any gay FTMs here?
just curious.
Hey yo! Pretty sure I fall under that category.
Not too many general ftms around here though, at least not compared to the amount of mtfs running rampant. Hell, our gen can't even stay on the front page 90% of the time
But yeah! Assurin' you that we do exist. I for one like to call myself cocksucker supreme.
>dat Brocahontas tho
I've lived as a lesbian my whole life but I'm really starting to wonder if I should become a FtM. I already dress as butch as it gets and I get mistaken as a male almost all the time so it makes me wonder if I should really transition. Anybody know what are the pros and cons of making the transition of FtM?
fujoshits back to /y/
>>5189271
How do you feel about your body? Are you comfortable having female sex characteristics? Are you okay with your genitals, your breasts, your voice, your fat distribution? Do they feel natural to you?
Being masculine, being mistaken for a man, these things are aside from the necessity of dysphoria that, if you have it, would drive you to transition. If you feel like you should have male sex characteristics and experience significant dysfunction at their absence, you should probably transition. Otherwise, don't.
>>5189271
Just because you like dressing butch and get mistaken as male doesn't mean you're a dude. Kill yourself dyke.
i'm a bi ftm, I'm hoping to start dating again but I keep only meeting nb people. I just want a qt boyfriend but I'm too weird and trans to attract one.
I feel really good about being a bi guy. I used to be a lesbian, and then I got big into poly, and then I was celibate for 8 months.
>>5189099
yes, why
dude what
have you ever been to the ftm gen?
they're virtually all on the cock, or at least like bi
>>5190570
I find that the further you get into your transition, the less the nb crowd is interested in you, because you become less visibly trans. Which is what they fetishize. Just be patient and keep doing your own thing.
postet this story here >>5170694 but feels like this is a better place for advice. bloggwarning.
Im a FtM but too much of a coward to make the transition. Doing the half way butch lesbian instead because I'm pathetic. Look painfully female 'but butch' and hate it.
I did 6 month travel in Latin-America and my experience there was amazing.
I kept the butch lesbian facade going. Short hair, andro clothes. Most/all people I met thought I was a man. Was hit on by straight women and gay men. In public restrooms there would be an outrage if I chose the womens toilet. Old ladies called me a 'nice young man'. Broke a friends'm heart because she thought I was a man and developed a crush. People were genuinely shocket when they found out I was 'actually' female. Some people thought I was joking if I told them.
After what I'm been told the reason I could pass so well is that the feminine/masculine identities are a lot more polarized and women always work towards looking their feminine best, especially with long hair.
Combine this with "all you white people look the same" (a L-A friends words, not mine), and you have a passing FtM.
Returned from travels and back to being weirdo.
I miss it every day. Feels bad man.
Anyone else have an experience like this? And how about international travel as a FtM?
>>5190807
>Im a FtM but too much of a coward to make the transition.
why?
>>5189271
just do it senpai, a lot of ftms used to be lesbians because the only thing they could schlick it to is gay porn. So envitably they start wanting to become gay men. Then after T, they're full blown gay ftms. I honestly think it's because they were already bicurious in the first place, but being FtM allows them to suck and fuck cock without the guilt tripping of labeling themselves as lezzies. T then exemplifies cock lust over 9000.
I mean this anon here is a perfect example:
>>5190570
So just admit it, you like cock, that's why you wanna be ftm.
>>5190926
...Or they could suck cock and not be lesbian but straight girls...?
>>5190936
that too, a lot of gay ftms were (and still are) fujoshis.
>>5189099
I died a little looking at that pic.
>>5189099
the shilling is hard
>>5190823
Because I'm paranoid of not passing as male. Thought that was pretty obvious. To be lesbian is acceptable in my area, being trans is a nightmare.
To hear all the struggle stories of people on this forum doesn't help, but I really have no good excuse. I guess I am choosing minimizing damage over avoiding crippling emotional damage.
But that travel experience got me comfortable with that unattainable dream. I got heaven and then it got ripped away from me:(
>>5191021
Look, all I'm going to say is the people on this forum aren't good examples. A lot of them are like a month in or don't even take T.
Seriously, T is magic, it's not like with MtFs, once your beard comes through NO ONE is going to think you're a chick. How many bearded lesbians do you see.
>>5190980
I used to worry that I fell into that category when I started transitioning, because as a teenager I was really into yaoi and any media with gay male characters, but fast forward a decade and I'm a pretty well adjusted gay man in a ltr. I've definitely seen some of those types try to transition, though, and it generally ends in disastrous detransition within a year, max two. You might like the idea of being a cute gay boy, but the reality of rejection from occupying marginalized identity coupled with the realization that you're uncomfortable with the changes that occur with hrt will go a long way to turn you back whence you came.
>>5189099
what is even the point of this general? The regular FtM Gen is cocksuckers anonymous/tfw no bf edition all the fucking time.
>>5191036
I see your point. I know this. Guess I have to grow some fucking balls, figuratively.
>>5191130
If there's something else bothering you, then do bring it up for discussion, if you want.
But if it's literally will I pass, then don't worry.
The other thing is, for MtFs it's a big deal - if they don't pass then they're freaks. For us? We just be seen as stone cold butches - which, I take it, is not too dissimilar from how you are now anyway? So again, don't be afraid.
there is no such thing as a straight ftm. All of them are gay. If they say they're bi, they're in denial and are actually gay.
>>5191171
.....I identify as FtM and str8. Check your privilege, shitlord.
>>5191171
I used to know a trans guy who insisted he was straight, even when he was in a relationship with a cis gay dude. He also has a face tattoo, so you kind of took anything he said with a grain of salt.
>>5191188
you probably sucked a mtf's penis so you're gay. Might as well suck a cis man's cock.
>>5191204
I've never met an mtf in my life.
>>5191188
I love how people say they "identify" but you see who they're fucking and it's the exact opposite of what their identity label is. DFAB are usually really guilty of this sort of thing.
>>5191216
the only other str8 ftm sucks mtf cock. Sorry, mistook that guy for you.
>>5191218
>implying ftms have a choice
we take what we can get
>>5189099
>dat male Esmeralda
muh dik
>>5191318
Where can I find an Esmeraldo for me on real life?
>>5191440
If only I knew.
>>5191190
>He also has a face tattoo, so you kind of took anything he said with a grain of salt
:D
All ftms I know are gay or bi. As a grill who likes cute and short guys this makes me sad.
>>5191963
Date the bi ones. Problem solved. If he misses cock, just pegg him:D
the gay ftm General is literally just ftmg, theyre all attracted to men and most don't want to take T either.
>>5192031
This. Just a bunch of straight girls if you ask me.
>>5192295
This.
You have my feels. There is two of us.
my gf seconds this.
>>5189959
As far as my genetalia and boobs go I hate them and I wish with all my might I can just cut them off. I really want to be a man but as far as turning gay and liking men goes... I don't think that will be for me or at least I've never found men attractive. If I were to transition I wouldn't like to turn gay and many FtMs say that the T makes your hormones crazy so that's the only downside I see from taking T besides that I would love to be a man.
What age would be best to start T? I don't know any of this as I am really new to all this. Also, I am from a small town where being trans is really frowned upon and I'm in conflict with becoming a man.
>>5190926
Does T really make you lust over cock? I really don't find men attractive whatsoever and I think that would be the only downside to taking T. Will it make me lust over cock as if I was a raging fag?
I think women are beautiful and have always been into women. It is funny you mention gay porn because I have never watched gay porn but I'll give it a try for you senpai. :3
>>5195071
Don't. Start. It. You're. Not. Trans.
>>5195071
Why hate having a vagina? It doesn't exactly take up space or anything. Just think of yourself as a real like ken
i only like having sex with nonbinary people who are on hrt and thin and androgenous
I've never had sex with a cis person, and I've never dated someone who wasn't nonbinary
I h8 getting fucked by straight dudes :/
I h8 lesbians and I haven't been a dude long enough to fuck a straight girl but I'm guessing I'd hate it too.
>>5195071
Why do you hate your body? Is it because it makes you a woman, or because it just feels wrong?
>>5200532
I hate having tits and I hate having a hole where it should be a big cock... now I know I'll never grow a cock but I'd really like to chop off my tits. I think they're disgusting and my body doesn't feel normal.
To me normalcy would be being flatchested and a huge cock between my legs but I don't have that sadly.
>>5200441
>I've never had sex with a cis person.
>I h8 getting fucked by straight dudes.
kek
>>5200441
o dat tumblr, always cranky :P
>>5202225
the cutest guys have vagina.
>>5189099
> this is actually a thing
YOU'RE ALL FUCKING MENTALLY ILL JESUS FUCK
t. A bisexual who fucking hates this tumblr bullshit
AYYY WHERE THE CUTE FUZZY MANLETS WITH LITERAL BOYPUSSIES WHO LOVE GAY DICK AT
>>5192031
>>5192040
I have been there for a long time and while I am unsure of exactly how many are on T - there is a lot on T and even more than I expected to already have at least top surgery.
>source: gatekeeping ftm who hates tumblr special snowflakes and ftms who refuse T without having medical problems that prevent them from it
>>5199920
not that anon but I hate it because it's not a dick dumbass
>>5189099
>Cis gays will never get DP'ed by two hung femboys
so sorry cissies
>>5210916
some people can get double fucked in the butt :/
u wrong
>>5210968
enjoy your prolapse
nothing sets the mood like a pink sock ;^)
>>5211021
This kills the thread
>>5210472
>A bisexual
Opinion discarded.
