Have you guys been having more trouble in the past couple years picking up girls than in the past 10? I got pretty fit in the early 2000's and from there I thought I would be able to just coast till I was mid thirties, but shit has been a billion times tougher than ever. Even my most attractive fit buddies are having a hard time lately.
Anyone else notice this?
Let face it your old broski
People start settling down
>>35264737
I got chicks on my dick left and right when I was younger. I wasn't even /fit/. I was a DYEL emofag.
Back then, I refused most of them, because "pointy elbows 2/10 wouldn't bang" and I had enough choice. I regret so much of that to this day.
Example;
>quirky blonde girl
>always invites me over to play DBZ on her PS2
>she's cute, but has a goofy smile
>pretty decent body too
>just regard her as friend, play a lot of DBZ with her and do some "dates"
>never became a thing, because I just didn't want to stick it in her for some stupid reason
>fast forward few years later
>she's a 9/10 model
>fucking gorgeous body and face, goofy smile now actually complements it
She was cute to begin with, but she became drop-dead gorgeous in a few years. She was 16-17 at the time I think, 20 or so when I saw her again.
Stuff like that happened too often. I'm a fucking retard.
>>35264858
Oh I forgot to add, these days I have hardly any game at all. I find it VERY difficult to find females that are interested in me. Goddamnit I was such a spoiled brat.
I don't relate, OP. I got tons more game now and I have had 3 fuck friends, all very good looking and 2/3 is great in beat. third is my little sisters bf, so I fuckked her for the fun of that, but currently a gf, so they are on hold.
>>35264910
fuck dude, why the fuck has it gotten harder for me
I don't get the joke
Is she saying male feminists are short?
>>35264979
ya theyre manlets haha
>>35264949
post pic?
>2016
>girls
>>35264737
Explain the joke pls I don't speak genderqueer
>>35264737
Dating has always been a lot easier for women than for men, but the advent of online dating has made it ridiculous. A woman can get as many dates as she wants with guys more attractive than she is. Women on Tinder or online sites get constantly bombarded with guys, giving them an inflated ego. They also just know that they all they have to do to have sex or get a boyfriend is start replying to a couple of them. Completely changed the dating game, the power imbalance is now like 10x greater than it was, where guys will lower their standards to the floor and women know they can just snap their fingers and pick from hundreds of guys to date.
Also as your pic-related, feminism has given women a huge sense of entitlement. Fat girls think they deserve sexy athletic guys.
>>35264979
The entry bar for cis white males is so low we walk into it and everything is handed to us.
>>35264796
This, dude. Your playing field has diminished significantly.
>>35264858
pics of this model plssssss
>>35265892
>The entry bar
wtf is that? Last time I checked ladies night was a thing and even trannies get in free
If I compare my sex life 10 years ago when I was dyel and now that I'm ripped, I got laid way more 10 years ago. I had a healthy social circle back then, nowadays I'm pretty much a hermit that lifts and browses /fit/
>>35264796
>>35265899
I dunno man, I've heard from friends of mine that are in their 50s-60s that once you hit 40 women are super easy to get
>>35265985
Yeah, cuz of all the divorcees. Are you 40 yet?
>>35265985
....40 year old women, yeah. 90% of them are straight up fat/ugly and the hot milfs could still get some 22 year old dick if they want it
>>35265985
Yeah busted old battlewagons with a divorce or two under their belt who don't want to die alone
You're not pulling down gold medals here
So as a autist who's still a virgin, there's no hope now?
>>35264796
age is irrelevant if you stay fit
who says you have to date your age?
>>35265962
jesus christ. Picking up cunts should be easier the older you get. You should have a good job by now, atleast a steady future. You do got a job, right ?
Cunts are easy to achieve. believe it or now, but you guys on 4chan made me the man I am today. I went from a fat wow gaming faggot to a rich, ripped guy who sinks in pussy. thanks to you guys! I got a good job, I deal stuff on the side and double my income and I get pussy and I'm not even drinking at parties since I gotta watch for my gains. Lift your cheek and be confident!
>>35264737
Girls throw themselves at me, so no. No problems
>>35266094
Social lives in general are more difficult. I don't even meet one girl a week now. Whereas in college I knew tons of women, even if 90% rejected me I was still doing all right.
Online dating is the only way I can meet girls now, and online dating fucking sucks for men unless you're willing to settle for a fat girl. And I worked too damn hard on my abs to be with a girl who isn't at least average.
>>35266255
Where are you dating online? there are actually many good sites with fucked up good looking sluts who wants you to do crazy stuff with them. I only know norwegian sitesm but they're all sites you have to pay for. try something like that out? cunts contact me, not the other way around. try it out? tinder sucks, mate.
>>35266063
chin up friend, everyone gets it in
>>35266255
Get a hobby which involves more people or at least going outdoors.
>>35264737
Go to college.
Most college graduates are women.
Therefore; most college students are women.
Therefore; straight men are unicorns and women feel they have to play by the mans rules.
Therefore, less dates and more hook ups.
https://www.washingtonpost.com./posteverything/wp/2015/08/26/hookup-culture-isnt-the-problem-facing-singles-today-its-math/
>>35265944
Ladies night is for guys you autist so you want to go to a sausage fest club?
my buddy's wife has texted me three times now saying that she wants to talk on the phone while watching casablanca
what the fuck does this mean
i don't understand jews
>>35267054
wait women
not jews
well, she's jewish, so I guess don't understand them either
>>35267054
>>35267060
UPDATE
Through googling, I found out it was a "When Harry Met Sally" reference.
What the fuck.
THE PLOT THICKENS
>>35267094
>>35267060
>>35267054
GUYS PLEASE HELP I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S GOING ON
>>35267152
DOES SHE JUST REALLY WANT TO WATCH CASABLANCA WHILE TALKING ON THE PHONE?!
WHAT DOES THIS MEEEEAN
>>35267152
women talk on the phone with other women/girlfriends/gaybff's while they do everything. She thinks you're a good candidate for a gay friend or she might want to fuck but I think it's the first, sorry m8.
>>35264858
Why did you even have standards?
I have no ragrets as I fucked every girl and never caught anything. Some girls are ugly as sin now and others are fucking 10/10 while I am a measly 5/10.
>>35265682
fucking this
>>35266463
Tinder and OKCupid.
OKCupid is filled with fat girls and women who are looking for nonexistent perfect men.
Tinder is mostly women looking for validation, I don't think most of them even plan on meeting men they just like the attention
>>35267546
FUCKING THIS. Spot fucking on. Both sites will waste your time feeding the ego of lesser women. Any female worth anything won't need or use an app to get guys.
>>35267616
Your princess in shining butter awaits
>>35267546
>>35267616
Even the fucking dogs are using Tinder to waste our time
>>35266255
Yeah dude this. 30 now. Up until 27 getting laid was easy.
Now it's not. Plus less friends. People move away, jobs, lives, some get married, other buddies end up living in a van down by the river.
Social circle gets smaller so women met get to be less and less.
I need to move to a bigger city. Live in a small town with 5 males to every female. Bar scene is ridiculous. 7 males for every one guy every night I go out.
>>35269335
Correction. 5 males to every 4 females. Bar scene is still 7 to one though. Don't know where all the women I'm this town hang out but it isn't the bar. Some do but the competition is so fierce. I'm an attractive dude but 7 to 1 isn't good.
>>35264737
I've been with my gf for 7 years so idk bro. I get random chicks hitting on me semi-regularly though so there's that.
im in university and ive met basically 0 chicks since after the first few weeks here. Im in engineering so theres no chicks in my classes. What are some good clubs I can join with chicks in it? im asian btw. im also not a perma-autist like mosts engineering students (just broke up with gf)
>>35267682
>anarchist
I cringe everytime
>>35267682
I have never been less attracted to anybody
>>35269728
Go join some shit like the Hong Kong student's association (or the Singaporean one) and if they ask why, say it's because you want to go back to your roots. Then find some chicks there and offer to show them around town/campus/whatever.
>>35269745
im also super white washed and the people in that are usually pre asian. like if only there was a white washed asian club or something
You guys don't have hobbies it seems like. If your only options are the internet and the bar you dun goofed at life.
>>35264858
are you me?
I was skinny punk rocker kid, all kindsa bishes on my junk and I'd ignore a billion of them because
>right eyebrow not symmetrical with left one slightly
>1.6/10 would not bone
Now I desperately go through all different forms of internet dating platform hoping for anyone to like me back and putting fucktons of effort into getting the ones that do to meet up. Once in person, I'm all good, I can be cocky and elevate everything to sex, but it's so much effort to get them to come out in the first place.
>>35269768
Here's a shocking idea: you could start yoga or something and meet women outside of circlejerks
>>35265796
this
the dating pool for women has increased so much because of internet, whereas the dating pool was before limited by the males that would actually try and get the girl - and not many males actually go for girls because face to face rejection is more harsh
>>35267054
>>35267094
>>35267152
>arranging a hookup with your buddies wife
Scum of humanity.
>>35269821
hey bro YOLO
>Women being more picky
While true, men suffer for it in the short term (can't get a date, duh) but women in the end suffer most as they've either been way too picky and ended up being older with nothing, or way too slutty and nobody really wants them for their past.
Some can settle down but a lot don't, though as guys get older (around 30+) it's easier for them.
Still, I'd rather be getting laid tonight than waiting ten fuckin' years.
>>35269836
No, you betray your friends trust just for sex.
You're human garbage, but I can sense your shiteating grin from here as you try and play this off in your mind like others are just jealous.
How men look at sluts wanting relationships is how I'd look at you.
>>35269849
look, i'm not actually the guy. i understand it is a dick move. but have you considered that you might someday fall in love with one of your buddies girl?
>>35269836
you just don't do those type of things to your friends you fucking piece of shit
>>35266463
Hvilke sider?
>>35269863
>falling in love
You haven't even screwed her by the sounds of it and you're talking about love, you're just betraying your friend and are currently in the process of rationalizing it to yourself in the same way women who cheat rationalize things.
Though if she cheats on him, seriously, like she won't cheat on you? You'll piss away a friendship to get laid when you could easily go and find another whore to get you off.
Screw you both, nothing else to say to you.
>>35265985
This. They all get divorced and/or have mid-life crises around 40. Also women are supposedly at the peak of horniness about then, whereas men peak about 19.
As mentioned, most of these women will look terrible. However the fitter ones will all be out to have fun while the other 40-something men will mostly be boring and fat. This opens up a market for us younger dudes.
When I was 24 I met a 44 year old milf in a pub (Britfag here). Hit it off, exchanged no's and soon we kept meeting up in hotels for sex. She was a bit nervous at first but soon got into everything. Absolutely insatiable as well. Had a 23 year old gf at the time and the 44 year old wanted it so much more.
>>35267152
it means you both watch casablanca while not in the same room and you're talking to eachother?
>>35269840
It's fucked up for all of us. White people are fucked.
Younger women pass on younger guys for older guys or a select few chads who they fuck around with until they're 35-40. They also insist on focusing on their 'careers' instead of settling for a family.
So then they go looking for a high value 35-40 year old man to settle down with, once they're done living it up, but any 35-40 year old of merit, who isn't married, is nailing hot young 20 year old girls and wouldn't touch a 35-40 year old single women if he had a gun to his head.
>>35269872
bro, if you don't think you're mate wouldn't to the exact same thing to you but worse...
and it's not him making passes at the girl - it's obviously the contrary
>>35269878
i told i'm not the guy - read the post again.
you say like you can't fall in love for a girl before having sex and to that i tell you to shut the fuck up. and sometimes you just got to get the girl, man
>tfw gay and fit
>tfw it's not hard to find gay and fit guys
aww yea
>>35269836
You should've been aborted. We as a society should create a new nation for people who do shitty things like you do and place it in the center of an active volcano. I hope you get beheaded by ISIS and they shit on your corpse because you are a self excusing disgrace to humanity
>>35269894
No, if you think he would then you shouldn't be friends with him in the first place you fuck. A true friend would tell him how much of a dumb fucking whore his wife is. A true friend would never sleep with their friend's wife or ex wife. A true friend doesn't do shitty things to the people they love you narcissistic idiot.
>>35270049
He's rationalizing.
>oh he'd do it to me
>their relationship isn't good at the moment, maybe they're not a good fit
>i just want to help her
>etc etc etc
>>35270089
And I'm saying his rationale is autistic, unless he's not really friends with this guy and is still a shitty enough person to have an affair with the wife of someone he knows
>>35270118
Oh it's shitty, we agree on that.
Though convincing oneself to do something you know it's scummy can take a while so you convince yourself it's alright and then do it, then reassure yourself afterwards.
It's like what they say about lies, you convince yourself first then it's easier to pass off.
Though he's a dirty traitor in either case, this isn't gipping at mate to win a meat tray raffle, this is adultery.
Nope. It's always been easy in Sweden.
Swedish feminism:
>hey man want to fuck?
American feminism:
>DON'T OBJECTIFY ME JUST CUZ I'M A WOMAN BUT I'M ALSO A MIX BETWEEN WOMAN, MAN, MANATEE AND PINE CONE SO YOU CAN'T TALK TO ME UNLESS YOU PASSED THE RITE OF DRINKING MY PERIOD BLOOD WHILE BEING ASSFUCKED BY A NIGGER!
Swedish feminism means girls show they can do the hard parts too. American feminism is nothing but a snowflake shitfest for attention.
>>35270145
>gipping a mate to win a meat tray raffle
Absolute Degeneracy
>>35264910
you're fucking your little sister's boyfriend?
>>35270311
Not anymore, he currently has a girlfriend
>>35270193
>manatee and pine cone
truly lost my shit family
>>35264858
I had kind of the same thing but a little different:
>quirky blonde girl
>always trying to get her over to play games watch movies, anything
>she's goofy looking
>not really decent body but not totally horrible
>regard her as possibly an easy lay because she's so awkward and goofy
>never became a thing because she was so awkward, constantly wading thru waist deep girl spaghetti
>fast forward 10 years
>she's a 9/10 model
>face and body look absolutely nothing like her old self, fucks anything that says hello
once she grew out of her goofy looks she became a model and got into drugs, making up for all the attention she never got when she was young
>>35270145
>>35270303
>>35270118
>>35270089
>>35270049
>>35270008
>>35269894
>>35269884
>>35269872
>>35269849
>>35269821
>implying that I'm trying to hook up with best bud's wife
>IMPLYING THAT I'M NOT TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT THIS WHOLE CASABLANCA AND PHONE BUSINESS MEANS SO I CAN FIGURE OUT IF SHE IS TRYING TO BE UNFAITHFUL
>implying I'm not fucking autistic as shit when it comes to women so I have no idea what this shit means but she's been acting super weird towards me
Fuck cheaters.
>sincerely a divorced man
>>35270490
Good on you, anon. I'm glad to see that people on 4chin still have pride and morals
Thanks autism
>>35270544
how is this autism. except for the unoriginal opener its fine. tbqh ive used a smilar followup and ir worked too
>>35264737
Can someone explain the joke?
Are they against men who are feminists now?
>>35270645
radical tumblr feminist are just like the people on /pol/. They hate everything and anything that isn't exactly what they are.
>>35270645
Of course they are.
I have seen a danish feminist literally complain that a man took a picture of himself, dressed as a woman and holding a knife and a sign. On the side it said "if you want to rape someone, try me" or some shit. She complained how "people only took it serious because a man said it".
>>35264737
I mean you say you got /fit/ in the early 2000s, but I hope you don't mean that that's your only selling point? You understand that women are, how do I put this, multidimensional? Like, movies will tell you that having a good body is all it takes, but it actually takes things like an interesting personality, interesting hobbies, and as you get older, financial stability.
Don't get me wrong, having a good body is important, but it's all just part of a bigger picture. Women want to have a guy with a nice body, but they don't want a meathead. Be that guy who has a nice body but can also say a thing or two about certain art periods. Be that guy with a six pack who also happens to know a lot about wine. Be that guy who deadlifts 4+ plate collects blues records on vinyl.
Because here's the thing. Women often have to choose: do I want an interesting or sophisticated man, or do I want a good looking man? Usually it's hard to find a man who is both. Be both, and suddenly you're way more marketable than ever. You're welcome.
>>35270193
What? Mate, you;re high on something, Sweden and most other Nordic nations are all fucked up with 3rd-wave ultra feminazi-ism that will quite happily tear your balls off, wave them around as a totem, and then cry rape AND will get away with it.
>>35270795
nope. I have a lot of friends in the feminist party in Stockholm. What you're referring to is what 4chan believes.
>>35270819
You and I have very different experience then.
>>35270840
Swedenbro here.
Whatever feminism in Sweden does, it sure as hell doesn't make it harder to get laid. And play the progressive game and you get all the pussy you'd want.
But if you're a conservative (like me) make sure to keep it to your self.
Feminism in Sweden is about blaming other ideologies, not blaming men..
America is a very un-ideological county. Sweden is probably one of the most ideological countries in the world. Everything is about ideology here. And if you're dumb enough to show of your unfeministical views in social situations, then you deserve to be a loner.
you guys need to realize that girls want to be fucked too, and they have preferences like anyone else
just look good, dress well, and have some personality...that's all it takes. you cant expect to be a slob and get girls, unless you are rich.
there is no trick. just be attractive.
>>35270795
Go read some more /pol/ fairy tales, you retarded inbred goblin.
I've been having a hard time ever since I told her no.
>log in to fagbook
>this shit greets me
Yeah, thanks, I sure did need that reminder.
In all honesty it's other desperate males fault for this reason. especially when it comes to online dating
Why would a girl talk to you, when some guy with a nice bod and well paid job is messaging her on tinder asking to hook up.
>>35271109
>tfw they both have names low on the alphabet and always at the top of friends lists and group conversations.
Fuck him and fuck her
>>35267682
>coffeesexual
I'm glad I love masturbating so much because modern dating is fucking terrible.
>>35269728
Figure out what you're interested in, join a club for that. If you like hiking/outdoors and your school has an outdoor adventure club go do that.
>>35264858
i know this feel all too well
>chubby edgelord sperg in high school
>looking back on it there's at least 3 girls who wanted my dick
>tried to ignore them all as i convinced myself i had a crush on some other girl who wasn't at all interested
>one of them hit puberty early, was a strong 7/10 anyway but her tits and flirty attitude put her up to 9/10
>i avoided her whenever she started flirting with me
>"accidentally" rubbing herself against me
>making excuses to let me see down her top
>talking to me about sex
>pretty sure she asked me about my cock at least once. i wish i was joking but it's all true.
>when i was with friends discussing who we would all like to 'go out with' (15 year olds) most of them said this girl, then how jealous they were of me. i knew how much of an idiot i was being but i chose to not do anything anyway.
>she lived in the same village and actually followed me home one time. obviously what i should have done was invited her in and fucked her especially as i was home alone for the next few hours. i know now that she was horny enough that that would have happened, instead i made excuses and ran inside and left her alone.
>it all eventually ended when we were messing around one time and she leaned in to kiss me, but then my autism won out and i ran off
>7 years later am still a kissless virgin
>can literally not even start to imagine how different my life would be if i had fucked that girl when i was 15
it hurts to think about it. it's like somebody put together a list of all the things young girls do to guys when they want to make it clear they want to fuck them, and i purposefully ignored all the signs.
just kill me now senpai
>>35271556
at least you have your uber spergout behind you and have learned from it
>>35270866
>But if you're a conservative (like me) make sure to keep it to your self
I live in NYC which is pretty left-leaning and you are absolutely correct hiding your power level really helps you get laid more
>>35275436
>hiding your views for pussy
Fuck could you be any more beta. I'd rather be a swastika flying virgin than some fuccboi pandering to mental bitches.
>>35264858
I was a fat metalhead with no fashion sense and I missed at least two golden opportunities to be with hot girls in highschool. I don't like to think about it.
>>35273618
>7 years later am still a kissless virgin
Didn't learn shit.
>>35270490
Ask her husband what it means
>>35265985
women are like dog shit, the older they are the easier they are to pick up.
I've banged about 4-5 women 10-12yrs older than me
>>35271109
Congratulations for being a fag! Move on m8
Been having trouble with my current relationshit. My ex grill whom i wanted so bad sent me a message. And now, my wife found out that me and my ex are gonna see each other next week.
Goodbye fitizens
