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hello, bi girl here /lgbt/ how do I make myself full 100% gay?
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hello, bi girl here

/lgbt/ how do I make myself full 100% gay?

>inb4 become a feminist and be a political lesbian

which works as well as Christianity does for gays. It's a fragile ideological mindset that doesn't correlate with how you really feel.

I've been lurking a lot in various boards, and it seems to me that you really can change your sexual orientation as long as you have some sort of attraction to the sex you're trying to like. So it's the sexual stuff you need to attune yourself to, not lifestyle mantras.

I've seen straight/bi guys turn full gay when they get into sissy porn or futa. Is it possible there's a female equivalent that can turn straight/bi girls like me to full lesbian?
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Just keep lurking.

These boards will fuel your degeneracy
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>>5899957
For what purpose? It's not like you have to fuck everything you're attracted to. Just do what you want.
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>>5899957
get a feeldoe, should help
>why don't you like men? if ur bi aren't you attracted to them still?
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>>5899957
>political
Date boys, castrate their nads and feed them girl hormones. Lick tears.
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Haha what the hell. Just don't act on it.
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>>5899957

> I've seen straight/bi guys turn full gay when they get into sissy porn or futa.

Uh huh. Quite the scientist you are, yeah? You studied these guys pretty carefully and thoroughly no doubt?
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Masturbate to only girls, only have sex with girls. Female sexuality is a bit more fluid than male and is more of a result of habit than anything else. I used to be bisexual, I wasn't even trying but I lost my attraction to guys at 15. This was 6 years ago. If you're concerned that lesbians won't date you, just don't date those types of girls.
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why would you want to do this
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>>5900000
What
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>>5899957
If you're really sure, try hypnosis
Either go do amateur hypnosis until you get good effects then try self hypnosis
Otherwise go to a hypnotherapist, but that costs money
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can i get more stories of girls who lost their attraction to men and became 100% gay?

No ideologies please, just the sexual stuff since that's the actual thing that will work and I can try applying it to myself.
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>>5899957
Or.
Or you could just become content with who you are instead of trying to change yourself.
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>>5900563
that's stupid. Tell that to fatties.
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>>5899957
do sex work for a year or two.

>used to be bi
>cant form relationships with men now
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>>5900573
that only works romantically. I meant sexually.
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>>5900582
reparative therapy doesn't really work.

i guess you could endure intense traumatic rape, but half the victims become hypersexual and the other half become hyposexual so that might backfire on you
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>>5900534
Trauma. That's what it takes. You need a man to do something horrific to you, and it won't be worth it. This is a stupid idea.
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>>5900595
>>5900592

trauma is a shitty way of trying to become gay. Most chicks I've met who say they're "lesbian" because of traumatic events with men, eventually get over the incident and slowly grow comfortable with having a romance with men over time. So no it's a stupid method that doesn't really work.

try again. Gib me something else. Something good.
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>>5900609
There is nothing good. This is something Christfags don't understand. You can't change your orientation, not really. Give up and just choose not to fuck men if you don't want to.
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>>5900633
this.
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>>5900633
>just choose not to fuck men if you don't want to.
i already do this. I just want to push the envelope more and find nothing but women to be attractive. I want to be a true gay.
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>>5900664
That's really dumb. You know, nobody will contradict you if you just say you're a lesbian, even if you've been in a relationship with a man before. If someone challenges you for not being gold-star gay, just say that it's not particularly easy growing up gay and you did what you had to to figure out who you were without ending up homeless.
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>>5900698
is there truly no way to become a true gay? Not even some kind of homo hypnosis to make me lust after the V?
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>>5900708
you could try dating my ex?
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>>5899957
I think yuri might be your best bet
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>>5900724
your ex turns women gay?
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>>5899957
>trying to trick lesbians into thinking you're bi
Fucking breeders.
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Being a full blown lesbian is a gift, a gift imparted to a chosen few. Your purpose is merely to serve the lesbian, to mimic one is an insult.
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>>5900000
Wow
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>>5899957
Look everyone, a biscum trying to prove they are "really for reals gay" just so they can get into a relationship with a woman and eventually leave her so she can get fucked by men.

Hey OP, go kill yourself familia.
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>>5901108
>Your purpose is merely to serve the lesbian
how can i please my lesbian masters?
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>>5900708
You seem to be misunderstanding something fundamental to identity politics. Our labels are not our essence; they're entirely based on observable behavior, and in any case they're an oversimplification of a very complex set of behaviors. If your behavior is a certain way, then that's what you are in every way that matters.
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>>5900000
You did good bud
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>>5901234
i don't care about identity politics. I just want to only be into women sexually 100%.
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just tell any potential male suitors that youre a lesbian and make sure to only date girls, duh
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>>5899957
people like you are the cancer in the LBG community
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>>5901267

You can't, but you can make it 99% if you try hard enough. Think about it. That's a lot of percent.
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>>5899957
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>>5900573
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>>5901267
>>5902105

So what you are all saying is that sexual preference can be modified?

So the Christfags are right, it can be treated?

That's what you've said. If it can be modified one way, it can be modified the other way.

So which is it? Modifiable, and therefore treatable, or not?
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>>5899957
Remember those pray the gay away camps? Well they work by negative reinforcement on homosexuality. It has been determined that inducing an attraction to a sex, at least thus far, is impossible. So basically get a friend with a shock collar to shock you everytime you look at heterosexual porn or dicks. But be careful you run the risk of becoming the angerdykes because the mental strain may express itself as anger.
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>>5900000
God damn, you make me proud.
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>>5902148
>christfags being right
>treatable
>lamo
The truth of things is basically that sexuality is super fluid, especially for women. Most people who say they're straight are probably wrong to at least some degree and say their straight out of insecurity, ignorance or indifference. The idea of there being three concrete sexualities consisting of "hetero, homo and bi" sexual is a new concept that was created in recently in western cultures and spread across the globe. Different attitudes about sexuality existed before and alongside the theory of those 3. Am I saying that tumblrsexuals are right? No. Just that there's so much more to this. Don't get too hung up on this stuff.
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>>5901267
You're not paying attention; you're just repeating the same thing over and over. What you want is both impossible and pointless.
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>>5901131
You do as you're told and don't expect anything substantial in return. Relationships are out of the question, keep in mind that you're a tool to be used, merely a means to get off when a lesbian is bored. Seek nothing more, and you have properly served your purpose.
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>>5899957
>/lgbt/ how do I make myself full 100% gay?
Sorry OPolitical Lesbian; you can't change the fact that the D holds power over your body and mind.

>I've seen straight/bi guys turn full gay when they get into sissy porn or futa.
The plural of anecdotes is not data.

If not for feminism/misandry, why exactly do you want to go full lesbian?
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>>5905140
>Relationships are out of the question, keep in mind that you're a tool to be used, merely a means to get off when a lesbian is bored. Seek nothing more, and you have properly served your purpose.

That sounds so hot but I would like a true monogamous relationship with my lesbian master. I would never stray.

>>5906738
>If not for feminism/misandry, why exactly do you want to go full lesbian?

i honestly have been avoiding answering this question because everyone will basically give me the same useless advice of "just accept yourself"

I want to become full gay because I want to become full gay. I imagine living my future with a woman and being married to her for the rest of my life. I seriously CANNOT imagine being with a man and having kids like a normie straight family. Sex with men is a burden, sex with women is generally clean, no pregnancy scares and ideal. But having these sexual bi feelings for guys are annoying and pesky. It's better to just lean all the way to one side and I want to go full gay.

And please spare me the advice of "just accept yourself" or "just accept the D". I'm looking for actual sexual orientation changing methods to turn me 100% gay.
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>>5906831
>And please spare me the advice of "just accept yourself" or "just accept the D"
Good news that's not my advice, because I think you are making much ado about less than nothing.
Being attracted to men/not accepting you bisexuality/refusing the D won't force you out of a marriage/monogamous relationship.
If you don't want to have sex with guys you can not have sex with guys even if you're attracted to them.

>"But having these sexual bi feelings for guys are annoying and pesky."
Why can't those pesky bi feelings be overcome by ignoring them or masturbating to them?

>I'm looking for actual sexual orientation changing methods to turn me 100% gay.
You're looking for pure fantasy OP.
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>>5906960
>If you don't want to have sex with guys you can not have sex with guys even if you're attracted to them.
I already do that.

>Why can't those pesky bi feelings be overcome by ignoring them or masturbating to them?
because thoughts randomly pop up here and there. I'm pretty sure the gf would not like that at all.

>You're looking for pure fantasy OP.
I still am convinced there's a way to change sexual orientation via either porn usage, a bit of mind persuasion and hypnosis or just finding the right person.

Since every anon has given me jackshit. I'll just schlick it to yuri and search for Ms. Right irl.
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>>5899957
The WAY in which your attractions work, never changes.

BUT a girls perceptions of what "characteristics" have in value, CAN change.

Example, most girls are primarily more attracted to the qualities a partner offers in capability.
BUT, it's heavily dependent on her opinion of those can be quite drastically different than what another girl thinks of those same characteristics.

A friend of mine hates "Dirty old hicks". She sees them as stupid.
She watched the walking dead, and Daryl shows up.
She didnt like him, saw him as a dirty stupid hick.
Then a few episodes in, she's now head over heels for him, as she sees that he's not just some idiot.
She "gets over" the idea that he's some sorta hick character,

So, the moral of the story, is that you need to change your perception of how good or bad certain personality traits are.

(Which honestly, most extreme feminists, see the glass as half empty, or the grass greener on the other side, which DOES make men less attractive. You're best bet is to get into extremist groups, if you want to see the world differently.)
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I was bi, but I kept having shitty relationships with guys, then I slept with a girl and that was that. Girls are 1000x better than men physically. Mentally it's a bit tougher but there are good women out there.
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>>5899957
I don't think it works that way. Most don't try the shit they fap to.
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>>5907195
>(Which honestly, most extreme feminists, see the glass as half empty, or the grass greener on the other side, which DOES make men less attractive. You're best bet is to get into extremist groups, if you want to see the world differently.)

Fuck that. I'll just find a woman who's perfect for me and hopefully that will hit my percentage at 100% gay.

I really don't think ideologies work very well half the time. A lot of political lesbians get over their issues with men and eventually marry men as they mature over time.
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>>5907163
>>Why can't those pesky bi feelings be overcome by ignoring them or masturbating to them?
>because thoughts randomly pop up here and there. I'm pretty sure the gf would not like that at all.
Sorry I, an anonymous gay guy, don't understand why your girlfriend would mind you being honest about an attraction like that.
I mean I've dated two bi guys. The one that was open about being attracted to women was fine, and I was able to get over the "er'nerr, he's bi wut if he leaves me for a girl" feels with a conversation and a night to sleep on it. The bi guy that tried to hide his innocuous attraction to the opposite sex, then cheated on me with a girl, was not at all okay.

>>5907163
>I'll just schlick it to yuri and search for Ms. Right irl.
Godspeed OP.
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