Fix/save my life (please).
25, nearly 26 year old virgin guy, most likely gay, but deep in the closet. Have a nice job where I work hard, but don't do anything outside of work except TV and sleep. Live alone.
I could make a request for a single solution, how do I turn into a super confident, sexually experienced, out guy. But all I want is a suggestion on one step I could take to improve my life, before any remnants of skinny twinkiness disappear forever and I hopefully kill myself.
Suggestions please.
Find a hobby you can be social with, join a club, join some sort of group with people, volunteer somewhere, just find something you'll be interested in enough that you'll be able to have fun with other people while doing it.
With confidence you just have to force it. It is something you can fake and will still have the right affects, or you could learn to value yourself for who you are and gain confidence from that. Do not be overly confident.
>>5565032
Good idea, will look for a charity to volunteer at.
It's too late for you. You have to live the rest of your life as an asexual.
>>5565128
Why?
>>5565140
Because if you haven't managed to get laid before the age of 25 regardless of orientation you've reached a dead end.
If you were straight no women would want to spend the time having to train you, and to gay men you become a joke.
Just accept your asexuality.
>>5565153
But I'm not asexual?
So surely I should fuck some random 40 year old, then not be a joke and preceded as normal?
>>5565171
no. you're asexual now buddy boy.
>>5565206
But I do have sexual attraction, to guys.
>>5565238
but its too late. that attraction should've led you to do something earlier.
>>5564959
get the hell out of your house and go live!! stop watching tv!
>>5565260
I don't know how, and don't have any friends :(
I really wish I hadn't wasted my life
>>5565299
that's life boyo
How do I turn this ship around?
>>5565334
you can't
>>5565341
Only 3 people posting is this thread.
Don't let that one guy get you down OP.
>>5564959
try everything creative, see if you're good at any of it
>>5564959
For me, being confident comes from forgetting for a moment about the irreversible consequences of every single action I take in my life.
So whenever you want to say or do something, in the words of Shia LaBeouf: Just do it.
>>5565032
Do this. Just try some new stuff OP. Remember that it's NEVER too late to change your life, even though it may feel like it. You can always make it better for yourself, maybe you'll just have to work harder in some cases.
Download Grindr. fin~
It's ok OP im on the same boat, it is never too late. Although i know if i ever find someone to love i will regret i wasted all my youth.
>>5565291
What are things you like doing? Join clubs for those kind of things. Sports are usually the best place to start.
>>5565334
Try fucking some fat/ugly girls and then work your way up. And you're probably not gay, just porn addicted.
