Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General
- "anything goes" edition
ITT:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>dojinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>friendly discussion
Previous Thread: >>6616722
>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal
New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#
FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
http://pastebin.com/iQetqpH
New doujin list per LL:
http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi
Rusefemanon VA work:
https://soundgasm.net/u/Rusfemanon/Writefags
and drawfags welcome!
Kitsune story:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
SifSub:
My manager is my mistress (non lewd)
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
"I don't bite"
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit: Little Soldier Lady
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Smolbrit's fashion guide:
http://pastebin.com/YvccbTvA
Other: Protective Amazons
http://www.amazonlove.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7018
http://www.dlsite.com/maniax/work/=/product_id/RJ165291.html
In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318
Valentine /gfd/ (Written by a 4chan writefag. Supposedly was going to be 5 parts, I only ever saw 2)
Part 1: http://pastebin.com/tW34EBHL
Part 2: http://pastebin.com/hMDENVVs
Pretty Human (Highly reccomended by many): http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
![1452105614461[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/OyRhKLX.jpg "1452105614461[1].jpg")
Animated film:
>Garden of Words
Live Action Film:
>Angel-A
Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Amagami*
Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Otoyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Tsugumomo
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
>Visual Novels
Junipers Knot*
Web animation:
>Newman
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujin List: http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi (Credit to LL)
Hentai List: http://pastebin.com/jVY1dAeb
how fucked are you if you live in a shit tier europe thats not as enlightened and open minded as US ?
>>6620228
Put Miss Julie on those Live-action films fampai
>>6620254
You talking about UK or Germany?
>>6620228
GFD Story list:
Taiyakisoba:
Absorption:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5343203/chapters/12337505
The Vixen:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5202542/chapters/11990246
Under the Falcon's Wing:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/4653132/chapters/10613943
The Leprechaun's Charms:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3645492
The Sentimental Succubus:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3241379/chapters/7061726
A Taste for Christmas Cake:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3145253/chapters/6822353
Takeover:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2779652/chapters/6235439
Wings of Desire:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2760794
In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318/chapters/5806514
Bringing the Heat:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2454164/chapters/5439332
Love-Love Umbrella:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2219088
SifSub:
Until you are:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
My manager is my mistress:
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
I don't bite:
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit:
Minotaur's Labyrinth:
http://pastebin.com/b7dURJkY
The Bear and the Wolf Cub:
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Others:
Pretty Human: (by Sea Foam):
http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
Love You to Bits!: (By SilentOtakuGirl):
http://silentotakugirl.deviantart.com/art/Love-You-to-Bits-529875044
>>6620262
nope, thats the good europe, im talking about shit europe, well im more like a mid tier europe - czech republic, so i imagine the further sout-east you go the more backwards it gets
>found something /gfd/ related
>it's 3D porn
Whelp that's unfortunate.
>>6620452
How does this make sense? I'm Swedish and I don't get it.
>>6620472
Dude what?
Do you know any nordic history?
>>6620485
Not him but, both? Tomboy can be a pretty wide description, lots of differences in them.
Hi /gfd/ !
I'm doing a little study on fetishes and "deviance", and I'd like to ask some questions. I start here since /gfd/ is my personal fetish. Answer if you like.
Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
Do you know when you started developping your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
Have you an idea of why you have developped this fetish ?
Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner ?
How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
Please only answer the questions you wish to and feel free to ask me anything. I'll come back tomorrow, most likely, to see and answer to your eventual answers. Thank you in advance !
>>6620528
oh boy, here we go again
>>6620460
is there a gallery or anything of all the stuff this artist's done? I really like it.
>you will never be a qt kitsune trap
>you will never be waifued by a strong adventurer girl
>she will never reduce you to a shuddering mess and cuddle you afterwards
>>6620254
>being 'murican
>fucking
>ever
>>6620528
1. No, I just like something many others don't.
2. I've always had the idea that sex is about the other person, and apparently that qualifies me as sub? But when I read these threads I knew it was what I wanted.
3. I often tend to get on better with girls than boys, but that's not very likely to be a big factor.
4. Have done a bit of roleplay with previous partners gfd wise. It's not a deal breaker, but it's what I'd look for until I'm maybe 25.
5. Not all that hard seeing as most of the girls I've been with are pretty gfd and still are.
>>6620528
>Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
Maybe
>Do you know when you started developping your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
I can't remember. Been a while though.
>Have you an idea of why you have developped this fetish ?
I'm not sure... I dont have a mommy fetish but my mom has been absent from my life in my early teenage years for quite sometime. Maybe that's why?
>Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner?
I have no partner, never had one but if i had one it probably wouldn't be seperate.
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
I accepted it 100%, it's who i am i guess.
>>6620528
>yes
>don't remember, probably a few years ago
>I had "vanilla" sex before, got into pegging, kind of found some aspects of femdom more and more appealing
>I don't have a partner. I would prefer to always be the more dominant partner
>It's hard. Wanting to dominate is unethical. I wish I wasn't into it, but the alternatives are either boring or worse
>>6620664
Heh, I think I know you.
>>6620528
>Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
About as deviant as it fucking gets, but not because of the gfd.
>Do you know when you started developing your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
Before puberty.
>Have you an idea of why you have developed this fetish ?
I was bullied for being ugly in school, particularly by boys, so now I can only achieve full sexual satisfaction with a guy if I feel like I'm overpowering or forcing or coercing him in some way.
>Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner ?
Nah, it's my lifestyle.
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
I used to struggle a lot, but it gets easier as time goes on.
So what if i dont have the inferior finger ratio? T^T
>>6620680
How? I don't post here much.
>bullied by boys
I got teased by dudes too.
>>6620689
>>6620694
>>6620697
>>6620699
>>6620701
i bet that this can be put into a single picture
>>6620528
>"deviant"
1. Yep. GFD isn't that odd, but some of my other fetishes would probably land me in the deviant category.
>Do you know when you started developing your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
2. First girlfriend preferred to be a dom, and i quickly found that I was really into being a sub. Have always had and interest in pain/masochism, she happened to have sadist tendencies. We matched up really well with a lot of stuff. Even casually, she was a dom. She'd only let me sit on her lap, and would rarely sit on mine; we'd have little competitions and she'd always win (i'd let her win fairly often). This was roughly 3 years ago.
>Have you an idea of why you have developed this fetish ?
3. I think I like the idea of pleasing other people before myself, sexually, so being told what to do, or being in a position of less power kinda fits that. Always been attracted to older-ish women, too. I'm Asian, so age commands a level of authority and respect that I think adds to the fetish. No oedipal fetish, though.
>Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner ?
4. Never really did roleplay. First gf definitely did some light bondage, and was her sub. She refused to do anal (for me) though. We never got around to heavier bondage, and bdsm shit before splitting. Stuff's expensive. Second gf was super vanilla in bed so didn't get much there. Currently single.
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
5. I am 100% ok with it, and all my other fetishes. Sex is great, but it's pretty important to know when to be serious and when to be casual about it, so when a sexual relationship is steady enough, as you get more casual, introducing new elements is important and welcome. Fuck, if I had to have vanilla sex for the rest of my life, I'd be super bummed out. No reason I can think of that people should be limited in what they do in the bedroom.
>>6620702
I actually had issues with the last one hitting the vertical pixel limit and upload limit. Was harder to read too since you had to scroll from side to side.
What kind of restraints do you know of and which are your favorite?
Yes, this is gentle
>>6620730
Handcuffs and rope are easy ones, using panties to "blindfold" someone is super hot.
My favourite is a collar.
>>6620713
Any more or is that the last choice?
>>6620730
I'm very into shibari. I love the process of tying a guy up, especially if he's especially sensitive or into rope so he sighs and gasps and moves a little as I'm doing it. Plus there's just something about how a takate-kote frames a guy's chest that is absolutely delicious.
>>6620528
1. I don't like labels but in the literal sense, yes I suppose
2. not really, but it's been my ideal relationship since I was a young teen
3. Probably mommy issues. Never had a mother or mother figure in my life
4. Not entirely sure what this means
5. I've accepted it but I am worried about how this will come into play when I'm older
>>6620764
Wow, I bet my pecs would look amazing tied up like that.
>>6620703
This was really sweet until those last two paragraphs. Boner kind of died there.
>>6620730
Second to this >>6620764. I find intricate ties on guys to be visually appealing, and nice and constrictive.
>>6620758
Last one.
>>6620528
1. No, I just admit to what I like whereas most people don't indulge their own "deviant" desires.
2. Not really.
3. Nah. It suits my personality though, I guess.
4. I'm not that into roleplay, to be honest. I would incorporate my kinks into a relationship if my partner was receptive.
5. Not at all.
>>6620528
>Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
By definition, I am. Most males are dominant and I'm submissive, ergo I deviate from the norm. This isn't a value judgement (although some people use it to make one), it's just a statement of fact.
>Do you know when you started developping your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
I've pretty much always been into it since as long as I've experienced sexuality. I did embrace and get more into it as I aged, though.
>Have you an idea of why you have developped this fetish ?
I enjoy doing things for people and making them happy. I also tend to have a very leadership-oriented role in my daily life, so it's appealing to have someone else take control.
>Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner ?
My last partner was a super vanilla chick who would've balked at anything like this. I can be forward and dominating in my relationships, but it's a performance I put on for the other person; a sort of meta-submission. I only do it because it makes them happy, not for myself. Needless to say, that was unhealthy (although not by any fault of hers) and we broke it off. I'm holding out for a better match for my next relationship.
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
It's the easiest thing in the world.
>>6620528
1. No
2. I stated developing fantasies after puberty, I think.
3. I believe they developed early in childhood development and only made into a sexual fetish after hormones kicked in. I was always very shy and never had many friends despite wanting these relationships. Femdom forces interaction and takes pressure away from being the primary force of the relationship which appeals to me as an insecure shut-in.
4. I have never had sex.
5. Not very. I used to care about my sexual orientation when I started getting into traps, but at this point it doesn't matter that much.
>>6620915
what is this from!? I have seen it before, but I can't remember the name it...
>>6620940
It is called Love/Hate Letter. The watersports near the end throw some people off, so be warned.
>>6620528
sure, why not...
>Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
obviously
>Do you know when you started developping your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
never. just another silly fetish on the list. somewhere when i was 1 digit y old
>Have you an idea of why you have developped this fetish ?
see point 2
>Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner ?
>sexual activities
>partner
do you think i'm some fucking normie or something?
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
no regrets about my fetishes. just wondering from time to time: "what the fuck did i just fapped to?"
>I'll come back tomorrow, most likely, to see and answer to your eventual answers. Thank you in advance !
next time post pics or don't come back
>>6620944
Ah. I remember that part, I just reread it. Not bad, wish there was more stuff exactly like that but without the watersports. Any suggestions?
>>6620528
1. Incredibly so. It is shameful in the eyes of male peers and is not even an option on dating sites.
2. I've always had fantasies of being captured. Then I was into yuri, where there were many scenes I could imagine myself as being preyed upon.
3. There is the feeling of being wanted, of being praised or valued highly. Being taken care of or treated like a less expensive chihuahua, and not having the expectations that have built up on men in society.
4. No. I want it included.
5. The only problem when it comes to accepting it is my own body. I'm not built, but I'm hairy. I'm thin, but not "small," (in either sense of the word.) I can't fit into panties and I look horrible with my wider shoulders, so I always feel like no one would want me.
>>6620265
Absorption and the Vixen aren't GFD stories. They have monster girls, but they're pretty vanilla, and the author didn't tag them as femdom unlike other stories.
>>6620443
[spoiler]link?[spoiler]
>Love feminine submissive guys
>All the ones I encounter are gay
Such a cruel fate.
Funny enough my first boyfriend was as frail and submissive as a guy can get.. turned out to be gay
>>6621003
Well i'm not gay...
>>6621010
Don't do this.
>>6620528
>Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
Fairly.
>Do you know when you started developping your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
From about 9 years old, I always had a thing for the cute, shy, guys and especially stories involving knights and servants.
>Have you an idea of why you have developped this fetish ?
Sorta. I have a theory that since I'm the youngest in my family, I never really had real power and no one ever trusted me in my family. The thought of someone willingly giving me that power over them and trusting me implicitly would be... amazing.
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
Not terribly hard, although sometimes I catch myself wishing this wasn't such a huge turn on for me sometimes, it'd make finding a boyfriend much easier.
But anyway, how's /gfd/ doing tonight?
>>6621003
>Love dominant women
>All the ones I encounter think I'm gay
It goes both ways, believe me.
>>6620528
1) No, asides from monster girls /gfd/ is the only fetish I have and its pretty vanilla at that.
2)yeah about or 14 or 15 I realised I was a sub. I said to one of my friend the kind of girls that I liked and the said that I may like "assertive women" so I did some research and found heaven. The rest is history
3) Well my uncle and grandfather died when I was quite young and my father was never around much because he was a very successful business man so I was practically raised by women all my life. They always taught me that the women comes first and that you should do anything for her. That's the only thing I can think of
4) No, asides from me being with a sub partner where I tried (and failed horribly) to be a dom I've always wanted to be the sub in a relationship.
5) I wouldn't give up being a sub for the world, I love it
>>6620528
1. I do not really. I am fairly vanilla besides this.
2. Around the time I first started dating.
3. Well, when I was a child I generally identified more with women. I remember my first girlfriend told me that when we were in the first grade she called me tall, and that caused me to cry. I do not really think about that all that much though, it feels like I am just creating connections that aren't there.
4. It's connected fairly tightly, although I have not really had sex.
5. It was hard before I realized it, once I realized I accepted it fairly readily.
>>6620528
1.For other reasons besides /gfd/
2.Maybe elementary or middle school
3.Always loved tomboy/dominant characters and I'm a pretty submissive person at heart
4.Don't have a partner
5.Always accepted it just glad I've got a place to discuss it
>>6621027
Okay, finally got my sleep schedule back on track and got to play kotor
>>6621058
It's sad when there aren't that many RPG's that allow you to get properly dominated :(. DA:I tried it, but the writing was terrible.
![Women.At.Work.EP02.[UNCEN].webm](https://i.imgur.com/UBxhbEb.jpg "Women.At.Work.EP02.[UNCEN].webm")
>>6621093
The only thing I can think of is Jack from ME 2. Other than that you're right and that's a shame
>>6620528
Not really but I dony decide.
At around 14 or 15
Aspergers means I have trouble atarting and guiding interactions and being surrounded by women in my household growing up
Never had a partner. Dont intend to. I like the concept of a relationship but in practice it would never work.
Not at all.
>>6621093
I forgot about Sully from FE:A
>>6620528
>Do you consider yourself "deviant" ?
Not particularly. Yeah I'm on /d/ for Christ's sake but I consider myself fairly tame.
>Do you know when you started developping your fantasies about this subject and, if you do, when was it ?
I kinda had a thing for bondage for years now. That developed into Femdom and from there it kinda mellowed out into gfd.
>Have you an idea of why you have developped this fetish ?
Several thing about it appeal to me:
>Having enough trust in my partner that I wouldn't think twice about putting myself at their mercy
>The physical intamacy I would have (petting, spooning, hugging, kissing, pretty much any type of physical contact)
>Being able to do whatever I can to help my significant other and make them feel special and loved
>Is this fantasy separate from your sexual activities or do you also get into roleplay with your partner ?
Jokes on you, asshole. I'm a single virgin.
>How hard is it for you to accept your fantasy ?
I'd work on getting a girlfriend first. Then go about the fetishes.
>Used to be a prude
>tfw now she refers to you as a "butt slut"
>tfw you deny it even though it's true
>>6621003
Same here gurl.
Even the guys I get matched with on tastebuds are gay...
>>6620996
Sorry for late response
Paige Turnah - The Diagnosis
It's not rough and dominating by any means but about 6.5 minutes of it is the woman taking control in a sensual way. Like nimbling on the ear, giving orders and kissing parts of the body that aren't normally kissed, while still being in control.
Thought a couple of you might like it.
>>6620834
Well then anon, you must find out if they do. For science.
>>6621453
My boyfriend gets all flustered if I call him a slut, I think he might combust if I called him a butt slut. That's totally what I'm gonna turn him into, though.
>>6621470
So, what's the kind of music that exclusively attracts gay subs ?
>>6620528
1.Yes, I enjoy what people find taboo
2, yep, 13
3. abandonment and perceived loneliness lead me find great enjoyment in serving and praise for it
4.It can be either or, but it would mostly be a part
5. Very, I almost always see myself as an "alpha"
>>6621033
After my gay ex years ago I'm really cautious about it now.
Again all the ones I find are gay but then I ended up going out with this guy for almost 3 years before I said "Holy shit this guy is actually gay and won't admit it."
There were so many signs and I had my assumptions.. but the kicker was he cross dressed (in the maid outfit I encouraged him to buy) for a handful of his internet buddies (which were all male) and loved the attention.
He was super dependent on me despite being gay and was torn apart that I ended it but I wasn't going to continue to enable his denial.
>>6621592
ol skool jungle
>>6621625
>but the kicker was he cross dressed
as a straight crossdresser, I can tell you, if they say they're straight, it's 99% of the time, a front
>>6620528
1. Yes...yes. First yes because I'm not sure, but since it's considered abnormal then I concede.
2. probably around 18-19. I was and still am a sensitive person
3. As I said, sensitive. Lack of confidence. Self-hate. I just wanted a girl to approach me and treat me like a potential love interest rather than a utility to get by. To show me the world I was too scared to enjoy.
4. I don't engage in any sexual activities since many months ago and it wasn't really sex because she just laid there and did nothing. ( and she just made me even more jaded due to her bullshit). So this fantasy is just that.
5. Not hard at all. It's very very unlikely for me to be involved in one that I would love and growth with as a person. Assuming we aren't talking about BDSM king of gentle femdom.
>>6621625
That sounds really rough. Was he obviously not sexually attracted to you and stuff like that?
>>6621630
Well see he only cross dressed because he knew how into cross dressing I am and I always went on about how cute he'd look in a maid outfit
But also being into cross dressing doesn't really help that I find nothing but gays huh.
>>6621635
It was a LDR and we ended up meeting a good amount of times and he always got boners from cuddling but other than that he never cared to see me naked, it was weird but I kinda just assumed he was just "respecting" me, it was weird.
Speaking of cuddling, I could never resist ear nibbling during cuddling.
>>6621647
Christ, I dunno how people do LDRs. I'm bouncing off the walls with sexual frustration after a week apart.
>>6621656
Masturbation
and lots of it.
>>6621656
They do it out of desperation because not everyone can get as much sex as they want at will. Never forget to check your blessed privilege.
>>6621640
Maybe if you made him crossdress in something more masculine he wouldn't have been gay. Like a sexy female cop or something.
>>6621662
My privilege is beyond the point of checkability, and I also feel it's rather unethical to date anybody in any way out of desperation. People deserve better than to be your last resort.
>>6621664
>crossdressing
>masculine
>ever
>implying your choice of clothing dictates your sexuality
I don't think that's how any of that works mate.
>>6621665
Yeah I know I'm doing that taboo and strange thing called joking bro don't worry about it. It wasn't really that funny.
>>6621666
Given some of the inane bullshit people come out with completely earnestly in these threads, I find it very hard to tell what's a joke anymore.
Speaking of which, where's finger cuffs autist? Haven't heard from him in a while.
I mean I'd prefer not to be in a LDR but at the same time finding someone in my area who's into the whole letting a woman dominate them thing has been so nonexistent I'm willing to suffer a LDR.
>>6621672
Yeah, I feel that. Took me about three years to find the right person, and I live in an area with no shortage of submissive men, but just... not the right kind of submissive men.
>tfw no woman is powerful enough to dominate me
![tumblr_nw45mawnbu1tkfucbo1_1280[1].png](https://i.imgur.com/Kvz06Ig.png "tumblr_nw45mawnbu1tkfucbo1_1280[1].png")
When does it start to count as LDR in your opinion ? As in distance/time necessary for travel.
>>6620282
>>6620254
Depends what you are looking for. If you are into full on BDSM kink stuff you are comparatively pretty fucked apart from a few events here and there. If that's your thing try looking around the local internet to find stuff. http://www.bdsm-events.eu is as good site as any to start. The larger erotic events in Prague and Vienna that happen every few months(I think twice a year) might also be worth checking out since even tho they are mainly vanilla some parts of the exhibition have kinky themes, keyword: erotický veľtrh.
Alternatively just do what every slav is doing these days anyhow and move to the UK.
If you just want a girl to take charge here and there and do some slightly perverted stuff in bed that's far from impossible provided you live in a larger city(Prague is your best bet probably, there's gotta be a few gfd grills between all those tourists/students/locals) and aren't a socially awkward shut-in, but in that case even a 'normal' gf would be hard to come by.
Is heliumbro still with us? At first I thought he was a shitposter but now I'm kind of worried.
>>6621691
Same, needless to say I hate when it becomes depressing o' clock, but i don't want the dude to an hero, because he was getting some serious encouragement and that shit is a motivator
>>6621591
>That's totally what I'm gonna turn him into, though.
I didn't need this work boner
>>6621726
Where we're going, you wont need boners at all.
Do women like this actually exist irl?
All the women I've ever been "dominated" by were straight up abusive. Emotionally, physically, sexually. I still have scars on my chest from the last one, among other shit, but she still managed to convince everyone I knew that -I- was the abusive one. Even lost my job over it.
That was years ago. I haven't been with anyone, I don't go out, I have all of three friends, four if you count a yank I've never met and probably never will. I work in a dead end minimum wage job and I sit in my room inventing new and exciting ways to procrastinate playing fucking vidya. That's been my whole life for years now.
I'm fucking scared, /d/.
I can't talk to them anymore, they just remind me of the past and that they can ruin your life on a whim. I feel useless. Nothing I do has any relevance.
I'm fucking lost. I just want someone to help me, guide me, something, I don't know.
I'm so lonely it physically hurts.
And I don't even fucking know why I'm venting this on /d/. Seems like you might relate to the fear, at least. Sorry for the wall of text. Feel free to tear me a new asshole.
>>6621753
I sure hope so.
It sounds like you and me come from the same boat, and trying to heal from shitty female authority figures in general is like trying to bandage a gunshot wound with notebook paper (They really know how to sink in their claws)
and I've staved off virtually every form of dating and a lot of my old friends due to SO's
but just know, as long as you focus on doing what works for you and staying stable, Someone, dominant or not, will gravitate towards the fact that you're working hard.
Procrastinating is just gonna give you more set backs to look at in the long run, instead of hitting the steam sale, drop some bucks on exercise equipment and spend some time hitting social event, or at least a concert so if you don't want to talk you have the music
>>6621753
gfd either withers or turns into a full femdom. but then femdom also withers at some point
>>6621758
m8 why are you even here
you aren't helping the poor cunt, regardless of whether it's true or not
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>>6621634
Thanks everyone for answering ! I read you all.
Interesting how I can relate to a lot of you. That helped me a lot.
I'll post some more pics, and by the way >>6620945 sorry, I had completely forgotten.
>>6621761
just saying that they do exist but it's not easy to find. and that he should get his shit together and deal with what life has to offer
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>>6621685
This may be retarded but what does LDR stand for?
>>6621691
Oh god, I haven't heard from him either...I do hope he is ok
>>6621785
Long distance relaionship
>>6621685
hmm, sounds like you know your stuff
i live close by prague, yes, and yes id like a girl that isnt all out submissive and would be proactive when it comes to trying all sorts of nonvanilla things
>>6621787
Thanks
>>6621786
i know you enjoy your dreamworld but how about getting back to reality for a minute and actually give it a thought. everything is in the post, you just need to actually read it
>>6621797
>>6621797
I gave it a thought the first time it was posted, but that's just his story, if someone wants to break up and be submissive, I can't/won't stop them.
Not my fault you have the personal hope of a north korean immigrant.
Try not giving up for a change, or better yet, be your own man before assuming another has no mistakes
>>6621797
you're retarded if you think some shitty post on 4chan means anything substantial.
>>6621808
And yet I imagine you won't listen to women with life experience contradicting that because the.cognitive dissonance hurts your poor pessimistic little brain. Bless.
>>6621820
You're talking to one mate.
>>6621821
undoubtly. after all everyone here is a woman experienced in life
>>6620144
sauce?
>>6621822
>Rule 1: Be attractive
>Rule 2: Don't be unattractive
>>6621822
Woah there buddy, calm that hostility. You're almost as hostile, if not more than this 'robot scum' you so abhorrently hate.
They're not scum, they just have serious issues. Insulting them won't help with those issues.
>>6621822
>>6621849
Oh and to add to this, I didn't mean to implying it was GFD women I was talking about, but rather society at large, the 'normie' women so to say that have created these insecurities.
Now quick, less fighting, more tomboy posting.
these are very nice cancerous debates going on but do post pics to not be a bunch of completely worthless pos like majority of the namefags here
>>6621824
kanta or 'k n t r o'
>>6621849
>hostility
what a surprise...
like seriously, the only non hostile fags here are trolls
>inb4 passive-agressive/assertive crap
Writefag here, do you guys prefer long chapters or should I write shorter ones updating more often?
The previous chapter I wrote was about 12,000 words and I'm not sure how long each chapter should be.
Next chapter is about half that insofar.
Previous chapter with some spell checking for reference.
http://pastebin.com/DpnRrRs0
>>6621844
I'm 5'6 and not insecure about my height, couldn't give a fuck.
>>6621849
Eh, I either love something or hate it, there's very few things I feel indifferent about. I don't hate them as much as I make it out honestly...I mainly use it to add a little more oomph to my arguments. But I can try to damage control as much as I want but its futile, you're right I'll make a conscious effort to stop
>>6621854
>more tomboy posting.
Now that's something I cant argue with
>>6621900
I don't mind either, longer ones would make it easier to organise into a list. But I wouldn't want it to stress you into thinking you're taking too long. I mean a dedicated writefag who crafts stories like that, we should be the one taking advice from you.
>gf broke up with me a couple of months ago
>drowning in depression
>chances of finding a dom girl in Portugal are insignificant
kill me
>>6621905
>I'm 5'6 and not insecure about my height, couldn't give a fuck.
Good for you anon, I should have used a different word than 'manlets' but I meant it in a way that meant 'shorter men that are also insecure'.
>tfw 6"0'
>tfw I will never know the feeling of having a girl much bigger than me spoon me
I'm not that salty though because I have a gfd gf that's a lot shorter than me which is hot too.
>>6621911
It'll be okay anon, try finding one of those 'manches' or whatever they were called, maybe that could help. Or just look for any chance you can to move to another country that you'd have a better chance as long as you can get a job there or something, as a last-ditch effort. I mean like, find a job overseas and have finding a qt while there a secondary goal.
>>6621757
Fearful-anon here.
Feels more like trying to staunch a severed leg with a napkin, personally. Never had a positive figure to begin with, so I don't know much better.
Sometimes I think my fetishes make all too much sense.
Don't really know what works for me but I get the sentiment. Regardless, I should probably get out more.
Considered going to local munches/parties of the sort, but from what I've seen most dommes lean more towards sadism and single male subs are frowned upon at the absolute best.
Given the amount of vitriol in this thread, seems like the latter part is fairly standard.
>>6621914
haven't seen a horse this high in a while
>>6621913
>tfw I will never know the feeling of having a girl much bigger than me spoon me
They exist.
I'm 5'11 and my friend's GF is actually taller than me and my friend and almost everyone in our group.
>>6621929
>I think the point he's trying to make is that insecurity is not an excuse to be an aggressive misogynist.shitposting all over the place.
Are you implying that I am this, or advocate this? Because I don't, but I also don't advocate insulting and shitposting at insecure people or about others insecurity.
This thread needs less pointless fighting and more cuteposting.
Seriously guys. /gfd/ isn't the right place. I'm not saying you don't belong there, but these kinds of discussions just ruin the whole thing for everyone.
>>6621913
>Or just look for any chance you can to move to another country
That's the plan.
Either Germany or UK. Maybe Switzerland.
But I'll still have absolutely no chances whatsoever.
>>6621945
You're right anon, namefags don't belong in /gfd/ this an anonymous imageboard and anyone who wants to act like retards by orbiting, arguing with our encouraging these wanna be thread celebrities should fuck off to a subreddit.
>Less bickering and more /gfd/
Yes please.
>>6621948
If you absolutley believe it's impossible, it sure will be.
I used to be a shy nerd unable to talk to most girls and sometimes bullied (by a guy smaller and skinnier than me, damnit), but I worked out and worked harder at school. It took me a long time but now I'm in a two-year long relationship and it goes formidably well.
If you had seen me some years ago, you would've deemed me 100% hopeless.
Forgot pic
>>6621945
these threads need permabans
>>6621949
>attention whores will leave just like that
>>6621822
>who don't like a butt-ugly subs
I always found it strange how little men take care of their appearance. A well-groomed appearance can compensate a lot.
>>6621958
I was starting to have confidence in myself, but the breakup made it all crash and burn
how did you meet your gf?
>>6620948
Nishi Shizumu on e hentai
>>6621970
Just like that. I tried to talk with my few friends' friends, and she was one of them. We talked, we started to know each other and as the months passed I supported her in her difficult moments. In the end we both fell in love and we're moving together next year.
By the way, I met her after my first gf, whom I was still in love with, broke up with me. Today I regret nothing for it helped me grow into a better person.
>>6621968
Yeah, I've found this too. I'd like to think I'm some kind of exception because I shave completely and keep my hair nice, but women really go much further with it all?
Might just be down to makeup and whatnot
>>6621691
I'm still here. Like I said, we scheduled it for the weekend.
>>6621679
Oh yeah, it's rough on both ends it seems.
To find a "normal" guy who wants to be dominated is difficult but then finding them at all seems a bit difficult.
Then there's a lot of assholes who get.. angry at a woman wanting something like this at all. It's weird but in my experience they all seemed to be those typical hurr durr women are below men types of charmers.
Like, dang, I just like being a loving bully to a delicate guy.
>>6621988
If you're really set on it, listen to some music whilst you do it.
Colour blind by counting crows is a favourite of mine.
Please don't though
>>6621968
I agree, it mainly comes from people who think they can't attract anyone and no one will go out with them. If you're not trying to attract anyone then whats the point of helping yourself try be attractive. And if your not trying to make yourself attractive then you're not going to be. People just need a good confidence boost and something to strive towards to get themselves back on their feet.
>>6622000
I have music picked out to listen to for the day, but the said she would whisper nice things into my ear so I wasn't planning on listening to music then.
>>6621999
You might have better luck looking for open-minded switches instead. People who enjoy kink and experiences in general rather than people with some deep unfulfilled need to be dominated.
why argue
the time is nigh, just wait untill AI rises and just submit for a dominant waifu AI
no point bothering with humans if you rolled a 1/24 as a human
>>6621999
my girl has this fetish, trouble is were both doms. shes a little bit more of a switch but what gets her off is humiliation and teasing, and I'm (more than) a bit of a sadist (shes only a little masochist) and i hate being dommed. what do?
>>6621822
>robot scum
You come across just as bad as those you are arguing against.
>>6622054
don't bother desu, just wait for the matrix
>>6621982
To be honest I feel the whole 'shaving completely' thing is a bit overrated, but maybe that's just because it's not my preference. I'd say having nice hair (go you!) and dressing well are more important, plus someone's presumably not going to know how smooth and hairless your balls are until you're sleeping with them.
>>6621591
Just got back from work and was checking on the thread. Wanted to query this.
Does being bisexual act as a turn off in general, or even more specifically for /gfd/ relationships?
Seems guys would be more open to crossdressing/butt stuff, but I always wondered if part of the fun was convincing a guy that was pretty averse to the idea to try it was part of the fun.
>>6622070
i suppose it depends, gauge the person at how serious he is about how buff/masculine he is
btw are you the qt bodybuilder with your trap bf
>>6622062
>I'd say having nice hair (go you!) and dressing well are more important
Many men fail already at the body hygiene.
>>6622077
what would you consider as passing that, mrs triple dubs
>>6622070
It's not a turnoff for me personally, and I don't see why it should be a turnoff for others unless they were super conservative, in which case... yeah, probably not into gfd in the first place. It's definitely nice to convince a guy who's shy about the idea, but if he's truly averse to butt stuff, pushing that would be rapey and that's not really a great feature of any kind of relationship.
>>6622077
Do they? Most of the sub guys I've met in person are fine with the hygiene stuff, but that's people I meet at BDSM events, so I suppose there's already an element of self-selection there.
>>6622062
I just generally feel nicer and better looking when I've shaved. Hair works wonders and I'd like to think I dress well enough to not be noticeable
>>6622070
I am bi and so far every girl I've been gfd with has liked it more, whereas every girl I've been non gfd with hasn't cared
>>6622074
No, I'm a guy working on bara mode.
>>6622077
>Many men fail already at the body hygiene
I noticed this talking with my friends. I'm the only guy I know that will admit to using moisturizer and shaving my underarms. Not to mention showing regularly. Then again, I don't live in the most "progressive" area.
>>6622094
See, I know that in a sexual encounter, or hell, even conversation, I'd be insanely shy and nervous even talking about it, but I know that I really, really want it. I love that picture so much.
>>6622096
>>6622097
Got told I have cute and fluffy hair. I dread having it cut next week. I've never really had a girl directly say she's uncomfortable with bisexuality, but I've had them say they "don't know how to feel" which in my mind is basically the same thing. I guess gfd women would probably be more accepting of it though.
>>6622100
Eh, don't count on it.
If you want to keep your hair always good, ask your barber to keep the thickness in it, or to not use thinning scissors. Thick hair works all the time
>>6621656
hell yes 2nd-best girl (best is Rachnee of course)
Also, re. the "Do you consider yourself deviant" poll, the answer is no because I don't know what normal is
>>6621786
>>6621812
Where did you get these macros do want
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>>6622128
Sauce pls my nig
>>6622133
http://g.e-hentai.org/g/714418/3430f615ba/
>>6621753
Anon-kun, have you read these articles by any chance? They might be helpful.
http://markmanson.net/psycho
http://markmanson.net/boundaries
I'm a non-abusive girl with domme tendencies, but I would never consider getting into a relationship, gfd or not, with any guy who doesn't a) have a basic sense of self-esteem and self-worth, b) have interests and hobbies outside of me and c) take care of himself, emotionally and physically. The reason why is because I know that starting a relationship with someone like that is pretty much setting me up for an abusive/codependant relationship, which I obviously don't want.
Unfortunately, from my experience, a large number of guys into /gfd/ fail at one of those things, which might be the reason that I also haven't had a lot of luck finding a sub that I like.
>>6622142
This is really good advice. I would agree that a, b and c are mandatory for any kind of fulfilling, healthy relationship.
>>6622142
I think it says a lot when people view gfd relationships as outiwde of the rules of normal relationships. You've gotta have these things, just like a normal relationship, because you're otherwise more or less basing it on fetish.
More bestgirl
>>6622142
for c) you can work it out in a relationship no, a) probabbly depends on where anon thinks he is
desu b) theres no.shortage
>>6622142
>a,b,c
Core things for any good relationship really - I'd argue that they're far, far more important in a relationship that relies on something that isn't considered to be a normal dynamic though.
This is why I put so much effort into getting a job, getting fit and improving myself. I don't want to be a burden for someone I'm supposed to be involved with. I don't think anyone should.
>>6622162
but you havev to be clear you can rely on each other when shtf, and not just jump ship
no human is infalliable, whats important is getting back up i suppose
>>6622158
Dude, stop trying to find some kind of excuse. No, you cannot work c) out in a relationship. You need to be able to do this stuff before the relationship, otherwise you will inevitably fall into the pattern of expecting your partner to do it for you, and nobody deserves that. Not even us motherly Jesus Girlfriend types need that in our lives.
question is, how do you find somebody outside of your social circles in general
>>6622219
Munches. But good luck finding a femdom even at a local munch.
In general you need to be trying new things that interest you. You meet new people that way.
>>6622252
I hope this is irony. Anyway, let's NOT start this discussion again.
>>6622267
Relax, we're not going anywhere just because of a couple of bitter incel chucklefucks and their stale bait.
>>6622274
I'm glad to know :)
Do people take the map into consideration? I've been thinking about putting some personal infos on there (male sub) , but I'm a bit shy and from what I see not many people talk about the map :/
>>6622291
It's worth putting a marker on the map, just don't expect to get suddenly snapped up by anyone. The way I see it, it's worth making yourself visible to potential partners in as many ways as possible, as you have nothing to lose, really. People don't talk about it, but that doesn't mean they don't check it, and as far as I know there have been a handful of couples that met through it.
>>6622297
Oh ok thank you :) I'll put a marker on the map soon then!
>>6622329
Post what you listen to then.
>>6622329
>Burial
>Sabbath
>awful
Please, stop memeing.
Granted, the rest is pretty bad to average.
>>6622336
John Fahey, Robbie Basho, Morton Feldman, Glenn Branca, Miles Davis, Herbie Hancock, just to name a few.
You're a vapid hipster bitch. Stop trying to act like you're unique.
>>6622353
Dude you just proved you are entry-tier pleb trash. Jesus Christ.
>People are arguing about fucking music tastes
are you McKnight kidding me
>>6622353
Fucking lol. Bro, you're off the charts pretentious, you're in no position to call her or anyone a hipster.
Keep hoping that being an insecure elitist asshole will impress strangers on the net or make you feel better.
>>6622353
>dead, dead, dead, nearly dead, dead, nearly dead
>vapid hipster bitch
I knew I should have picked balloon fetish instead.
/mu/ is right up there as far as being a shitpost factory. Thanks for reminding me.
Stop being assholes. Just because you don't like something doesn't make it bad. We like what we like and we all have guilty pleasures with music.
>>6622368
You can't spell cancer without God Fucking Damnit.
>>6622373
/thread
>>6622368
Last thread was pretty peaceful. Seems like people get antsy without their fix of qt smoking girls.
>>6622376
I deleted the post since it was derailing the thread. Sorry, I didn't think that might happen.
>>6622384
They say it's a good stress reliever.
They're probably right.
>>6622368
To be honest they rarely are. Well, I haven't come in several weeks, since the futa riot, but it used to be peaceful and friendly. Anons must be having a bad day, let it flow and come back when the dust has settled.
How about naming the next thread "peaceful edition"
>>6622411
How about naming the thread truthfully: cancer edition
>>6622394
Every day is a bad day.
>>6622297
Eh i don't know i've had a marker up on the old map for a while now but nobody contacted me so i didn't put up any on the new map. Kind of thinking about it now but i haven't seen the new map getting updated in a long time. At least not in the UK
no one cares about your opinion just post cute pictures edition
>>6622417
Being aggressive will only make it worse.
>>6622524
or better~
Moving on to a more productive topic...
What couples from anime/games/literature/tv/movies/etc. would you like to see in a /gfd/ relationship?
Pic related, it's my choice.
![1452187669625[1].png](https://i.imgur.com/7Lddr1U.jpg "1452187669625[1].png")
>First episode of Ojisan to Marshmallow aired today
One episode is too little to judge (especially when it's only 3 minutes long) but does this count as /gfd/ or not?
>>6622565
>The series is about a man named Kusaka who has a fascination for marshmallows. Kusaka gets involved in a relationship with an office lady named Wakabayashi, and the story focuses on their relationship in the workplace
Dude wat
>>6622607
fuuuuck
I really want a girlfriend like that
>>6622607
It's pretty silly, but who knows. The next few episodes might prove whether or not it's worth putting on the list. Or maybe I'm just being stupid, that's possible too.
>>6622628
>that .webm
Picked up.
>>6622628
That webm convinced me to pick it up
>>6621131
Eh, Jack's romance mostly comes down to Shepard playing a more traditional male role in the end. Her Renegade sex scene has her being pretty aggressive, but it's pretty clear that the game considers that to be the wrong choice.
