>tfw drinking whiskey
>can feel my gains disappear in front of my eyes
4th NYE Alone
Why is alcohol so bad for gains? It would be wonderful if it was helpful 2bh.
it's great for gains. sumos wrestlers love alcohol
>tfw all past holidays in the last 5 years have all been spent with someone i care
>for some reason every new year in the last 5 years i always end up with myself
>today is no different
>>35438492
same
business as usual .. just getting drunk for no reason once
mb i fuck some hooker later but im not really in the mood and most of them are super pissed on a day like this too
>tfw I have to work a minimum wage job at retail on new years day at the age of 26
>have trouble with addictions
>dreams are almost invisible
>no friends
>never had girlfriend
>>35438518
just too many of us around bro
the ride never ends
>>35438455
Go to a club and score some easy pussy.
>>35438552
thought about it 2bh but nah man
im also too far away from any club action and i dont wanna waste that much on a cab
>>35438562
You gotta make an effort, too. You can't rely on others to always carry the relationship.
>>35438576
aware
just me drink bro
>>35438455
This is my first NYE alone anon. I broke up with my gf of 3 years and am stuck in the city I work in so I can't visit friends and family. But you know what anon, a new year is just another day. Focus on making yourself better each day, in every aspect of your life. The only time drinking is beneficial is when you're either with your buds or hanging out with coworkers.
>>35438631
my first time was horrible
now its alright dont worry about me
i do nt value that shit high
i normally dont drink but once in a few months is fine .. so why not now
>>35438631
I'm alone too now for the first time, and the problem really is that too many people make it a problem. I don't mind being alone but every fucking body minds that i'm alone.
>>35438518
>>35438533
What is this life. I don't understand it.
Being alone on NYE isn't that bad. I spent NYE last year alone for the first time in years, and I still ended up having fun playing Borderlands 2 online with a couple friends and randoms until two in the morning
>>35438697
We are people who live in despair and loneliness with no support who always seem to find a new rock bottom. There is no escape. Nothing will ever get better.
>lifted for almost two years straight
>made sick gains
>life took a shit for 1.5 years
>lost gains for the most part
Time to get back on the grind this year, I can finally have a fresh start, no bullshit.
I'm busy with rituals at midnight (UK)
pretty soon
but there's warm flesh waiting for me at the other side of a taxi journey, should I waste this time brehs?
>>35438750
gl anon
we all gonna make it
>>35438768
do whatever you want to do ... thats the plan for the rest of your life now
>>35438783
>do whatever you want to do ... thats the plan for the rest of your life now
True my friend
Skol!
May you live & die well
>>35438723
I've come to accept this bleak prospect.
But I have this weird anxiety that tells me "what if I'm wrong? what if I'm missing something?"
"Most men live lives of quiet desperation"
>>35438455
Confession: I never understood why people drink when they are sad.
>I will never even meet her again in my life
>I will be surrounded by people I hate and ugly people
>her beauty and kindness is forever out of reach for me
>>35438827
idk how old you are but uhh
once ur living on your own and did it a few times you will see what it does to you
i advise against doing it tho but uhm .. alcohol is a pretty great drug lets be honest here
>>35438827
Numbs the pain, euphoric inducing. Not as terrible as an opiate in the short run, just as terrible as opiates in the long run.
>>35438868
Alcohol gives me sleep paralysis and makes it feel like something is gripping hard into my body
It's a pretty shitty drug that tastes good
>>35438880
>that tastes good
for me its the exact opposite .. taste like garbage but feels great
lol
>>35438455
You have 365 days to gain back all that you've lost, and build a little bit more.
Booze won't make you lose much.
You have 365 days left. Get to work.
>>35438900
ty
and happy new year
just jumped into 2016 bros
>>35438827
Nothing kills boredom better that alcohol. It also numbs your feelings and causes dis-inhibition.
That's how people like me spend hours alone, drunk, looking at memes, running from my existential anxiety...
>tfw I am tempted to text one of my exes
>tfw I know she will either ignore the text or mention some sort of bf (idk if she has one currently or not)
>tfw NYE alone
A-at least I have my a-aesthetics
>Got 3 different groups of people wanting me to show up to their parties
>2 girls who both want to fuck me tonight.
>Declining both to go to an invite-only masquerade ball.
>2 week paid vacation from my salaried job.
I am a massive fuckup 90% of the time, so I have no idea what you guys are somehow doing worse than me.
>>35438943
I know those feels man.
>>35438972
>dangling a steak in front of a dog
you're a shitty person anon
>>35438690
>I don't mind being alone but every fucking body minds that i'm alone.
THIS
>>35438972
I bet you are tall white sociable and goos looking.
those factors alone makes one's 10000x easier and enjoyable.
in my case, im short ugly black have been alone so long that it is very difficult to trust people. its hard for me to even talk and look people in the eyes. I can't drink the pain away because the last time I did i threw up all over my carpet the next morning
in short i wish i was you
>>35439033
one's life*
>>35439033
black feels here too bro
white people that suffer always amuse me
>>35439051
You obviously have never lived in a 3rd world country
>>35438690
>I'm alone too now for the first time, and the problem really is that too many people make it a problem. I don't mind being alone but every fucking body minds that i'm alone.
It's the only thing that bothers me or even makes me aware that it's apparently a really sad thing. I'm never anywhere, I don't go out for halloween and whatnot either, but nobody fucking cares to ask, at least.
I even try to cover up the fact that I'm all alone, not because I'm ashamed or because it bothers me in any way, but because it's so incredibly annoying how people react and try to make me feel bad for it.
>>35439085
maybe not but is he not allowed to have problems with his life?
>>35439104
He is, its just that black people that suffer always amuse me
>>35439119
why?
>>35439131
because he is edgy
>>35438518
i know that feel all too much my friend
Who /20th NYE alone/ here?
>>35439119
i can only speak for my own perspective dude
i live in a white 1st world country and white people suffering here amuses me because they dont have a single clue about what is is to be non white in a country like that
its 10x harder to make social gains as a black/brown person who automatically gets looked down upon based on appearance.
I know very well white people in shitty european white countries like bulgaria and what not are living an awful life aswell but man .... they can come to a white 1st world country and live the life no matter what they tell themselves.
Nobody is gonna call them niggers, nobody is gonna think they are refugees.
I know we all have our problems and im not saying i suffer more than any white person around here but its still damn annoying that i have to deal with this shit on a daily basis.
Hell i cant even sign up for every gym here because they reject me and tell me they are "full".
>>35439119
Why is it ok to say white people suffering is amusing, but someone can't say the same back? Nice equality there bro
>>35439051
>white people that suffer always amuse me
Bro, don't be like that. My white life has been pretty bad. I wan't off this ride.
>girlfriend out of town for a month, spent christmas, my birthday, and now new years without her
>just got back from a jog, had to dodge a few people already doing fireworks
>here I am alone and on /fit/
>>35439166
see
>>35439161
>>35439166
*want
I'm bretty drunk right now
>2 NYE ago
>had great job, tons of friends, awesome girlfriend
>loved life and life loved me
>kissed her when the clock struck and the bass dropped
>tonight
>1 room apartment
>wearing a fleece
>eating chinese food
>will probably also chug whisky
god damn it all
>>35438864
I know that feel. it's been over 4 years since I've seen her. nobody after that ever came close and I still can't stop thinking about her. hitting a 1500 total didn't help nor did getting a good paying job. it's just something I'll have to endure until I hit the grave
>>35439185
same bro
>awesome gf
>party's
>kisses
>job
>future
now
>alone
>nothing left
>bitch c heated on me and i had to ditch her
>wage slaving around
>emotionless
>>35439185
what happened
>greentextstorytime
Literally anyone ITT that doesnt live in a backwards ass 3rd world country needs to STFU
yall niggas living life in easy mode in the 1st world and still forever alone pathetic af
>>35438518
I'm only 21 but I still know that feel.
Stay strong and keep lifting, nigga,
>>35439169
I really want to cry right now, but every time I get close to tears my brain just goes "shut this shit down" and it goes away. There must be a cure for this...
How much alcohol does it take to actually damage your performance?
>>35439202
i have no idea bro
maybe just let it out. Don't be ashamed. I think its actually good if you do. Healing kind of feel and process.
>>35439200
man shut up. You are deluding yourself on the same level as we do.
Trust me living here isnt any better - if anything its more competitive, faster and stuff.
Come here and try your luck and you will see its not all fun and whatever you think is going on here.
>>35439206
when iw as younger i recovered faster but nowadays 2 days at least are lost because im too K.O.
>>35439206
Being mighty drunk will make your penis fail you. I learnt the hard way.
>>35439206
Tree fiddy
>>35439239
I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about with a workout tomorrow and drinking tonight effecting it
>>35439239
alcohol is my viagra i can fuck for hours on it
problem is ill never get to come
>>35439250
>tfw my girlfriend's best orgasms come when I don't have one
I always have one, but we normally go twice one right after another. Sometimes I can't cum the second time, but she cums like crazy. I bet women never expect men to fake it
>>35439269
true
i faked it before because i was super exhausted
>tfw falling for the no cardio meme
>>35439278
Our bed is really squeaky, and we live with four other guys, so we need to be quiet most of the time. So we're always on the floor. The carpet is rough, and it's hell on my knees, hands, and elbows. Fucking hurts like hell after a while man
Guys, I have question
How old are you?
>>35439315
>not letting them hear how your gf screams
come on me ... who gives a fuck
my neighbors fuck like rabbits 3 times a day and the girls screaming her heart out
who gives a fuck
>>35439319
29
>>35439327
One of our roommate's "girlfriend" comes over all the time and is way too fucking loud. I don't want to hear people have sex, and I don't want people to hear us having sex. If they hear us and are annoyed, that's a problem. If they hear us and enjoy it, that's a bigger problem
>>35439342
man i made the same mistake
dont be me ... trust me women love this shit in their own ways
they want you to be alpha AF and fuck them ... probablyl ike it too if they feel like people watching them getting fucked
just fuck your heart out man
dont care about all of this stupid shit..
the ride will end one day and you will be there alone ... assume you dont marry her (unlikely) no idea how old you are
and trust me YOU WISH you would have listened to me
slam her on the bed and give her the pounding she wants...
>>35438697
>>35438723
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dukkha
>>35438503
I hate it desu, like i'll spend Halloween with my bros and what mot, thanksgiving/xmas with family always having a good time, but on New Years, it's just me idk it just sucks
>>35439363
This isn't just some random slut I'm banging, I'm with my girlfriend of six years
WE'RE ALL GONNA MAKE IT
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>>35439372
>I'm with my girlfriend of six years
so what .. one more reason to spice it the fuck up
do you wanna be that guy whos still shy AF for no reason?
man ... ive been with a girl for 5-6 years too and once its all over you realize you didnt even know this person .. its a magical and eye opening experience
>you can share a bed with someone for 5 years and dont know this person at all
remember this
if you dont wanna end up like me and pound it for the next 6 years you better start not being a beta fag
>>35439363
>I'm with this one girl who liked these things and will just assume every other girl is exactly the same
Come on, get off somewhere else.
>>35439188
Really ? What if there is someone else but you just haven't met them bc you're stuck in the rut of this past relationship? I'm not being a dick either just curious what you think
>>35439405
lmao ...
sure hes GF can be as beta and autistic at him
im just telling him to live a life and not care about others
whats bad about it?
Happy new year britfags. Here's to more gains and qt3.14 gfs for us all
>>35439396
There's a golden area between being shy and being an asshole
And just because your relationship was shit doesn't mean mine isn't
>>35439480
whatever dude
hope you marry her and live the good life
if you dont ... dont complain you missed out on things you always wanted to do and not give a fuck about
i know its easy to get caught up in the "lol it will always be like this anyway" type of mindset because you think she belongs to you and you belongg to her
it can all be over in an instant ... an event you cant foresee yet
thats life ...
dont be a no gf anon in a few years who says nobody ever warned you
shits precious ... do what you have to do to keep yourself in the position you are in right now.
Work your fucking ass off.
>>35439492
Dude, what the fuck are you talking about? You were saying be loud with sex even with other people home, and now you're acting like you're trying to save my relationship for me. How drunk are you?
>>35439526
im drunk but man i can see myself in you .. it hurts me
you never experienced that moment when everything is just GONE in a second ... i just wnana make sure its not going ot happen to you
like i said .. you can share a life, bed with someone for multiple years and once its all over you realize you never knew who that person is or was
i just want you to keep you on track
>>35439554
You don't know anything about me or about my relationship, other than we aren't assholes to our roommates and we've been together for six years. You're talking out your ass
>>35439600
man .. im just giving you a warning and stories about how cruel life can be
i was like you ... reminder
gl anon .. hope u make it
keep it all together .. dont be me.. thats all i want to tell you
and there are million of mes out there
4,5,6,7 years dont mean shit to a women .. life and people change way too fast
>>35438827
being drunk has helped me make alot of decisions in my life
>>35439161
I know the feel. You should try to make at least one black/brown friend anon. That neutralizes most of those issues. And it's always nice to talk to someone who's going though the same shit. It's done wonders for me personally. Also:
>they can come to a white 1st world country and live the life no matter what they tell themselves.
This is debatable. Americans have a habit of treating East Europeans like shit.
>>35439667
talking for europe mostly
and i dont really have any interest in getting to know a black/brown depressed fagg who drags me down with him
id rather get to know white people and chads that introduce me to their circles and way of life
>>35439612
Drunk and ESL, damn son. Drink some water.
>>35439612
Blow it out your ass faggot. Waah, I had a shit girlfriend and a shit relationship so they're all shit
>Tfw broke this New Years
>Tfw when friends broke too
>so can't go out just sit at home and lift in the dark
>>35439051
Haha eat shit nigger. If you're in US or EU you have a plethora of free handouts to increase your standing in life.
The only thing I get for being a white male is declined for scholarships and grants in favor of shitskins and women and employment opportunities in favor of affirmative action beneficiaries.
Grow up and recognize that you have the whole world in front of you, stop bitching on the internet.
>tfw my ex I met sometime this month last year
>cheated on me and dumped me in the summer
>couldn't stop thinking about her
>hooked up with a friend of hers a week ago
>friend uploads pics of her looking happy on facebook
>notice ex girl liked her pics
I know it's shitty but I hope the knowledge of it get's to her through the grapevine and makes her jealous. I guess deep down I still have feelings for her but it was a poetic wrap up for this year. hope all you breh's do well and don't let girls manipulate you.
>>35439752
>declined for scholarships and grants
Everyone gets declined for those shit eater. that 's why some of us have to pay for school on our own dollar. And affirmative action was ruled unconstitutional Buzzword /pol/lack.
>>35439752
you're not looking at the big picture. I'm white and got handed a scholar ship just because my mom knew some people in my school. white's overall have the privilege when it comes to access to nicer schools and opportunities.
>>35439810
Why do you think that has anything to do with your color of your skin and not networking?
Are black people not allowed to network?
>>35439161
I didn't know gyms did that. which country do you live in? how are you sure that they really aren't full?
>>35439810
>white's overall have the privilege when it comes to access to nicer schools and opportunities.
this
i hate this /pol/ meme of white people who are at a disadvantage
its ridiculous
>>35439840
#1 cuck country europe
ya trust me they are NOT FULL .. i had white friends getting in and me getting denied .. its mostly cause there are 2 type of gmys here
1 - full of white people doing their machine/courses/spinning cardio/dancing around/yoga
2 - the rest full of fucked up heavy lifters roid monster
the #1 type of ggym wants to distance themselves from 2 by claiming they are a gym that is "normal" aka they dont allow tanktops tetc
its like going into a club partying
i got with a group of 9 white friends 4-5 girls too and they dont want to let me in exclusively
until all of my friends harass the bouncers and i finally get in
still feel bad AF tho cuz of what happened and whole evening is ruined for mei n a sense
i have a degree, a job ... i just get dragged down by these trouble making fucking niggers and arabs that give myself a bad name
>>35439837
If you believe it's as easy too network in the U.S. as a black person as it is for a white person; then boy are you drinking the Kool-aid. Especially in lieu of recent events and he fact that people will treat you differently based on simply black and the fact that there aren't many already pre-established networks for you to get into.
>>35439877
If you dress nice and speak proper English you will go further than my white ass ever can.
Enough about anything else what do you guys think about eggs?
>>35439206
Anything above 300 ml of hard liquor
Well I've decided I'm quitting my job, selling everything and spending the next year traveling and playing music. If nothing extraordinary happens I'm killing myself at the end of the year. Starting with a cruise to Cozumel next week.. So. Yay?
>>35439888
Not really. I literally wear button-up and dress clothes and people still think i'm out to kill them. Also this isn't true even for people like Stephen A. who has people still roll up the window/ clutch their purse around him and he has more money.
>>35439892
I east about four everyday
>>35439922
Well maybe you're ugly and have sketchy body language. Either way, suck it up, bitch boy.
>>35439916
Definitely Travel anon but what made you want to kill yourself if you don't mind.
>really really drunk nye
>friends girlfriend tries to get me with her friend (solid 5, shrimp)
>I'm drunk as fuck and she has tits so why not
>walk her home, go in her room
>things work up to the point where I put her hand on my dick
>"sorry I can't do anything tonight"
>walk home ten minutes later
>sleep
>wake up and she's liked a bunch of Facebook posts involving me
>probably fairly obvious to my Facebook friends I went home with this 5
>alcohol probably ruined the chances of me ever getting a hot gf
This is what girls must feel all the time and it's lame
>>35439937
Yeah fuck off, here's your reply.
>>35439922
>>35439937
Also that thing about people clutching purses is because you're a man. I get this all the time, im 6'2" and not even 175 lbs, most women could probably take me out. Get over your victim mentality.
>>35439897
That's a ton of alcohol
>>35439968
No victim complex anon just stating the obvious. Also i'm very happy with me even if simply being me offends some.
>>35439942
Nothing left to live for and I'm tired of always waking up stressed and anxious, having that feeling all day, not being able to sleep because of it and just waking up to it everyday.
>>35439922
I like eggs too, but the person I'm disappointed in/hate-stalking and who whines a lot on tumblr has an ex on tumblr too who I also like to check up on, because at least I'm not them, well they/them/their's little sister told the ex she would rather eat chili con carne because it has more protein and nutritional value. That threw me off. But then again. Beans.
>>35440052
Then yeah traveling might do you some good. I hope you have a nice time anon.
>>35440067
Nah Chili is really good especially for a lunch before lifting. But I wouldn't necessarily throw away my consumption of eggs for it though.
>>35439979
Nah its just 3 big drinks
>>35440108
I see. Both are good then, then all is good.
>get depressed late 20s
>get fit as fuck now
>but it's too late, everyone is settled down and doesn't want to do shit
>look good, but noone to do stuff with
focus on yourself bros, people you think are your friends will forget about you for pussy. 2016 will be all about self improvement, im done giving a shit what other people think.
we monk mode now.
>Tfw good looking and almost /fit/ but no Gf
Why did I born in this shitty country where confidence and status actually matter
I'm scottish and irish. I can drink all the time with no detriment to gains
>>35440332
I know that feel, bro. I was sick from I was 21 to 33. When I finally got completely healthy again I was practically all alone because people had either moved away or got a wife and couple of kids. I haven't given up yet, though. My plan is online dating and joining different activities. I plan to meet new people
>>35440332
>your friends will forget about you for pussy
too fucking true. Even "friends" you have known since grade school will treat you like trash and put on a song and dance routine if their is even a slight hint of getting pussy.
>>35440406
I dont even care about marriage either, the dream would be meeting a young girl that just wants to have fun and doesnt give a shit about settling down.
but whatever, im happy with bettering myself for now.
>>35440381
Come on man, stop pitying yourself. Be glad that women focus more on confidence and status. It means that as you become a stronger and more valuable man, you will attract better women.
Never stop improving yourselves /fit/, cause we're all going to make it.
>>35440419
hah, marriage? no way I'm getting married. I have 12 years of casual sex to make up for before I settle down with anyone.
I know what you mean, though. I really miss those days of just hanging out with friends/girlfriends. Nobody has time for that shit anymore, apparently.
last year i was trying to cure my autism, so for the months leading up to new years i made new friends, we went out every weekend.
They were pretty good at picking up women and they helped teach me, and i was actually doing pretty well.
After going out for 5 months 4 times a week, I got to the point where i almost fucked two girls, though they were fatties and i could have lost my v card both times but i just couldn't force myself to fuck them.
Anyway, new years 2014 i went to vegas with my friend. We were having a great time when 10 minutes before the ball drops, two bouncers came up to me threw me on the ground and started yelling at that i was starting fights and punching people.
I told them i didn't do shit, they called the cops and at exactly 12:00 i was in the back of the cop car.
Since that night i tried to recover what little confidence i earned but every time i went out something bad would happen to me.After a few months of still going out with no confidence, basically just watching my friends take girls home, my car was stolen and totaled and that was when i hit my lowest point.
A year ago exactly, i was filled with hope, i'd just gotten to vegas, i was sure i could fuck a cute girl by new years, i had friends, and things were looking up.
A year later, I'm worse off then i was before i decided to go out because now i have a taste of being normal, but now i have nothing.
Still fighting the charges the cops are trying to pin on me with no end in sight, can't afford a new car so i bike twenty miles to work and back everyday, a shitty job that just gave me a pay cut, no friends, i haven't had the confidence to even try talking to women again since last new years and i can't even go to the gym so I'm losing what little muscle mass i'd been working so hard to get.
sorry for the blog anons. i just need to get this off my chest
>>35439864
should move to africa then
>tfw 2 o'clock pizza delivery
Top kek, the mad delivery guy was mirin' my bulk.
>>35440460
How old are you? Just curious, but that just fucking sucks overall.
>>35438455
The new years parties of my youth were the most epic and amazing parties of my life, all through highschool and college. Surrounded by a group of my best friends and many strangers who became friends by the end of the night. Each year Id be bold enough to flirt with a new lass, and kiss her at midnight, and a few times we fucked. New years used to be the most epic and amazing time of my life.
Yet here I am, 28 years old, fitter than ever, more 'successful'' than ever, yet socially isolated and alone drinking rum. Not even a single invite out tonight, and I have nobody else to blame but my own introverted/isolated self.
>>35440510
25 man
>>35440524
aw shit, just go ER at this point man
>>35438455
>tfw alone again
>tfw drinking 7th beer, gonna open my whisky next
I just hope i make it this year desu
>>35440547
cheers, bro
I hope you make it
>>35438455
I've heard that hard liquors don't kill gains nearly as much as beer does. I've literally never hung out with anyone on NYE before, so tonight it's a bowl of weed and my protein shake for me.
>>35440584
Cheers bro, i have a feeling that this year is my yearn even if i have to make it be, hope it's yours too
>5th year on /fit/
>another NYE on 4chan
>tfw about to order Jimmy John's and get a sugar free energy drink to forget about the sex I won't having tonight
N-next year will be better... r-right?
>be off and on depressed since freshman year of HS (19 now)
>past few months have been great, been making great gains and was real happy with myself
>haven't thought/cared about girls almost at all in past 2 years
>meet really great girl a few weeks ago
>for first time I actually really, really like a girl
>gives me all these signs that she's into me
>go for a kiss after we lifted together the other day
>turns me down
>depressed for first time in a while
>none of my few friends are here, they're all visiting family while I'm stuck in apartment
Time to smoke and drink some feels and gains away.
Chin up lads, there's a new day coming up. Be grateful you ain't died in your sleep and make tomorrow a day to remember. It can always get a lot worse, so be grateful for what you got, improve what you can, and if you're happy with what you've accomplished at the end of the day, that's a sure sign of leading a fulfilling life.
just another lonely day, but feels so much worse on new years.
3x12 crying in shower
sobbing in bed to failure
>parents want to go out for NYE, think I'm doing really well
>figure I'll eat a lot at the restaurant so I can't bring myself to eat earlier
>nearly pass out while lifting
>get to restaurant
>gotta eat big to get big
>calorie totals on everything in the menu, most shit is 1000+ cals for one dish not including sides
>try to order pasta but freak at the last second and ask for a salad
>dad literally starts arguing and tells waitress that's not what I want
>spill spaghetti everywhere
>mom starts crying
Fuck. There's always next year to fix my shit haha xD!@!
I want to die.
>>35439051
Blaming your problems on factors which you don't control. Makes it all easier eh
>>35440690
One day where you go a bit over maintenance to celebrate with family is okay anon, just do better tomorrow.
New Years Eves:
>2013: sitting in a cold house alone (i spent the next day with then bf)
>2014: working overnight at a gas station
>2015: getting tired of indecisive friends
It's improving i guess.
>>35440724
>sitting in a cold house alone (i spent the next day with then bf)
> (i spent the next day with then bf)
>bf
>>35439194
we're three then .
>>35440724
Epic bait
>>35440332
Are you me?
I'm in the best shape I've ever been in, look good, feel great and everyone else has settled down, so I can't do shit.
Fuck it, I'm going travelling again.
>>35440898
people treat you better when you look better, keep training. make personal gains, and social gains. I got into great shape this year and im going to keep going into 2016.
on the bright side, if you are fit it is easier to meet younger people. just keep working on yourself and it will pay off. girls are way more friendly now, I can tell it's cause I improved my body. even though I dont train for girls, I can tell things will get even better as I get better.
hang in there, we'll make it.
>>35438690
>>35439014
>>35439091
Brahs, who gives a shit about what over people think about being alone. There's a positive side to everything. Do you know how much of a time drain having a gf is? Since I broke up, I managed to lose around 35 pounds because of the free time I now have. Unless the person you meet melds with your personality and hobbies well, you'll have less time for yourself.
>>35440659
dying in my sleep would be a great help
>quick
>painless
>won't even realize it
>just thiink im in a really long dream
>>35440920
Cheers. This place and the progress I do make is amazing motivation.
Never giving up, I'm gonna make it, we're all gonna make it.
>>35439408
you don't know her mayne,,,
>>35441115
I would enjoy that too.
Hey /fit/ how many of you started lifting to feel more attractive to women, only to find that even when /fit/ its your social skills which fuck you over?
How many of you /fit/ lift to deal with your emotional problems only to find they never go away?
>>35440920
Cheers.
Looking good is great, but the improvements mentally even though little has changed is fantastic and this board is great motivation to keep bettering myself.
>>35441439
>>35441153
Fuck, didn't think that first went through
>>35439810
You got a "scholar ship" because you're on the spectrum.
Not only is that not true but God Forbid a white country's white parents want to pass things along to their's and other's white children/
>>35439864
Move to the states. I mean sure, we hate niggers here too but the kinda shit you're talking about won't fly here.
I have a mixed race grandparent and I'm brown enough for people to ask "what are you anon?" I feel totally white, dance like it even, but keep a really nice tan and have a good sized dick. Best of both worlds I guess.
Being black is tough, I do feel for you anon. We all have our own struggles.
>>35441350
face and then social stuff. in that respective order
>tfw 2015 was the most productive year of my life, most social gains, most weight loss, most academic success, no longer kissless
2016 is fuck you virginity year, get a gf year, abs mode achieved year and passing every exam/test year, here I come!
we all gun make it brehs
>>35439239
>I learnt the hard way.
>>35440332
Give up on people and focus on /fit/, /lit/ and maybe /sci/
>>35440688
This was me after a horror night last night
>>35440626
Hang in there bro :)
Keep getting with random grills whenever I want, but all I want to do is be with my oneitis who now has a bf cause I fucked up and now I know she was into me.
How do I get over her brehs?
>>35440898
Try to seek out younger people. If you're in great shape, you can easily date women 10 years younger than you (and feel confident that they're not just fucking you for your money).
A truly physically fit 40 year old man has more or less the same sexual market value as an average 30 year old man.
Seek out yoga clubs, hiking groups, rock-climbing gyms -- anything social and active -- and you'll meet younger women, I guarantee it.
