>have bf of 3 years
>i start lifting, get hotter, he only gets lazier and chubbier
>tell him that i would like him to maybe workout, find a hobby besides gaming
>"i dont like lifting and i dont have time bcuz of university"
>this + weeks of other problems lead to me breaking up with him
>check his social media after a couple of months: "powerlifter in the making", joined a gym, started working out a lot
WHY
why do you guys do this? why do "breakups make bodybuilders"? why can't you just start working out sooner, while still in the relationship when the girl explicitly told you that she would like you to care a bit more about yourself?
all of my rage
hoo boy the responses this is going to get
WILL
Fuck you. I already did and still can't get a gee eff. Be fucking glad that your boyfriend isn't socially impaired.
>>35234920
Revenge is sweet
>>35234920
looks like you weren't the right girl for him.
you'll find someone you can motivate.
somewhere out there is a guy who wants to work out with you.
YOU
>>35234920
he told you he has no time because of his university issues you slut
its not that easy to handle all these things at the same time.
If you are some demanding slut who doesnt care about his needs the relationship had no future anyway. You didnt like or love him because you didnt try to help him more.
You were too selfish. What do you even do? Are you a NEET or smth?
Now get the fuck out you roastie whore.
Hope he gets jacked and gets all the pussy he deserves while you gobble on some tards cock and life a miserable life.
>>35234920
because they feel comfy and take the relationship for granted. Then they get thrown out in the cold and have to man up.
There is no motivation to improve if you have what you want.
I only lift to feel the DOMS when fucking.
>>35234920
>>"i dont like lifting and i dont have time bcuz of university"
kek
excuses
Kekekekek
Fuckijg roasties when will they learn?
>>35234938
wew lad, calm down there boi.
BE
Get the fuck of this board roastie.
Because autism and laziness are universal.
He probably didn't want you, so much as to feel like he had you. Like checking off the ( ) Have girlfriend on his little list of things he needs to feel good about himself.
L O N D O N
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>>35234920
so what?
he didnt show interest in your hobby? fuck him
he started working out after you broke up with him? fuck him
be the better person OP.
if he think's he doesn't have to do anything in a relationship so be it.
find someone who acknowledges your interests, who wants to be with you and share everything with you, be it lifting or whatever.
and if you've found that guy, don't let him go.
>I AM NO ROBOT
>>35234920
He sounds like a beta bitch. From his PoV: His girlfriend dumps him so he figures he can start lifting to compensate. He picks up powerlifting because 1.) It sounds cool, 2.) It's easy, 3.) You don't have to care about diet and 4.) it's "manly". Watch him turn into a fat neckbeard in a few years.
You were holding him back because women are never satisfied, so what's the point of even trying. Thank god you set him free and allowed him to try and reach his full potential.
>>35234962
>Like checking off the ( ) Have girlfriend on his little list of things he needs to feel good about himself.
this.
TRAP GF
>>35234971
>He picks up powerlifting because 1.) It sounds cool, 2.) It's easy, 3.) You don't have to care about diet and 4.) it's "manly". Watch him turn into a fat neckbeard in a few years.
this lol
>>35234920
>some lazy video gaming NEET got a gf and I, a uni student about to graduate with a job, is still single.
>>35234971
THIS.
>Watch him turn into a fat neckbeard in a few years.
and this.
he's not the guy OP should have at her side.
>>35234984
You probably don't want the girls who you could get desu senpai
>>35234920
either he took you for granted or you werent worth as much as you thought. only the two of you know which it is.
>>35234939
>man up
still using that ancient term, are we? It's all about priorities my man. OP's ex didn't think she was worth getting a toned, athletic body for, it's as simple as that.
>>35235014
We are. You know which way is reddit
>>35234920
Honestly most of the time its the other way around, the girl getting fat first.
It's the same in my relationship, my girlfriend has gotten chubbier (not to the point I care too much) while I'm still as ripped as I was in my early 20's (probably even more ripped).
>>35234920
Plenty of girls do the same thing. They get fat in a relationship, and once it's over they crash diet back to their old weight.
I put on allot of muscle after the ex-wife. I'm pretty sure that had less to do with motivation and more to do with not having to deal with a 10th degree gains goblin on a daily basis.
>>35234971
>Watch him turn into a fat neckbeard
I'll probably be even worse then that, he'll be a powerlifter.
>>35234920
>you told him
only 2 girls can tell a man:
his mother
the mother of his children
you are neither of these therefore he has no real reason to do you it
you should've asked him
>>35234920
Attention all oldfags, pedofags, creepfags, virgins and normie slayers.
Report to this thread: >>>/b/657166704
This is not a drill, nor shitposting.
>>35235043
What about your grandmother? Are you telling me you don't listen to your grandma?
taking the b8 here
If you break up with your gf/bf because he/she is not being fit you are disrespectfull trash.
>>35235053
>this+weeks of other problems
do you even read?
>>35234920
I lift 5 times a week. Can I be your bf? :3
>>35235056
> why do you guys do this? why do "breakups make bodybuilders"? why can't you just start working out sooner, while still in the relationship when the girl explicitly told you that she would like you to care a bit more about yourself?
I did read
Your fault to date a weakling like him. Just remember, it's always our fault if shit happens to ourselves because our decisions lead uns to where we are now.
So next time choose some real men instead of a pussy like him
>>35234920
To be fair he did tell you that he had no time, and now that he isn't wasting his time with you he can easily go to the gym.
Also in most of my friends, the biggest steroid cycles they've blasted were after a breakup.
>>35235043
>Listening to the mother of his children
Betamax.
>>35235053
/fit/ and its double standards. if OP was a guy complaining about his ex gf, you would have posted the exact opposite.
>>35234920
you did the right thing. the fact that he just started working out because he's single again tells me he's a faggot and not worthy of gains.
>>35234984
When you're too focused on yourself, women can smell that a mile away
>>35235099
>you would have posted the exact opposite.
Naw, he's right. If that's the only reason why you break up, then you're kind of a shitty person.
If physical attraction is the only reason you're together, then you never should have been anything other then fuckbuddies.
>>35235075
>>35235052
this
only listen to your elderly female relatives
This post is a troll, or part of a bigger troll. There's another thread rationing the same breakup, but from the dudes pov. Can't be a coincidence.
>>35235128
there have been so many threads with the genders swapped and the responses were completely different. you're so fucking delusional i swear
>>35235100
But you're supposed to be. You're not supposed to be more invested in the other person because that means you're needy and clingy and desperate for attention.
>>35235160
how fucking new are you?
>>35235160
The other poster saw this post and made a troll post from the guys POV. was that so hard to figure out?
>>35234920
I was in the same situation with my ex gf. She was pretty as fuck, but fat. She could have easily been a 9/10 if she could lose 20lbs but she never took it seriously. I didn't break up with her for that reason, and I don't think she's at the gym now, but I fucking hate being with someone who don't take care of themselves physically.
>>35235168
>>35235053 here, if you think my opinion is representative for the entire /fit/ community I have bad news for you son.
>>35235170
>>35235172
Spot OP being a faggot
>>35235168
I'm not saying that /fit/ doesn't have a fucked opinion.
But if sexual attraction is the only thing keeping you together, the relationship wasn't healthy to begin win.
>>35235053
Spotted the tumblerite, that's now how the real world works idiot.
Sexual attraction is a big part of a health relationship, if someone wrecks that by turning into a fat slob, it can have big consequences on your attraction towards that person
>>35234938
>He doesn't have any time, except right at the moment she breaks up with him
You seem a little too defensive there boyo. Bring up bad memories for ya?
>>35235220
he might have more time because he doesnt have a demanding retarded GF anymore that shits up his life and freedom haha
>>35235220
-> >>35235230
relationships, especially with dumb demanding sloots take a lot of time
>>35235172
That's pretty much what I said cunt. You seem a little defensive, like you're joke didn't go down to well.
He was tired of you
look at all the fucking bitter manbaby tears in here wow lmao
>whore
>cunt
>slut
>tumblr
this is some failed alfa male roleplaying my friends hating on women on the internet is not what alfa males do
>>35235230
>>35235242
Except he claimed his only reason for not having time was because of uni.
What you guys are saying would make sense if she was taking away his time from the gym, but she was the one going to the gym, and encouraging him to go. If anything, his time would have been more focused on the gym if the relationship was really that demanding.
>>35234920
Because dudes think getting big is the ultimate solution to all of life's problems and they will get easy unlimited pussy if they just squat 3pl8. Lifting for girls is dumb unless you have good game/social skills, cause lifting will just make more girls approach you, but if you open your mouth and spill spaghetti all over them you will still never seal the deal.
>>35234942
Underated kek
>>35234938
>Undergrads
>Thinking they have no time
Even the grad students who actually have the stuff to succeed find time to take care of their bodies. If undergrad makes you feel like you don't have time it's because you're a loser who can't get shit done.
It's all the more reason to leave you, faggot. Try not being such a little bitch next time.
>>35234938
W E W
E
W
>>35235369
>tfw I'm an undergrad about to graduate in the summer
American words are weird.
>>35235160
>>35235282
Enjoy your first day on /fit/
You might like it here
>anon is guy who's gf is getting far
"Dump the bitch anon you can do better"
>anon is grill with fat be
"REEEEEEE STUPID WHORE REVENGE IS SWEET HURRRR"
Stay beta /fit/
>>35235337
>Except he claimed his only reason for not having time was because of uni.
yeah cause the dude was totally gonna tell the bitch that the dumb sloot is taking too much his time and making him stress so he wouldn't even want to go to the gym if he'd have any extra time cause he'd just want to relax?
also uni isn't equally time consuming year around
>>35235369
This. Undergrads have no idea how easy they have it, going to uni like 4 times a week for 3-5 hours, not working, then complaining they don't have any free time.
>>35235426
See >>35235337
>If anything, his time would have been more focused on the gym if the relationship was really that demanding.
Read the whole post next time bud. Also if you're gonna complain about relationships taking too much time out of your life, seriously just give up. The only thing stopping you from going to the gym is you. It's called being disciplined enough to find whatever time you've got to get shit done, even if it means waking up super early in the morning - something that apparently this guy didn't realize until after the girl dumped him.
You don't expect to be single the rest of your life do you anon? Do you just plan on never working out and getting fat when you finally find a gf? If not then literally why are you still defending this dude?
>>35235404
Stay social, justice.
>>35234939
>>35234944
>>35234962
>>35234971
>>35234986
>>35235070
>>35235099
>>35235205
>>35235220
>>35235334
>>35235404
>taking a woman's side
I didn't know /fit/ was full of beta white knight feminazi manginas.
>>35235426
>He can't even be in a relationship and kiddy-shit Uni and still feel like he has time to take care of himself
Never going to make it. Ever. Not even in the running.
Obese office jockey who does nothing but bitch and moan and make excuses for how much he hates his life in the making here folks, get a good look and laugh.
>>35234920
>lifting for a couple months
>powerlifter in the making
Kek. Good job dumping him
>>35234938
What the fuck is a roastie, anyway?
>>35235520
This. Kid sounds like a fucking faggot.
>>35235508
There's a lot of betas lifting for girls here. No surprise
>>35235492
>>35235508
It's not about social justice, I just don't want you to be beta brehs. You'll never make it so long as you're a beta cunt feeling feels for fat beta cunts
CRAWWWWWWWWWWWLINGGGGGG INNN MYY SKINNNNNN
>>35235508
i know this is b8 but the kid in the story is a lazy faggot whether he's in a relationship or not, its just objective fact
>>35234938
TRIGGERED
>>35234938
>There are r9k robots browsing /fit/
>They're browsing this thread right now
>>35234938
>I have no time to lift because uni!
>I have like 12 hours of class a week babe, that's too much!
>plus I have an extra 3 hours of homework on top of that!
And then he goes back to his online gaming
>>35234938
There's always time desu lad, especially at college, people that claim otherwise are liars.
There's a manga page about selfishness people post that sums this whole argument up really well.
>>35235508
You shouldn't take a side because the victim was a man, or a woman, but because you think they were justified.
Everyone has time to see the divorce attorney but no time to see a therapist, or work on their problems.
Sounds like it wasn't working out on either side desu, you're just highlighting lifting. Neither one of you were into fitness in the beginning, what makes you think he'd just change because you did? Let's be honest here, we both know you got into it to eventually upgrade to a better looking bf anyways.
>tfw twink side piece
>tfw lifting partner
Yeah, you jelly OP
>>35235053
This is b8
>>35234920
I don't know about your case in specific, but in general this sort of dynamic happens;
>man has demands on his time
>only so much 'free' time
>gf/wife/significant others always take up more time than they think
>always
>relationship breaks up, man now has more time for fitness
>man also finds comfort in action / repetition of working out
>eventually starts to see results
Some guys will get fit once they become single because they feel they have to compete for another girl, but most do it because they can now.
>>35234920
You weren't worth it, fucking whore.
>>35235544
The best kind of potato
>>35234920
this just shows how shallow you bitches are
he's gonna get buck and fuck a much hotter chick than you. he is no longer interested in relationships. all he wants now is ass. he's seen what women are all about and knows that a relationship will never work. it's your fault. everyone seeks relationship for comfort. you broke it by breaking up with him for getting chubby. enjoy the feels.
>guy posts thread about how his wife has gained weight
"WOW DUMP HER CHEAT ON HER, SHE'S AN AWFUL PERSON, ANYONE WHO LOVES THEIR PARTNER WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO THEM, SHE SHOULD LOSE CUSTODY OF HER KIDS"
>female posts thread about bf who won't lose weight
"SHALLOW ROASTIE WHORE FUCK ALL OF YOU NOW HE'S GONNA GET SWOLE AND DO BETTER THAN YOU"
classic /fit/
>>35235075
>>35235052
>>35235043
I believe what he was trying to say was, the only women whose opinions a man has to even pretend to care about are those of his mother, and the mother of his children.
good job dumping that dumb sack of shit
>>35236013
>And then he goes back to his online gaming
This. This right here.
>>35234920
>implying you would not be a total bitch if he told you that you were getting fat
>implying he would leave you even though you were being a bitch
If you can't into commitment, fuck off. Silly women.
>>35234938
Lel
>>35236357
The difference being the dude didn't actually leave his gf. This fickle whore left him.
>>35234920
I bet you started to evaluate and flirt with your designated next bf while still with him, didn't you? Fucking whore. I hope you die alone
>>35236484
this
>>35236469
Fat people are bad people though. If you found out your bf/gf was a pedophile, you would break up with them right?
>>35236469
Yet half the thread is full of men acting like little bitches because a woman told a man to loose weight. The same men who would tell OP to dump his partner if genders were reversed.
>>35236357
What was the expected outcome of posting this to an echo chamber or bitter, misogynist virgins?
>>35236481
so if you (ever) get a gf, you're sticking with her no matter what? even if she gets fat as fuck and doesn't care if she's no longer attractive at all? you won't ever leave her?
you're fucking retarded. you act like once you're in a relationship you can't leave unless you're a whore.
>>35234938
It's undergrad
he was a fat useless fuck.
stop being so bitter or go back to /r9k/.
Imagine if the situation was reversed if the OP was a guy, you wouldnt say the same shit.
You're being a gender warrior, just like a feminist, stop that shit.
fuck a relationship in which you can't be your self
fuck relationships overall
focus on your own wellbeing
be selfish
>>35236357
it's just the robot cross posters who did that.
God I hate them so much.
/fit/ is supposed to be the opposite of r9k, that's what we are all gonna make it is about.
>>35235573
>>35235508
I don't understand this and I've been on /fit/ for a very long time.
This isn't r9k.
The guy sounds like a bitch, if my GF got fat, I would dump her, point blank period. She would do the same I think.
Now we are only getting the girls side, but even so, why does siding with her make me a whiteknight.
I could give a fuck if she was a girl. You are the bitter ones who refuse to ever side with a women in any situation, what the fuck is wrong with you?
>>35236125
>>35236606
>>35236660
Good comeback lad. You showed them.
>>35236660
The only reason people would defend a woman is sex?
Does that mean men who side with men do so because they want to have gay sex?
Know why you should never break up with a girl even if she gets fat?
>because crushing loneliness hurts worse than being with a disgusting blob you used to be attracted to
>never break up
>ALWAYS cheat, get a new girl, THEN break up
Girls love guys willing to cheat to be with them. That's why men usually get more female attention when they're actually in a relationship.
>>35236763
>because crushing loneliness hurts worse than being with a disgusting blob you used to be attracted to
true
>>35234923
ha
here's a response just for (You)
>>35236606
Because women are almost always wrong.
The rare times they are right, they are right for the wrong reasons.
So basically this fucking whore of an OP didn't go for
>Well, I understand your needs to focus on your education right now but I really don't feel the spark anymore for the time being, so goodbye
but
>I've been sexting with chad for over a year, it's time to escalate to the real thing. who cares for bf anyway, he doesn't even look good anymore when we take the selfies for instagram. dead weight.
Now, MOOT GET YE GONE. you sold this place, stop with the fucking sjw propaganda.
>>35236803
Can you post a current body pic? I'm legitimately curious.
In fact everyone taking a side on this issue should post a body pic, let's have a little experiment /fit/
>>35236803
look it's the guy that got dumped
>>35236803
>being this bitter
>>35236803
That is some heavy projecting my friend.
>>35236822
He's not going to do it. His posts reek of insecurity, so he'll be too scared to post a picture of himself.
>>35236822
lmao This is me and some chick on omegle and I think women are equal in everything but physical capability ;)
>>35236906
Take another picture with a time stamp.
>>35236932
>>35236906
fiddle with your webcam's color balance, you look like a sheet of paper
>>35237040
Idk how to do that m8, it's probably accurate because I really am a sheet of paper
>>35234920
>breakups make bodybuilders
been with my gf for 10 years been lifting for 5 and even before that i was taking care of my self staying fit and shit
not all men are pleb tier retards that have to train because a girl left them
some train because they were bullied in school and this left them feeling inferior which lead to an eating disorder that nearly killed them which lead them to looking into dieting and getting stronger bringing about an obsession that has controlled their every waking moment for years
:'(
>>35236310
Underrated post
Guys you're missing the most important part
>check his social media after a couple of months: "powerlifter in the making", joined a gym, started working out a lot
Never gonna make it.
>>35235450
Is it really that cushy in US universities? I'm in an engineering uni in Norway where they only offer integrated master's programmes, and it has been demanding as fuck since year 1. We were told that you're expected to put in at least 50 hours of work per week from the get-go...
>>35237194
Basically many people need some kind of a catalyst for self-improvement. A lot of people are like that and keep stagnating until something comes up and slaps them in the face, making them realise their failings. For many it's exactly what a breakup does, or the breakup ends up being the final straw.
>>35237304
fair enough like i said in my post i was already riddled with body dismorphia and problems in life before i got into a long term relationship i was anorexic at 13 by 15 i was severly under weight then decided fuck this im sick of being a skinny cunt and started lifting never looked back
still a mess when it comes to bulking because i have an unnatural fear of gaining fat
>>35237328
Are you >>35235817 ?
>>35237378
nope but thats pretty accurate to how shit went for me
i was super auswitch at 5'7 15 year old i was 84lb bodyweight
when i started training at age 18 i went from about 90lb to 154 in 1 year im sitting around 182 now
but i have the same empty feeling inside cant connect with people properly im getting better but it takes time its hard my gfs only person i can connect with
>bitches
>loyal
Pick one.
Oh so he spent a bit of time gaming while working toward a degree while you "worked out" so you could toss up facebook selfies like anyone gives a fuck?
Same shit happend to my friend, who graduated with an engineering degree and now makes 6figures. Except it was his childhood sweetheart wife. She is still waiting tables in their hometown.
You probably didn't deserve him anyways. Hope in five years you look him up and see how much more successful he is than whatever you finally settle for.
Fucking basic ass bitch.
I was on my to the gym, when I scrolled past my favorite board.... AND I NOTICED A MOSQUITO MAN HORDE!!!
BUZZ BUZZ MOSQUITO MAN!
SUCKING AWAY THE BLOOD OF THE DAY!
BUZZ BUZZ MOSQUITO MAN!
SHITPOSTING IN MY FAVORITE CHAN!
BUZZ BUZZ MOSQUITO MAN!
TRY TO CATCH ME IF YOU CAN!
BUZZ BUZZ MOSQUITO MAN!
BUZZ BUZZ.
>>35237456
so you're basically saying in the same post that the OP is superficial BUT what a bitch,she wouldn't deserve a guy who will someday make 6figures anyway?
so going for looks is superficial but for money not?
>>35237456
>Oh so he spent a bit of time gaming while working toward a degree while you "worked out" so you could toss up facebook selfies like anyone gives a fuck?
Your opinion is already invalid because it's clear that you hate women or anyone with a self image.
Plus, we're on /fit/ so working out is a plus for both of them, it's just saad that they couldn't communicate properly.
To be honest, the guy seems mentally slow because he didn't tell his gf about signing up for a gym face to face.
>Fucking basic ass bitch.
You're proving my point...
>>35235450
Two days a week for me is 9-9 and three days is 9-6, 9-7 on mondays.
Dual Majoring sucks anus.
>>35237291
US Universities - at least for undergrads - is a fucking joke.
>>35236717
Robot posters are gay confirmed
>>35234920
He probably wants to better himself for you cause he's a beta leftist.
It's quite normal for a beta leftist to be shit, if he wasn't then he wouldn't be beta which he is because he is a beta.
>>35235450
>Undergrads have no idea how easy they have it, going to uni like 4 times a week for 3-5 hours, not working
Lol you wot m8
I just finished my undergrad and throughout my last year there wasn't a single day I spent less than 8 hours at uni. 5 days a week plus labs on Saturday mornings occasionally. I lifted and cooked and studied on my own time on top of it.
Then again, you're probably talking about American uni, or maybe a Humanities degree or something.
Simple equation. Time available: 3
1 study 2 game 3 gf
remove gf and now 3 is free for gym. idk how this isn't visible to you folks.
>>35234920
AHAHAHA all these HAES replies.
You did good dumping that whale, OP.
You do you.
Hes probably pumping himself full on ice cream and fondling his fatcepts.
>>35234938
wew lad.
>>35237055
>they told me I could become anything
>so I became a sheet of paper
>>35234984
Probably because you can't even properly conjugate the verb 'to be' across a subordinate clause. Idiot.
>>35234970
The only good advice so far
Kek people on fit are dumb
>>35236763
>Girls love guys willing to cheat to be with them. That's why men usually get more female attention when they're actually in a relationship.
>he thinks cheating is a good way to start a relationship
>he doesn't realize that dating a cheater only means you are next to be cu.cked
consider lobotomy
Consider this:
There is only so much an aspie/autist can handle in their lives at one time, including you. You removed yourself from the amount he had to handle, freeing up space for something else. He filled the space with lifting.
Not to mention he probably took your opinion more seriously when you dumped him, so now he's lifting and making out like he is sorting his shit out.
He's an autist, you're insensitive, and both of you have a bad way of communicating
I hate the /r9k/ posters that replied to this shittybait so much.
Kill yourself frogposters.
>>35234920
Baby girl..let me hold you
The most cancerous thread on /fit/ right now, all of you should be ashamed this isnt how you make it brehs
GUY WHAT THE FUCK IS A ROASTIE
I SWEAR IM NOT NEW
>>35239801
Grill with roast beefs.
I really don't understand, I hate when people make excuses for not being /fit/ and relegate themselves to being fat and slobbish forever, and I thought /fit/ did too. Since when did that not apply to boyfriends?
>>35234920
He's not doing it for you.
>>35234920
Because motivation. You telling him you want him to workout isn't enough for him to cross that threshold. You leaving him was. Now he's motivated and will go to the gym. It doesn't matter though, he might be motivated but it doesn't sound like he's disciplined. Motivation is what gets you to run over to the gym and sign up, gets you to throw out your junk food and eat clean for a week or two while doing cardio and lifting. It doesn't last. Discipline is what makes you keep going. It's what makes you keep at it after your initial motivation wanes and is what seperates you from him. Watch as he posts about lifting, talks about lifting and in 6 months time forgets about lifting. That's not to say I don't want him to make it. I hope he does. But if he wasn't disciplined enough to do it earlier I doubt he will later.
>>35239801
>>35239810
up to interpretation
>>35237487
i love this guy
>>35234938
Cry me a river faggot, you are giving her shit because she didnt want to deal with a fat lazy fuck, eat a bowl of dicks
>>35235508
>taking the fat lazy fuck side
>ever
I didnt know /fit/ was full of crazy unstable HAES delusional fucks
>>35235544
a beefy vagina.
>>35239032
The biggest turn-off for women
>>35237028
And you look fucking terrible.
What a surprise.
This is a bait thread
Sage
>>35234920
My guess is he has time for the gym now that he doesnt have to listen to you bitch at him all day long.
>>35240915
Well said/10
>>35234942
Kek
>>35234984
>I
>is still single
Probably because you are a retard
>>35234920
It's not your fault. Some people, male or female, can't be motivated until they lose what they had. They have to fail before they care enough to change.
The catch is that these people are exactly the ones that let themselves go when they get back into a relationship. They are not self-motivated for fitness.
>>35234920
Because you're a cock socket and expressing your misguided opinion is a deal breaker.
p.s. You are still a fucking hamplanet.
>>35237194
Shame you didn't kill yourself you DYEL faggot.
>>35234920
ASL AND POST PICS
>>35234938
>doesn't have time for 50 min every day
which university study demands 16 hours per day of constant study again
>>35236510
Shouldn't you already know they're a paedophile? If I was 12 and dating someone 10+ years older then I think I would know from the start.
>>35235204
OP mentioned that his only hobby was gaming and that there were other factors involved too.
It sounds like he was just an all around loser to me.
>>35234938
This reads
>but muh vidya gaems
>but muh skool
>understand me you "slut"
Sounds like you took this personal anon. Good 1.
>>35237454
d...david?
Im taking the bait. Jesus fucking christ you guys are a bunch of losers. There are like 100x threads a day talking about how you should dump your gf/wife/etc if she gains weight. Jesus i hate fat people and their neckbearded sympathizers, im not whiteknighting. How can you respect someone else if they can't even respect themselves? Its one thing if you dump your SO after they get injured or get cancer or something completly out of their control, but not having time working out for 45 min a day while at the same time spending 30 hours a week on the computer is just fucking pathetic
>>35247063
This. I do believe someone should dumb their fat fuck bf/gf if they are being a lazy fat shit.
>>35236276
/Thread
>>35234932
Maybe it's because you write things like "gee eff" you autistic fuck
>>35237040
top kek
>>35235189
>>35235204
and when a guy posts it's either "sexual attraction is a very important part of a relationship. if you don't feel it anymore, better leave her instead of cheating on her and wasting time on a disgusting slob" or "just cheat on her brah"
>>35235205
this is exactly what everyone would say if OP was male. but since OP is female and you're all too afraid of being a whiteknight, you instantly change your opinion to the opposite? that's what we call spineless.
(no whiteknight tho)
>>35235062
This is /r9k/
This thread is pathetic
OP your bf was beta as fuck and you did right by dumping his sorry ass. Cracks me up that people who are "too busy" to do productive things because they go to college for 12 hours a week and then playing video games for countless hours think they deserve a gf
