Serious question here:
What's the deal with straight guys coming to this board to beg for people to tell them that their obvious homosexual attraction to another man can somehow be twisted around into proof that they're actually heterosexual?
Like why can't they just accept that they're gay and move on with their lives? And why do they think that getting a bunch of strangers on the internet to confirm what they've already decided for themselves, while ignoring all dissenting opinions, is the same thing as being correct?
What drives this behavior?
>>6394452
The fragility of masculinity and preconceived notions that if they're gay they might conform to gay stereotypes
>>6394452
I don't know, but it's our duty to convince them that having these feelings doesn't make them gay.
The world needs more straight dudes who are down with homosex.
>>6394493
Being gay and being masculine aren't mutually exclusive.
>>6394522
Exactly my point. They fear they might end up conforming to some stereotype they aren't comfortable with.
I know when I came out my parents were like 'does this mean you're gonna be all prancy gay etc'
It's a preconceived idea that's wrong, but people still think it as its how homosexuality is predominantly displayed in popular media
>>6394565
>I know when I came out my parents were like 'does this mean you're gonna be all prancy gay etc'
This is a little off-topic, Anon, but: and did you?
>>6395875
I'm exactly the same person as I was before. So no.
>>6394452
Self identity is important, if you can reconcil who you are with who you think you are, you have a problem
Its confusing because a lot of us are only into gay porn but feel no attraction to dudes when we are around them like we do girls. I think it would be a lot easier to accept if I just saw a guy in the flesh and felt those same woo woo feelings that girls give me, but its always just a nice cock or a trap online that I end up drooling over.
>>6394565
Not OP but you've enlighten me anon.
