fucked
>>55316910
I dont get the "pretty close" thing, how is it possible after all the shit?
>>55317003
Amen, kids now have it too easy. No wonder they have no respect for adults because they know nothing will happen if there naughty.
Spanking when i was a child? All the time. Beaten by my bipolar borderline father because he was feeling muh bad and needed a human punching-ball, he took care to drink himself to death before to have an alibi (like "i didn't remember i was drunk"), i was beaten like every night, my mother too in a sadistic way. It totally crushed by will especially during my last year of high school, i couldn't go to school i didn't have any energy, so i entered a period of loneliness and became a nolife.
Now at 21 i try to get back on track but it's hard when your friends forget you and move on and nobody calls you to see you or just talk. Became asocial as well so hard to make friends.
I'm like an empty shell.
>>55311787
When I was 12, my brother used to take his anger out on me. There were times I tried to talk to my parents for help, to end the pain, but all they would do is get on to him, then my brother would attack me the next time we were home alone. He would ring my neck, smack me in the face, and he would tell me how worthless I was. During that time, I was bullied in junior high. So yes, I was beaten when I was a kid. Now if that smug cunt tried to do that shit to me today, I would slit open his fucking throat and watch him beg for life. Fuck him, and all the normies that never got abused and live a happier life than I did.
I was smacked once, so hard my feet came off the ground and I knocked over a shelf full of stuff that fell on me. I'm happy it happened because it only took that one time to get it through my skull;
1.) Dont be a bitch and complain/fight over nothing.
2.) If you're gonna fight back don't be 6 years old and punch your dad in the dick.
Not beaten as like hit with a closed fist, popped on the wrist, spanked by hand or belt sure. I always seem to remember mom being the one to pop my wrists, and dad was the one who dealt out the serious shit like being spanked with a belt.
I wasn't, because honestly, I rarely had to be. I recall a couple of well-deserved hits, but for the most part, just yelling at me was enough to really upset me when I was a kid.
>>55314554
Yeah I was thrown against a wall, and my dad slapped me but his watch connected with my face and I still have the scar. I never fought back.
Mostly he would just pull out a board and tell me to bend over the bed and swing it like a baseball bat, and say that he would stop hitting me when I stopped screaming. My ass would be a nice shade of blue and purple.
I feel conflicted because my parents always have provided for me, and aside from the beatings I got everything else was ok, but I hate them at the same time.
I don't ever want to discuss the past with them, and I can't think of myself as some victim because I know that there are people out there that had it worse than me.
>>55316503
>True, but it's obvious he learned it from somewhere. Probably from another adult.
One thing is certain: the trauma acquired, in the worst of the cases, could produce to the victim tendency to repeat the same harm on another person. The same could ocur for the subsequent victims, and that, in the end, causes a cycle without limit.
>>55317252
Where is your brother now? you live with him or you two are along gone?
>>55312401
This
>>55317141
I'm not the kind of person to hold grudges. It might have taken me to almost die for her to realise, but she knew she hadn't been a good mother to me and was genuinely remorseful for it, so I chose to forgive her.
Like I said, she's a completely different person now. She's kind and caring, and I she's finally learned the value of having family around her. I know we've got a lot of history between us, but you can't change the past, and trying to hold onto it will just make you bitter.
>>55311787
No. I wasn't raised by degenerates
>>55311787
I was spanked when i almost killed my sister and when i broke my brothers rib. I deserved it.
>>55317252
>When I was 12, my brother used to take his anger out on me.
I feel like shit now. I used to do that to my brother when I was 14 and he was 11. I never punched or abused him as bad as you were, but I would call him insults and pinch him a lot. Most of the time, it would start with him and me getting into a mini argument but then he'd called me ''worthless'' or said ''nobody cared about me'' and it would cause me to go into depression. He told me to kill myself all the time and made me feel like shit. I was home schooled during this time, had no friends and socially inept. My parents told me they were proud of me but I knew deep down, my dad was heart-broken. I tried to kill myself a few times. Once at 13, once at 14, then again when I was 17.
I only ever didn't because I didn't want my parents seeing my dead body. That's the one thing I wouldn't do to them. When I did it at 17, I tried killing myself at a party with other kids but I just passed out. I thought I wouldn't wake up but I did and the police were at the party and I got arrested.
Not very violently, but enough to know to not fuck around. Occasionally getting smacked but mostly getting picked up by the collar and shoved against the wall. Worst was maybe a bloody nose
>>55317396
He moved out for a while, but he came back for some reason. He doesn't do any of that shit anymore cause he's matured. He's having to deal with parole because he got charged with first degree drug charges (He sold pot.). He's also working at some lumber mill because he dropped out of college. I'm a sophomore in college and I won't be able to move out until I transfer to a university. When I do, I'm getting a dorm.
>>55312143
/thread
Addendum: Like the kraut, I got my mouth washed out with soap or tabasco if I even came close to swearing, or if I called my siblings stupid. I can't believe how disrespectful some kids are to their parents, and I place most of the blame on the parents for not disciplining their children.
>>55317580
Though maybe that's why I'm an autistic virgin. Do have a good job though so I have the bootlicker thing down.
>>55314050
I swear if some teacher hit my child i would beat the shit out of him/her.
I was spanked rather often (because I was an asshole of a kid) until I started laughing every time it happened. That seriously freaked my mom out at the time, and she stopped soon after.
Man, I was a conniving fuck of a 7 year old.
>>55311787
Was whipped on the ass with a horse crop (a horse whip) that had a cool handle made of a gazelle leg. Thing was over a meter long and even with little force it made the whip "whoosh" sound easily. It also hurt like hell and made sitting down hard for a while.
I'm pretty sure I deserved it each time it was used, and I didn't get spanked with it more than 4 times in my life.
>>55317775
Oh, wow. I also started doing this. I even started saying that I liked it.
>>55317844
naughty boy ;)
>>55311787
Does a metal spatula to the back of the thigh count? That's how I was spanked. Shit hurt like hell.
No, because I'm not a nigger nor was I born to nigger parents.
>>55311787
Most Repubs and libertardians were beaten as children. It explains their lack of humanity.
>>55316660
>Such a thing doesn't really exist.
So true, soulmates are now a myth. People only 'befriend' you when they want something from you.
>>55311787
Everybody here got a few slaps for shure. If someone broke bones...well, thats a different story.
>>55317976
I'm surprised how many of them browse this board
my dad threw me to the ground one time when I talked back and was being a little shit
I was generally well-behaved though
>>55318276
>memecenter.com
>>55318305
Yes, believe it or not, normies use memes we like to use too. Get used to it.
>>55318305
>>55318363
I'm from 9gag ^_^
don't be mean
>>55311787
Beaten? No.
Disciplined? Yes.
There is a difference, liberals.
My dad was this big, muscular Russian dude who would yell so loud that my ears hurt, so no. The moment he shouted I got my shit together.
Because if he slapped my shit, it would only take one to fuck me up.
Got spanked or hit in the face with a wet rug (stings like hell, leaves no trace), but I was alwaysarguing and talking back, so I think I deserved it.
Spanking children is still prett common here, but not as much as it used too.
My mom told me a story, when she had begun working in the schoool situated in a small town, she had that one, cocky deliquent in her class. Everyone, even experienced teachers were afraid of him (he was 15 years old, very bulky, but stupid, so he was repeating school years several times). My mom is quite tall (175cm), but at the time she was also very slim. She also was like 19 years old (she finished a teachers study, not sure how it's in english). One time, when he was acting like a total jerk, she told him to stay after classes. When he arrived, she just took a huge ass wooden ruler, and slapped him it. He was so shocked, that he said nothing, just had tears in his eyes. After that, he was one of the most obedient students my mom ever teached.
>You are now aware that this thread has been screen capped and posted to reddit to laugh over
>>55314100
>there are degrees of abuse
I don't think anybody disputed that
>>55319191
Are you aware that none of us fucking cares?
>>55319582
there there
>>55319191
Yeah, I'm pretty sure nobody in this thread gives a shit if some autists on reddit read our posts.
>>55319191
Nobody gives a fuck about reddit. They steal our stuff and post in /r/4chan.
I lived with my single mom. When she was angry with me she'd box me into a corner and fucking wail on me.
She also threatened to shoot me, which I didn't believe, but... I still don't know how or what to think of the thrashings.
>>55319191
I can count the number of fucks I give and still have enough fingers left over to effectively jerk off.
>>55312912
I think they spanked you b/c you are black. sorry friend.
Dad whipped my ass with a leather weight belt, yo.
Dad's wonderful flip flops.
>in high school
>mom found out I smoke
>dad made me smoke a pack in one sitting in front of him
>never smoked again
Thanks dad
my dad would constantly beat me in SSX tricky
>>55312558
>go to catholic elementary school
>one black family
>one of the kids is in my class
>grade 2
>Sister Donna my nun teacher
>discovers black child hiding months worth of hot dogs in his desk
>spanks him on the ass in front of the whole room
Poor Carlos
Fucker had the worst stutter too
>>55316704
>you have to keep in mind that words do not work with everyone
First you should look on needs satisfaction. If kid has only physiological needs satisfied words and appeals to his mind will have little effect. It may not easily show outside but parents may often deny anything above food and water to their kids. This is why words may not work and punishment needs to fall on physiological level.
>>55314554
My stepfather did that, and it was the thing that got my mom to wake up and see what kind of a shitbag he was. Once she found out, we got out in a week
>>55315911
Of course it is. This is why the black communities don't have crime. Beating children = less crime. Everyone knows that.
>>55320394
>discovers black child hiding months worth of hot dogs in his desk
>months worth of hotdogs
Literally what the fuck. Why would someone hide fucking hotdogs in their desk.
No. My older siblings were however and are much more well adjusted, while I'm an August shitpostibg on /pol/
Never. But my parents did something that worked, they'd let me X time prohibited to use my computer (which was my life).
They used to tell me that every grade in school that was less than a 8/10 I would stay a week without my electronics. I got six weeks once, since this I never got bad grades again, so I guess it worked for me...
Looking back i was a little shit. I got spankings and other stuff too. My mom had this thick military belt she called Peter that she would use on me and my brother. 15 hits, and if you got up and ran she would start over. I ran a lot. My oldest brother was in the army, and when he came back she gave him authority over me. He would make me stand with my arms out open palm with weight plates on them and monologue about being a better person. All of my toys and comics, the things i loved most in the world were put in a trash bag and thrown out by him once when i lied. One time there was a little piss on the toilet seat and rather than vtaljing about it i was forced to put my bare ass in the toilet to "see how it felt". Am I a better person now? No. If anything im bitter and hateful because of it
>>55313987
lel molyjew things he's the authority on non violent parenting
meanwhile you can tell he uses constant mind games on his daughter
can't wait till we see how fucked up she turns out
>>55311787
>Were you beaten as a child?
Tortured, physically and sexually abused, segregated and bullied.
Why do you want to know?
>>55312143
This.
My father just use to lift me from the ground forcefully and shout angrily in my face. Hell never been so scared in my life.
Sometimes children needs a firm hand for their own good
>>55311787
No. I respected my parents a lot.
Especially my mother. I wouldn't really rebel, or do stupid shit as a child, and I would generally do as told, so I can't really recall a situation in which I was physically hurt in any way.
It's not that we didn't have any arguments, or didn't exchange heavy words every so often, but I hated it when it happened, and so I tried my best to do what they wanted from the beginning.
And my parents weren't overprotective woosies so that helped.
There was a lot of discipline in my household though. I don't think most of you would like it.
>>55321759
oh and yeah he broke my tailbone once by throwing me into some expensive furniture. Maybe that was the only time he went too far.
Still I talk to him at least 1-2 twice a week and I love that old bastard.
>>55314444
really? why?
btw my family was not involved
>>55321641
>>55321641
I might regret this, but...
Tell us, what happened!
>>55323154
Couldn't be bothered.
>>55321509
He tries to protect his daughter too much when she is on her own in the real world she wont be able to handle it. His daughter will probably become everything he tries to fight against by the time she becomes a teen.
My father only spanked me when i deserved it, it was even handed, usually calm (except for that one time i made my mom cry) and fair. When i was a teenager i never openly rebelled and am now i decent upstanding citizen.
Both are upper class christian white people and i think God every day that i was born into a good family with strong values and work ethic.
>>55311787
Hell yeah and I'm better for it. It was always punishment and was never mean or angry.
Got beaten with his fists in my face on my 9th birthday because i was stubborn. Wanted a 25 euro toy but he wanted to take me to a nature park. 3 people had to pull him off me. Luckily it wasnt the first time so i knew how to block most of it.
Daddy had anger issues after he found his best mate/brother who had shot himself in the head with a rifle. But that doesnt make it right.
Cant wait till he is old, cripple and defenseless. . He is in for a beating of a lifetime.
>>55321641
Details... lol
>>55311787
This thread is fucked. All you negros and your horrible parents really make me dispuise the world even more. My parents never laid a finger on me, just made me put soap in my mouth for talking out of line and lightly hitting me on the mouth for talking back.
beaten means abused, no i wasn't beaten
was i spanked on occasion or smacked in the mouth when i deserved it? absolutely. i harbor 0 resentmore towards corporal punishment i faced because it was rare and only used when i severely fucked up
>>55320779
Because he is a comedic genius.
>>55311787
I remember my dad going after a few times when I did something wrong, giving me a strong slap on my behind. I was always scared as fuck, running away crying. It hurt, but it didn't do any actual damage, it was just strong from the perspective of a child.
I never got close with my dad. Nothing we ever talk about gets beyond a level of casual small-talk, and I don't want to talk to him about anything that actually matters.
No idea if those are related, but slap, even if I remember it happening just a couple of times, is a quite strong memory from my childhood. It didn't do any good, and possibly harmed our relationship significantly. Never hit your kids /pol/, it doesn't work like you think it does.
Sometimes, that's the reason why nowadays I'm a mature and non-childish person.
>>55323951
> mature and non-childish person.
> 4chan user
Use one, and only one to describe yourself.
>>55321641
>Irish
>sexually abused
Choir boy fiddled by his minister.
>>55311787
Nah, I wish I was. I also wish I had joined the military. I am an absolute worthless piece of shit right now. 32 year old manchild who is unable to cope with life.
>>55323942
you sound like a faggot, my dad spanked the shit out of my and while we dont talk all the time i still respect him and we hang out whenever i am home
>>55312143
This
Spanking and beating are two different things.
getting beat as a kid sucked t.b.h
>>55324095
Good for you then.
>>55311787
Slapped 3 times by my father at various ages when I almost certainly deserved it (for example one was when I broke my brothers nose). I remember each occasion distinctly because it was such a rare thing. Never 'beaten' though.
Dad beat the shit out of me with a belt once because I was being a little fucking cunt. Glad he did. I was a right cunt.
>>55311787
Yes.
My dad would take off his leather belt, fold it over on itself, and make it do this loud snapping thing before hitting me with it.
That sound used to scare the shit out of me.
My mom used to hit me with a wooden spoon because "hands are for praying."
My dad stopped hitting me when I was about 8 because I wouldn't cry anymore when he did.
I guess the crying and terror was what did it for him, after that it wasn't worth it I guess.
I was spanked, but also slapped across the face with a belt by my dad, kicked in the nuts by my mom. Also pinned against the wall by my dad. I was always non violent. This all stopped by the age of 12
>>55311787
A man who spareth the rod hateth his son.
- the wisest man to ever live, Solomon
>>55315052
Sorry to hear this, no one deserves that. Start a family and love them to death, friend.
>>55312816
your daughter sounds like my kinda woman
>>55311787
I was born to shit post
Once.
Then I wised up and it never happened again.
Only stupid kids get beat more than once.
My father usually placed me in this tiny rowboat underneat the barn where all the cow piss and shit gets
no lights and a pack of crackers and a bottle of water
it would range from 5 hours to 12 hours
got all this just for not doing stuff like praying before dinner or being late
after i turned 17 i moved away from home and cut all contact with my parents
