i can't bear my fucking insecurity anymore /fa/. I cant even wear a fucking beanie without worrying people will laugh at me. Anything vaguely 'out there' or different that I want to wear I can't because I know people will make nasty comments and that upsets me and lowers my self esteem. help me /fa/
go slow
>>10985929
wtf is that supposed to mean
>>10985905
I understand this attitude in a conservative office setting where you want to be known for your work and not your crazy ties, but jesus don't be such a pussy. Go out dressed like shit next weekend and just wander around town for a few hours. Wear your least favorites shoes and pyjama pants. Then come home and reflect on how much no one actually seemed to care.
Dye your hair a retarded colour and wear like that for 1 week. Once week is up you will be cured of the insecurity.
You could ask advice from as many people you want, but really, it'll not work unless you actually do something really different and force yourself through it. If you do it with a right, clear mindset, you'll realize people really don't care about what you wear/do, or they do care, and they do make nasty comments, but can't like beat you or arrest you, so you don't have to give a shit.
>>10986013
I'd say do this, it'll force you to be out there, and that is really the only way, no amount of advice or self-help in a cantonese woodworking image board will do.
