>gf of 4 years left me today
>consider suicide
I-it gets better right guys??
>>36678311
you probably got cucked by a DYEL
girls don't leave until they have someone new lined up
it's only up from here brah
>>36678311
>tfw this happened to me last month
fuck my life
>>36678311
blogfaggots kill yourselves
i'm a 23yo virgin op. whats worse, being loved and accepted, but then dumped after years of affection, or being a reject all your life? You got to experience tfw gf
>>36678333
fuck off, feels threads are safe spaces
>>36678332
>>36678318
its gets better brahs... take some time to recover but try to get back out there as soon as you can. and stay away from drinking your feels away
its usually the most shitty type of relationships that go this long without getting married. i marry my wife after like 8 months of dating her. i dated my ex for 2 years and i didnt want to marry
>>36678357
Proud to say I haven't taken a sip since she left me
I got a tinder, but all the matches I get that are qts don't want to do anything wild
It gets better brah.
Shit sucks, I feel ya
>>36678311
best way to get over a girl is to get under another one
>>36678376
Take this as an opportunity to focus on yourself. Don't immediately "get back out there" since you will act in haste and repent in leisure. Many bad marriages are started on the rebound.
There's nothing wrong with being by yourself.
And stick with not drinking. It can really fuck you up and is just not worth it.
Are you honestly saying your entire existence was built around a girlfriend? You do realiz that romance is the most fragile of all human relationships right? I mean have u ever heard "and they lived happily ever after" in anything other than a fairytale?
>>36678357
>it gets better.
No it doesn't. Your life will be a never ending line of new people, and yes, new relationships. It doesn't get better. You just realise it was never bad to begin with.
>>36678357
>stay away from drinking your feels away
wish I had heeded this advice years ago, now I'm painfully weening myself off booze after years of rampant alcoholism
my gains have been solid but it's otherwise a major drain on my health and finances
pls don't self medicate anons
>>36678345
probably love then rejection cause I got stalkers that way lol
>he fell for the relationship meme
Every fucking time. Lol you faggots get what you deserve.
>>36678311
It gets better, senpai. I had concrete plans last August to kill myself after going through some pretty heinous shit. I managed to dissuade myself from doing it, and since then I've lost 70 lbs, put on some muscle, and while I'm not 100%, I'm getting better. I'm hoping to get started with a therapist soon.
>>36678505
you will never know the old virgin feels familia. Being so disgusting that no woman you meet will even look at you. and you try your best to get /fit/ and learn PUA and RedPill techniques and use internet apps but it all fails. this infinitely worse than a break up from a happy relationship
>>36678426
This guy hit the nail on the head. Dont listen to all of the other assholes in this thread, it will get better, but it's gotta start with you. Keep putting in the effort and it'll will get better. Just don't give up and definitely don't drown the feels in booze.
>>36678311
You can't kill yourself until Red Dead Redemption 2 comes out bro
>>36678654
but it feels better with some booze. How am I supposed to find someone to love me for being an autistic retard.
>>36678596
everyone has a soulmate tho, whether in this life or the next one
I'm 23 and married and no, didn't even see it coming, was single for like 2 years, not even a hookup before it happened
>>36678726
story please. I feel this way about my gf because she is the only one who laughed at me and kissed me and didnt break up with me when I told her I was a NEET for 2 years.
>>36678726
>was single for like 2 years
come on nigga don't bully me
>>36678311
>thinking bitches are worth your time and emotions
Bro its just one bitch, you're life is worth more than a stupid money/life sucking broad
>>36678464
This shit kills me every time. I can't understand how some people can be so boring and dependant that they define themselves through someone else.
Honestly, I've never been able to feel bad for people who kill themselves over relationships. Get a hobby or something, nigger.
>>36678748
it's kind of a long and complicated story, but beautiful
we got married when we were in the crazy house
>>36678789
the looney bin?
what were you in for?
I was in for attempted suicide like 8 years ago, the crazy chicks were hot, but so fucked up.
>>36678311
>commiting suicide over a girl
Almost as bad as lifting for girls.
Think how retarded you'll feel if there is an afterlife
>>36678311
Post the longest you've gone without a relationship since puberty:
>going on 7 years pretty soon
>>36678866
I broke a bunch of mirrors and zombies tried to kill me at the Emergency Room
Drained me of my blood and left me unconscious for two days, woke up in the crazy house
my husbando got set up and put in the crazy house too
thank God we are still alive
>>36678311
suicide is for the weak, connor
>>36678886
i'm a virgin how old arD youanon
>>36678311
THIS ISN'T R9K YOU FUCKING FAGGOT
WHAT THE FUCK ARE THE MODS DOING?
>>36678311
My gf of 10 years left me over a year ago. Glad she did. Life is better now. Sucked for a bit tho. Time makes it better bros.
main piece of advice, dont look at her social media AT ALL.
>>36678928
go be a faggot somewhere else
been through a 5 year relationship and just recently got out of a 3 year relationship.
i remember the first couple months where i was completely hopeless. i thought it was never going to get better, but here i am not giving a fuck in the world. things get better and if you seriously believe that you'll never have ONE HAPPY DAY AGAIN then kill yourself.
>>36678933
10 years...fuck
What did you do anon to get over her?
Gf dumped me before xmas
It gets a lot better. Write in a journal
>>36678925
26 last time I was in a relationship I was 19.
Longest ship so far is 3 months.
>>36678946
but how does it get better. I am already receiving all my dopamine and other brain chemicals from my gf, but I know I have to leave her asap. shit sucks.
>>36678935
Actually I think I'll be a fucking faggot right here
CARTOON HORSES YOU HUGBOX RETARDS
>>36679001
WELCOME TO /R9K/ 2.0!
>>36679011
HEY GUYS MY GIRLFRIEND JUST LEFT ME BECAUSE I'M A FUCKING PUSSY FAGGOT
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FITNESS BUT I FIGURED ID START A WHOLE FUCKING THREAD ANYWAY
>>36679001
>>36679011
>ponies
>past 2012
ISHYGDDT
>>36679021
SHOULD I JUST KILL MYSELF OR SHOULD I MAKE A FEW MORE THREADS
>>36678654
can I drown the feels in booz a couple weekend a month when I go out to clubs with the boys, because that's what I have been doing.
>>36679037
>TFW IM A HUGE FAGGOT
>>36679022
HERESY, CARTOON HORSES ARE TRULY THE HIGHEST TEST OF ALL
>>36679065
WHICHEVER FATASS RETARD MOD BANS ME, CAN YOU DO ME A FAVOR AND MAKE IT PERMANENT?
IM SICK AND FUCKING TIRED OF WATCHING THIS BOARD TURN INTO R9K
>>36679080
GOOD TO SEE THAT THEY RECRUITED A SLEW OF FAST ACTING JANITORS
>>36679089
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
You're a fucking pussy. You probably did get cucked by someone else.
She is probably out sucking some other guy's dick right now, while you're here posting on /fit/.
Sorry, bro. That's just the way it is. All women are whores.
>>36679102
Hey guys, OP here just wanted to let you all know that I'm a dyel faggot who should eat a mouthful of buckshot
>>36679111
what about foreign women?
>>36679111
OH FUCK CHECKED
>>36678362
> i marry my wife after like 8 months of dating her
>>36678311
>girl leaves him
>wants to commit suicide
>living for girls
Never gonna make it you faggot.
>>36678876
>Think how retarded you'll feel if there is an afterlife
God damn.
>that firefighter died in a fire
>that dude fell down a mine
>i'm here because muh waifu left me
If you've never been in a relationship you can't get burned
>tfw girl got diagnosed with bipolar 2 today
l-lads? What do I do here
>>36679799
That's the non dangerous one.
Got dumped a few weeks ago by my gf who gave no indication that she wanted to break up before that. Just got back from Disney World and were discussing marriage. Saw fucking nothing of it coming.
Anons, whatever you do, DO NOT get in a relationship with a girl who is in her late teens/early twenties. They do not know what the fuck they want. They will be a different person in just a few years. They also have zero idea of how to communicate in a relationship and will just keep shit hidden until it's too late.
It gets better though OP. You have to remember that whatever landed you this girl will mathematically garauntee that at least another girl who's more compatible/not developmentally ignorant will come along. Already got a date planned for next week.
You'll need time to get over her, obviously, but don't spend what could be a finite existence moping over someone to whom you don't matter. You're better than that.
>>36678425
This guy gets it
>lost gf
>considering suicide
jesus, what a trivial sort of person you are.
Brehs, has anyone ever talked to a girl, made progress, then the girl mentions they have a bf who in fact, looks worse than you.
Dude it gets way fucking better. You'll see it as a favor eventually. Glad my ex of 4 years (fiance of 1) broke up with me. Otherwise I'd be hte supporting character in her life. I held her on to much of a pedestal and lost who I am. I am much happier single now, despite not getting laid for the 2 months that we've been apart.
>>36678311
>tfw caught my gf of 2 years texting some other dude
>tfw broke her phone and kicked her out as she was crying
>tfw completely relieved i found out about this shit before she cucked me
>>36680848
A hottie classmate invited me out to go dancing one night and we started getting real close and friendly with each other. We'd go out for drinks, get rides to school together, help with homework, all sorts of good stuff.
About 3-4 months into it, she tells me she's leaving for the weekend to spend it with her boyfriend who lives 5 hours away.
>>36681038
>I am much happier single now, despite not getting laid for the 2 months that we've been apart
Whats your secret mate?
Im in the same situation only its been more than a year with no sex or dates or anything really
Tried:
>work
>lifting
>studies
>martial arts
still, progress goes backwards
>>36679858
This.
>>36681278
Eh, realized I don't need sex or a girl to be happy. Happiness comes from within.
I realized her and I always did the stuff she wanted but really did not do the stuff that was important to me.
Maybe eventually I'll find someone who has things more in common with me and is less self centered. Of not, I'll enjoy life alone, occasionally hanging out with friends.
>>36678311
>at least you had a gf in the first place
>>36680848
>>36681104
Just fucking ask them if they have a bf. If she does, she wasn't going to bang you anyways, if she doesn't then play the confidence card and flirt with her.
Even if shes single and doesn't want to fuck you, she'll recognize your confidence and maybe someday you'll meet her friends or mom to bang
>>36681344
Guess its subjective then
I really do need sex and companionship to be happy, nothing i do can steer me away from that really
Im happy that you managed to handle the situation anon, it could be worse
>>36681389
>If she does, she wasn't going to bang you anyways
Heh... Don't be so naive. Not all of them
Are saints.
>>36681104
I'm here breh. We typically don't ask if they have a bf first because we don't want to give ourselves away. But now I know.
Youll be dead inside for at least 6 months to a year
It's okay bruv, could be worst.
>>36681575
>gf of 3 years
>laying in bed talking about marriage and kids
>absolutely in love
>i'm working 60 hour weeks to save up for our own place
>we pay for a holiday to orlando in may, i put in £1500 she puts in £900
>find out she's been cheating on me for a month
>utterly devastated
>'youre at work all of the time! we dont do anything anymore!'
>block all contact but seriously contemplate killing myself
>try phoning her every now and then (big mistake lads obviously)
>don't speak for a month
>seriously depressed
>go out on the piss and drunk call her saying I forgive her
>in that night I pull
Getting laid changes absolutely everything about your outlook on girls holy shit, all of those feelings are out of the window when you realize you can do better.
>all of the holiday money went through my account
>get a refund, so I took all of that shit for myself
>fast forward another month and she's now dating this guy but phones me in tears apologizing
>i get the feeling she wants the money but there's nothing she can do
>say 'i wont even consider being your friend unless you drop him now'
>she shows me a text of her saying she doesn't love him blah blah
>i go around hers that evening
>tells me how sorry she is, how much she loves me really. all the stuff about marriage was true.
>i fuck her the hardest i have ever fucked anything in my life
>the moment i finish nutting in her rancid cunt tell her i don't forgive her
>walk out, block all contact
>spent her £900 on hefty nights out and personal stuff
Since then I've-
>slept with 5 other girls
>had my first threesome
>hit pbs on all major lifts
>gone out and enjoyed myself more than I have in the past 3 years
Honestly, relationships before you're 30 are pretty dumb.
>>36681656
You stole 900 pounds from some chick? Are you black by any chance?
Please, everyone who has considered suicide after getting dumped.
Remember this is an 18+ website
>>36681656
>Since then I've-
Thats impressive anon
Im happy for you since thats quite some achivement, few could have pulled this off
>>36681656
Also, just to further the shit with relationships being dumb when you're young.
>hanging out with friends in london a whole lot more, meet a bunch of new people
>seemingly perfect relationship of a couple that are 25. Been together 10 years and tell us about how they're planning kids and marriage. Just got their first apartment.
>Girl that introduced me to them tells me that the girl cheats on him monthly and loves another dude
>Girl that introduced me flatmate is a really nice chick called Becky. We went out with her boyfriend while she was studying or someshit. Her boyfriend that night fucks a dude and then in the morning tells her he's confused, she forgives him and they're now about to get a place together.
>>36681676
>stole
Yeah I was about to pay 2/3rds of a holiday abroad to a girl that was getting shafted by another dude. Call me a nigger (I'm white) or whatever makes you feel old enough to be on this website dude.
>>36679858
holy shit. i can back this advice up. my ex of 1 week told me I made her feel like shit all the time, all the while making her laugh and enjoying myself with her.
>>36681656
The cuckette gets cücked. BRILLIANT.
http://aaronbleyaert.tumblr.com/post/109959086957
Please read. It's long winded, but it's the truth.
>>36681656
You seem like a dumbass.
>>36682019
There is a video too about that shit and let me tell you, its not fucking true
I cant relate at all, ive always been in shape and im ambitious but my gf left me all the same but thats not really the point.
The point is things dont get better with time, you get more lonely, sadder and more desperate as time goes on and you still havent moved on
>>36678783
>I've never felt love the post
>>36678311
I had a messy end to my 2.5 year relationship a bit over a month ago. It does get better anon. My feels are still all over the place right now but I'm seeing a new qt and it's fun and you do move on eventually, though I haven't quite yet.
Besided, if it helps, most couples get back together eventually, at least for a little...
>>36678311
Yeah man, it will get better. Some time from now you'll be more /fit/, with a better looking bitch.
How to get gf? I'm 21 and a kissless virgin. I tried tinder but nothing. I'm /fit/ I've been lifting for years
There is just one thing you can do here.
1 thing.
Hop on dat dere celltech.
Just start juicing and become a beast.
>>36681038
Thiisthisthisthisthis. She was all my life and I'm much better off now and my own person again.
>>36678311
Don't you dare to skip the leg day only because your ex
NO EXCUSES
>>36682124
thats because you're boring and have no options. or desperate for female attention
>>36682417
Go clubbing, got my gf that way.
Otherwise SS GOMAD
>>36679542
not OP but similar situation. Oh god I'm laughing and I'm crying, I think this actually convinced me not to kill myself it's so retarded
>>36682739
ofc i dont have any options, thats the whole point
I wish the roles were reversed and girls had to face some competition for guys attention but they dont
>>36678311
Now you got a green pass to fuck whoever you want, still sad?!
>>36678726
Wow for 2 whole years
Also
>soulmate shit
>>36678726
>soulmate
>23 years old
Oh my god you're a just a baby you have no idea
>>36678311
mine dumped me 6 months ago after 5 years of nearly marriage
first months are gonna be hell, but keep strong bro, it will slowly fade away, we are here for you
>>36678948
I have a friend who was in a relationship for 8years, now he fucks random bitches every weeks, why sad tho?
>>36678318
This, I fucking hate this shit.
>>36682834
Blame men
We set the bar so low that if she is breathing she is overqualified basically so any girl out there can have a new bf lined up within minutes after a breakup
>>36681104
>About 3-4 months into it, she tells me she's leaving for the weekend to spend it with her boyfriend who lives 5 hours away.
>not banging her within a month
>dragging it out for 3-4 months
>being used
yer a beta, harry
>>36682811
>avoided marriage
>"hell"
>>36681093
I think I remember your thread, you broke a iphone in half?
you did good breh
>>36678332
>>36678311
It get better
>gf dumped me while in Cyprus for surgical charity
> no fucks given
>fucked both my roommates and the doctor overseeing me
Just see this as a detox time for women. No commitment or relaoonship. Just release the beast
>>36678311
>be me 17
>meet a girl online
>ldr what could be easier
>meet up after a couple months
>sex is great
>first year is great
>start arguing most days
>try to leave her but she threatens suicide
>another 6 months go
>more arguing every day
>i go to see her for a month
>starts punching me when shes angry
>tfw girls can hit guys and its fine
>another few months
>finally build the courage to break up with her
>tells me shes gonna kill herself
>i say shes a psychotic bitch and needs some counselling
>she doesent do it
>be 2 months now
>minimal stress
>relaxing every day
>life is good
Just remember, you'll get chewed up and spat out more and more as time goes on until you're left an empty husk of a person.
Dreams die, even when you achieve them.
>>36678311
Does get better.
Gf of 4 years broke up with me in October. Was a messy brake up and we only stopped talking and fucking each other early January.
Just drink, lift, fuck bitches for a bit,
It gets so much better.
Why did she leave you? People don't leave people for no reason.
"to get over someone get under someone"
Best advice I've ever received.
Go get some hole or be a sad cunt for a few months. Good luck.
>>36678345
22yo here, agree. Always get upset when normies complain about getting dumped
>>36681093
its better to cut them off immediately, the resentment can only grow after u let something slide
>>36678726
Sorry that it's gonna crash and burn. She's gonna get fat and seek attention from anyone who will give it to her, then they're gonna give it to her. You'll find out, she'll blame you. Just leave now.
Been with my gf for 7 years later this month and I just gotta say things never work out the way you expect. Has she cheated in the past? Yup, and chances are she'll cheat again if she hasn't already. This is how mature realtionships work, shit isn't perfect but it's better than being alone.
>>36685466
Weak bait.
