at first I felt uncomfortable with my genitalia, but once I realized some guys jerk it to futa, I realized that having boobs and a dick might not be that bad. what do you guys think? oh yeah, and I never felt comfortable in women's panties, i dress like my gender, but still wear mens boxers. is that normal too?
>>5871069
Do what's comfortable for you. I think just taking hormones and having a boob job while keeping your penis is a low-risk option. Going full gender reassignment does have complications and there's no going back. Again, it's a personal decision.
>>5871069
You could always just get an orchi so you could wear girls clothes comfortably too. That's basically the only thing really causing a bulge down there.
Sorry, but you have to constantly obsess about your genitalia and what holes you like to be a true mentally ill faggot. Sorry, you're just a normal guy who watched too much porn while developing.
>>5871069
Honestly, SRS reminds me too much of genital mutilation. It's one thing to get cosmetic surgery but holy shit.
>>5871069
Ideally there should be literally nothing wrong with being a woman who also happens to have a penis. But society is shit so many of us are forced to conform.
Bottom line is: if you're comfortable with it, keep it. If not, then do what's best for you. Society can go suck a feminine penis if it makes them so butthurt.
The last 2 years I've done a lot of sexual experimenting, I always stuck with the female sex, but one of the girls I was hooking up with introduced me to her her best friend that was MTF, at first we would just be in orgies together sharing another girl, it took some time but eventually we became comfortable with each other to be intimate and started fucking. Now she's my best friend and the best romantic partner I've had. Goes to show personality maters most. She hates having a penis but understands surgery wouldn't really give her what she want either
>>5871069
>is it acceptable
To whom? Obviously it is to you, so fuck what anyone else says. That being said:
>at first I felt uncomfortable with my genitalia, but once I realized some guys jerk it to futa, I realized that having boobs and a dick might not be that bad.
Interesting. Did you only feel uncomfortable previously BECAUSE you thought guys wouldn't be able to see you as a girl? Do you want to use your penis in the bedroom?
>what do you guys think?
You sound like a dream come true to me but I'm sure someone will call me chaser scum. If you advertise the fact that you're comfortable with your dick then you'll be an even riper target for guys who just want to pump and dump, so be careful and make sure he's genuine before giving up the nookie, if that's important to you at all.
>oh yeah, and I never felt comfortable in women's panties, i dress like my gender, but still wear mens boxers. is that normal too?
Women's panties were never made to fit male genitals, that's part of why trap bulges are so cute but considering that even some cis women are more comfortable in boxers I can't blame you at all.
>>5871069
Have you considered boy shorts? They're qt and comfortable.
I'm kinda in a similar situation in the sense that I don't really hate my penis, but I would never top, and I don't want to penetrate with my penis. I also don't feel very comfortable with the idea of being fucked in the ass my whole life (I've not really ever done much butt stuff other than play with it a little and used small things, but I don't really get turned by playing with my butt alone, and it's super tight and i'm sure a penis would hurt ALOT) and I much prefer the idea of being fucked in the vagina (that I lack) but I'm scared shitless of getting SRS down the line and wishing I had just kept my penis. I can happily jerk off without much/if any dysphoria, but I also want a vagina. I honestly don't know what to do, but it's years off so for now anyway I'm just trying to not think about it.
Anybody else in the same boat as me?
Also, anybody else more turned on by dicks than vaginas, but much prefers how women look to men. I don't even know if I could keep up a relationship with a really cute boy because I would still feel like I was having gay sex, which is stupid I know as i'm open as fuck and don't have anything against gay people and I do find some men hot too but I don't know if I could do it. But I feel like being with another woman would make me feel like I was the "man" in the relationship which is also horrible.
>>5871633
Same except the part "I also don't feel very comfortable with the idea of being fucked in the ass" Personally I am scared of anal sex more than anything but that's mostly due to my lack of experience with boys.
>>5871069
I have the weirdest boner right now
>>5871758
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>>5871069
there is plenty of unisex underwear out there, and cute boy underwear too. You don't have to stay in unsexy old boxers just because you still have danglies. Personal favorite of mine is American Apparel's baby rib brief. They're sort of like underoos for adults, they come in a ton of colors, they're not as expensive as designer underwear (though I still only buy sale offerings), and they're marketed to both men and women.
>>5871069
Strangely, I hated my genitals more before hrt than after. I still want srs though, but not as urgently as before
>>5871633
Vaginas aren't attractive to anyone. Men are attracted to female shapes; hips, breasts. The vagina is just a hole, often a disgusting one at that.
Dicks are cool. They're not disgusting, I got one, I know how it works. If girls had dicks instead of clits, It'd just make my life easier. All guys feel the same about vagina, and obviously they're not afraid of dicks seeing as they've got one. A whole lot of them is afraid of doing "gay" things though, so much that they would change their mind about fucking someone just because they pulled out a dick. I personally never override my dicks decision on what's hot, and female shapes are hot regardless of genitalia. No homo.
>>5871069
hrt basically kills your cock anyway
>>5871069
>but once I realized some guys jerk it to futa, I realized that having boobs and a dick might not be that bad. what do you guys think?
And those people are obese neckbeards, or otherwise creepy guys, who nobody wants to have anything to do with. They also won't be interested in a relationship, and probably wants to bottom.
>>5871069
>saying you're a woman but not actually wanting to be female
>>5878845
>I personally never override my dicks decision on what's hot
Someone finally said it. People should listen to their dicks more, we overthink these things way too much. Sooo many threads about being attracted to transgirls, debates back and forth and everything... like, why bring you brain in ex post when your dick's already made the decision?
I do like vajayjays, though. Not my fave thing but they're alright.
>>5878904
this is false
>>5871069
It's absolutely fine. However you'll probably have problems dating straight guys if you don't have a vagina. You'll also get a lot of problems with chasers.
On the other hand, SRS is slowly advancing over time, but it is advancing. In the future you may have the option of undergoing an even more advanced surgery that gives you a more fully functioning vagina than if you got SRS now.
>>5871069
Penis isn't something that bothers me as someone who doesn't have a particular taste for trans girls, but doesn't object to one either.
>>5871278
But what IS a woman, in your world view?
