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I want to be good at sex.
Objectively and masterfully good at sex.

How do I learn? Don't say HURR CAN'T LEARN ON THE INTERNET FAGGOT because you can learn everything on the internet, faggot.

I'm serious. I don't care how much I have to read, how much I have to research, and all the things I have to try. I want to be the very best lover that I can to maximize the happiness of my life and relationships. I'll take notes, I'll study, I'll internalize.

Please share with /fit/ resources you found that improved your sex life. The lessons you've learned from good sources. (Avoid clickbaity cosmo-tier articles) Sharing advice you've heard/read that turned out to be complete bunk is good too.

Let us make a good resource for mastery.
We're all gonna make it.

(I'm sorry if you don't consider this fitness related but I really can't think of an appropriate board to host this elsewhere).
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>>29425479

you get better at sex by having sex
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watch the special features of american pie band camp

it has a porn star giving a lesson on oral. The ladies really seem to enjoy the technique
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Have you had sex OP?
Because if you haven't there is only so much you can be expected to do at all your first time.
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If you won't practice on a real girl, practice on a doll.
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>>29425506
Not really.
Most men go through their entire lives stumbling in bed without ever improving.
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>>29425479

A very large portion of it is being good at foreplay and knowing what positions the person you're sleeping with likes.

The best tip I can probably give is that you should be able to transition quickly from PiVing to oral. If you're PiVing and feeling like you're going to cum, but don't want to cum yet, pull out and immediately start going down on her until you've backed off from that point, then switch to a different position, preferably one you're not as sensitive in.
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>>29425542
Where do I watch this online
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>>29425642
PiVing?
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>>29425775
Penis in Vagina
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>>29425775

Penis in Vagina. There's quite a few acronyms and shorthand terms for sexual acts among people that actually discuss them.
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>>29425807

Literally nobody actually uses terms like "PiVing".
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>>29425836

>Literally nobody actually uses terms like "PiVing".

Except almost every person who ever talks about sex in a more than "let me tell you about this pussy I got last night," sort of way.

Pro-tip: these are the people who are good at sex. It's an important part of their lives that they seek to excel at, so they discuss it, and that naturally comes with shorthand forms of communication. I mean, look at all of us. We use shorthand all the time. TDEE, RPE, SS, etc.
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>>29425479
Book called 'The Sex God Method' I've heard is pretty good.

Not to brag, but I've been told that I'm a God in the sack. Key things to remember.
- Be confident and in charge
- Dominate her like a beast does to its prey
- Talk dirty (but sexy), eg 'Your pussy is all mine now. You're so tight. I want to fuck you all day.' Etc.
- Try different positions when you want, and throw her around a bit.
- Warm her up with 4-play. I don't go down on girls often. I prefer to make out with them, suck nipples and play with them using my fingers.

Bonus points:
- Be attractive
- Be strong and fit (cardio and core strength)
- Have a decent sized dick
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>>29425878

It's one letter shorter than "fucking".

I have never in my entire life seen or heard a term like that used seriously.
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>>29425479
>Don't say HURR CANT LEARN ON THE INTERNET

well the problem is that a lot of getting good at sex has to do with your partner's body and personality. You need to be able to either openly communicate or pick up on body language. You also need to learn what works for you by having sex...so you kind of need to get out there.

That said, the most important thing you CAN work on is oral/fingering ability. Explore them. Try and do sensational things, like twirling your finger inside of her, or ever so lightly rub your teeth along her nipple.

Idk, just try to be passionate fam
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>>29425479
Here's what I've learned: Work on losing anxiety and gaining confidence.
Anxiety is the enemy of good sex, both in you and in your partner. If you're worried (about an upcoming exam, being good at sex, forgetting to feed your dog, anything) then sex will be bad.
Confidence is the opposite, you can be a skinny dyel short dick manlet nerd, but if you have confidence you and your partner will have a great time.

Other than that, look up a few sex-ed videos and search for different techniques to try; remember every grill likes different things, so the bigger your repertoire, the better. You can even find the stuff on youtube these days.
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>>29425479
If you are giving oral, then do the ABCs. Spell out the alphabet with your tonge. Tounge. How the fuck do you spell it. Toung. Tunge. Jesus, anyways yea. It keeps your mind of the fact that your lickin a nasty smelling hole in between, and probably for you, some fat womans legs.
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>>29425957
Jesus Christ don't do this.
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>>29425479
Any advice for the chicks of /fit/ tho?
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>>29425995
haha, it works faggot. OP, get your tounge pressed agains her clit. And spell them out against it, you can go to lower case, that works too.
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>>29425905

>It's one letter shorter than "fucking".

"Fucking" could mean a few different things, though. I mean, I suppose there's less ambiguity if you're just talking amongst straight guy friends of yours, but in a larger community, terms like "PiVing" are important, because "fucking," as mentioned, could refer to a few sexual acts.

>>29425923

Meh. I'm having sex with my girlfriend about twice a day, and generally make out with a few different people at parties, so I'm pretty happy with where I'm at. As noted, there's a group of people who talk about sex in a serious way, and they've developed a dialect to go along with it.

>>29425900

>Dominate her like a beast does to its prey

This can be a good thing to do, but it's not always good to turn it on all the time. Some women like being dominated more than others. My partner likes likes tying my hands and blindfolding me just as much as she likes the reverse.

Also, heading out for a bit.
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>>29425957
>of the fact that your lickin a nasty smelling hole

I love everything about pussy including the smell.

Are you gay?

btw it's tongue
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Depends on the god damn partner. You can't objectively learn sex you virgin.
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>>29425995

Switching back and forth between that and sucking on her clit is actually incredibly effective.
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>>29425957
nah, oral on a woman is all about how much pressure you can put on her clit, same with fingering, if you can apply a large amount of pressure with your fingers in the right spot you can make them cum so easily
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>>29426045
depends on the girl honestly. My gf has a rather sweet tasting cooter. But some women, after a night of dancing and tacos.... its bad man, real bad. I do make my girl shower if i am going to go down on her.
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>>29425479
check out Nina Hartleys pussy eating instructional, it's on xvideos somewhere
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>>29425582
Female detected.

Ever heard of pompoir? >>>/r9k/14457542
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>>29425479

I'm apparently really good at having sex. When I lost my virginity I had scratches all over my back. I'll give you faggots some tips.

>Only have sex with a girl when you really really want to.
>Let yourself go. If something goes through your head, do it/say it. In fact, don't even think. Act completely impulsively
>Be rough, but not rough enough to hurt her (too much)
>Be super confident, don't second guess yourself.
>Use your mouth. Bite, lick, suck. Neck, legs, ears, (her traps too, girls like that for some reason)
>communication, if she tells you dont stop, don't fucking stop. In fact go faster and harder.
>or you could stop and make her beg for it, really you're in control do what you want
>if she's small pick her up and throw her around. Take control of the situation.
>be passionate, show her that you like her. Stare into her eyes and put your forehead against hers and sappy shit like that. Even if its a one night stand girls love being wanted
>make her really want you. I don't know how to explain it, it kind of comes naturally to guys
>have a big dick
>be swole

How much girls want you is a huge part of it. Girls want me the most when I 1. don't really give a shit about them 2. and really want to bone them. Seems contradictory but I don't know how to explain it any other way.
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>>29426148
>tips fedora
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>>29426092
this

the whole "oh just spell the ABCs" mindset is exactly why most of you will never make a woman obsess over you. If you have to stick by some sort of laid out plan like that you're fucking up.

You should be playing with their lips, teasing her, slowly making circles around her clit...then finally running across it with strong pressure...lightly making circles then sucking on it while she moans louderrrRrrr


BE PASSIONATE, EXPLORE HER BODY, HAVE FUN AND WERK THAT CLIT MAKE HER SQUIRM

for you closeted faggots just imagine that the clit is a dick. now imagine how you'd wanna suck and play w that dick and then just do that to her
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>>29426148
>make her really want you.
>it kind of comes naturally to guys

>mfw
seriously, how to do that?
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>>29425479
Pff mate, it's such a weird thing to discuss. I know I'm great in the sack because of feedback, but I sure as hell don't get girls done with my cardio and fit related skills. I choke them, slap them, spit on them... I hate wanting to do it but it gets me off so hard. And almost all model-tier chicks seem to love it on a level that is equally disturbed as my own enjoyment.

I guess I'm shameless and that turns them on unbelieveably. I am very nice and charming outside of sex, by the way.
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>>29426033
Close minded post.
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>>29426195

My best advice is to be completely honest with yourself and her. If she does something stupid call her out on that and make fun of her. If you think she has a great ass, tell her that. Actually, just say the first thing that goes through your head always, and stop caring about what people think. This translates directly to you having confidence and status, and girls dig that. If she finds you attractive, she'll want your dick. And once a girl wants your dick you can do whatever you want and she'll probably still want to bang you.

When a girl is into me I can kind of tell. There are small social cues, kind of like social pinging. She'll smile at you, try to talk to you, try to make body contact and etc. After that there's not much you can do to mess it up unless you're severely autistic. At that point just do what you want, no matter what it is. Like during Halloween, there was this girl that had been flirting with me all night. I was going to a different party, and she asked me to stay. I asked if she was single, and then asked her to prove it. She asked me how to prove it and that's when I told her "Like this" and started making out with her. Then I left the party and went to another party even though she didn't want me to. And guess who's been texting me for the past couple of days? I just did the first thing that came into my head, and didn't plan anything out.
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>>29426255
thanks I think I understand
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http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/10/how-to-ravish-your-woman-not-for-men-only-adult/

https://www.youtube.com/user/elliottsaidwhat/search?query=sex
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Flex your penis daily. The muscle you should be moving is almost like clenching your asscheeks. To test if its the right muscle take a piss and start doing it, if you do it right you can stop pissing at any second. This works the same for ejaculation, so you can just keep on going and never cum. It takes practice, but it works.
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>>29426294

or you could just wear a condom and then you'll never cum
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>>29426292
>Elliott
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>>29426148
this is actually solid advice.

Except the big dick part... I'll never know.
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>>29426294
I've been doing this since I was like 14 (was bored in class) and I can pretty much stop my cum or piss
>>29426300
it takes me forever to cum if I use a condom that isn't one of the thin ones.
>mfw gf wants to use one of those super thick ribbed condoms
it's practically cardio
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>tfw can only cum when legs are straight and flexed
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>>29426148
Top-tier post.

Most of all though, don't treat it like it's a performance or like you're on stage. Yeah you need to be a bit self-aware of what you're doing so you don't get too selfish, but in the ends it's sex. It's supposed to be fun, enjoy it.

And don't be like that one autistic fuck from a couple weeks ago that was like "Oh no, you're too pretty to suck me off." I still hope to myself that he was trying to troll.
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>>29426500
lol I remember that thread. jesus, my life just got slightly better thinking about that
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http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/top/?sort=top&t=all
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>>29426477
lmao same exact here.
Can Not cum with relaxed legs
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>>29426564
>cuckolding threads
>on reddit

not surprised in the least
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>>29426427
small cock detected
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>>29425900
Very little of what you listed is universally applicable.

Domination doesn't apply to all women, all the time. It doesn't even apply to the same woman, all the time.

You have to know when to mix it up. Sometimes women like to be dominated, sometimes they like to take charge. You have to know how to adapt and let to the situation.

You sounds like you learned how to have sex from watching porn, but that's not sex. That's acting.
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>>29426002
It's the same advice when you break it down. Talk to your partner, find out what they like, and then work on doing those things better. Keep it interesting, and be considerate of each other.

Bam, you're now the best partner they've ever had.
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As for OP, eating pussy can be learned from a few guides. According to feed back I'm good at that and all I did was read the guides and get to it

As for my own question, I'm by no means big, 6" long, but I've had times when porking a girl from behind she goes "ow ow ow" and pulls off. What gives? What do I have to watch out for? It seems like some girls I can't do that to no matter what and others it just happens. I think it's because the girl has a rounded lower back (weird description but I knwo you all will understand, she doesn't do the glorious arch) but what can I do to avoid it if she has a weird back position?
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>>29426579
I can go forever though. So there are worse spots to be in.
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>>29426148
>communication, if she tells you dont stop, don't fucking stop. In fact go faster and harder.

What's it like to know you're a rapist?
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>>29425900
This man speaks the truth. My ex fucked like this and it was the best sex of my life. He would pick me up and hold me against the wall while inside me and keep fucking me. So hot.
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>>29426130
I didn't know this was actually a thing. I've done this purposefully just as the guy's about to cum, but it's usually too difficult to keep up throughout sex.

More sex tips for girls?
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>>29426702

nice samefagging you faggot
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>>29425878
>>29425785
I read PiVing as point of voiding :(
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>>29426685
reading comprehension brah
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>>29426675
agreed

I get sexual performance anxiety though ;c
cant get hard with new girls

need to find Viagra somewhere

anyone have any advice?
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>>29426685
what's it like to have no reading comprehension skills
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>>29426753
its hard
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>>29425900
i want to shit on ur face
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>>29425479

This is easy. Best way to practice is to, well, fuck a lot.

It's easiest when you have a good and adventurous girlfriend to experiment stuff with. That is literally all it takes. Books and shit can give you reference but you will never be able to master anything with them alone.
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>be good at sex
>dating gf
>sex is less and less

fucking bullshit
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>>29426148

> communication, if she tells you dont stop, don't fucking stop. In fact go faster and harder

Not really, I used to believe that. When the say "don't stop" you don't have to go faster, that's the way man work. not woman. They just want you to keep the pace, not to slow down or go faster.

>have a big dick
>be swole

2014
pls go.
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>>29425479
For oral read She Comes First. For the world of anal pleasures check out Arouse Her Anal Ecstasy.
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>>29426882
>Not really, I used to believe that. When the say "don't stop" you don't have to go faster, that's the way man work. not woman. They just want you to keep the pace, not to slow down or go faster.

This is what I've learned from my experience too, girls just like 2 things

A really hard cock (not so much size, but the firmness), and
Constant pounding. Changing positions too much is pointless to them, they just like the thickness and the steady pounding
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>>29426822
went through this, just broke up (for different reasons, but probably stemming from the same seed as this)

>feels liberating

just remember there are other women who will consistently want your dick as long as you stand your ground and keep them in their place
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ok OP I will help you out

google how to eat pussy like a champ nina hartley or something like that

she goes in detail about what to do to eat pussy

there is also a pic floating around that has a lot of info on it

but for dick in da pussy it's less about exact specific technique applied to perfection and more about feeling it reacting to what she is feeling and adjusting what you to to match it.

Think of it like this good improve music session not a rehearsed symphony
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21 kissless virgin here. Every time I read about sex stuff its such an abstract idea to me, cause I've never done it before, and that's what holds me back from trying to go after girls. How can I force myself to go after girls when I've never even kissed one? Inexperience holds me back
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>>29426923

Step 1 is admitting that you're using your inexperience as an thin excuse for the real reason you aren't going after chicks. Honestly how can you even type that shit out here and not think we can all see through it?
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>>29426923

>21
>kissless

how is that even possible? do you live in iran?
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>>29426923
Nobody else will help you through this but yourself. Man up.
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>>29426951
Every time I try to get a date with a girl or go on a date I panic and major spaghetti
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>>29426923

I've had moderate success with women (not virgin, had gfs, etc.) but like I know that feel. All shit dealing with women is fucking abstract to me. I guess that's why my relationships have never worked out...shits wierd
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>>29426148
>stare into her eyes and put your forehead against her

this is good advice, girls love feeling desired and this will go a long way into making her feel it. i loved doing that my with my ex.

>tfw she broke up with me 3 weeks ago
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>>29426990
are you ugly?
I'd be in the same boat as you if I didn't have girls literally throwing themselves at me, and I'm not that good looking/build.
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>>29426980

That has nothing to do with experience yo. You could pay a hooker to clean your butthole with her tongue and that still wouldn't teach you shit about how to interact with other humans--Even if you magically kissed some girl you wouldn't all of a sudden unlock the ability to be normal
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>>29427011

>tfw your banging so many random sluts but you haven't been in love since highschool
>pic related, what I actually want
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>itt: tips for dudes

man I fuck the shit out of my gf all the time. I switch things up and dominate her and call her a "my dirty little slut" when we fuck. she cums 15-20 times when we fuck.

sex is fun , but as a guy I put alot of effort into fucking her. wish girls had the same want to please their man.

tl;dr
>constantly interested in making her feel good
>she just receives it
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>>29427024
So then how do I become normal? Cause I'm pretty sure that dating and kissing girls is a normal thing and my whole life that's something that never felt natural
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>>29427036
this shit gets old too.
the songs, the pictures, and your little cute story of a gf that is amazing. shit gets old man.
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Learn how to kiss and touch every inch of her body and learn her erogenous zones. I used to be able to make my girlfriend finish without touching her vagina. There's more to sex to fucking.
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>>29426897
Confirmed for boring sex.
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>>29427074
>shit gets old man

then I'll dump her ass and find something else that I enjoy
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>>29427063

Fucking 7 billion humans today, and probably 50 billion more in the entire human history, seemed to have figured it out on their own yet you're sitting here sad because you can't figure it out. Maybe it's not that hard
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>>29426962
You've never been to /r9k/ or wizardchan, have you?
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>mfw haven't had sex in 3 months
>mfw long distance relationship
>mfw last time she visited me she was on her period, still got a BJ

shits hard but so worth it when i see her
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>>29427277
Why didn't you just fuck her anyway?
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>>29427277

Top kek u whipped motherfuckerrr I can't believe you fell for the period bullshit
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>>29426718
I'm so, so, sorry in advance for what is about to happen. Trolls are going to come into the thread and they will be saying some very hurtful things about you. They will call you some very hurtful names. But none of those things are true. How could they possibly know? How could they possibly know how beautiful you really are? How sweet and compassionate you are? I'm so sorry about them, please do not let them hurt you.

>mfw thinking about you hurting

I just want to see you shine and flourish. You are so precious to me. I want to write poetry and sing songs about my love and adoration for you and all of your perfections. My name is Brian, by the way. I know that you're tired of all the assholes and jerks. I know how you feel baby doll. I know. I am different. I am the nicest guy you will ever meet, and if anything I'll be the one in the kitchen. I live in London. Please be in London.
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>>29427301
>>29427332
I seen her bloody tampon.
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>>29427277
>period
Nah, she recently fucked a guy with a bigger dick and didn't want you to feel her gaping maw of a cunt.
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>>29426642
Exactly. As a sub guy, I hate seeing men tell other men that they need to act dominant with women. Apparently it's not enough that I have few choices as it is, no, we gotta perpetuate that shit and never encourage women to take charge for once, even if that's actually what they want somewhere in their mind

Communication and being realistic is key, so much.
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my penis is only 5 inches am i gonna please a woman in my life ever?
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>>29426102

I hear most girls don't expect it after a night out and some even get self conscious if they don't know the guy doing it too well.
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>>29427704
maybe
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>>29427016

Maybe. But I think I'm actually good looking and thats the only reason I've gotten laid at all. I know I've got a couple stereotypically desirable features. Just not sure how the whole package looks.
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>>29427704
Yeah. I have plenty of women friends whose best sexual experience was with a guy who had an average dick. Not joking. Most women don't want an 8x6 dick stabbing their cervix and ripping them open
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>>29427725
>>29427727
Ignore these idiots

>>29427704
Yes you can and will. Pleasing your partner isn't just about how big your dick is. If you only rely on dick size you're going to be a terrible lover.

There are plenty of guys in the world with dicks smaller than 5 inches and they have successful sexual relationships.
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>>29427277
>mfw i just fucked my gf on her period
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>>29426477
Weird, I practically cant cum if Im standing.
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>>29426477
I flex my legs and pecs when I cum. It feels so damn good.
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>>29427948
I cant cum lying down
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>>29425479
Every girl is different. The only thing you can do that applies to them all is become good at oral. And if you're going to go for licking their asshole, make sure you know they're open minded about it first. I've had a couple of them freak out about that.
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From personal experience it's about communication. No one way of doing oral/manual or regular sex can tell you how to be the best lover, because every girl (and guy) likes sex differently.

I have known vaginas that hate being fingered and ones that love it. I know girl who need a shit load of stimulation to come that the only way it's going to happen 9/10 times is if she uses her own finger during sex, and girls sensitive enough that they can come during oral (lucky them).

So for me, personally, I ask them what they like. This can be awkward, so it's about knowing when it's appropriate to ask. Sometimes, after you've had sex for the first time (which will rarely, if ever be the worst and probably the best candidate for worst/least good) will be good, other times during foreplay. Also, a relationship where you're comfortable enough to talk about sex when you're both love-sober will probably also have the best sex.

If it's ONS sex you want to be good at, I can't really help you. Because I think there are two many unknowns. Maybe if you do it a lot, you can tell me. But then again, if you only have sex once, can you really know if they enjoy it?
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>>29428049
>girls sensitive enough that they can come during oral

Pretty sure oral is the most reliable way of getting a girl off.
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>>29426702

lol right
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>>29428073
Not if you suck at it
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>>29425479
>people completely overlooking foreplay

Girls don't care how they cum just as long as they do.
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I assume /fit/ has the biggest amount of butt plundering homos.
What's the best way to deliver maximum pleasure through anal sex that doesn't involve touching the penis at the same time.
I'm dating a pre-op MtF and must improve my skills.
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>>29428113
Warm up their butthole before stuffing your dick in it
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>>29426236
Jian ghomeshi pls
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>>29428113
pics
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>>29425900
Any variant of "you're all mine" will make your girl wetter than a nigger during Katrina. Not during foreplay obviously, but 8-10 minutes in.
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>>29428144

bb is about to get Ghomeshi in hea tonite
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>>29428073

Fingers are better; more endurance. Or even rubbing her clit with your penis.
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>>29425900
>- Be attractive
>- Be strong and fit (cardio and core strength)
>- Have a decent sized dick
I'm fucked.
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>>29429208
how much of those don't you have?
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>>29425957
Abcs.....

Kill yourself mang. You've clearly never had sex before
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>>29425479
practice
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>>29425900
Sounds like it was written by someone who owns a fedora
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>>29429303
It's pretty accurate tho
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>>29426962

>tfw dangerously close to being kissless at 21

w-we're all gonna make it right
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>>29429360
Where you at bro?
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>>29428049

fucking on point, Isley

Practice makes perfect, which is why one-off sex will never be best sex.
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>>29427060
>That feel. ;_;

It's worse when you're in a long term relationship breh
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>>29429374

i think you forgot your no homo with what you were implying bro
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>>29429391
>forgot
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>>29429374

L O N D O N
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>>29425479
guys i'm scared i wont get a boner when i want to actually have sex
So first off almost had sex with two fatties but couldn't stay hard to enter either of them but also didn't really want to fuck ether of them.
But i also couldn't come from bjs so i';m not sure what that means
Bought some cialis but it does nothing for me
Tried nofap but its so damn hard. currently on day 2.

Had a blood test and my t levels are okay, not low enough that i think i'd have libido issues with it
i'm just terrified my penis is broken and i'll never ever have sex and i'll just be better off as a eunuch
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It's all about the shocker

nahh jk

I'm not a big fan of going down, but women can have two different orgasms. You can stimulate the clit or you can find their g-spot

I prefer the g-spot, and unless you find that one position where your dick hits it (which is hard), the only way you can find it is by fingering the girl. You gotta do it right tho, and if you get good at it you can stimulate both the g-spot and clit at the same time

Honestly, fingering is the best way you can make a girl cum, but foreplay is important
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>>29425479
http://www.vice.com/read/guide-eating-pussy-100-guides
this worked for me

oh, and remember female sexuality is more in the mind than it is for us. they need to be made to feel relaxed but excited, safe but with a hint of danger
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>>29425900
>5x4
Is that big enough?
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>>29429508
...it can be
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>>29428088
This is a very male-centric view and it makes me curious if you've ever actually had an longterm intimate relationship with a girl
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>>29429440
Sounds like the monastic life is for you. No shame in that.
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>tfw 6'2" 350lbs and somehow not a virgin
>tfw ex-gf was 5'10" 220 lbs and had dem long legs

On the real, every girl is different. This is what has always worked for me:

>use the "come here" motion when you're fingering her and suck on her clit at the same time
>pushing down lightly right above her pubic mons while doing the above makes her go fucking nuts
>kiss/bite her neck and nibble on her ear during PIV
>depending on how submissive she is, pin her down by the wrists (my ex loved it when I pinned her down by her shoulders, put her legs on my shoulders, and went to town)
>kiss/talk dirty/etc etc
>pull her hair while in doggy (how hard depends on her preference)
>light choking
>growling in her ear while you fuck
>if she gets loud, cover her mouth/say "shhhh"


Also, one of the most unexpectedly hot things according to her was, while we were in missionary, I put my hand under her head and cradled it while we fucked. If you bust that out on a chick, 9 times out of 10 she'll really like it.

No two girls are completely alike, OP. It really just depends on what she likes. Ask her and just do what she likes. It isn't too hard. Good luck mane.
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