Alright guys, I have this situation.
I'm a top and I realize that I'm pretty small in the game. My cock is only 4.5 inches long when erect.
The last guy I topped didn't say anything about it, but it was just a fuck and chuck. When I came, he was sweated out all on his forehead, but I left and didn't talk to the bitch after I left.
Should I really be worried about my size? Am I really that small?
It's effecting me right now. Any help?
>>5281887
Nononono. You must rip a man's colon if you want his love.
>>5281894
I'm in a bind then aren't I?
anyone else care to chime in?
What can I say man, you're fucked...
>>5281887
Bottom here, actually you are right in the size range I like. desu though I might just mess with you about your size WHILE you are fucking me, just to get you to fuck me harder. But no worries, I would make it up to you later.
>>5282090
Why do you prefer that size range as a bottom rather than others?
>>5281887
4.5 to 5.5 is perf for me. I want a guy to pummel my prostate not get way up in my guts. Everyone's different though.
>>5281887
yeah, you have a nice size for gay sex.
for anal it is needed (and preferred) less size than for vaginal intercourse, of course.
even tho I've only fukked bitches and I?m anally a virgin, I would start with a 4 incher.
I just remeasured and I am closer to 5. I'm a little under, but almost at 5in.
>>5282204
See that's what I was thinking. I've never gotten any complains, I think it's that the porn industry really emphasizes size. Glad to know that this isn't always the case in real life.
>>5282231
I tried bottoming only once and the dude was big and I didn't enjoy it at all.
>>5281887
>The last guy I topped didn't say anything about it, but it was just a fuck and chuck. When I came, he was sweated out all on his forehead, but I left and didn't talk to the bitch after I left.
There's a mistake. If he seemed that worked up you should have teased him and made him crave more dick. His slutty responses would make you feel more validated. Now you have to start from scratch anon.
>>5281887
i wouldnt worry about it.
just like every other aspect of every other person, there are going to be people who like it about you, and people who hate it about you.
im seven inches long but i still see dozens of profiles and ads that only say 8inchers and up only. but there are plenty who struggle just to take my dick, even if experienced.
penises aside, there are men who wont date me cuz im only 5'6". but theres plenty who will, and even enjoy a manlet of a top.
point is, no matter how you look in life you are going to get a lot of misses. so focus on the hits instead. you are not the first top with an average sized penis, and you certainly wont be the last.
>>5282274
This is true. I like different sizes for different reasons. Bigger cocks are fun mentally because it's like a challenge. Smaller cocks hit my prostate instead of pushing past it. Ideal is probably around "average" size, maybe a tad bigger. But if I could only choose one type of dick to take for the rest of my life, I'd rather it be something closer to average than a monster.
Porns done it's damage though. There's a LOT of size queens out there.
>>5282386
I love you
Ive been so down lately and that looked like something I would have said months ago.
I guess that I just get so caught up in wanting everything I fail to realize that I have and get A LOT more than most. I love you
>>5282386
On a side note, I'd love to be fucked by a smaller guy someday. Unfortunately I'm only an inch taller than you, and pretty much every top has been taller than me. Maybe I need to seek out Asians...
>>5282411
no problem. i get ya we all get our down moments. i like to think myself a constant pulse of happiness and great advice, but every once in a while i kinda collapse in on myself and people have to give me the advice i usually give them.
its normal to go through highs and lows, glad i was able to help with yours.
>>5282413
sometimes it becomes a fetish of mine. normally in porn i prefer big top and small bottom, but i saw a REALLY hot one of this big huge muscular guy getting fucked by tiny twinks and he was so gentle and loving and just loved having his ass fucked. his face was pure bliss.
for me i just love height difference. if a guy is six inches taller than me i wanna fuck him. same if hes six inches shorter than me.
>>5282411
Next time you're feeling down, just go on gaygen and drink the tears of the many gay virgins on the board, especially if they're 31. It can always be worse, Maki-Top-senpai-chan-fag-kun.
>>5282431
eeee maybe ill stop by lol...
Love that maki
>>5282424
I LOVE contrast. I mostly a bottom but I have had the opportunity to be the guy fucking a person a good deal bigger than me a couple times and its amazing. And of course a guy that's bigger than me is fun to be fucked by.
What's the name/link/whatever of the porn you mention?
>>5282440
iveh ad trouble finding it since then, i saw it on /hm/. i can find similar porns but none that capture the feel that guy had when he was getting fucked by the shortie.
>>5282411
>>5282431
Why do so many people on this board use Maki for reaction images?
dont worry about it, OP.
there are more bottoms than tops out there. tops are in greater demand.
>>5282700
adelaide?
I'm worried about it too.
I guess I feel that I'm really dominant and submitting to another guy has never even crossed my mind as being something attractive or that I wanted to
mine is a little bigger at 6 inches but I'm 18 and lost my virginity recently in a hook up and the guy commented that "it hurt a lot less than the other times" and I'm not sure if its because my dick isnt very big
>>5282756
6 is average. Let queens be queens. Focus on finding their love button and hitting it hard and they'll learn to deal with it.
>>5281887
Most suggestive stock photo I have ever seen.
>>5281887
smaller than average (5) is small but you would be "below average" i think small is under 4
>>5281887
This man makes a terrible balance scale.
The first guy who fucked me had a 4.5" cock. It was just right for a first time. No pain, went in nicely, no need to get adjusted to it. I've never seen so much pre-cum pumped out of my cock before or after him.
I've had bigger (maybe 6.5" the biggest) and there's always adjusting, taking it out, putting it back in, pain, getting used to it. Sometimes a guy will cum just trying to get it in.
4.5" is a good size.
>>5282386
>5'6
>seven in dick
Must look massive on you.
>no matter how you look in life you are going to get a lot of misses. so focus on the hits instead.
You're a top with an above average dick...I bet you enjoy sex alot more than I do. I'm in the same size range as op. I've had people laugh at me when I take off my pants. Turn me down when they see it. Someone I was completely in love w told me that he couldn't be with me because he couldn't feel it whwn I fucked him.
There are plenty of people who struggle to take ur dick - you should feel lucky. I would kill for that. I wish I could hurt a bottom or at least be a little bit bigger than my partner. You have no idea how it feels when you fuck someone as hard as you can and they just lay there silently taking it without reacting. How weak and powerless it makes me feel. And finding a tight bottom is impossible. I've fucked loose virgins before lol
>>5283192
i feel ya bro
>>5283192
I know these feels...
>>5284497
>>5284855
Really pissed me off too when I get with a guy who has a big dick. Especially if he's a bottom. I dated a guy recently...a hairstylist with a 8 in dick. He was actually ashamed of it. Tucked it so no one could see it through his skinny jeans. It didn't work out because I wouldn't give him head or jerk it off
>>5283192
>souljaboy_crying.gif
>>5282107
Have been with 2 guys one was 4.5 and it was fantastic, other guy was 6.5 and maybe he didn't know what he was doing but damn that shit hurt.
>>5281887
I already want to kill myself for having 6.5.
I'm a size queen, I love taking a double dong as far as I can an turning it around inside me. Idk I guess it's just the feeling of being penetrated that gets me. Like I'm helpless to the rope of latex cock inside me
>>5286668
hawt
What's the biggest you've gone?
>>5281887
Well, so far anything past 5.5-6 just hurts, so honestly i'd prefer something a bit smaller.
I think I'm average with OK girth, but not particularly big, it bums me out as far as topping goes too. I only ever feel like topping, I'm just aggressive and i cant get turned on by anything else.
Here's hoping it's enough for most guys.
>>5281887
>didn't talk to the bitch
It's not your dick that's the problem... It's the fact you are a huge dick
In my experience guys are either total size queens or don't care in the slightest.
It also sucks being black and having a dick that's a modest 6". I feel like most people assume I've got a huge dick, or are only into black guys because of the huge dick stereotype.
I too blame porn.
>>5289882
6" is still above average in most parts of the world buddy
>Small Penis Top
Bottom here
Your dick is perfect size, assholes are not vaginas
Anything bigger than 6 is painful
>>5282281
this
i bottomed for a guy with 8.5 inches. there was no getting used to that shit and i was just waiting for it to be over. imo you dont need anything over 6 inches
>>5281887
Sorry, but you are made for bottom.
>>5293424
damn, that fucking hurts. it's especially true in my case, I have a plump ass but a small dick, I'm only attracted to feminine guys through, who are unlikely to want to top some masc dude.
I wouldn't have sex with a dick smaller than 6"3. I don't mind if it makes me look like an asshole, I won't give up my pleasure.
>>5281887
tfw masc sub bottom into cock worship and getting dommed by smaller guys
tfw queens make them so insecure that its hard to find
>>5283192
>>5284497
>>5284855
>>5285359
Two things, the first is that having a BIG cock is often too much for most bottoms. Hell, even the smallest cock that ever fucked me hurt when it went in, and the biggest gave me serious fissures, several times, I was quite stubborn and stupid with my body health and it was my bf, and I lusted for that phat monster to go in my colon. We only had really good anal once, and it took 15 MINUTES just to put it in, and he barely moved or else it hurt too much.
If you have a problem with your size, then you can improvise with toys. Double-dicking someone with a dildo is suddenly not that ridiculously impossible if you dick is rather small, so you can get the feeling of stretching and giving your bottom some heavy action.
Angles are also very important. Deep thrusts in the "middle" of the ass with a small cock is just waste of motion, deep thrusts angled upwards onto the prostate is fucking glorious.
You guys may be deficient in cock-size, but it's just as much your technique that is lacking.
>>5297570
>you guys may be deficient in cock-size, but it's just as much your technique that is lacking
It doesn't resolve much things, better men also polish their “technique” and provide a lot more pleasure to their partner. Frankly, when I read messages like “4"5 is right for most dudes” I can't help but think it's a lie to comfort the original poster because I've never met someone satisfied with such a small size. Maybe for a virgin with a thigh hole…
>>5281887
I couldn't even get a small Asian guy inside me properly, so I'd want to find someone with a modest cock.
Also being just an occasional bottom, I don't really draw physical pleasure from getting fucked. It's all about psychology - I want the top to be masculine in the right way and to make me feel both secure and a little submissive bitch. So it really boils down to looks, personality and technique in bed.
Technique is a matter of psychology too. Do you have the confidence & practical skill to take someone smoothly? Are your libido & body strong enough to grab him by the neck and push his head against the pillow as you plow yourself into him?
These are the things that matter most.
>>5282274
I love how I almost only hear this when someone is small,
But honestly it depends on the guy, some bottoms will be size-queens based simply off of aesthetics, others are just bottoms. If you fuck well then you'll beat someone with a big dick who doesn't know what they're doing, which is a lot of them.
>all these small dicked "tops" aka bottoms in denial who think their widdle babby penis could ever please anyone
>2015
>>5282386
>>5282411
nawwh
i like small :3
