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I read /fa/ all day and I just feel ugly and insecure.
>go on omegle
>start talking to qt andro azn chick
>compliments me, I compliment her
>she seems to like me
>the whole time im conscious of how I look, which angle is more pleasant
>talk for like 20 mins
>she ends up stripping for me
>disconnects
I'm so lonely.
Go outside you sperglord. Go to a bar and fucking talk to people.
>>8876951
I live in Texas, so most of the girls here don't compare. She was at least an 8.5. If I go out, chances are I won't meet anyone higher than a 7.
I feel cheated. Why'd she disconnect?
>>8876951
underrated post.
>>8876973
nigga she disconnected because there was no way you would ever meet up and fucking marry each other/fall in love. 7's aren't that bad, especially if you're that insecure. Just go out and practice meeting/talking to people until you find someone higher than a 7. Waiting around for this kind of shit to fall into your lap will never, ever work.
>go to lecture
>everyone already seems to know each other
>>8876988
I'm not saying I wanted to fall in love and get married. I hate being so lonely that I pathetically "fall" for someone when I know how unrealistic and impossible it is. It's happened before, with girls I went to school with.
>>8876989
>couldn't understand the caption
>read out loud
kek
>>8877007
Look, man. That's just a part of life. You start meeting people, get your heart broken a few times (not necessary, btw) and you'll realize this shit isn't that big of a deal. Getting a gf won't magically get rid of the problems that I'm fairly sure you have. Plus if you're that lonely you should set your standards a little lower, bro.
i know this feel
im 19 and im only just starting to make friends and talk to girls, sometimes it just feels so fucking hopeless and like the ship has sailed, but ive managed to make friends with my flatmates and im becoming pretty good at making girls laugh, i finally understand what 'just be yourself' means, if i go in full steam and just talk, while still being my slightly jittery weird self, i dont need to be some regular loud alpha, i can still make them laugh and have them inviting me out to social occasions
>>8877028
That's good to hear. As shitty as some of this board may be, there's people like you that actually make me feel like I'm not surrounded by heartless idiots.
>eat a whole tub of strawberry cheesecake ice cream while watching forrest gump
>not sure if i want to kill myself or ot anymore
>>8877067
Glad you're makimg it, anon. What did it take for you to realise that? Just being yourself and shit?
>get qt's number from class
>text him and wait anxiously for his reply
>doesn't respond till the next morning
>ask him out for coffee
>no response but I still see him around
>>8877132
what do you mean?
i looked at guys being all loud and brash and realised i was never going to develop those skills, even though thats the conventional idea of a man who gets girls attention, i just got desperate and tried talking to girls without trying to put on that facade and realised they actually liked me somewhat
>>8877155
>i just got desperate and tried talking to girls
That's what I meant.
Gonna have to try that shit.
>>8877137
Holy shit this. Why do guys take forever to text back.
>>8877137
From an outside perspective, it seems like he's simply not into you. Although, I understand how conflicting it can be in your position.
>tfw legs got skinnier legs than most of the girls I see around
I don't know how to feel. I'm also 191cm tall so I look either really attractive or really freaky.
>>8877190
Nah he apparently went to a concert that night and didn't get back till 4am. I catch him looking at me during class all the time so idk
>>8877187
either not into you, or a failed attempt at playing it cool
>>8876989
This is my life right now.
Fuck it.
>tfw haven't copped anything in forever
>tfw if I cop things it's only for school
>tfw have to save all my money for college
Feels bad I'm working so much less now because of school so it's just this vicious cycle of having no money
As a side note:
>tfw came out to my dad today and it went better than I could've dreamed
>tfw everyone important to me knows I'm gay now
>mfw everything is finally looking better guys
>>8877231
coming out is for faggots
>>8877231
queerlord
>>8877192
post face. if aesthetic, model. if not, beast
>>8877231
how does it feel to be a degenerate?
>>8877263
Go back to pol pls.
>gained a pound since yesterday
>>8877231
sickening
>see no value in self
>perceive compliments as mockery, only stimulated by criticism
>see value and forgive the shortcomings of others but cannot forgive my own, even if they overlap
>virgin, never have had a relationship or kiss, and will probably remain that way for time
>can't look people in the eye, or I feel repugnantly transparent- wear sunglasses at all times when outside to stave the fear or being noticed
>can make small talk and have a modicum of charm, but it not without further self-disdain
>find no value in a relationship, feel as though it would be too selfish of me, and that I don't deserve a woman's heart
>>8877075
No need to be sarcastic, friend. I'm just telling you how it is. Coddling people about this shit isn't the right way.
>>8877307
how long ahve you felt tis way?
>>8877307
>iktf
>>8877231
I'm happy for you = )
>>8876989
>why would I want to befriend these people?
>>8877386
full life more like full of cock lmaooo
>>8877028
nah man, lowering you standards out of loneliness is one of the most autistic things to do.
people look at everyone of the down syndrome guys with wildebeast girlfriends, and think "hes probably a spergie."
>>8877416
Obviously don't try and pull a 3 or something, but that guy was looking for an 8 or above. If he's all insecure and doesn't know how to talk to people then it'll be easier for him to start off with 7s or something to practice. Then build up to an 8 or above.
>>8877334
The better part of four years.
>>8876989
are you a first year? .. as years go on, it wont matter anymore.. people tend to be on their own especially upperclassmen
>>8876973
Where in texas?
>>8877231
good for you mate, still haven't come out to my dad, luckily he lives in another continent so I can keep putting it off
>>8877305
really unlikely, probably the weight of the food you've eaten
>>8877439
ok, i understand.
yeah guy should go for 6.5 lowest and work up to a 8 or higher.
>>8877231
Fucking faggot. No one wants to know that you suck dick? Why would you even feel the need to tell anyone about it?
>>8877386
sucking dick suddenly means your life is fulfilling?
Christ the people in this thread.
Fucking normalfags.
>>8877624
sucking dick can get you far kid
>>8877679
Underrated post
>>8877620
You should tell that to every woman you meet as well. I'm sure you're a lovely person and that this awful hateful attitude is only a facade used for the Internet.
>tfw u get so gay 4 ur own dick when test driving fits in front of the mirror
>>8877624
yeah just ask your mom
>>8877231
Happy for you, Birthday
>be me
>start wearing makeup
>start dressing better
>own a few women's clothes (just sweaters and a shirt though)
>get more pale, fall is here so hair gets darker
>girls are all fucking over me suddenly
>keep fingernails neat as a pin
>start talking more and realize holy shit I'm funny
>tweeze my eyebrows and shit
why do girls like pretty boys wtf
why
why why why
>>8877307
iktf2
is there any hope...
>tfw get flamed in WAYWT
>tfw don't know if i really look that bad or if i just look bad by /fa/ standards
>tfw realize there are way more people talking shit than posting fits, so i shouldn't value their opinions so much
>tfw still crave validation on chinese cartoon board
>>8877450
fucking hell man i know this feel so much, the worst part of it is I have a tiny glimmer of hope. I just wish I could truly end it.
>>8877759
i like pretty boys too
;)
>>8877800
post fit
>>8877759
Answered your own question
>>8877992
why though
>>8877405
#REKT
>>8877718
shhh only tears now
>>8876978
This needs to stop
Worse than shitposting
>>8878083
underrated post
>go back to uni after a break cause I'm dumb
>forget how to small talk and make friends
Jdimsa
>>8878094
mfw I never learned to do small talk
I have quite a few friends tho, but it gets hard to make new ones because I don't really know how to talk to people unless I have something specific to say
>tfw living on your own
>too poor to afford smartphone with dataplan
>bring out the fliphone
>people laugh at me
:(
>>8878130
Yeah, I really cant make small talk also.
Always reply with yes, no or laugh, followed by complete silence
>tfw you buy shoes online and u don't know how much to size down or up but it fits perfectly when u get them
>>8876989
>uni has a lot of azns
>they all seem to know each other from high school or something
>already determined friendship groups
fuck asians
>tfw 5'9.5 barefoot
>can't say I'm 5'10 without compromising integrity
>tfw manlet either way
>>8878167
how the hell can you afford clothes then? Just get a pre paid plan and buy some cheap yet effay phone, they aren't that expensive
>tfw buy jacket online
>tfw it arrives and youre super excited
>tfw its nothing like what you thought it would be
>tfw doesnt fit right and looks bad
welp see ya 200 dollars
>>8878192
lol look at this egg
>>8878167
Just don't carry a cell phone
It's easy and /fa/ as fuck
>Used to have crush on this girl
>She never seemed interested in me (never flirted with me and referred to me as her friend) so I went on to pursue other girls (would still talk with her here and there)
>Have a little fling with this random twat
>The girl finds out and texts me
>"wow anon I really thought something would happen between us I really liked you"
>wut.jpg
>A few months later
>Starting to talk and hanging out with the girl again
>She is starting to be a little more flirty with me
>I'm starting to have feelings for her again
>Hopefully this works out this time
>tfw
>>8878215
Why can't you return it?
>first date in my life
>1st beer
>chick is getting more open
>get some food
>cashier compliments you on your game when the chick is in the toilet
>safe bruv ayy
>finish food
>dead silence
>shit, what should i do
>lets get another beer gril
>second beer
>start discussing sex
>gril says shes traditional (she from asia) and would make a guy wait 6 months til sex
>u aint gon make me wait 6 months bish are ya
>no
>ayy lmao
>go to club
>third and forth beer
>get all touchy feely i want it i need it
>she lets me hold that ass for the rest of the day
>dont score but she open for the next time
>feels good
>muh game on point niggas
>>8878270
bought secondhand off ebay
>>8877231
As long as you are not a faggot it's okay but since you browse /fa/ you must likely are.
Kill yourself.
>>8878280
did you at least ask for measurement?
Im not anorexic but i feel fat when I eat food
>>8877231
birthday we know that's you
>social anxiety
do drugs help? I'm thinking about doing more drugs.
also
>grill I'm interested in school probably sees me as a brooding guy who talks to nobody cause I am
>>8878306
look at pictures of really obese people while you eat in front of a mirror.
>tfw just bought new sweater for 200 buck-a-roos
>tfw im moving to florida and wont even be able to wear it this winter
>tfw i have almost zero summer clothes
>dick bulge
>dat ass
>wide hips
>clothes always look funny on the midsection
>no money for clothes anyway
>own like 4 solid colour tshirts, 2 pants, 1 shorts, 2 shoes
>social life flourishing
>going out with friends most days
>pretty cool
>been talking to this girl
>super nice, intelligent, really good looking
>she's into me
>find her kinda boring
>no longer find people interesting at all
>dont really find anything interesting at all
>slowly starting to hate everything
>dont even enjoy sleeping
>people just make me angry
>people are terrible
>starting to not enjoy anything that i do
>all of my hobbies bore me
>>8878326
im 6'0 120lbs
lost 10 lbs since school started
>>8878342
go somewhere
>>8877305
> I drank two cups of water
fixed that for you.
>buy new pair of sneakers
>feel childish/immature for wearing them because I'm a collegefag already
>look at friends' shoes
>oversized bulky sports sneakers, chunky DC and jordans, ugly square-toed dress shoes
>mfw
>M are too big
>S are too small
>be me
>be so disappointed with me because i cant get a gf because of my high as fuck standards (thx /fa/)
>watch latest SLP collection
>bonerintensifies.jpeg
>standards rise higher wanting a qt exotic faced tall slim gf in full slutcore to hang out everynight
>realize i will die alone
>tfw no heroinchic or slutcore gf draped in full SLP
kill me nao
tfw goofy lookin
>>8878325
Depends on what kind of drugs.
Try and eighth of shrooms. I used to do em and it really helps you feel comfortable with yourself. It sounds dumb, but your brain has a nice...reset, I guess. Afterwards it forces you to put yourself back together in a good way. I've gotten over a lot of my anxieties through drugs, actually.
![5c69881548dad606fb274fa64358380c[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/V5uiOha.jpg "5c69881548dad606fb274fa64358380c[1].jpg")
>>8878432
>>8878436
would the shrooms be a regular kind of thing or just in the moments you feel are most needed?
does weed just add to anxiety?
