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How is virginity viewed in your country? In my opinion everyone
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How is virginity viewed in your country?

In my opinion everyone who's a virgin past 20 has some serious issues
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No one gives a shit
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I dumped one of my exes when I found out she's not a virgin
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i lost mine at 13
usually people lose it at 14-15
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You're pretty much viewed as a loser or a weirdo of some sort.

Most people however will be polite and say sometihng like 'you're just a late-bloomer' if you're under 25.
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If you haven't lost it by the age of 15, you're seen as a freak and everyone will make fun of you.
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>>52980647
#Hebrew lyf
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People dont care or ask.
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>>52980564
this
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>>52980547
>In my opinion everyone who's a virgin past 20 has some serious issues

Pretty much this..
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Turning 20 in June

Not kissless but still a virgin

However I don't even care much about that anymore, I care more about figuring out what to do with my life since I've been a NEET since graduating High School
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Huge country so the views vary.

Personally I've no preference, I've only ever had sex with virgins though (in their 20's). I think I just like really shy and quiet men. I like to teach and guide and I know what I like so it's never been a problem. I never sought them out like "ah ha! I got one!", just happened that way.
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>>52980721
>You're pretty much viewed as a loser or a weirdo of some sort.
This. Isn't it pretty much the same everywhere?

>24
>almost got to make out with a cute girl on a New Year party
>passed out before I could even undress because of too much alchohol

Welp, I have issues
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>>52980817
KEK and they say we are culturally different :DDDDDDDDDDDD
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>>52980817
I had to bring home friends at NYE. Got approached by two women but couldnt go home with them because of them.
I did the right thing.
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>>52980547
I don't think most people view virginity at 20 as having "serious issues" in Norway, but maybe if we say past 23 or 25.
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>>52980547
if you´re good looking people start thinking you´re gay or a huge asshole and start presenting you quick bitches ar take you to stripclubs, if you´re ugly or an otaku or something like that is expected that you´re virgin

>mfw i´m the first one
fucking hiigh standards
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>>52980740
>brazil
fucking monkeys, man
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>>52980700
>cigani
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Never heard anyone talk about it.
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Only underages care about it desu.
Lost it in my 21s, with my ex. I fixed all my issues in that relationship heh
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>>52981135
gypsies already have grandchildren by 14
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>>52980547
THIS. I was still a virgin when i was 19, and i had to pretend that I'm gay so people shouldn't think it was something serious wrong with me. I'm 22 now and still haven't fucked girl, but i had to make out with some homosexuals to upheld my cover.
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>>52981135
Lost mine at 13 too desu.
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>>52981487
>but i had to make out with some homosexuals to upheld my cover.
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no one asks so they don't know :^)
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>>52980721
This, if your a normie at least. I avoid contact with people who ask or bother with those questions and if it does come up I lie.

Stopped caring 2bh
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don't know, don't care
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>>52980547
Only sex after marriage like jesus said.
I have a lot religious female friends who's still virgines, they are 19-24y old and they are not ugly.
I'm organist in the church and they are singing in chorus.
You will don't understand you are from degenerate western europe.
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I had consensual sexual relations with Sapphire in GTA V after picking her up from the strip club 7 times.

#videogame_cherry_popped
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If you're still a virgin in America after your first semester at uni there is literally no hope unless you lie to everyone. Being a virgin after graduating high school in America is essentially being a leper. I'm sure it's the same in most countries
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>>52981487
> but i had to make out with some homosexuals to upheld my cover
AHAhahaaa
Goddamnit... CIA needs to hire you, truly dedicated man.
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You're seen as a loser if you're 20+. Not a weirdo, not crazy, just a loser.

It's not as bad as it was a few decades ago. Before the 90s everybody used to lose their virginity to a whore before they hit 18.
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>>52981625
>>52981580
>>52981487

Western "culture".
Truly cancer
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How many of you are unironically virgins? I don't believe it
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>tfw almost 21 and virgin
>tfw im my families only son and all 4 threads of our family line ended with females
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>>52981535
Do a quick Google and you'll find out though :^)
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>>52981567
>tfw not catholic anymore
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>>52981580

True, regardless of how good looking or funny you become, if you're a virgin then a girl will instantly go for the other guy with "experience"
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>>52981672
I have never even kissed anyone
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>>52981145
>>52981535

I wish it was like this here. In parties sex pops up as a conversation subject often and some assholes always have to "guess the virgins in the room". And these people are legally adults.
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>>52981672
I'm 23 years old kissless, friendless, sexless, handholdless virgin.

But i have assburgers so it's alright.
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>>52981722

Why?

>>52981738

It's the same here. Sex and virginity are extremely central concepts if you want to be taken seriously socially
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>>52981738
Don't go to parties normie.
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>>52981672
I'm unironically a kisless virgin. 21 right now

I'm not even a disgustingly ugly guy, nor mentally unstable. I have friends, a car, I go to college. I'm just really bad at picking up girls.
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>>52981672
what's not to believe? like being a hugless kissless virgin is the only way things could've gone for me. it's not even been close. try to imagine what it would be like to not be a girl or be extremely good looking as a male - pretty easy desu
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>>52981672
22, not kissless/handholdless/hugless, even got a nice blowjob once, but didn't quite make it to the vagoo. All that happened back when I was 16-17.

Now there's no hope for me.
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>>52981672
23 yo KV.
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>>52980547
are people really consider risking losing wizard powers just to engage into sexual activity?
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>>52980547
Past 20 includes 20???
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>>52981760
Ugly and don't leave my room
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>>52981115
>pot calling the kettle black
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>>52980547
Negatively, I guess.

I'm more worried about being a fucking 23yo NEET in a third world cunt
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>>52980547
Italians are manchildren who live with their parents untill they're 25 on average so they don't care much.
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>>52981672
28 hugless
would suicide but folks are old
so hopefully i can find a job and save up a bunch of money for them in case they have health or other financial needs and then i will sudoku

i wasn't socially inept and i tried to be outgoing and shit, but im just really ugly
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>>52981672
I am 26 and the closest was a tap on a shoulder of a cute girl I liked (fellow doctor). I even squeezed her upper arm to measure it's consistency (and her godly feminine minuscule mass).

Could never muster the confidence to talk to her again.
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I don't know, I don't talk to people.
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>tfw all you want is to feel loved by this point

I'm not going to make it guys, I invested so much time and money into lifting and fashion only to realize that I can't talk to girls. I'm too much of a sad cunt now to do anything about it
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>>52981664
It's obvious bait you fucking mong
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>>52981906
Retard females are inferior in your country so who gives a shit if you live there?
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>>52981672
25
First education, later good job, investing in my mind, because no one can take it, later buying car and own house.

Later I can think about some girl, I don't need it desu.

Now i am at good job level. I looking for some second job.
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>>52981906
>I even squeezed her upper arm
i could die contented with at least this much. something so provocative about this gesture.
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>>52980547
>How is virginity viewed in your country?
Women are supposed to be virgins until marriage (at age 9 - 14). Sluts who have premarital sex are to be publicly stoned inshallah.
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>>52981939

It's actually now my Norwegian friend. At least thats how it is growing up in cities. I'm sure in rural areas its different but in the burbs and city thats how sexuality is viewed
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>>52980547
23 almost 24 years old. The only reason I'm still a virgin is my phimosis. Waiting for the world to invent some medicine that doesn't hurt your penis and gets rid of it
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>>52981960
top kek
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>>52981991
Circumcision.
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>>52980547
>everyone who's a virgin past 20 has some serious issues
the same except 16 instead of 20
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>>52981760
>>52981930
Most people think all it takes for men to be happy is to easily fuck any girl they stumble upon.

That's probably true for the most part but I personally can't get to be trully attracted to a girl unless I know her. I can appreciate a beautiful woman when i see her but it's gonna take more than that for me to approach her.
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>>52981948
I found her attractive and that's all that matters to me.

>>52981958
It felt like custard on a breadstick. A little extra force and her humerus would snap.
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>>52981991
> phimosis
So you like in ass or what?
Are you cursed ?
Trzeba isc do sołtysa bo odmieniec we wsi przynosi pecha, zeby ogłoszenie wywiesił dla wiedzmina.
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>>52981991
it's called converting to judaism like your ancestors
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I don't even want a girl anymore. I just want kids.
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>>52981535
>no one asks so they don't know :^)
They do know, trust me
t. 'oh anon you don't have to pretend'
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>>52980547
I openly state that I'm a virgin and I'm 20 year old
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>tfw you will never give your parents grandchildren
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I wish YOU anon a Happy New Year,,
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>>52982049
Why you want kids?
Buy some cat and you will not feel that alone desu
I have nice red cat :3

Btw to adopt kid you need wife here.
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>>52981567
based
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>>52981672
kissless, hugless, handholdless, etc etc..
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>>52982049
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>>52982054
>I openly state that I'm a virgin

why. why would you do that. Did it ever work for any friends of you to get laid or what.
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lost at 23, thank god that there are girls who like asian guys.
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>>52982052
I know they know but I honestly don't care anymore
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>>52981672
i´m a kissless virgin because i have ridiculous high standards
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>>52982083
>>52982078
How come single mothers can adopt but not single fathers.
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>>52980547
I'm a kissless 31 virgin. I making over $100,000 a year, have a graduate degree and have very prestigious job so hardly a loser. I just don't(and sadly probably never will) have any time to spare for relationships, dating or even fucking. Too much time, too much money and too much risk involved. I just don't care enough. I'm also utterly honest about it, people are shocked and I just shrug. Probably one day I'll find the right girl when things slow down and marry her. I think people are way too obsessed with and not at all considerate enough about sex.
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>>52981672
In italy it's easier to be a virgin because:

almost everyone is a manchildho lives with his parents untill his late 20s

in highschool it's not as easy to socialize as in American since you normally stay in the same 20ish people class for 5 years while in America you can attend several different classes and meet several people just by going to school
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If people find out they give you a polite smile and then cut contact with you immediately or slowly distance themselves from you over time.
And yes they always know. It's like they have a sixth sense to sniff out the virgins around them.
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>>52982153
I thought Italy was the normiest country in Europe, on par with Spain.
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>>52981880
whats that? i cant hear you over your shitty socioeconomics, you thirdworld ape
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>>52982099
Because I feel more free and they would find out anyway since I live in a shithole town where everbody knows eachother
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>>52982141
So you are man of sucess.
Why you even want wife?
You are self efficient.
Also wife = problems, and you don't have time for more problems.
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>>52982154

We need to find out how to act like people who arent virgins then.
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You are basically a freak if you're a virgin after age 18 here

And I'm 27 and haven't even kissed a girl.
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>>52982140
don't you know? all men are vicious pedo-rape machines. fuck you. no kid for you.
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>>52982176
Poland, I just wanted to tell you, I love you
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>>52982220
This actually reminds me.

Is there any possible way to use a third world surrogate and get the kid back into the first world?
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>>52981672
I am disgusted at how lightly people treat sex, probably because I'm a virgin

so it's kind of a vicious cycle I guess?
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>>52982189
>UK
Do you have all teeths?

>>52982140
Because woman can't be pedo.
+ man working all day and don't have time for kids.
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20 y.o. virgin here

I moved out to a new city to study, so i'm trying my best to act like i've had sex. The quuestion is not "if" at this point really. It's more race, how many etc. I've been fine thus far by lying, then again i'm a normie on the outside.
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>>52982176
>Also wife = problems
Literally this

>2016
>marrying voluntarily
I'd rather commit sudoku
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>>52980547
after we graduate highschool pretty much no one cares what's going for you in your life so i'd say it's viewed neutrally i guess
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>>52982235
Thx bro.

I am this guy >>52981567
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>>52982172
>I live in a shithole town where everbody knows eachother

I feel you fellow small town folk

>>52982166
In big cities you might be correct but in rural Spain (and Italy I guess) things are harder. People pretend to be urban and trendy but the context is too different for things to be as normal as they want to.
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>>52981991
Same here my man, you are not alone.
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>>52982182
Tried that once. Never again. They'll see right through it and you look even more ridiculous.

There was only one person who reacted in a positive way. Some christian girl who really believed it was cute and was ready to sink her fangs in me. But of course I rejected her because I'm scared of intimacy.
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>>52981991
I had bad phimosis you literally just stretch it out every time you jerk it

I don't know why people see this as a big issue
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>>52982339
>in rural Spain
Depends of the region, in Andalusia, villages are like towns, and girls are slutty as hell there, teenager pregnancy is common.
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>>52982303
It doesn't matter who you are.
Right now I'm just sad that Stalin pushed the borders more to the west so we had to give up some of your beautiful soil and people.
Poland is Germany's true ally in my heart
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>>52982247
i'm not sure how that could be feasible. as a single father, how would you support the child anyway? you would lose so much time trying to get one, assuming you traveled to the third world country in the first place.
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>>52982154
They don't avoid you because you're a virgin, they avoid you because of the same reasons why you are a virgin, eg. bad at conversation, smell, creepy vibes... Virginity is the result, not the cause
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>>52982176
I want children one day. Just not when I am young. I will marry a successful women not a whore who wants my money. She must be my equal, then I know we are good match. When older then a female companion is worth the trouble. I know for fact that everyone who marries or dates under 30 will end up separate or divorced so why bother until then?
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>>52982395
I have a 5 million dollar inheritance from dead relations. I don't need to work or do anything really.

I don't want a woman.

I just don't want to be the last of my family.
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>>52982405
they have no problem talking to me and can laugh at my jokes, I invite people over and they invite me over. But the moment they realize I have no previous sexual experience they put me into quarantine.
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No-one discussed the matter in our high school. During the military service, I tried to dodge the issue. Then went to study CS in a university and everybody else was a virgin also. Problem solved.

Lost mine with a prostitute desu.
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>>52980547
>In my opinion everyone who's a virgin past 20 has some serious issues
Pretty much the same. But personally, I couldn't care less about what others do.
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>>52982479
Why not lie?

Fuck moral sometimes. Do what puts you in the best position. How are they gonna find out anyway.
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>>52982479
But how does that work? I mean, how do they even realize? And even if they realize, do people really care? I am technically a virgin at 23 too because of ED, but absolutely nobody cares, and multiple people know it. In fact my social life has never been healthier now
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>>52982274

There is nothing to act idiot. I thought that when I was younger and got really anxious so I went to a hooker. I really regret it. Only 16y olds and immature idiots talk about that stuff and the majority lies about the "how many".
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>>52982455
>I have a 5 million dollar inheritance

in that case, i think you could work out something in NA much more simply. i don't see why a surrogate open to recruitment by a homosex couple would not be open to your request for the right price :))))))000))))
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>>52982574
Exactly. It isn't hard.
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>>52980647
this. I my betrothal-from-birth turned confessed to me that she had fucked with someone so I dropped her.
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>>52982405
>don't smell
>have no problems holding a conversation
>totally not creepy
>okay looks

I'm just afraid of intimacy and prone to hitting full astern before I get a chance to fuck a girl
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>>52982574
> I went to a hooker. I really regret it.
why?

didn't it help you see girls from another perspective?
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>>52981672
24, virgin
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>>52981991

I have it still, and I've had plenty of sex. Maybe it's different somehow, but I've never had a problem.
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>>52982607
Legality gets complicated though, she could come back and sue for either child support or custody at any time.

And it would be difficult for the child if I... dealt with her.
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why are you a virgin?
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>tfw 1 year left until wizardry
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>>52980547
Here literally everyone except for several fucks is a virgin at 20
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>>52980746
>People dont care or ask.
This.
In high-school boys will boast about their totally true sexual history and all that crap, but in reality I think most of my classmates were virgins until university or even if they had sex, it was once or twice with some drunk slut on some vacation.
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>>52982632
>didn't it help you see girls from another perspective?

huh ? No . I'm still an antisocial autist
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>>52981672
Virgin here lad
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>>52982455
>I have a 5 million dollar inheritance

LUCKY BASTARD
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Just know that if you pretend, we can tell you're a virgin.
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>>52982405

This.
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>>52982743
What does it really change?

I still feel just as shit as you.
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>>52982702
did you think that having sex with a prostitute was going to cure your asocial tendencies?
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Positively. They even went too far by doing virgin examinations, like putting a finger to verify whether the hymen is still there or not. It's an extreme case, though.
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>>52982744
Unless you dress and behave like some stereotypical nerd nobody can tell.
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Here it is really hard to find a male virgin at that age. If someone can't get a gf in high school he visits a brothel with his friends. Its very common boys to lose their virginity with hookers. I even knew a case of a father who ordered an escort to his son so he could perform better in exams.
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>>52980547
Yeah I have some serious issues.
In particular this one: I'm an ugly motherfucker
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>>52982548
They'll ask for pictures, names, what problems we had. I have to make up an entirely new persona just so people can threat me like I'm human? Screw that
>going through a break-up is hard right anon?
>y-yeah sure sucks am I right
You can't invent a behaviour you've never experienced. You can't pretend to know what love is when you have never loved or been loved. So they'll see through it. Maybe not today, but definitely tomorrow, and you'll come across even crazier than before.

>>52982565
>ED
See, you can blame it on some medical condition. No stigma on that. They thus are not afraid they're dealing with a potential sociopath. If you look healthy, handsome enough and are not a complete shut-in, but still never had a gf, they'll think there's something very eerie about you.
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>>52982653
i know in the US at least, that a surrogate cannot make claims of custody or for child support, assuming the surrogacy was legal.

i feel it's not as deregulated as you think.
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>>52980547
>In my opinion everyone who's a virgin past 20 has some serious issues
Should be "In my opinion everyone past 20 who's has not sucked muslim cock has some serious issues". Degeneracy
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How the hell is there so many Virgin here? I haven't been a Virgin since 14 and I'm not even that good looking and literally have no game.
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>>52982644
More details please, maybe you sharing experiences here will give me enough courage to go on with it
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If you have a normal LIKE REALLY NORMAL development then most likely you'll lose your virginity at 14-17

But hey nothing wrong with being abnormal per se. I lost mine at 26 and I'm OK, kinda. A lot thanks to my gf being so understanding and accepting me for who I am.
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>>52982781
>like putting a finger to verify whether the hymen is still there or not.
>you will never be a virgin inspector
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>>52982939
Probably because we don't interact with girls, go to parties or have many friends
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>>52982141
>$100k a year
>to much money

wut
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>>52980547
>In my opinion everyone who's a virgin past 20 has some serious issues

I am 24 and I lost my virginity half a year ago. Now I am in a nice relationship.

Why is this topic triggering you people so hard?
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How about everyone pitches in and invites a female friend (or even relative or housemate) to partake in /int/ for a brief period?

Get to know them better and watch the carnage unfold.
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>>52983016
how was your first time?
I'm pretty much in the same situation.
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>>52982940

Well, sometimes it hurts a little to put it in first time, but when it's in there it doesn't bother anymore.
Just make sure that the girl is wet, and maybe try with a finger first. Then just put it in there, nothing complicated
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Lost mine 2 days ago.
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>>52982845
You have to be kidding.

It's not so hard to cover that up. People aren't going to ask for names or pictures if you just say the right things.

"Anon when did you lose your virginity"
"I just had sex with a random girl at X party a few years ago. I was too drunk to remember who she was"
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>>52981793

Eye contact, my friend. When you go to a party or bar and see a girl of your standards, look at her a lot; almost to the point of staring. Be cool about it, if you come across as weird it's all over. I mean have a conversation and hangout with whoever you're with, but look at her frequently in between conversing. Eventually she'll look in your direction and that's the critical moment. You absolutely cannot look away or you'll miss your opportunity to establish a connection. Lock eyes fully. If you're the first to look away she'll know that you're pussy. Be a gentleman and allow her to be the one that breaks the eye contact. Do this 2-3 times and then start to gravitate in her direction. If she's into you, she'll reciprocate and you'll end up right next to each other.

Seriously, I got high a couple weeks ago and figured this out. My friends from high school came home and we all smoked weed together. One of them, 9/10 babe who never would have gotten with me in high school, was with me the entire night. I had my arm around when we were standing for something, we shared a meal, I had my hand on her thigh when we were sitting and I even grabbed her tit on accident. Seriously this was the hottest girl in my high school that I never stood a chance with, yet when I did this eye contact shit we were all over each other. It's like fucking magic.

Seriously man, I'm a 20 y/o virgin, have a car and go to college. The only girls I would ever talk to were the ones slutty enough to approach me. I just didn't know how alphas were able to approach girls. This is how they do it.
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>>52982963
did she find out before you guys actually got down to it? what did she say when she did find out?
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>>52983058
It was alright, but I had a little trouble finishing.
Then I sorted out some problems that I have with myself and now we are practicing a lot.
Sex is great now, she can also come more than once if I have a good day.
The holidays have been very exhausting so far, had sex every day at least once...

How about you?
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>>52983116
She hated me for a while, it's a long story. But love wins in the end, thankfully. She also gives great blowjobs. My ex didn't want to give head (thought it was degrading) which sucked major dick, huehue.
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>>52983188
>Hated you for being virgin??
what the hell is wrong with this world, that's really petty reason to hate someone.
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>>52982992
Same desu, I have no idea how I've had sex so many times. I have a few friends and used to party a little here and there but I have no idea how to make the first move either and somehow I still get with nearly every girl I was really attracted to. Almost like they feel that I wanted them and come to me.
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>>52983229
You are probably very goodlooking but don't know if
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>>52983223
>holding woman to basic civil standards

shit im a misogynist now tooooo~
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>>52983072
this is some PUA shit right here

but honestly this isn't enough. You got lucky because this girl had met you before, you weren't a completely stranger to her. Plus both of you were probably under the effects of weed or alcohol.

It's harder in a context where you don't know any of the girls in the room. And if the room is a club, which is the case here usually, then it's even harder because there's more guys going for the girls and talking to them is very hard thanks to the loud as fuck music.

The eye staring thing sounds useful though. Too bad I'm shit at locking eyes.
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>>52982381
Nice to heard that bro.

>>52982443
Are you ready for kid?
Economical - yes, but young generations are awfull and degenerated. What if your daugher will be sluty or your son will tell you he is gay?
In this times it is difficult to raise kids, you know internet, media, western influence (like Yolo).
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I care less and less as I get older.

Or at least I think so.
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I am going to a prostitute this year
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>>52983254
I'm a skinny manlet but i think I'm decent looking. Honestly I think it's just because I don't care about any opinions in real life and just kinda do what I want so girls think I'm alpha but really I just hate people.
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>>52982381
actually your people have not stayed there, Hans.
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>>52983433

No, someone expelled them.
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>>52983133
well I'm 22, got a gf and we're making out, kissing is good, touching her and all that stuff but we haven't had any sex so far due to location issues.

I haven't really fucked up anything so far so I hope everything goes well
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>>52981672
kissless hugless reporting in
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>>52980547
I am 25 old and i'm virgin.
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>>52983462
well, we could exterminate them. All those innocent germans. You must admit that the price they paid was very low.
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>>52980547
Nobody really cares that much when you become an adult, but the average friend will probably make a big deal about it past college (~21 years old).
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>>52983223
Nah she hated me for lying.
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>>52983354
seriously, why does having a gay son or a daughter who does what she wants with her own body scary you?

my worst nightmare is that my kid turns out to be autistic, fat or both.
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>>52983354
>What if your daugher will be sluty or your son will tell you he is gay
Just give the daughter exclusive porn accounts to mature man on young girl and the boy mature man on young boy...


That oughta sort them out.
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>>52983661
Poland is hyper conservative, cuckloids are shunned.
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No one knows except my close friends. No one must ever know.
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>>52983661
>my worst nightmare is that my kid turns out to be autistic, fat or both.
mine too, i would hate an american kid as a child
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>>52980647
savage
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>>52983661
do you really thing that being a fat is worst than being a whore?
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>>52981672
the only reason I'm not a virgin is because I went to a prostitute, so I'm not exactly an expert on attracting the opposite sex
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>>52980547
issues to be poor?
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>>52982171
>mexican

VAI CORTAR MINHA GRAMA JOSÉ
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>>52981991
>>52982357
I heard that you can fix that if you take warm/hot baths and stretch it.
I
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I lost my virginity to an escort. I fucked at least 30 escorts over the past few years but have never had sex with someone I didn't pay first.

Should I consider myself a virgin? Or an honorary one?
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>>52982154
Really depends on how old you are. But even with that in mind this is untrue. Nobody cares if you have sex or not unless you hang out with ridiculously shallow people.
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>>52983878
You're not a virgin by definition. But my guess is people would think less of you now than if you were an actual virgin.
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>>52981672
I've done the kissing and making out parts, also been asked out a few times but I've never bothered to commit to it.
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>>52983292

I got high three nights in a row. The 2nd night I just touched this girls thigh and talked to her. The 3rd night was what I described previously. The first night she wasn't back in town yet, so it was just me, two bros, and a bunch of other people I didn't know. This was when I first realized the eye contact thing. There were 9 girls there, I talked to 7 of them. Didn't know any of them before that night. It fucking works, man.

As for the clubs, I can't help you out. I hate that kind of shit, loud music kills me. If you must go there I would suggest to just be more vicious with looking at the girls. You're packed in a sweaty building, pea-cocking and dancing around like chimps, coming across as weird is pretty much impossible.

>Too bad I'm shit at locking eyes

The key is to not be a pussy about it. Just grit your teeth and look at her eyes until she looks away. We're fucking skeletons covered in meat, just imagine that's what you're looking at. If you do it like this 10 times you'll stop thinking about how hard it is.

What does PUA stand for?
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>>52983661
This is dishonor for family.
And total failure for parents.
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>>52980547
>posting this on 4chan
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Honestly it's super fucking easy to lose your virginity, but then I may be biased because I'm decent looking.

It's actually harder to get rid of a girl who's obsessed with you than it is to find a girl to fuck

You just need to get exposure somehow and it's smooth sailin
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>>52983856
learn to write in any globally accepted language first, you retarded chimp
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>hiring a hooker
Just WHAT THE FUCK is wrong with you, people?
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>>52984277
I'm pretty much average tbqh, but yet nothing.
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>>52982757
If having that money means nothing to you, let me take that burden off your hands
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>>52984327
Average is more than good enough lad, even ugly guys can get laid. like I said you just need exposure, a way to get in touch with girls. naturally if you always hide in your room and dont try then nothing will happen
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>>52984360
It only works if you are Chad.
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>>52983661
dude bro it's really disappointing and depressing for the parents

gays are bullied and have a hard time growing up, so you know your kid will be miserable and be more likely to commit suicide than normal people
they also won't produce grandkids
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if you haven't lost your virginity in 17-19 you should seriously review things like hahaha wtf just put benis in bagina
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>>52984360
That's the part that I don't understand.

I'm more or less a pseudo-normie.

I go out, get drunk, go to parties, all of that.
But no luck.
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>>52984425
Nah man, anyone can get laid. Unless you're like 200kg lard monster or fuckin quasimodo, but I doubt you are.
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>>52984033
>What does PUA stand for?

pickup artist
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>>52980547

I was it long time because i had a serious issue... of hypersensitivity in benis which made me insecure and made me dump occasions with girls several times, but this also taught me to keep distance.

Then i casually got rid of it with best friend's wife.
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I lose my virginity at the age of 19 to a Sicilian prostitute
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>>52983499
>I haven't really fucked up anything so far so I hope everything goes well

If she is any good then you can't fuck up anything.
Mine has always had understanding if I had trouble. You just need some time to make everything work perfectly, that also has to do with trust.
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>>52984481
This guy speaks the truth.

Looks only matter if you're painfully ugly or model-tier handsome, like, so handsome even straight guys might feel gay for you.

Everyone else have a chance if they're being realistic with their standards.
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>>52984473
Killer finish man.
Could be worse I'm in Bongland, there are only 5 attractive girls, the rest are slags looking for the biggest tracksuit wearing dealer in town or fat as fuck.

I could lose my V-Card if I was willing to fuck a whale.
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>>52981487
>"uphold cover"

you are just gay, sir.
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>>52984557
The problem is that women are not realistic with their standards, even the worst of them believe they deserve a model-tier man.
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>>52984579
Well at least you have standards.
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>>52981507
Walloon or rural Flemish detected.
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>>52984557
looks are only one factor, the other is personality
people with no confidence will of course struggle
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>>52984481
This.
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>>52984612
That's not true, but you're free to hold on to your flawed convictions m7
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>>52984033
PUA means Pick Up Artist. There's quite a lot of PUA webpages out there throwing advice on "the steps you need to follow to get any girl". They're usually bullshit.

>You're packed in a sweaty building, pea-cocking and dancing around like chimps, coming across as weird is pretty much impossible.
Most people aren't actually dancing, they just stand around with their friends, drinks in their hands, looking around. Only the ones who want attention dare to go out there and dance. It still sucks balls, too bad house parties here aren't as popular as in the US. I don't like being in a sea of strangers.

As for the eye lock, sometimes it's hard to get that mid point where you don't come up as a creep, nor a pussy. I usually go for the later one.

I'm happy for you though, you found your way out of this socially awkward hell. I tell myself one day I'm going to do so, but I don't know anymore. I might go get a hooker before I reach 22 if this doesnt get better.
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>>52983773
I know
and I'm telling everyone
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>>52984538
aight thanks brosky
one last thing, was your gf a virgin too? (I asume not) and did you know that you were one?
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>>52983808
yes, yes it is
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>mfw people falling for the PUA scam
>mfw people believing to this clown
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>>52981767 this is my life ;_;
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>>52984658
Sure. What I'm trying to say is, people are overrating the role your looks plays in getting girls
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>>52984812
mine was and even she could tell
I'd told her I fugged 2 girls but as soon as we got around to doing it she found out I was lying thanks to my fumbling around

Still let me do it though, but didn't do anything and just lay there awkwardly like a dead fish
Then she told me it hurt and I was shit
Now I'm single
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>>52984473
I'm just like you man. Only that I also think like this gentleman right here >>52984579 I'd rather not fuck anyone if I have to get laid with a ugly gal.

It's funny cuz I'm probably just going to go to my nearest tourist trap during summer and fuck an easy british slag before i become to old.
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>>52981672
>unironically
Girls have stupidly high standards these days jfyi
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21 soon to be 22 hand holdless kv. No gf or anything, I'm average or so in terms of looks, but I'm aspie.
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>>52981991
This is justified since your dick is basically handicapped. Every other excuse like "i get anxious, drop spaghetti etc" is bullshit
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I'm being the one who is never invited to parties or stuff so it's hard for me to lose it. I'm not that ugly or smell bad, I'm just a social retarded who can't even hold a conversation without being weird
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>>52981672
literally handholdless

I get compared to Sheldon from The Bang Bazooper Theorem by about 1/5 people I meet.
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>>52985090

It's curable but it gives you very bad insecurity and make you avoidant of certain situations.
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>>52984812
>one last thing, was your gf a virgin too?

No.

>(I asume not) and did you know that you were one?

She didn't. I told her after.
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>>52984946
yeah but did you even try though?
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>>52985159 okay good
would you recomend getting drunk?
I seem to have much better boner controll when I am and I guess it makes me more compfy
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>>52985164
Just be gentle and slow for the first minutes. Ask her how it feels. Then go faster and ask her if she is alright. No rocket science desu senpai.
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>>52985124
That's kinda funny, cause Sheldon did have a sex a few episodes ago iirc
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>>52985257
ZANDATSU!

There's hope for us all.
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>>52985312
>meme character of a meme show gets laid
>there is hope for us all.
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Anyone else here begged his psychologist to have sex with you only to get turned down by a " Sorry anon, I'm a married women!"

Goddamn it there goes my only chance.
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>>52985152
I looked it up, yuck. Must suck bro. I'd take my time and try to cure it before hooking up with a girl.
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>>52985353
What the fuck? you know she only cares for you because you pay her, right?
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>>52984677
Its a proven fact that women have higher standars that they 'deserve'.
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>>52985346
If the average /int/ poster were a character on a tv show they'd be considered a meme character.
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>>52985353
>begging anyone to have sex with you

i might be a loser, but not THAT much of a loser
have some fucking dignity
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>>52985353
>Anyone else here begged his psychologist to have sex with you only to get turned down by a " Sorry anon, I'm a married women!"

Just... wow.
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>>52984778

>sometimes it's hard to get that mid point where you don't come up as a creep, nor a pussy

Just try to be alpha. If they think you're a creep, so what? Tell them you thought they were someone else or some bullshit.
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>>52985421
I don't even pay her matey

>>52985447
You don't because you never bonded with your psychologist.
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>>52985353
Tell me this is a joke.
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Just learned how to peel back my foreskin last summer and my head is still painful to the touch
So not yet for me
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>>52985432
Proofs pls :DDDDDDDDDDDD
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>>52985519
>I don't even pay her matey
Well, your parents pay her
>You don't because you never bonded with your psychologist.
There is no bond whatsoever, she only seems to care about you because money, the worst thing is that she considers you cute for asking her that.
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