> be me
> be 18 y/o pretty qt guy
> know loads of boys and girls and have loads of good friends
> suffered secretly of dysphoria and wanted to be a girl for years
> at 17 after years of repression it seems dem feels are gone
> start dating girls
> i know this awesome gurl
> i fall in love for her
> she becomes my gf
> she starts telling me everyday how qt and androgynous i am
> i'm in fact rly androgynous and thin and get mistaken for a girl sometimes
> she starts telling me about how i should be protected and stuff
> she tells me she wants to dress in pastel dresses and get girl make-up when i'm with her with her caring about doing everything
> she starts giving me tips on how to care my skin and stuff to get more girly
> fast forward after days of more and more "qt" compliments
> she says she'd like to:
- Make me her own hikokomori
- Work while I stay at home doing nothing/relaxing/playing vidyas when we start living together in 1.5 years
- Get me HRT, breast augmentation and if I need even all kinds of FFS with all paid by her (she's rly loaded up with money)
- Treat me like her sweet little girl with her doing everything for me
The point is, after she told me all this my dysphoria came back and I'm really tempted to say yes to her but that would mean losing most of my friends, not working (I'm a work attached person) and being at home basically most of the time
Wut I do peeps
don't do it, it sounds like an abusive relationship
you should think about transitioning though
>>5352769
Sounds creepy and weird. But hell I wish I had a rich girlfriend who'd get me FFS. I got the rest but damn that would be nice.
Being poor sucks.
I know, it's creepy and fucked up, but it is soooo tempting and idk why lol
And yeah, I actually maybe wouldn't need FFS (I'm 18 but I look like I'm 14-15) but you know, she said, just in case, she could also do that for me
But I'm quite undecided cause, you know, I already fought and defeated dysphoria one time and maybe I could do it again...
>>5352901
Lol how old is this girl?
>>5352922
She's 18 like me
>>5352769
Take it. Sounds perfect. Just realize that if you lose her, you are fucked in so many ways.
>>5352769
If you have dysphoria, it isn't going away, so I'd definitely start taking the 'mones while you still have a chance at passing.
Uh, not gonna lie, this is kinda my fetish (being all subservient to someone that treats me nicely in return), but it's still kinda creepy. What's this girl's background? Has she been with anyone else before, and have they ever talked about her being manipulative and controlling? This seems kinda dangerous.
So many red flags anon. Only do it if you're sure, and if you can trust her not to go crazy manipulative and stuff. Even then, I'd be wary.
>>5352769
>>5352901
It's called compromise anon, tell her that you appreciate the support but voice your concerns to her. Transitioning might have cost you your friends anyway, so let's set that aside and just hope they come to be accepting. If you like working, tell her. If she really wants you all to herself see about just doing a part time job. Just be an adult about this and you should be cool.
Also on the dysphoria thing, it doesn't really go away. Regardless of your decision to stay with her please get it started while you can still pass. You'll be happier that way.
It would be retarded to say no, OP.
I also don't know how she realized i was a closeted MtF I mean WTF I never talked about it with anyone
>>5352769
To me this sounds pretty sweet. But I recommend being honest about your reservations and talk with her about them. Maybe you can set up an office/studio/whatever and work from home as a compromise? She can still be the breadwinner if that's really big for her but if having a productive outlet is really big for you lazing inside will probably be unfulfilling for you.
>>5352769
Sounds like a dream come true
>>5352769
>stuff that never happened
>>5352769
pics?
yeah never
cause this is a story of fiction
>>5352769
just for real though,
if you DIDN'T do this...
you'd regret it forever.
i had this opportunity at 16
and let it go
what a mistake right?
>>5353266
it's so easy. dead serious. you hang with a few trans and its so obv after a while
>>5352769
I've read your post very carefully and given it lots of thought. You should get a seme bf with a huge cock and get fucked in the ass. Just stuffed up like a turkey for thanksgiving dinner. Fucked in the ass like. Please start brainwashing yourself with yaoi and gay porn of young cute twinks being dominated by big men and understand that this is your destiny.
>>5352769
If you don't take this deal you are crushing the dreams of every lazy nerd in existence. You say yes, not just for you, but for all of us. Be the cute girl you were always meant to be. And pick up a hobby or something to do at home
>>5352769
Thats some /gfd/ man. Your lucky.
>tfw My dicks a rocket and its about to lift off.
>>5355222
This faggot gets it.
>>5352769
No transbian degeneracy allowed. Worship Yaoi, the one true God Emperor.
>>5355222
But is it still yaoi if you transition? Surely that violates some rule.
>>5352901
You can't fight it off forever you dumdum. Once you get older you'll hate yourself for not starting earlier. So at least get in HRT. No one said you have to lose your friends.
>>5352769
Yeah for real, you owe it to us all to accept. I would kill myself for a chance at such a fortuitous rebirth.
>>5355222
>Being brainwashed into liking yaoi and gay porn.
I thought that was the default for everyone.
>>5352769
Try it out for a while, if the feelings can come back like that for you this easily, they might come back again even if you don't take her up on the offer.
I am sure that you two can comprimise so that you can still have friends ~
It's pretty generous of her and it seems like you two will have lots of fun!
If this is fucming true at all, then do it. And come back to us every so often to let us know how its.going. im curious
You should get counselling and think extensively about your gender issues, bearing in mind that if you are trans then the longer you wait the worse you're going to be, and also that your even if your dysphoria isn't bad enough that you're too worried about it at the moment, once you age more and stop being so feminine/androgynous then it'll get a lot worse. If you are trans then you'll be needing to transition anyway, so any fears about it shouldn't be something that holds you back. Almost anything you lose from transition is worth it, pretty much; dysphoria eats away at you, gets worse constantly, and generally ruins everything (including interpersonal and romatic relationships). It's not much worth having a good job with lots of friends when you can barely even deal with going outside due to various types of anxiety and self-loathing.
Many people (including me) would kill to be in a situation like yours. If you love your girlfriend and can trust this to be a stable long-term relationship then it seems pretty much perfect; though being honest, there are so any ways a relationship of this nature could go wrong (and for lots of people has indeed gone wrong, though it's also worked fine for others). Putting aside the problems with imbalanced and emotionally dependent relationships in general, you really want to avoid being totally dependent on someone else for medical treatment, especially the kind of treatment you're going to need forever (i.e. HRT). You should save money for hormones at least. You're having this relationship no matter what, but you don't have to go full submissive totally-dependent NEET; you can compromise. Communicate about this.
