Who here /Failedgay/?
Why I never get likes from guys?. I know Im not that ugly because I go for fun to the straight section and like some girls and almost always I get "Its a match". But almost any of the guys I like, like me back. Of those 211 matches like 205 are women.
>>5889853
believe it or not, most gays have really high standards (that they often don't even meet).
If you're not exactly what they are looking for they won't even notice you exist.
>>5889887
This just ain't true. Gays are sluts, degenerate sluts. I would know I am one.
>>5889905
You can be a slut and have a type at the same time.
>>5889905
Why are gays sluts? how come they don't prefer long term relationships?
It's the opposite. I have no idea what gays see in me that makes them start drooling. I swear, I could feel the lewd, piercing stares from almost every gay bar I passed, and the female friend I was with told me that, based on the looks on their faces, she was worried that they were going to jump out of the bar and gobble me up on the side of the road :o.
Happened multiple times when I've been in that area with friends/family. I actually don't feel safe walking that area alone at night because I'm as weak as a kitten since I started transitioning. Hopefully that attractiveness carries over to the end of my transition (not super noticeable atm).
>>5889974
men in general are natural sluts and without women to keep us from having sex we go crazy
>>5889982
only when you fit into the type, obviously OP doesn't and obviously he's not the only person on earth this happens to.
>>5889988
that's why you have to try to look as generic as you can
its like pop music the more generic it is the more people will listen to it
>>5889995
But that's wrong, you have to try your best to push into either side of the scale of extremes. Either full on fem or full on masc. Going for average and generic won't work with gay men because they have been overfed by porn for decades and only want porn sex.
>>5889976
probably cause you were femmish/twinkish, like a lot of pre-trans trans. I got hit on a ton back before I started transitioning, although I got hit on by girls too, although at a lesser degree.
>>5890000
nope you only go for extremes if you can't fit the prefferred look which is
>white
>short hair
>beard
>body from fit to average
if you can't be that then yeah you might try to go for a more specific look
>>5890007
Tbh now that I'm in the thick of things, I think I'd be eaten alive within minutes of visiting that very same area.
I look pretty twinky right now. Only caveat is that I constantly look like a wasp attack victim from electrolysis.
>>5890064
Me too. I can't stop scratching my neck. Eczema :( I usually put makeup over it
>>5890007
Oh yeah, also I'm totally clueless romantically. I don't realize people are actively hitting on me until much, much later. Or I'll second-guess my intuition.
Typically it's men. Women could never see me as a sexual object, but more, a friend to go shopping with etc. etc. Always had more female friends than male ones, barring when I went to an all-boys school.
I'm totally fine with that though, since I'm straight (liking guys) anyway.
I /Failedgay/ because I refuse to slut it up. I demand more.
A regular old date? Watch a movie together and that's that? Have dinner together? Get to know each other better?
Gays' way of shaking hands is blowjobs.
