And I don't just mean pronouns. Like just general ways people interact with you differently. I've noticed some changes but I'm not sure if it's necessarily a matter of me transitioning or just something coincidental...
for instance, ever since I've transitioned and actually started passing in girlmode, I've noticed guys feel a lot more comfortable venting their life stories to me. It's happened multiple times; we'll just be hanging out talking and then they'll go into massive rants about their personal lives and their relationships with their group of friends.
also I think I get cut off more than I used to in conversations. It feels a bit harder to get a word in.
>>5570501
>I think I get cut off more than I used to in conversations
Men can smell if you're emitting excess estrogen and it acts as a signal to let us know you want to be dominated, I read this in a snapple fact.
>>5570517
>tfw the other day one of my guy friends literally grabbed my arm, sniffed it, and told me i smelled good
>tfw i wasn't even wearing any fragrance
I noticed people are stepping into my private space more often now and that everyone doesn't see me, like I am invisible unless I literally take space and extend shoulders out like a bodyguard but I don't think these occurrences are HRT-related.
I don't pass so I don't understand why it is happening to me. Maybe I should cut my hair short.
>>5570501
>tfw when constantly told women are oppressed before transition
>tfw after transition when people literally do everything for you and will treat you really nicely.
>>5570621
>walking down the street in a medium-sized city
>people literally stop to ask if i need a ride somewhere
>go out to eat with guy friends
>they almost always offer to buy my food
Ya women call me sweety and honey more often now. Men call me buddy. I'm masc presenting mtf
>>5570647
>tfw bisexual male
>tfw can't enjoy from the social benefits of being the one taking the d
>tfw have to give them to women anyway to get laid
sometimes i wish i were a trans desu, but i just don't feel it at all, i love being male.
>>5570501
I'm FTM and I haven't noticed any differences. I mean guys call me bro now but other than that, nothing. I was never treated shittily when I was a woman desu.
i get treated like a girl mostly which is nice because i dont hang out with creepy people
>>5570501
>massive rants about their personal lives
This is because most men nowadays are emotional, beta pussies. Instant turnoff.
>>5571080
Are there any FTM bisexuals?, it just crossed my mind the image of me fucking an mtf, pretty weird, but i think it can turn out pretty interesting.
>>5571128
There are lots and lots of bisexual trans guys. But I'm gay myself.
>>5571152
gay FTM? really weird, but could try. Although not having tits or d could be a turn off
>>5571157
"really weird"? ok. I don't have tits anymore, my dick is a strap on, I don't sleep with straight guys, and I only top. But there are lots of FTMs who are bisexual or bottoms or whatever. I'm sure you could find one who would be willing to have sex with you.
>>5571157
Male AGP and female AAP
>>5570501
>strangers buy me things
>strangers cat call me
>government employees smile and say nice things to me
>guys offer me their seat on the bus, train, or anywhere crowded
>guys open doors for me
>I don't have to wait in lines to get into clubs
>street hustlers think I will humor their shit long enough to make a buck
>I get excellent service in any male dominated store (gun stores, electronics, etc.)
>my family treats me like a social pharia
>>5571072
>sometimes i wish i were a trans desu
no, you really don't. you don't know what you're saying famalam. i'd kill somebody to just be bi
>>5571316
Sure they do hon, lol.
I'm not full-time, and still present as male at work, but everyone suddenly wants to talk to me all the time. I used to be able to pass hours in silence, and that's off the table now.
Maybe I look...happy?
>>5570501
I noticed old men asking me to smile and people just being more open to talking to me. I also have had a few instances of creepy drunks being creepy, but not much else.
Guys don't really hit on me. No one actually seems to hit on me.
>>5571700
I used to be told to smile all the time when I was younger.
>>5572131
Beep Boop Hon detected.
What am I even supposed to call you?, so far im sticking to "it"
>>5571700
>tfw pre-transition, cute boy mode and still get creepy drunks trying to feel me up and stuff
>>5570501
Yeah, based on anthropology studies guys generally interrupt/lead conversations more and pick topics of discussion while females tend to have a more passive role in discussion.
Ironically, I've always been cut off in conversations and treated like that, and had life stories spilled to me.
>>5571072
Would you like to be treated like the one taking the D by a dude?
>>5573779
In my experience as a non-trans female, I think it has a lot to do with how women carry themselves. I think MTF trans feel like they have to try real hard to be feminine to pass, and a lot of the traditionally feminine mannerisms are passive. I'm a bit masculine personality wise, so despite the boobs and all that I have no problem dominating conversations when I want to, even with angry old men at bars arguing politics. You just have to interrupt them right back and use rude language.
I do think it's shitty that trans people have so much pressure to pass put on them, not just with looks but behavior.
everyone is really nice to me now, especially guys
>>5573575
So, most of the population isn't pretty. What is important is I pass well.