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Is there any way to pull off a choker without looking lewd?
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Is there any way to pull off a choker without looking lewd?

I don't want people to think I'm delusional enough to think I have any sex appeal.
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>>11466077
I'm sorry but they are lewd by definition
there's nothing you can do
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sweetie unless youre fat or have a bad posture you have sex appeal

Wear it with SLP if you're really that deep in the dumps
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it's borderline light fetish gear, but it doesn't imply (to me at least) that you think you're attractive. rather it makes me think you have a tumblr blog and you're 'not like other girls'
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>>11466077
>Is there any way to pull off black belt in sucking dick without looking lewd?
You tell me, OP
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>>11466077
I guess there's one way: wear victorian clothing and pick a very lacy and ornate choker.

You'll be full-on cosplay core but you won't look like a slut.
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>>11466139
>black belt in sucking dick
BARBARIC
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>>11466077

thotcore
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>>11466139
>black belt in sucking dick
I fucking lost it
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>>11466154
>>11466164
He didn't come up with it, it's a twitter meme
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Is there any way to pull off a studded codpiece without looking lewd?

I don't want people to think i'm delusional enough to think I have any sex appeal.
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>>11466138
That I think I'm not like other girls or that I really am not like other girls?

Does it say "I have a tumblr-blog because I like aesthetic inspo pics" or "I have a tumblr-blog because I like to shitpost about cismen"? Like what side of tumblr
This is important
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>>11466138
I literally know 4 girls who once came over all wearing the same black one. God damn I hate people.
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>>11466190
That you think you aren't like the other girls.

It's a trend, you know. Among an OTHER side of tumblr: the instagram whores who think they're too special for instagram.
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>>11466190
Depends on your body type
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"I just watched Leon the Professional and I think that if I can trick people into thinking I look like underage Natalie Portman they'll overlook the fact that I'm bland as hell and have a mediocre body"-core
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i kinda want a collar. its ironic bcuz i dont like or want sex
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>>11466237
I kinda want a sex slave but without having sex with her.

You think we can work something up?
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>>11466212
This is how all core's are formed though.

>"I just watched Drive and I think that if I can trick people into thinking I look like an autistic Ryan Gosling they'll...."
Etc etc etc
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>>11466257
I know, I know.
But it becomes a problem when that shit ends up seeping into movies and you got actors/actresses who could be attractive but are dressed like basic bitches in order to appeal to them.

Then it becomes a vicious circlejerk of mediocrity.
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>>11466243
I just want a gf that doesn't want to have sex. wtf is wrong with me do I need someone to kick me in the ballsack?

also, to keep it relevant >>11466138
>>11466139
>>11466147
>>11466212
all of these are v. much on the ball. it makes you look like you hop from bandwagon to bandwagon, without actually having any real taste of your own.
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>>11466268
oh shit you're a dude too.
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>>11466190
"this is important" is pure tumblr imo
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>>11466290
What
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>>11466271
nah different person but there are no genders online faggot
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>>11466077
>D A D D Y I S S U E S
>A
>D
>D
>Y
>I
>S
>S
>U
>E
>S
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>>11466299
In a mental way or sexy way?
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>>11466302
in a mental way that you think is sexy at first before realizing that it's actually pretty depressing and ugly.
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>>11466311
That's the worst kinda way. I don't want to emit that.
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>>11466291
he's saying that what you said here >>11466190
being >what side blah blah THIS IS IMPORTANT

is typical of a tumblr user, so without no further ado, please get >>>/out/
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>>11466348
Saying "this is important" is typical of a tumblr user? What else, saying "hello, how are you?", sneezing, drinking milk?
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>>11466348
Lad I've never made a tumblr post and I've been saying "this is important" as a cheeky way of getting people to talk about my fetishes for years.
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Meme
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>>11466359
Pls don't get upset I can't help it you have no skill with rhetoric

>>11466361
They chiefed up your saying then my G
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>>11466139
>>Is there any way to pull off black belt in sucking dick without looking lewd?

topkek
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18m twink going to wear a choker and rainbow bernie sanders tee around my conservative college next year watch out

"snarky NEET bludgeoned to death, local town rejoices"
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>>11466170
doesn't matter desu still funny

also u can't really take credit for something when u are anon
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>>11466268
ill suck ur cock and make u gay that's what u need anon
either that or ur asexual and there's nothing wrong w that

or ur a sociopath // misanthrope which is also very /fa/
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I like them op. Do it.
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>>11466448
nah no one could make me gay fammo I'm definitely not. been with about 20 girls so I know it wasn't any of them, I simply get no enjoyment from it unless I get abusive.

I do fucking hate people too, but doesn't everyone?
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I wish every girl would

Except far girls
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>>11466139
W E W L A D

E

W

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S P I C Y

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>>11466441

>*irritating fuckwit bludgeoned to death, local town rejoices
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>>11466139
D E V I L I SH
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>>11466154
>>11466164
>>11466400
>>11466561
>>11467891
samefag
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>>11466528
>unless I get abusive

Maybe try finding someone you can do this with in an negotiated, consensual way?
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>tfw sister starts wearing a choker
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>>11469567
Well that's the wrong pic but whatever
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>>11469572
>>11469567
talk about freudian slip, eh?
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>>11466077
You grab it with your fingers and pull if off of your neck.
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>>11469567
>>11469572
Kek
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>>11466177
Are you suggesting he looks lewd?
You've confused lewd for rad.
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>>11466077
I love girls who wear it. Just try it
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>>11466139
keked
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I used love chokers but I refuse to wear one now because they're so overplayed. I still think they look cute.
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>>11466077
I'd fuck almost any woman with a choker. Be more confident OP: No matter what you'll have that slutty choker sex appeal.
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>>11471847
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>>11466077
if you're not lewd then don't wear it, it's false advertisement
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I like seeing collars and chokers over turtlenecks
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I think just wearing one with completely everyday clothes is interesting too
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>>11471893
or pretty delicate jewelled versions with sporty clothes
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>>11471877
these are really nice, w2c?
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Delicate rose gold looks more feminine than lewd.

>>11471905
http://www.ventronechronicles.com/shop/2ytw2xrwgkp3phto0n6g3x6kj4fv3h
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The thick suede chokers look like they could just be cozy turtleneck necks
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>>11466139
Eksde
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A beaded take on a tattoo choker shape
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a plain metal band can be futuristic minimal
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>>11471872
>female on 4chan
>not lewd
Pick one.

>>11471923
In a bad way?
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Saccharine satin ribbon
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>>11471940
No, in a cute way

>>11471941
Another sweet option is lace, but it can look cheap if the rest of your look isn't on par
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>>11471919
thank you anon!
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>tfw wish gf wore a choker
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>>11466441
jesus you faggot
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>>11471947
i wanna chok'er if you get what i mean
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>>11466139
well done
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> decades of feminism
> women still want to feel controlled
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>>11469567
bad feel mang
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>>11472332
It's my fetish.
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>>11472332
>choker
because feminism is propagated by testosterone filled dykes
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>>11473549
you're cute
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>>11466299
I can vouch for this.
My ex was pretty fucked up
she didnt wear chokers yet because she hadn't grown into a full wreck yet
no she wears them all the time
and yeah DADDY ISSUES
and her dad is dead so they will never be resolved
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>>11471877
>>11471895
>>11471893
>>11471919

These are cute. What makes chokers "lewd" are the thicker strapped ones and the overstated ones (tattoo chokers, harness style, etc). Thin chokers that look closer to fine jewelry metals look more decent as opposed to cloth and rubber materials
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>>11474665
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>>11471921
that's not a choker, that's a collar. that part in the front is a padlock
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can a guy wear a choker?
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>>11474706
kys
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guys I'm a decent look tall white guy. I can have game if I really try. I find these types of girls so hot but how do i get them? Where do I go, what do I dress like? etc. Please help me
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>>11466077

link me yo tumblr gurl
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>>11474678
I know
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>>11469567

Top kek.
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>>11473549

I love girls with this hairstyle.
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>>11474918
>I can have game if I really try

>Where do I go
>what do I dress like?
>Please help me

you have solid inner game my man
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>>11474931
Are you being mean by implying it's tumblr-core, or d-do you actually want my tumblr?
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>>11475617
not the guy you´re talking to but I would want your tumblr
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>>11475629
That's so sweet. Unfortunately I don't have one because I have crippling social anxiety, but still - so sweet!
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>>11474670
whore lipstick
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>>11473549
that's a dude
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>>11475636
too bad
btw: what´s so bad about thinking you have any sex appeal?
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>>11475647
Jut don't want to give off any vibe so people will think I'm delusional and full of myself, you know?
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>>11475656
I don´t think people think that way. don´t get fooled by idiots on /fa/. most people don´t even care. it depends more on your overall attitude. by judging you over your posts (not very much, I know) you seem rather insecure and shy. so when you wear a choker it will be cute, not lewd
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>>11475699

this would look nicer without a choker
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>>11475656
is this you in OP´s pic?
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>>11475717
No, just taken of google images
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>>11475721
well, anyway...this wouldn´t look too tryhard sexy.
just like >>11475724
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>>11466147
Wouldn't the lace make OP look even more sexual?
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>>11475958
That's plain super-lewd.
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>>11476019
you say that like it´s a bad thing. since when is clothing supposed to be asexual?
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>>11475666
I hate this bitch
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>>11476746
why? do you know her?
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I thought they were originally traditional clothing.
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>>11466077
This guy:>>11466139

Only if you're wearing those 19th century dresses.
But even now those things can look very lewd.

>>11471919
That's a necklace.
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>>11469572
>>11469584
fucking hilarious
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>>11476072
march
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>>11471814
>>11471828
>>11471943
>>11474665
>>11474670
>>11475744
>>11476014
>>11476737

these are all bretty cute
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>>11466077
short chains that kinda look like chokers are cool
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>>11481922
That's a necklace, not a choker
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>tfw gf wears a choker
>tfw she's extremely lewd
checks out I guess
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chokers are slut gear but if you really want to get the boys howling wear a collar
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Be a guy
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>>11482152

Duel me bitch.
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>>11466441
serious question do you literally have a vagina?
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no, it's awful
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>>11483550
so are you.
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>>11471943
holy shit why is that so sexy
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Could this guy pull of a choker?
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>>11484418
yes that would arouse me v much
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>>11484429
Would post the other photos where he has his bum sticking out but lost the site
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>>11484543
what´s wrong with anal?
you know that there are people who like anal and don´t wear a choker, right?
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>>11484610
>what is humour
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>>11466077
My theory is that it's a subtle indicator that the wearer is skinny. Fat girls would look ridiculous wearing these

So just be skinny
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>>11484543
how normie must you be to consider anal lewd
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>>11475636
Fuck you and your social anxiety. What is wrong with kids nowadays? everyone have social anxiety bullshit
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>>11482104
>Didn't read the post
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>>11484690
B-but I have an actual diagnosis. I only leave my home a maximum once a month to go grocery shopping. Does that not qualify?
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>>11469584
gottem
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>>11484716
Diagnosis for behavior is irrelevant, as behavior is entirely under control of the individual. Be social more and social anxiety goes away.
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>>11484716
Get your shit together faggot.
>b... but..
Jesus, is not like other will take care of you all your life you parasit shit. Get over your tiny unreal problems
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>>11484785
But noone "takes care of me"? I take care of myself.
Who would I be parasiting?
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>>11484814
How you earn your income?
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>>11484830
I'm a student, so student loans.
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>>11484836
Good now think about your future and tell me you dont see yourself parasiting if you dont get over it
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>>11484844
That's why I'm paying for therapy (which is how I got my diagnosis).
And still, who would I - COULD I - parasite? I'd just be broke, and eventually commit suicide.
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>>11484858
Well good luck, at least you will do the right thing. What are you studying?
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>>11484875
Are you saying suicide is the right thing?
Economics.
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>>11484880
Good you got pretty good odds then but if you fail, yes suicide is the right thing.
Leave this world on a fashionable way.
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>>11484905
Edgy.
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>>11484923
Like life itself so fuck you
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>>11484924
Wow, just got edgier.
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>>11484926
>>11484926
Haha
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No. Funny you should mention it, my female manager wore one today I instantly got a boner. Sorry, it just screams "I want to be fucked".
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