Okay, /lgbt/, I have a problem.
My bf has a butthole so tight that I can't effectively fuck him without feeling some pain. I can get a finger in, sure, but two fingers is close to his limit. I don't have the biggest dick around, but I sure as hell would like for him to be able to take me as much as he wants to.
How can he train his asshole to take something bigger than a finger?
On another note, he has a pretty sizable dick that I can barely take in my ass. I'd also like to know how to improve our love life. I don't get any pleasure from him penetrating me at the moment, just pain and feeling uncomfortable, and he likes me in him, it's just I can't fuck him hard enough to cum.
>>5683420
He's most likely not relaxed enough. Tell him to try and not squeeze his muscles. Poppers might help. Also more lube and more sex.
>>5683436
Are poppers legal? Heard of them before, but he thinks they're some kind of drug.
bumpity
>>5683448
They are a drug, but they are legal in most places. They give you a short high and help relax some muscles
Butt plugs
Let him sit on you very slowly after working it with fingers or toys. Also tell him to do a 'pushing' action with his ass muscles while youre working on him. Also try rimming.
>>5683420
Dont rush it, it takes time. There is involuntary contraction reflex and it goes away after few times (I dont remember how long it took it wasn't a problem on like 10th time)
>>5683651
Yeah this sure helps, you get more relaxed after few minutes
Also you cant stretch muscles in just few days but eventually you will.
Maybe a small buttplug would help to achieve it quicker.
Muscle relaxants do help, but still be careful dont go hard
There are several overcounter drugs that work (do a search w/e you can buy)
