>bisexual male
>sometimes want men, usually want women
>don't want my GF sexually and only slightly romantically when in the mood for men
>don't want anything to do with guys when in the mood for women
>personality changes based on who I want to fuck
It's like there are two different people fighting for control of my body. What the fuck do I do?
sometimes I wish I weren't bi but at least I don't have the cycle thing going on like some bi people do.
my sympathies, it sounds awful.
Telling everyone helps. You tried that? I know that feeling bro, and your confusion will become their confusion.
>>5689898
Is it common for a bisexual man to want to bottom and be submissive?
>>5690278
I don't know if it's common but I definitely want to be a bottom
>>5690278
In my experience yes. I've encountered a lot of bisexuals who will dominate girls, but will only be a submissive little bitch/bottom if they're gonna be with a guy. It's weird.
>>5690712
sounds like they're complete faggots... why would anyone even go near someone so mentally disturbed?
>>5690721
Yeah I don't understand it. I'm open to dating bi guys, but sure as fuck wouldn't date a guy who was like that.
>>5690278
v e r y common to find bi men who prefer to fuck women, but love getting fucked by a man. Probably something to do about how they view themselves on the whole dominance/alpha hierarchy or some shit
finding a bi male who is equally into fucking women and men is extremely rare.
>>5690712
For me:
Girls: Equals and Dominate. Would date/ marry.
Guys: Will only be submissive. Wouldn't date. Not in it "as a guy"- I have to be a passable "trap" as it were to be into it.
>>5690749
Forgot to add: would fuck girly guys to the max, and be temporary equals with a "trap"
I doubt this is uncommon.
>>5690732
What's so off putting about it? Is it the submissive part? Or is it the fucking girls in the pussy part?
I've went from straight(sometimes bi) to gay, but I still want to give the vagina another go. And I'm a bottom gay...
Also, I'd just fuck a hot girl just to fuck a hot girl. Just because that's how I thought off girls as I was repressing my homosexuality, I thought male heterosexuality was about fucking girls just because(doing it for social brownie points and boosting once ego).
>>5690760
>I've went from straight(sometimes bi) to gay, but I still want to give the vagina another go. And I'm a bottom gay...
lmao might want to book some therapist sessions prior to fucking anyone else
Wow, I'm the opposite of most people here. I want to be dominated by women and fuck cute boys.
>>5690770
I already have, I don't get off on looking at women, I much more prefer watching a guy solo than a girl solo. I don't jack off to naked girls but I do jack off to full frontal naked guys. When I try to think about doing something sexual, it always goes to doing something with a man.
I've seen a lgbt community therapist, and he told me that he thought I wasn't even bi, but he said that shouldn't discourage me from wanting to try with girls again.
Regular therapists I go to tell me that I should experiment. I've asked my pyshatrist, and different therapists that I've feel like I've made myself gay, they all tell me that's nonsense and look at me like I'm a faggot because I just told them that I enjoy gay porn.
>>5690831
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>>5690770
I should have said "straight"(who thought he was 20% bi while going on a cock lust binge and rarely if ever jack off to naked ladies(unless there was a big old dick around their proximity)).
How "straight" is it to keep fantasizing about your friends cocks?
>>5690760
It's just weird to me. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who just radically switches roles like that based on whomever they're with. I'm vers and ideally I'd want a vers bf.
Also (not saying this is your case) I get the vibe that a lot of bi guys who only want to bottom for guys are more attracted to the thought of submission than actually being attracted to guys. Just my thoughts.
>>5690749
>wouldn't date a guy
Man you're not even bi, you're just a straight guy with a particular kink (which is fine)
>>5690851
Why you say that? It's not as I don't feel messed up already. I'm stuck at a point where I literally have to suck dick to find out if I'm gay or not. How fucked up is that?
They said porn would make you a misogynists, they lied... they should have told you that porn would turn you into a cock obsessed faggot.
Not even once.
>>5689898
haha luckily the choice has been made for me seeing as I am a total failure with women. I made a feel frog thread about it earlier.
>>5690855
In my case, I never was attracted to girls, until I learned it from peers, but I've felt attractions towards boys and the male body. I remember being a teenager trying to repress my homosexual lust, so I got kicks out of viewing straight porn because I liked looking at hard big dicks and I thought everybody liked dicks but only few people dared to venture into doing gay shit(the morally bankrupt, the perverted, the mentally ill etc).
>>5690907
So you conditioned yourself to like women?
>>5690916
Basically yes, I remember actively watching pics of naked men and start jerking off to get a good erection then switch off to women and try to get off to them.
>>5690933
Well that's fucking terrible that you felt you had to do that to be "normal". I hope you are okay with your gay side now. Here are some feels.