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Share your coming out atories, good or bad doesnt matter.

>be 17
>finally self accepted, stoped constant repression
>want to rush things cause ticking timebomb puberty
>decide to come to ultra liberal mom, thinking shed be okay with it cause ultra liberal
>tell her how i feel
>laughing.exe
>she laughs at my face, starts lashing out how dumb this is, how ive always been a manly man, loved girls etc
>none of which is true, all my friends were always suspicious if im not a fag
> tells me transition is a joke
>begins to tell me how all trannies are prostotutes and failures
>tells me im psychotic
>next week she made a shrink appointment
>we go to the shrink few days later
> talk with shrink
>shrink says im definetly not paychotic, just most likely trans but he doesnt know because not his specialization
>mom talks with shrink seems okay
>come back home, she refuses to accept im not paychotic
>try to schedule an appointment with gender therapist
>she tells me i deserve to get cancer or an other terminal illness for feeling this way
>go back to the closet, start self medding

This was 2 years ago
Feels bad anons, really does.
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> all trannies are prostotutes and failures

its true tho
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what is paychotic ?
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>>6269770
Psychotic*
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>be 16
>come out to my friends
>they're mostly okay with it (either supportive or "don't care" attitude)
>I talk to one friend about something faggot related on facebook
>mom "accidentally" reads my messages
>asks me if gay
>yes
>goes apeshit mad
>the typical "Bad people on internet made you do it" talk
>"you convinced yourself you're gay"
>"what can you possibly find attractive about men?"
>at least you should know, mom
>takes me to psychologist
>psychologist is a total bro
>she says mother is wrong
>ff today
>my faggotry is never openly discussed
>however it is always in back of our heads
>e.g. if I'm going out of town with my friend it means that I'm going there to fuck a guy, but it's never phrased like that
>whenever there's something lgbt related on the news she talks shit about it
>pretend to not care

I can't wait to move the fuck out
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>>6269668

Sounds similar to my story yet my Mother wasnt so in my face about it, she just kinda low key pushed away the idea.

>mfw I've been self medding for 2 years also...
>came out at 16
>been slowly edging back into the closet since
>18 now and I wanna get somewhere since I know the timebomb is about to blow, if not already...
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>>6269831
I feel you mousie :( itll all work out im sure. If youre self medding then your bomb shouldnt blow
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>>6269851

Ty op :)
I hope so... I'm on herbal AA's and Estrogen atm. Im trying to find a way to buy something like Aldactone though...
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>>6269896
Theres always inhouse pharmacy/qhi depending where you live
If you ever need somone to talk to heres my skype:
Dudek909 or jungfreud
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I'm hoping this thread wasn't intended for just trans out stories, but I'll post mine. Rather short and happy.

I'm out to my ex gf, current gf, and a best friend about being bi. Experience went like this;

>Tell ex-gf (current at the time) I'm bi.
>has this huge grin on her face, says she suspected it slightly but didn't want to pry.
>admits she's also bi.
>start talking about our mutual attractions to same sex.
>She agrees to let me see men if I'm careful std-wise about it, and don't date any other woman.
>fast . Forward about a year and half later. About 2-3 months into relationship with current gf.
>Tell her I'm bi.
>is also extremely accepting of it. Admits to also being bi (I notice a strange reoccurring incidence in my history of dating almost always bi woman lol) tells me about her past gfs.
>We talk for hours on end about our attractions to the same sex and grow closer because of it. She grants me a polyamorous relationship so I can find a committed relationship with a man, with her also in my life as my woman.
>fast forward a year later. Work up the courage to tell me only close gay friend I'm bi.
>He is a little surprised, but seems pleased by the news. Tells me he's trans.
>her and I joke about it a lot. She teases me about fucking me sometime, we always 'ave a giggle.

Good luck to everyone else. Hopefully we can get some more happy stories..
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>>6269896
where do you live

i can write a script for a canadian pharma for you
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>>6270050

I live in the UK...
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>>6270066
idk anything about uk pharmaceutical verification so uh

sorry
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>>6270083

Idk and I live here so, I dont blame you
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>>6270016
It's always nice to hear of good outcomes.
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>>6269965
you were banned for being underage

fuck off
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>>6269752
Mine isn't!
College educated & everything.
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>>6269668
>be 20
>accepted myself for the trans fag i am
>out to suportive girlfriend and all supportive friends
>come out to parents
>just tears
ff to today
>be 1.5 years later still havent spoken to my rents about this
>cant manage boymode much anymore
>if i go home its gonna have to be in girlmode cuz tits
>fuck all this shit
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>was 16, and narnia level in the closet
>seemed perfectly cis, and pulled it off
>just waiting to move out, and transition
>one day mom finds all my makeup
>flips out, tells me im degenerate etc..
>this goes on for a week
>my dad passes away just after
>mom still hates me
>try to end myself cause I was dumb
>two weeks in hospital as I was really bad at dying
>got out, was put directly into psych ward for two weeks

that's my story I guess. now I'm 18, and living the /repression/ life, as I'm dependant on my mom who hates me.

life's great.
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I know it is the trend today, but you guys should seriously stop coming out and rushing things if you are not 120% sure your parents would accept you. At least wait until you are self-dependent and can move out at any time. Way too much you can lose, with nothing to gain, really.
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>>6271429
Get a job and go either self med or to an IC clinic
fuck your mom dude.
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>>6271429
>>6271665
If you make enough, you can probably rent a room from some people if your mom's being a cunt.
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>>6271480
What happens when it's inevitable they'll find your tits or pills?
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Wow you guys are making me feel bad.
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>>6271698
They will ignore it, because they don't want to face it. If they confront you, then you can come out, but you will have a much better chance of them accepting you. If you come out while they are in denial or it comes as a surprise to them, you will have a hard time, because you are forcing them to react.

So you go ahead and do whatever you are comfortable with. If you get comments about your feminine appearance, just laugh it off and say it's just your style, don't worry about it. Let them get used to it. Only come out when they force you to sit down and have a serious talk.
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>>6269668
>Get uti from anal with bf
>have to go to hospital
>parents think it's something to do with kidneys
>go to hospital every 3 days for 2 months
>eventually decide I'm fine
>week later my mom decides to go through my room
>finds my stash of panties
>takes them and later interrogates me
>decide to just fess up since I wanted to tell her eventually
>"I honestly don't really know what I am, but I might have feelings towards, guys. I'm not definitely saying until I've felt like this for a few years."
>she just starts crying
>"you realize people go to Hell for that, right"
>don't say another word to her
>turn around and walk to room
>she walks into the kitchen and smashes our modem
>"you're probably talking to men online"
>week later
>extremely depressed
>brother can tell
>brother goes to store and buys a shitty prepaid phone and unlimited data plan
>surprises me with it
>bestbrotherever.svg
I've been using that prepaid phone for 6 months now, my brother is the best~
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>>6269668
>14
>Freshman in HS
>Be after pep band game
>Talking to Jehovahs Witness friend about crushes
>End up saying I like this one guy
>He immediately is just like
YOURE NOT BISEXUAL ANON!
>He doesn't talk to me for a good while because he's homophobic
>Eventually reconnect because not even religion can hold back a good friendship
>He realizes his idea of gays is different from reality
>Come out to rest of friends passively, just when its appropriate, like getting asked if I liked any girls
>People always surprised I'm gay
>Never came out to family because homophobic and I'll be damned if I lose my future inheritance
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>Crying in bed one day
>Mother comes in
>Pressures me into telling her what's wrong
>I'm trans
>It's just a phase. You'll grow out of it
>She never speaks of it again
>Still sob in bed
>We never talk about it
>Once made the notion of buying female clothes in store
>ignored
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>>6273490
Your brother really is great, it's good to have a family member who truly loves you and isn't a selfish mentally retarded cunt. Your mom will come to regret what she did when she grows old and has nobody to take care of her.
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>>6270713
?? What do you mean
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>>6269668
i love that even liberals hate trannies
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>>6273598
>>She never speaks of it again
mine did the same
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hi
I'm from Russia
17, mtf
Came out to mom while nobody was at home
She started to cry
In 10 mins someone came in
She stopped to cry and asked me to be a boy
We didn't speak about it for 4 month
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>>6270016
Yup I'm jelly af tbqh.

Congrats! That sounds great!
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>be me
>mtf
>knew since 4-5ish
>did not come out because I never knew HRT was a thing
>thought there was only surgery and wigs
>be 18
>find out not all "boys" pray to god everyday they wake up in the right body
>discover HRT vlogs on youtube
>realize if I don't start HRT soon i'm just going to an hero
>get on HRT within days of figuring out transition is possible without gallons of silicone


Father:

>This is what the drug companies want, son
>They want you hooked on this stuff
>You'll be an ugly woman
>I'll never ever call you anything but HE and HIM

Mother:

>I love you no matter what
>I've always wanted a daughter

Brothers:

>ok.
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>cming out
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
This makes me weep.
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>>6269668
Your mums a cunt. She obviously doesn't give a shit about you. She may be your mum, but seriously, she's not worth your time or effort. She's a price of shit, find someone else that actually cares about you to live with. I'm shocked about this, truely disgusted.
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I'm having literally the easiest transition ever.

I came out to my parents, they were both very supportive and only wished I would have came out sooner. Brother, aunt, and uncle are all extremely supportive as well. I didn't lose a single friend either. Most were curious if anything.

On top of that, my parents have offered to pay for any surgery I need/want including FFS, SRS, and VFS.
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>>6283542

So what kept you in the closet so long?
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>>6283507
jesus christ, that poor father...I wish I could help him somehow
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>>6269785
>>the typical "Bad people on internet made you do it" talk

THIS SHIT
my mum pulls it with literally everything and it drives me up the wall. she treats me like some naive impressionable kid who walks into predators and extremists online and it's like
i've met crazy people online, people who'd ddos me and send me death threats, but i never did speak to one person who was like
"you know, hitler did nothing wrong, the jews are evil, muslims are evil, you should join our cult and transition"
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>>6283551
I didn't know it would go this way. Statistically as a trans person you are more likely to experience the standard trans narrative of having to deal with unsupportive/non-understanding parents. What are the odds that I would be the statistical anomaly?
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>>6269752
>it's true tho

They also have a staggeringly higher chance of committing suicide compared to a normal person, what does that tell you about their mental state?
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>>6283743

So your family and friends gave you actual indications they would be upset or were you just paranoid because of statistics?

>>6283743

You don't want to know what he thinks that indicates about the mental state of a trans person because it's sure to be ignorant and biased.
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>>6269668
Well, good on you for starting self-medding asap regardless of the abuse senpai, it could have gone a lot worse if you'd waited to move out.
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>be me
>be self-medding for 7 months now
>not out to family because parents are fucking loco
>regarded as an infamous hon on the level of the Beast of Cork and not even slightly feminine in nature
>sister messages me on FB last night
>is more suspicious than my parents, says stuff about lgbt issues when I'm visiting sometimes to stir the shit
>after talking for a while she mentions my new avatar and says "so what trans groups and stuff do you go to"
>freaking the fuck out internally wait what does she know how the fuck can she know, she's never been that outright about it before
>deflect it by saying I'm gonna get dinner, try to put it out of my mind
>ff to this morning
>she's really butch and has a tumblr and stuff so normally when she accuses me of being gay and stuff I retort by telling her "you know it's okay if you come out as FtM, I won't tell anyone" and pulling that whole bit in total earnest to see how she likes being interrogated over stuff like that
>posts a pic showing off her friend's dog today
>"hi woman"
>realise she's wearing one of my shirts in the pic
>"oh I see you're just deflecting it onto me because you're finding it harder and harder to repress your FtM urges" etc.
>"omg shut up" etc. a few times over, then "shut up you mtf hoe"
>"my avatar pic? it's just my goth phase idgi"
>"you look like a woman, you are trans af"
>"just because I have tits and stuff doesn't mean I'm trans, I'm considering it might be a chromosomal thing if anything"
>"nah you're trans"
>"p-please I couldn't ever be a woman lol, have you see my jaw"
>"there's always surgery"
>proceeds to tell me about FFS
>"but I don't have that kind of money"
>"you look like a girl anyway last time I saw you so you'd better get used to it"

>TFW NOT SURE WHETHER SHE KNOWS OR IS JUST BEING A SNARKY LITTLE SHIT

>tfw dad keeps asking stuff like "are you on hormones", "do you still feel like a boy" etc. really angrily

pic related is my recent FB avatar pic...
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>>6284104
It was both. I tend to be a very negative thinker, so I just assumed it would go badly. My parents also made negative comments about trans people once in a while. As soon as I came out, they did a complete 180, though. People's opinions often change completely when it's someone they know.

It kills me that I put off transitioning for absolutely no reason. I got very lucky in that male puberty hasn't affected me too much other than giving me some extra height, so my putting it off could have ended up worse. I still mourn the years of lost time, though.
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>>6284342
quick, edgar drown yourself!!
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>>6284342
you are a filthy tranny
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Honestly by this point, I've come out to almost everyone but my immediate family. Pretty sure most people who know me know I'm bi. I don't think my immediate family would care much but they'd probably think it was a little weird just because I'M a little weird.

Also my big brother knows and he's chill as fuck.
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>>6284342
Some people have never heard of the term "androgynous herd". Seriously. Goth gender lines are blurry on purpose. Normies need to hang themselves.
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>>6284471
ikr I really thought I was gonna be able to play it off like that, that wasn't even meant to be 'girlmode' as such, just 'aesthetically pleasing more than normal'-mode
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>Be me
>Be masculine, straight-acting normie
>Be 18
>Finally leave school
>Have leaver's party, get drunk
>Sneak off to shag the fag I was sleeping with one last time
>After a conversation I'm convinced to come out
>Do so with multi-paragraph, overly eloquent and philosophical Facebook post
>Go to sleep
>Next day, dad comes to talk to me about it, kind of confused
>Clarify about being bi and not gay, how I know I'm not hetero, agreeing that I should have told him first
>He's fine, everyone's fine.
>Crazy grandma sort of not fine, though I'm her favourite so she's only just a little concerned
>Makes me take down the Facebook post but kind of forgets that I'm not hetero pretty quickly
>Everyone continues to act the same.
>Life goes on as normal
>Muh bi privilege
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>>6284381

As two individuals, we're similar then. Though my parents aren't supportive (they believe I'm just confused, and things continue on as they were). And even if they were willing to do so, they wouldn't be able to pay for anything.
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>>6283704
>saying this in 4chan
i hope your post is ironic, if it isnt then destroy your computer and try to go outside a bit and know how people other than your family, friends, or anybody payed to deal with you, will treat you, then you are allowed to use the internet again
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>>6270016
god ur a massive wanker
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>>6273563
>wow dude no one told me there would be needles dude
>so what your just gonna like kill me
>that's totally UNFAIR!
>you can't just kill someo....
......
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>>6283704
>>6269785
Your mothers are right. You've both been brainwashed to believe being 'gay' is natural. You'll grow out of the faggot phase eventually :^)
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>>6284828

They're gays not lesbians. There's no such thing as a regretful faggot.
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>>6283542
>>6283743
>>6284381
This is literally me. I was very scared to come out to anyone, so I kept it inside me till 19, when I started to selfmed.
I came out to couple of best friends, they were ok and supportive. 2 months into hrt mom noticed my breasts and started a conversation about it all, I came out to her and my close relatives, so now they all are very supportive and help me to transition.
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>>6284342
Your sister sounds so nice ;_;
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>>6283507
>>This is what the drug companies want, son
i never got this meme

hrt is way cheaper than a lot of other things
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>>6269785
"I know you. This is not you."
"You're not gay."
"You 'fell in' to homosexuality."
"That girl just corrupted you."
"This is a relationship of convenience."

Shitty part is she generally concedes that gay people don't really have a choice. She has a gay best friend for fuck's sake. I mean, she's still homophobic in the "don't flaunt it, don't let anyone know, never hold hands in public" way, but...

i even rattled off a list of other girls I've dated/kissed so she wouldn't have the grounds to say that my big ole butch "corrupted" me. But she did anyways.

Uuuuuuugggghhhhh. I've been with this girl for a year and a half now. We fucking live together. This isn't going away. I wish she'd just... Stop.
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>>6283542
>easiest transition ever
>needing FFS or VFS
Yeah I don't think so tim.
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>>6269668
>be 17, Russian kid
>realise i'm trans, self-med for 4 months
>forced out of closet due to my parents searching my room
>dad gets angry and depressed
>mom tries to doubt me, ultimately gives up and trying to ignore the fact
>dad tries to shame me for wanting to be femme, keeps pointing out built dudes and that this is what i should be like
>dad researches trans stuff online, keeps looking for the "cure"
>eventually falls into a depression and suffers a heart attack, blames me for it
>mom keeps trying to say bad guys online convinced me into this and if i never knew i wouldn't have done this
>dad one day asks if i'm still taking pills
>i say yes and he gets another heart attack

I would never ever come out if i wasn't forced out of closet, this shouldn't have ended like this
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>>6287336

>People are literally so stupid they go out of their way to give themselves heart attacks

Although, once you've had your first, every other to follow will be much easier to trigger.
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>>6287336
kek holy shit
at least you kept taking the pills no matter what, anon
you're gonna look back on that as the best decision of your life
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>>6287584
yeah, which is a bad thing, i'm dependant on my parents for now, and mom's useless, i try to tune it down saying i'm unsure and stuff but it's only gonna last so long
>>6287605
yeah my story is awful i know, things went so bad that it's like a trashy drama film at this point, doesn't help that i'm not passable or good looking either, it's funny that way.
I hate myself for being trans, but i can't not be trans and keep my parents alive, since my suicide will probably affect them way more than anything else. I don't know what to do at this point
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>parents find stash
>become an IV meth addict because wtf else do you do right
>clean myself up
>get into university because fuck you thats why
>20
>looking for a legit prescription online without going through expensive psyc evaluation
>try a psychotherapist
>have a conversation etc
>don't care to explain to her how and why and what this is
>realized i didnt get my point across and probably sounded confused
>realize later all the psychological subversion that happened to me because im supposedly smart

>there is no picture that describes my discontent under the present circumstances. i could have been a grade A student and able to do calculus in grade school

This one time I deducted the mechanics of weapons of mass destruction.

>not a single person ive met even comes close to my level of frustration its like you have cancer and you bought a bag of chemo and someone finds it and goes like "methotrexate? cytarabine? these are toxic!" and throws them out and you slowly degenerate and thats supposed to be normal...
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>>6287617
>about the weapons you basically need a lazer and a ton (or mega ton more like) of some material that has lots of protons, like ununwhateverium, you just blast it with radiation knocking off all the protons at once into a whats called alpha or whatever radiation for some reason and well you know the rest
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>>6287642

But do you know how to enrich the uranium?

>>6287617

They found your HRT stash, and as a result of them throwing it out, you became a meth addict?

Also you're hardly understandable even here.
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>11th grade, toward end of year
>out to friends at school, not out to family
>mom thinks lesbians are weird hateful bitches
>dad would prob be ok with it just because he never wants me dating boys anyway
>get caught sleeping with a girl by her parents
>her ultra religious conservative parents
>push me out of their house at 3am
>stay over at a nearby friends
>change, go to school, parents knew I was spending the night with her as just galsbeingpals way
>so I feel safe or whatever
>but girl is stressed
>her parents wanna send her to some troubled teen christian camp to pray away the gay
>tell her to just tell them I tricked her into it or she was just experimenting or blame tv/internet
>just lie until you're 18
>figure I'll be ok, they aren't my parents and don't know mine anyway
>nah
>later they come into the school
>call me and her down
>demanding i be suspended for ruining their daughter
>or at least get my parents involved
>p sure lesbianing outside of school isn't against the rules in the student handbook
>and you can't legally give them any of my or my parents information so fuck off
>vice principal ends up giving them my address and junk anyway
>welp fuck
>i'll just tell my parents before they do
>mom kinda pissy
>dad apathetic
>week passes of nothing
>did I come out for nothing?
>nope
>crazy christian parents of the girl knock on door
>yelling to speak to my mom
>lol that's gonna go bad
>mom won't let them in the house
>they're calling me a dyke and whore and corrupting their daughter and what are my parents gonna do about it
>mom might not be 100% cool with lesbianing and gay shit
>but she HATES religious freaks
>pushes the mom down the steps
>smacks the dad with the screen door
>GET OFF MY PROPERTY YOU FREAKS OR I'LL CALL THE COPS
>TALK TO MY DAUGHTER AGAIN AND HER DAD'LL KILL YOU
>dad comes home
>you're grounded for lying about being at that girls house when you were really sleeping with her
>mom so pissed at that family she can't give a fuck about the gay
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>>6288011
Niiice.
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>>6287279
I didn't say "need".
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>>6291489
Correction, I meant to say that I didn't exclusively say "need". I'll elaborate.

I was barely touched by male puberty. My face was very androgonous before HRT, but there's a couple things I still want done to be conventionally attractive like forehead and nose work.

My voice barely dropped in puberty and training has not been a problem, but I like the idea of VFS, because even though my voice training has gone well (mostly due to my good starting point), I like the idea of VFS making the voice come more naturally.
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>22
>Decide I'm done repressing
>Come out to religious as fuck conservative family
>Mom, I'm Trans
>I start bawling
>She just looks and me and says "And you kept it in all this time because you thought for one moment, I could ever stop loving my daughter?"

Parent's still call me by my male name, but it's because I'm awkward as fuck and haven't asked them to call me by the name I chose.
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>>6288002
>But do you know how to enrich the uranium?
What is that?
Also, no, screw uranium, maybe thorium or ununseptium.
Or just thorium since it can be easily scooped up from the sidewalk.

>They found your HRT stash, and as a result of them throwing it out, you became a meth addict?
It broke my mind and I was never the same. Wanted to kill myself, but didn't so I Tyler Durdened.
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>>6291858
Oh, it's the isotope thing. No I was just postulating how much material I would need.
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>>6291862
Besides, I only thought of it in terms of a particle accelerator based on the gauss gun. It would need polar projectiles like magnetized spheres or better yet bipolar particles or something.
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>come out to mom as mtf
>it's palpable how awkward and sad she is and our relationship is already pretty distant so i feel like shit although she is as supportive as she can be
>tells me "you shouldn't wear dresses. you're tall and i don't think dresses look good on tall women" on the drive home
>dysphoria hyper mode for the next few days
>gets better with time and everything's okay now

>tell brother
>"oh, okay"
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>>6284342
>family is actively trying to be supportive and wants you to come out
>"n-no i'm cis haha"
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>>6275517
everyone hates us

liberals tend to be the biggest hypocrites
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>>6283478
>We didn't speak about it for 4 month
There was really no need for this sentence because you already stated that
>I'm from Russia
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>>6293471
>"month" if singular "months" if plural. The suffix -s denotes the plural form of a noun. Example: "My noun is too small to contain all these nouns."
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>mom thinks lesbians are weird hateful bitches
They are. Have you ever been on LesGen?
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>everyone seems to be cool with it
>dad only knows about hons, so he thinks I'm waiting til 30 or 40
>dad's friends keep drunkenly telling me to ignore what he says, and that he still loves me
I thought it went well at first, I guess not.
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>>6293575
I guess he meant that the fact they are going not to speak about it for months was by default because >>6283478 's from russia
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>>6284342
Also if that's you Anon then you have a chance to pass with some work unless you employed some camera trickery. You look a bit masculine but like a masculine *woman*.

Also tell your sister's she's a cute.
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>Be 19
>Come out as FTM
>Dad keeps looking for the cure online
>Insists I was not butch before
>Insists I've always been very feminine
>None of which are true. He's blinded by memories of dressing me up in princess attire at age 3.
>Mom says I should wait till I'm 30 to transition.
>My dad and I keep getting into shouting matches and he keeps repeating that I'm being influenced by the trans community and their /agenda/
>Fucking dysphoric as all shit and he keeps repeating this bullshit, getting emo as fuck about it everyday, complains about how his feeeeeeeelings are considered politically incorrect.
Can't wait to get out of here. Leaving in August.
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>>6293671
Same actually. But my parents just sort of found out I was trans and sat me down to tell me what they knew. It was like some horrific reverse coming out.
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>>6269668
mine's more like a battle of attrition then coming out all at once
>be 14
>whole senpai grew up mormon
>still kinda mormon
>build my own computer and go on tranny sites
>dad super suspicious of me because of cleared history
>puts on super duper parental controls that I cant get rid of without wiping the hard drive
>brother finds stash of girls clothes, shit I used as a dildo, and "herbal supplements" for women ( i really didn't know real hormones were a thing)
>tells me he dosn't want a sister, pulls my hair punches me really hard in the stomach, and pushes me over
>basically tell my mom
>pretends like its not real
>dad fixates on me super hard to go to seminary/ church/ priesthood regularly
>repression super hard, 230lb
>ff to 19
>having done miserable in highschool and community college, I basically flunk out for a semester
>don't care, hoping to go on a mission to japan... god will know I speak fluent japanese right?
>it's canada
>hurr durr god has his reasons
>go to mormon temple
>fucking secret handshakes, chanting in circles, weird bullshit. thought I was in a normal religion. will never look at my dad the same way again
>cancel mission a week before & leave church for good
>tranny mode again, sneaking out to downtown
>total hon, clueless
>no one likes me, literally no friends
>walk into the wrong part of town
>get fucking stabbed by three dune coons
>cant tell police, or anyone
>back to the closet
>trying to man up super hard, believing everything that everyone told me that it would make me happier to me a masc guy
>didn't, but handsome white guy privilege made me confident
>20
>finally get a gf, super cute & lovable, bi
>try to have sex with her, but cant
>try two more times and finally get it
>ff like 3 mo
>cant take it anymore, sex isn't enjoyable
>tell her I'm a tranny, shes okay with it
>researching, "waiting to have kids" for her (frozen sperm wasn't good enough), gatekeeping for a year.
>22
>contd.
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>>6293671
>Mom says I should wait till I'm 30 to transition.
You have to wait for your bell, hon.
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>>6293671
>You hate your dad and want to fight him and think he's a violent brute who's wrong about everything
Welcome to manhood son.
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>>6293757
>whole senpai grew up mormon
wew
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>>6293757
>contd.
>lol rewind back to 21
>"gender therapist" dosn't believe I'm trans
>says I need to come out to everyone and go full time just to get hormones
>get trunk as balls one night, come out to lesbian step sister. she's nice, feels good
>come out to gay friends and familly, then friends I trust. wave of acceptance, feels good.
>go balls deep and start presenting at school
>total hon
>invite parent's over the for the first time, wearing swim coaching uniform, b/c it was the only boy's clothes I own now
>with gf sitting next to me, anxiously destroying my arm, "I'm a transsexual"
>mom starts crying, says her son is dead, step dad dosnt care "what are you gonna do about that chin?"
>"you have to let me mourn for my son"
>was a week before their christmas-break wedding in hawaii
>ask to not be outed until after; they agree
>step dad fucking outs me at bachelor party; everyone's really mean. favorite brother-in-law says "I'm not letting you anywhere my kids"
>get home
>brother tells my dad
> hes acts "supportive", because I'm his only child of 5 who will talk to him
>22
>actually start hormones, go 100% full time

im 23 now, almost everyone's being nice now, and I just got FFS! =))))
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>>6283556
nice meme, that was 4 years ago, hes great now and 100% supportive and calls me his little girl.

u mad faggot?
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>>6269752
>> all trannies are prostitutes and failures

>its true tho

yes but thats only the ones who are not stealth or autistic, there are many trannies who dont go on the internet crying all day. the ones who do actually have a normal life.
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>>6293836
>mormon
Are you in utah?
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>>6293972
washington
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>got caught grinding on and making out with bf by parents when we were "hanging out and playing videogames" in high school
Super glad i got my medic license and national registry in high school because it pays enough to live in a shitty apartment and finance a (pretty good) community college

I figured parents would be more accepting but no. Half of senior year of HS was a living hell and my parents kicked me out as soon as they could :^)

I really didn't expect actual hate. I'm gonna reconnect one of these days.
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>>6293836
You're a QT, and glad things got a bit better for you.
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>>6294350
you seem to have taken it well...
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>>6269752
what about wachowski brothers?
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>>6294544
I think it's still just shock thb fàm
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>>6283507
>>You'll be an ugly woman
Your father is right there.
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>>6287336
>trans in Russia
I feel for you
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ah the closet is comfy. It's like a bunker now
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>>6269668
>coming out

nice meme :^)
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