>start going to gym at age 16
>friend 3 years older than me comes with me
>teaches me a lot about lifting
>becomes my gym buddy
>leaves for the military
>mfw
>keep going to the gym at age 18
>female friend wants to come with me
>tells me to call her whenever I go
>becomes my gym buddy
>always late, wants to only work out like 30 mins
>one day just stop calling/texting her
>go to the gym really late at night to avoid her
>mfw
>tfw no reliable gym buddy
>>36758528
>Have gym buddy
>Part ways
>No one can replace him
>Lifting on my own isn't the same
Feels bad man
Tfw I've never had a gym buddy
Tfw I can't have a female one because my girl says I'll get feelings
Tfw it sucks when I bench cause I can never hit my max without being of afraid of being asphyxiation from the bar Falling On Me Because Can't Lift It
>>36758528
>tfw u like gym early morning
>gym buddy likes afternoon to late night
>too buzzed after work out to sleep
>sub optimal gains
>>36758611
Just learn the roll of shame, you faggot.
>mfw powerlifting gym with only like 30 members
Perma gym buddies who I also go drinking with
in all my 5 years of lifting w8s never had a gym buddy... don't know what to tell you breh. Never felt the need.
>>36758958
same here man, even when i was in highschool and i was around "friends" i would still keep strict to my routine
>>36758528
>had two gym buddies
> one girl
> one guy
> all of us cadets
> all worked out together and pushed each other to improve
> this term my schedule conflicted with all the times we would work out
> have to work out by myself
> guy ends up hooking up with the girl after I can't hang out with them anymore
> mfw he told me earlier in the year that its trouble to have a relationship with another cadet
> mfw he SPECIFICALLY told me that the girl didnt like me and I shouldn't go for her
> mfw I'm lonely now
I've got like 4 or 5 active or potential gym buddies but lately I've gotten tired of how training with them restricts me from training at my own pace which includes 5 minute rests between sets and makes the workout fairly long and they start bitching so I never call them up anymore. It's just so much easier going it alone.
>>36758528
why u want a chick for a gym buddy? u set urself up for defeat immediately
>>36758836
Is there a weight were to roll of shame stops working? I only did it once with 205 lbs. I'm at 225 now and I always have a spotter.
ive gone through quite a few
>pothead who introduced me to everything but only wants to go at night
>muay thai manlet wo thinks training legs is a waste of time
>kung-fu guy who does push ups to no end and sent his shoulder to snap city
>hot grill who only works ass and chest
none of them staisfied me so now im going alone
>>36758868
>drinking
>lifting
it's like you hate A E S T H E T I C S
>tfw powerlifting gym
>tfw always full of people
>tfw always metal coming out of the speakers
>tfw you struggle on a lift and everyone stops what they are doing to scream at you to make the lift
>tfw always have a smile on my face when I'm going to the gym
I love my gym
>>36758528
I've never enjoyed having a gym buddy, not sure why. Even when taking 5 minutes between sets people would keep fucking trying to talk to me past that when all I want to do is lift.
Shits annoying.
>>36761191
You've got to be lying
Gyms that good must be expensive.
>>36758528
>be an autist in uni
>dont have friends
>start going to uni's gym
>meet 3 guys from other careers
>become gym bros
>been lifting with my bros for 3 years
>became more social, less autist
>graduation comes in may...
>gym bros are going back to their cities
Im going to miss my bros
>>36758611
If you are a regular yourself, you should know who also is. Ask them when you need a spot.
>>36761191
Sounds awesome
>>36758528
>talk to guy in the gym about leg day
>tells me to come on friday at 3pm, will do squats and other legwork together
>go on friday at 3pm
>wait for him
>get bored, start to do the accessories after fifteen minutes
>he never shows up
>squat on my own, can't try PR because no gym buddy
pic unrelated ;_;
>>36761191
But what if you don't make the lift and you let them all down?
>>36758868
shit I envy you so much.
The gym I go to is mostly for crossfit faggots and I've yet to meet someone whom I could get along great with and go out for beers and shit. There is this big crossfit crew and they pretty much ignore everybody else
>>36761233
150€ / year actually
>>36761582
Never give up!
>>36761239
>implying
Have been going to my uni gym for 3 years and I still only just recognize a lot of faces
And the ones I do meet I rarely shake hands with and get a name from, because apparently that's unnecessary when you're bonding over deadlift form discussion
>>36758528
>>36761262
You normies disgust me
>>36758528
thanks OP i thought this was gonna be a feels thread after read that military thing
was expecting dead friend, but thanks for not making me cry
>>36760785
just report their asses for fraternization.
>>36758528
>move to a new city
>social phobia
>no people of my age in new gym
>no gym buddy
;_;
>>36761191
>mfw only shitty commercial gyms around here
>Lucky to have a squat rack in my current gym