Hi /lgbt/
First i need to say that im a gay boy 18 years old.
So i was surfing online and i saw the kylie jenner lip kit and i just really wanted it and try it on myself. Today i was surfing again because i needed to order vitamins and i fell over some lip shimmer and i just had the urge to buy it. I wish i could wear it public and also nail polish.. also i hate the fact that my body is getting more ''manly'' like broader shoulders, taller etc. i wish i had a thin feminine body.. im too shy to express myself this way so i keep to myself a lot..
Am i transgender? should i transition??
Personally i wish i could just be me without having to go through surgery but i feel like my life would be so much easier if i was a ''girl'' but idk.. It's not normal where i live for boys to be fem sadly..
Also share your experience, do you play with make up etc.?
Pic is not related
I'm not so insecure about my body, but I too have had the urge to wear makeup and leggings/other feminine items. I just think they're really cute and represent who I am to the word very well. Unfortunatley it's hard to expirement with this for fear of violence, both verbally and physically, so i'd probably have to make the effort to pass as a full fledged woman to avoid any violence against me.
"Grass is greener" syndrome is a terrible reason to transition and if it's your strongest one, you'll regret it.
Anyone have experience with this?
don't waste your money on that crap. seriously.
>>5525872
This.
It's better than nothing, but far worse than anything substantial. Just shell out for the E2.
>>5525942
I used for pueraria for a while. Never heard of E2 what is E2?
spitroasted by half a dozen of canadian lumberjacks on a mattress in the back of a pickup truck while the truck is parked in the middle of deep woods edition
>>5525601
Well ... I'm right here.
i want degenerate parents to encourage me to go on hookups and stuff ;~;
I've only recently come to terms with my own identity as being gender fluid, but I'm still in the closet because of where I live, and as a consequence, I can't experiment with my own femininity. On top of that, I'm broke as fuck since it's hard to find jobs I can do with my disability (nothing visibly wrong with me on the outside, just have a shit heart that needed an open heart valve replacement; I was 17 at the time and it's been two years)
I'm so desperate to make money so I can afford my own wardrobe that I made a gofundme, in the hopes of making more than enough to afford my own wardrobe with clothes, makeup, hair extensions/wig(s), and whatever else I'd need to be my feminine counterpart. I just have two questions:
1) how overly pathetic is that
2) is my situation one that is sadly common?
3) if I added the link, would you help spread it; or if you were sympathetic enough, possibly donate to my sorry ass?
>genderfluid
Fuck, I forgot to edit the number of questions before I posted
This b8 is nicely seasoned 6/10
Do you fags actually believe that if a man says that hes a woman, then therefore he is? Or do you believe that the only reason to call that man a woman is just so he doesnt feel bad (this is ofcourse assuming hes not faking it which theres no way of testing)
>>5525354
I'm of the unpopular opinion that professional help should be sought. This allows those of us who are trans to make sure we are 100% ready to begin the transitioning process. I don't think of it as a mental ILLNESS so much as a difference in which help should be sought to give us a good guide through the whole thing.
Also, having a mental professional makes sure that we are able to get to a point where we can accept it, move past it as an "issue" (Not be held back by it etc) and grow as a person.
>>5525354
>that "fact"
incredible.
I think that as long as there is some amount of effort to match the label, I'm happy to use it. It's not like it costs me anything.
If there isn't effort to meet the label, then maybe a different label is in order, and I might mention that to the person, in a polite way of course.
When it comes down to it, I'm all about self-determination and stuff, so as long as there is a reasonable possibility of success I'm not going to try to talk them out of it.
Also pronouns are easy if you just think of them as a part of their name, which they really are.
I dunno, I'm bi and not terribly sexual so I find it kinda hard to give much of a shit about gender/sex stuff.
Dear /adv/,
I'm a language major (21 years old) and I'm currently pursuing a dual degree. In my country, a bachelor's degree takes 3 years to complete, and I was planning on taking 4 years for my dual degree. Now that I work as a communication consultant, I have to work 2 days a week in the office. It's a very prestigious job and I have to admit the pay is quite nice.
I want to complete my degrees in 5 years. I really don't want to be 25 (or older) when I obtain my bachelor's degrees, because I'm also planning on getting my master's. What would you do if you were in my shoes?
>Dear /adv/
>>5525122
What's up with her lips?
The answer to any question posted on /lgbt/ is "fucking do it".
so I heard you faggots took down, ED, is this true and why?
>>5524138
LGBT doesn't have enough posters to take down a website. Also you are a massive faggot if you still browse ED.
I didn't think anyone had given a shit about ED for like 5 years. Is it dead then? When did that happen?
>>5524297
This is lgbt everyone's a fag
I've been in hrt a while now full-time, SRS soon. I can't conceive of a world that I didn't transition.
With that said, I was used for sex by father and older students in middle school. I was raised by my mother after my father was caught. So no male influence. I've met many other transsexuals like this. It's the whole reason I ended up trans because I have this childhood narrative, if not why is it so common in trans girls?
My answer: Your sexual abuse for sure had a lot to do with your transexualism. Actual answer- We have not the slightest damn clue of how human sexuality works.
>>5524105
Most true transsexuals come from a normal upbringing with no sexual abuse or childhood trauma.
>>5524126
Thanks for this info I was targeted by the middle school students cause word got out about how I had tried cutting my dick off in 5th grade. I started hrt at 16 I mean still late but... Wtf is true trans anyway.
So how many of you pass because of the thick, rimmed glasses "trick"? I have been on HRT for over 8 months (in boymode) yet not once I was ma'am'd except the times I had on those glasses. Does it really work on everyone? Is this the secret exit door from the hondom?
>>5523896
I kinda need glasses.
it's not that bad tho.
Haven't worn a pair in years.
but I just bought some for this very reason desu,
Still in boymode, pre-hrt.
>>5523896
i'm getting a new pair very soon. what magic glasses are these? like the glasses in the korean girl style?
>>5523902
like possibly any of those trashy hipster glasses i guess
What's the difference between two gay guys and a freezer?
When you pull the meat out of the freezer, it dosent fart.
>>5523665
i kekd
What does a lesbian bring on the second date?
A U-Haul.
Well if it's heavy enough you might
I hate this shit. I am an outsider and i always have been. Im weird and awkward and can only make friends online. Im lazy and suck and have no passion or significant ambition. Id literally be nothing if i wasnt attractive which means i will be nothing when i age
That makes two of us kek. I've always been an outsider too, and just recently I realized that I can be quite well on my own. Focusing my energy on myself is the way for me.
However, you're attractive so you may want to consider taking advantage of that while you still can and step up your game. Figure what makes you happy and just go for it: even if it goes against the norm. Fuck it! I'm happy being a hermit and ain't nobody telling me how to live my life.
Sorta the same, only I can actually make friends. However we don't really have anything in common. Granted, I have a friend or two that I connect with just fine but since I moved away - I just can't get that with anyone else. Anything that isn't 'vanilla' in a convo makes them look at me weird so our convos mostly revolve around work, the weather, movies and more work. I feel like shit because they actively want to hang out with me and I just force myself to go along with it. I love being a hermit and all but it'd be nice to find ONE 'weird' person around here that isn't a drug addict, felon or insane.
>>5523791
I can completely relate. I can make "friends" too, but I prefer to regard them as good acquaintances cause I feel like they don't really know me and I can't rely on or trust them very much. All they talk about is sex, sex... gossip, weed and tv shows... the worst of all is that they're not even that sexually active to begin with lol. Tbh we have very little in common which is why I wouldn't consider them friends.
There's this one person however with whom I spend a lot of time with and we get along pretty well... however it's not perfect and sometimes I get the feeling that it's the kind of situation where you're stuck together cause there's no one better in the given circumstances.
I think I know what you mean by that one weird person, and desu I think it's quite hard to find someone to click with on most levels. Also, it takes time to develop it into something lasting... probably too much effort for me anyways lol.
please explain to me why people sexually identify?
It's easier to fuck people you want to fuck / avoid fucking people you don't want to fuck if there's easy labels to use to describe people, including yourself.
>>5523346
1) why not just fuck who you want and dont fuck who you dont want to fuck?
2) why would you avoid people just because you dont want to fuck them?
3) are you saying sexual identity is just labels?
How do you go about working your wood, /gaygen/?
tinychat com/gaygen
tinychat com/gaygenrehab
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>>5523288
1st for pretty dicks
I think about what we once knew
"Too busy being yours to fall for somebody new"
I knew that you were trouble when I met you off that train
I stumbled over your name
So what did you expect?
The colour of our love was burning red
I used to think about when we dressed up
And we looked so stylish, so charming it must be luck
Don't underestimate the symbolism of having a new phone
That never took a pic of you or called you going home
The last time that I saw you all you had to do was stay
But you stopped dreaming my name
You formed out of the wet sand
We got all over our feet
That darker shades of grey
Couldn't hide or keep away
So I'm going back to what I knew
Your jacket smelled liked all the days that I spent with you
I stumbled completely when you cried
Nothing could have readied me for the emotion in your eye
Twirling in the fridge light one Christmas two years ago
Well do you want to know?
My take on Amsterdam
Listening to the music when the lights had gone out
Dreaming of Omaha chocolates, I
Imagined you with our hand between your thighs
During the forty-five minute flight or that seven hour drive
Once in a while I flash back to a time
When I only had the one boy in mind
I’d never known something to be so bittersweet
As two perfect people at the worst time in life they could meet
Suddenly so soon that smile plays upon your face
You lied and said there was no one else in my old place
And that consoles me when my resolve melts
It’s not that I just want your body; I genuinely can’t countenance
Your wanting to be with somebody so soon – what happened to working on yourself?
I never needed anything from you, especially for you to change
But “I want to be a better person for you” disappearing suddenly seems strange
So the night after you said your last good night
I kissed some girl just so that I wouldn’t cry
Fitting cause we always greeted each other with goodbye
I'll miss those tears in your eyes
>>5523299
The little white one is the cutest.
Who do homosexuals have spontaneous sex? is it pic related?
>>5522537
*How :3
>>5522537
Heterosexuals have spontaneous sex as well...
>>5522610
yeah but chances are pretty small that you hit rock bottom. Even if heterosexuals do have anal sex, the cances are about 1/4 that shit actually hits the fan if there is no enema. So how do you solve this problem?
Could we have an omegle thread?
Use tags 'legbutt' and talk about gay shit.
>>5520963
What type of shit? I'm sure a gay man and a transbian want nothing to do with eachother.
>>5521124
>a gay man and a transbian want nothing to do with eachother
And despite of that, we are confined to one board.
>>5521124
anything your heart can desire, you could talk about the lgbt movement as a whole in your specific example
but that's up to you friend