Has hentai affected your sex life positively/negatively?
I have a rather embarrassing issue of hentai affecting my sex life. I find myself less turned on during sex, because I've bee masturbating to so much hentai I feel less attracted to real women. I'm still able to cum, but it takes longer than it would if I was just masturbating to hentai. The only good thing I can see coming out of this is the fact that I've been able to last longer in bed, due to lack of attraction. Should I just quit hentai and hope that my attraction to real women improves?
What about you, /h/?
I'll be dumping one of my favorite comics to get the thread rolling
I kind of have waves of hentai. I love it and it's all that really turns me on, and then one day I just really want skin-skin,but during the hentai times I don't feel like having sex at all.
Awesome hentai choice btw.
>>4275817
I'm kind of the same way. It's just I'm in a quite long relationship with a partner who likes to have sex often (and sometimes I'd prefer just watching hentai). But I'll never ever ever let her know that I like hentai
also thanks
>>4275817
It's not too strange for you to like hentai. I found that if you masturbate too much it really kills the sex drive maybe that's what's happening.
>>4275799
>Should I just quit hentai
You seem to be quite damaged and easily influenciable so yes.
I've been fapping to hentai for more than 10years and when i'm the mood for hentai then i literally only care about hentai, but when it comes to RL then my brain and my dick don't give two shits about hentai.
They are two different things and each one is beautiful on its own.
You're making this thread with the presumption that I have had sex
>>4275849
OP made this thread with the presumption that anyone on /h/ has had sex.
>>4275850
We don't come here to masturbate to chinese cartoons about animes getting raped by thick cocks and faceless men because we've got sex lives.
There's a good reason we have hentai. We don't have sex as often as you think.
For me, I jerk off maybe once a day for the past god knows how many years. There's a few times I stopped cause I literally lost boner from being abnormally tired or just sick or lost the desire. Going to regular porn is a good change of pace at times. Then hentai comes back as a medicine for how sad reality can be.
It affected it negatively to the point of acting as perfect girl repelant.
It didn't affect my sex life, because I've never had sex. I'm 32.
>>4275799
Not only hentai but porn in general have affected my sex life. Because of that i have DGS and when i had sex a few times it was fucking boring because i wasn't able to finish. Now i'm not even trying to have sex because i know it'll be shit.
Good taste btw.
Excessive manual orgasms (MO) are known to cause a variety of sexual health problems including but not limited to less attraction for real women, delayed ejaculation and issues getting hard. To be healthy, MO should really be no more than once a week.
If you want to fix it, you've gotta detox. This works like dieting or getting off drugs. The best place to start is by removing your access to it. If you have a computer in your bedroom or another closed/locked room then move it into an open room so you can't fap comfortably when at it. If you still find yourself using the computer to fap when you think it's safe to do so then you should remove the computer entirely. Use a write 0/1 format utility to format the drives, part it out and get some money for it then be done with it.
Cell phones and laptops are also terrible. Make sure you don't keep them in your bedroom. In fact, don't even go into your bedroom unless you plan to anything but sleep. Do whatever you need to in order to reduce the temptation to start looking at porn or hentai and fapping and essentially blue ball yourself.
Once or twice a month, test if you can MO with nothing more than light touches and your imagination. It shouldn't take a death grip and furious pounding to reach orgasm. Once you can, detox is over but don't go back to porn or hentai. Like dieting, don't stop just because you reached the goal or you will rebound. You need to keep control over it. Just relieve yourself with light touches once a week or so.
How long detox will take depends on the person. Some people can successfully detox in a month but for most, expect it to take at least 2 months but don't give up even if it takes longer than that. Many people have reported it taking up to 6 months. If you still aren't finding improvement after 6 months, you should seek professional help.
>real women
>>4275799
fucking normies fucking leave.
Kinda,sometimes i cant get hard ,so i just stop fapping for one week and im hatd like a rock agaibñn.i try not to fap too often. I set a goal to only fap to hentai every sunday and so far is working.
I'm 25 and have only had sex twice, once at 17 again at 20. Hentai is like 90% of what I get off to at this point. At this point I kind of don't care at all if its "bad" for me.
>>4275799
same hentai killed but im happy
any1 know good site for uncencored hentai? manga/anime?!
>>4275799
Definitely positively.
I'm not really into mainstream, hardcore porn with rough sex and greasy male pornstars, but there's a short supply of sweet, lovey-dovey romantic or affectionate sex in 3D porn.
Hentai on the other hand has some of the latter. It's usually super cheesy/corny but I much prefer watching gentle 2D lovemaking than some 3D roastie getting phallically enriched.
Goofy and retarded as fuck as hentai stories and plots go, they're still pretty good material for ideas and inspiration, even when it's only for spankbank-fantasy-building material.
By the way my favorite hentai is ''Aniyome wa Ijippari'' or ''Lover in-law''
>>4275820
Checking back in -
I too am in a long relationship, going on eight years, and after year threeish I was just open about it, turns out she watches hentai too, and sometimes to make the "switch" back to regular sex we'll watch hentai together, it helps when things get lackluster.
>>4275799
I've never had a sex life. I've never had a girlfriend. Heck, I've never even had a first kiss, and I'm 39.
The only thing hentai has done for me is ensure that I don't go crazy from backed-up sexual desires. I've masturbated every single day since I was 12.
Hrm. So yeah, maybe another thing hentai has done for me is made me develop a routine of masturbation. Honestly, it's not even pleasurable anymore. I don't feel anything at all when doing it. But I can't NOT do it because it's ingrained as a normal part of my life now.
Positively. My wife loves it, and we watch it with a remote controlled vibrator in her.
>>4275799
Nah OP no need to quit hentai. I fap to it everyday and whenever I see my girlfriend the sex is absolutely crazy. The time is takes me to come in her because of masturbating a lot is just a blessing, and even if it takes 30 minutes I have built the stamina for it. Right now I don't live with her yet because studies but we have the healthiest sex life when we're together. I remember at some point in the past I used to be worried like that about my ability to get hard on her since RL is not so artificially exaggerated to arouse men unlike hentai. But as my relationship with my gf became better and better because we love each other more and more, our sex life just kept getting better and my fapping habits never stopped it. Now it may be just me, but I used to have boner issues in bed and be worried, and now I get hard with her without even trying. I just grew to be more easily aroused by her voice and her body, I guess it's just a matter of brain training, but it didn't really take me any effort. Also it probably helped that she knows I fap to hentai and doesn't mind because she knows it doesn't hurt our sex anymore. She even looks at some of it herself sometimes and gets all wet from it, and then we fuck like rabbits.
>>4276974
>I just grew to be more easily aroused by her voice and her body
I agree anon, hentai and an actual person are so different I have no problem switching between them. It's like food, if given a choice I like the variety. It does help that my partner likes really long sex, so having a bit more stamina isn't a bad thing.
My life is trash in general. Most of my family is dead, and those that are still alive barely acknowledge I exist. I work a thankless job for 70+ hours a week and make shit money for my effort. My coworkers treat me like a pin cushion for their own frustrations, and they actively find things about or regarding me to degrade, demerit, or otherwise damage.
At best, I do not matter, and at worst I am an eyesore -- a net negative on the world whose space I fruitlessly continue to waste. Someone like me does not have a sex life. Someone like me doesn't deserve one. Watching real porn allows me imagine and construct a life around the actors, and it does not take long before that develops into a mirror for my own failings. No matter how sick or depraved the situation the people on my screen have found themselves in for our amusement, they are still more deserving of joy, pleasure, contentment, and self-worth than I am. It's very difficult to stay aroused when you need to comfort yourself with thoughts of suicide.
Hentai is my loophole around this neurosis. I've even learned to write, modify, draw, and translate so that, through this tiny part of my life, I can fool myself into believing my existence has value.
>>4275799
I am almost 21 and I have been fapping to hentai almost exclusively so I lost my attraction to real women, but hentai has lot of advantages over most 3D porn
>no porn actors are getting exploited, there's no risk of STD
>drawing/animating porn requires way more creativity and talent
>there are hentai and VNs with actually interesting and engaging stories while in 3D it's just used as very basic setup
>therefore, getting to a sex parts feels rewarding, whether it's clicking through text or actual gameplay, while in 3D porn you get what you want right away
>the voice acting is much higher quality most of the time
>2D girls have their unique personality whether it's archetype while 3D ones are just treated as fucktoys
>they also look objectively better and cuter because they have the element of moe, to quote certain Anime, "moe doesn't exist in three dimensional form", some might say they are idealised, but so are the 3D ones which take lots of surgery
>there's also a lot more extreme fetishes for other people that are much easier to find
>loli is legal in some places
The only real downside is that most of it is censored, but that can also leave something to a viewer's imagination.
>>4275799
The path to enlightenment has been opened, anon. Do not push it away, see where it leads.
>>4277496
Stop fucking having self pity, that's the first step for a better lifestyle. You can man up, have some self confidence and make your own way or you keep crying 24/7 about how unfair life is and how much you have failed.
>>4277551
>one post
>crying 24/7
You're right! Silly old me just forgot to pull up on my bootstraps!
There's no pity here, I just answered the thread. Fuck off.
>>4277624
It's really difficult when you are down, don't feel bad for being depressed and not being able to overcome these difficulties.
If you are not on antidepressants, go to the doctor and start taking them. They help a lot, making you able to focus on the problems rather than on the feelings they cause. Self experience.
If you have the time, a gym will help you a lot. It really really makes you feel better about yourself.
Ganbatte! :D
>>4275799
Fuck off normie
>>4275799
Hey man, thanks for dumping this, I've never seen it before and tsumugi is my favourite K-on girl. Thanks.
>>4277511
>there are hentai and VNs with actually interesting and engaging stories while in 3D it's just used as very basic setup
I know it's stupid, but I think the time I spent playing katawa shoujo (not really hentai but still) marked my progress into emotional maturity.
>>4275799
Don't have a sex life.
It has made me real women a lot less attractive but that doesn't really matter since I'm never going to have sex.
>>4276923
That's what you call addiction.
Yeah I'm worried it may be affecting my sex life in a not good way. I only started having sexual activity several months ago (22 now) and found it difficult to maintain my erection. I managed to cum a few times with my girlfriend at the time but each time took forever and I found myself wishing I was a quick shot instead. Hopefully I'll be able to make this not an issue, this post >>4276974
gives me hope that I can enjoy both.
>>4278570
Why would you want to cum instantly ? I don't understand, my girlfriend wants it to last as long as possible. Being a quick shot sucks balls, you just can't please a girl long enough for her to have an orgasm and the sex starts and ends in a minute, and you also feel like shit. Why would you want this instead of a 30 minute long fuck where you can listen to her moaning and screaming repeatedly ? If all you want from sex is to cum to get physical pleasure, just jerk off and save her the disappointment.
>>4275799
>>4275799
Went to Japan at the end of last year, turned out Comiket was on. Went to Comiket with some friends and GF came along and decided to help with the buylist.
After the trip she was curious to see what was in the doujin I bought and we went through some of it together. She thought some of what I picked up was a bit odd but she also become open to more things during sex. So, positive experience I guess?
>>4278583
clearly does not know the terror that is being so mentally and physically numb that you cant maintain an erection after an hour and you still havent come. it's not all fun and games, and it causes psychological issues for all parties. tone down on the porno kids
>>4278397
You could be addicted to worse things. I kind of want an addiction like that.
Seriously though. Dude, you're 39 and you've never even had a girlfriend? What are you, a monk? Or are you just one of those really shy people who don't get out much or something?
>>4276174
>Excessive manual orgasms (MO) are known to cause a variety of sexual health problems including but not limited to less attraction for real women, delayed ejaculation and issues getting hard. To be healthy, MO should really be no more than once a week.
t. mormons pretending to be scientists.
Femanon here, sharing random experience. I'm in a relationship with a guy that I can't usually meet more than twice a week (that means I don't have sex with him more than once a week). I fap to hentai to survive, releasing stress and not being a bitchy boring girlfriend like most of my female friends.
And I'm still attracted by my man very much! Orgasms are women's best friends.
And I prefer hentai to porn so I'm not obsessed by comparing my skills with pornstars. Hentai girls are just hentai! Much confidence, good sex
>>4278598
goddammit I've had erection issues a while ago too. But it's all over now because... because ! It just stopped after a while as my relationship with my gf got better and because I persevered I guess. What women hate is not a guy who can't ejaculate or have an erection, they hate a guy who constantly cries over it, it really turns them off like hell, way more than when the guy can't fuck but at least stops being insecure and doesn't ruin the mood. Which makes it a lot easier to overcome the erection issues because you remove the pressure on yourself.
I'm talking about my personal experience here but girls told me this, and I also lived this. It's my advice, take it or leave it. Just because OP is asking whether hentai can harm you real sexual life doesn't mean it necessarily does. It wasn't a rethorical question, it was a question.
>>4278683
Hi femanon. Thanks for sharing. Any thoughts on the previous post ?
Just to prove or disprove my claims about what girls don't like. Please tell me if I'm wrong, it's alright.
>>4278649
I'm pretty much the same just 23. I had a few unpleasant years at school and I still get pretty anxious when I see people maybe 15-25 years old getting near me. I think I never learned how to talk to people because of that. That's sort of how you become a kissless virgin. Or my unpleasant personality might be the case.
>>4278814
Well, there's nothing really wrong about being a virgin in the first place, so I don't think you or that other guy need to worry all that much. There'll be people who use "virgin" as an insult, but those people are morons and probably virgins themselves.
Your worth as a person isn't determined by whether you've had sex or not. People who claim otherwise are just silly.
>>4278570
Some of that could just be nerves. It took me a while to get comfortable with that much intimacy (more worries about not "performing" or whatever was going through my 18 year old brain), but it feels more natural as time goes on.
>>4278887
I think being a virgin is used less as an insult and more as a means of degrading ourselves over not experiencing something that we might want to enjoy that just can't seem to be accomplished.
I used to think so, but after getting a girlfriend and engaging in semi regular sex, it doesn't really seem to have had the effect I thought it would have.
>>4279046
No no, there are plenty of people out there who use "virgin" as an insult. A lot of people even use the term "virgin" to completely invalidate anything you say. "You're a virgin, so your opinion doesn't count" only.. well, put in a more nasty manner. You see that in arguments and disagreements all the time, and the subject of said conversations aren't even about sex in the first place.
>>4278649
28 year old virgin here.
Extremely shy and only leave my house to go to work.
And being completely honest I'm content just fapping to my fetishes.
Having to deal with another person for sex seems so unpleasant. I'm much more comfortable by myself than around others.
>>4279148
I'm the same. I've never been in a position where I could have had sex, but I imagine I'd be so nervous and shy that I probably wouldn't even go through with it if the opportunity came along.
>>4279139
Not to mention that virgins seem to be the ones to use "virgin" as an insult the most.
>>4279139
As a rule, don't have anything to do with pricks like that. That high school shit doesn't belong in serious conversation.
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>>4279139
Hahaha, I just had that happen to me today. I got into a debate about a videogame with soeone, and I kept shooting down his points and suddenly he started calling me a fucking virgin from out of nowhere and acting like a bigshot like he just made the most clever comeback ever
Porn in general has made a negative impact on my life.
I didn't really realize how often I did it or the effect it had until I started dating my current girlfriend. Once we started having sex, I ran into problems with getting hard and being able to focus during sex. I just figured I was broken. But occasionally I'd go through periods where I would not jack off for like a week or two and suddenly everything was great. So the problem's solved, right? Just don't jack off. I thought it was going to be super easy until I just caught myself doing it all the time anyway. It's caused problems in my relationship not because I can't last (which I feel like I can last an average amount of time) but because my girlfriend feels like I don't think she's sexy because I would always jack off to girls that look nothing like her. She's wrong, but that's how she feels. So I've been working on getting better and not jacking off as much, if at all. She's become who keeps me in line with it. I stay honest with her about when I drop the ball and she helps encourage me to not do it. So yeah, porn has fucked up some stuff. I do think it's something that can be fixed though.
Though I didn't watch as much hentai as I did regular porn. I still love hentai, but it was maybe a third of the time. So who knows, maybe that has something to do with it? Or maybe I'm justifying it to myself? Fuck it, I don't know.
>>4279816
>girlfriend feels like I don't think she's sexy because I would always jack off to girls that look nothing like her
I agree that it has nothing to do with her being sexy or not, but put yourself on her shoes and think how would you feel if you find she masturbates everyday to big muscular negros with horsecocks, NTR and bara.. or something that has absolutely nothing to do with you.
>>4279827
but i am a bi muscular negro. =[
>>4279794
Wouldn't your virginity make you more credible in vidya?
>>4280061
I don't think being a virgin or not matters in the least. It had nothing to do with what we discussing in the first place, and the point was that the person had no idea whether I was a virgin or not. He used it as an insult because he somehow felt that the term "virgin" should be insulting.
>>4275799
Get better sex partners.
Stop using deathgrip.
Watch/read H with your gf.
>>4275799
I don't know who that is, but there needs to be more girls with thick eyebrows in hentai. Seriously, I don't know why, but thick eyebrows on girls is so freaking sexy
Hentai convinced me it was a good idea to try and feel up my crush in school when I was 15. I am extremely ashamed of it to this day.
>>4275799
Well considering im still only attracted to girls in middleschool even though im 19 id say its fucked me pretty hard. fapping to loli every day since i was 9 was a bad call desu. i even forced myself to have sex with someone my own age and it was terrible. at least i know im not missing out on much!
>>4275799
Mostly negatively as all porn has. I have moderate level of porn addiction and couldn't get it up when I had my first intercourse. Looked up NoFap and abstained from masturbating and porn for few weeks and was cured enough to get it up. Unfortunately it was still difficult to maintain erection long enough to orgasm.
After refraining from Porn and masturbation for month or two real sex started to feel way better than any masturbation. The skin to skin contact and the pleasurable tingling surge feeling you get from it along with genital stimulus is really something different, it's so good that I often take things very slowly and even abstain from orgasm during sex to keep the feeling going for longer.
From my experience clear warning sing when to stop is the point where you can no longer get off from Vanilla hentai and start to move on more and more novel things. This is common symptom with many addictions. Once you find yourself enjoy /d/ more than /h/ you've most likely crossed the line of trouble.
For those without sexual partners I'd probably recommend cutting it down to few times a week because abstaining from porn and sex requires way more willpower than most people have.
>>4283085
right, once a week seems like the optimal approach to me because I believe that's when your testosterone levels decline anyway. So you get the best of both worlds: you can stay motivated because you're building up testosterone while still having very pleasurable sex sessions and avoiding sexual frustration from abstaining for too long
>>4277511
>that entire post
Protip: the golden age was in the 60s and 70s, when you watched porn on the big screen, and that style is still being made today as dtv. You're comparing good 2d to bad 3d, but if you think there are "unique personalities" and no exploitation, you have a lot to learn.
>>4278361
Prequel by cgr (sadly)
>>4282965
Explain further.
I realized it starting to become a problem after not only did I become a staff later admin on a hentai site but also started masturbating to hentai rather than get to work events on time.
I am in a salaried positition and should be thinking about starting a family and everything, but to be honest, I just don't give a damn. But last time I tried banging this one chick, well, I couldn't get hard. That's not good if you are in your mid twenties.
Typing this out makes me think I probably should cut this down a little bit.
>>4276127
Are you a wizard?
>>4275799
no it didnt affect my sex life at all, those are two diffrent things imo.
I have to say it affected my "porn life" tho im only reading/watch/play hentai.
I'd say hentai was definitely positive. I have always been into anime and gaming so I have had my fair share of relationships to guys who usually also like anime. Somehow through word vomit or another way I'd find out if they liked hentai too which has lead to us watching it together and :3 sexytimes. Also I LOVE how anime guys look lol and the fact you can get a lot of ones where the people really focus on different ways to please.
>>4285144
^not saying missionary is bad xD but getting people to explore eachother has been some of the best times in my life. current bf used a hitachi on me and i squirted for the first time ever, there rly isnt anything else like it
Defenitely, there was a period where the only porn I watched was hentai and it led me to even weirder fetishes that can only be found with drawn porn. From time to time, especially when I've been jacking off a lot to hentai, I find it hard to keep my dick completely rock hard during sex, and my GF who I find attractive doesn't do it for me as much anymore. Recently I've been getting into a lot of erotic role play, and that fucks me even more. I want to stop but every time I find myself on the computer I end up browsing this shit at one point or another.
Fapped since I was 13. It used to be once every few days, but then depression hit in college and I did it every day, because it's not like it takes much effort to feel good. I've tried to do it less but Im a neet who really don't do anything else with his life so I don't have any motivation to try and wean off it.
I'm a massive introvert who doesn't go hunting for women so it's not like porn will ever have a negative effect on my sex life, if fapping even has a negative effect at all like those stupid bogus studies say. I don't find it hard to fap to normal women regardless, but my tastes are extremely niche and refined and found only in hentai.
I don't think fapping should have any negative impact on your sex life unless you're actually using it as an emotional crutch. I just do it for fun when bored, but some people use it fill a hole in themselves and I believe that's where most of the ED issues and such come from. If you solve that issue in your life porn won't control you anymore.
>>4285200
>greasy triggered nerd who wishes for his fair share of pussy
>>4285254
please leave.
>>4285144
>>4285147
Look, If you're going to blogpost or use "xD" unironically, then you might as well post an h image to add some actual merit to your drivel.
Hentai has led to fapping. Fapping for years has led to a torn up dick with rips and tears all along it and blood and lots and lots of pain.
Only takes a few days to heal (scars nonwithstanding since those don't go away) but then I'm right back at it and eventually it gets torn up again. It's a neverending, painful cycle.
Have you ever tried taking a shower when your dick is all torn up? Good lord does it sting when the water hits it. Try wearing pants and your dick rubs against the fabric? You'll be making pained faces and have teary eyes as you walk around. Try sleeping? Yeah, good luck with that.
>>4285440
Bruh buy a fucking bottle of lotion for a few bucks, jesus christ.
>>4285499
I would if I had my own money, but I don't. 33 and I've never had a job. Yes, I'm proud of that because I freaking love my life. Well, except for the whole dick thing. It's painful as all hell.
>>4285227
I also don't see how fapping is supposed to negatively affect your sex life unless you're addicted. In which case that's to be expected as any addiction ever will impact your life.
I see masturbation as a healthy part of a healthy lifestyle if done in a reasonable manner. After all, what's more natural to human beings than sexual activity?
>>4275799
YOU ARE A SLAVE REGARDLESS!~
That's a strange question. Hentai IS my sex life. I gave up on attempting to meet women when I saw my parents split up. I'm not about to roll the dice when the odds of divorce are well over 50%, and I'm really not too keen spending my life working my balls off to support a child instead of just enjoying the fruits of my labor myself. It actually worked out great because by that point I'd already been hooked on hentai for years and was beginning to have unreasonable standards anyway. Seeing that ugly chain of events was merely the nail in the coffin.
Buckle up, cuz here's a long one.
About a year ago I dated a girl from my work. She had a 6/10 body. Wasn't fat, but was more out of shape skinny, We dated for two weeks until she gave it up. She was my first. Now when we started going at it, every time I would remember panels here and there, from different H-novels. And I would mimic some of the moves that male characters would do to their partners. It was insane, I took it slow and that shit worked, Stuff like licking behind the ear, holding her in odd poses with one hands fingers up her pussy, and the other hands fingers in her mouth. Shit like that. It drover her wild. Completely honestly, I had no fucking clue what I was doing but it worked. She didn't believe it was my first time having sex, but I knew; so at the end of the day it didn't matter.
TL;DR
Using things you see in H-novels works perfectly fine.
Also you'll last longer in bed, because no matter what she'll never live up to 2D standards.
Feel free to ask me whatever.
>>4285776
>Also you'll last longer in bed, because no matter what she'll never live up to 2D standards.
finally, someone who understands
>Feel free to ask me whatever.
what would want to see in a 3d gf? this always bugs me because i know most of us(/h/ and /a/nons too) are in love with the idea of the 2d person/waifu character, not the actual person(ex. having pic related as your waifu while unaware that she can just kill you with magic or being unable to justify to her that you're worthy)
because the perfect 10/10 girl that's almost like your 2d waifu wet dreams seems either rare or non-existent, when push comes to shove, would you go for a 4/10 kinda-nerdish girl or a casual 8/10 person whose completely void of all things geeky and nerdy thus she can't relate anything to you other than...'you're a nice guy'
we all want the middle ground....but it may not exist
>>4285817
At the end of the day she has to be cute. She literally must have a smile I want to protect. If she doesn't I'm wasting my time. As far as assets go? Flat or fat I'm into that. But when it comes to ass I expect something good. I have 2D standards, but I more often than not don't apply them to 3D women. They'll never live up to them. And this will always be an issue, but not a bad one to have. You're only more potent in bed because of it.
>>4275799
has anyone experienced NTR in real life? how do you cope with it?
NTR nowadays always feels like a horror show to me..
>>4285828
You never really get over it, but you do eventually move on with your life because you come to realize that "it happened. it's over and done with, and there's nothing you can do about it"
Though in my case, it made me lose interest in relationships altogether, since it's happened to me twice. Being lied to, used, betrayed. Betrayed. That hurt the worst. It completely and utterly destroyed me for a very long time because of what happened, the way it happened, and who it happened with.
Took me nearly seven years to finally enter into another relationship, only to be betrayed again (though admittedly, the second time wasn't as bad, but it still made me lose interest in relationships altogether after that)
I doubt anyone's interested in a total stranger's story, though
>>4285767
>covering up your crippling social anxiety with all these stupid, self-satisfying excuses
Just be honest that you're an unlikeable neet like the other people in this thread
>>4285776
>drove her wild
Oh yea man, im sure the sex was absolutely mind blowing for her to break up with you after two weeks. Makes more sense that you over-estimated your prowess as an inexperienced virgin.
>>4285908
"Gave it up"= Sex
Come on now.
And we did break up. A few months later. I found out she had a kid. I ain't trying to raise someone else's kid.
>>4276174
Can confirm this is true. I would jerk off 5 times a day average and I had trouble being hard enough to penetrate my gf.
It also is the novelty factor, and the increasing perversion you end up descending into, like furry and sweat fetishes.
It may be that I've fapped too much over the years. I do have serious trouble coming with a condom on but I think that's pretty normal.
>>4285776
man don't mimic hentai, the key to actually good sex is communication people. Ask a girl what she likes.
This goes both ways
A lot of girls are pretty damn bad at fucking. And blowjobs. Only slightly more slutty girls give good blowjobs. So fucking many girls just have no idea what they're doing and it just doesn't feel like anything.
Although licking behind the ear is excellent, I'll give u that
>>4276174
Who cares fuck off life is not worth living anyways. Take away my fap and i'll kill you.
>>4285776
>because no matter what she'll never live up to 2D standards
You're quite pathetic if you can't even separate anime-hentai from reality.
>>4286095
Leave normie!
Wife got fat. Fappings all I got.
>>4285876
I bet this'll be good for a laugh. Tell me
My best friend is a girl that's also into hentai and fandom smut and we actually swap doujins and such. She helped me hook up with this girl with absolutely mind-bogglingly amazing tits and thighs. It was a fun little fling and she would wear a sweater and it was amazing.
She was also kind of crazy and cheated on all of her boyfriends (I found out later. No, she did not cheat on someone with me).
>>>4chan
>>>/h/
>>>sex life
Yeah, right.
>>4286223
Ugh. I don't know if I want to if you're going to treat it as a joke. That was a very painful part of my life.
Besides, I kind of get the feeling most people won't even believe it really happened even if I do talk about it. I don't want to be made the butt of people's jokes; especially over something so serious
>your sex life
Nice joke m8 don't got one
OP, it's different for everyone. Personally, hentai and porn in general has been a neutral force in my sex life. Even so, I rarely masturbate with the aid of erotica of any sort, so my imagination plays a greater role, as well as my knowledge of how to please myself in a variety of ways. Add to that how often my partner and I screw, as well as our rapport, high libidos, and love for one another, then you have a recipe for amazing sex almost everytime.
Porn of any stripe is more a once-in-awhile pursuit when I want something different. I don't put any merit into what I'm viewing beyond a) it's a tool to get me to cum, and b) so long as the means to its creation and portrayal is sound. Otherwise, I'm not allowing it to influence my real life aside from occasionally changing up my orgasm game.
>>4283073
The first time is almost universally terrible. For the guy, and almost entirely for the girl (as their system typically requires more finesse than the average male's). It's like anything in life: the more you do it, the better you get at it. In the case of all things sex, practice makes perfect.
So really, you're just justifying your lust for a younger crowd by shrugging your shoulders and saying "It wasn't that great." What's particularly telling is that you forced yourself into a sexual position. Trust me when I say, forced situations are realistically uncomfortable and dampen any possible enjoyment (for all parties involved).
Besides, you're still quite young. It's not unheard of to find people from the younger end of your age group arousing. So long as you're aware to avoid any contact with the kiddies, as well as having an open mind to the world of possibilities beyond, you'll be fine.
I'm kinda worry about it. I've been watching hentai since I was 12 and I was just a little girl, playing with the dolls that they had sex and lick each other...now I'm 19 and I feel like a nymphomaniac
>>4275799
>complaining about having more sexual stamina
quit being a god-damned autist
Hentai was kind of the final step for me to completely give up on sex and relationships in generals with others. I've always considered myself someone who just wasn't fit for a real relationship, and as someone who is best alone. So for me, it filled something in me I thought I wouldn't be able to have had I just lived a normal life without having a relationship.
>>4286987
sexual stamina =/= feeling so little pleasure that you don't enjoy it and just want to do something else
>>4287007
You know, that really is the reason male porn stars can last so long. They do the same thing day after day, it literally just doesn't turn them on as much. Being able to cum fast should be a blessing. Trying to keep going after cumming once should be what matters.
>>4287015
>Trying to keep going after cumming once should be what matters
Thanks i needed a reason to off myself.
>>4275799
It has to so extent. I remember having trouble being attracted to my GF when I start fapping to hentai more often that not. But then it happened, overwatch, Mei peaked my interest, then i releised that Mei and my GF have the same basic look/body type, and bambo, diamonds, not much help for you OP except finding a 2D girl comparable to ya irl gurl.
I hate what hentai has done to me. I've watched so much of it that I started to get turned on by loli after awhile, and browsing 4chan so much it made me even more desensitized so now i really get off to shotacon and gay furries. Then I started buying dildos and butt plugs and before I knew it I was a bonafied faggot. Although confused the whole time and embarrassed I didn't fucking care. The rush of excitement I got from the fear of being found out made it just addicting. Now I can't watch straight porn unless there's anal. I became a cock loving closet fagget and I want to know why because gay porn use to disgust me but now i only like hentai w/ dicks. Someone once told me that I'm going through erectile dysfunction and that thought scared me because I rather stay gay then lose my sex drive desu senpai
>>4275799
It has affected me negativity because I can only jack off to characters I give a shit about. For example, I love to jack off to girls from an obscure game series. Problem? Well the game series catered towards the yaoi demographic and of course there is no porn for the female characters. I really cannot put into words how angry this makes me. I need to attain orgasm like twice a day to be sexually satisifed with my masturbation sessions and random girls in your random doujinshi does nothing for me. Real porn does nothing for me. I need porn of these obscure game girls but no one fucking draws it. It has gotten so fucking bad I need to make my own horrible hentai just to cum. I cannot stand it anymore. Those yaoi fangirls would draw two twin boys fucking each other in gay sex but i cannot find a single picture of the main girl from the series nude. No one fucking likes women in yaoi series and in turn no one makes porn for them. I hate Japan.
>>4287067
In order to illustrate just how bad the porn shortage is for my favorite game series: there are only 8 pictures of any of the female characters in pornographic or nude poses out of the rest of the fan art which is in the thousands and most of the suggestive stuff is yaoi. I really fucking hate this hetero porn drought and the game itself isn't even based on yaoi just the developers made the boys so pretty it has a massive yaoi following. It's like the Kingdom Hearts situation but a million times once because no one really cares about the game other than well yaoi fangirls. The level of patheticness on my part is so bad I forgot to mention on my last post that occasionally I pull up some official CG art of one of those female characters and cum all over them - only because of a fucking hentai shortage.
WELL...Hentai Helped me and my Wife to know new positions...specially Piledriver...
And sometimes we actually roleplay...
...I love it and she also does
>>4287015
>You know, that really is the reason male porn stars can last so long
It's also the reason they shoot like 3 ropes tops when they do cum. Sometimes I have to guess whether they already shot their semen at all.
There's no way you can reliably impregnate women like that, so fuck that.
>>4287237
You are aware that the job of a porn actor isn't to impregnate the actress, yes?
Better yet, you ought to be aware that pregnancy doesn't rely on how many ropes of ejaculate someone can spew out, right? It has far more to do with the woman's cycle, the acidity of her vaginal canal, the uterine environment, and the tenacity of the sperm cells within the semen deposit. Plus, luck (or lack thereof, depending on the circumstances).
>>4287067
>>4287070
>hentai shortage
If that phrase alone wasn't enough to prove how stupid you are, the fact that you're chasing after female characters from a series catering to straight girls/women (with gay men on the periphery) AND THEN complaining that the R34 reflects this demographic's interest, all while acting like an entitled shit, well... There's not much else that needs to be said. Beyond this, of course: wean yourself off of this unnecessary dependency for niche fictional characters. Jesus fucking Christ.
>>4275799
As fucked up as it can be, it's helped for the better. Me and my partner now roleplay when we get into it.
I haven't had sex in about 4 years or so, so hentai helps with the obvious horniness. But thanks to hentai, I had an ex develop a fascination with titfucking. One fun evening later, I had it too.
>>4275799
Gosh man, it hurts even me to hear that. I hope you'll heal soon with the path you'll choose.
For me, hentai hasn't really made a difference at all psychologically (fap every day). But sometimes there are sex positions that are creative and interesting that I am curious to try. Often times they're fun and hot, so the physical aspect is boosted positively. The additional cosplay is exciting as hell, too.
But there was an incident like yours when I fapped so much that the next day I could not cum. It was awful cuz I had to fake an orgasm and pretended my pre cum was actual cum in the condom. Yep, that actually passed.
I kinda have an advice, and take it with a grain of salt if you'd like. If you have a long-relationship partner, make yourselves hot as hell by working out or whatever. It's worked with me at least.
>>4287323
hmm nope i disagree.
It doesn't exactly have an effect. My dick never was sensitive enough to have actual sex. I have heard this happens when too much foreskin gets removed.
>>4288700
>foreskin gets removed
>friction lots of friction...
my dick is to broke i wouldn't show it to anybody. friction marks everywhere skin never healed painful to do anything with it. thanks mom and dad you fucking cunts. i'll have my revenge. see you in hell assholes your going to be my bitch for eternity. You will fucking pay for every second of pain i felt because i always needed lube and the one time i dry out it ruined me forever.
FUCK YOU ALL! ibv4 i start a relationship with this. i would kill the bitch and myself.
ITT DUMB SHIT
>>4275799
>sex life
>>4286983
do you want to be my gf
>>4285285
Sorry you need merit or haven't experienced much. And the xD is bc I was laughing as I typed it. Since my previous msg might've came off as not liking missionary ect., also it might be weird but I don't save hentai much. I'll read or watch it and then molest him when he gets out of work.
>>4285254
Also think this guy might've been spot on.
>>4290994
Nope it's all supposed to be sharing. Holy shit go outside or to the fetish flea unless you're too young .
>>4290997
>Holy shit go outside or to the fetish flea unless you're too young .
can someone translate this please
>>4290999
Someone's harassing my story calling it bait because he apparently has some issues. When it's supposed to be just everyone sharing. So I told them where to go to find someone for themselves.
>>4285828
I was cucked out of the blue a few months before the wedding, talking about kids and everything after seven years of relationship. I'd say it actually ruined my life. I'm good at my job and make decent money, but my life is in shambles otherwise, something just got fucked in my head and now I can hardly talk to strangers (least of all women) and I usually spend my weekends drinking until I pass out. Haven't been intimate with anyone since then. I don't look forward to anything. NTR as a fetish is incomprehensible.
>>4291075
>I'd say it actually ruined my life.
good. I fucking hate people like you who have relationships and talk to women
what you call having your life in shambles is the way my whole life has been. how does it feel to be down on my level?
>>4291075
>NTR as a fetish is incomprehensible
finally someone who understands
>>4291075
>seven years of relationship
>seven years
>years
>cucked
>NTR
I would of killed the bitch and the the faggot who ruined it all then myself. Real talk i'm dead fucking serious.
>>4291075
Tell me about it. I also had a girlfriend for seven years. Last year of college, everything changed. We had been talking about starting a family together for a good while at that point, and for a long time I had felt she was absolutely in love with me, same as I felt for her. She had never given me any reason to believe otherwise, given how sweet we were on each other.
That week, I confided in my best friend of sixteen years that I was planning to propose to her the coming weekend. Well, I was getting too anxious, so I stopped by her house on the week's Friday instead, planning to propose.
When I got to her house, my friend's car was in her driveway. I though that was odd, naturally. I don't know what possessed me to do it, but instead of going to the front door, I walked around to the side of her house, to her bedroom window. The blinds were closed so I couldn't see anything inside, but her bed was right underneath the window and I could hear everything clear as day.
My friend and my girlfriend were in there, talking. More specifically, they just happened to be talking about me. My friend was basically demonizing me; lying to her and insulting me and mocking me to her face. To make matters worse, she was laughing along with him and agreeing.
I don't know how long I stood there eavesdropping on their conversation. Five minutes, ten, longer. But eventually, as you might have guessed, they started having sex.
I didn't stick around much longer after that. The following Monday, I called them both to meet with me, and they were acting the same as usual, as if nothing had happened. I couldn't contain my anger anymore so I confronted them. I'll never forget the look on their faces.
After my friend confirmed that he stole her away two years hense, and before I had a chance to say or do anything, he punched me right in the face and knocked me on my ass. He punched ME, as if I was the one who did something wrong... and this comment is getting too long
>>4291609
who needs foes with friends like that?
really anon, I'm just an insignificant person browsing a freaking hentai board of all places and I know it doesn't change anything, but man I'm sorry to hear that. I can't imagine what was going on in your mind while you were listening and everything dawned on you.
Are you doing well right now? Are you recovering?
ayy
>>4291610
Keep getting "connection error" when I try to post.
Anyway, there was a little more, but that's enough.
The whole incident pretty much ruined my life for many years. I still haven't gotten over it and it's been 13 years since then, but the pain has at least died down since then. I've only run into them a few times over the years since then, but the last time I saw them they were still together. We never talked so I don't know if they were hanging out as friends, or as lovers.
I've never been able to enter into a relationship since then. It completely ruined me to things like that. I don't think I can ever trust anyone enough to be friends or lovers with them again.
I hope that changes sometime in the future, but really, it was an absolutely massively painful time for me.
For now, I'm sticking with hentai. Good old consensual, vanilla hentai. If living in my fantasies means I don't have to go through such crippling emotional pain again, then I'm fine with sticking with good old righty and lefty for my sexual needs.
>>4275799
>sex life
Fuck off normalfag.
>>4291616
all the best for you anon. here's hoping life has a pleasant surprise in store for you after all.
>>4291629
Thank you. That actually means a lot, since the only people I've ever had to talk with about this in the past has been my family.
The only reason I had brought it up in the first place was because it looked like someone here had a similar experience. Even if my saying so is a bit pathetic, it feels good to get a little sympathy after all this time.
Also, random thought, but going back over my posts, those were pretty horribly written. Typing them out and reliving those memories in my head made me pretty emotional, I guess.
Hentai has positive influence on my life.
I'm 25 and I've been fapping for 8. My fetish are rather hard stuff - bdsm, rape, mind control, exhibitionism, humiliation and I can't have them IRL if I want to lead a normal life. I don't know, maybe I'm broken, but I've always been like that. When I was 9 I was reading about rape to get myself aroused although I didn't know what a sex is.
I'm in a normal relationship. My bf know about my kinks but doesn't give a fuck. He's also reading hentai and thanks to that he's amazing in bed. He's rather a vanilla guy, but thanks to our relationship he's become more and more dominant and aren't afraid to slap my butt anymore. Sometimes we're reading hentai togethet before sex, sending sexy pics to each other to get otherself horny or I'm blowing him during his reading under a desk. (I really like when he's cumming and not looking at me.) I have a very high libido, so I have to get orgasm at least once a day. And thanks to hentai I can just fap instead of looking someone to satisfy me.
Tl;dr I'm not a hooker or slut because I can fap to chinese cartoons.
>show gf the doujins i read
>she wants to try some things out from them
Definitely a positive
I still sometimes fap behind her back though
>>4291609
Reading this made me upset.
>>4276974
i hope i'm on the upward trend of this, i used to have worrying issues but now i'm hard as a rock because i'm starting to relax and appreciate it. it's still a bit of a challenge to cum inside, but i feel that's mostly mental. Years of jacking it on my knees in front of a computer might have influenced the way i can cum. That and I worry that she'll think she's not attractive if I end up making myself finish all the time. Once we move in together and I can't fap as regularly, I think i'll improve. thanks for your comment
>>4291634
Sorry to hear what happened anon, but be positive.
Things will get better for you. Karma will get those pieces of shit.
Even my life i had a lot of downs but as time went by things got better for me and now i have an amazing life. The same will happen for you.
You will get amazing friends and a wonderful who'll love you like no other. I'm sure of it.
So have hope, let go of the past and move forward, there's no longer a need for you to tread on the past or let it have an hold on to you. I know it is difficult but i'm sure you can do it. Thinks positive, breakaway from all these chains and move ahead.
The best days of your life are ahead.
So stay positive and keep moving forward, a great life for you is on the horizon. Everything happens for the reason.
You'll get a much better and amazing woman and friends :)
All the best and God bless you.
Ps - If i was your friend and i knew this happened to you at the time, that pathetic piece of shit who punched you would wish he never laid a finger on you or did what he did to you. He would have regretted that he was born in the first place. I don't tolerate stuff like this and trust me people don't want to be in the receiving end of my fists. I feel sorry for the ones that did though.
>>4275799
Not really. It may of had a hand in taking a while for me to get girls and ending up with my wife.
I'd say it has helped give ideas of what to try in bed with each other, plus we both watch hentai together as well.
Still best bet is to back off a little with looking up hentai OR go to anime conventions and such and finding a grill that enjoys or is at least open to the idea of hentai (protip most will be and/or enjoy porn in some form too)
ITT: wizards in training
I'm actually one of those lucky bastards who evolved in high school.
90% of my peers hated me and I had almost no friends. I was in band for all of middle school. My old man got me to play baseball for four years straight, which helped a little. After I quit baseball, I got obese and stayed that way until my senior year.
The odd thing is, the bullshit kept escalating until I had my nose shattered with a sucker punch, but after that, it died off. (I had to have surgery on that bitch, too)
I got lucky though, I hit a growth spurt and ended up like 6ft 7in tall.at 180 lb
My previous time playing in the band meant that in high school, although I didn't join, (being a lazy piece of shit) all of the band kids knew me. I didn't hang with most of them, but i ended up pulling a clique together of about twenty people, which lasted me until senior year. Around my sophomore year, I made friends with this one crazy bitch, and after we broke up, I cycled through about five of her friends until I got to this one girl who had actually been stalking me for about two years...
I ended up dating her off and on for about a year and a half. The reason it was off and on was because she had severe self-esteem issue and constantly thought she wasn't good enough for me, so she would leave me, date some loser and then bounce right back to me after she felt good about herself. I'm a pretty understanding guy, so I let it slide. I also knew the guys she would go to, and they were guys I knew I could entrust her to. It wasn't until about halfway through my senior year that she finally listened to me about her being good enough. I suppose one of the best things about her having stalked me was that she formed lots of submissive fantasies about me, meaning she ended up doing whatever I asked of her, anywhere I asked her to do it.
Anyhow, I'm a bit off track.The point is, even though I can get one I'd rather stay home and fap than get a gf (I last longer thanks to H though)
>>4291769
too bad that's not allowed here
>>4291809
ah damn, that is a little too west, isn't it? I wanted to spoiler it, but I forgot this board doesn't have the option.
That was the only thing I could find off-hand that wasn't strictly /d/ material
>tfw I deleted 100 gb of hentai and never bothered to replace it
>>4275799
Jerked off to anime a lot, got a gf for a little bit and had sex, after breaking up I still jerked off to anime.
I don't get why normalfags blame anime on their problems or anyone elses.
If you're that worried jerk off to normal porn
>Has hentai affected your sex life positively/negatively?
nah, I wasn´t going to get anything even without the hentai
>>4276174
I might be a serious outsider here but I almost never EVER directly masturbate to pornography. Whenever I view it it's more for the heart-beating thrill and then after the fact after the fact I'll 'bate either in bed or in the shower but never while at a computer/phone. A lot of the time whatever pornography I view isn't even playing in the theater of my mind while I'm at it. Most times it's original fantasies, people I know, even nothingness where I focus purely on the sensation.
I've probably adapted this behavior because I was caught once and since that day I've changed my habits. Anybody else do this?
>>4275799
>Implying OP gets laid
>Implying any of us do
But seriously, just cut back on fapping if you are that concerned.
>>4275799
I was never going to get any, if I wasn't fapping to hentai I'd be fapping to regular porn.
The difference is that with regular porn I am immediately disgusted with what is displayed on the screen the moment I've finished my orgasm.
With hentai I do not experience this. The girls are still cute, the stories are still interesting, sometimes I'll even keep reading/watching even after I've finished.
I guess it's because the stories are actually believable, whereas with porn there never is a story, or if there is, the acting is fucking awful and the story itself is paper thin and only there to initiate the fucking.
I also much rather prefer to spend my time watching/reading something that was meticulously crafted by an artist(s) rather than some overpaid cum-dumpster.
Through a sharing of hentai I was able to get emotionally close to an intersexed person who has stated a few times our friendship has prevented them committing suicide in the past since they finally had a person they could openly explore their sexuality with.
So... my love of hentai allowed me to save a human life.
>>4292194
you're better off this way honestly. you're much more flexible because of this. seems pretty convenient all-around to me.
on this topic, this is a good test to see if you're "too far gone". If you can't get it hard or climax with only your fantasies, then you most likely have a problem and should do something about it.
>>4275799
I have a literally non existing sex life, but at least I can confidently say years of edging for hours have given me a dick that looks like it's been bodybuilding.
>>4292244
>If you can't get it hard or climax with only your fantasies...
Fantasizing from scratch is something you don't want to lose. It's a good way of getting closer to and exploring ideas with your significant other.
>>4275799
Same problem here bro ;_;
I think negatively, I think I was addicted to the point where I was doing the deed with a woman, I wasn't feeling it. Like I couldnt even finish while I'm pounding away. I didnt feel much, and Im glad my partners understand. After the most recent times, I decided to stop fapping, and here I am going 30 days with no fapping. Porn I can still see, but I actually don't fap though. I think I have weird willpower stuff, like I can quit something on the fly. Though Without fapping, I feel less tired, and I actually get rock hard easier. Don't know how it is going to affect my stamina but at least I feel more like a normal person now that I stopped doing it.
For some weird reason though, going through this no fapping thing. Personally, I feel more relaxed and confident. I actually could pop a stiffy for women and I find women more attractive.
It might be placebo but I'm feeling better now that I stopped with the fapping.
Yet I'm here on /h/, strange world.
>>4291517
Pathetic.
>>4292218
So you had sex with an hermaphrodite? How was it?
>>4275799
>Has hentai affected your sex life positively/negatively?
>sex life
I don't see the point anymore. i'm a 35 wizard. The ride never ends...
Life is pointless and meaningless. Death is true happiness where you can't be hurt or feel any anything. Life is true hell and most of you will never understand that. Enjoy your fake realty i hate you all with pure rage.
>>4275799
If you use any kind of porn frequently you're going to have a very low libido. If you completely quit porn, and any kind of sexual stimulus (anything that arouses you at all, any touching at all) then after as little as a week you'll experience the same kind of extreme arousal and libido you did when you were first going through puberty.
This video goes into detail about the effects of constant use of internet porn on our brains https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
>>4302403
p.s. this is also why "no fap month" kind of shit is popular, almost like a detox
remember, anything in moderation is fine, porn included
>>4302404
>>4302403
I can sorta confirm this.
It frustrates me to no end because I desire to indulge in pleasure repeatedly whenever I have spare time on my hands, which is quite a lot actually.
Even if I limit myself ot one fap a day, it still has diminishing returns over time.
It sucks that I have such a huge porn backlog that I can't enjoy to the fullest due to physiological restrictions. I hate this so much!
>Not using your gf's back as a table to watch hentai while you do her doggy
>2016
????
>>4302403
>comments disabled
All I need to know. The comments probably tore the video a new asshole and they just didn't want to take it.
Why the likes? Americans are plentiful and prude, what else is new.
If porn doesn't literally dictate your life, there's nothing to worry about. We are sexual beings after all
You can have healthy, sexual relationships and also keep enjoying solo sex regularly, you just have to be in better shape then. Like, actually go out sometimes, drink water daily, get some exercise or activity.
It is a pity however, what oversexualizing in media does to just regular sensitivity. Massive pressure goes into executing well enough, not just in sex ofc, that people focus on the wrong things. Relaxing is a pretty tough task if even then you are forced to 'try your best and give it your all'.
Some people will always prefer that way however, and that's alright. If you meet a person like this and it feels wrong, move on. For me, sex is best when it's just fun and enjoying some time together with a special someone. A conscious choice to interact with each other, not just something you HAVE to have so you can 'live normally' post-ejaculation.
>>4287065
Rly hot desu.
>>4302913
Did you even watch the video? I remember when the comments weren't disabled (it's been up a long time) and it was a complete shitstorm of people denying point-blank that porn could ever have an effect on them. If you're able to watch porn non-stop and still have a libido and are able to get as hard and aroused during sex, then you're simply very lucky.
>>4291609
Dude, seriously, that fucking sucks. This is why cucking and NTR is such a baffling fetish to me, reading this shit scares the hell out of me.
Hope you're doing well and getting back out there.
>>4291609
Fuck, literally a worst fear next to close friends and family dying.
I'm so sorry for you, man. There's not much I can really say apart from that there will be people out there who have the capacity to do shit like that and there will be people who can't/wont. Telling them apart isn't always easy but I'd like to think the average person would not pull stuff like that.
Hopefully you come across more compassionate people. I can understand how this would fuck up your impressions of people even if you understand they are not all like that
>>4302947
society has put so much pressure on sex i wan't nothing to do with it nor do i want to bother with 99.9% of women in current society. It's never good enough to please most women. And personally i find it to much trouble time and work to be pissed away for one fuck up she does not like then leaves me or cucks me because i fucked up once.
I do not hate women but i don't care for the mind games they can play. I admit i have grown into a bitter asshole (i never show this side to anybody) but that's how i feel.
i would choose love over sex in a relationship any time of the day but it feel I've grown to old to care.
for those still looking good luck i gave up but it's your life live anyway you like.
as a young female, i'd say that hentai has tremendously improved my life in general, and not only sexually. i'm a late bloomer, so i always hated my flat chest and for the longest time i thought no one could ever feel attracted to me. i started watching hentai and romanticized the extremely sexual depictions of young women. along the way, i somehow developed beautifully full breasts, and i learned to accept that i was suuuuper into female degradation (i thought i was a feminist, now i'm a full-time love slave to a very caring master). i even learned how to orgasm! *hint* complete submission with a splash of fear works well for me.
hentai: it's for your health.
>>4291609
Reading this has made me pretty angry. Always keep people at arms length.
>>4303601
feminism doesn't place restrictions on your sexuality, you know? that would be anti-feminist, dictating what you can do with your body and what kind of relationships you're allowed to have
>>4303359
it's porn that has convinced everyone that sex is something that has to be performed, with a beginning, middle and end, rather than the free, animalistic groping session it should be
>>4275799
I masturbate to hentai every day 3-4 times. I haven't bothered to touch human porn for 6-7 years and can't get going with human females. Plus got a waifu. If anything it was a inevitable rise to enlightenment.
>>4275817
exactly my thoughts on the subject
once per 20-30 days i have a 2-3 day session when i am on for hentai...rest of them is either no-porn, normal porn, or relationship sexual interaction
this is constant since i was like 16-17
>>4291609
you know what you have to do, right? you gotta kill that son of a bitch.
I'm a girl and I schlick it to hentai sometimes. Hasn't really affected my sex life. Bit self-conscious about my small breasts, since the ideal depicted in hentai are really big ones.
>>4291760
Nice blog bro. Here's your >>(you).
>>4291609
lol you sound like a pussy. You deserved to get punched. They shoula had sex in front of you and made you off yourself. Everyone is thinking it, i just have the balls to say it
>>4275799
porn addiction is a thing, and we're the first generation it's affecting negatively. and that's the exact problem. using porn can light up all the lewd larts of our brain way more intensely than just seing a single woman. this causes us to drop spagetti when the real thing happens because the real think sucks :/
i personally have no problem with it. since i immediately blow a load as soon as i feel even a little bit horny, it keeps my mind clear to think about other shit. which is nice imo
>>4306592
Lots of guys like small breasts. It's much easier to find someone whose fetish you are as a woman than as a man, so don't get too into your own head about it.
>>4306830
Preeeeetty sure you're just a tough guy on the Internet, my man
>>4275799
>Has hentai affected your sex life positively/negatively?
It hasn't affected anything because i'm not a filthy normalfag.
>>4285997
there are studies that confirm this, you basically end up desensitizing yourself (mentally and physically)
>>4301832
Overall the same. Basically a really large clit that was more penis shaped than usual. Think of what Spunky Knight had early on. Biggest issue is that her hormones can easily get imbalanced and what she finds sexually appealing can shift about.
The most fun though was when I first convinced her to masturbate over the phone using her cock. I will never forget how she moaned from that.
>tfw have gf that also likes hentai
Me and my girlfriend will read it before sex. It turns her on like a switch even if she didn't feel like doing anything a minute ago since she grew up secretly watching hentai. Sometimes while we're away we'll send each other doujin we've both found, like the two recent vanilla Rocket Monkey stories. It's pretty comfy
>>4291609
>he punched me right in the face and knocked me on my ass. He punched ME, as if I was the one who did something wrong...
She lied to him bro, for years, she made you the bad guy so she wouldn't have to feel guilty for cheating, in his mind you were the cuel dick he was saving her from.
Who knows, maybe you were an asshole too.
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>>4285828
I had a friend that broke up about two years ago now*. They had been dating for like five or six years and some of the cutest memories my friends and I had involved the two of them.
They had started talking about having a kid and he wanted to get married before having a kid but she was completely against it (Our theory is that since she comes from a stupidly rich family she had some trust fund she wanted to keep secure for just herself... or something). They got into their first really big argument over this and they kinda went quiet to one another for a week or two. He sent her a text one morning saying "Let's talk. I still love you. You have my heart in your hands. Please don't hurt me."
That night he found her at a bar on a pretty good buzz making out with another guy. He dumped her right then and there. To some extent I think it was good for him. She was pretty, smart and rich but had a pretty strong selfish streak: he was insanely, stupidly allergic to cats yet when she moved into his place she brought three of them. He was always half wiped out from popping Antihistamines every few hours.
*I feel bad that I remember around when they broke up because his brother and I were trying out the Five Nights at Freddy's demo that had just come out on the day she was moving her stuff out.
>>4285828
After being cheated on in high school, I had a big fear of being NTR'd in later life. That was, until I accidentally NTR'd someone.
A girl and I started talking and we hit it off. One day a crazy guy confronted me about how he had been dating her for eight years. I told him that I needed to talk to her about it, but there was a reason she never told me about him. The dude started banging his head against the wall when I walked away with her.
The story I got was that she had broken up with him a year ago but he kept saying that they were together. After reading through some crazed texts she kept getting, I believed her.
Looking back, the reason I got cheated on was because I was an over possessive prick, and she was a total bitch not willing to talk things out.
Morale of the story? Don't be an over-attached crazy beta, and you probably won't get N TR'd so long the girl is willing to talk and sex things out with you.
>>4309178
>Don't be an over-attached crazy beta, and you probably won't get N TR'd so long the girl is willing to talk and sex things out with you.
I think you got cause and effect mixed up here. If you aren't an over-attached beta, the girl will just leave you. If you are, she'll go behind your back and NTR you. That simple.
I guess this thread is dead..
but for the record I've been addicted to porn since I was twelve, almost a decade now. Sex is pretty much 45% of everything I think of and I mostly fantasize about getting passed around and gang fucked in public.
I've tried to stop for years, but at this point my will is broken and I haven't even been trying
>>4311140
Pretty wild fantasy there. Just curious, prefer to be anonymous, or people know you in that fantasy?
>>4311462
hmm, I haven't really thought about it. Probably more or less anonymous, with strange hands grabbing me all over and plenty of eager cocks
>>4311509
I see. Yah I'd be too embarrassed if someone or people knew me.
Yes, I find real women disgusting now.
