Is it gay to cuddle and spoon with another man?
I heard that this is a common practice in Europe bewteen male friends, and that they all sleep on the same bed and spoon each other.
I am Greek
>>59314381
Do you guys like cuddling?
>>59314351
only in southern europe
>>59314351
It's ok as long as you're 2D
>>59314652
Cute
>>59314351
>Is it gay to cuddle and spoon with another man?
In theory no, in practice yes, because 10 out of 10 times it's gays who do that crap.
>I heard that this is a common practice in Europe bewteen male friends, and that they all sleep on the same bed and spoon each other.
Only if there's only one bed. And you should definitely chant a litany of no homo's during the entire time you're in that situation, otherwise people will think you're a fag and nobody will want to be friends with you anymore.
Don't know if it works. Once we slept in a same bed with my former flatmate since he didn't have bed of his own yet.
It all ended in dick sucking and butt things.
>>59315361
>nobody will want to be friends with you anymore.
Why are euros so homophobic?
>>59315507
It's probably an Eastern Euro thing. No fun allowed is our motto. Add a dash of 'everyone must be the same' and 'how dare you be different' and a pinch of self hatred, xenophobia and voilá.
No wonder our suicide rates are so high, the best and brightest want off this ride as soon as possible. Only the morons and brutes live long enough to be pensioners.
I'd wager Western Europe things are different though.
God I hate this place.
>>59315848
>God I hate this place.
I'd switch places with you if I could.
>>59315911
For what? We're so poor, I'm pretty sure your country might be richer than ours.
Only if both are males or both are females
But there's nothing wrong with gay things, so go on
>>59315491
Greentext pls
>>59316206
naah... brazil is trash
>>59314351
Me and my bf cuddle all the time and we're perfectly straight:3
if you get sexual feelings while doing it
>>59315491
Aaaaaaw yis
>>59316392
Maybe. But I think you see the name Eastern-Europe and associate it with grandiose crap Western Europeans have. Make no mistake, Eastern Europe is dirt poor. My country for example? 40% of people live below the poverty line.
>>59316328
>First week in a new flat, close to the city center, which I shared with a friend of a friend.
>We both had separate rooms but most of his stuff, including his bed, was still at his old place and basically just had a thin mattress, a pillow and a toothbrush with him.
>We decide to celebrate the occasion and go out to have a beer or two.
>Ended up drinking shit-ton, smoking weed and clubbing 'till early hours.
>Stumbled together back to our place
>Tell him he could sleep with me in my bed (got a big double one and he was using a towel as blanket) and told him to just bring his pillow.
>Stripped ourselves just to our boxers.
>Lights out and into the bed
>Both squirming around a bit, trying to find a comfortable position
>Our legs end up tangled up and after a while he starts rubbing his foot against my leg
>neither of us says a thing but we turn our bodies towards each other
>Put my hand over his shoulder and start rubbing his back
>soon after, we started kissing
>he takes my boxers off and grabs my dick, stone hard a this point.
>he goes down on me and starts sucking it
>after awhile I tell him to take a condom from my drawer and fuck me hard
>He does that, I go on my fours
>Takes only like 15 seconds until he takes off the condom and throws his load on my back
>Afterwards cuddles & sleeping
Boy did that feel weird and awkward the morning after. We didn't really talk about that since.
>>59318101
This got me hard
>not cuddling with your m8s ironically
weak bantz 2bh ladz
>>59318101
When was this?
>>59321905
Couple of years ago.
>>59322396
How old were you, anon?
>>59322432
We were both 22.
W-where are you going with this?
>>59322743
Nowhere. I'm just curious.
I like to read these stories.
Specially when finns are involved :3
>>59322761
Haven't really done anything like that since then, tho bottoming felt godly.
Should get back on the bat sometimes.
>>59323256
>tho bottoming felt godly.
I'm jelly because I never had sex :(
>>59323286
>Living in degenerate capital as a fag
>still a virgin
Literally how?
Im bi and average looking and finding a guy to bottom for me is the easiest thing in the world literally a few clicks away on my phone and I have a twink over my house or vice versa and I'm fucking him.
Come to Texas and I'll fuck you as long as you aren't fat and disgusting.
>>59314351
I have never known that to happen.
>>59323469
>I'll fuck you as long as you aren't fat and disgusting.
I am fat and disgusting.
Besides, it shouldn't be just about sex, you know?
I mean, I want my first time to be something I can look back to! Something special!
>>59323528
I hate everything you represent
>>59323547
Why?
>>59323469
>I'll fuck you as long as you aren't fat and disgusting.
Pretty low standards desu
>>59323528
With that attitude you'll become a wonderful wizard.
>>59323528
From my experience with gay people is they tend to be the biggest promiscuous sluts. I've never longed to date a man because I'm typically only into them when im horny af and need to fuck something. But man gay guys usually just love getting fucked.
>>59323597
I'm working out and trying to lose weight.
I still want my first time to be something special.
>>59323553
You've been sheltered and live in a fantasy world instead of the real one.
>>59323469
>>59323647
Have I? How come?
>>59323565
Im a degenerate with little to no standards when I'm horny. I've never bottomed or gave head before surprisingly enough.
Im pretty fortunate to have a qt twink fuckbuddy who's always dtf, and has a bunch of girl clothes he wears for me.
>>59323663
>Tfw no qt twink submissive Aussie to bottom for me.
>>59314351
>Went to high school in Texas
>Gay
>A good amount of kids still stigmatized being gay
>The openly gay kids at the school were literal walking stereotypes
>tfw never came out, never had a boyfriend, and never had sex
>>59323672
You've been overfed I assume since you were a kid. That's being coddled. You think the first time will be special. It will be awkward even if it's with someone you really like. It's always awkward. You think someone amazing is waiting around for a fat (or formally fat) virgin? Completely entitled
>>59323626
It won't be. Get that stupid disney shit out of your head for your own good man.
First time being special is for girls because they are scared, because it hurts, because virginity is important and shit.
that shit doesn't apply to men.
REEEEEEEEE BISCUM WHORE GET OUT
>>59323804
:-(
>>59323810
Even if it is akward, it needs to be with someone I care for. Also, read this:
>>59323626
>I'm working out and trying to lose weight.
>>59323817
But I want it to feel good
>>59323834
Is there a problem with being bi?
Disgusting oppressive faggot.
>>59323804
If you're in West Texas I can be your fuck buddy. I'm strictly a top though.
>>59323834
I bet you'd be sprung after a night with me. I've a nice aesthetic uncut cock that 9/10 girls/guys I've been with have complimented.
>>59323917
This was supposed to be a thread about cuddles, not this.
Jesus Christ.
>>59323873
He's just being tsundere towards me because he secretly wants my big American cock in his boipussy
biscum go die in a fire
>i only have sex with guys because they're easy
>i'd only ever kiss or cuddle a girl
fucking biscum degenerates
>>59323256
Are you like, gay?
Can you guys stop please
>>59323956
>>59323988
Salty faggots.
Also never denied being a degenerate.
I've taken a fags virginity who claimed to hate bi people and had him begging for more later.
>>59324100
There's literally no point in having sex with a guy who won't at least suck your dick
>virgin gays
How to find them
>>59324050
Biscum master race reporting for duty.
>>59324100
I'm not salty.
I don't have anything agaisnt your lifestyle.
It's just that this particular thread was not made for this sort of attitude.
It's a thread about cuddles and romance.
biscum should be castrated
>>59323956
Spooning leads to forking, everyone knows this.
>>59324134
Depends on where you live and how high your standards/how shallow you are.
>>59324134
Hard to find, seeing as many decent homos (not walking stereotypes) don't announce themselves. Most people think I'm 100% straight. Chances are as well that the queens are the promiscuous ones. I know what >>59323862 means too. Not special but just to give a shit about them. I'm not a virgin but I'll only have sex with people I care about. If not my hand is just fine.
>>59324172
>gay people
>romance
Pick one and only one.
Gay porn with cheesy acting isn't reality.
You are going to die a virgin with those unrealistic expectations. Lose weight and you might find a bf who will love you but the sex won't be romantic like you imagine it.
>>59324134
Closeted Highschool senior who I met at a gym and eventually seduced. He was a total qt was the only guy I cuddled with after.
>>59324365
>who I met at a gym
One more reason to go to the gym
>tfw if I worked out I could easily have a nice twink body
>>59324365
How do you know about this?
You only seem to go after guys because they're easy to fuck.
Have you tried to find a decent partner?
Someone who would care about you?
Someone who you would feel the obligation of treating with respect and making sure they are enjoying every second?
>>59324397
>>tfw if I worked out I could easily have a nice twink body
Well, if I made it, you can do it as well.
>>59314351
Well it's common in my house. I'm gay though so it gives me a boner and we have sex.
I was talking to somebody on Reddit who claimed cuddling with her dad was normal and platonic. Anything is possible OP. Like just think of this. We pet our cats and dogs. We don't pet eachother. Monkeys touch strangers and shit to get to know them too. The most we do i shandshake. It's probably normally for some people to do it platonically.
There are "cuddle parties" out there too. Check out this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RtwvWxkNaY
or you're a closet fag like me. Who knows.
>>59324502
Even worse than biscum
>>59324397
You have to some social skills if you want something other than a slut.
But yeah a lot of variety at the gym from muscly bears to the occasional twink (my personal favorite).
Getting /fit/ will help a lot if you're bi/gay.
>>59324433
Not claiming to be an expert but I definitely know more than you the sheltered fat virgin. I've never failed to have sex with a guy that I've gone after. I guess it's possible but it won't be something easily achievable by the likes of you judging by your attitude (I've spotted you in multiple threads)
>>59324549
There is nothing wrong with subreddits of niche hobbies and subjects. You can actually have some discussion unlike 95% of the time here that ends with shit posting and Tumblr tier hivemind
>>59324613
I want to cuddle with a waitu piggu
I WANT AN AUSSIE BF NOW
>>59324555
Right. Look pal, again, I have nothing against your lifestyle, and nothing against you.
No need to be rude. I'm trying to change my attitude, and so far things are going good.
I'm just saying that you don't seem to be the guy that is actively looking for a monogamous relationship with another man, which is probably why you haven't come across any romantic homosexuals.
You wanna have tons of sex? Go ahead man. More power to you. But you don't need to degrade people who are not into that.
>>59323469
I have venereal disease the post
>>59324714
>>59324701
Funny enough I discovered reddit through most boards obsession with it. I probably wouldn't have known about it if it weren't for people like (You).
>>59324726
I've nothing against you either just giving you some tough love. This isn't a hug box and don't expect it to be. I hope you find what you're looking for though, pal.
>>59318101
>tfw i'll never get to experience something like this
>>59324811
I'm clean, I get tested every few months. :^)
>>59324613
Guy who mentioned weirdo incest subtheme girl here. That's how I feel about 4chan and Tumblr too. The smaller parts of sites are usually better. Look at us. We have /b/ /v/ and /pol/. Tumblr lets you only follow what you want so I just have all cock porn.
>>59324889
>I've nothing against you either just giving you some tough love
Don't you think it was a bit uncalled for, tho?
>This isn't a hug box and don't expect it to be
I know it isn't. But how about some positive reinforcement? It works sometimes.
>I hope you find what you're looking for though, pal.
Thanks, man.
>>59324894
>being jealous of someone who is weird and awkward the night after
Nigga live your life and find someone to give a morning blowjob and eat pancakes with.
>>59314351
What you think?
>>59324910
so you distrust the male whores you have sex with
>>59314351
I find it odd that you're trying to specify if the ACT ITSELF is gay, when you'd probably already have to have some form of (gay) relationship with a guy to even get to that point.
Or do you cuddle strangers?
>>59314351
>tfw no bf
>>59328971
Je peux être ton petit ami si tu veux.
I'm not a SJW but I think it might have to do with the fact that heterosexuals are for reasons irrelevant to this discussion prone to be against things they might perceive as homosexual.
So its not really about being gay but rather about the fear of being (or at least looking) gay.
Or something similar to that reasoning.
I wouldn't hug or cuddle another man because I think it would feel awkward and/or seem suggestive.
Not necessarily wrong, but definetely awkward.
>>59324134
whats up
>>59330472
age/weight/reason for virginity?
It's only gay if your balls touch
Do what you want. Who gives a shit what others think.
>>59330493
23/80kg/not a very social person and the gay dating scene is pretty slutty
>tfw literally every gay guy was closeted during my time at high school
>tfw never experienced teen gay romance
>tfw basically whored myself out to older guys
>>59330645
Disgusting
>>59330645
I was into older fit guys when I was a twink but never did anything cos I thought all gays were into muscle men and not skinny guys. Waste of youth
>>59330525
It's easier to ignore what other think of you when they don't bash you in the face for it. Even though it's 2016, a boy wouldn't dream of holding his bf's hand in the streets after sundown in most of EU countries (southern, mostly, including some 'hoods here in France).
>>59330594
Do you live in a decent-sized city?
>>59330949
nuremberg, so yes
>>59330971
Don't you have gay friends who could introduce you to more gay friends, and thus broaden your hunting grounds?
>>59331191
yeah, he isn't that much of a social person either though.
>>59331341
Isn't Bavaria one of the more conservative/least gay-friendly Land?
>>59331449
yeah, most people don't care desu. They just hate the faggotry.
>>59324134
Here :)
What city?
>>59331522
From which angle do you see the "scene" (dating apps, clubs)?
>They just hate the faggotry.
Well, that I can understand.
>>59329762
R E I M S
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>>59331678
pls be cute and in Perth
>>59324134
Year 7
>>59331903
>pls be cute
I'm alright. Not a twink tho
>In Perth
yes
>>59324365
>pick one and only one
I beg to differ, on the basis of my own personal experience
>>59331977
Why are you a virgin?
>>59332073
>shut in
>ugly and closeted throughout high school
>only two real friends and they're both straight
>>59331999
>999
Best trips; can't be wrong.
>>59332165
I see. Well leaning how to look after myself and how easy it is to hook up after that was life changing for me. I hope you can figure it out
>tfw when your in a relationship with a girl and your longing for a cute guy to fuck.
>then again, when your with a cute guy, you just want a pretty girl to cuddle/be rough with.
Being a bisexsual master race sucks, I just want to be happy.
>>59332843
Being bi is being enlightened
>>59332290
Okay then...
>>59314351
I'm French, yes. But only here.
Why do i have to be straight. Being gay is so master race.
>>59314351
>I heard that this is a common practice in Europe bewteen male friends, and that they all sleep on the same bed and spoon each other.
I do this with my friend who's gay, not with anyone else though.
>>59335201
Are you the little or big spoon?
