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What makes the difference between someone bad at sex vs someone good? Post examples of people good or bad at sex, amateur or pro.
Is this a good example of a man good at sex, or is it just acting?
>>8543123
All I got.
>>8543120
this guy is just deep dicking her he's a clown.
>>8543123
sauce?
>>8543132
sauce?
>>8543123
which scene?
I don't think I've ever seen a pro porn where you can judge whether it's good sex or not, it's all acting. Even amateur porn is mostly acting and I can't think of a good example. Although I'm very interested if anyone can show such examples of porn.
>>8543117
>What makes the difference between someone bad at sex vs someone good?
Enthusiasm.
Confidence (aka not giving a shit if you do something awkward and looking foolish).
Be willing to change up based on your partners request/reactions.
Paying attention enough to read your partner's non-verbal cues.
Focusing on tactile situation instead of looking good for a porn camera.
Knowing enough about anatomy to realize jackhammering doesn't feel as good as gentle circles around that glans.
Not being genital focused, but engaging the entirety of the sensory organ known as "skin" by rubbing/massaging all over.
Using lots of foreplay and lots of lube.
Remembering aftercare is just as important as foreplay.
Remembering you're not finished it your partner is fully satisfied.
Remembering that your hands are the most versatile tool in pleasing genitals, and your tongue is pretty nice too.
>>8543286
>pro porn where you can judge whether it's good sex or no
look for the involuntary reactions
>>8543117
Full body contact, grinding against the pelvis, and tits in face. This is good sex.
>>8543286
Look for BTS videos where they have sex. You'll hear the performers actually asking for what feels good to them but doesn't necessarily look good in porn.
>>8543117
sauce?
>>8544610
The answer is literally right in front of you, saucefag.
If you're too fucking dumb to see it, you don't deserve to know it.
>>8543303
Fucking this
>>8543331
sauce?
I know you ain't expecting a serious answer but it's more about the girl knowing what pleases her and asking for it.
>>8543303
Excellent post.
Don't look at porn for good technique because the person they are trying to get off is the audience, leading to a lot of weird positions and angles.
This is fucking sad. You're not going to get "who's good at sex" by watching a porno clip. Sex is an intimate dance between two individuals, not a fucking slapfest for fappers at home.
>>8543120
>fuck me like its your part time job
>>8544667
That sheet she is laying on is fucking disgusting. #tidedetergent
>>8543364
>Look for BTS videos
like this
>>8543117
porn is the worst influence on bad sex because it make people think all you need to do is pound. in stuff like girlsdoporn the guys are actually really fucking awful at having sex, though of course they're just putting on a show for the camera. What you need to do is have sex like a Godspeed You Black Emperor song: slow rhythmic buildups with climactic peaks. and you need to touch her, talk to her, react to her. the penis in the vagina should not be the only contact happening between you two.
>>8543117
Those implant ripples though...
>>8543303
enjoyed reading that
>>8543120
sauce?
>>8545693
as lame as this sounds.. it's 100% true.
>>8545801
What about it sounds lame?
>>8543303
I was not expecting this much effort and time when I clicked on this thread. Thank you very much sir/madam.
>>8543117
Depends on a lot of things.
Firstly, for a lot of girls penetration isn't enough to climax so they will need extra clitoral stimulation. This depends on the girl though.
It's also important to understand what type of dick you have. When you have a dick that is bend upwards, you will hit the G-spot better in missionary. If you have a dick that bends more downwards, doggystyle will hit her G-spot better.
How you stimulate her clit depends a lot on how sensitive she is down there, but definitely don't start poking it like an elevator button.
>>8545693
I personally like slow trusting, but my girl likes the quick porn stuff more. Depends on the girl.
http://www.xvideos.com/video171970/24yo_virgin_fuck_pornstar
go to the 15:00 mark to see how it's NOT done
>>8543117
Good communication, and good listening.
>>8543303
that guy has a fantastic ass
damn I'm a faggot
>>8543120
Sauce for the love of the job
>>8543331
I bet THAT stupid loud bitch is Gianna Michael's.
good thread OP, have a bump
I agree. Good thread OP.
>>8543117
>Amateur or pro
>>8543123
uehara ai is my JAV crush. that series she did where they cum but she keeps sucking was so good.
>>8546220
Molly Mavericks
>>8543303
das it mane. das it.
>>8543303
i can shade in most of thsoe sorted qualities actions whatever aside from one which is foreplay .... i entirely skip that mostly as i last laying pipe over 90 minutes majority of these things are well covered the only complaint i have heard is that i could be more vocal
>>8545615
source?
>>8543117
bad at sex for getting horrible implants
>>8545693
My wife wants it in her right away, wants to fuck like an animal and doesn't want me to dilly dally around about it. She's got a one track mind when she's horny.
>>8545803
that sex is like a song
>>8545615
Source nigga
I like to change things up. So what gets me off today, might not work tomorrow.
Most men don't ask what women might want. Can't remember when I last got asked.
It's not so hard. Do you like this? What would you want me to do? Fast? Harder? Slower? Where do you want my hand? You can tell or show me anything. Blah, Blah.
>>8546800
I'm the same senpai. Shit's good but it also means shit has to be really energetic and really horny.
>>8544888
It's massage oil, you faggot.
>>8547133
Most women reject men who aren't assertive, so why would they blow their chances by asking?
>>8543303
fuck off cuck
>>8543120
"fuck me like it's your part time job" didn't know this was a ylyl
>>8547133
>asking if you like it every 5 seconds
Sorry I'm not a beta
>>8547216
>Sorry I'm bad in bed
We know
>>8543303
Yeah spot on. Passion and enthusiasm make for such good sex
>>8547133
I ask my gf what she likes all the time. But during sex: that's a big no-no. Nothing makes an average vag dry up quicker then "d-do you like this?. D-do you mind if I put my hand here? Pls respond." Sure, not every girl is the same, blablabla. I'm just giving you the other side of the story.
>>8544667
>sauce?
St. Phoebe and Byron Long
>>8543303
sauce?
>>8547473
That's because those are open ended questions that make you take your mind of the action.
Its better to ask concrete questions in the form of "do you want X or Y?"
>fingers or tongue?
>faster or slower?
>lick or kiss?
>stroke or press?
>inside or outside?
>>8547522
A yes, no question is the opposite of an open ended question, but I see your point. I guess you can ask questions without it sounding like desperate need for affirmation, but I guess I just don't possess that skill so I'll rather keep it safe. Especially since my girl is really into being dominated in bed, while I'm honestly not that much into it.
>>8547569
>A yes, no question is the opposite of an open ended question
Open ended as in you have to assess quality. Better to give 2 or 3 options of what they might want more of.
>>8547133
As a girl, what actions during the first intercourse would be an immediate give-away that a guy is a virgin?
>>8543303
I prefer Sam Kinison's sage advice:
>Draw the ABC's with your tongue on her clit and she'll go crazy thinking you're doing some fancy oriental shit.
Granted, when you look like Sam Kinison, ya gotta have something goin...
1/3
2/3
3/3
I think it's all in how the woman's hips are moved, how much skin contact shes making, and how much she's really showing her enjoyment.
>>8543117
In my experience, girls are bad and I'm good.
I try to give my bitches a little freedom to do what they want but it usually doesn't feel as good as just straight ramming them.
I've had a few talented and kinky girls - deepthroat, tongue ring, rimjob. That shit was all really good.
>>8543117
>What makes the difference between someone bad at sex vs someone good?
1) Rhythm. Fuck at a steady, reliable pace. Don't be erratic with thrusts.
2) Be attentive to what she wants. Look for physical clues. Make it about pleasuring her rather than yourself; in turn she'll appreciate it and want to pleasure you (and the cycle continues).
3) Make foreplay last as long as possible. Guys are pretty much just ready to fuck, but girls very much want to get in the mood (see: romance). Hence foreplay.
4) Use your hands, both of them. And don't sorely focus on the vagina or crotch. Look for other parts of her body that are a turn-on to be caressed (nape of neck, shoulders, etc).
5) Reciprocity. What she does to you (how she touches you) is also a sign of what she wants to be done to her.
>>8547627
>As a girl, what actions during the first intercourse would be an immediate give-away that a guy is a virgin?
Just tell her in advance. Better for her to know that you're a virgin than to suspect you're just bad and will never git gud.
And don't tell her like it's something you gotta apologize for, that's the opposite of confidence. Just say "wow, I've never done this before and you make it feel pretty good"
>>8547133
yeah no i mean some questions are alright in low doses, like "how you holding up?" if she's been on her hands and knees for a while, or "where can i cum?" because some women aren't protected/hate the taste, but figure out what to do with your own fucking hands, you nerd. even in those rare cases, you can usually just do something and she'll either go with it or not. it's sex, not a fucking exam.
To me it depends on the girl i'm having sex with. I've had girls who made me feel like a fucking champ and girls who made me question if everything i was doing was wrong.
awesome thread
>>8545693
>Fuck like a GY!BE song
Amen
All porn is acting you stupid fucks.
>>8547642
>that pussygrip
>>8543117
>tfw skeleton
>this hurts the hips
>>8547669
this is how to be a selfish lover
>>8549933
No only the shit-quality porn is you fucktard.
>>8547201
>making an effort to please your partner
>cuck
Your sex life must be rivetting.
>>8547201
virgin detected.
>>8543303
Nailed it. To add, don't be completely silent, women usually want to know that we're having a good time as much as we want to know they are.
>>8547671
>4) Use your hands, both of them. And don't sorely focus on the vagina or crotch. Look for other parts of her body that are a turn-on to be caressed (nape of neck, shoulders, etc).
I won't sorely focus on her vagina.
>>8547201
>>8547201
>black man fucking black woman
>nobody else in the room
>somehow this is still cuck porn
Is this like a tourette's syndrome and you just toss out that word at random?
>>8547635
this is brilliant, thank you
>>8551253
It's even better when you combine it with the "come hither" motion on the g-spot.
>>8548147
wow, I've never done this before and you make it feel pretty good
>>8543303
cuck
>>8547652
THIS IS WHAT THIS POST IS SUPPOSED TO BE! LOOK AT THIS GIRL! TOTAL CONTROL OF THAT DICK! BRAVO! BRAVO!!
being able to keep your partner aroused helps
>>8543303
I like to add:
If you're a guy pace yourself. You don't want to go 100% until she's nearly there and actually begging for you to pump harder/faster.
Make sure you pay attention to yourself too. Women are emphatic creatures and will thus enjoy sex more when their partner is visibly enjoying themselves.
Alternate your rhythm, but like a good musician, always come back to your main beat.
>>8544677
This.
>>8543120
dude i almost lost my boner i laughed so hard
>>8543303
An excellent thread. Well played Sir.
>>8543303
Sauce :/
>>8543331
that looked fun
Example of good technique. Just look at her face.
>>8547627
This >>8548147
Honestly, you can just admit you've never done it before. Everyone starts somewhere. Sex is a skill, and much of it you won't learn until you've done it and screwed up a good couple of times. But that's the real experience of good sex; being open and okay with stuffing your face/fingers/fuckbits into someone else's genitalia/etc no matter how it ends up going, because you feel that comfortable with that person (or people). They'll let you know if it's going well or not, and you can adjust and tell them how you're doing too. The only thing you can really do wrong is to not listen to your partner, everything else can be either enjoyed for what it is or laughed about later. Also, taking a guy's virginity/teaching him her specific likes can be a HUGE turn on for some chicks, and if a chick is being judgmental about inexperience or body type... you really don't want to stick your dick in it. Just don't. It's not worth the hangover.
tl;dr
Respect yo'self
Respect yo' gal
Communicate (vebal/nonverbal whatevs)
Laugh
She'll enjoy it and probably want more.
>>8556972
Too late, I already told her I wasn't one. Plus I'm 23 so it's really fucking embarrassing.
>>8556986
better to tell her you lied then.
>>8557017
Nah, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't like that. Plus, I have done a fuck ton of research so I don't think it will be completely obvious.
>>8545693
Best analogy I've ever seen for sex
>>8557063
dude it will be obvious. no shame in being a virgin
>>8557095
It's too late man. I have set up this big web of lies. It's consistent among all my friends and pretty believable. If I tell her and she gets mad or we break up, she might tell all my friends and shit.
I don't think it will be obvious. What do you imagine me to do that would make it look obvious? What did you/your partner do your first time?
>>8543117
Horrible wrinkling on that silicone
>>8557063
It will be anon. You'll be a deer in the headlights
>>8557063
bro thats like saying i'm good at Fifa then getting thrown in the world cup to play
she'll know pretty quick
>>8557115
I think most people would understand why you'd like about it, but it's still probably important to tell the truth. Probably.
>>8547647
dont go on /gif that much so call me a newfag if you want, but sauce?
>>8555987
nigger
>>8543303
>>8545693
>>8547133
>>8547473
>>8547671
way too many subjective ideas in here. and mostly only good advice for "givers" and pleasers, not that theres anything particularly wrong with that but too many people think guys need completely focus on her orgasm these days too. some chicks just genuinly get off on pleasing you so doing a whole lot of tricks just to please her, asking questions etc is a waste of time. its okay to only focus on your own pleasure sometimes and personally i get kinda turned off if im doing a lot works sometimes and sometimes i wanna control how my dick is getting stimulated with my own actions instead of just giving cues or commands.
the best sex happens naturally between 2 people with good chemistry who arent totally insecure
as per technique chicks can get out of control when theyre on top sometimes and getting your dick kinked is fucking painful. see how hes restricting her movement in OPs vid toward the end? hes about to get his dick kinked bc shes moving too far back and forth
dont focus on filling a role, be honest, be primal and respect the cues. denying the cues can lead to great things if you got a good feel for things with the girl too. sometimes a girl likes being made to beg for it. sometimes guys do too but thats never been my deal. feel and look at her reactions if you wanna figure out good technique. she'll react accordingly if shes not too insecure. hit errogenous zones in order of least to greatest sensitity if you got the patience. sometimes she wont want you to patiently please her. just get comfy regardless.
>>8545834
WHY DID NOONE RESPOND TO MY FUCKING 10/10 TIPS POST GODDAMNED
>>8555986
sauce?
I fucked a 34yr old virgin
<cause religion does horrible things to people
I enjoyed it, but it is sooooo one sided. She has no desire, no wants, no idea. I have to initiate everything, push every envelope and even after we've fucked a few times she's still insecure about it. Not sure if it's the virginity or the religion thing and honestly she's probably a 6/10... dat pussy was tight tho and the way she lost control of her body after I went down on her (prior to fucking her the next week) was cute.
>>8557212
its posted at least once a week, lurk more
>>8550587
why have i run into a pic of boogie? i mean, he is a dank meme
>>8543117
alot of things have been covered already(at least twice for some)
but foreplay is a must, even just a little bit. the better she feels the better she can make you feel
and to add more to the "pacing" aspect
Try to hold off at going ALL IN asp
(now for the sake of there being all sorts of sizes of dicks out there which gave me quite a pause for how i would word this.Lets assume we're all very much acquainted with our lover yeah? she's familair with your shape and size and has grown accustomed to it
so in theory it should all be the same regardless of differences in size so heres how it goes)
To start things off, only insert your head and roughly a fourth of the length of the head then just prod the entry, this is always a good idea
You want to be let in, not force your way in and what better way than to knock am i right ;)
Once you feel like youre sliding around nicely you want to proceed to around mid shaft (SLOWLY) with long strokes having the apex of the swing back to the nape of the head, rhythm is key, think of it like the hypnotist's watch. You want her to fall into a trance as it were, solely fixated on the motion thinking only of that, nothing else, thats kinda hard if the fucker drops his watch and fumbles like an ape to it fit back in his hand, same with you, that dick and her hole so keep it at a steady pace k? Its easier for her to keep track of the rhythm and the sensation of the thrusts besides.
now at this point we want to be thrusting with only a quarter left of the penis never entering as deep as you can, and give it at least minute of this length because the goal of this exercise is to make her think you ran outta dick
and with a passionate thrust ( and after all that, for both you AND her that shouldnt be hard) you go as deep as can, pushing as far as it can go and keep pushing it like youve never wanted to be so deep in her before.
i just about guarantee you'll be needing to change those sheets
>>8543132
That bell end is fucking ridiculous
Imma do you this one favor for the key to life cuz. It's all about alignment, if a man like the second video is just throwing his schlong around like a fucking anaconda with asbergers, he ain't doin it right, no matter how enthusiastic he can be. Porn stars don't have good technique because they aren't fucking for orgasms, they fuckin for show, so they exaggerate the shit out of their movements, so it don't matter how big they dick is, when they just throwin it around like they ain't got no damn sense it's bad technique. You wanna look for dudes who are trying to throw the dick in a line and tryna go into the pussy and stay in the pussy.
>>8543303
This one is the only good example of this, all the rest of them are trash
>>8543303
What's the fuckin sauce tho
>>8546295
Post-orgasm sucking/fucking is my fetish. I need to see this series.
Ayo pro tips coming right at ya.
>get her to wear socks during sex
There are a few articles on it that say it makes her more likely to cum. Not sure how scientifically accurate it is but I've had personal success with it.
>prop a pillow under her hips/butt when fucking
Again, not sure how accurate but personally I feel I can get a better angle and it seems to make them cum faster.
>>8543117
This will probably help alot of you guys. Sex is all about stamina. You got to do exercises. When you piss your stream as much as you can. Every time you piss. Then when you do fuck you'll honestly get frustrated because it's so hard to cum. Give a girl multiple orgasms and she'll be wrapped around your finger.
>>8558536
*Cut off your stream
>>8557300
Finally found it.
Enjoy
http://www.eporner.com/hd-porn/679297/Teenie-Rides-Big-Pole/
>>8553981
Damn, that's a huge load!
>>8545615
fake ass shit ..
>>8557184
You're right anon, I was like you last year, end up with a girl i didn't tell i was a V. She thought I had lot of gf. I told her after that it was my first time.
>>8547647
>>8557212
http://www.xvideos.com/video11187824/angelina_a_latina_maid_do_cleaning_naked_for_some_green_bills
This is just the "best" of the video. The entire video is about 20-something minutes long, but around 10 minutes of it is her cleaning shit, trying to ham it up that she's a maid. Ya know, all that shit.
Happy fapping anon
>>8554004
well said
>>8558694
>but around 10 minutes of it is her cleaning shit
that is dedication
>>8558603
IRL she is disgusting as fuck
>>8557278
Because it's gay and retarded
>>8543117
she's trying to pull his dick off with her pussy grip. this is awesome.
>>8543123
this is good technique on her part. He still has to thrust because cowgirl is fucking awful, but her stance is the only one that really works at letting the woman get any mileage out of being on top.
>>8545841
do you come when you pound like that? she might like it because it's over sooner. or do youslowly build speed?
>>8543117
bamp
>>8547642
who the fuck is this
>>8543303
>s
the dude i had sex with told me that he never trusts a girl with giving a handjob because they can never do it right.
>>8543117
http://www.spankwire.com/Mya-Diamond-Passionate-Sex/video188190/
both great - contrast between dominance and submission, slow and fast, rough and gentle, and mixes of these
>>8547216
>can't ask 'you want it fast or hard' before fucking them
if that's too hard for you to do and you don't have the common sense or courage to not care what someone thinks when you say it, you must really suck at sex
>>8558407
never heard of the first one but maybe the material feels good, or it feels more forbidden and fast? like they were stripped on the spot and ravished. i have a lot of friends that for some reason they love getting fucked with their clothes on, guess it's the 'passion' or something
second part can confirm, it makes it easier for you to slide into us and hit our gspot head on.
so yeah, good job, you sound like you're doing pretty well for your lady
>>8543125
>signs of a chick with no stamina that does no cardio workouts whatsoever
had a chick or two like this before
it's a bad sign when they're changing the position of their legs after 20 seconds of riding
they'll try to be sexy and get on top but they'll last a good 60 seconds before they slow to a halt
good on them for trying but fucking run on a treadmill for more than half a mile
>>8558407
Wearing socks keeps their feet warm and it's easier to cum when they aren't focusing on little things like how cold their extremities are. simple but effective.
I've been doing a lot of quad and hip flexor stretches because I noticed that I couldnt stay in the classic "on your knees, legs wide" missionary position that guys use in porn. And I think that's way better than fucking missionary like a plank, supporting myself with my arms, instead I can use my glutes, my arms to guide her ass into me together with my hips, so that I can achieve a greater and more sustainable boning speed.
But who cares, I'll never get laid anyway
>>8558539
this is bad advice, you can get an urinary tract infection if you stop it too much. be careful, please...
>>8543117
>no abella anderson
>>8563729
shame, really
>>8562267
it may or may not be Monique Alexander
>>8563734
sauce plz ??
>>8563599
Why would that give you a UTI?
>>8562362
I was told that too, but when I eventually gave him a handjob he didn't do much complaining.
>>8563734
would also like sauce
>>8543303
This
>>8543303
>Paying attention enough to read your partner's non-verbal cues.
How? What should I be looking for?
>>8562482
>running to increase leg drive
No, you need squats, son.
HIP DRAHVE!
>>8543303
This
>>8547522
This is generally true, but my gf is too shy to even answer. Once she got so anxious that she dried completely. I learned to tke the lead and to try to anticipate what she wants by the signals that she sends me before. But it's a work in progress, and i know everyone is different etc.
I'd say: be sensitive, be confident, pay attention to her reactions ask afterward
>>8568033
Oh and for fuck sake: learn to do oral
>>8566706
Simple reactions, vocal tone mostly, pelvic movements. Everyone is different, man or woman. U have to learn his/her reactions
This may not have been covered yet, but it took me years to figure out and could have saved a few relationships had I known it then (former PE victim).
Learn to separate ejaculation and orgasm. You can totally do one without the other, and it requires a bit of a balancing act. It's pretty close to edging, but you just very carefully release the pressure and have a slow, controlled ejac. Keep this up until you start shooting blanks and if you've done it right you'll find you can last for longer and longer in between blanks. You can get it to the point where you're just pounding and pounding non-stop.
Then, when you do feel ready to orgasm, you can concentrate on giving maximum effort into a climax for you both. You'll have a much stronger orgasm as a result, as well.
>>8543303
damn son, you got it right.
>>8547671
I have a really hard time thrusting with a steady rhythm, not sure what I'm doing wrong exactly, since often I can't tell unless she says something.
Any tips for this sloppy fuck?
>>8543117
usually if you care about the other person, the sex is riiiiight. otherwise it's kind of empty
>>8547133
Thats a quick way to let a girl know you have no fucking clue what you're doing.
>>8563528
I think I need these exercises. I am horribly out of shape and my girl has trouble having orgasms so I often have to get into particular positions for long periods to make her come, but being so un-athletic makes it pretty tiring.
>>8543120
good sex is just sex where you know what feels good for your girl. Going deep might not be doing it for her, going slow might not do it either. If you clit it too far away from her vag you have to use your hands basically (this is 75% of women) and you basically just have to make sure she's good and warmed up before you get a dick in there and then just move around to what she seems to like.
porn doesn't tell you how good a girl feels since it's all acting. it just goes on the premise that it's all the best thing she's ever felt
>>8568046
real shit. oral is the one thing I can actually get my girl off with lmao. She's not sensitive enough for vaginal orgasms
>>8563809
abella anderson
>>8557115
Because virgins are plain and simple not good at fucking their first time. It literally happens to all of us. Dude, I got all crybaby the first time I had sex because I was embarrassed. Shit happens.
>>8570523
Relax and concentrate on your breathing.
i money and mental games beat tricks everytime
>>8543120
Give that woman a stand up.
>>8549969
Women like "selfish" lovers.
>>8558250
I second this advice.
>>8545693
Definitely have banged chicks like this description mentions, but I've net some that like a good jackhammer fuck, too.
In short: Pay attention to the needs of your partner and it should work out.
I think I saw this thread on /fit/ a few days ago
>>8570964
They really don't
>>8556986
Mate,21 and I only lost my virginity 4 months ago, I've been with 6 girls over the course of 8 years and I have never felt comfortable enough with any of them to do anything sexual at all, the most I done was grab a titty and I was drunk at the time.
Then I met this girl 6 months ago, we took our time getting to know each other and we were both virgins, I feel comfortable with her and vice versa, she's 19 and never been with anyone because she knows that most guys are out for themselves and a quick fuck. I treat her right and now 7 months into being with her I get to tie her up and fuck her senseless, she pretty much throws herself at me and we're moving in together soon, she is actually perfect in every way for me man.
And you know what? I'm glad I saved myself for her and glad she saved herself for me, we went into it not being scared that we had to live up to anyone elses performance. And as it turns out I've already been doing so much right from reading this thread, communication, caressing, paying attention to her needs, technique and she loves it. She's on me the second she gets a chance because she knows I'll take care of her, for the first time ever I finished first this weekend but I was straight in between her legs as soon as I'd recovered and done everything right through communication, she squirted everywhere (if you're fingering her g spot while eating her out pull out as the orgasm begins and she'll fucking implode.) And now she's begging me to do it again next weekend.
Don't lie, just be honest that you're not sure what you're doing and ask for guidance, because of that I'm now the guy that all the girls want and all the guys wish they were.
>>8573456
In that case post some videos of you and her fucking then we'll believe otherwise you're full of shit.
>>8543132
For the love of god what is the sauce om that?!
>>8543132
Sauce on the chick at least please!
>>8558250
I'd let you fuck me in a heart beat.
Also dry humping naked till I'm so wet his dick just slides in by itself.
>>8543117
A lot of it is paying attention to feedback, but i am convinced there's a chemical element to it as well. Sometimes you just click with a person and the sex is just crazy. You could fuck a more attractive person the next day and have the most boring sex of your life.
I used to fuck a girl who instantly fell in love with my cock and would basically worship it porno style, but she meant it. She was probably only a 6-7/10 in my eyes, but i would fuck her senseless every single time and be spraying loads at the wall from the depths of my body even though i had already come 3-4 times that night. We just had that chemistry.
>>8570628
w-who?
Thera re very good advices here, specially this >>8543303
but I assume the people that most look for this innformation are virgins or starting the sexual life. I'm gonna try to make a "good sex for dummies" here. Also, I'm male, so this will be specific for males.
1 - If it is the first time you are having sex with this girl, forget abour yourself and give her as much pleasure as you can. It will repay later when she comes back for more and may even tell her friends.
2 - Be aware that women have basically 3 kinds of "orgasm": clitoris, G-spot and "regular squirting". They are 3 completely different sensations and can happen together. See more about the first 2 below.
3 - Clitoris can be stimulated with a good oral technique. First of all, know where it is! Licking it up and down may do the service, but you can do much better by using your lips and your tongue more efficiently. One of the techniques is to give kind a kiss on the clitoris and suck it a bit, leaving it exposed in your mouth. Licking it in a way that you make an infinite simbol with your tongue is also another way to make it better.
4 - G-spot is on the front part of a womans body and can be stimulated easily if you put her laying belly-up, insert 2 finger with the palm of your hand up and fold your fingers, in a way that you press the vaginal wall. You can feel that the texture of that part is a bit different, less smooth. Stimulate that area adn she will crawl the walls with pleasure.
5 - Keep as much skin contact as you can, hugging her firmly sometimes or grabbing her hair by the base. Play with niples, neck, back or other body parts. Sex is the entire body talking, not only a penis/vagine monologue.
6 - Make porn an inspiration for new positions and variations, not a model of sex to follow. Real good sex is not porn. Don't be shy to do new things.
>>8573456
I don't wish I were you. I spent many more of my early years getting laid than you did. You can't ever get those back.
>>8558250
This is smart.
>>8550689
Yes. A million times yes. I swear to god its like these rejects get paid everytime they say it
>>8550689
They are little cowards who are afraid to let their women be free, so they don't want yours to be free either. Obviously, people are call everything 'cuck' have trouble competing with other men.
>>8547669
You're delusional, that's not how sex works. Either you're both good or you're both bad. Guys need to know what she wants just as much as girls need to know what he wants.
If she was bad, you were obviously doing something wrong, so you're bad too. Just because you got off doesn't mean you were good
>>8545693
Okay, this board is the last place I would of expected to see Godspeed You! Black Emperor being brought up. Spot on though
>>8547652
Wow, really nice! Have to fap.. NOW!
Anybody sauce?
>>8566706
A good start is to consider what they might be doing if they are uncomfortable. They might endure a bit of pain if they think you're enjoying yourself, so won't tell you. Keep an eye on writhing movements. maybe she's having a good time, maybe it's time to put on more lube.
>>8557063
Research is great.
Honestly all the virgin things about being bad, coming early and being super nervous are just possibilities. They can be true. Statistically they might be true for a majority of people.
They absolutely do not have to be correct at all.
I lasted long my first time,it was great and she came + complimented me. We never talked about if it was my first time.
Sex is not rocket science. Its just sex. Don't be scared.
Reading guides helps and massively improves technique (how to eat pussy).
Also being 23 and virgin is not really embarrassing. Lying about it is though.
>>8545693
just put on my skinny fists vinyl... thanks anon. gonna apply this
Bumping for moar, great thread
OP how she get her titties to do that thang?
>>8543303
Lmao look at these monkeys
What about tongue piercing, any advice how to do oral with this?
>>8577572
be fair, theyre subs and pleasers.
>>8558250
>tfw like 5.25" dick
>>8577572
Go back to /pol/ you piece of shit.
>>8558250
This is all great advice,
You'll learn to feel the pressure building along her front wall, you sort of want to tickle it out of course while being rhythmic. Once you learn to feel this you'll be able to play with her orgasm, teasing and edging her until you want her to come. Also the often the fastest way to have her come is to let her ride. Your dick will be in a good position to hit her g-spot and this also gives her control of the rhythm she wants.
Lastly find a condom that fits your dick, it took me years to realize how shitty most are. Don't buy into the magnum/Trojan hype train, Do some real research and experimentation and figure out what's best for you.
For my dick:
Shit Teir: Lifestyles, Trojan's, Free-give away brands
Ok Tier: Durex
God Tier: One Condom brand
>>8578096
>iimplying the adivce in this thread isn't for straight women and gay men as well
>>8543117
>good at sex
doing what you both enjoy
>bad at sex
anything else
>>8578136
this is the most mature response I have ever seen on this board.
>>8578116
kek i dont imply but i dont disagree either. to be completely honest im okay with pleasing my girl at points too but it doesnt get me off. im happy that shes happy but im not really horny either.
when i was younger id be like "tits... pussy..." *max boner* .. *gets blowjob* -explode-
now im just like "bitch if you dont work for it im done with this"
>>8578154
do you mean least opinionated? does that imply maturity?
>>8555987
double nigger
>>8563734
Abella Anderson. She is incredible.... I wouldn't last too long in her.
I got the only technique you need right here big boy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tn5ywPFetAY
>>8570628
creamy! Madison Chandler.. anyone know the guys name?
>>8570628
creamy! Madison Chandler
>>8556986
dont listen to the others in this thread.
>Lost virginity at 23.
>Didn't tell my girlfriend I was a virgin.
>She just thought I wasn't great at sex.
Later she admitted if she knew I was a Virgin, she wouldn't have dated or even fucked me. We have been together for over 3 years now.
>>8578028
>dude who isn't a low test faggot
>/pol/
Slice lengthwise.
>>8574732
>forget abour yourself and give her as much pleasure as you can. It will repay later when she comes back for more and may even tell her friends.
Why do people pretend that beta male game works?
>Asking 4chan for good sexual technique.
Is that wise?
>>8578114
Skyn are amazing and can be bought everywhere, One are kinda low key right now and you cant get the "fitted" ones yet
>>8546047
had to be
>>8574732
I agree for most parts of this except for Number 1.
Your first time is for you only. If its hers as well, shell be enjoying it anyways, don't pressure yourself into trying to please her from the start. I did that, was tense, and it fucked up my experience, and hers as well of course.
I (having had sex hundreds of time by now) can only say that women appreciate being manhandled a bit, they want to feel your strength, but thats advanced stuff, dont try that from the start, you might end up frightening her, find out together with her what she wants and needs. This includes pulling her hair (just right), moving her around, telling her what to do and so on. But there as always are differences, so communicate.
What I discovered for myself is that the way I am enjoying their body by touching and feeling it naturally turns them on, dont be shy to grab her wherever, just maybe stay away from her genitals for the first minute (unless her body language tells you differently ofc)
And yes, women dig muscle, so maybe get some but dont overdo it. You dont want to look like Arnie, hes just ridiculous.
Slender physique is what your looking for.
(Ottermode with just a bit fat to cover the ribs is perfect but not imperative)
Just dont be the ultra skellington or the landwhale that loses 3L of sweat while at it.
You're welcome
>>8577954
whats your point? thats how big most people are and we've been having sex longer than we've been human. chill out bruh no problems with a standard dick
>>8578434
>And yes, women dig muscle, so maybe get some but dont overdo it. You dont want to look like Arnie, hes just ridiculous.
>Slender physique is what your looking for.
>(Ottermode with just a bit fat to cover the ribs is perfect but not imperative)
>Just dont be the ultra skellington or the landwhale that loses 3L of sweat while at it.
Don't even worry about looks, very few women actually get hung up on physical appearance. Don't have a smelly dick, trim your nails and brush your teeth. That's all you really need to worry about.
>>8578362
The same reason people believe that women don't care about looks: It suits them to do so.
>>8577572
Look at this small, petty manchild. Stay angry anon.
>>8578114
sauce sauce sauce
>>8577954
lol not sure where you got measurements from i took alot of time to have the instruction as universal as possible.
lol in fact desu i have a rather large penis so i had a hard time wording it at first (as i stated) so people smaller or even larger would have the same and precise instruction.
>>8578114
need sauce on this
>>8578463
>Don't even worry about looks, very few women actually get hung up on physical appearance
fatass detected
>>8578276
"Later she admitted if she knew I was a Virgin, she wouldn't have dated or even fucked me"
doubt that is legit but if it is you're bitch is fucked in the head
>>8543132
>>8543145
>>8558270
>>8574153
>>8574155
Sofia Char Bangbros casting
>>8546382
I wouldn't say sex is all about foreplay but doing it, taking your time, it builds up excitation.
>>8557278
Because no one on 4chan is capable of admitting they need help with anything, or that someone was helpful.
...faggot?!
>>8579935
OR because he was to stupid to realize hie 2/10 post wasnt as helpful as the posts that have gotten dozens of replies
>>8579498
lol u betcha
>>8543117
Finishing first.
>>8547647
>http://www.redtube.com/759208
found something
>>8543132
Ricki Ortiz
>>8555986
>good technique
No, that's having a big cock.
>>8545852
jesus christ why would you post that?
i feel suicidal
