Need some advice
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Please, this is my first post here because I have that problem running on my mind and I don't have anyone to talk to.
I'm an MtF lesbian and I can't help but feel bad about it. I had to act like a man with my ex gfs but I don't want to do so anymore.
I feel guilty when people are treating me like a man and I thought many times about make up and dressing as I want (knowing I already have a feminine face) but I like women and want kids so I don't know what to do at all.
Should I try to "act like a man", act as I want but not talking about me being a trans, or coming out and tell people around me and girls I want to get with?
I've already put aside surgery because I'm afraid of it and want kids.
>>6368679
>i'm an MtF
>Anime
Realy?
> should i act like a man?
You know already. when you say act like a man, it would be just that, an act, not the real you. how long do you want to live a lie for?
> i want children
bank sperm, adopt, use relative as sperm doner, find a single mother
dont worry about surgeries for now, just focus on getting hormones, so you dont become manly
>>6368679
>act as I want but not talking about me being a trans
This
>>6368679
Well, gurl, go the first steps of transitioning.
#1 Find a therapist, who knows stuff about trans-people, and to whom you can relate.
#2 Get your prescreption for antiandrogens.
#3 Get rid of your facial hair.
#4 Come out.
#5 Take hormones.
Don't bother with the succession, though. Your main focus for now should be finding a therapist and geting antiandrogens, so you are not getting more manly.
>>6368679
>MtF lesbian
fucking dropped.
It's a tough call OP. Ultimately, do you think you could possibly be happy if you keep repressing?
Either way I suggest that you go see a therapist.
