Advice/reassurance please
>Thought I was bi for the longest time
> entered a hetero relationship and lost my virginity
> did absolutely nothing for me
> concluded I must be gay, got comfortable in that identity, got involved with lgbt stuff
> was on an SSRI throughout that relationship
> side effects: inorgasmia, low sex drive etc
> scared I might not be gay, confused and frustrated
>>5434715
you are asking to be trolled right?
>>5434717
No, honestly reaching out. Losing sleep over it
>>5434715
I used to be worried I might not be bisexual. I mean, I fuck guys and all, but what if I'm not REALLY bisexual?
Then I wised up and stopped giving a shit. I suggest you do as well, you'd be surprised how many problems it solves.
>>5434715
Generally, SSRI can give anorgasmia/inability to ejaculate. Low sex drive, on the other hand, is more commonly due to the underlying disorder (depression and/or anxiety) and social/relationship factors. It's important to remember that these two phases of sex are separate mechanisms and influenced by different factors, both mentally and physically.
If you're really losing sleep over this and this occupies a lot of your time, you might have obsessive-compulsive thoughts or even OCD. Then no matter what anyone says, you'll never reach comfort.
The solution is to not care - which is easier said than done (I had this myself both when I thought I was straight and when I found out I'm lesbian). It's like constantly saying "so what?" to all of these troubling thoughts.
You can read more about this here: http://www.ocdonline.com/#!i-think-it-moved/c1n7y
You probably need a few sessions with a therapist too for support.
>>5434715
Being this concerned about labeling your sexuality sounds really sucky
