Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General
- "if you want to post something, just do it. you don't need a new thread until this one is full" edition
ITT:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>dojinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>friendly discussion
Previous Thread: >>6616722 →
>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal
New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#
FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
http://pastebin.com/iQetqpH
New doujin list per LL:
http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi
Rusefemanon VA work:
https://soundgasm.net/u/Rusfemanon/Writefags
and drawfags welcome!
Kitsune story:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
SifSub:
My manager is my mistress (non lewd)
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
"I don't bite"
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit: Little Soldier Lady
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Smolbrit's fashion guide:
http://pastebin.com/YvccbTvA
Other: Protective Amazons
http://www.amazonlove.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7018
http://www.dlsite.com/maniax/work/=/product_id/RJ165291.html
In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318
Valentine /gfd/ (Written by a 4chan writefag. Supposedly was going to be 5 parts, I only ever saw 2)
Part 1: http://pastebin.com/tW34EBHL
Part 2: http://pastebin.com/hMDENVVs
Pretty Human (Highly reccomended by many): http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
>>6624039
Awwww I was just about to make a new one
>>6624051
>>6624056
>>6624051
no offense but you'd probably make some shity edit
>>6624064
Ouch...
So, where are the cute boys in swimsuits?
Finished up the second part about our young officer, lost in amazon lands.
Chapter 1
http://pastebin.com/DpnRrRs0
Chapter 2
http://pastebin.com/uEvgTUsM
More chapters to follow.
Creative input much appreciated.
>>6624083
on your fucking PC. post it
>>6624083
'Trap' cute or 'Bara' cute? I only have traps, sorry if you wanted something else.
>>6624087
Older women are more fun though
Did mods delete my post? The fuck did >>6624087
do wrong? Punk ass mods delete ontopic but leave shitpost...
>>6624087
>>6624108
>I'm not sure if the snarky comment was needed.
i wan't trying to be rude even if it did sound like that
any other /r/?
Back to tomboys and swimsuits now.
>>6624079
>that hair
>that flat
Yes!
>that lip piercing
So close again anon.
So close.
>>6624141
you were saying?
>>6624143
>>6624148
>>6624154
>>6624156
I never thought I'd see the day where I saw porn with Ganon in it that wasn't maledom. Good job anon.
>>6624091
>>6624091
This is really fuckin good, keep going!
>>6624218
>>6624222
>>6624225
>>6624227
>>6624229
Animated film:
>Garden of Words
Live Action Film:
>Angel-A
>Miss Julie
Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Amagami*
Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Otoyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Tsugumomo
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
>Visual Novels
Junipers Knot*
Web animation:
>Newman
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujin List: http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi (Credit to LL)
Hentai List: http://pastebin.com/jVY1dAeb
I added Miss Julie to the live actions. There's also a GFD story list that was posted in the last thread. Should I create a third pastebin for the stories? Or is OP's link to Taiyakisoba's archive and a few others good enough?
>>6624234
>>6624083
A brief scene at the end of Aneki My Sweet Elder Sister shows a cute boy in swimsuit being teased and lead to sex by two older women (his teacher and her friend). I'm on mobile, then I can't post any screenshot.
>>6624237
is that it?
quite yandere
>>6624091
You made my day anon
Also your story should be in the OP
>>6624236
GFD Story list:
Taiyakisoba:
>Absorption:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5343203/chapters/12337505
>The Vixen:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5202542/chapters/11990246
>Under the Falcon's Wing:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/4653132/chapters/10613943
>The Leprechaun's Charms:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3645492
>The Sentimental Succubus:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3241379/chapters/7061726
>A Taste for Christmas Cake:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3145253/chapters/6822353
>Takeover:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2779652/chapters/6235439
>Wings of Desire:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2760794
>In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318/chapters/5806514
>Bringing the Heat:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2454164/chapters/5439332
>Love-Love Umbrella:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2219088
SifSub:
>Until you are:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
>My manager is my mistress:
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
>I don't bite:
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit:
>Minotaur's Labyrinth:
http://pastebin.com/b7dURJkY
>The Bear and the Wolf Cub:
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Others:
>Pretty Human: (by Sea Foam):
http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
>Love You to Bits!: (By SilentOtakuGirl):
http://silentotakugirl.deviantart.com/art/Love-You-to-Bits-529875044
Subs: Do you grope yourself when you masturbate?
>>6624343
what do you mean by that?
>>6624343
I more often grope myself just whenever. Like if I'm getting dressed in the morning or when I'm washing in the shower. The last time I got really drunk I kept squeezing my butt too. Its got just the right amount of squish.
Someone in the last thread asked for captions. Here they are on another booru if that works better for you: >>6624383
>>6624343
No, masturbation is a very delicate thing to me. I usually don't touch parts of my body during that time, because I'm super sensitive and I could literally cry out of pleasure.
>>6624395
Wait, really? I've never heard of a guy being that sensitive. You at least touch your penis still right?
>>6624395
Either you're the most sensitive guy to live or you're spouting shit.
Credit to you if it's true though, that's awesome. I have to be with someone else or I don't really get much out of non-penile stimulation. Mental thing I think.
>>6624434
> You at least touch your penis still right?
Yes I do, but I usually stroke my penis really fast in order to come soon, because a slow stroke could make me moan like crazy. I also avoid touching the top of my penis, because it would lead me to madness.
>>6624440
>Credit to you if it's true though, that's awesome.
Not really. I'm embarassed to say that, but I'm 27 and I'm still a virgin because I was always scared by the strange reactions of my body and I always thought that they would embarass my lady, which is a thing that I'd want to avoid as much as I can. The few times a girl I liked approached me or even touched me, I almost felt like I would faint: I started blushing like crazy, I felt like my legs were really weak and trembling and my heartbeat was out of control.
>>6624343
Not really. I don't have much of a goal in mind except to get done as fast as possible.
>>6624469
So its not even a painful sensitivity? Just pure pleasure? That sounds amazing. I'm not even a dom, but I still think it would be super fun to tease you.
>>6624496
> I still think it would be super fun to tease you.
I know that it may sound funny, but I'm still worried about the reactions of my body
>been on these threads for a good while
>still haven't found a qt dom girlfriend
all I want is a protective girlfriend that actually likes me ;__;
>>6624091
Dats gud stuff
>>6624508
It's impossible for anyone to actually like someone, anon.
>>6624501
I can understand the embarrassment, but I would think most people would be understanding. In fact, I'm sure a lot of people would find it hot. Especially the kind of girls into this stuff.
>>6624514
and now I feel worse
thanks, anon
>>6624527
No problem man, I live to disappoint.
>>6624524
This makes me really happy from a certain point of view, but from a different side I feel like I'm not prepared for a woman. My ideal woman would be someone who could gradually lead me to love and sex, even if she had to make the first move sometimes and accept my lack of courage in some situations. I'd gladly do what my lady wants if this makes her feel better.
>>6624508
Eh i've been here for years now, got markers on both maps, added quite lot of girls from here but found nobody so far.
If you actually expect to find someone from this thread to Dom you, you're stupid.
Go.
Outside.
>>6624584
this desu
>>6624434
Your picture reminds me how little smut exists of Adiane.
She was way hotter than that skank Yoko
>>6624584
Why?
>>6624584
but where to?
>>6624616
Anywhere.
Go to a park. Look up local volunteer programs and sign up for one. You're more likely to find a stable relationship at a bar than here.
>>6624647
>You're more likely to find a stable relationship at a bar than here
I almost spat coffee at my screen laughing at you.
Go on grindr or other sex related app, go have some random sex. Sign up for fetlife and do some social media stuff.
Or try to find someone here.
Your chances online are far far better than going to a random bar.
>>6624343
If I'm not looking at porn, then yeah, playing with nips usually does it nicely.
>>6624524
Teasing is fucking great
>>6624343
Sometimes.
I especially love groping my butt and balls.
>>6624343
I do! It makes masturbation way more fun when you can play around with yourself like that. Moaning out loud is another thing like that.
>>6624343
Only when I really get into it
To whoever the anon was that posted that story "Tension" on pastebin, I liked it. It'd be cool if you made more <3
Are there any or will there ever be any gfd stories about a sub volunteering for things like pic related? Pushing the limits of the body's ability to feel pleasure is fucking awesome
>>6624343
depends on my mood
if I wanna cum hard, then yeah
>>6624091 Thank you for making these, I look forward to them in the threads now~
>>6624649
If that's what you think then I'm not going to convince you otherwise. But you're absolutely retarded if you actually think your chances of finding someone here are better than actually being around people.
>>6624469
That sounds amazing, and really sexy. Where are people like you when I go on my recording binges. I hope you find a girl that appreciates that, anon.
>go to McDonald's
>cashier is a really cute girl with glasses
>too shy to try and know her
>>6624343
Nipple play sometimes. Mistress got me into anal stimulation quite a bit too. Haven't had much of a sex drive since the break-up though, but I apparently have very feminine reactions to a lot of that sort of stuff.
If I can restrain myself, that usually helps too, but it's tricky to restrain myself and still be able to stimulate myself.
>>6624469
That sounds incredibly sexy, and that sounds like exactly the kind of thing a dominant woman would completely love. You're insanely cute in an authentic, real way.
>>6624762
>can't help but notice all the edits on that image
please
>>6624143
'don't make me laught"
>>6624161
Now she's perfect.
I'd bone that pone.
>>6624867
[spoiler]iwtcird[/spoiler]
>>6624876
Guro.
Like, the one of the girl committing sudoku.
I even have the famous one - in sound.
>>6624236
>visual novels
>no majikoi
>>6624876
>not having TB's of fucked up shit on your HDD, half of which would get you in jail or be executed
ayyy lmao!
>>6624899
Don't harbor any ill will towards her, anon. She is her own punishment. If you don't seem to understand hatred in the hearts of man, just remember that they have to live with who they are. You can move on.
>>6624091
Hey, I work on that Air Force Base!
>>6624899
Absolutely correct my friend; escalation is bad and so is vindictiveness. Excessive spitefulness would only make you hang onto bitter emotions which would delay the healing process and exacerbate painful emotions.
>>6624899
>i do
bullshit. i bet that you don't have a single CP there
and the thread was doing so well...
>>6625040
I'm a little disengaged since I'm in the middle of a break-up.
I've got porn to post, at least.
Most of it is hers.
>>6625076
>>6624684
>Tension
Yeah, working on some MG stuff later on. Check /jp/ sometime later this week. thanks
>>6624237
A-any more?
>>6625019
I'm sorry to hear that, anon, and I'm a loss at what to say. I don't think I could say anything in a post that would have a lasting effect on anyone. I'm in no higher place than you; the one love I had in my life didn't like me too much and ditched me years ago. I don't hate her. I've got no job, several mental disorders, and am considering ghost hunting as an alternative to suicide. I don't even believe in ghosts.
Of course I think I am a terrible person, but we can't be all bad if we see ourselves as such. Sometimes I think we're born broken and have to stay around until we find our missing pieces. I don't know, anon. We exist as strange people in a strange world.
>>6625076
>Most of it is hers.
Poor kid. Chin up, buddy!
Remember:
You can always an hero if things get too tough.
>>6625096
>>6625103
>Sometimes I think we're born broken and have to stay around until we find our missing pieces.
Sometimes I feel that way too.
Unfortunately, she fit into my life and I didn't fit into hers the same way.
Sometimes she wants me to hate her. She blames herself for hurting me and letting me down.
I can't, though. I care about her. It's so hard to leave her because I know she's not well.
>>6625107
>You can always an hero if things get too tough
I promised her I wouldn't.
>>6624225
Wait just a goddamn second. Is that hot coffee out of a can?
>>6625119
In japan that's a normal thing.
You rip the bottom and it heats it up.
>>6625119
Not as good as it looks. When I tried it it was shit. Expensive shit, too.
>>6625121
The steady march of technology both terrifies and amazes. How has it not caught on here? We've got vending machines all over. Wait, nevermind. Frivolous lawsuits.
>>6625128
Fuck, this is one of my favorite pictures.
It reminds me of us so much.
>tfw no bogan gf
>>6625153
When I learn moonrunes, I will follow this person's example of translation.
Does anyone else have a resistance fetish? Such as where a male would try very hard not to give in and/or be seduced and the female would hold all the power and ~slowly break him overtime until he can't take it anymore and gives in whole heartedly. I find this is a really hard target for me to hit. Either the guy is super submissive from the beginning or he puts up a pitiful fight. I want a real struggle between what feels good and keeping your pride.
>>6625157
Same. I can't find any good doujinshi for it though.
>>6625157
It's a really fun idea but I don't think I could manage it.
I'm too submissive. I enjoy serving others. I don't like cleaning, but I enjoy cleaning the house for mistress because I feel like I'm being helpful. Healing and helping others is what I need to do.
>tfw you will never put a boy in this position
SO SLUTTY
I LOVE IT
>>6625168
>no one to do that to me
in a way, I share your pain
>>6625168
I'd pose that way for someone I cared about. But I'm not ready for another relationship.
>>6625163
There are some good writers for it though. The only one I found was manyeyedhydra on literotica. Not really gfd but at least his guys put up a fight before cumming there brains out.
>>6625157
I fucking LOVE mindbreak. The lack of content pisses me off, though.
In the past I've written some stuff about it, but it's not really good enough to post.
>>6625176
>No pic to post because I've sort of given up on the gfd dream and deleted my folder
then why are you still here?
>>6625193
well, i'm good at delivering shockingly bad truth about the world so if you want to get totally depressed, let me know
>>6625176
Yeah, a lot of guys find it hard to settle down with this sort of fetish.
To be fair there is a lot of pressure for guys to take charge in relationships, longer term relationships especially. Even if a guy THINKS he is totally at peace with his fetish, he may find a little piece of internalized prejudice against it.
>>6625201
>i'm good at delivering shockingly bad truth about the world
As long as you don't try to use pseudoscience and ethos to say dommes don't exist, we're cool.
>>6625193
Probably. Wouldn't surprise me.
Now I have no reason to move to the UK and am at the lowest I've ever been.
She made me feel worthless and weak.
All I want is someone to love, that loves me back and makes me feel safe for once in my life.
>>6625211
>All I want is someone to love, that loves me back and makes me feel safe for once in my life
You need to find somewhere you're safe first. You'll have a hell of a time being with anyone if you're not. I made that mistake and I'm paying for it now.
>>6625213
I definitely feel a need for control and I don't think I'd ever want to be in charge.
But fuck drinking to try and get your emotions together.
>>6625215
>You need to find somewhere you're safe first.
Yeah.
I want to move out of my country once I finish uni, but now I have no idea where to go. And even after that, it would probably be a while until I got my own place, where I could be and feel safe.
Why does everything have to be so complicated ;_;
>I made that mistake and I'm paying for it now.
I'm sorry to hear that. Want to talk it out?
>>6625210
i can pretty much confirm to what that guy wrote. just so you know
>>6625219
I'm in love with a girl I met here. I moved to Louisiana to be with her.
She's not in a healthy place and neither am I. It made her realize she's not ready to be with me. She wants me to leave and be somewhere where I'll be safe. I'm scared to leave her before I know she'll be safe, especially because right now she's probably going to have to move back in with her family and they really disapprove of her. I don't think that'll be a safe environment for her.
But I can't help her the way I am, so I've accepted that what I need to do is move away, go live with my family for a while and get my life back on track. My cousin's gonna help me get back into school.
I still love her and want to be with her, and she's not sure she'll be ready to be with me even when we're both healthy because of this. But we still both want to support each other and I'm holding onto that.
>>6625225
And I can confirm the opposite, so piss off.
>>6625181
Post it man. Anything would be good at this point.
>>6625233
>this mad
keep dreaming. this is what /d/ is for
>>6625233
no anon. you can't confirm shit
>>6625234
I'm on mobile right now, but I can probably post it tomorrow.
>>6625202
Dear God anymore captions like this?
>>6625238
>>6625240
>>6625233
Aw fuck. It's this shit again. None of you can prove shit, as philosophy anon pointed out several threads ago.
So shut up and post porn.
>>6625244
I have a little bit. mr.writer does the best captions.
>>6625233
youre never going to find a female with the correct finger ratio identifier for the dominant genetics you require to take charge because those are only found in men and women specifically look for those. they only pretend to have those genes and pretend to be dominant to obtain more social status or providers to try and attract more dominant males looking for a challenge.
>>6625215
I guess the mods got mad at my lack of pics.
Yeah he was emotionally unstable. We were in an LDR and I offered to pay for his ticket so he could come visit and see my whole family and I
We were talking about being serious and down the line possibly getting married. I was really excited for that
Now I realize that finding a man that's right for you and wants to settle is much harder than my friends and family make it seem
>>6625157
>submissive
I love the slow breaking of a new sub. It's one of the single hottest things as a domme.
>>6625246
>>6625248
I hope this is satire...
>>6625254
So what other fetishes do you guys like to mix your /gfd/ with?
For me, it's gotta be impregnation. Nothing like dreaming about a woman who's gone babby crazy and wants to be bred like she's meant to be! Even if she's on the bottom, she's still topping like a motherfucker.
>>6625255
>>6625254
>>6625246
Shit, I posted them in reverse. Oops.
>>6625255
Where can I find more of Mrwriters works?
>>6625259
Monster girls and futa. I like futa because I feel like they would seduce you by saying " don't knock it till you try it." And by the first lick you're hooked.
>>6625262
>>6625255
>>6625254
The pics are badly drawn Western shit and the captions are cringeworthy. I'd rather read another argument about feminism than see more of this shit.
>>6625249
It might not have made anything better.
When my mistress offered to bring me to her I jumped at it even though I knew I wasn't emotionally ready.
Now I'm in a lot of pain.
Which I hate to admit because I know she can read this and the reason she wants me to go is because she's worried that as long as she can't be what I need her to be I'll be in pain and she'll feel responsible for that pain.
>>6625246
i can provide what what i've seen/heard/read and know, nothing more but also this much. but then i really don't care if you believe it or not and i'm not gonna start a full debate because it's /d/ and only pics matter
>>6625263
See
>>6624384
>>6625268
Calm down there bud.
>>6625271
I need more postcards like this
>>6624469
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou
Then you need to take a carbamazepine.
>>6625275
Funny enough, I actually have a couple of these.
Because mistress likes 'em. She's a /k/ommando.
>>6625268
Wow, those are some zesty opinions, friend! Thanks!
>>6625275
I've got 3.
>I'll never be a stay-at-home husband that takes cares of the chores and all the stuff.
Fuck.
>>6625280
>>6625282
Huh. Hivemind.
Anyhow, here's the other one I have.
>>6625287
That's the other one I have too, so that's that.
>>6625286
Why? Bad at chores?
>>6625288
I think there are only three.
>>6625292
no
no gf
>>6625269
For some reason when I let all my problems out and hear other peoples' problems it all seems so petty
I find it kind of hard to be a dom sometimes because I want to be so much to one man and I get disappointed when he doesn't do the same
I want to care for him, nurture him and watch him grow to be a great person so he can be happy
I never seem to be able to find someone who has as much enthusiasm for me as I do for them
I may not be very social and seem unfriendly but I do always wish the best for the people I love and would do anything for them
>>6625295
You wanna talk on a more permanent basis? I'm not ready for a relationship and I won't promise to commit to you, but what makes me happy is helping and healing other people. If I can help you I'd like to.
>>6625295
its very easy to feel like your problems are petty. theyre not but really other peoples problems seem so large and alien that its impossible to not make them more important than your own sometimes. people like who you want exist, but you have to make sure that you can do all that for them. that youre strong enough and well enough to be a pillar for somebody so they can rely on you when they try to grow. otherwise youll end up hurting both of you.
>>6625295
Sometimes it's hard to feel like someone is reciprocating in kind what you are giving them - it can often feel like you're giving more than they are. The important part is to understand that you're doing your best to help make them a better person. Often times it's entirely up to them as to whether they want to move on with it.
Communication is hard at times though - perhaps they weren't even aware of how you felt regarding those issues. Perhaps they felt the same way, it's hard to tell. People often express their emotions in different ways. Your method just might be more obvious than most, or perhaps more obvious than what he's used to experiencing.
>>6625295
You fool! You fell victim to one of the classic blunders - The most famous of which is "never get involved in a land war in Asia" - but only slightly less well-known is this: "Never admit that you are a lonely girl on a /gfd/ thread!"
>>6625296
Nah its OK anon. Thank you for the offer.
I feel like I'm in a very vulnerable stage right now where I'll just fall for anyone who cares to listen
I just need to reassess my life right now and find a new purpose for my future. I want to believe that I can someday have someone reciprocate my feelings completely
It's hard to move on but I have to do it by myself sooner or later. No one can get me out of this mess like myself
I bid everyone a goodnight. I really needed to vent because a stubborn part of me wants to believe in the gfd dream till now after I thought I found myself the perfect sub
>>6625312
Okay. You have a good night. I don't think it's wrong to want what you want.
>>6625312
if you ever want to talk to another dominant about these things you can add me. Burlioz Arisawa. it helps sometimes to have a friend who sees things from your side, going through breakups is really hard on both sides.
>>6625302
>>6625303
I feel like I am strong enough to take whatever my partner needs to throw at me for him to grow
The problem with my ex is that he couldn't seem to find the will to act. No matter how much support I gave him
I can only do so much and I felt like I could have given him the world and it wouldn't be enough
I think he had a fear to commit because he would constantly say he loves me but could never find the power to get on that plane to see me
Before someone tells me to get on a plane to see him. It was cheaper for him to come see me on both ends and allowed him to be able to see my family and live at my house
God damnit, /d/ has to be the nicest, board on 4chan, I swear to god.
>>6625338
Live, fap, be happy. We're all just afterglow-y from orgasm.
Though honestly I'm having a hard time fapping right now. Depression does a number on your sex drive.
>>6624091
How do we get this added to the OP?
>>6625259
Speaking of which, does anybody have any good suggestions as to what impregnation/pregnancy themed /gfd/ material I should seek out?
>>6625345
Oh believe me, I can relate. For a while, whenever I'd try to fap, it'd remind me of how my girlfriend used to do it, and then all my libido went right out the window. Still have the problem from time to time.
>>6625326
ive lost a couple of subs that way. ive even had one tell me they just wanted to stay long distance because actually getting together was too scary.
>>6625326
if you need someone to vent to or get to know, my skype is adam.griffith.generic.name
>>6625362
That's basically what I'm running into.
She didn't let me touch it myself.
At this point the way I touch myself doesn't satisfy me the way it used to.
>>6624086
>sitting splayed
HNNNNNNNGH!
>>6625368
Hrmm, it might not work for you, but I like to pretend that she's watching, and she's making me do it. When I type it out, it sounds pretty pathetic and ridiculous, but it makes it a lot more fun feeling like you're putting on a show for someone. Or just kind of tease yourself for a long time without letting yourself masturbate. Play with your nipples, maybe some insertion, ect. all while watching porn. Then imagine she's allowing you to touch yourself as a reward or something. I don't know. This is just stuff that works for me.
>>6625365
To be fair, it's always an intimidating experience. I think most of it depends on how long you've known someone for though. I think the thought of spending a load of money just for things to go sour scares people. Guess the important part is to have trust and a positive outlook.
If someone has issues with actually meeting, regardless of whether they're the one
going to see you, it's a bit of a red flag though.
>>6625326
Just do you senpai - if he's unwilling to help himself despite support from those around him, there's not much else you can do but keep pushing until he comes to a decision.
>>6625129
It tastes like shit. Hot liquid sugar with a hint of probably artificial coffee.
>>6625383
It's a little weird when we're still talking to each other.
"I use you for inspiration when I masturbate."
Although admittedly she's a pretty fetishy girl, she might be into that.
>>6625400
I mean, nobody says you have to tell her. Unless you're ballsy enough, I suppose.
I have no idea what the dynamics of your relationship with that girl are, but in my VERY LIMITED experience, it's very toxic to keep an open dialogue with someone that you haven't gotten over yet after a break up. If I were you, I'd take anywhere between a week to a year of not talking to her to get over her before you go back to communication, otherwise you'll be stuck like this for god knows how long.
Of course, that's assuming you have a very basic post break-up relationship with her. I don't know all the fine details.
>>6625418
I agree. From my experience, it's been much harder to get over ex's when I had to interact with them significantly following the breakup. It's easier to forget those memories and feelings when you aren't constantly being reminded of them.
>>6625434
Wish I was willing to do that.
The problem is that we're still close in other ways. We didn't break up out of hatred or frustration with one another, we broke up because we're not emotionally healthy and we recognized that we were moving towards being uncomfortably dependent on each other.
>>6625434
I've always found it easier to talk with my exes than hold any sort of hate towards them - I've never really had a break up where we've both ended up heavily disliking each other. I'm pretty good friends with them now that I think about it.
>>6625295
>For some reason when I let all my problems out and hear other peoples' problems it all seems so petty
There's a reason I don't talk to people about my problems often.
Someone else.
I am often a serious downer.
Not because I whine a lot, but because in the past 2 years or so I've been through a lot. I don't want people to feel depressed by hearing about it.
>tfw she makes you wear fuzzy pajamas once the sun goes down
>tfw she used to sleep with stuff animals despite being an adult
>tfw I am now her stuffed animal
Shaving your legs is fucking brutal holy shit woman's razers are not razers they are fucking weapons
>>6625588
wax
>>6625603
Yeah its painful but it looks much nicer and you don't run of slicing your flesh up
>>6625636
Also more expensive unfortunately.
>>6625588
I dont struggle with it
Just takes practie anon. Also consider the fact that women's razors arent meant for thicker and longer men's hair and that shaving any sort of thick or long hair is gonna hurt like a bitch. You might have to trim it first
>>6625671
Also this. Use a normal electric shaver on the shortest length first. Saves a lot of pain and makes it faster. You wouldn't take a razor to a full beard and expect good results.
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The weekend has come. I really hope heliumbro is doing okay. If he's no longer with us, I at least hope he died happy.
>>6624343
Not really. I more imagine my owner telling me sweet things, or helping me so she can see me shoot all over my chest.
I have a question for dommes and subs.
How many of you would be fine with jumping into a D/s relationship from the getgo, and how many would prefer to ease into your place after you get comfy in a more normal relationship? I ask because I'm too much of a romantic to want some casual play partner.
I want to be my owner's lover, her pet, and her slave...and I can't imagine ever wanting to rush into something that'd affect me-and hopefully her-so deeply.
>>6624524
>>6624754
>>6624766
>>6624766
Well, knowing that girls might love my physical oversensitivity makes me feel happy somehow, hopefully I'll meet a woman that accepts me the way I am :)
Women usually prefer strong and resistant men, who don't give up to their pleasures so easily, especially in my country (Italy), where most women of my age were brought up by their families with a strict education. I really don't see myself as suitable to or matching the idea of the manly, robust and firm man most women dream of. Even a very simple thing like holding the hand of a girl makes me shiver like a frightened baby >.<
>>6625689
I'd prefer to ease into it after getting comfy, I'd need to know I could trust someone before I can be vulnerable around them like that
It hurts to go to sleep because I'm not beside her.
It hurts to wake up because I know I'll be leaving her.
It only doesn't hurt when she holds me and that hurts because I know she won't be here forever.
I don't feel like I have anything left to build a future from.
She's watching me fall apart and it's breaking both our hearts.
>>6625705
Don't do it man. c'mon you can pull through. I know you have got it in you
>>6625710
I promised her everything I have and I think she took it with her.
I still feel like I'm hers. She's still mistress to me. I can't be with her and not want to be with her. She sees the effect she has on me and worries that she's hurting me. She's the only thing that doesn't hurt and I don't know how long that'll last. Waking up today and knowing that as soon as she woke up I'd have to leave and go about my separate day nearly killed me. Deciding to leave before she did has me shaking like a leaf.
>>6625307
Kek
>>6625689
I'd definitely prefer easing into it first, but if she wanted me to switch early, I wouldn't have a huge problem with it as long as it makes her happy
>>6625715
Go get mental help.
>>6625715
You can't let it get to you. Life is a bitch, it puts all its weight on you, it hurts you, beats you and tries to drag you onto the ground where you lose hope and it can finish you! I know what I might be saying be worthless and have no effect at all but I'll be damned if let you go without fighting tooth and nail.
It's hard, it hurts, I know but its a rough time in your life. Things will get better, everyone has a hard time in their life where they come close to the edge and have returned. It happened when a close friend of mine killed himself. Did I cry? Yes it's human nature to cry but did I let it break me? No, and to this day I thank myself that I didn't. After going into uni I have met so many people I love and I would give my all for and I couldn't hope for a better life. It will happen to you too I know it, you have to solder through. You will look back on this day thanking yourself that you didn't I promise you. We may not know you personally but we love you and are here for you and so are so many others. Do it for them and for yourself.
>>6625689
I'd probably prefer to get to know someone first, go on a few dates, learn about each other, ease into it. Going straight into a d/s relationship would be odd for me - normally it was something that developed naturally over the course of a relationship or after some discussions about it. I think with gfd it's got slightly less of an impact on the day-to-day than a standard bdsm style relationship would though so I guess compromises could maybe be made on the "would you jump into it" thing.
>>6625307
kek'd
>>6625689
I don't think it's something you can just jump into, because I think that as a dom, you need to understand what kind of direction your sub will benefit from, as well as the fun stuff like how to get him at his most vulnerable and how to look after him when he needs affection. It’s pretty much impossible to know any of that stuff if you don't take the time to get to know somebody, and if you jump into D/s.without much of that knowledge, you're playing catch-up all the time and it's really difficult to feel secure and actually dominant in the relationship. This is speaking more from a BDSM standpoint, but I think the key principles are mostly the same in this case. I don't think anyone would want a domme who has no idea what to do with you because she doesn't know you.
>>6625751
Pretty much this.
I wouldn't even trust someone to be my dom until I, y'know, know and trust them.
>>6625751
I like being able to feel the attachment. I can understand that some people prefer instant gratification and want something more immediate, but given the option I think I'd take getting to know someone for a few weeks/months over something that could quite likely leave us both unfulfilled because we knew nothing of each other.
>>6625689
As a sub and as a virgin, my biggest wish is to have love and make lewd things with the dom lady of my life. As a consequence, I need to build up an important and deep bond with my partner before entering a D/s relationship. Honestly I can't even think of having sex to a woman without knowing her and being friends to her.
>>6625728
Mhm.
She cares for me.
We talked.
We're going to keep making an effort. Not to be together, not right now, but to be more comfortable near each other again.
I love her.
>>6625751
I think this is one of the problems we had. We didn't know each other very long before I promised to be hers and I think my needs surprised her and made her uncomfortable.
apologies to whoever administrates the map, I accidentally put up about 3 markers
>>6625680
2 PM.
>>6625777
Is there something we can do to make you change your mind?
Man even as one of the people who's really depressed in this thread, why is gfd so full of breakups and depression right now?
>>6625588
How the fuck do you shave, I have literally no problems shaving
>>6625790
I stay away bc of the bad vibes
>>6625241
Beautiful
Hot
Some Anon is a wordsmith.
Fukkin' Saved.
>>6625784
I don't know.
>>6625808
As someone who's recently been considering it myself, I implore you to reconsider.
I could give you the usual spiel about how it won't help you or anyone else, which is true, but mostly I just don't want anyone to hurt themselves.
Someone you don't know is making a selfish request for you to stick around. Feel free to tell me to fuck off, but at least know there are people who don't want you to harm yourself.
>>6625795
I phase in and out of these threads for the same reason. The last couple have been the first back in months.I really like being supportive and caring to others but it just gets to be too much.
>>6625817
I appreciate the effort.
There are complicating factors in my relationship and my break-up that makes it hard for me to rebuild.
But I'm holding on to hope. Partly because I like supporting and caring for others too and I know I can't do that if I'm so hurt that I'm just defending myself.
>>6625790
Too many cucks
>>6625820
I really hope what I said before got through to you in someway or another. I've lost someone to this before, I would hate to have a second
>>6625808
As someone who has attempted in the past, I know how hard it is to believe that it's going to get better, but it really does. People bullshit about it being easy or how things will be better before you know it but in reality it takes a lot of time and effort. And despite that, it's totally worth it, I would argue that nothing else is worth more than not giving in. Even though I've never met you I believe in you and I care for your wellbeing, so I want you to know that you are a person worthy of love and you have worth as a person.
>>6625826
I won't hurt myself. A lot of that's because I promised her I wouldn't. And if I could convince myself that it'd be better if I did I still might, but I've been grieving lately and I know that's not a pain that goes away.
Being a source of pain to someone else is intolerable. So I'll survive, one way or another, so that I can get stronger and not hurt others with the way I am.
It really kills me that nicoleships doesn't do more full comics.
>>6625371
#manspreading
So if the answer isnt hormonal, why are there no female doms?
Cultural? Laziness/selfishness? Natural?
>>6625881
few people want partners that are weak, dependent and whiny to an extreme degree
I'm by no means a regular in these threads, but most male posters appear to be precisely that
they might make for good sex objects, but I can't imagine many doms would care for a relationship with an entirely pathetic individual
>>6625881
Does it matter? It's likely not something you can change.
>>6624469
sounds to me like you're polymorpously perverse :^ }
https://youtu.be/HN4z5X1ehLM
>>6625885
lmao
>>6624756
There are some anons that are ready just to listen, as complete strangers. I've noticed sometimes people need to talk to a real person, all while knowing they'll never meet again.
Whatever can make you feel better I guess.
>>6625881
Is it even morally ok to dominate others? Maybe women, especially modern women, don't want to treat men like they've been treated - as housewives - and still get off on being dominated in the bedroom because they want to feel desired. Besides that, men are dominant probably because of cultural history and tradition - not anything natural or just "biological." Men use their superior strength and genitals to justify them being dominant partners; women don't have any of those justifications readily accessible. Instead, we have a history of women being the subservient partner to men in the vast majority of cultures around the world. I don't know why anons in this thread expect women to just give up the societal expectations that they have and "dominate" men on a whim, and I don't believe a lot of the males here are actually submissive anyway. So there's a couple of answers for you to choose from.
Why can't the subject be dropped? It's annoying and I have never seen anyone be satisfied with any of the answers given.
>>6625881
It's not as simple as "estrogen makes you submissive", but it's a biological thing. Females evolved to be dependent on men for their physical protection. Females who preferred to take the dominant role were quickly weeded our because they do not possess the physical or mental strength to defend others. Today, society has changed in a way that makes the idea of a dominant female seem possible, but that doesn't undo millenia of evolution.
>>6625338
It feels good sometimes, to be somewhere people are just enjoying what they like.
And damn, what you posted has to be my all-time favourite.
>>6625899
>3dpd on 4/d/
Fukken saved though.
>>6625901
>evolved
Men, for the most part, want women to be submissive. This isn't a natural occurrence.
>>6625768
Yeah, that kind of situation just leads to sad times. I mean, sure, you can be in a relationship with someone without knowing them inside out, but as a dom, I feel one needs to have at least a basic idea of what your prospective sub wants and needs and whether you can provide those things. Otherwise it'll lead to heartbreak on one side or the other.
>>6625881
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and answer this as if you'd said 'few female doms' like a sensible person.
I believe it's largely cultural. We can quite clearly see the cultural norms that inhibit sexual forwardness or aggression in women, and I think it's very telling that most of the dominant women you come across in the scene are in their 40s or 50s and got into femdom late in life, often after a failed marriage. I think most women need to get to a certain absence of fucks to give about what's 'respectable' before they can embrace a female-led relationship. You'd be hard-pressed to find a young dominant woman who hasn't been exposed to severe social discord/interpersonal suffering and abuse, as that's really what it takes to discard the status quo early in life. That's why a lot of us are a bit batshit.
Not that the sub women aren't. They're pretty crazy too for the most part. Maybe it's a matter of needing to see some shit before you can have the confidence to pursue deviant sex in general.
I think if we wanted to see a change in the situation, we'd need a society which empowers women much more, not by wrapping us in cotton wool and anointing us with eau de trigger warning like the feminists seem to want, but by expecting women to fend for themselves, defend themselves, work hard for what they want, take responsibility for their own fuckups. Yknow. Like men have to. Because the way I see it, how can you expect someone who wasn't even raised to protect herself to want to look after and take responsibility for someone else?
I hope this is clear. I'm a bit spacey today.
