I'm a bisexual guy who started out his teens being mostly attracted to women. In recent years I've become more and more gay. How do I stop it? What can I do? If a person can genuinely turn in one direction, surely he can turn in the other?
chill bro, bisexuality is okay
>>6478650
>If a person can genuinely turn in one direction, surely he can turn in the other?
Tell this to a parachuter
Ya it's rough. I wish i knew
>>6478650
>If a person can genuinely turn in one direction, surely he can turn in the other?
Your boner does what it wants. Of course sexuality can change; but you can't really force it any more than you can control what fetishes you have.
And yeah, sexuality can shift over time. I'm genuinely not sure I was gay in high school, but I'm definitely gay now. It happens, as you discover yourself and change as a person over your life.
And no, you can't "stop" it. You're just discovering that your preferences aren't what you thought they were.
Thing is, I've not only begun to like men more, but I've even started to like women less. Men have started to replace women in my fantasies. This is even reflected in my porn collection, which I recently deleted because of anxiety. I kept my attraction for men at the back of my mind since it first showed up, and now it's like a spreading infection. It makes me cringe of shame even to write this, but I can hardly get going when jerking off to women now. I have instinctively more submissive urges than before, including like wanting things near my butt or whatever. FUCK.
>>6478707
It's really no more of a big deal than you yourself make it. What will be is what you will know to have been.
Ever fucked a dude? How did it compare to women?
>>6478811
As a bisexual men who's only had sexual encounters with men, I do often think about slamming a woman. I tend to feminise some men if they're really submissive. I still fantasise about women and imagine pounding a woman is more pleasurable than a man.
>>6478811
Op here. No, never been fucked by a dude. I have had sex with one girl, the one I lost my virginity to.
most bisexuals go through phases of attraction, just like how hetero's go through phases of types of women that they like, punk, goth, preppy, artsy, etc.
it's normal, human sexuality and interest isn't static
you'll always be bi though, just own it
bemp
i identify with this
>>6478867
But you've messed around with a guy, right? Idunno, OP. I'd say find a man and try to establish an emotional and romantic relationship with him to test the waters. See where it goes. Random fantasies about butt stuff don't have to lead anywhere so just relax and follow your instincts irl
embrace it
suck dick
>>6483376
you forgot the " and eat pussy" part
