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anyone here besides me feel like, no matter what you wear you still look like shit 99% of the time, meanwhile your friends and people around you compliment you pretty often?
>>11334265
fuck me anon
It feels bad
Yeah I get tons of compliments all the time, especially on my physical appearance, but I kind of think I dress poorly.
>feel ugly 99% of the time
Yes
>people finding me attractive
No, i am ugly, a 2-3/10, nobody likes me and im going to die alone
>>11334329
hey m8 R U ME?
U
ME?!?!?
>>11334316
they're complimenting you out of pity. you know you look like shit, and so do they.
I still feel like a disgusting fat fuck. Sometimes I get a "compliment", but i somehow think that they are laughing at me, so more selfhate.
>>11334316
Joker.
Back in High School I was way bigger than I am now and all kinds of ugly. Girls would walk past me and then in ear range just straight say "Man, Anon is so ugly".
It's been about 8 years since I left, and despite losing a lot of weight and looking better than I ever have done to pretty much everyone who I know's agreement, I constantly still looking at myself as fat, ugly etc. I find it hard to talk to people and look at them because I worry they're looking back and thinking "Yo look at this guy, he looks like ass?"
You are you're own critic I guess, just need to realise that nobody is thinking about that stuff as much as I am.
im fat so i always look shit in clothes but thanks to /fit/ ive lost 17kg and soon i can be effay
>>11334265
Try to get somebody to affirm a better self-image. This is coming from somebody who went through an anorexic phase shortly followed by a bulimic phase over the course of six years. I weighed significantly more at fourteen than I did at twenty. Nothing helped me more than a short but stable relationship with a beautiful and honest girl who, at least superficially, understood the personal issues I experienced towards my body and loved to compliment me. Strongly advise towards getting a therapist, strongly advise against using him alone to boost your confidence.
I've been told that once you get past pre-pubescent development, insecurity is something that never truly goes away and that all of the modern methods of management that are any more sophisticated than a full frontal lobotomy focus on either distracting from it, dulling it, or trying to give the insecure a feeling of false hope. In my experience that's been completely true, but retaining the memories of what she thought of me gave me a new perspective on how other people express positive outward emotion and that's helped me to explore new social venues and come out of my shell of neurotic masochism.
>spend an hour every morning preparing my routine
>always use special natural oils for perfect skin
>hygiene is perfect, eyebrows are perfectly trimmed and thick thanks to rogaine which have made them thicker
>have homemade hairsprays to save money and look fresher, also so that I don't get any unnecessary chemicals
>always use oil in the shower to get thicker hair
>still only a 4/10 despite going through this every morning
I don't think you guys realise how fucking ugly I am without all this. I was roasted on /fa/ posting my face once, thank be god that I got more self aware and got my shit together, I've managed to get some hot grills
so t-thanks effay
>>11334872
Hey man, you're doing good. It doesn't matter if you're ugly. Good on you, anon.
>>11334872
hello sido my boy
had a really weird thing happen to me today
>kinda tryhard about the way i dress
>still think i dress like shit anyway
>its kinda different but not too crazy
>some compliments but they never sink in
i friend of mine told me how people think i'm some sort of fashion god/no one else does fashion like i do
hopefully this has instilled some sort of confidence and i'll like myself more than i do atm
>>11335839
post a fit mango
>>11336885
This but with a better fruit
