/fit/ how would you change your early life if you had the chance to reset?
Kek did he realize it was a man
Not ask parents for whatever the latest Nintedo product that was out, and asked for some exercise equipment.
>>37621832
The dude who is red from laughing informs him
I would have dated the chunky girl with the big tits who liked me & would have gotten the whole virginity out early. That would have changed my life into a whole different projectory
I originally wanted to say "don't be an oblivious faggot to the multiple chicks you could've banged but you were too busy being an edgy faggot". On reflection, however, I'm pretty happy with where I've ended up so changing anything would probably fuck that up.
>>37621852
Trajectory.
I'd like to say don't date that one girl that ruined a lot of stuff, but I'm probably better for it.
My Dad died when I was 16, I miss him, but because he died I wanted to be as big as he was so I started training, and I'm where I am now.
>>37621825
would have put down the hamburgers and kept playing football.
I would have brushed my goddamn teeth. I didn't start any sort of regular oral hygiene until my early teens, which was decidedly a mistake.
>>37621852
THIS
oh man, was I autistic.
>go to disneyland for field trip
>this tall korean girl with great tits really liked me because I was the only tall asian at our school
>she leaned on me, held my hand
>I thought I was gonna get mad pussy in highschool so I never advanced on her
and then
>prom night
>I was infuriated that my prom date had a boyfriend and didn't tell me
>my ugly friend had this prom date who I knew since 3rd grade
>that prom date really liked me and sat next to me in the limo, danced with me at prom, and even set me as her profile pic
>after prom she even told me she only went with him because she was afraid no one would ask her
>skip to today
>am a 21 year old kissless virgin
>haven't met any girls in college because engineering major
fucking kill me bros I'm human waste
I would lift earlier, this is number 1
Id give less of a fuck, especially about what people think of me, and focus more on doing what I like
I'd pursue every girl who showed any interest if she wasn't ugly
I wouldn't settle down with a gf so early (22 now,)
I'd get good grades in school because I'm smart enough, and it's not just 'for nerdy losers'
But most of all, I'd start lifting earlier (and eating of course)
>>37621825
by taking school alot more seriously instead of obsessing over diq.
>>37621825
>stop guzzling soy milk as a kid
>stop eating cereal with milk every day as a kid
>be active, lift weights while going through puberty
>refrain from drinking/eating from plastics
God damn I hate estrogen, thanks for the gyno and wide hips
>>37621825
I would've tried harder in swimming and hit the weight room occasionally.
I had the FRAME to be pretty good at swimming, built like a phelps, but my folks made me swim so goddamn frequently and from such an early age I just hated it. My fault, I was undisciplined as a kid. From puberty on I got rebellious, put less effort into workouts and focused on dumb shit like grrls, friends, trying to steal booze from my dad, etc. I swam competitively on clubs and in school through high school and consistently did ok but never really excelled, didn't care at the time.
Some of my more focused peers went on to ivys on athletic scholarships, my life is pretty much on track but I find myself craving the prestige every once in a while.
Like my whole situation is a 8/10, happy with my personal life/professional life/workout balance but if I'd had the focus or drive or whatever I could have nuked professional and personal but been 10/10 athletic.
Anybody relate to this?
>>37621901
why does an engineering major keep you from meeting girls?
Do cardio and calisthenics as a kid, start working out properly at 14 and not eat and drink complete shit for 18 years. Don't give up on rugby, don't be a complete pussy around girls and actually go to parties instead of playing halo and jacking off. Also actually sleep instead of playing video games and only getting 4-6 hours a night between 14 and 18. Maybe get into business/finance as well rather than STEM.
>>37621927
I doubt you would've consumed enough estrogen to cause gyno and wide hips, most likely genetic or bad luck in the epigenetics department.
PS estrogen is a steroid too, absolutely necessary in high volumes for muscle growth and sexual health as a male.
>>37621841
THIS. My dad was a bodybuilder and judoka during his teens and twenties and had a lot of old bodybuilding mags. I remember seeing Arnie, Zane and Reeves and wanting to be like them and the DBZ characters. I was just too afraid to ask for some weights and to try out the BJJ school. And then did kickboxing as well.
>>37621901
>21
>soon to be engineering major
You're definitely gonna make it brah. Keep lifting and when you get a great job you'll get whichever woman you want.
>>37621906
All of this too, especially about others' opinions. Nothing matters if you're bettering yourself and happy.
>>37621938
heres a pic of an actual female in the engineering department.
>>37621893
Fuck man me too
I haven't ever really tried to fix the color yet, is there anyway to make them white again?
>>37621973
I guess what I'm trying to say is why not meet girls outside of your classes/ the engineering building or section of campus
Gotta say wouldn't change a thing I know it's a bit cheesy but who I am today is because of my mistakes and the lessons learnt, even the small things could have had a large effect on Me. And I'm a bit scared of what kind of person I could have been, for example could be still smoking, could've never joined the gym, might not be mates with the friends I have now. All I can hope for is I won't make the same mistakes again
>>37621991
im not the original guy but there are two main reasons i can think of. engineers are generally autists (several guys in my classes who are virgins, several more who have only been with one girl), and spending so much time in the engineering department leaves less time for you to spend outside of it when females are actually attending classes (i took night classes my first semester and literally thought there was a 9/1 male to female ratio).
>>37621825
I would start my business when I was a teen and be fuckin rich. 12 years of work doing what I do now? Shit son...
To all my pepes - stop worrying about what you did or didn't do before. You know what you want to do now, that is all that matters.
Nothing is stopping you, except yourself.
NOBODY else is going to push you, so you have to move yourself forward.
You're a top of the fucking food chain human being, with more control over your environment than 99% of species on this planet. Quit watching porn, stop fantasizing about ridiculous possibilities, and get your feet back on the ground. Live in the now. Go out, mingle, do things you like and you'll meet people you like. Keep learning, and keep growing.
Would excercise more and dont eat as much so I didn't become obese and have to handle with loose skin now.
Would've done more for school.
Would've called the cops on my dad everytime he beated the shit out of my sister, brother, mom or me.
Would've beaten the shit out of the the neighbour across the street before he could abuse my sister.
Would'e taken my sisters suicide threaths more seriously and watch out more for her.
Wouldn't let my brother get high or accept it before he becomes a junkie.
>>37621980
you can get crest whitestrips on amazon that work pretty well. And if you're bold you can go to your dentist and they'll blast your mouth with the same shit that's in the strips but more concentrated
>>37621825
I would've told my parents I like drinking tea.
Also that I'm trans.
>>37622024
Similar feels brah
>be me
>11th grade
>get offered a work program at the state's best insurance company
>would have had to leave school for it
>parents wouldn't let me because they thought grade 12 and a degree were more valuable
>in the shit now because of it
I would have my own house and home gym now had they let me do what I wanted, and would have gotten a degree or two anyway. But they just wouldn't fucking listen.
>>37622017
Yeah I've heard it's an intensive degree. So the time spent in classes studying means it's your only pool for new people, and all the people are dudes. Makes sense.
Sorry to original guy, sounds hard maybe you can time manage your way into a free weekend evening and head to one of your colleges bars to meet new people or something
I don't look backwards. I'm glad of where I am now. That said I would've laid off the sweets.
>>37621825
DONT PLUCK YOUR MOUSTACHE IN MIDDLE SCHOOL YOU LITTLE SHIT YOULL BE 23 WITH SHIT FACIAL HAIR
Also start getting into guns earlier and your mom is going to die in a few years you little fag :^)
I would tell myself this
>>37622017
>engineers are generally autists
here's the real problem. it doesn't matter how busy or how many/few girls they see if they can't talk effectively to any of them.
Can't I just have a save point? This route is awesome, but the others might be cool too.
start lifting seriously when younger though for sure
>>37622058
Do they work? If you stop using them do they go back to yellow or are they gonna be good for good?
i would start everything sooner
working out sooner
buying a guitar sooner
really put effort into college sooner
starting dating sooner
just basically everything but sooner
>>37622148
This
Also I would invest into Netflix before it became big.
>>37622123
undiagnosed autist here, its super easy to talk to girls if you have a good reason, but just approaching them randomly just saying some random bs is litterally impossible.
>>37621973
there's like three females in 3rd year civil engineering, and they either have a monobrow or aspergers
>>37622123
this is true. some are fairly decent looking guys and most are pretty bright as well. makes me wonder whats going on to cause this.
>>37622182
this is fairly normal, i think.
>>37622188
im 2nd year and i know of one female. i could probably pull it off but shes fully convinced shes marrying her current boyfriend and im not interested in all that drama.
>>37621825
Actually googled what I needed to do to gain weight/muscle before starting to workout
Googled "RSD" and "oneitus" before high school
Learned how to run a single play before trying out for the high school basketball team as a point guard.
Still hang out with the cool church kids but not taken the whole Christianity thing seriously enough to wait until I was 20 to start trying to lose my virginity.
i would not listen to a single advice concerning women or other kids that my single mum gave me
I feel like she wanted me not to get laid and to be bullied
>dont be cocky anon treat every girl with respect, dont be like your father (whom i wont ever let you meet)
>just get out of the way of the kids that bully you honey
>you dont wear the clothes i made you? Why does every male in my family not love me? First your father now you.... Its alright anon dont be sorry here just wear this sweater wizh kittens on it that i knitted
srs fuck you mum
>>37621825
>easily done
keep swimming
>not so simple, but could've been done
proper diet
>impossibru tier
being born to different parents, even though I have decent genes
>>37621888
>>37621980
Those strips and that procedure really, REALLY fuck the sensitivity of your teeth up. Brush 3 or 4 times a week with baking soda. It has to be one day brushing with it and one day of not brushing with it. Unfortunately, the meme of activated charcoal works. Mix that in, too. This is still damaging after time so only do it to see results.
Stay away from red wines and coffee, famalam.
I wish I hadn't become anorexic and bullimic or work all those jobs while working out and going to high school. Wish I could go back and eat better and not fuck my shit up.
>>37622209
I saw you go for whatever you can at the moment. Make sure you don't catch any feelings and then get confident enough to get new girl outside your circle of intimacy. Seriously, all you need to do is keep an approachable face, keep you chin up, not be a complete creep.
>>37621825
i wouldn't change anything, i reap what i have sewn and it is what it is
>>37621901
>haven't met any girls in college because engineering major
that feel, lol. I had 3 girls on CS. 2 did not pass the first year and the one who did was overweight.
>>37621825
Probably rape myself.
Would that be considered masturbation or incest?
>>37621825
>/fit/ how would you change your early life if you had the chance to reset?
Choose a better career path, and get on the ball early. I got my shit together a bit late.
>go back and tell myself to lift in highschool!
yeah no, getting jacked is not high on the priority list.
>>37623175
think it's gay above all else
>>37623211
But is it really? since it's yourself.
Inst that like saying masturbating is pretty gay cause your touching a dick and getting covered in jizz
>>37623225
if you get covered in jizz when you're masturbating you're gay.
>>37623233
Life is strange
I'd probably pick up boxing
Start boxing at 12, not fucking taekwondo. If you must do
Start lifting earlier
Tell 6-11 year old me not to throw food out because youre a shitcunt who read about people not having much to eat and thinking this made you better or noble (srs)
Join the army sooner (2010/11, straight out of school, almost fucking peacetime bro) and apply for the civvie coppers immediately after doing my four
Failing that, start my trade as i did and apply for the reserves in my trade role and do that while doing my apprenticeship, then apply for the MPs
Get with that blonde bitch who was so blatantly hitting on me at that pool/bbq party, fucking autist
Most importantly, either dont get involved with the girl with the flower name, shes gonna die and youll blame yourself. Or do, and actually stop her.
Also, the girl with the other flower name at the clothes store is so blatantly hitting on you, a child could see it. Srs, shes even giggling and twirling her hair you fucking pleb
>>37621847
>the dude
>dude
>not giraffe
never play videogames
play sports and read more
>>37623461
story time?
Not eat fucking pizza rolls, bagel bites, and excessive amounts of cheese and nutella every day. Join a sport or active club of some sort, probably track, soccer, or volleyball. I would have kept perfecting my drawing skills and tried harder to get into those art middle and high schools I didn't get into. I would stop myself from losing my virginity at 14 andand actually save it for marriage with someone important.
Lie to everyone and about everything.
don't live off of 2 litres of coke and a packet of cookies a day through puberty. Its why I have little bitch wrists and hands.
>>37623603
This
Fuck videogames
Instead of playing playstation I could have been developing my athletic skills to become a chad in highschool
I literally had no friends because all the cool kids talked about sports and all the losers talked about videogames
I didn't fit in with the cool kids and I hated the autistic losers
Start lifting and reading earlier, don't spend stupid amounts of money on girls
Stop waiting
>>37621825
start playing guitar at 4.
die drug-related death about... now
DO NOT BUY A PLAYSTATION
NEVER TOUCH VIDEOGAMES
NEVER BUY A COMPUTER
SMASH YOUR TV
DOOOOOO IIIIIIIIT
>>37622057
Jesus dude, that's awful, sorry bout all that
get hgh
start working early
change timing of army
be more social
invest early
keep in contact with my loaded extended family
I would have been born to a different family with better genetics, more wealth, caring, educated, and knowledgeable parents, and superior citizenship.
>>37622896
It's easy to see how the rise of single motherhood correlates with the destruction of masculinity.
>>37621825
be safer playing sports (I fucked my shit up) and play more of them.
care more about school and do my fucking homework
Make sure to take finasteride to keep my hair.
Finish college.
Gone to prom
I would have improved my diet, asking mom abd dad for healthier options. Id also be active in sports, get better grades, and would not have gotten rid if my toys. Alot of the toys I had were collectable, and I highky regret opening them to play with. I also would see if I could get a head start on the hobbies I enjoy now.
>Never stop lifting
>Compete in power lifting when I was handed the opportunity on a silver plate
>Take interest in engineering/mechanics and music earlier/get "proper" hobbies
>Never browse 4chan
>>37621825
He was attracted to her before, why does him being a man change anything?
>>37621825
I would beat up my abusive mother, my incompetent and arrogant brother, and the school bullies that I was specifically told by the teachers to not retaliate against because I was the second tallest kid/teen in school and had a strong build.
I regret, I regret, I REGRET each and every punch and kick I didn't throw.
>>37622135
yeah they work
the best fucking investment you can make for your teeth is an electric tooth brush. Shit keeps my teeth looking fucking amazing. Flossing helps too, try to do it couple times a week at least.
Cutting out on pop/sugar helps a lot too for long term.
>>37621931
Yes bro. I was academically perfect until my junior year of high school. I could've easily made the Ivies if I'd kept up my work ethic and actually tried on my applications and done some volunteering. But my shit just slipped and I fell into this self-doubting depression. Somehow I miraculously kept my 4.0 but I let everything else go and now I'm at a state school. It sucks to know I could've done better for myself.
I also hit puberty late in high school and grew from manlet to 6'3" in the space of a year but I had been so skinny and lacking in confidence I didn't even try to go out for sports. If I had just gained 20 lbs or so the football team would've salivated over me but I sat at home and played WoW like a tard.
Life sucks but I guess we learn our lessons.
If you wanna change your past, you're unfit to change your future
This is my #1 fantasy.
The worst part is that every year that passes I wish I could go back even just one year and not fuck up the way I did
>dont be an angry nerd that got guilted by my father into hating fun and girls because I "had to" be a perfect sport kid
>all those girls that I could have had a chance with had i not been a turbo autist and had I put one ounce of care into my appearance
>start lifting at 16 not fucking 22
>dont waste a year of my life in biz school, de facto losing one year to my friends
>actually study CS and not waste 3 other years
I know I'm not gonna make it, just waiting for my parents to die and me to just live by and try and scrap money together
>>37625324
if you dont know how to dance, you didn't miss anything
>>37621931
relate to a spoiled guy that is fit, has a nice job, had luck with girls with an all aroudn great life that still finds something to complain about ?
no
>>37621825
O-oh boy!
>Stand up to every single time I was being bullied
>Join cadets
>Take martial arts classes
>Get more sleep
>Work ass off on grades, get into fucking elite university
>Learn to code, learn a foreign language
>Take public speaking classes
I probably wouldn't even lift if I did all of the above in my youth. Of course, I still can do all of them, but boy if only I had all of these skills already!
>>37621825
>go back to 2008
>read the sticky faggot
>no not just sean9mm retard, the whole sticky
>don't squat on the Smith machine what are you doing
>read the sticky
>also a year from now you'll be hooking up with a friend. Don't GF her.
>or don't do any of this, you'll come back to /fit/ in 5 years still a fat fuck
>>37621825
Get it on with Lucia, a hot italian girl i met at dancing lessons 12y ago and never had a clue about all the signals because autism.
>>37621938
No girls in the program and a Fuckton of work so less free time to look for one.
>Get me off this ride
>>37621825
I'd start lifting at 16.
I'd work during my highschool years.
I'd avoid dating the slutty popular girls because I clearly wasn't alpha enough to have them faithful.
>>37623142
You don't want to brush with baking soda it will fuck up the enamel on your teeth
>>37621852
>Have never even been to a dance or on a date with a grill.
>Been making gains all through school year
>Go on field trip with 4 girls
>Talk about "how much they love me"(in joking way)
>Talk with football bro about lifting on ride home
>Break phone
>Get Snapchat to finally work on new replacement phone a week later
>See I got lewd Snapchat from one of the qts the day after the trip
>Its a video of her in bikini in tub
>Try to turn up volume
>Shitty phone spazzes out, says "cannot record video"
>Freak out and wonder if it told them I tried to record the snap, even though I didn't.
>Can't talk to the qt because I don't have her Snapchat, it was off her friends Snapchat she sent this to me.
>School ends
>Quit job with other qts(story for another time)
>Relapse on nofap
>Need to prepare to endure another summer as a lonely kissless virgin.
Fucking why? Is volcel wizardry the true red pill? Does love even exist outside of dreams?
>>37627309
Because you're an over thinking douche.
Simple solution was to tell the bitch what happened and get her to send more
>>37627351
I do not have her Snapchat senpai. As I said, it was from a mutual friends account.
>>37622188
The ratio in my 3rd year class of electrical engineering has like a 10 to 1 male to female ratio. The course load gets ridiculous too so ya get me off this ride.
>>37622047
This
>>37627402
ask the friend for it
>>37625324
Overrated as hell, and I got laid all 5 times I went. I would've gotten laid anyway and wouldn't have spent money and time for an experience that wasn't very fun.
>>37621901
look in your liberal arts general requirement classes. All the women are in english, history, whatever.
t. engineering major with gf in Art history
>>37621825
By killing myself earlier
>>37621825
hell no dude
>>37622120
plucking hair wont make it grow weird, thats your cuck genetics
dont hate yourself
love yourself
>try harder in school
>realize drugs are ok in moderation but aren't as "cool" as they are made out to be
>don't drink all the time it will give problems down the road
>>37621825
Fucking traps, why do they feel the need to go for straight guys?
>>37625955
Am I spoiled if I'm aware that I'm well off and do my best to help others up with whatever resources and knowledge I have?
I love you guys. Im not arrogant enough to think I have enough to give that it'd make a difference but I'm giving all I can anyway.
>>37628975
Just keep in mind that you're lucky and I'm mad at you because I am not and there is nothing I can do about it other than get mad at you
>>37628989
You're entitled to that, sorry life dealt you a shit hand. Proud of you for playing it anyway anon, you're a stronger man than me.
>>37621825
I would have stopped wasting time playing video games all day and made some real freinds who i would go out with. I'd talk to girls and maybe get a GF and be much more experienced, i'd play a team sport, i'd try harder in school.
Instead i'm underdeveloped socially, have no real freinds, KV and failing at school.
>>37627720
I would take Calculus 1 again. Only class I ever failed in college because I didn't give a shit.
I was too insecure to do anything about all the girls who I later knew liked me when I was growing up. When I finally did become brave enough to date and have relationships, I was a clingy shitweasel.
So many spent opportunities, and then so many unnecessary fuckups...
I'd like to go back in time and unsperg myself do it all right again.
>>37621893
The feels are what make us strong.
>>37629523
Meant for
>>37621888
>>37629098
The only mistake you can make is not trying now, anon.
Be born into a family that had their shit together. Failing that realizing that I need to divorce my self-worth from my background and actual enjoy my life.
Stop running away from any kind of social interaction. Now I'm a 27 virgin with no friends, been trying to fix this shit for the past couple months. It's so hard to make friends when you don't have any, much less get a date. This is probably the hardest thing I've ever done. Don't be like me, take a chance with her, or you'll have a life full of regrets.
>>37625137
Basically, this.
>>37621825
Fuck where you're from
Fuck where you're goin'
It's all about where you're at
not been born to an abusive family
maybe not been born at all
>>37621901
there were 3 datable girls in my cs program. a 9/10 taken white hottie. 8/10 cutie girl. 6/10 okayish
>>37625137
I won my playstation. loop hole.
I would have told myself it doesn't get better and I should have killed myself quickly and painlessly when I had the chance
>>37630532
fark. working on getting a job in another state. move out west and reset my life. maybe you should do the same.
>>37621825
Start working out at age 14.
My whole life would be significantly better.
Still, I can fix things and am right on track to do so. I have very few regrets.
Realize that acting less intelligent than you really were and intentionally doing bad in school didn't make you cooler.
Not have gone to that party the other day
>Get invited to party of popular people with the college hard guys and sluts
>Only ever been to one other party
>Immediately get made fun of as soon as I turn up as sluts can't believe i actually went
>None of my real friends get invited so I spend most of the time in the recliner watching the euros
>group of girls call me over and I actually get excited
>ends with them saying that they called me over for sympathy
>return to recliner
>See crush getting close to chad thundercock with her head against his chest and his hand around her waist
>Proceed to take shots until I forget it and where I was
>Walk home after seeing them both go upstairs
>Get home and proceed to vomit in my bed and pass out in it
>Next morning
>Massive hangover
>have to spend an hour in the shower until I stopped smelling like vomit
>Remember what I saw before I left
>Check facebook
>Crush is in a relationship with chad thundercock
>Cry
Why the fuck am I so pathetic
I'm starting to make it with my weight becasue I've lost 4 stone since the start of the year but mentally I'm still the weird autistic loser I don't want to be
>>37631133
>>None of my real friends get invited so I spend most of the time in the recliner watching the euros
Should have just taken a few shots and started chatting to people. You outcasted yourself.
There's not that many things I would drastically change, the person I am today is because of the choices and mistakes I made, as cheesy as it sounds
But I definately should've kept riding dirtbikes, I started when I was around 7-8 and quit when I was 15 because you have to put in a lot of work outside of riding, service, washing, etc and 15 year old me would rather play WoW on weekends...
>>37631169
Problem is what do you say
I was already seen as an outcast by everyone at the party
The sad thing is that I think they just invited me for a joke
>>37631042
>implying you were intentionally doing bad and not just being a lazy fuck
>>37621825
Do highschool all over again. It's very generic but I missed so much stuff and made so many bad decisions that I literally need to re-do everything.
>>37621825
If I was allowed to keep my memories, I wouldn't get fat.
>>37631235
>Problem is what do you say
Just feed off of whatever the conversation already is and take it in whatever direction you want.
>I was already seen as an outcast by everyone at the party
Someone at the party had to know who you were or they wouldn't have invited you.
>The sad thing is that I think they just invited me for a joke
I fail to see how having some mopey loser sitting in a chair for the entire night would bring them amusement.
>>37621825
I waste far too much time thinking about this. I hate going back and realizing in retrospect all the opportunities I had that I completely failed to see and take advantage of.
>>37622077
You're a pussy for just not leaving to have the job
>>37622800
>>37622800
my "cool church kids" were always at least stoned and none of them actually belived in god. they just didn't have anywere better to go
>>37625744
when I retaliated the teachers were on my side because the other kids had it coming.
didn't have many friends but at least they gave up on bullying me very fast
>>37631235
You're in uni, not a high school movie. You might have been a pity invite, but people don't invite people to parties unless they like you as a person. Take some shots as social lubricant, and join conversations. At some point, you just gotta go for it.
>>37625110
Yeah kinda regret not doing football, or even learning to play basketball as im 6 5 but eh im 19 now what am i gonna do
>>37631235
I have been exactly where you are anon, and not that long ago. Its hard and painful, but youll improve at it with time and experience
Try again.
My advice? Use alcohol. Alcohol is your friend
>>37621825
Would have partied less freshmen year of college. Would have fucked more girls and not fucked up my GPA so I would have a chance to get into a better medical school.
Probably should have joined the Army straight out of high school like I wanted
>>37621825
Would have started lifting at 17.
Would not get hooked on vidya.
Would have stuck with art lessons, writing, basketball, and swimming.
Started doing all these things again at 25. Have made good progress but it's not the same as if I had never quit.
Bros, it's really best not to think about this shit.
OH, IF I'D KNOWN BACK THEN.
Imagine if you'd known about Google in 1995 or something, before it became a huge thing. What would you have done with the knowledge? You wouldn't have had the connections or capital to invest in it, to begin with.
In fact, you would be feeling worse because you had an opportunity but couldn't take it. That would make you feel like an idiot.
>>37631838
le dae party hard and fuck all the girls yet is still smart enough to be a doctor xd
I've been a complete loser for my entire life (24 years old, kissless virgin, haven't had friends since middle school) but the weird thing is I honestly don't know what I would change or tell myself to make my life better.
Maybe going on adderall or ritalin as a kid, because I'm weird and annoying?
I guess maybe making my parents have another kid? I'm an only child and whenever I tell anyone that they say that "it explains everything" about me, like I'm the poster child of why only children are socially weird.
I also have a weird looking face and I'm also emaciatingly skinny, but I don't think lifting would have helped that, I mean obviously it wouldn't hurt, but it isn't like I would get girls because of it.
And the being weird and annoying thing made me alone through high school, so i got to college and didnt know how to socialized and stayed alone there too
i have no idea
>>37631877
Being reflective of the past is a good way to see where you're at and can be motivating for oneself to not be sitting on 4chan in another 5-10 years time writing the same shit.
For some people here, nothing will change.
>>37625137
Still have never had a console at 29.
>Would be even more of a fat abomination if I did, thank fuck.
>>37625324
Went to all 3 senior proms.
Had a fucking great time coz I was so insanely drunk.
Didn't even get laid.
Got into a fight at the after party with a drunk native.
>>37625137
i never touched video games growing up and i still turned out a complete aspie loser
>>37627541
cool story, stud. you're cool
>>37621825
Go to boxing with the old man when he asks at 13.
>Seriously, you won't get fucked up, he just wanted you to be alpha like him.
>>37631235
>Invited as a joke
This doesn't happen. You either want someone there or you don't. They probably were giving you a chance and you just butchered it by not trying.
>>37632151
Sure, reflect, learn. What I'm saying is don't dwell on what-ifs. This is a big part of the reason why we harp on lifting. It's something that you actually do have control over, and can start at any time. Whether you start at 13 or 30 doesn't really matter.
I would have made the changes that I am struggling to make as a 24 year old at the age of 16. One of my greatest fault is that I always decide if I do or don't like something before giving it a chance, this doesn't make you very popular when you don't want to go out and try anything new. I also would have stopped putting women on a pedestal and wished that I would have realised at a much younger age that women are no different from them and they are not anything to be afraid of. They have the same desires wants fears and needs as men. Our society is so fucked up that it is teaching men that women are a different species and you should fear them. Perhaps it's the lack of Father figures we all have in our lives. I am now 24 years old, 6 months out of A6 year relationship and I am just starting to make it socially. If I had known how easy and how rewarding hooking up was at a younger age, I would have been doing this a long time ago. You don't really know how easy it is or what you are missing until you give it a real shot, this means putting yourself out there and probably embarrassing the shit out of yourself. If you are a kissless virgin, and you have at least some sort of Aesthetics and body going for you do me a favor, accept and understand that women want to fuck you. Drill it into your mind that women want to fuck you. If you don't believe this, you will never get laid
And for God's sake stop putting women on a fucking pedestal. They are a dime a dozen
>>37632712
>beginning reads like some sad kissless virgin post, i didnt have a father figure, society puts women on a pedestal
>was in a 6 year relationship
fuck off
>>37632754
Sorry you can't relate to me brother but just know, your virginity is showing
Spend time learning everything I could about life and being a man from my dad before he passed away.
>>37632002
Right there with you friendo, also weird and annoying. Started this reply with the intention of telling you to keep your chin up but fuck, idk
Feelsbad.
>>37621825
Lift earlier, be a little more social, and do things I was actually interested in rather than letting my parents railroad my life.
Seriously anons, don't be fucking overbearing helicopter/tiger parents. You're not creating good little angels. You're creating drones that can't tell the difference between your desires and their own.
>>37621825
>keep in touch with childhood friend and maybe banged/dated her years later.
>take Karate and Judo seriously enough to possibly get athletic scholarship with it.
>stop being a fucking autist and take those hints girls would throw at me.
>don't work hard on 2 part-time jobs just to be able to shut myself in for 3 months
>not stay in that shit hole job with no advancement just because I was low-maintenance and didn't need much to survive
>start university sooner.
>don't ever go to /fit/ or 4chan for that matter
but what's the point in brooding over it now eh?
>>37621938
Usually the best ratio you can hope for in an engineering program at a non engineering specific school is like 1:5 or 1:6 female to male. At actual engineering schools, it's more like 1:7 or 1:8 and even the pretty ones ain't worth too much.
>>37621938
A lot of engineering majors blame the fact that their program doesn't have many girls for the reason why they don't have a girlfriend.
But don't be fooled. While it is true that engineering programs have few girls, the types of guys who can't get girls are drawn to engineering for a reason. They are typically the socially awkward nerds who can't talk to girls anyway
>>37632964
I've always been like a class clown. Not overly loud and obnoxious in class, but like in school, I always had people to talk to. People have always said how funny I am and laugh at stuff I say and all that. But it has just never turned into friendship or relationships or anything like that.
I would have cut out my autistic period during elementary school. Other than that my only real problem was I was a little hyperactive in HS and I'm much more relaxed now.
Kill myself earlier
>>37633589
And I would havetried to be more active in elementary school and actually worked out properly in highschool
>>37621901
Damnnn, are u me? Im korean and had similar experiences where I didn't make any efforts to get laid in high school and now I am in an engineering school where girls is 20% and they are weird af. We gon get through this man
>>37621948
Same here, STEM was a mistake. Its just too much fucking work
>>37622188
man the ratio in my third 3 civil eng. is like 1/3
Piano lessons early.
More math
Gymnastics
>>37623248
Yes but can you check out the dubs on that guys post? Wow!
>>37621825
I would take my political knowledge and change the world
Never play WoW in high school. I quit sports because of it, could have gotten an easy letter made gains. I lifted the end of my senior year and was chad in 2 years. I tried out for the baseball college team and made it, I was batting third because of my muscles and my sexy batting average.
>I miss sports, but oh well, I don't want to get hit by another baseball and miss 3 weeks of lifting
>>37621841
Fuck that, ask for facebook/google stock.
>>37621927
>guzzling soy milk
BUT WHY? It tastes awful.
>>37621825
Treated my ex wife better
>>37627697
It will. Plucking often causes scarring eventually, which causes hairs not to grow in that place anymore.
>>37621901
Just use tinder for temporary relationships assuming your decent looking, just know a lot of girls on there are broken in some way.
I was fat until I was 17, so I would have NOT stuffed my face with ranch covered potatoes and started exercising while I was still a kid.
Don't smoke so much pot you retard.
Stay with that girl for longer, it's worth it.
Stick to a god damn diet and exercise plan, you could look great and not have to basically restart at 19.
Stand up for yourself more, hit the motherfucker.
Get into guns at 18 because aks are cheaper then.
>>37621825
>On tinder chatting with a grill
>Make shit joke
>Ok champ
>Overanalyze and think about this for a week
Fuck me ,I would have to start everything all over gain to not be this much of a pussy
>>37621825
never get fat
>>37621825
Joined the soccer team at school. Be more proactive in my drawings. Realize how many girls I could've gotten with easily in high school.
>>37625928
Ayy underrated post, fa'am.
>>37621825
I'd take fitness more seriously from a younger age and do the bare minimum in school.
Stuck with wrestling after sophomore year of HS. Fucked indiscriminately instead of hardly at all.
>>37629619
Just what i needed to hear. We're gonna make it bro
>>37621825
Yes
Instead of playing runescape I would get into sports
Soccer or football
I'd probably be an alpha by now
I would have read the stick when I was 19 instead of 24. I thought I was cursed. Missed out on some high potential gains years
>>37621825
I'd take the fucking scholarships.
Drop ROTC take up wrestling
Start actually lifting instead of just the pushups and situps and cardio.
get out more and build that self confidence.
Bang the qt3.14s who were into me that I was oblivious to or thought wanted to just hurt me.
Not tell anyone about the psychological issues.
Never play warcraft.
Replace a few of those fantasy novels with some philosophy.
Start meditating for the panic attacks and anxiety.
Don't wait so long to ask out that cute little redhead it turns out great.
