Hypocrisy?
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Is it hypocritical of me as a bisexual trans woman to say that I would date a straight guy, a bisexual girl, or a lesbian but never a bisexual guy?
I would rather not have to take antiretrovirals or antibiotics.
>>5245478
Bigoted, not hypocritical.
>>5245478
Nope, you're fine, this is totally rational.
This is also why I'll never experiment with another guy, or tell any woman about my bisexual desires, in spite of fantasizing about guys sometimes. It's not worth the risk to me.
>>5245504
Not disclosing your true orientation to your partner is rape by deception.
>>5245504
Same. Well I hope I can control myself, the bp is so tempting sometimes.
>>5245478
Does it matter? How hard is to use a condom?
>>5245478
Yeah. It's pretty hypocritical.
Better to be a hypocrite than get AIDS
>>5245520
weak trolling
it just sounds like you are thinking too hard about who you will or will not date and probably have never had another relationship with another person
>>5245651
>I wouldn't date trannies either way, regardless the gender
why not ftms?
>>5245478
Yeah you're right to be discerning, I'm bi, poz and bareback loads of guys off grinder
>>5245680
don't eat the semen then you flaming homosexual
>>5245680
>mouth guards for oral
people seriously do this?
>>5245656
Honestly, I could get over that, it probably would take a while tho
>>5245680
> condoms
Just dont swallow you faggot
>mouth guards
Who even does that
>>5245504
I don't even. So trans ladies attracted to men wouldn't date men because maybe rough label like bi means maybe the man has AIDS? Wut?
Are you sure you don't just have a crippling fear of intimacy and a wild imagination?
>>5245703
>>5245725
To be clear, I'm talking about monogamous relationships in my case, you guys are having casual sex. I've got no reason to not swallow cum (as long as I'm not dealing with a traitorous bi man), whereas you claim to keep your casual sex safe. So I asked you if you actually use protection for oral.
>>5245706
I guess they do. I can't remember where I first heard of them, either a sex ed class or one of those "Dnews" videos.
>>5245779
That's clearly another bi man.
>>5245725
>mouth guards
>Who even does that
Thank you. It's like fucking 1994 up in here. We gonna wear full body condoms made of Saran wrap motherfuckers? Do even into transmission rates of fuqqin HIV?!!! Go worry about Hepatitis, hypochondriacs
>>5245837
Straight. And my point still stands. Didn't realize LGBT was allowed to be homophobic as fuck about teh AIDS. I seriously think you're throwing up excuses to avoid love.
>>5245478
>imlying straight guys would date dickgirls
they are at least bi
>>5245898
Thank god the word "homophobic" has no power over me.
I think an incurable disease that will kill you unless you buy medication for the rest of your life is a pretty good thing to be phobic about.
>>5245782
i don't have casual sex, i date/get to know before i have sex with someone
>monogamy
lol
>>5246024
Accept that your chances are extraordinarily low unless you're riding a dirty cock train raw all day erry day. Either you don't know that or you do and you're choosing to be afraid of silly things.
Do you watch the evening news like an old person and fear the radon, Chinese plastics, tainted iceberg lettuce, and bath salts madness that -might- kill you?
>>5245899
>implying liking feminine penis is gay
This old meme...
I wouldn't care but only if hes the type of biscum that only wants to top cute boys sometimes and is generally masculine. If he wants to be some guys bitch, even occasionally, then yes thats a turn off.
>>5247102
What if I want to be a bitch for cute boys exclusively.
>>5245898
>Straight
>Bisexual desires and fantasies
Sure, broseph. The reason you want Jonathan in your ass is because he's just such a cool guy.
>>5246138
I'm not >>5246024, but I will respond to you anyway. I've seen the infection rates for sex acts and know they're very low. But look at these facts on who's making up the new infected. http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/group/msm/ The fact remains you can't get HIV from someone who doesn't have it.
>>5247102
I also relate to this post.
>>5247126
No, I would have to be the only one to ever top you
>>5245478
Use a condom?
I'm mtf but I would date a guy or preop trans girl of any orientation. My only rule is no vaginas, which is a shame because some FtMs are pretty hot.
I don't worry about disease that much though because I'm not hooking up with randoms or junkies all the time and I always have protection. The rates of transmission for HIV are pretty low with proper condom use.
All my straight friends are disgusted by trans woman.
You might be willing to date them but They aren't.
I'm not straight but I wouldn't date you or anything either. You don't have a pussy.
Good luck finding whatever it is you're looking for.
>>5247516
Hey that works :) my bp is still virginal
>>5245478
OP you do realise you don't just contract HIV out of nowhere right. Using a condom for casual sex is the norm. but if your partner were to be tested and clean then there's no reason not to go bareback with them...
>>5245478
Yes. Plus you have a better chance with bis than straights and gays.
>>5250702
Why would a trans woman ever want to touch a gay man sexually?
>>5254101
Because normal people are attracted to other people, not a walking mirror which supplies you with assurance of your identity.
That's narcissism, yo.
>>5245478
But you're a bisexual guy. So yes, it is hypocritical
>>5254131
I don't think it's narcissism for a trans woman to be turned off the moment she finds out the guy who likes her is gay. It's just identifying that's not her market and there's nothing lasting there for her. He likes her for the things she would do away with instantly if she could, and not at all for the things she wants to be. It's clearly a negative interaction.