> tfw only ugly girls mire you
>tfw you were ugly/fat for so long you assume any attention or looks you receive is negative
>>36608761
this. im so fucking autistic
Walk past a hot girl and we make eye contact? I immediately look away.
>>36608761
>are you me
>>36608761
it should be a crime to let your kids get fat it fucks your mind even when you lose the weight
>tfw beta with muscles
Even fat chicks don't want me lel
>tfw no girls mire me
one day i may
>>36608737
>still girls
>still mirin
Take what you can get
Thats nothing tc..
Imagine 10/10s miring and being completely unable to initiate a conversation with them...
Fuvk, I h8 my life...
>>36608737
>tfw even ugly girls laugh at you
>used to not get any looks at all
>only get chatted up by ugly/fat girls on occasion
>drop 40lbs, build muscle, dress properly, get a good haircut
>suddenly good looking girls, even 9-10s give me looks all the time
>feels great
>realize i can do so much better than landwhales and 5-6s
>as a bonus fats/uglies have started ignore me, guess i'm far enough out of their league now
>still a bit of a loner and don't get into any social situations where girls could talk to me tho
>working on that though and soon off for vacation and parties and started getting more social, back in touch with some old friends, not smoking weed anymore apart from socially which has made me more smooth and confident and willing to get out of my comfort zone
>self confidence is making swole gains
When will you too start living and stop wallowing in your self pity?
>>36608761
>>36608803
>>36608807
hold me brehs
>Tfw I got black out drunk and some fat chick takes advantage of me
>Tfw if I was a girl people would say I was raped
>Tfw I all get is shit for this
![tumblr_nmrnbfCxNc1usm1uvo1_1280[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/OwOVBuO.jpg "tumblr_nmrnbfCxNc1usm1uvo1_1280[1].jpg")
>tfw no girls mire me
>tfw 5'11, 200lb fatty with noob gainz in a classroom full of 18 year old spooky skeletons
>don't talk to people in class because what's even the point, they don't talk to me either
>resting bitch face from being on a perma cut+underlying self hatred
>end up having to talk to someone, example to ask them if [my usual seat that has a water bottle on it] is taken, or about homework or whatever
>the girls always give me these huge deer-in-headlights eyes and hesitate before responding to me
At least I'm not being openly made fun of anymore, like when I was a fat fuck.
Th-this is b-better, haha r-right
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>>36608761
>>36608807
>>36609090
Glad to hear I'm not the only one.
Some days the attention is great, most days I just wish people would go back to leaving me alone.
>>36609147
I feel like the attention is worse becuse i dont know what to do with it
>>36609074
>getting more social, back in touch with some old friends, not smoking weed anymore apart from socially which has made me more smooth and confident and willing to get out of my comfort zone
Fuck I know that feel too well. This cut is wrecking my social life. The bulk of so many social interactions is eating and drinking (college).
> just go out and not eat
Everyone always fucking says that.
> "Hey anon, aren't you gonna eat more?"
> "Oooh look who's eating healthy!"
> "Come on man, take a shot with us!"
> "Have another drink!"
> tfw being only buzzed around drunk people sucks dick
>tfw 30-40 year old women mire you at work
>tfw you're into older women
>>36608737
i know that feel all to well
>>36609074
>>36609074
>get a good haircut
elaborate
>>36609306
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>>36609273
u r grose mein frend
>>36609306
A good haircut that suits you does a lot for your looks. Also I used to just let my hair grow long and when I got tired of it I did a buzzcut. Never had proper haircuts. But since a year or so I started going to a hair dresser every other month or so and I look a lot better with proper hair.
>>36609324
>>36609306
Yokes aside, the Hitler youth/Brad Pitt in Fury haircut is popular right now because people think it looks good.
Consider styles with short sides and back and longer on top (if it suits your head/face shape, I mean)
>>36609119
You'll get there in time mang.
>>36609099
Actually had similar experience. Passing out from being so drunk. 2 girls offer me help and take me to their apartment right next to the club. I pretty much pass out straight away, last thing I remember is a fat girl sitting on my face and me trying to push her off.
>wake up and there's my vomit on their floor
>TFW if I was a girl they'd be in jail for life
>want to get even but don't know how, steal all their frozen meats out the freezer
>walk home smelling like vomit and stale pussy with around $60 of frozen chicken & steaks
>>36609324
>>36609357
>>36609364
Thanks bros!
>>36609273
>dat gif
>tfw thin and girls leave the gym and hang out with the receptionist until I'm done with my sets.
Ugly will always be ugly. Socially awkward will always be socially awkward.
I feel like I should give up on my gainz and just drink in the dark and cry until Death's cold embrace takes me from This Mortal Coil.
Or maybe move to Latvia.
>>36609396
>walk home smelling like vomit and stale pussy with around $60 of frozen chicken & steaks
pls be real
>>36609396
>>want to get even but don't know how, steal all their frozen meats out the freezer
>>walk home smelling like vomit and stale pussy with around $60 of frozen chicken & steaks
Pretty sweet revenge, bonus being that as she's fat she'll go king kong when she realizes someone took her food. And you got your free protons!
>>36608737
>tfw my gf cucked me
>>36609396
60$ worth of protons. I don't see the downside. Jokes aside, fucking hell man.
>>36609492
>Ugly will always be ugly.
A beard might help, also I've seen mewing (Mike Mew's technique to realign a retruded maxilla) pretty much transform someone's face (she had facial disfigurement but nonetheless) so if you have a retruded maxilla you should be able to sort that out. Haircuts, glasses also can affect how your facial structure is perceived (they might be more minor, though).
>>36608803
Try too keep eye contact, make sure she breaks. You'll be a creep but you'll know if she was mirin or nah brah.
>tfw not even mired by ugly girls
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaa
>>36609563
Don't let it get to you breh, just dump her ass and get a new one. I've been wallowing for literally years in self-pity over that shit.
>tfw fat girl want the d
L-leave me alone pls
>>36609869
i tried this and she started crying
>>36608737
I don't think I've ever had a girl be into me.
How do you tell the difference between a girl being polite and nice or actually into you?
>tfw riddled with skin problems
>tfw start balding in HS
>tfw Spanish teacher described me as flaco to my peers
>tfw go to uni
>tfw get fit
>tfw get buzz cut
>tfw make height gains 6'2
>tfw girls start mirin
>tfw my heart feels warm
>tfw you finally understand what it's like to be loved
>>36609962
That's how girls are broski, crying girls makes me diamonds
>>36609869
I was buying something the other day and was looking the cashier in the eye, and to my surprise, she stared right back into my eyes as we were talking and both of us refused to break eye-contact the entire transaction. I dunno if it was like a challange or she wanted the D, but it was weird, but hot at the same time.
>>36609972
sometimes they draw their posture up and push their breasts out, sometimes they play with their hair, sometimes they make a LOT of eye contact, sometimes you can just tell (maybe that's ego), sometimes they'll actually say so (rare for me), sometimes they'll position themselves in front of you so that you see them or even walk back and forth. There's also the "drive-by perfuming" where they put on perfume and then walk by you. Laughing a lot at your jokes is another one.
>>36609492
Latvia's fucking sick bro.
If you speak Latvian or Russian and you have a decent amount of cash to burn, I'd definitely recommend going. Only thing is girls don't want you for your looks, but your money. Remember that and you'll do well.
First Dacha is an unreal night club. Packed full of hookers and good looking girls, just remember to into Russian.
>tfw only milfs and younger teen girls mire you
Fuck my life. All I want is a hot 24 year old girl who's 5'10. It's impossible
>>36610054
they are the least likely to show it, I think. You have to remember it's outside our social mores to have a woman show interest, either she's young enough she hasn't learned yet or old enough that her test is rising and she has nothing to lose.
test
>>36610054
Could be worse
>>36609306
Good hair is so important to get attention.
People treat hair as if it was something you shoulnd't care but a well taken care & styled hair will give you so many social points.
Tfw childhood mouth breather and now have invisible jaw line and chin.
my face and neck almost are flush.
My only hope is double jaw surgery. Pray for me, boys
>>36610122
don't do it anon, recovering from just that
>no grills are worth this hell
>>36608761
Me but skinny and no sense of style. Idk how to react when I get a compliment and I always assume they are just fucking with me.
>tfw no girls mire or talk to me
>get fashionable
>no girls mire or talk to me
>feet fit
>no girls mire or talk to me
>get charasmatic
>no girls mire or talk to me
>tfw only mired by black women, middle-aged fat women, or jailbait
this is horseshit tbhfam
>>36610196
its not even for the grills, it's so I can look at myself and not think "what the fuck"
>>36610211
I'm the opposite, even when women are hostile to me I assume it's suppressed lust.
>>36608737
>tfw ugly so other uggos see me like 'omg has great body but is uggo in the face so hes attainable!'
there is no point to living
>tfw I spent 90% of my life fat and ugly
>even as a toddler I was chubby
>in primary I was the fat kid that thin kids didnt bully, because they were afraid of fatzilla and that being 3x their weight I could easily grapple them to the ground
>in middleschool I was the fat ugly comic reading nerd with severe acne, people didnt bully because they didnt want oily hands
>in highschool I was the MTG & WOW playing reject who spent all his time with other fat rejects in the anime club
>first years of uni I was the fat guy who got told to leave when he turned up for uni parties
>nearly halfed myself with weightloss
>no acne problems
>I have a jaw and no more triple chin
>somewhat out of DYEL mode
>when people compliment me I just assume they're polite
>literally have no concept of being atractive in others eyes
>dont know girls were flirting with me until the few friends I managed to make while getting fit point it out to me
>when I look into the mirror I still see the fat ugly guy and struggle with believing that someone could like/love me
maybe if I lift more it'll get better, r-r-right ?
>>36610323
>>even as a toddler I was chubby
How the fuck do you know?
>>36610348
Baby pictures i reckon you fucking mong
>tfw only headscarfs mire
test name
The no jaw life is LITERALLY the worst. You're not actually retarded, but you look like a retard.
I'm going to be severely mentally scarred for the rest of my life.
Make sure your children don't mouth breath for fucks sake
>>36608737
>tfw get a "Hey sexy" on my way home from the gym with a shoulder pump
>>36610370
>Baby pictures i reckon you fucking mong
Well duh, but how do you judge a baby as chubby. Most babys arent really known for their development hence the term "baby"
Im guessing this is really beside the point to be fair, seems like im just nitpicking
>tfw classmate mired me yesterday
I only wish it was a gril. I can't seem to find gril to save my life
>>36610348
toddler may have been the wrong word, I mean when I 3-4years old I was already chubby with a very blown up face. Ofc babies and small kids are supposed to look like that and have babyfat, but I was a few steps further that road.
Already had multiple stomache rolls when sitting, I have some old photos from our holidays.
>>36608737
>tfw neighbour caught me mirin self in window reflection
Uh oh, busted!
>>36610409
It's a long-shot but I had some recession of the chin and a beard helped me immensely. I don't have anywhere near your level of recession from what you've said, but even a small amount of facial hair turned me from disfigured (obviously so to my eyes) to normal. I don't know whether it only works in mild cases like mine, but it might be worth growing your beard out and seeing how it looks.
The other possible long-shot is Mike Mew's technique, if your jaw-bone is trapped up behind your maxilla it might drop down when your maxilla is lifted up off it (I'm hoping for this for myself). I've definitely seen someone's results where their chin came forward although she had all sorts of facial damage, missing teeth etc. so again not exactly like your case.
>>36610447
chubby isn't a matter of development though (it's nothing to do with skeletal frame etc.) it's only adipose levels and babies vary in that in exactly the same way adults do.
>>36610462
Dont matter, i was nitpicking and im sorry
This site is toxic enough without my input
Ill tell you something i believe from the bottom of my heart
It doesnt matter what they think, who are they to you?
What matters is what you think, do you think you are attractive? do you like the way you look?
Be happy my friend, in every way you can
>>36610472
I remember once I was sitting in a park overlooking a street and I watched two young people walk past each other, no obvious sign that they'd interacted and then as soon as they were past each other they both checked their reflection in the shop window..
>>36610490
I'm at the point now where I would happily drop ~10k on top of the surgeries to add chin and jaw implants.
Having a recessed chin and weak jaw affects me in everything I do. I don't even TRY talking to girls as sexual partners any more. I'm just devoting myself to getting /fit/ and getting the military to provide jaw surgery.
>>36609396
woulda vandalized their shit
>>36610252
still not worth
> months of pain and tenderness from actual procedure
>then months or inconvenience and discomfort from healing braces and shit
>>36610553
Dude a couple months of physical anguish are worth a lifetime of contentment
>>36608737
A hole is a hole, fuck them
>>36610568
recovery is literally 8 months senpai
>>36610584
Brah there are females that have had this surgery that don't bitch about it
>>36610524
I can understand that, it definitely helped my self-image to be able to address it in myself.
>>36610598
it took me 20 minutes to eat a salad size bowl of garden peas for months, if you get any drastic correction it is soul rending, but just keep talking about experiences you totally have personal insight about senpai
also my procedure was called progressive correct which is substantially more painful but guarantees better results and what not
>>36608737
Only the brave will jump on grenades
>>36609396
>walk home with $60 worth of frozen chicken and steaks
>start Facebook group for class
>girl in the year below me joins, is qt as fuck
>quality bantz, constant flirting
>see an opening to ask her out
>take it
>she's into me
>adds me on Snapchat, I send her a post-workout pic
>she never responds
>finally add her on Facebook
>she's fat
>has very little fat in her face (which is why is never noticed)
>basically just looks super young
>all the fat is below her neck
>arms like an orangutan
On the one hand, I'm grateful she never responded so I wouldn't have to reject her myself (she mentioned some body image issues, so I guess she felt inadequate), but on the other, it's YET ANOTHER fat girl who likes me.
I just want a blonde cardiobunny. Is that too much to ask?
At least is not ugly doods
>tfw your friend's ugly gf mires you so not only is it gross but makes the friendship awkward af
no mires because ugly loser
> CMON MAN WHAT ARE YOU DOING
>>36610680
What app is that?
>>36609869
how do I know if she was mirin? I try to do this but usually they just look for 2 sec and then look at something else. what does this mean? they don't blush or look embarrassed
>>36610680
That well dressed black fellow though
>be Hamplanet
>no female attention
>get lean but look like I've been to the gym twice (after a year of lifting on a cut)
>only girl that's interested in a beeflord with a kid
Does it get better as you get bigger? 7 more years and I'll be a wizard.
>>36610671
take an overweight woman and make her healthy, that's the wonderful thing there aren't "fat people" there are only people who for some reason are carrying around a lot of extra fat they will most likely never need.
>>36609972
this might help you breh
>>36610737
That is true. She lives nearby so I could get her to join my gym. She'd be fucking gorgeous if she was skinny. And I've seen pics of her a year or two ago, and she was much smaller. There's still hope.
>>36609492
try this
>>36609099
>>36609396
This.
> being at my bors birthday party
> fatty girl bohtered me whole evening, saying that she has "free realitionship" with her boyfriend
> i got iritated to the point i told her that i would never bang such stupid fat bitch even if i hadn't gf
> got wasted with my bros
> wake up at home smelling like pussy, no memories
> ohgodno.py
> check with my bros, they make of me for banging a fatty
> apparently, i was so shitfaced that i could barely walk, bro wanted to take me home, but fatty offered herself to take me home
> asked fatty if that is true and if something happened
> she said she took me to her place and we fucked
It almost destroyed relationsip with my gf, because I told her I cheated on her (everybody saw how I walked away with fatty and everybody heard from her that we fucked).
Few weeks later I got bits of my memories back, "we fucked" meant that she tried to ride my soft meat, while I was so drunk that I was happy to lie after eating some apple pie (not euphemism for her pussy, she really offered me apple pie).
tl;dr
> got wasted, fatty takes advantage
> all i got is shit form bros and misery (also a pie, but it wasn't that good)
I still wonder how things would be, if I was a wasted /fit/ girl and some fatty dude lured me to his home for some pie.
Also, I never got wasted on party again.
>tfw u were happy spending your time playing video games and never leaving home being lazy
>tfw now ur fit, have friends, go out, and have crippling depression
I never asked for this
>>36609267
hey man just plan your shit out. If you're heading out to eat shit food then skip a meal before that. That way you won't get to many cals. also drink beer, never shots. Beer got less sugar. Also make shots your cheat day, like once a month or something and you should be fine.
>>36610788
Fuck me, right in the feels anon.
>>36610646
Bro I would suck golf balls through a garden hose daily just to get a semblance of a regular face
>>36608761
>unpopular
>unattractive
>name is Michael, the most common goddamn name in the USA
>always assume when someone says your name they're talking to the other more popular well liked Michael because there's always at least 1 in the class
>adulthood
>attractive and have slain some pussy it only took 23 years
>still assume people are talking to a different, better looking more popular Michael because surely no one wants to talk to you
started working out 6 months ago, finally have nice arms and legs (still have small gut and little fat on my chest) but girls are finally starting to smile back at me on the trail when I go running :) feels okay
>>36610773
I never manage to get wasted to the point where I have no memories of it. Just how much do you have to drink?
>>36610453
this. I get mired by guys all the fucking time. I'm pretty small cause of 5'10'' and 165 lbs but got great veins and traps. Guys usually say "wow you're strong as fuck for being so small"(lmao 240 lbs squat and 3pl8 dead). Also lost of guys miring my boxing skills.
>thought I was being mired
>go to the locker room and realise my ridiculously tight shorts were inside out
heh
>>36610879
Knock out a 1/5th on your own should do it
>>36610883
lol those are pretty gay thoughts you're having there buddy
>>36610879
Some people don't. I got two friends who's always blacked out drunk even though I'm usually at a higher ‰. I've been to drunk to get up from the floor but still got memory from it. Just be glad you're blessed
>tfw I will go to the bar tomorrow (cheat day)
And the beautiful, recently single bartender will be there (she's 5 feet tall [my fetish] and her face looks like Kylee Strutt's) and she will be friendly to me (for better tips of course), ask how my weight gain is going, ask how my sick mother is, and what articles I have written recently.
She will be the only one I talk to, the only woman I want to touch, to hold, to look into those baby blue eyes, and kiss those lips.
And after 4 or 5 beers, I'll walk back to my place, having not asked her out.
Again.
>>36610898
>wishing girls would mire me
>gay
wat.png
>>36610879
Well I don't really know, because I don't really remember I think I had something about 12 beers, some home made 80% calvados and few other drinks. But I think it differs from person to person, my cousin can drink all he wants a he still remembers everything.
>>36610941
>wishing to be a girl because guys are the only one that mire him
heterosexual sexual thoughts there
>>36610918
So some people are actually unable to get wasted? That explains why 2 of my friends don't remember shit despite drinking way less than me. I always assumed they were just bullshitting so they 'd have a convenient excuse.
Or mabe they do?
>>36610879
I used to laugh at people who got blackouts.
One day a friend texted me going like "dude wtf did I do yesterday"
At first I didnt believe him, because he drank like half of what I did. Then it slowly dawned on me, that the amount of alcohol other people get blackouts at, is a good time for me.
I could literally down 10 beers or a bottle of rum and be pretty fine.
I was borderline alcoholic, I was drinking 2-4times a week and never below 5 beers or a handful of shots.
really cut down on it (and then a few months later, I was down 10lbs just drinking less and I realized what a fat slob I was and I cut out soda and junkfood too and now down 80lbs)
>>36610701
Blendr
Excuse all the stickers, its the only way I can edit pics from my phone.
Shit rates your popularity based on how many people like you vs the dislikes.
But as any other app is very limited and you gotta pay extra for full functionality I also have okcupid which I think is better, I'm dating a feminine benis and she's a keeper.
>>36610956
I wished they were girls not that I was a girl. Read again you fucktard. besides this is /fit/ everyone is gay here
>>36610937
Asking her out as a customer is seems like it adds a lot of pressure (sudden shift from "I'm working" to "I'm being approached as a person"), I'd look for a way to interact with her outside that role, when she isn't "waitress-mode". Maybe get to know other people who work there, one of them invites you out to a social event suddenly you're not "customer" status anymore - something like that. If you had a skill marketable to the bar I'd suggest you try to get them to hire you to do some work there (like carpentry or whatever who knows).
>>36610748
That chart is bullshit.
>>36610963
I don't know man, I think a lot of people lie. Maybe it's just my friend group being scummy (actually that's pretty likely) but I feel like I've become very good at detecting lies. I'm starting to hate my friends because I know they lie about the dumbest shit.
Often times people lie about not remembering anything from the "night before" because they want to gauge what YOU think of their actions that night.
>>36610976
>I'm dating a feminine benis and she's a keeper.
Wut
>>36610236
>get charismatic
I don't think you did bub
>>36610937
Except this time. You will say these words before as you leave "Hey you wana grab some coffie tommorow?" Unfortunatly she will reply with sorry I have a boyfriend. But you will smile and say "ofcource, see you around" and walk out a better stronger man than who walked in.
>>36611004
Got her from okcupid, genuinely thought she was a regular gril but turned out it wasn't.
Point was that this app can really get you laid if you're at least 7/10
>>36611032
>regular gril but turned out it wasn't.
Could you...explain more?
>>36611019
Nah, I'll never ask Leighanne out. She deserves better than me.
>>36610918
this
>>36608737
That means you're ugly, bro
Fuckin deal with it
>>36608761
>This tbqh senpai.
My family used to make fun of me for my weight calling me fatty or gut. In high school I had braces, bad acne and shitty fashion sense. No girls talk to me still. Mainly because I am a broken person who secretly knows even if I reach my goal wait I'll still be fat.
>>36611130
>only good looking guys mire good looking girls
>never heard of girls claiming ugly guys check em out
gtfo
>>36610646
What did it look like after the initial surgery? Can people tell that your jaw is fake? Did it look "off" until a certain point?
>>36610868
Nice try, Booney
>>36610724
maybe they were just looking in your general direction
Some teenage girl in leggings said hi to me today as she was walking past with her friends as I was sitting on the side of the road with my bike. Felt nice especially because the skin around my eyes has been fucked the last few days
>>36611153
Your jaw isn't "fake" after the surgery. If anything, it's closer to what it should genetically look like.
>>36611153
Just tell people you got in a car wreck and had to get it fixed or something.
>>36608737
1) Lower your ego and date the actually smart and friendly ones.
2) Take that as a diagnostic indicator that some hotter grills are into you. Just like guys, the less attractive they are the rougher their social skills are.
no more ugmos
>tfw can't get/stay hard for sex
>tfw can't get/stay hard to masturbate unless im watching myself in a mirror
h-have i made it?
>>36611063
I made an account on okcupid about a month ago a lot of ppl hitting me up and Shit but I'm an insecure fucker so girl hit me up saying I look cool and Shit in common and bleh.
Basically we just chatted set up a date went on some dates and found out she has a feminine benis, we still smashed.
>>36611203
So it looks fucked up for a while after you do the surgery?
Also, does this make the jaw look normal or movie star jaw? Is movie star jaw an option?
>>36610766
>he goes to bars to find girls
>he is surprised when he finds they are sluts
An actual autist: the post
>>36608737
If ugly girls mire you, non-ugly girls mire you.
You don't notice because the risk/reward involved is higher for uglier girls so they go further out of their way to make it obvious to you.
If you're a chud, you'll be more willing to make an ass of yourself to get the attention of a prince charming because it might be your only chance to get a prince charming. Meanwhile, a princess doesn't give a shit; she's got less to gain and more to lose.
>>36611032
>get you laid
>is having sex with a man
Confirmed for not making it
>>36611288
kek
>>36611296
But anon this means I already made it. Now I just gotta maintain which is fucking harder than the actual progress. Gained 3 pounds this week and one inch waist but also 1 inch hips which is good
>>36611293
>>36610766
shit wrong image
>>36611301
I'm being kind of serious though. I want to get into acting and modeling, and I think my chances would be improved if I can fix my jaw. I already have the height, and the blond hair/blue eyes combo. Bad thing about blond hair is that it grows all patchy on my face so it can't really hide my jaw well.
>>36610971
that's good progress senpai
>>36610737
>>36610763
quality b8 f a m
Not meaning to go full /r9k/, but being overweight can generally be linked to vices associated with overeating/not working out.
You can drag yo chick into the gym and fitness and shit, but if she aint got the mindset, nothings gonna change and she's take you down too tbqh.
>>36611373
>wear an undershirt under polos/button-ups
>this man isn't alpha at all. He's just 40 years old
>>36611387
Pls respond
>be fat
>bang girls with below-average faces and average bodies
>be fit
>bang girls with above average faces and below-average bodies
Fuck this gay earth
>>36611082
with that attitude you're right you little bitch
just DO IT
Is it better to have an overweight girlfriend that sucks your dick and is willing to do anything for you, or just be alone?
>>36608737
newsflash buddy. even ugly girls like attractive dudes.
>>36611638
an overweight fuck buddy willing to do anything for you is pretty good
I wouldn't date her though. I'm pretty ashamed of her whenever I'm not incredibly horny
>>36611387
Pls /fit/ answer me, don't let me down.
>>36611260
how was it
>>36608737
>fat kid growing up due to thyroid problem.
>teased a lot and tormented as a kid.
>Make it through college.
>Medicine and surgery and diet and I am now down to a normal weight.
>So used to being ignored by everyone aka "the invisible man" that now that I am in shape I can't handle anyone trying to flirt with me.
>Glad I am in shape now and work out and exercise but my mind is still in the "Fatty" stage where nobody looked at me.
>Don't know how to handle women trying to flirt with me so I come across as aloof or a snob which in turn makes them try harder.
>I liked being "the invisible man" because I felt comfortable in knowing I would be left alone.
I feel your pain.
>>36609563
It happens to everyone at one point.
Dump her ass, you may have been cucked but that doesn't make you a cuck. If you forgive her, that's when you become the cuck and you will continually be cucked staying with that chick.
>>36611260
I want to try one of these sites, but several times throughout my life girls have said to me "ew, did you know X has an OK you'd account? He's such a loser" (referring to other guys) even though it's obviously hypocritical of them.
>>36608737
>tfw you realize that you're objectively ugly af and will have to settle for other ugly people your whole life
Literally kill me
>>36608737
>tfw you feel like pic related
>>36611661
Clme on, not one person reading this has had jaw surgery that left them looking like a movie star after?
>married milf at work told me shes getting into webcam porn and her husbands ok with it
>she told me shes also getting breast implants
>forgot what day it was over the sound of my boner firing and told her to give me her link.
>she laughs and walks away
> tells everyone i fell for it
>>36610971
>bottle of rum
sure, bud
>back in middle school girls would randomly walk up to me and tell me their friends were into me
>go talk to friend
>they immediately scream "OMG EWWWWW!" and scream at friend who told me
>brush it off first time
>happens again
>and again
>after 5th time of it happening, I just don't care anymore
>assume I'm completely unlovable, and shut down socially
>left hungry skelly behind, and got fit
>friends assure me I'm good looking now and could have any girl I want
>still assume I'm that unlovable skinny middle school kid
>tfw 28 year old kissless handholdless virgin
>>36611890
Iktfb
>in school
>ask girl out
>she says no
>ah well no big deal
>back to class, happen to sit in front of said girl
>"ew it sits in front of me"
22 now, had one serious relationship, lasted 3 years, now i have a problem with rejection, really only hook up with easy girls, problem is theyre not hot
Had a beta as fuck moment last weekend
>at club with a few of the boys
>drunk dude tries hooking me up with this chick
>tells her im a bit shy
>comes back and tells me to talk to her
>look over, she is 9/10
>both best mate and drunk dude in my face telling me to go over there
>stripper comes up and tells me to stop being a pussy and buy her a drink
>i couldnt do it
No idea what the fuck happened, the inner autist just decided to show its head and i could not approach this girl
>tfw i can deadlift twice my bodyweight but cant start a conversation with a pretty girl
who gives a shit? turn em into practice gfs bro.
>>36608737
>Girls
>Mire
>You
Pick 2
>>36608761
>320lbs to 180
I know that feel, lad
Is it better to have an overweight fuckbuddy that sucks your dick and is willing to do anything for you, or just be alone?
>>36608737
>only aunt thinks you look good
>mom calls you fat
>male friends mire
>no females to ever
>gf only cares about dick gains
>>36612044
like hamplanet overweight?
keep gettin that dinky suckd bro
>>36609099
This
Luckily I realized what was happening, pushed her off my lap, and ran out the front door
Rest is a little hazy
>>36608761
this
im not used to being looked at or attention, it sucks. I literally had a huge transformation, lets say 30% bodyfat to 12-15% (estimate)
>>36608737
>have fun in my 20s but I was average/chubby
>fit as fuck at 30
>I feel like im the only one that feels young/wants to have fun anymore
I dont feel my age at all, nor look it (former babyface). I dont feel like getting married, I want to have fun since I wasnt this fit or close in my 20s.
anyone else turn things around relatively late?
>>36612192
wow anon I'm 20 and I feel like my friends are not up for as much shit anymore.
>>36612210
This
>let's just go out to some bar
You mean like we do every weekend? Jesus my friends are boring
>>36612210
friends will bail on you for pussy, that's life. and it sucks, cause making new friends isnt easy.
you know what though? I should be grateful. if not for being a bit lonely, i'd never get in amazing shape. it's crazy what you can do when you focus on fitness 100%.
but now that im fit (still want to improve, but yeah), I want to make some social gains.
>>36612223
Survey says "people who are bored are boring people"
>>36612192
YESSSSS
29 and i feel like i'm 22. i dont want to get married or have babies for a good while. but everyone is already fat and ugly :( why do people give up so easily and so soon?
i was the same as you gustavo, i was average and chubby until last year when i turned 29.
>>36608803
>tfw spent my entire early teens developing my eye look technique
My eyes used to water whenever I looked at a stranger who walked past in the eye. I used to train myself and gradually developed the discipline to what it is today. I can stare down anyone no problem, except this beautiful blonde but she kept eye contact for 20 minutes I dont think she was quite alright.
Generally women look straight away, select few have good technique and dont pussy out.
Men are much tougher opponents, especially those guys that wont look away and it starts getting awkward.
Best thing to do in the situation where you need to break eye contact is to gently blink and as your eyes are closed for that split second, move them away. This looks elegant and you end up on top at the end.
As you can see, eye contact with strangers is serious business.
>>36612223
Hopefully summer will change things up, will be my first summer at uni - might be fun.
>>36612229
I can only imagine, making friends at this young age is difficult enough. I guess I'm being picky though I feel like most normies are pretty fucking boring - guys anyway, I'll talk to girls becuase I am horny and desperate for that dank vagina magic
>>36612244
on the bright side, I realize now age is only a number. if you take care of your body, there is no reason you cant look better than a 21 year old.
fit is fit. and fortunately, guys age well. just take care of your body and the rest will follow. I think the whole marriage/kids thing is overrated, I just want to have some fun now that im fit. cause before, I didnt have these opportunities as a chubby/skinnyfat guy.
>>36612192
>>36612210
>>36612223
Direct hit to the feels.
My friends and I are all 19-20 and they're all so busy trying to be in a married couple that I can't go out unless
>They're on the phone the entire time
>They drag the girl along because clingy
>Then she starts trying to get away from the actual fun
>Then he has to go check on her to make her feel included
>Then they break off and go sit and be an annoying couple when it's a party environment
>They bail after 45 minutes because girl annoyed him into leaving
>Guy friends have to fucking beg to go out, have to text all the time like an hourly report.
>20
>Long-term committed relationships
Just, why?
>>36610971
The sad part is that once you blackout for the first time, it happens more and more often.
First time blacking out for me took a fifth of whiskey. Then it started happening after like 12 or 13 drinks. This was as a 140lb manlet too.
Shit sucks man. I had to cut back heavily just to stop the paranoia. Oh well, at least I started lifting
>>36608737
GET BACK TO TRAINING!!!
>>36611800
obviously not fuckface
>>36612284
everyone I think feels like they have to do the wife/kids thing just because "it's what you do".
in life, you should always do what you want. not what other people want you to do.
>>36610724
>>36610724
im late but if they look more than once. like eye contact, look away, then back at you
>>36610879
>go to party
>sausage
>get black out drunk, throw up all over my friends couch and pass out
>all the women show up afterwards
never again
>>36612372
Alright what do I do when I look back? I try to give them a half smile or whatever they're called. Should I do that?
youre all autistic faggots who cant get laid
fuck off
>>36608737
I admit I did not read the thread but I was thinking about this.
What do you /fit/ bros with girlfriends or nice cars or money really want in life? What do you struggle with? I mean feel guys always share their inner most issues. What do you guys with stuff struggle with daily?
>>36612449
yeah. if they smile back thats basically an invitation. Other things to look for is if they start fucking with their hair. im basically just thinking back to what happened during my personal experiences so it might not be a 1:1 thing for you. just go over and talk to them after that and relax, its really not as stressful as people think
>>36611170
>>36610868
What are the chances
>fucking Mooney's
>>36612512
not him but
I find it odd to stare at girls, wont they be creeped out?
>>36612555
yeah if you're just sitting there leering. you need to be subtle, not boring a hole thru her with your eyes
>>36612284
L O N D O N?
Fuck man how do I meet dudes to fucking go out with? (NO HOMO)
Your friends getting girlfriends are the fucking worst, just because their gf's are the fucking worst. I know one friend who has a cool gf that you can actually talk to without getting brain damage.
>>36612512
alright thanks man
>>36610030
She thinks you're Jeffrey Dahmer bro...
>>36610238
Jail bait doesn't sound too bad. Just don't get caught...
>>36612493
whatever you say, bruh-bruh
>>36612510
keeping/maintaining said stuff
>>36611202
this is surgery guy, I entirely agree with this and you will look like you got hurt so either man up and say you fixed your shit or say you fell, I legit broke my jaw in peewee football and the grow stunted so I had it fixed later
>>36612606
Lately I've just been going out with classmates/coworkers and meeting new bros through them. It's like a bro-network.
Quick question :
>accidentally make eye contact
> eye contact last more than 3 seconds
> girls face isn't anything
> not angry
>not happy
>maybe scared
Almost blacked out at the gym walking and saw this perky blonde looking at me after I regained balanced.
Went to shop for running shoes and a chicken I knew from hs caught me miring.
All pupils dialated. Should I have said something
>>36612223
at least you have friends
i'm 24 and i have never been to a bar.
i don't have friends at my new college.
i am having neurotic episodes where i just chat to myself in the car because i have so little socialization.
>>36612248
>tfw my eyes water now, even though a year ago it NEVER happened.
What causes this? Training your eye contact helps you get over this?
>>36612349
Why is it hard for you to accept that most people want a wife and kids, and are in fact not conned into it? You get to teach your kids to be the people you'd like them to be based off of your life experiences, and rely on your wife for companionship, financial security, sex, etc.
>>36611294
I like this insight
>>36611643
He could just be ugly himself who knows. Not like he's gonna post a picture cuz too many savages on here.
>>36611478
I know why this happens to you. It's cuz ur fit but you just have a below average face without fully realizing it.
>tfw your standards have become so high that you refuse to be seen with ugly people ever
I don't have conversations with ugly people longer than like 10 seconds too. It's a really shitty trait about me now
>>36614496
You're probably not even that good looking. Good looking ppl talk to everybody.. I mean EVERYBODY. They're social as fuck too.
>>36614538
Lol I talk to everybody. I just don't associate with ugly people. Even my whole crew is just good looking people
>>36610680
>>36614084
Social ansiety, still happens me when i see a pretty girl in the street
>>36614548
>my crew
Lel
>>36609306
Don't go to an unisex hair dresser, go for a male barber
trust me, it will be totally different
if you are a shitty 4/10 neckbeard with neckbeard and long hair a female hairstyle could make you a 5/10
a male barber could make you 6-7/10
bonus point if the barber is bald/balding
>>36611851
I lol'd sorry bro
>>36612244
Hply fucking shit. That robot in the pic looks like Elliot Roger
Don't browse /fit/ much anymore but I thought I'd share this with you guys
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdtoMUYN_xE
Don't sweat m8, orange vegan got a gf
>>36610323
Pump and dump those bitches brah
>>36616415
He has to let you know he is getting laid. I know he has the girl right there in a hotel room. But damn that sounded like such a virgin thing to say.
>>36609306
Mullet
>>36609492
>Socially awkward will always be socially awkward.
You are wrong on that man.
>>36609492
>implying Latvian Aryan goddesses would want your dumb ass
>>36608761
>TFW you assume people being your friend is actually a sick joke because of high school
>>36610122
I had the opposite surgery, correcting an underbite and openbite. >>36610196 is right, the recovery fucking sucks soooo bad, the first month was absolute hell.
I had my surgery last year in August and it took me about 4 months before i was completely comfortable. still have braces, which suck but it's all been worth it, I look like a normal person and not a mongoloid, also been getting much more attention from the ladies.
>>36610879
Personally it only happens when i drink really fast and mix drinks, only happened to me 4 times in my life thank fuck.
>>36608803
>>36612210
>>36612284
Iktf, Me and my friends are 23ish and it seems everyone would rather stay home on a friday/saturday night to either be with their gf or just play vidya, it's fuckin sad
>>36611245
>h-have i made it?
Gaines is your last name friend. You were born to make it
>tfw a qt Arab girl mires you when you squat whenever you're both there
I want to rail the heresy out of her.
>>36609972
They'll point their feet or body towards you, smile at you, initiate conversation, laugh or smile when talking joking with you etc.
>>36610236
you must be rather ugly
>5'7 manlet
>Fat to boot
>Somehow have 7/10 qt 3.14 gf first one too
>She's not fat at all if anything underweight
>Decide to get fit and lose weight gf supporting all way
>Makes meals and everything
>Start getting mires from hot chicks
>One literally asks me out on a date.
>Feel really tempted to cheat
Honestly lads I haven't done it yet but they're chipping at my self control and I don't wanna be that fucking asshole but just not used to this much attention.
>>36617426
As an Arab guy honestly bro just ask her out she will never ever ask you out nor have the balls for it unless she is a US Arab and even then unlikely. Just don't become one of those cucks that convert to islam to marry a girl embarrassing desu.
>>36617989
Don't forget the hair. It could be a nervous habit but usually it signals interest in you. Twirling her hair, fixing it, etc. not just letting it down
>>36618138
My friends wife plays with her hair and turns red whenever i run into her somewhere and hes not there. Its pretty awkward and i just hope its a nervous tick and she doesnt actually like me
Brehs how can I know if I'm making too much eye contact?
Sometimes I feel like I look too deeply into someone's eyes when I talk to them but I can't help it. In highschool some rumors went around that I liked a couple random people who I didn't even know much and maybe talked to a few times in class, I think it might be cause of this
>>36618170
Just look away every couple seconds and use more body language when talking.
>>36610196
>>36610553
Having no jaw is way worse than something like a big nose or ugly eyes it's worth it in the long run
>tfw grills often will stare when I walk past on the street
>tfw can't tell if mirin or disgusted
>>36612232
that sounds like something a boring person in denial would say
>middleschool
>going through a weird puberty faze
>whenever someone I wasn't friends/ comfortable with would talk to me my nipples got hard
>classmates notice and secretly test it
>hey anon can I ask you something
>y-yeah?
>commence nervous nipple hardening
>hear giggling, some peers looking at me
>oh nothing I forgot
I was cringe incarnate I want to curl up and die everytime I remember how bad I was
>>36617237
What's even worse is when they get upset because you no longer ask them to go out.
I miss going out.
>>36618118
I'm in the US, man. I'm at a university that has quite a few Arabic Muslim exchange students. With girls all the way from the moderate ones that don't have to wear anything to hide their hair, to hijab wearing ones, to full burka wearing ones. All the guys wear trendy New York clothes.
>tfw finally got the motivation to try and get a grilfriend
>afraid of them finding out I'm a friendless, socially awkward sperglord
I'm a pretty decent looking guy but my mild acne and lack of social interaction makes me really insecure
>>36610788
Are you me?
>>36618405
a girl that likes you wont care about you not having many friends or being awkward.
>>36608737
That's because they're on your level. All the hot chicks are thinking the same about you, except they're not deluded about the truth of their aesthetics
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>>36610323
Are you me?
I'm about 30lbs from being half of my highest weight. People at school, or wherever, try and make friendly conversation with me and I give them succinct answers and don't really engage them, because deep down I refuse to believe that anyone could actually want to talk to me.
That's just for people in general, girls I don't even try talking to because I just assume they're going to try making me an orbiter AT BEST, straight up make fun of me or call me a creep at worst.
