well, have you?
yeah, tinder is easymode if you have face+abs
bonus points if you're tall too
>>37422322
well, 1 is more than 0, so yes. not really sure if working up to a 5plate squat just for one 6/10 was worth it though.
Started getting more when I stopped because I was on a sports team in college. Sloots are easier to bang when they go to your team's parties. In that period I lost 15lbs but I picked it up lifting again and now I'm lonely being back home for summer.
Maybe whats it 2 yah
Yeah, slept with half of HR at my job
>>37422337
are abs enough for tinder even if your arms, chest and other muscles are dyel by /fit/ standards?
>>37422322
more mires, people are friendlier
>>37422376
fit has such a warped idea of whats fit. Most girls thing being around otter mode is being ripped. Abs are basically all you need for 95% of girls.
>>37422322
No but I've gotten more attention from men~
>>37422459
lol wtf bro
Yes but not as many as I did when I realised that I wasn't bad looking after all.
That's the key, compare yourself to the average, not the best.
Guys hit on me more.
>>37422400
yeah, but I'm actually kinda dyel even by normie standards desu
should I focus on getting abs or get a little bigger first if my main focus is getting girls on tinder?
>>37422496
If you have a nice set of abs I think you should push for that since that's a faster route if all you care about is chicks on tinder.
There's no body that will appeal to all women but I definitely see having abs as one of the most important things on most girls lists when it comes to their idea of "fit"
>>37422523
>>37422496
now that I think about it, I think I'm gonna leanbulk for like a month more and then cut for the sloots
thx mane
>tfw 0x0=0
>>37422322
who cares, who cares about girls. parasites
Since getting my heart shattered by my ex i worked out consistently and made a huge amount of gains in the past 7 or so months. Since then ive fucked four different girls. Although its easier to get more girls, ive become numb to it. Everything is purely physical. I have yet to actually start liking someone and at this point id rather be dedicated to one girl i really like rather than fucking for sport but all i find are ditzy bitches with no personality. At least I look good at the beach i guess
Yeah, it's hard to do worse than zero
>>37422322
Yes but then I realized how much time they take up and how much they were ruining my routine.
>being attracted to out of control western whores who have been infected with cultural Marxism
Work to build yourself. Disregard everyone.
>>37422618
>implying I'm not an out-of-control whorish western male
I focus on self development but nothing makes me happier than whores. Can't help it.
>>37422595
>Since getting my heart shattered by my ex i worked out consistently and made a huge amount of gains in the past 7 or so months. Since then ive fucked four different girls. Although its easier to get more girls, ive become numb to it.
Same except more than four. I don't think I'll ever love again, even though love was what motivated me to better myself.
>>37422618
This, but I am still gonna fuck them. Although it isnt easy with full prep fit.
A 100% increase.
If only I had known earlier that fitness would be an excellent solution to my slightly concave right chest ribs. I spend so many years angsting over that shit and just generally not caring about my looks.
>>37422322
With a meh face and a great body, people even refer me as "the buffed dude" but still seems like not enough for girls. Only had success with fatties that I obviously rejected.
I lift to be strong and fucking good at contact sports anyways.
Ever since I got fit
> 6 first dates
> 1 second date
> 0 third dates
>>37422749
>tfw Ted Cruz-tier hair at only 22, even with better than average face
So now my goal is basically the same. And I can destroy groups of pretty boys.
>>37422802
sounds like your appearance isn't the problem m80
>tfw might've matched with trappy on tinder
>>37422679
it feels weird as fuck man. I always thought being able to get girls easily would be great. My confidence, physical appearance and focus improved altogether yet All i feel now is a bit empty inside after i fuck someone.
No. What's more, I realised that the problem of being a kissless virgin at the age of 28 will probably not be solved by kissing a random skank or going to a prositute.
>mfw
>>37422856
>What's more, I realised that the problem of being a kissless virgin at the age of 28 will probably not be solved by kissing a random skank or going to a prositute
Oh its much worse than you imagined friendo
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/03/on-late-in-life-virginity-loss/284412/
>According to a study published in the American Journal of Public Health, survey respondents who lost their virginities “late”—a mean age of 22—more frequently reported sexual problems than those who lost it at a “normative” age—a mean age of 17.5, in this study. These sexual problems include having trouble reaching orgasm, maintaining an erection, and becoming sexually aroused.
If you haven't lost your virginity by 22 see a prossie asap before you get more fucked up
>>37422856
do you live in the midwest? Come out with me bro I'll get girls for us
>>37422322
Nope, there are more lesbians than straight women these days.
>>37422939
>tfw 21
I need to get my shit together. I'm way too insecure
>>37423098
>Dr. Stephen Snyder, a sex therapist in New York City, has seen his share of sexual dysfunction among his male patients. These patients, who often are virgins or men who lost their virginities in their 20s or 30s, most commonly suffer from extreme shyness, social anxiety disorder, or anxiety about their bodies.
It's just going to get worse bbykeks
>>37422549
>tfw tall, fit, moderately attractive
>crippling social akwardness
Forever extra virgin olive oil for me.
>>37423121
Sounds about right. I should probably just kill myself, already been in therapy since I was 19 and making no progress
please help
What do I reply?
>>37422322
When you go to a 145 skeleton to a 185 big guy and a sloot licks your abs. Feels good mang
>>37423203
>you can study this dick
lifting opens doors confidence
confidence plus decent body opens doors to girls
You need social gains still to be able to do anything else. Most autists fake too much confidence and come off like assholes or get too submissive and clingy and lose the attraction. Treat a girl like you like her, but also in a way that you both know she's one of 3 billion on this planet and it's not going to be a big deal if things don't work out. You'll probably get laid, and then realize all you wanted was the ability to know you could get laid vs wanting a woman around in your life.
From there, once you stop being weird, you can actually work towards finding someone you can tolerate enough to trade your time and effort for continued sex and companionship.
Or just get a dog/cat bro and keep cycling through women and spend your time on hobbies and pursing your interests.
>>37423203
tell her love to travel and experience new cultures. Then tell her you broke your wrist in Tijuana wrestling a small midget and a livestock animal.
>>37423203
Make fun of her or turn it sexual or in best case scenario both
>>37423203
ask what the fuck is netball?
>>37423203
"Auwch. Sounds painfull. I hope you'll get better soon. What are you studying?"
No, I had the same shitty attitude so I didnt, im back to being chubby now though since getting fit didnt work
>>37423203
"sounds like a calcium deficiency, you should try GOMAD"
>>37423259
It's a sport a lot of girls in Australia/NZ play.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Netball
>>37423203
I want to put my balls in your net ; )
>>37423274
So it's like basketball that white people can win at
>>37423235
>>37423259
>>37423264
>>37423267
>>37423283
don't do these, tehse are fuck-boi rseponses. Keep your shit comical and lead the conversation. Do these >>37423250
>>37423243 except don't make it too sexual and say something dumb like "I wanna suck your pussy hole"
>>37422322
The more I gain, the hotter chicks I get
>>37422618
>why no, I choose to refrain from partaking in the nihilistic feast that is western society
>>37423203
sex is off the cards. shes fucking injured
>>37423299
>calls other comments about stupid sexual stuff fuckboi
>I wanna suck your pussy hole
>not fuckboi
king fuckboi
>>37423367
did you actually read the post? I said DON'T say that
>no reading comprehension
king fuckboi
>>37423203
You do not deserve to talk to someone you can't even fucking converse with, autist.
>>37422368
>two twinks
>entire HR department
doubt.jpg
>>37423395
Might be a small company that produces gay porn?
>>37422322
Nope. Still have been with the same one for 7 years.
>>37422472
compare yourself to nobody
>>37423240
Speaking of social gains I have a problem.
I'm not autistic. But I never go out. Never been to a party, other then the ones that my younger sister has thrown.
I don't go out on weekends. Never party or drink or anything. I lead a really active life with many hobbies but I never meet any girls.
I'm American and 19. So I can't hit up bars or nightclubs. And my age range is quite small. Really can't date outside of 17-21.
Most people my age seem to meet there SO's from school, work, or their job.
>Summer no school. Shitty community college with nothing but ghetto bitches anyway.
>Work with mainly older people, asked out a girl that I worked with, said no. No one left to ask out.
>My friends don't party. No one ever invites me out. I never invite other people out because I'd honestly rather go camping, backpacking, shooting, fishing, or like a million other things than slug down a handle of liquor.
I've thought about meetup.com groups but that seems to be mainly 25-3x working professionals. I need to go where the young, pretty, single girls are. And they seem to be everywhere I'm not.
They're at parties I don't get invited to, universities I don't have the credentials to get into to, and at jobs I don't have.
I tell you where they're not. There not at my gun range, they're not in the woods, or at the lake, or at my school, or my job.
I feel like I'll always be alone, not because I'm a terrible date but because I never get out there. And I have no idea how to. I feel like I'm stick in hole with no way out.
>>37422322
I like double my attractiveness... Now suddenly I get attention but it's from all 5s and 6s.. idk what I'd need to do to start getting attention from 8s 9s 10s
>>37423482
do you actually try to socialize with 8s, 9s, and 10s? Start there. If you're still dressed like a total faggot then that could help a little too
>>37422618
>not riding the tiger
>>37423466
If this bothers you then move. Or drop a hobby and take up something else.
Meeting girls is the easiest thing there is. Fucks sake, I've got more insecurities than most of /fit/ put together and I can still talk/party/force my way into any social circle within a week or so. And people never mind.
>>37422939
>tfw 31
It's over.
>>37423466
Shit man, Ive felt the EXACT same way. The way i got through it was by pushing myself out there more, burning myself out on weights till i was too tired to care then chatting people up. This was still in college mind you. Important lesson: networking. Try to chat up people and hang out, eventually through friends of friends youll meet a girl. To make it easier on yourself, dont stress over it and just try to make friends and have fun.
>be skinny fat
>ask a girl to come around
>she gives me a maybe
>two years lifting now
>all a girl to come out and swim with me
>instant yes
>asking if I plan to fuck
>>37423203
"Let's go on a date and if you're sweet enough maybe I'll massage your ankles"
Is what I would say
>>37422376
definitely. Girls give basically zero shits about arms. But you do want your shoulder width/waist width ratio to be maxed out, that's something girls really do care about, subconsciously.
>>37423292
underrated
>>37422322
Yes, but probably because I'm way more confident than when I was obese and I actually approach women now.
By talking to more women I'm more likely to meet one who is interested in me.
>>37422322
had gf before. have same gf now, so no. many more mires, though.
>>37422322
No, I've become even more autistic since becoming /fit/. I am now somewhat disgusted by women in general, and find myself wanting to hang out with dudes almost exclusively.
No homo, right guys? I just want it to be a meme, but I think I'm going gay.
lifting doesnt cure shyness
no matter how fit you get it is never good enough
>>37422322
I just want to know where to get this bathing suit
>>37422322
m8 I'm a NEET autist who lives with my mother. I'm in no position to even humor the idea of approaching women regardless of being /fit/.
>>37422595
>>37422679
Don't worry brahs, another one will come along. Took me a year to stop thinking constantly about my ex who I'd been with 3 years...and one more year to actually feel like I could like someone else again. In between it was all just pointless flings with people I felt nothing for.
And then, bam...after 2-2 1/2 years....there was another one and now we've been together for a year and I think to myself "I'm glad me and my ex broke up or else I would've never have found this one. "
Just keep chugging, don't become angry or hateful. Open up and stay positive.
never feel like im ripped enough or attractive enough
feels bad man, even at 12% bodyfat or so
>>37423949
own that shit bro. Literally the first time I got laid after becoming /fit/, I was still living at home, no money, no job, sharing a car, etc. Literally just fucked around with the girl and said "when we're done making love, I'll have my mom microwave us some tv dinners." As long as you own that shit and don't drop your spaghetti, she'll be down
>>37422322
pretty much every girl wants to fuck after a tren cycle at 6'2" 12% BF at 205lbs, but I'm still a kissless virgin because I'm afraid to leave the house since I always drop my spaghetti. I have a home gym and I work remotely, so I don't have much social interaction in my life and when I go out, too much attention is on me and people expect me to be alpha ;_;
No. Girls are insecure that I'm better looking than them.
Thanks fit.
>>37423524
>fucking sluts
>riding the tiger
Pick one, brah.
>>37423044
Where in the Midwest? I'm in Chicago area.
>>37422496
>my main focus is getting girls
>>37422496
Just stop lifting right now.
>>37422322
I'm still pretty dyel, but I still get bitches mirin on the daily, cause it's all about the FACE
got 0 girls before
get 0 girls after
I even have a nice face, I just get anxious as fuck around girls.
>>37423524
>not seeing his stripes but knowing he's clean
>>37423267
Top kek
>>37423909
Nah you're not going gay, you're just becoming a cynic. If you let everything you read influence you on here, then you fail. Life is only about your perspective; think positive, and learn how to become a better communicator. Women tend to be pretty shitty and self absorbed and when you start giving them attention, they think they've won. Learn to take control of your interactions and start making better moves.
I don't think all of us are gonna make it senpaitachi
Got me attention
Got me a girl that she destroyed me got me 5months behind in my progress. But fuck it ill waste one more weekend for het then ill reach the maximum self hatred level that will make not give a shit anymore and as a result either I move forward or an-hiro.
http://youtu.be/mjg43nzSYck
Been listening to it all day long
>>37422322
>Have more women been attracted to you since you increased your attractiveness?
These threads are a waste of time.
>>37423135
you're not fit or attractive
>>37422322
0-13 in two years. Yes
>>37423466
Put one foot infront of the other and just do something. You can find people who do the things you like to do, while you do them as well. Even google websites that link you up with people with different hobbies if you want to fasttrack it.
The best way to be alone, is to not do anything.
>>37423949
Just go full Costanza.
>Hi, my name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my mother.
>Hey George
>>37422322
yeah, i'm still kinda autistic and often can't close the deal but girls actually think i'm cute now as opposed to having to be convinced
>>37422322
lifting doesn't cure autism
>>37423203
Scientifically validated opener:
1. Telling them you think they are attractive (instantly lets them know that you're interested, if they don't reciprocate you know to move on).
2. Ask them a controversial but inconsequential question (anything works, your goal is for this question to be the seed of a long conversation).
Works for both unconscious and conscious reasons.
Source:
http://evp.sagepub.com/content/10/5/147470491201000511.full.pdf+html
>>37424466
Aww shit, I thought I was just becoming gay. How do I snag a reasonable woman without going through the predatory dating game bullshit? I know Mormon girls are pretty when they're younger, and the church is always looking for fresh blood.
>>37422322
I've honestly lost my desperate want for gf. No homo yet, just focused on gains more than anything. At the gym is the only place i feel at home
>>37422802
Damn dude.. How are you /fit and still act like such a sperg?
>>37423203
Ask her about netball. Rules, her position, best play she's ever made.
Ask her about her piano playing, favorite songs, how/when she got started.
Ask her to play something for you sometime soon.
Yes. I was a pretty sociable guy before I seriously started lifting. That was 4 months ago and noticeable progress has been made, and interacting with women just feels easier. Can't wait to see what my results will be like after a year
>>37423203
Less chance of having fun to :/ How long until you can start playing again, next season?
>>37424003
How are you supposed to "own it", if you're a NEET that lives with his mother.
I mean think about it, if you were a confident guy who had his shit together, you wouldn't be a NEET who lives with his mother, right?
You're a pussy, you're a wimp. You can't be confident with women because your brain just doesn't work that way. You can't just do it.
>>37423337
Ugh that is what my tindr bitch is doing right now, she's rocking the cradle so I don't blame her. It's been like two months and she honestly just wants me to feel bad for her
>more than 5+ girls who are serious about looking for relationship with me
>3 of them are collegiate athletes (soccer and track)
>receive mires every day, often hearing about other girls liking me from coworkers/friends
>still can't get over ex who broke my heart
>feels bad man
knowing I can get these girls is pretty cool and being able to see the lust they have for me gets me off but God dammit I just want my submissive little bitch back :(
>>37425228
I feel like this the natural progression of things. The pain never leaves, even after your lose your virginity.
HELP FIT.
I got with a first year last night, we had been on two dates and I thought she was alright for a rebound after breaking up with my Ex - but she pulled my friends hair and acted crazy and sent me like 10 messages while I was sleeping. What the fuck do I do? She has my FB, number and snap chat. How do I escape the crazy?
>>37424066
Nice to meet another 28yo kv in IL but will probably be killing myself soon so you'll be alone... gl
>lift for about 2 years
>finally gain confidence from the gainz made
>met up with 7/10 half arab half japanese
>got a nice BJ but couldn't get it up when it came time to fuck from all the years of fapping to pr0n
>MFW
>>37425269
fuck the craziness out of her anon, show her how crazy YOU can be
no
western girls are still retarded and impossible to date unless youre a rich CHAD.
fuck feminism its destroying the US.
>>37425330
*coughs* nofap
>>37422322
Yeah, but it's not related to getting leaner. I just put my job title in the Tinder profile.
Also,
>He's lifting for girls
Don't be a nerd
>>37425330
>half arab half japanese
That's a rare combination senpai, pics?
>>37425409
Sorry brother, I met her on tinder and never got her last name so no pics.
>>37425330
>half arab half Japanese
That's like the loch nest monster of mongrels. How does that even happen?
>>37422322
Still hung up on the same girl. Dated her for five months and just fell head over heels for her. I was 320lbs at the time, but she's only like 120 and started getting /fit/ two months into the relationship.
She broke up with me about two months ago, and told me it was because she doesn't know how she felt. I'd like to think it was just because of my weight and once I lost it we'd be able to be a couple again.
As of this morning I'm 278 lbs and I feel great. I get compliments from people I know whenever I see them. But Goddamn all I want right now is to be able to hold her again.
I actually asked her if we could get some frozen yogurt and talk sometime next week. What do you think I should do /fit/?
>>37425439
Damn son, just let it go and fuck her cousin.
i get way more attention from girls but i can't capitalize on any of it, not because i cant talk to girls but because of my oneitis
>>37425439
Don't. It'll only hurt you. If she actually does agree to the whole frozen yogurt and talk shit, make no mistake, she's going into that under the impression of a friend.
Think about it. It's been two months, and you're the one hung up on her. She hasn't contacted you at all during those months. She isn't interested, because if she was, the relationship would not have ended.
Go ahead and try, I'm nobody, but be prepared that you are signing yourself up for some very painful moments ahead of you, which are very likely to ruin the progress you have made so far.
Do you really want to give a single person that much power over you?
>>37425330
rofl i bet this would happen to me.
Did you stop watching porn months before this? Or were you still fapping mindlessly?
>>37422322
I get comments. "Oh anon your chest" and shit
I made a best friend who is a girl tho
>>37425542
Still fapping mindlessly. Didn't happen when I had sex years before in high school so it was never on my mind.
>>37422322
No, less.
Where the fuck do I meet girls /fit/?
>be software developer
>go to school, 1 socially maladapted asian girl for every 10 guys
>go to work, same thing
>go to bar, girls are outnumbered again but instead of nerdy asian girls theyre whores
honestly wtf? I'm going to try going to church this sunday but I imagine every girl being surrounded by family and inaccessible unless I become a part of their community and signal my commitment
>>37425736
join coed sports
>>37425746
really?
i've never been much of a sports guy but i'm willing to try I guess. where do I find this kind of thing?
I guess my gym has classes and stuff.. should I go to yoga or will I look like a retard?
>>37425764
Being a straight dude in a yoga class is like being a straight male cheerleader in high school/college. Your bros will give you a ton of shit for doing it, but if you handle things right, you can get some good pussy out of it.
Girls total from 16 until started liftan
>3
Girls total from liftan (18) until now (19)
>4
Girls total from 16 until now
>7
Funny thing is, after I started lifting and became more attractive (tan, grew 2 inches, gained about 40lbs of muscle, grew facial hair),
I can legit walk up to chick fil-a and order from a qt she stumbles on her words every single time. srs.
love it.
>Uni is going to be fucking amazing with the 6/1 Girl/Guy ratio
>>37422618
Thanks Davis.
>>37425824
>Uni is going to be fucking amazing with the 6/1 Girl/Guy ratio
doesn't really work like that man. since there's so many girls they are extra judgmental of each other and become reserved. thats my experience anyway but maybe youll have better luck
> be me
> fat
> start working out, lose 30 pounds dress better act better, life is good.
> best friend who I've liked for a while gives me compliments.
> So happy with my life. I am reborn.
> time goes by cutie confesses to me gonna go on a date soon.
> best friend tells me she loves me.
> we flirt in the upcoming days, take the bus together she hugs me for the first time very sweet.
> drop cutie for her.
> ask to go with bff after school, she goes with her EX boyfriend instead.
> What has life become for me.
> I tell her off, currently still fighting.
> we aren't gonna be friends anymore.
> all because I improved myself.
> all because I was a good person
> all I have I gave.
> and now i'm left alone at the gym at 11:00
> just me and the bench.
What has life become
Woe is me who knows now of what could have been.
Woe is the ant reborn as a Lion.
I have lost, not gains but instead.
Myself
>>37425957
>Une de perdue, dix de retrouves.
Which is french for fuck that bitch and move on to the next one. They come a dime a dozen.
>>37423466
Tinder
>>37425183
>You're a pussy, you're a wimp. You can't be confident with women because your brain just doesn't work that way. You can't just do it.
don't project that shit on me dude. When I was a NEET I wasn't a sad little bitch that thought I was worthless. maybe you are, but I never was and I still got laid. Lol you need to reevaluate your life, bud.
>>37425957
>i got weird and possessive and expected her to be attracted to me
>she hates me because im trying to improve myself
get a grip dude
>>37425957
you stopped being her orbiter and found someone you liked. she got jealous that you were no longer giving her your attention and to this other girl, so she striked like the manipulative whore she is.
>tfw 1 to 6/10s spill their spaghetti for you
>but 7/10s and above ignore your existence
>>37425957
>she hugs me for the first time
I don't get it. You say you're best friends but you've never hugged before? All the girls I've known always hug their guy friends.
>>37426030
Also this
>>37425566
That really cute do you guys do eachothers makeup and talk about boys also.
>>37426052
>Une de perdue, dix de retrouves
not like a friend hug
she stopped me before i left and told me she was glad she met me.
Hugged me
Kissed my cheek.
Maybe i'm a beta fag but it meant a lot to me
>>37426004
thanks my nigga
I haven't gotten laid in so long reeeeeeeeeeeee
>>37422368
brah. I'm not about that life. mixing work and pleasure is a dangerous game. I hope you don't work with them much
>>37426064
>maybe
>>37426030
Thhhhiiisssssss
>lifting for sex
>>37426064
>kissed my cheek
>maybe I'm a beta fag
You're a dumb pathetic bitch. That's some high school tier shit right there. Holy fuck and what's worse is you can't even see it
>>37425330
not getting a boner could be several things
death grip fapping can be cured by getting a fleshlight instead of using your hands
can be just nerves as well, try to relax, find out what works for you sexually
sometimes the dick just doesn't respond, it happens
>>37422322
yes, but I don't think it was because i got bigger to be honest... I was living on campus at uni and there was always heaps of parties and drunk girls so it was just being somewhere at the right place at the right time.
Since living off campus though the numbers went down quite a bit
>>37422341
This, except that I only squat lmao1pl8.
>>37422337
I just posted 3 selfies of myself and I've fucked 4 girls I ment through tinder . Started tindering about 3 months ago
>>37422322
More female attention, yes
But getting them no, for about 95% of the time I've been getting /fit/ I've been pretty damn heartbroken after breaking up with my ex, so I lost a lot of the self-confidence I gained from getting bigger.
I know it's been a year but I kinda lost a lot of interest in chasing women and really don't want to be hurt again.
>>37422322
i've gotten mires and made girls spill their spaghetti but its impossible to have the confidence to get digits when you hate yourself so no.
no
but i've only gotten one girl in 23 years
>i don't try
Becoming /fit/ has definitely increased my attention from girls. However, this increase pales in comparison to the increase from becoming an authority figure (promotions).
I'm now convinced that like 70%+ of female attraction is authority. This is insane. Where before I was lucky if one girl DEVIL'S LUCK if two girls were interested in me at the same time. Now that I'm both /fit/ and a figure of authority it's rare that I don't command a female's attention and desire at will.
>>37422459
That means the women notice too and won't comment because they're either shy or you're ugly or simply gay.
>>37423466
Just start going out a drinking and dancing meet people through social media add old friends new random people.start talking and flirting with every girl even ghetto or chubby girls you got to be down af and maybe you'll meet there friends or other people then you'll get invited to go out more
>>37425330
>>met up with 7/10 half arab half japanese
are you in missouri?
As a photographer I was getting regular model pussy anyway. One thing I did like was the look on my exs face when I took my shirt off.
If you're lifting for pussy, try /p/ and specialise in girls.
>>37426735
>If you're lifting for pussy, try /p/ and specialise in girls.
so you became a photographer by going to 4chan or what?
I get more people mirin and being friendly but I got more women when I had a head of hair and was a skinny unfit faggot
>>37422400
This is true. If they like your FACE and HEIGHT and maybe FRAME they will see instant halo effect.
This girl was always eyeing me when i was a 120lb lanklet who did curls and creatine for a week and she thought i started to do steroids
>>37422322
less, since getting /fit/ was a coping mechanism with alienating all my friends and becoming an awkward shut-in
Yeah plenty. But still I'm dying to know what would my oneitis think about it.
after fucking a girl, I still think about my crush. It fucking hurts
>>37426750
Not really, I became a photographer after being interested in shooping. Then my dick got interested as well.
Modelling portals are like tinder, except they don't get to see your face.
>>37426873
>Not really, I became a photographer after being interested in shooping. Then my dick got interested as well.
still didn't say how you fag. Also how much $ you make, how did you get there
>>37422939
>Mean age to lose your virginity is 17.5
:'(
Yes, much better, but I also entered law school around the same time.
Legal field is crowded with too many lawyers, law school is more expensive than ever, and unless you're in the top fraction of a top 14 school or focus on a speciality field like patents, it's not worth it - but women haven't figured that out yet, it's just "lawyer = rich high status guy." Add /fit/ and good to go.
>>37426989
I did, you just didn't understand.
I was retouching random photos of grills online, at a point I thought this would be more fun if I was taking the photos myself.
I have a pretty good IT job in Citibank, also after having my passion for music destroyed after 10 years in the music industry, I wasn't wanting to involve money in this at all.
I rarely go to /p/ now, it's a negative cesspool of shit photography and gearfags with the very occasional good thread
>>37427129
>job at citibank
so photography is just a hobby too?
What I'm asking is: What are the steps you took to becoming a photographer. And how do you lure girls into your den to take pictures.
>>37423466
>>37423540
>>37423575
>>37425009
So in other words, your looking to dick, when it's as simple as >>37426009 to get your benis wet.
If your problem is waifus to wife i'd hate to break this to you but your living in a story book.
Keep on with your life, check yourself, not holes to fuck nigger.
But do whatever the fuck you want if fucking is what makes you happy.
>>37422322
I always got girls, now however I'm able to land 8/10s and a few 9/10s instead of 7/10s
>>37422400
so i should just keep cutting instead of bulking like /fit/ told me ?
i am on the fence right now if i should cut even longer or start leanbulking.
>>37427180
i'd say you're 14% right now and should cut to 10% then bulk as leanly as possible
>>37427146
Yes just a hobby.
I bought a camera.
I started taking photos of everything and anything, I slowly built up a portfolio and asked anybody and everybody if I could photograph them. I took my camera absolutely everywhere for 2 years. I was handing my card to girls on the street. I photographed every person I could. After about 2-3 years my selective portfolio was so good I could show it to nearly anyone and they would think I was a professional photog... Its just like building muscle, the only way to do it is to do it.
Also I fucking love photography/shooping. The ability to take a good photo opens a lot of doors and vaginas.
Girls want fancy photos to show off, that's not something you need to lure them into doing.
>>37427180
Cut for what purpose? You should cut as little as possible as infrequently as possible.
If you cant bulk for a solid year before needing a (brief) cut, you aren't bulking correctly.
You're at a reasonably low bodyfat percentage. You could get lower, sure, but why? Especially if as soon as you do you're just going to start bulking again, making the weeks it took to drop those last painstaking pounds a waste of time.
I bulk for 8-12 months and cut for 3-4 weeks. I'll only ever do a proper, long-term, get shredded cut that takes a couple of months or more when I feel I've hit a serious plateua in my muscle mass gains and am nearing the natty limit.
Until you reach that point, why ever cut?
>>37427243
>I started taking photos of everything and anything, I slowly built up a portfolio and asked anybody and everybody if I could photograph them. I took my camera absolutely everywhere for 2 years. I was handing my card to girls on the street. I photographed every person I could. After about 2-3 years my selective portfolio was so good I could show it to nearly anyone and they would think I was a professional photog... Its just like building muscle, the only way to do it is to do it.
what do you mean a portfolio? a facebook page or what? please include as many step by step shit as you can homie
I'm pretty DYEL but bigger in the right places
1 girl I don't know tried having a conversation with me
it ended very quickly
I've started getting mired by girls that aren't whales.
Small victories
Where can I get a /fit bf? Should I just go to a park and walk around?
> small company, can't risk having an ex be my coworker
> hobbies are all dominated by women or solitary
> ballet
> piano
> learning a foreign language
>>37427298
Loadsa people here are young and very vain what you say is correct from an athlete and muscle building point of view but most people here are too much in love with low bfat and abs.
>>37427333
Are you like 12 years old? A portfolio is a collection of your best work, you can store it on imgur, your phone, a photo album, you can fucking store it on a floppy drive if you want
>>37427357
Lot of fit guys at MMA gyms, obviously some are whackos and there is an oddly high number of manlets but aside from that there are some cool dudes there. Take the boxing/kickboxing classes so you don't have to roll around
>>37427357
If you're a guy - grindr
If you're a girl - just be as pretty as you can and wait, someone WILL come and flirt with you at sooner or later.
>>37427367
>Are you like 12 years old? A portfolio is a collection of your best work, you can store it on imgur, your phone, a photo album, you can fucking store it on a floppy drive if you want
i meant how do you get others to look at it, what credentials do you have as a photographer for them to go to get to you. Also how do you go from taking picks to giving dicks
>>37427333
>chequed
Portfolio can be anything from a folder on your phone to a Facebook page to a website or even a physical folder of actually photos. Depends who you want to show it to, normies like Facebook, photogs like websites, a business might be impressed with a printed portfolio left in their office with details included.
Basically gather your best photos and present them in as many forms as possible for the best outcome. If its for picking up grills a folder on your phone is always a good option as you get close on a bar sofa or some shit. A website will make you look more authentic and business cards more professional. You can't just have a portfolio of shit but most normies don't know a good photo from a bad one and it's obviously very subjective. A rule of thumb is, the prettier girls you have in your portfolio, the prettier girls will want you to shoot them. Go look at Alexander Tikhomirov for example. He is ofc a good photog bit a lot of his presence is just snapshots of insanely hot females.
>>37427382
I actually did join a MMA gym last month. Maybe if I go for another few months someone will hit on me. But it's really really hard on my body. Even with protective pads that are 6+ inches thick, I get really sore from being hit over and over. I hope this will be worth it.
>>37427388
But I spend all my non-hobby non-work non-gym time in my apartment. Where should I go for men to approach me? Just walk around the city?
>>37427431
where did you learn about shopping, did you learn photography someway or did you just go on about it by yourself with no education? And how do you go from taking picks to giving dicks
>>37427382
>Lot of fit guys at MMA gyms, obviously some are whackos
MOST of them are whackos, Anon. Like, "wife-beating" whackos. I'd stay the fuck away from MMA. Might have better luck with asian martial arts since most of them teach students to not be giant dickbags at the same time.
>>37427357
You'd probably be fine approaching random dudes wherever u see them and asking if they wanted to get coffee or something. Kinda hard to pick out the crazies doing that way though. Make sure you pick something that's as nonsexual as possible to ensure the dude doesn't think you're trying to hook up. I wouldn't even give out your number until after the coffee goes well, just be like, "Hey I'm Anontoinette, I'm looking for a boyfriend and I think you're cute. Want to get coffee on Saturday?" Maybe get their Facebook or something if they really want your # so you can block them if they turn out to be a creep. Or go for Snapchat specifically, that way you can see if they're the type to send u a dickpic before you've even had coffee.
>>37422496
>lifting for girls
ngmi
>>37427477
ugh, I can't ask boys out. It doesn't work like that. They have to ask me out.
>>37427445
>Where should I go for men to approach me?
Reality of life is that men will hit on any women, anywhere. It can be at your workplace, at the gym, at your hobby locations or at the shop. As long as you look even slightly inviting (for arabs and turks even that is not necessary) some guy will inevitably approach you.
As you want to enhance the frequency and likelihood of that happening, you can definitely have a 30 minutes walk each evening around the city for your health and someone will do it.
That goes if you're at least a 4/10 (which I highly doubt you are not) and not obese
>>37427357
I'll be your bf
I'm 5'11" 170 lbs and have blonde hair and blue eyes
>pls respond
>>37427501
Are you one of those "I want a boyfriend but I want a specific type of boyfriend thus I'll reject anyone who doesn't fit that criteria" or you legit don't get approached by ANY GUY?
>>37423466
>I never invite other people out because I'd honestly rather go camping, backpacking, shooting, fishing, or like a million other things than slug down a handle of liquor.
So you don't want to meet any girls then? What the fuck is your question then?
>>37427469
Pretty much the same way as /fit/. Online, YouTube, websites, just doing the thing. Trial and error, hard work. I never took classes or had a teacher.
Sometimes hard work, but as /fat/ knows, hard work is sometimes really satisfying.
Pussy was something on the side, but coming into contact with so many girls on a regular basis, if your wanting to play the game, the numbers are in your favour.
Also, having a hobby/skill and showing passion and enthusiasm for something that basically makes girls look pretty, is an attractive feature for a guy to have.
>>37427524
the first one. I don't want just any boyfriend. I want a fit one. Which is why I'm asking where should I go to meet fit guys. I don't want a dyel skinnyfat vidya player, I can meet a dozen of those if I wanted.
>>37427503
> 30 minutes walk each evening around the city
Okay I will actually do this. I'm going to do this 3x a week for a month. In fact, that's what I'm going to do tonight.
>>37427507
responding
>>37427539
your taking pictures routine (frequency)? did you just do it on the weekends, ask randoms for strangers or what
>>37427129
>I rarely go to /p/ now, it's a negative cesspool of shit photography and gearfags with the very occasional good thread
amen
>>37427539
Anyway it's 9:30am here in poland and I need to get ready and suit up for a polish wedding (Yes I'm taking my camera). Go buy a cheap ass dslr and have some fun, could be the best investment of your life!
>>37427541
Well lifters are a small % and good looking lifters who are the ones you probably want are even a smaller %.
You're likely to get a majority of guys who are neither.
Now we've clarified that you want the top of men but question is- do you deserve it?
>>37422322
Yes because i started leaving the house
>>37427501
>>37427541
You're sounding an awful lot like a dumb cunt. Just hang out at the grocery store near the Greek yoghurt. Other option is to hang out near the protein powder but you're probably going to find the wrong kind of dude.
technically speaking i've gotten more action since I stopped working out, but i think that there is no correlation, it's more about the fact that i got a job and actually talk to people.
i'm working out again though, no judge.
on a side note, when do you know a girl wants to fuck provided it isn't a tinder slut who for sure wants to fuck?
i'm pursuing a girl right now and we hung out the other night from like 2-6 am and i never got a flirtatious vibe, but talking to my brother in law he's saying just the fact that she's over that late should be sign.
we're gonna hang out again tonight at like 4am. (coworkers who both work graveyard.)
what do?
>>37425330
I had this with girlfriend first time sexing. You SERIOUSLY have to stop fapping. That is how I fixed it.
>people think fapping is healthy
>>37427557
Literally as often as possible. Sometimes 3 sessions a day. Yes, ask everyone.... Going to a party? Be the photographer!
>>37427590
P.S. or you can also wait outside the gym and slide your vag on the thigh of any dude coming out of it.
>>37427601
she wants a chad 10/10 fit bf. he will just use her as a cock sleeve and move on
>>37427576
I think so. I'm pretty, fit, wear skirts, cook, and I have a good personality.
>>37427590
generally on walks, you have to walk around, not just loiter around at the supplements store
anyway, I should probably just take photos like the other photoanon in this thread and put the funny pictures on my instragram and twitter. might as well put those two accounts to good use.
>>37425330
I get a chub from chick holding my hand, raging boner from any touching below tge belt, jizz in my pants if they start sucking my fingers.
>>37425330
what does a half arab and half jap even look like? literally one of most obscure mutts i have even heard
>>37427550
Do u want to b my gf?
Yes or no
>>37427665
Dude I'm the same way for the first couple times. Like when I meet a new attractive girl sometimes just flirting will give me a chub. But eventually I'll get used to it and only get hard at appropriate times
It's like a break in period
>>37427674
yes
>>37427683
Meet me in varrok I'll be pk'ing noobs in world 3
>>37423203
i imagine a modern Patrick Bateman talking to some random girl
>>37427694
sorry, I only do Dark Souls 2
you can co-op with me if you want
>>37426390
>squat lmao1pl8
Then you haven't become fit yet
>>37426036
these are some nice donuts
>>37422322
Who is this jizz djinn? I have more pics of her but no name :X
>>37422939
>“normative” age—a mean age of 17.5
Lol that's pretty old to be honest
>>37427781
>mean age is 17.5
>"old" is 22
>super embarrassing is 25
I just turned 24 but whatever. I'm happier now that I focus on studying and gym than when I cared about vidya and tfwnogf.
>>37425330
>half arab half japanese
I WANT IT
>>37422322
Absolutely
>>37422322
No.
>>37427877
have you checked out delightfulhug?
Let's see..
Before: 0
Now: 0
>tfw 25 yo kv
I got into shape and got girls easier than I ever have but now I'm probably in the worst shape of my life and it's nearly impossible to get anything
I need to get back to form I can't fucking live like this
>>37425439
Get down to 200 and try again.
It was likely she wanted someone who could do things with her.
Lets face it a massive 320lb fuck isnt a great life partner.
Sort your shit and try again. Its all you can do.
Nope. Just going to have to get rich and accept being used.
>>37425505
damn son. that's some good advice
>>37426036
same here, brew.
i'm strangely grateful for working shitty retail once upon a time so now i can talk to strangers without freaking out
>>37423196
>I should probably just kill myself, already been in therapy since I was 19 and making no progress
Nah man, we're all going to make it bro. We really are.
>>37422939
>tfw 22 and doenst look like I'll even KISS a girl anytime soon
I haven't gone after any girls since I started working out. I have been approached by a few, but no more than prior to progress. Haven't accepted any proposals either... so there's that.
>>37423466
fuck bro.
You have A FUCKING SISTER.
Seeing my friends who have one, a sister is a goldmine for qt's, especially if she's younger.
fucking christ, as someone's gf's big brother you'll always be have a status
and for fuck sake, you live in the US, where picking up girls is easy mode, and it's full of qt ones.
you keep saying where girls are and you dont go there, just fucking go there. try living in a shitty country like mine and see how lukcy you are
>>37427595
try to steer the convo into a sensual/sexual territory, be more touchy, , try to make a move
>>37422322
Yes I have, but its only caused more drama than its worth. Stay fat people, food won't hurt you like girls will. Ya know, besides diabetus n shiet
>>37429211
At 26, I am stoked to have a social butterfly 14 year old sister.
4 more years of maximum fitness efforts. Then I get smothered in the freshest of her friends who already flirt with me when I'm around.
Thanks sis.
>>37429235
shit, 14yo...that's a bummer.
still, keep hanging out in her social circle. hanging out with women is a great way to get perceived pussy. also, it helps you with socializing and being perceived well
I envy you
i'll tell you how many life changed since i went to the gym:
many girls talking about my gains, some stupid young ones even tell me that i look like i'm on juice. 2-3 (can't remember if it was twice the same one) slapped my butt and said it's getting bigger/it's big. used to only get compliments by people i know, now it starts with people i never talked to before/never met before. i have no problem anymore to just go up to a girl and talk to her / get her number which i would've never done before. and i'm just a beginner right now, i wonder what is going to happen when i lift for 1 or 2 more years.
>>37429211
>>37429379
tfw be 24yo and have a 20yo little sister
Too bad she's overweight and basically my opposite. Her friends are either overweight with even worse eating habits, juvenile backstabbing cunts, or "it's ok she told me she wears a hijab for fashion, it has nothing to do with her religion"
I also have a 22yo sister but she's mentally and physically handicapped because she has 3 chromosomes too many.
So yeah, not going to get qt3.14s through my sisters.
>>37422322
0 > 0
no but masturbation has improved in quality!
>>37424945
how would you know? not him
